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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club Morning.

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Speaker 2: Everybody is d J n V, jess Larius Chelamaine the God.

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Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest.

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Speaker 1: In the building.

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Speaker 2: That's right, we have j O Brian Welcome. How are

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Speaker 2: you feeling.

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Speaker 3: I'm feeling so good.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna name all the stuff that the Real

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Speaker 2: Housewives of Potomac. I was gonna say, shady podcast podcast,

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Speaker 2: Straight and Reasonably Shady podcast, Rob and you show love Hotel.

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Speaker 2: You're doing so much. I'm doing a lot, making a

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Speaker 2: lot of money out there.

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Speaker 4: Yes, well, you know we got the dad for the

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Speaker 4: college tuition. Thank praise Sam, keep preaching, preacher. But Jesus, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 4: but yeah, I'm doing a lot, and I'm you know,

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Speaker 4: it's good. I'm at a place where I can say

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Speaker 4: no to things. I'm doing things that like make me happy.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: How was the Real Housewives franchise?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: Because you see Housewives being fired, franchises being canceled, rebooted.

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Speaker 2: New York was canceled and rebooted. I think Dubai has

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Speaker 2: been canceled. Yes, and a lot of them is they're

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Speaker 2: saying it trash. So how is Potonmac. It's still being

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Speaker 2: able to survive for all of this stuff.

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Speaker 3: That's first, it's potomac.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's hard, Like the reality TV space is extremely difficult,

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Speaker 4: and it's it's difficult to like have some longevity. You

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Speaker 4: have to for Housewives, it's not hard. You guys have

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Speaker 4: to be friends. It's a show about friendship. So when

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Speaker 4: you are trying to be toxic, when you're trying to

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Speaker 4: say stuff to your castmates that's toxic and it's at

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Speaker 4: the point of no return, then there goes the show.

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Speaker 4: You can't come back from that. And no viewer wants

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Speaker 4: to sit in week after week and look at a

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Speaker 4: show that there's a bunch of women that hate each other.

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Speaker 3: It becomes unreal.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, that's the whole point of reality.

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Speaker 2: But I thought the conflict in the toxic was what God.

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Speaker 3: But it's it's a fine line. It's like a dance

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Speaker 3: you gotta do.

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Speaker 4: So it's wake toxicity, it's not hardcore toxicity. And then

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Speaker 4: you got to have be able to come back and laugh.

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Speaker 4: You got to be able to come back and make

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Speaker 4: fun of each other. And it's a girlfriend thing. You know,

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Speaker 4: you have some toxic girlfriends, right, but you know that

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Speaker 4: y'all can go out on Saturday and.

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Speaker 3: Have fun, but somebody's getting cussed out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's okay because there's a love there and

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Speaker 4: you can still like rise above it. Yeah, and then

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Speaker 4: Sunday we can all talk about what happened, yes, and

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Speaker 4: that be it. Yeah, and then you know you have

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Speaker 4: it's a dynamic of like there's some girlfriends that are

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Speaker 4: just like the wild card, the drunk one, the one

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Speaker 4: that's always going to like be reserved. It's the dynamic

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Speaker 4: of the group. But it just can't get to a

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Speaker 4: toxic place otherwise you're yes, you're going to be cancered.

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Speaker 4: Has it ever been a part or a time where

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Speaker 4: you're like, I don't want to do this to be

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Speaker 4: able TV? Shit, more like Thursday, I'm about to throw

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Speaker 4: in a town, Jez.

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Speaker 3: You're about to give me five?

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Speaker 4: Yes, of course, I always say, because real TV is tough.

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Speaker 4: If there is a point in a season in which

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Speaker 4: you don't feel like you want to quit, then you're

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Speaker 4: not doing your job.

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Speaker 3: You have to get to that point.

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Speaker 4: And for instance, this season, I didn't feel it unto

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Speaker 4: the end, so and I was checking myself with it

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Speaker 4: because I was like, I've been kind of like feeling good.

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Speaker 3: I've been in a great place. I don't feel like

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Speaker 3: I want to quit.

