Speaker 1: Help We Suck at Being Newlyweds.
Speaker 2: With Dean Aungler, Haylen Miller Keys, and Jared haven An.
Speaker 2: iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to an all new episode of Help I
Speaker 1: Suck at Dating. I feel like I jump into my
Speaker 1: podcast voice anytime I do that. Help I suck at dating? Jesus,
Speaker 1: I was gonna correct you suck at being newlyweds. I mean,
Speaker 1: to be fair, I was saying it for a few years,
Speaker 1: but I mean, my god, Haylen, I wish you could
Speaker 1: virtually slap me this.
Speaker 2: Ye, it's okay. We suck. You know it's in the title.
Speaker 2: We're allowed to suck.
Speaker 1: I know, I guess, yeah. I help we suck at
Speaker 1: coming up with names for podcasts or saying the podcast
Speaker 1: name to be precise. I wish we did it in
Speaker 1: studio for the for two reasons. One, I just like
Speaker 1: being in studio with you and Dean. I feel like
Speaker 1: it creates more of like a dynamic. And then secondly,
Speaker 1: for situations like that where you could just throw something
Speaker 1: at me to correct me, I.
Speaker 2: Know we need another in studio session. When's the next
Speaker 2: time you guys are going to be in LA.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't know why. I asked X. We don't
Speaker 2: even know why.
Speaker 1: Why do I feel like my life, our lives are
Speaker 1: in constant kias other people have kids, other people own businesses,
Speaker 1: like I don't understand why. It just constantly feels like
Speaker 1: I am in this. It's just a blur. Everything is
Speaker 1: a blur anyway, not the complain about me. I'm doing fine.
Speaker 1: I met Tom Cruise the last weekend. It was fine. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Wait, let's jump into it real quick. We don't have
Speaker 2: Dean here. Dean was supposed to be here and his
Speaker 2: flight should have landed two hours ago, but they canceled it,
Speaker 2: didn't tell him, and rebooked him for another flight, so
Speaker 2: he's currently in the air.
Speaker 1: How can they not tell someone when the flight is canceled.
Speaker 1: That seems illegal.
Speaker 2: It's so weird. It's so weird. We've been having so
Speaker 2: many flight issues. So he's got canceled, rebooked, and there
Speaker 2: were no other flights out, so he just had to
Speaker 2: wait in the airport for like two hours. And then
Speaker 2: his flight home tonight because he just was flying in
Speaker 2: and out, is also rebooked and they didn't tell him.
Speaker 2: So I don't know what's going on with the airlines.
Speaker 1: Airlines are batter right now. Everybody's going through it. It's
Speaker 1: just and I remember the FDA preparing people for this.
Speaker 1: They said a few months ago that hey, listen, just
Speaker 1: FYI if you're flying this summer and it's not going
Speaker 1: to be good because apparently they were urging all a
Speaker 1: lot of airlines to cancel a lot of their flights
Speaker 1: because they can having staff issues, that's the biggest thing.
Speaker 1: So they don't have enough staff for the flights that
Speaker 1: they're booking. They're booking these flights and then the day
Speaker 1: comes and they're like, well, we don't have a crew
Speaker 1: for this one, so switches that crew to this one.
Speaker 1: And that's what's causing all these delays. And I feel
Speaker 1: like a lot of times when you're in the airport,
Speaker 1: you'll be hearing or if you board a plane, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: the crew is on its way, we're waiting for the crew.
Speaker 1: We can't board before the crew, and that's the biggest issue,
Speaker 1: and it's just like god damn. And then of course
Speaker 1: you have all the other issues that go with flying
Speaker 1: technically issues because you gotta make sure the plane's safe.
Speaker 1: I remember one time I was on a flight and
Speaker 1: the captain came on and we were delayed for like
Speaker 1: an hour, sitting on the tarmac, and nobody knew what
Speaker 1: was going on, And then he came on. He said,
Speaker 1: you know, so sorry for the delay. We're having issues
Speaker 1: with one of our engines. So we're getting maintenance to
Speaker 1: look at it.
Speaker 2: Not while you're in air, no, not.
Speaker 1: But before we took off. So then he said he
Speaker 1: was being very honest, which I don't know if a
Speaker 1: pilot should be dishonest. He said, they if maintenance can't
Speaker 1: fix the issue with the engine, we're going to try
Speaker 1: to jumpstart it by taking some of the power from
Speaker 1: the second engine, jump starting the first one, and then
Speaker 1: we'll be on our way. I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: think you want to tell anybody on the plane that
Speaker 1: you're jump starting one of the engines to lift off.
Speaker 1: Not the best say everything's good, we're good to go.
