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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. That is for you,

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Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Brown. We miss you. Buggle up, hold on tight,

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Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it ease a Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject we were nude when we met.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty one year old

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Speaker 1: single man. I'm six four and I work out five

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Speaker 1: days a week, so I'm in great physical condition. I

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Speaker 1: am a doctor now and I come from a large family.

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Speaker 1: So to put myself through medical school, I worked as

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Speaker 1: a mail dancer and porn star, and I was able

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Speaker 1: to make a lot of money. Sex was never a

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Speaker 1: problem for me, and when I worked, I was having

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Speaker 1: sex up to five times a day with all kinds

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Speaker 1: of voluptuous women. I didn't think much about sex because

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Speaker 1: it was my job. All of that changed when I

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Speaker 1: met a new girl at work. She walked into the

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Speaker 1: set and we both were nude, and she had the

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Speaker 1: most beautiful body I'd ever seen. She was a veteran

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Speaker 1: it was instant chemistry. It was like we were made

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Speaker 1: for each other. Sex didn't mean much to her either, Steve,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna love this line, but she had to admit

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Speaker 1: that I was very good at what I did. We

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Speaker 1: ended up being friends with benefits, and that's all we

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Speaker 1: could be since she was married. There's also an age

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Speaker 1: difference she's older, but that never mattered to her, and

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Speaker 1: we have been in our situationship for over six years.

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Speaker 1: To this day. I'm still under her spell. She is

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Speaker 1: not happy in her marriage, but she told me she'd

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Speaker 1: never get a divorce because her husband always supported her

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Speaker 1: lifestyle and he has been good to her. I love

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Speaker 1: her too, and I want to be with her too.

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Speaker 1: You love her too, Junior. I'm thinking about moving to

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Speaker 1: a neighboring city to get a fresh start, but I'm

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Speaker 1: afraid she will forget about me. Am I crazy to

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Speaker 1: think she might have a change of heart and want me,

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Speaker 1: Uncle Steve? Should I start dating other women or should

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Speaker 1: I keep shooting my shot with her. Well, you know

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Speaker 1: we're going to tell you, at least I am, stop

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Speaker 1: shooting your shot with her. You know we're going to

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Speaker 1: tell you to leave this married woman, of course, because

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Speaker 1: that is the right thing to do. Everybody says they're

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Speaker 1: not happy in their marriage when you're dating them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: everyone says that when when they're in an affair, they're

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Speaker 1: not happy in their marriage. Everybody says that. Whoo, who

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Speaker 1: are you tell too? Who said? Did I? Yes? You did? Yes,

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Speaker 1: she did? Be quiet? Okay, be quiet just because we're

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Speaker 1: talking about naked people. You think you can get into letter,

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Speaker 1: all right? I definitely think you should go ahead and

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Speaker 1: move to a neighboring city and get a fresh start. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you have chemistry with this woman. Yes, she's beautiful, the

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Speaker 1: most beautiful body you've ever seen. Yes, you you know

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Speaker 1: you guys love working together, and you're intrigued and you're

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Speaker 1: under her spell and you've been together for over six years.

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Speaker 1: But how is this gonna work? I mean, you want

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Speaker 1: to just keep hope alive thinking that she's gonna leave

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Speaker 1: her husband. It usually never works out that way. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it just does. You're a doctor, you can get someone, Okay,

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Speaker 1: keep hope alive. Yeah, are you crazy to think she

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Speaker 1: might have a change of heart and want you? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're not crazy, but most people who think that their

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Speaker 1: got to start dating other women and stop shooting your shots.

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Speaker 1: You've been with her for six years and nothing's changed.

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Speaker 1: It is time to move on, mister. Six four working

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Speaker 1: out five days a week and a doctor. Now you

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Speaker 1: can find someone else, all right, Steve, and you make

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Speaker 1: a lot of money. Come on, See what what Shirley?

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Speaker 1: You heard me? I mean every word of that. This

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Speaker 1: You should leave this married woman, the one we're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Two punch stalls. He rose, Guys, why are you why

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Speaker 1: talking about the right thing to do, the right thing

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Speaker 1: to do? They stall. He's a John Steve, now a

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Speaker 1: damn about the right thing. He's a doctor. Now. They

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Speaker 1: have sense for money talking about Shirley, how dare you

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Speaker 1: too much of a Christian? Sometimes being a doctor? He

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Speaker 1: did that to to work his way through school. You

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Speaker 1: heard that medical school paper? Girl? You heard that? And

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Speaker 1: how many times have you heard strippers say this? But

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Speaker 1: you still a show? If you girl? Just give your answer.

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Speaker 1: That's my answer. Just give yours. My answer is about

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Speaker 1: your answer. So answer this on the second half of

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Speaker 1: this letter. Everybody gonna understand why I'm but I'm not changed.

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Speaker 1: I don't give it. Damn but I don't want you

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Speaker 1: time at an Steve, that's too much. We don't want

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Speaker 1: to do that on the air. Well, we're doing that

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Speaker 1: on that Well you know I'm gonna say that, all right,

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Speaker 1: You did Jos all right, Look, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of Steve gonna workout five days a week. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: what you're mad about. Just say it real, just say it.

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Speaker 1: What They ain't got a damn thing to do with it,

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Speaker 1: nothing at all. You'll find out what I'm mad about.

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Speaker 1: Come on, let's go all right, we'll be back with

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Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up a twenty three minutes after the

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. So, Jake, we were nude when we met.

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Speaker 1: He is a man. He gonna try to trick us

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Speaker 1: with workout five days. So I'm in great physical condition.

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Speaker 1: That ain't upset about nothing. I don't care. I ain't

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Speaker 1: This where we post to give everything. I worked as

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Speaker 1: problem for me when I worked. Okay, don't a lot

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Speaker 1: of people can say that. I can make that statement. Really,

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Speaker 1: sex has never been a problem for me when I worked.

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Speaker 1: This where the letter take a turn, I would having

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Speaker 1: She walked on the set and we were both nude,

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Speaker 1: and she had the most beautiful body I had ever seen.

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Speaker 1: We all get in line, homie, you ain't the only

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Speaker 1: one to see this beautiful body. She was a veteran

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Speaker 1: hear where Sherley started getting real Christian since she was

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Speaker 1: weren't the same. Vows you both to take one of

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Speaker 1: one putting it on you like you ain't ever had before.

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Speaker 1: She get paid for this trigger practice. She'd done stuff

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Speaker 1: She ain't happy because she got too many people to

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Speaker 1: compare to. The list goes more. I like Thunderboat. I

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Speaker 1: like Thunderboat. I like beef Jacket, I like how a House.

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Speaker 1: I like tantalizing terrorists. I like been Juicy Jr. Own.

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, he stayed with her over You don't, yo, dummis,

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Speaker 1: that's a doctor want to marry a punt style? And

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Speaker 1: gonna happen because he's saying, I love her too, and

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Speaker 1: want to be with her? You want to be with her?

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Speaker 1: You know how many men won't to be with her?

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Speaker 1: You can't count the men that didn't been with her,

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Speaker 1: work and quit being stupid. Now, this is how stupid

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Speaker 1: he is. I'm thinking about moving to a neighboring city

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Speaker 1: have a change of heart. You better hope she don't.

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Speaker 1: And won't me, boy, she won't shoot who she don't want?

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Speaker 1: Just give me that miss she won't who she was,

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Speaker 1: all right, So Steve, we gotta get out of this letter. Okay.

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