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Speaker 4: And and then towards the end of season, I was like, yeah, there, gone, there,

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Speaker 4: go there, But you have to give it all. If

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Speaker 4: you don't, then you shouldn't be doing it. And is

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Speaker 4: that that's so that's recipe to a good season.

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Speaker 3: Get that feeling. Oh, I was like this, this season

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Speaker 2: To you're the villain a lot and a lot of

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Speaker 2: these like, well, go at people's personal lives. You'll go

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Speaker 3: So we're friends and V I'm just asking.

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Speaker 2: I'm just asking.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to show my wife and I'm like, that's

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Speaker 1: not that youselle.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: I think that anything that is out there on social

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Speaker 4: after anybody's mother or child, but yeah, if it's out there,

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Speaker 4: let's talk about it. And and that's like a good

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Speaker 4: girlfriend relationship any right, take the cameras away. If something's

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna get together with her and act like

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Speaker 4: it ain't happening. No, let's talk, and it does. And

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Speaker 4: just because the cameras are there doesn't mean it's shady.

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Speaker 4: It's how you handle the answer that that you feel

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Speaker 4: like it is shady.

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Speaker 5: I don't think you a villain. I think I think

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Speaker 5: you throw reasonable shade. Yes, he's the podcast.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you know, Rob is not with us this season,

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Speaker 4: and so the reasonable of the show has been like

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Speaker 3: But I've had to.

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Speaker 4: Pick up that reasonable part A little bit about it

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Speaker 4: is that it's difficult part of my personality.

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Speaker 5: The thing I like about you though, because it's hard

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Speaker 5: to build the name outside of the reality show. A

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Speaker 5: lot of people that becomes their whole identity that have

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Speaker 5: not been the case for you.

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Speaker 4: No, because I leave it there so and that is

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Speaker 4: when we're filming. I leave it there when I come home.

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to talk to my kids about it.

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to think about it. It's I look

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Speaker 4: at it is, it's on camera stuff. I did it

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Speaker 4: on camera. Now that the cameras are gone, I'm done

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Speaker 4: with it. Now there's your your kids ever try to

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Speaker 4: that she questioned you about some things that she'll see

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Speaker 4: on there or does that ever happen? Well, they probably

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Speaker 4: won't mention it. And one of them is here today.

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Speaker 4: But they're shadier than me.

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Speaker 4: You know, their mama is me, their father is who

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Speaker 3: A kick out of it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so they there are times when they're like, ma,

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Speaker 4: they're like, good, I'm glad you checked her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And how do you deal with the blogs right, because

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Speaker 2: they attack everything that you do? Yes, the way you

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Speaker 2: decorate your house, the way you dress good, She guccied out.

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Speaker 2: I don't see the problem like I.

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Speaker 1: See her all the time talk about promote me.

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Speaker 2: When people take thrives that you can talk about you

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Speaker 4: I find it funny because that means if you're talking

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Speaker 4: that means you have nothing else right and you're just

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Speaker 4: not now making up something.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, y'all keep talking about me.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I don't even have to get out

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Speaker 1: I like the haters.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're my friends.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 4: You just did your your first twenty one Questions live

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Speaker 4: show in Chicago.

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Speaker 3: Yes, how do you know?

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Speaker 1: Well, what I know?

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Speaker 3: I know anything? Are there going to be other cities? Yes,

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Speaker 3: so I'm planning that right now. Thank you so much

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Speaker 3: for asking.

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Speaker 4: I just that was something that I did on my own.

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Speaker 4: So we've reasonably Shady has done live shows, yes, but

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Speaker 4: you know, Beyonce by herself. It was my first breakout

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Speaker 4: I needed that. So yes, I'm now planning the whole tour.

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Speaker 4: So we're doing West Coast first and then we're gonna

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Speaker 4: why were you nervous? What made you nervous?

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Speaker 3: Because I have a tendency to Okay.

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Speaker 4: To know me is to know that I'm very quiet

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Speaker 4: my my business.

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Speaker 3: What yes, yes, so, And I have.