Speaker 1: But apparently this happens a lot. Apparently a lot of
Speaker 1: times when you're flying, you'll be flying on one engine.
Speaker 2: Oh that's terrifying. I don't even want to I have
Speaker 2: so much flight anxiety. My fight for the fourth we
Speaker 2: went to Durango and my flight was canceled and they
Speaker 2: were like, we're not going to give you your money back,
Speaker 2: which I was like, I'm sorry what And they weren't
Speaker 2: offering to rebook me. It was the most insane thing.
Speaker 2: They're like, so, long story short, the flight got canceled.
Speaker 2: They waited like an hour, and they're like, maybe this
Speaker 2: is a joke, maybe it's not actually canceled, and they're like, no,
Speaker 2: it is. But at that point, all of the other
Speaker 2: flights got booked up because everyone else got rebooked immediately,
Speaker 2: and they were like, maybe it's a joke. And so
Speaker 2: they didn't have any flight it's available until Saturday. But
Speaker 2: originally they weren't offering to book me or anything. We
Speaker 2: weren't offering to give me my money back. It was insane,
Speaker 2: and so I was like going to be stranded in
Speaker 2: Durango for three days.
Speaker 1: I go back and forth whether because listen, these airlines
Speaker 1: you know safely fly you thousands of miles at speeds
Speaker 1: you'll never reach again, and the ability for me to
Speaker 1: I could get to California in six hours right now
Speaker 1: if I really had to. I were like, you know,
Speaker 1: depending if I could get a seat or not. But
Speaker 1: I could legitimately really try to find a way to
Speaker 1: get to California tonight because of the airlines. And that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Plus now you're up there, there's TVs, there's Wi Fi,
Speaker 1: there's all this crazy stuff. Having said that, because I
Speaker 1: try not to complain, that's my point is that, like, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: sometimes you go through delay, sometimes you get canceled. It's
Speaker 1: fine and happens whatever. But you know, when we're paying
Speaker 1: like four or five hundred dollars for a ticket, I'm
Speaker 1: not even talking about first class or anything like economy economy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're flying to LA right now from Boston. It's probably
Speaker 1: like four hundred buck for just a middle seat. It's like, oh, like,
Speaker 1: if you're paying those prices like you got at least,
Speaker 1: like you can't give me a nine hour delay, Like
Speaker 1: a couple hours, I'll sit in there, Port'll be fine.
Speaker 1: But if you're talking about hours after hours, after hours,
Speaker 1: that leads to cancelations, that leads me to another days,
Speaker 1: then it's like, okay, guys, we might have to think
Speaker 1: about the price sing of airlines once again.
Speaker 2: Right, Well, that's my thing too. I don't like to complain.
Speaker 2: We deal with flight issues all the time. I never complain.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I understand that these things happen. But
Speaker 2: if my flight is canceled, I spent five hundred dollars
Speaker 2: on this economy seat and you're telling me I can't
Speaker 2: get my money back, and I'm stranded here and I
Speaker 2: have You're not going to pay for my hotel. You're
Speaker 2: not going to pay for anything I have to pay now,
Speaker 2: one thousand dollars for hotel, Like this is crazy.
Speaker 1: Who's a worst traveler? You're Dean. You guys will travel
Speaker 1: a lot. Who's worse?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 1: Does he get like at does he get angry towards
Speaker 1: these things?
Speaker 2: No, Well, he was definitely frustrated today just because he
Speaker 2: wasn't informed. I'm just a very anxious traveler. Like I
Speaker 2: like to get there early and Dean likes to get
Speaker 2: there right as the doors are closing, you know. So
Speaker 2: we're just very different travelers. If things go wrong, he's
Speaker 2: pretty chill, and he's usually chill if I'm getting upset,
Speaker 2: So we kind of balance each other out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I am probably the worst because what
Speaker 1: happens to me is that I accept that everything's gonna suck,
Speaker 1: Like everything's just gonna be terrible, and it's not anybody's fault,
Speaker 1: it's just the way it is. You go through TSA.
Speaker 1: First of all, you check in, there's always gonna be
Speaker 1: a line, so god forbid, we have to check bags
Speaker 1: because I always have to check a bag with Ashley,
Speaker 1: which is so frustrating because I can go someplace with
Speaker 1: a backpack for seven days, I am golden, but Ashley
Speaker 1: has to bring three suitcases, you know, a body bag
Speaker 1: and seventeen carry ons, and so I have to wait
Speaker 1: in line because there's no like you check in, you
Speaker 1: pay on the app. It always never goes according to plan.
Speaker 1: So we always have to check in, go and weigh
Speaker 1: the bags. They're always It's crazy how Ashley you can't
Speaker 1: go over fifty pounds and her bag is always like
Speaker 1: fifty six pounds. I'm like, do you not understand that you?
Speaker 1: And then of course we're the ones who are taking
Speaker 1: things out of the suitcase trying to put them in
Speaker 1: our carry ons, which makes our carry ons unbearable to
Speaker 1: carry and it kills my back. But I digress. And
Speaker 1: then we go to security, and then of course we don't.
Speaker 1: We never did PreCheck. I think we might have gotten
Speaker 1: pre check now, but for many years we've never had
Speaker 1: pre check, so of course we're standing there crazy. I know, we're.
Speaker 2: Stupid not having pre check. You gotta have pre check
Speaker 2: and clear.
Speaker 1: I know Clear is a big one. We've had Clear,
Speaker 1: which is great, but some airports don't have clear. So
Speaker 1: if we don't go through Clear, then of course we're
Speaker 1: going through TSA, which is fine. Hey, security purposes. Make
Speaker 1: sure everybody's safe on the plane. Even though there are
Speaker 1: some times where I'm like, you know.
Speaker 2: There's some people who are really, like really looking through
Speaker 2: the bags, and some people who are I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: I've got some liquids in there that are way for
Speaker 2: the regulation to water bottles.
Speaker 1: You didn't see their buddy, Yeah, And then of course
Speaker 1: you know we're mostly delayed, see what I so? And
Speaker 1: then I just I can't stand the crowds. I can't stand.
Speaker 1: It's so funny how I can stand crowds if I'm
Speaker 1: going to Disney or a place I'm looking forward to,
Speaker 1: but if I'm gonna plane. I mean the fact that
Speaker 1: like people who are in uh what is it called
Speaker 1: Group five, and they're like, oh, if you're in pre
Speaker 1: check or if you serve in the military, you can
Speaker 1: come on up, but you know, there's like a line
Speaker 1: of people who are in group five, six, and seven
Speaker 1: just standing there in the way. Get out of the way.
Speaker 1: Because if I'm in group one, which most of the
Speaker 1: time not I'm usually in group five. If I'm in
Speaker 1: group five, I'm sitting down. What is my rush? The
Speaker 1: only rush would be the fact that if they run
Speaker 1: out of overhead thin space.
Speaker 2: But that's the only thing that stresses me out to
Speaker 2: I get that, but still you're still group five, So
Speaker 2: sit down. People don't have airport or plane etiquette.
Speaker 1: No, it's bad and it's frustrating. So what long story
Speaker 1: shows the reason why I'm the worst traveler is because
Speaker 1: I'm such a pisshand because when I'm with Ashley, I'm
Speaker 1: just expecting it to be terrible. So when something goes wrong,
Speaker 1: like yep, like she'll be like, oh, you know, that sucks,
Speaker 1: and like, yeah, it sucks traveling. It's going to suck,
Speaker 1: and she's and it just comes off as she you know,
Speaker 1: and it's not intended to me. But like in my head,
Speaker 1: this is how I'm able to get through this. It's
Speaker 1: just I'm accepting the suckiness. So it must be terrible
Speaker 1: for her because she can't like commiserate in the misery
Speaker 1: with me to be like, oh no, this sucks, like
Speaker 1: oh no, we got to figure something out. I'm like, Ashley,
Speaker 1: it all sucks. It's terrible, and like we're gonna see
Speaker 1: no hope, there's no hope. I'm like the guy that
Speaker 1: goes to the haunted house and tells the person who's scared, like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's all fake, right, none of this is real,
Speaker 1: and they're like yeah, but also like I kind of
Speaker 1: like being scared, you know, that's the point. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's stupid. They're all wearing masks, like it's all fake.
Speaker 1: There's no such thing as ghosts.
Speaker 2: I think you need to travel with Dean. Dean just
Speaker 2: travels with the backpack. He's super happy all the time.
Speaker 2: I think you guys would travel together. Well, But I
Speaker 2: do want to talk about Tom Cruise.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the Dean thing, you know I was thinking
Speaker 1: about because I was thinking Dean the other day. I
Speaker 1: do want to talk about Tonkers. But I didn't shower
Speaker 1: for like, I think it was three days. I didn't shower,
Speaker 1: and I felt like Dean and I could have really
Speaker 1: just bond in this moment, and I because I was
Speaker 1: thinking in my head forget why. I don't know we
Speaker 1: were traveling or I was busy. I can't remember, but
Speaker 1: there was like three days Where'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I didn't shower Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday, Like today's Thursday.
Speaker 1: Last time I showered Sunday. This is disgusting. And I
Speaker 1: was like, one, Dean would be proud too, Like I
Speaker 1: think if Dean and I traveled together, I think both
Speaker 1: him and I could go a full week without showering
Speaker 1: and have no issues.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Dean, for sure. I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 2: how you are on the shower scale, but yeah, that's
Speaker 2: that's a normal week for Dean.