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Speaker 4: A tendency to kind of say things that's really on

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Speaker 4: Robin always kind of like checks me in that and

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Speaker 3: So I did it well, it went well.

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Speaker 4: I was happy, and now I vis because you're adding

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Speaker 3: So congratulations own.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 1: How did you feel to have the house to yourself?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Because you an empty enough?

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, so let's talk about it because you're not there.

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Speaker 2: I'm nowhere.

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Speaker 3: You are nowhere near either of you, Okay, so let's

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Speaker 4: At first, I was like super sad because I dropped

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Speaker 4: off three kids in three cities in seventy two hours.

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Speaker 4: So it was like a thing and minds you all

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Speaker 4: my kids go to HBCU shout.

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Speaker 3: Out to the HBCU going to Hampton Hampton. No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: Grace is going to fam fam the ones in the

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Speaker 4: ones that Spelman And she's at a doors at Yes,

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Speaker 4: she's a freshman. She just finished all of her this

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Speaker 4: is her first semester. She's rocking.

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Speaker 3: What a three point nine four points? Don't get it twisted.

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Speaker 3: Don't get it twisted. That's next year's conversation.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just I'm.

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Speaker 4: So when I got home, I was super sad, like

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Speaker 4: I was just like, what am I going to do?

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Speaker 4: And then the next day I woke up and I

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 4: It's so freeing. I get up when I want to.

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Speaker 4: I don't have to go to the grocery store. I

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Speaker 2: This is like.

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Speaker 3: And all I can, all I have to do is

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Speaker 4: And that's a great feeling to just think about yourself

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Speaker 4: after you've been thinking about and planning around somebody else's

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Speaker 4: life for a damn near twenty years.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't want them to feel like because we're

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Speaker 4: So I would invite him to everything. We're going on vacation,

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Speaker 2: When you went on vacation or you invited him. Was

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Speaker 3: Now, I mean he could have, he just never did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I in my vacations, I kept it about the.

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Speaker 4: getting back to your naked knowledge, I'm sorry, I haven't

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Speaker 4: even heard the term open nest Jesus, what empty?

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Speaker 3: I like, open, open, open, open again.

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Speaker 4: So they facetimey all the time and they see I'm naked,

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Speaker 2: Yes, so yes, the landscape has come more than once

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Speaker 1: Three times a week.

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Speaker 4: I don't stand in front the window empty, right, So

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Speaker 4: it's it's a good feeling.

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Speaker 3: And yes, I have been dating.

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Speaker 4: Your question because I sing on the show you did

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Speaker 3: But yes, how was there? Are you still seeing the

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Speaker 4: Yeah he's around, Yeah, there's several. You got a roster, Yes,

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Speaker 4: it's about that. It's because I have the time now.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So if you had time for a roster, you'd

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Speaker 3: have a roster, that's right. Yeah, and if you weren't

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, okay, because I used to have a roster

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I feel like it's my time.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm not going to settle into something

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I earned that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do you want to get married again?

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Speaker 4: So I have said for like the longest time, absolutely,

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Speaker 4: not like for what like what does that bring to me,

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Speaker 4: but I might.

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Speaker 3: I'm open.

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Speaker 2: What changed your mind?

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Speaker 1: What's his name?

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Speaker 3: Mind? Your business?

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Speaker 4: I'm open because I do feel, like, you know, my

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Speaker 3: So if I'm able to give.

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Speaker 4: That to them, and if the guy is I'm asane,

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Speaker 3: And is that how? And there will be major prenups

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Speaker 3: trusts all that handled.

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Speaker 4: I was just gonna ask you about how you're moving

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Speaker 4: forward with, Like how do you date now? Because your

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Speaker 4: last marriage infidelity.

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Speaker 3: Played a big part in it.

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Speaker 4: So how are you with trusting who you're even dating

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Speaker 3: Like are you scared?

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Speaker 4: Like, no, not scared at all. I mean, I think

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Speaker 4: And I'm not the girl to like, I don't know

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Speaker 4: about you, Jess, but I don't like look through people's

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to be FBI, I'm not trying to

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Speaker 3: I actually just don't care.