Speaker 1: How badly does he stink? Sometimes? Like, let's be real, Oh.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm like, I'm not trying to hurt your feelings,
Speaker 2: but you smell terrible. I don't want to get near you.
Speaker 1: Is that ever? Like, like a smell is such important
Speaker 1: thing to me. Like we were just in New York
Speaker 1: and I hate the city because when you walk anywhere
Speaker 1: in the city, it's just wretched. Yeah, Ashley, It's like
Speaker 1: it's never bothered me before. You have such a sensitive
Speaker 1: thing with smells, and I'm like, I don't know. So
Speaker 1: for you with Dean, Like if Ashley smelled like Bo,
Speaker 1: I'm sure he smells like BO, what like fifteen percent
Speaker 1: of the time? Maybe you know, I.
Speaker 2: Think fifteen's good.
Speaker 1: Yeah. If Ashley smelled like Bo fifteen percent of the time,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, babe, we might have to get separate beds. Like,
Speaker 1: I can't handle that fifteen percent.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just make sure he showers before bed. I'm like,
Speaker 2: if you want me to cuddle, he gets mad that
Speaker 2: I don't cuddle him, I'm like, I'm not cuddling you
Speaker 2: if you smell like that.
Speaker 1: He's such a dog. I know, he's such a golden retriever,
Speaker 1: but also.
Speaker 2: He's sensitive like a golden and you have to like
Speaker 2: tell him gently, hey you stink you know?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh I could see that. He is such
Speaker 1: a Yeah, he's such a puppy anyway, uh, Tom Cruise. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we had the opportunity to go to the Mission
Speaker 1: Impossible premiere in New York. Dead Reckoning Part one. We
Speaker 1: saw the movie on Thursday. It's great because we had
Speaker 1: seen the movie before we went to the premiere because
Speaker 1: we went for showcase cinemas, so there's a theater near me.
Speaker 1: It's a showcase that I've gone through ever since I
Speaker 1: was a kid, so I've been able to you know,
Speaker 1: work with them in some capacity after The Bachelor, and
Speaker 1: so they were like, hey, listen, there's a spot open
Speaker 1: if you guys want to go to the Mission Impossible
Speaker 1: premiere in New York and interview some of the stars.
Speaker 1: We were like hell yeah. So then they had the
Speaker 1: day before, our friend at Powermount was telling us that
Speaker 1: there's a live Q and a on TikTok that we
Speaker 1: had some TikTok people coming sitting in the audience and watching,
Speaker 1: and it's gonna be really small and intimate. There's gonna
Speaker 1: be like maybe ten people watching this in the room.
Speaker 1: And then it's gonna be Tom Cruise, Christopher McCrory, who's
Speaker 1: the writer, director, Haley Atwell, and Tarzan who's a star
Speaker 1: in the movie as well. And we were like, holy yeah,
Speaker 1: of course if we're able to go. So I was
Speaker 1: able to figure it out, LA. So we drive up
Speaker 1: that morning. So we're sitting there and it's really it's
Speaker 1: a room in New York and there's you know, six
Speaker 1: or seven people from TikTok there and you know, a
Speaker 1: crew of like twenty to thirty people and then the
Speaker 1: two hosts and then some of the stars start showing
Speaker 1: up and it was supposed to start at the like
Speaker 1: two I can't remember, but the point is Cruise was
Speaker 1: an hour and a half late, and which but again
Speaker 1: or not again, but so apparently if you guys don't know,
Speaker 1: Tom Cruise like meets every fan, spends time with everybody,
Speaker 1: like really is just a wonder and so like they
Speaker 1: always run late. Apparently when they had a premiere out
Speaker 1: in Abu Dhabi, like the premiere of The Red Carpet
Speaker 1: took like four hours because Tom took time to meet
Speaker 1: with every fan, talked to every reporter. He's just that guy.
Speaker 1: It's like, God, that's awesome, Like, of course he could
Speaker 1: be late if you're doing that.
Speaker 2: Absolutely when you said that, I was expecting like he's
Speaker 2: a diva, but no, he's actually pretty good guy.
Speaker 1: The complete opposite, which is we've always heard about Tom
Speaker 1: Cruise and to hear that, like, oh he's late coming
Speaker 1: here because he's doing that, it's like, of course you
Speaker 1: could be like who cares? Like anybody who gets mad
Speaker 1: at that? For literally I mean, I'll talk about it
Speaker 1: in a second. But so he he shows up in
Speaker 1: the room. It's so funny because there's commotion in the room,
Speaker 1: you know, everybody's talking, and then we can hear like,
Speaker 1: you know, he's forty five seconds out, he's thirty seconds out.
Speaker 1: It's like the President entering the room. Holy. So then
Speaker 1: Cruise walks in with Christop McCory and it gets dead stylent,
Speaker 1: like everybody kind of like, you know, I can see
Speaker 1: the cast and like I could see the crew, like
Speaker 1: you know, just like making sure that everything's good to go,
Speaker 1: and everybody's kind of like has their backs up, and
Speaker 1: he comes in smiling and he say, Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 1: How is everybody? And it's so weird the first time
Speaker 1: I saw him in person, because it's you know, Tom Cruise,
Speaker 1: someone I've watched all my life, and I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's that's sucking Tom Cruise. It's just so
Speaker 1: weird to be like, yeah, he's just a human so
Speaker 1: and not that short, shockingly, because his height is his
Speaker 1: biggest Like everybody talks about his hype. I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: How do you think is like five eight?
Speaker 1: Yeah, But he's also kind of like stock, Like he's stocking.
Speaker 1: He's muscular, so I would never look at him and
Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's a short guy. He seems very
Speaker 1: average height, and so he is saying hi to the
Speaker 1: crew and everything like that. And so we're sitting there
Speaker 1: off to the corner and he kind of walks up
Speaker 1: to us, you know, the group of six or seven
Speaker 1: of us, and he's like, what are you guys doing
Speaker 1: and we're like, oh, we're just watching, and he's like
Speaker 1: a parody of himself. I love this man so much
Speaker 1: because then he's like and then he gets dead serious
Speaker 1: and he's like, you know, I'm very sorry for being late.
Speaker 1: There was just business that needed to be attended to
Speaker 1: and it's just couldn't be avoided. And we were like,
Speaker 1: no issues whatsoever, my friend. And then there was like
Speaker 1: a two second gap where the producer was like coming
Speaker 1: to get him, telling where he's gonna go, and he
Speaker 1: was kind of like standing there right next to us,
Speaker 1: and nobody got up to say anything. So of course
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, I'm Jared, very nice to meet you,
Speaker 1: and I got up and shook his hand. He's like,
Speaker 1: very nice to meet you. And it was so funny
Speaker 1: and then he walked away and the guy behind me
Speaker 1: who's a movie TikTok guy, and he was like, you know,
Speaker 1: Cruise is telling the producer to like get that guy
Speaker 1: out of here. He was like, who shook my hand
Speaker 1: to get him out of here. So so then they
Speaker 1: sit down, they do the Q and A and afterwards,
Speaker 1: you know, we didn't get too much instruction. It was
Speaker 1: just they just said you're going to take a group photo,
Speaker 1: and then you know they have other press so they
Speaker 1: got to get going and then you know, obviously you
Speaker 1: guys can head out. You're like, okay, great, So we're
Speaker 1: standing there, we took the picture and then we're literally
Speaker 1: right next to Tom Cruise. So we say, hey, Tom,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm Ashley and I'm Jared, and then I
Speaker 1: start just you know, explaining, you know, movies have been
Speaker 1: such a big part of my life. Your movies have
Speaker 1: been such a big part of my life, and you know,
Speaker 1: just really praising him for a few minutes, because you know,
Speaker 1: he is an idol of mine and like someone that
Speaker 1: it's just like it's Tom Cruise and someone I've always
Speaker 1: watched it and I've heard somebody. You know, obviously there's
Speaker 1: a lot about Tom cruise out there, but I've heard
Speaker 1: nothing but when you're meeting him, wonderful things about how
Speaker 1: nice he is, how he cares, how hard working he is,
Speaker 1: and how he treats people, and just wonderful things. And
Speaker 1: so I wanted to tell him that, just say, like it,
Speaker 1: it's really cool as someone that I've looked up to
Speaker 1: for so many years that you have had uh you know,
Speaker 1: just I've heard nothing but wonderful things about you. And so,
Speaker 1: like twenty seconds in, there's a producer comes up and
Speaker 1: they're obviously trying to get us out of there, and
Speaker 1: they say, Ashley and gired right this way, and Tom
Speaker 1: stopped him and he was like, hey, we're he said,
Speaker 1: we're communicating. I'm enjoying this communication. I'm fine, I want
Speaker 1: to finish this communication. We're like, damn and so and
Speaker 1: he did that to like four or five producers because
Speaker 1: the producers kept coming up because we were there for
Speaker 1: about two or three minutes and every like fifteen seconds.