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Speaker 4: So if you're out here doing something, I'm the easiest

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Speaker 4: I'll be the last to though. Yeah, So once you

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Speaker 3: Kids with your dating with. So they hate everybody.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure do they nobody good enough for moms.

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Speaker 4: But they feel like I just run through them. I mean,

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Speaker 3: Mistakes that I'm just like onto the next.

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Speaker 4: So they don't really even get invested unless they really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how they've been doing the show without Robin.

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Speaker 3: It was tough. It was tough, you know, Robin. Y'all

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Speaker 4: I was always thinking she was going to come into

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, I missed. I missed, definitely miss her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but she's just opened up a medspa in Colombia.

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Speaker 4: You know, the target in Columbia. Yeah, in that strip mall.

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Speaker 4: I hate that, I said the target and Columbia you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, many targets in Colombia.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so it's in that in that mall.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations, Yeah, definitely. It's called Glow thirty.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. The next time you're in town and it's like

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Speaker 3: She's she's doing great.

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Speaker 5: Did you ever think about walking because she said she

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Speaker 3: I was supposed to quit my job because you got fired.

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Speaker 3: That's right, I know, that's right. I was supposed to

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Speaker 4: Doubt.

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Speaker 1: Did y'all have a combo about it?

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Speaker 3: I'm sure, of course.

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Speaker 4: Like after she got the call, she immediately called me,

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Speaker 4: but she kind of felt it coming, you know. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 4: and so year after year she would have to defend it,

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Speaker 4: and it was kind of like everybody was tired of this,

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Speaker 4: but you know you shouldn't. You shouldn't have to defend

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Speaker 4: the person that you have been married to, that you

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Speaker 4: love constantly, like let it be.

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Speaker 3: So she's she's not.

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Speaker 4: She's stressed free. Right now, I'm the one stressed out

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Speaker 4: because I'm still on the show. But she's like stress

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Speaker 4: free and living her best life?

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Speaker 2: Are you bringing those the people that you're dating on

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Speaker 4: And no, what what are you talkingous? Now?

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Speaker 1: Don't make the whole faith.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he's gotta be. So I did the speed dating,

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Speaker 4: so let me talk about the speed data.

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Speaker 3: So he we were.

448
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 4: Going out a couple of times, but then you know,

449
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 4: he really liked me, just like a little too much.

450
00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:14,200
Speaker 4: You know, he was like telling me all the time,

451
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,160
Speaker 4: and that's kind of like the kiss of death.

452
00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:16,879
Speaker 2: You don't like affection.

453
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't like infection affection affection. We don't affection. Of course,

454
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:25,720
Speaker 1: you don't like infections affection.

455
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 4: I do, But it's it's a way that he did

456
00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,160
Speaker 4: too much, too quick, And it's like you just tell

457
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 4: me I'm great once.

458
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 3: Not like all day every day and keep praising yes,

459
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:36,480
Speaker 3: yes that.

460
00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:36,679
Speaker 2: Is so.

461
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:39,920
Speaker 1: What if I really feel that way.

462
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 5: What if I'm looking at you and I'm like, damn

463
00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,679
Speaker 5: your god, bless me, oh my god.

464
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,360
Speaker 4: I mean, because then it's the challenge is over for me.

465
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 4: Then you know I got him.

466
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I to look forward to. Now what else?

467
00:20:56,240 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, so or tell me in other ways, make it

468
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 4: be a gift, make it you know, don't tell me

469
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 4: what your words tell me with action.

470
00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 3: Right, So I did something else in my life I did.

471
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,879
Speaker 4: I can't say I did do a dating show, right,

472
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 4: So I told him about the show before I left,

473
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 4: and that kind of like threw him off and he

474
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 4: couldn't understand it, so he wouldn't thought.

475
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 2: He was the one and you went, you go ahead

476
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:20,880
Speaker 2: and go on to dating.

477
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I said, I I already got this bag

478
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 4: before I met you, so.

479
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 2: You should have understood.

480
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 3: And he did.