Speaker 1: So but Ashley jared right this way, Ashley Jared right
Speaker 1: this way, or like somebody came up. I was like, Tom,
Speaker 1: we got to get going. And then he'd be like
Speaker 1: thirty more seconds. I want to finish this communication. I'm
Speaker 1: enjoying this community. I'm fine. I was like, damn, this
Speaker 1: is crazy, like Craze is setting people up. And then
Speaker 1: we knew that we were causing issues anyway. So we
Speaker 1: got like a few minutes and it was fantastic talking
Speaker 1: to him, and he was just smiling at us, and
Speaker 1: he was like, thank you so much. It means the
Speaker 1: world to me that you guys are saying this, and
Speaker 1: that's why I make movies. Because we told him the
Speaker 1: story about how we did a line from Jerey McGuire
Speaker 1: at our wedding. Instead of you know book readings, you know,
Speaker 1: like a reading from so and so, we did movie
Speaker 1: lines and you know, movie quotes that have meant a
Speaker 1: lot to us. And one of them was Jerey McGuire
Speaker 1: when you came in and you know, I'm looking for
Speaker 1: my wife and all that jazz. And it was fantastic
Speaker 1: and we talked and he was like, you guys are awesome,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you're awesome. And so we left,
Speaker 1: and you know, we caused a little frustration for some
Speaker 1: of the producers, which I don't blame them, but it
Speaker 1: all sorted itself out at the end. Thank god, because
Speaker 1: for a moment I was like, Paramount is never going
Speaker 1: to invite us to anything ever again. Even though we
Speaker 1: weren't stopping anybody, it was I mean, Tom Cruise is
Speaker 1: saying I'm fine, I want to finish this conversation with him.
Speaker 1: Am I supposed to be like Tom, We're good. Of
Speaker 1: course not, you know. So then fast forward, We're on
Speaker 1: this high and then Monday comes to the premiere, so
Speaker 1: we get to walk the carpet and we are then
Speaker 1: we set up where the press is and we get
Speaker 1: to interview some of the stars, and then Cruise walks
Speaker 1: up like Cruise is walking, so it was like a
Speaker 1: big loop. So he entered and then this is where
Speaker 1: the fans were. We were across from the fans, and
Speaker 1: then he had a loop around walk the carpet and
Speaker 1: then he started just pressing and looped around. It was
Speaker 1: like a big circle. But he first walked onto the
Speaker 1: carpet and went directly to the fans and he said
Speaker 1: hello to every single fan and apparently he does this
Speaker 1: everywhere he goes. And it was wonderful to see because
Speaker 1: to see these people's reactions when Tom Cruise was looking
Speaker 1: at them, letting them speak and smiling. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just how could anybody get mad at Cruise for, you know,
Speaker 1: being two hours late to something because he's doing he's
Speaker 1: really making these people's lives because they'll always remember the day.
Speaker 1: Like I met Tom Cruise. He looked at me and
Speaker 1: he shook my you know, that's the story I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell for the rest of my life. When I
Speaker 1: got the opportunity to look and he was staring right
Speaker 1: at us, and he was smiling, and he was like,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, like that's why I make movies.
Speaker 1: And it was wonderful. And so he was talking to
Speaker 1: every single fan and then there's a cameraman next to
Speaker 1: us and he said, Tom won you know, a picture
Speaker 1: with the fans, picture with the fans, and he was
Speaker 1: like a for e ar people or whatever. And so
Speaker 1: Tom turned around and then he saw us and he goes, hey,
Speaker 1: you guys. He's like, you guys are great, you look cool,
Speaker 1: you look cool, and we were like holy And then
Speaker 1: the camera guy next to us, it's like, I don't
Speaker 1: think he was talking to me, and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: we met him yesterday, we obviously and it was so great.
Speaker 1: And he came around he and he talked to every
Speaker 1: single reporter and now every star did. And I don't
Speaker 1: blame them, Like there for two and a half hours,
Speaker 1: they're meeting people, they're talking like we're not going to
Speaker 1: talk to everybody. But the fact that the biggest star
Speaker 1: in the world talks to every single reporter and talk
Speaker 1: to every single fan was just, I don't know, it
Speaker 1: was just it was really cool to witness in person.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm lucky. It's gonna sound really lame, so lame,
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to keep speaking on this, but I
Speaker 1: feel very prideful in the people that I, you know,
Speaker 1: am a fan of because I'm very passionate about it,
Speaker 1: like whether we had Rob Thomas on the podcast last
Speaker 1: week or you know, Brady or Tom Cruise and to
Speaker 1: see like to have Rob come on the podcast and
Speaker 1: then talk to you guys, and then you guys experienced
Speaker 1: kind of like why I like, I am such a fan
Speaker 1: of this person and his music, and to have Dean
Speaker 1: be like, dude, that guy is awesome. He's the man.
Speaker 1: They're like, I know, bro, Like, I know, that's why
Speaker 1: he's so cool. And then you know, with Brady meeting
Speaker 1: him in person and seeing like the way he's interacted
Speaker 1: with people, and like to see him come to these
Speaker 1: events and shake hands, and then furthermore to see what
Speaker 1: Cruz did, which is just like taking it to a
Speaker 1: whole new level of like, you're the biggest star in
Speaker 1: the world, arguably the most famous person like in Hollywood
Speaker 1: and the history of Hollywood. I mean, Ton Cruise is
Speaker 1: right there, and to just do what he does was
Speaker 1: it was just like, that's why I love that guy,
Speaker 1: you know, because he's an action star and he's my favorite.
Speaker 1: You know, he's he's just awesome as an actor, and
Speaker 1: I've watched his movies, but like to see what he
Speaker 1: did with every single person and to see how happy
Speaker 1: that he made every person, to hear that he does
Speaker 1: this all the time, it was just like, that is
Speaker 1: so cool. And if I couldn't be any more of
Speaker 1: a fan of you than I already am, So that
Speaker 1: was cool.
Speaker 2: That's amazing. I feel like, you know, they say all
Speaker 2: the time, don't meet your heroes, but you've met three,
Speaker 2: and you've had good expert as with all three.
Speaker 1: So that's why, like I feel so lucky. I know,
Speaker 1: I'm like being bashful right now because I feel I'm
Speaker 1: proud to be a fan of these people, you know,
Speaker 1: Like I mean like I'm an aunt, you know in
Speaker 1: terms of like promoting mission impossible, right, Like, no, who
Speaker 1: gives a shit what I say about this movie, but
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna do everything in my power to promote
Speaker 1: this movie because I wanted to do so well for
Speaker 1: Tom even though it's so stupid to me to think,
Speaker 1: like the there's way more marketing, or like with Brady,
Speaker 1: right Brady, I'm always wearing his Brady brand, and it's
Speaker 1: like I'm just like trying to promote as much as
Speaker 1: Ken because I care about so much. Or Rob Thomas
Speaker 1: with Matchbox twenty, like promoting the album, talking about the songs,
Speaker 1: and it's like I'm an aunt in this whole scheme
Speaker 1: of marketing for them. But like because I'm so prideful
Speaker 1: and being a fan of yours, like I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: whatever I can to try to make you as successful
Speaker 1: as possible, and I know it might be minuscule, but
Speaker 1: I'll do everything I can.
Speaker 2: Well, here's next on your list? You've met three of
Speaker 2: your idols so far, Who's next?
Speaker 1: I mean, there's nobody.
Speaker 2: That's it, that's it, that can't be it.
Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is like, it's all like everybody joked,
Speaker 1: like Tanner joked one time. He was like, I think
Speaker 1: you're psychotical because your favorite people all Tom's. They were
Speaker 1: like Rob Thomas, Tom Brady and Tom Cruise.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Now maybe I am a psycho. So now
Speaker 1: then I've met them all, I'm like the like, there's nobody.
Speaker 2: There's really no one, no singer, no other actor.
Speaker 1: Well, Easton just said Henry Cavill dressed as Superman. I mean,
Speaker 1: holy shit, of course I would love to meet Cavill,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, and just you know, tell him that
Speaker 1: he's the you know, the Superman of our generation. And
Speaker 1: it's a shame and a sham what happened to him.
Speaker 1: And it makes me so frustrated. And doesn't mean I'm
Speaker 1: not excited for James Gunn Superman. I am. I'll talk
Speaker 1: about it right now. But if you think that I'm
Speaker 1: not a little pissed off at the future of DC
Speaker 1: with how they handled Henry Cavill, then you don't know
Speaker 1: me at all. Anyway.
Speaker 2: What about Ben Affleck do you care about You care
Speaker 2: about him? Oh?
Speaker 1: I gotta care about afflic so much so he's next. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just feel like Affleck would see like let me down,
Speaker 1: not let me down, but like I know he'll be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like cool, bro, thank you so much and walk off
Speaker 1: here exactly like I got. I get it, like I
Speaker 1: get Ben. I feel like there's a like I love
Speaker 1: Ben so much and again like someone that I'm proud
Speaker 1: to be a fan of. So I guess yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: if I had the opportunity to shake Ben's hand, I'm like, Bro,
Speaker 1: you know you're just I wouldn't say bro, I would say, sir,
Speaker 1: you are just awesome, just awesome.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like Ben would give you two seconds
Speaker 2: of his time in Jala, would give you a little
Speaker 2: bit more, just based off what little I know about
Speaker 2: their personalities.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we talked about this podcast. I love
Speaker 1: them as a couple just because I love.
Speaker 2: But then Jennifer Garner, I swear, would give you like
Speaker 2: a whole hour of her time.