481
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 4: But he went away for like three months and then

482
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 4: when all of a sudden, he just like reappeared.

483
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 2: He went away for three months jail or no, went away.

484
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:39,160
Speaker 4: Like out of my line talking. Yeah, way, I don't

485
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 4: mess with those guys anymore.

486
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 3: That's in my past.

487
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 4: So now he's back full throttle. He you know, he

488
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 4: wants to do trips and he wants to do all

489
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 4: the things because now he's putting his his full energy

490
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 4: and attention in it the way that I want to

491
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 4: receive it. That motivated him, That motivated him, So every

492
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,439
Speaker 4: now and again, you just got to like let him.

493
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 5: So when you tell him that, when you say, look, man,

494
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 5: you don't got to tell me I'm great all the time,

495
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 5: how does he react to that?

496
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 1: Well?

497
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 4: Just so, I mean, it's just I just want to

498
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 4: express myself. I just want to let you know. And

499
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 4: I mean I haven't, like you know, I haven't.

500
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 2: I don't.

501
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 3: I don't really meet women like you all the time.

502
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 4: And it's just yeah, I know player, Like it's just like, wow,

503
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 4: you understand.

504
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: I understand.

505
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: Now you're dating somebody. You want to tell us she beautiful,

506
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 2: but you can only tell her once a year.

507
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 5: You know, people always I heard what she said. You said,

508
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 5: he should also show you. You got to tell me,

509
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 5: show me what your actions. Yes, I can understand that.

510
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 3: Yes. And my kids mad him and they was throwing

511
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 3: shade at him.

512
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 4: So it's just like, yeah, like I said, I need

513
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 4: three months.

514
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 2: So you can't do anybody that's quote unquote average or

515
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 2: broke you because you're talking trips. You took on buy

516
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 2: me expensive gifts.

517
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 4: Daughter is like, nope, okay, thank you putting words in

518
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 4: my mouth.

519
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: All right, you don't have to.

520
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 4: I'm not the Gucci Louis product girl, Like, you don't

521
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 4: have to. Yes on right now, how I bought this

522
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 4: for myself?

523
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 3: Okay, right, I don't.

524
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,959
Speaker 4: I don't need that, but you can show me little flowers.

525
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 4: It doesn't have to be it's okay. So to answer

526
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 4: your question, my daddy a man that's broke, Now, that's

527
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 4: that's like, why would I do that?

528
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 1: That was because you're trying to get a politically correct Anthony're.

529
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 4: Like, look, I'm not, and Jess, you can appreciate this.

530
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 4: You've worked hard for where you are stability.

531
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 3: And financialist, right as have I. Why you don't need

532
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 3: to take care of a man?

533
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:31,360
Speaker 2: No?

534
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 4: No, so it's no. And I don't know who you're with. Yeah,

535
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 4: it's I'm not with somebody I got to take care

536
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 4: thank you. Now. I was in a relationship like that,

537
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 4: a couple of relationships like that, so I definitely know

538
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 4: what you mean. No, I don't want to date nobody broke,

539
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 4: but and I know that because I've dated broke people.

540
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 6: So that's why I know that she probably never did.

541
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 4: I've dated broke men and been up you know what

542
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 4: I mean, and try to help and not no.

543
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: No, if he's a great man, everything, you just don't

544
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 1: have the finance.

545
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 4: So so that can only go so far, and I'm

546
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 4: fine with that, but it can only go like in

547
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 4: the bedroom, and then like where are we going to dinner? No,

548
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 4: you can't pay. Are we going on the trip? No,

549
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 4: I can't afford my tickets, you can't afford yours.

550
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 1: And of course they love you.

551
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like, where what are we doing here? Yeah?

552
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: I got the show with love Hotel right, hotel?

553
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 2: Yes. Now I wanted to ask about the I know

554
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 2: you're still in a lawsuit with Eminem? Did that ever

555
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 2: finish that? Whatever happened with that? Is it over yet?

556
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 4: Y'all could probably appreciate this, y'all probably no more than me. Okay,

557
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 4: So y'all know a guy named Paul Rosenberg managing we

558
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 4: deposed him, and from that, okay, I can't say much.