Speaker 1: I mean you her. Have you seen Ben's and Jennifer
Speaker 1: Gardner's daughter. I don't know her name, Yes, looks just
Speaker 1: like her.
Speaker 2: I mean holy, everyone was taking photos of them at
Speaker 2: the White Party and I was like, is Jennifer there?
Speaker 1: It was crazy I mean I saw the picture, actually
Speaker 1: showed it to me, and I was like, yeah, that
Speaker 1: is that is just Jennifer Garner because they always you
Speaker 1: talk about parenthood and if you're getting if you're marrying
Speaker 1: someone who already has kids, then you're constantly reminded of
Speaker 1: their ex because if they look like them. Like holy,
Speaker 1: Jalo was just looking at Jennifer Garner every time she
Speaker 1: hangs out with Ben's kids.
Speaker 2: That's so true. But good things. She seems like a
Speaker 2: good ex. Obviously don't know anything about their marriage, but
Speaker 2: she just seems like such a wholesome, lovely person.
Speaker 1: Jennifer Gardner. Yeah, yeah, she really does. I mean, how
Speaker 1: can he not feel for her a little bit? You know,
Speaker 1: Like I know because from the stories that we heard
Speaker 1: was that it was Ben obviously fell off the wagon,
Speaker 1: started getting back into alcohol and then that ended the marriage,
Speaker 1: which she's I believe, talked about publicly and been remorseful for.
Speaker 1: And then he sobered up, you know, wanted to try
Speaker 1: to fix things, and of course, like it didn't work out.
Speaker 1: It's hard, and then like holy, and he starts dating
Speaker 1: j Loo again.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, damn, we talk about like our exes, you know,
Speaker 1: and ex seeing us go on Bachelor Bachelorette Like it's
Speaker 1: kind of I mean obviously tenfold because he's dating j Low,
Speaker 1: but like simular feeling where you're like, oh, like you know,
Speaker 1: I hope you I hope you find happiness, like do
Speaker 1: what you need to do, and you're like, well, I have,
Speaker 1: like I'm going to marry Jennifer Lopez. What did you
Speaker 1: just say, very pardon did you ever tell an X
Speaker 1: that you were going on Bachelor? No? I was do
Speaker 1: you ever have an ex that you felt like you
Speaker 1: needed to that, like, oh, they should probably know that
Speaker 1: I'm going on the show before they see me. No.
Speaker 2: I wasn't in like any relationships close to the time
Speaker 2: of the show.
Speaker 1: Oh, I was like, yeah, I there was only one.
Speaker 1: I mean I've talked about the podcast before, but yeah,
Speaker 1: there was one that I definitely had to call and
Speaker 1: be like, hey, just heads up, I think I'm going
Speaker 1: on this show. So weird. I think it's also different
Speaker 1: for a guy and a girl because girls watched the show.
Speaker 2: True.
Speaker 1: True, It's like you could tell a guy, but I
Speaker 1: doubt he watches the show. It's more so he probably
Speaker 1: heard that you're gonna be on the show. Yeah, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: Like I have had exces that would definitely just like
Speaker 1: watch the show and then all of a sudden, probably
Speaker 1: just watching Night one, and then it'd be like, what
Speaker 1: the is this? Is this a show? Yeah? Crazy? So
Speaker 1: we do have to wrap up this podcast unfortunately because
Speaker 1: we are on a time crunch. I feel so bad
Speaker 1: because I told my entire story. I've taken up this podcast.
Speaker 2: It's a good story.
Speaker 1: It is a good I mean it's does you meet
Speaker 1: tons twice?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I feel very grateful and blessed for that. Like
Speaker 1: it's just it's still Yeah, it's great. But Kaitlyn, do
Speaker 1: you have any anything on your end you wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about quickly on the podcast? Wedding updates? I mean,
Speaker 1: you're away from Dean. How long has he been away for?
Speaker 2: He is back? He just flew to LA for the day,
Speaker 2: but he's back for a week. Is he golfing, Yes,
Speaker 2: he's golfing.
Speaker 1: Tell him, Tell him that his fiance is waiting for him,
Speaker 1: and to get his ass back to Vegas.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, quick trip. But yeah, wedding planning's
Speaker 2: going great and I feel like we'll have some updates
Speaker 2: for you guys next week. Yeah, we're exciting wedding updates,
Speaker 2: stress fittings, all that stuff.
Speaker 1: Well, we're talking to Joe and Serena, who are a
Speaker 1: married couple, next week, so I'm excited for you to
Speaker 1: be able to talk to him about wedding updates. But
Speaker 1: as for this podcast, that will do it. Make sure
Speaker 1: you tune in next week. We're hopefully we all suck
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