559
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: From that, I think it's almost over. It's almost over.

560
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 4: So the our position was Eminem deposed. Eminem's team had

561
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 4: me and Robin deposed, So all is fair in love

562
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 4: and war. We're going to depose eminem. So when our

563
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 4: side said, okay, we need to post him, all hell

564
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 4: broke loose, it was like, oh, no, no, never, he

565
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 4: doesn't even know anything about Well if he doesn't know

566
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 4: anything about this, why are we here?

567
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 1: Because his name is all in the headline.

568
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 3: Right, But that's a lot. I mean you had to

569
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 3: have told him something.

570
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 4: So because of that, I think that there have decided, Okay,

571
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 4: these girls aren't going away, and like we got to

572
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 4: settle well, Patent and Trade is going to settle it

573
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 4: or figure it out because we're at the end of

574
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 4: the road. All depositions have been done, all disclosures, all all,

575
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 4: and yes, we've spent a lot of money.

576
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 2: Last how much do you pay your lawyer fees?

577
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 3: It's still ongoing, but a lot, a lot.

578
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: He didn't He don't own the word shady.

579
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 4: You don't own the word shady. And what they don't

580
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 4: and what we know is there have been other companies,

581
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 4: small companies, insignific not insignatany but small like upstarts, that

582
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 4: have had shady in their name, and they paid them all,

583
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,439
Speaker 4: they paid them all to go away, just to make

584
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 4: it go away. We weren't going to do that or

585
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 4: unless y'all didn't offer something that could make us go away.

586
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 4: But no, we're too far in now, and no, it's no,

587
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 4: And I don't even get it, Like, why would you

588
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 4: be doing this to us because we, thank god we

589
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 4: had the money, but let's just say we didn't and

590
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 4: we're just two black women out here just trying to

591
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,479
Speaker 4: make a dial out of fifteen cents.

592
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 2: Yeah.

593
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, make sure you subscribe to the Reasonably Shady podcast

594
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 5: on the blacka Ieheart Radio podcast network, available everywhere you

595
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 5: listening to the podcasts.

596
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 3: There you go and we drop all my dates.

597
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, world, quick, what is the real beef with Karen

598
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 4: and who you kring to me?

599
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 3: Yeah?

600
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 4: Because you know what one one minute, y'all throwing shade

601
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 4: and y'all supporting each other.

602
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: Is there a real beef?

603
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 6: Is what I should have said, beef any underlying issues.

604
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 4: To truth be told? I think Karen I obviously we

605
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 4: started to show together. Yeah, let's pray for Karen because

606
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 4: she's going to court next week. I think that in

607
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 4: Karen's mind, she wanted to be whatever she wanted to

608
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 4: be as far as the show was concerned, and she

609
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 4: had a lot of people in her ear and so

610
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 4: I think that that caused her to like come for

611
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 4: me and come for me. Yeah. But I've known Karen

612
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 4: since before the show started, like we were friends, so

613
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 4: I knew what she was doing sometimes on camera was

614
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 4: just some nonsense.

615
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 3: And I was gonna ride with you with this nonsense.

616
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 4: But I mean, we've been doing this for so long now,

617
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 4: Like at its core, we love each other. At its core,

618
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 4: we root for each other. But she just comes from

619
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 4: me because.

620
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 3: She gets bored, got it.

621
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm okay with that. I'll play, I'll play.

622
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 3: With you you.

623
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 4: Okay, I just had to except for myself. I watched

624
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 4: the Yes, myself and Ashley is on the show. Yeah,

625
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 4: I've been doing a lot of business together. Yes, yes,

626
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,439
Speaker 4: and and actually it's wild.

627
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't like. How do y'all feel about public

628
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 3: displays of affection? Mm hmm.

629
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: That depends.

630
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 3: It depends on where we at.

631
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 4: Yeahs, Like, you know, if we're going somewhere, if it's

632
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 4: the date night and we're somewhere intimate, fine, But I don't.

633
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 3: Really like the hold hands.

634
00:27:52,640 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 4: I don't like every now and then.

635
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 6: So yeah, I don't know. I can have a little

636
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 6: small laps hands don't hold them.

637
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 3: Yes, you know, so, I don't know. It just it depends.

638
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 3: It just depends. I don't really like public affections.

639
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm very affectionate in public.

640
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 4: Okay, so, but if so, I I like that, but

641
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: I've got to be like in a relationship or really

642
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 4: with this guy. So to meet all these guys and

643
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 4: all of a sudden like like they want to kiss

644
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 4: me on camera, like, it kind of freaks me out.

645
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 5: See that's whack because, like you said, you're not in

646
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 5: a relationship, and these guys might be doing that just

647
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 5: because you are yourself.

648
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: Let me get a look. They could be cloud chasing.

649
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: You don't know, you know what I mean.

650
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 4: Yes, so, but other ladies on the show, they was

651
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 4: cool with it. And so it's you'll see just all

652
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 4: over here being apprude and you'll see pimps up, hose down.

653
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 3: Okay, So what's.

654
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 5: Up with Mia Thornton. I heard you say that she's

655
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 5: she's dead to you? And it's two part questions. You

656
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 5: said she's dead to you, and they're hard when people

657
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 5: bring your children into the reality show.

658
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, so the second part, Yes, it is disgusting

659
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 4: when you talk about children. They didn't sign up for this,

660
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 4: and children just off limits. That's like across the board.

661
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 4: Children are off limits. So if you want to come

662
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 4: for me, come for me, like you don't have to

663
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 4: bring my children into this, So that for me is

664
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 4: a point of no return. Like she and I used

665
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,479
Speaker 4: to be friends off camera, but that's over. And I

666
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 4: feel like you do it when you're desperate. You do

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Speaker 4: stuff like that when you're.

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Speaker 1: Desperate, when you ain't got no storyline, when.

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Speaker 4: You desperately want to think that this is going to

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Speaker 4: elevate you. And it didn't really work out that well

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Speaker 4: for her. I mean, I don't nobody's buying into that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and she's got enough to worry about. She got a husband,

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Speaker 4: she got a little boyfriend, she's she don't know the

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Speaker 4: paternity of her child.

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Speaker 3: She I mean, don't go on.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, she's dead to me. Still, Yes, she'll be alive.

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Speaker 1: Damn if she apologize.

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Speaker 4: So there was, So we're gonna let the show play out,

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Speaker 4: but there was. She was given ample opportunity to apologize,

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Speaker 4: but you know what she did. She doubled and tripled

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Speaker 4: down on it.

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Speaker 3: Yikes, I can't do that. And nobody plays when it

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Speaker 3: comes to their kids, playing.

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Speaker 2: About their kids nobody. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So if you're thinking and you're gonna continue to do it,

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Speaker 4: that means you really feel that way about my kids.

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Speaker 3: And that's a never.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. Well, don't thank you to the dead, No, she.

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Speaker 2: Won't to apologize to l Well, the Real Housewives of

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Speaker 2: Of course the new show Love Hotel. We appreciate you

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Speaker 2: for joining us.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank y'all for having me. I always love

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Speaker 4: you guys. Y'all are upmates, sing Yes, y'all love Jess.

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Speaker 2: We love Jess.

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Speaker 3: I know hello.

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Speaker 1: She was on the show That Family.

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Speaker 6: I Love and she just asked the question, you're sitting

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Speaker 6: there like.

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Speaker 3: You said nothing.

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Speaker 4: I love yeah, and I will say, I re really

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Speaker 4: appreciate being on Black Effects.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. We appreciate having.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's you know, we feel good about what we're doing.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, we appreciate what you.

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Speaker 1: We feel a bit about what you're doing too.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean it's coming.

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Speaker 1: It's one of our biggest podcasts.

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Speaker 4: Oh really absolutely, okay, it's gonna be like five seasons.

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Speaker 3: We thought you would fight, it's like three seasons.

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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, thank god.

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Speaker 3: Not that you're making right.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, wake that ass up in the morning. The

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