1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 3: At all at all, So given them back a million 4 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 3: bu bu boozy. 5 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 4: Listening to. 6 00:00:39,200 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 5: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you gotta turn. 7 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 4: I can't. I got to turn the mouth. Turn You 8 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 4: probably got to turn the mouth, turn out, turn a 9 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 4: wad of the mony up looking come come out? 10 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 2: You think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're 11 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now, one 12 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 2: and only. It is Steve Harvey. Yeah, I got a 13 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: radio show. Okay, this is a timely for everybody. I'm 14 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 2: sure I want to offer you all some encouragement because 15 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:35,839 Speaker 2: everybody needed. Let me tell you something. You strike out 16 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: on your goals, you strike out on your aspirations, and 17 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: so you strike out. As it happens to all of us. 18 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 2: Here it comes life. Life just hits one of them 19 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 2: bad notes, as it always does, as it always does 20 00:02:56,800 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 2: for all of us, for everybody. Now, when those bad 21 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 2: notes happen, when the haters come out of nowhere, when 22 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 2: the setback comes up, when when the eye of nowhere appears, 23 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: when now I didn't see that coming comes, Here's here's 24 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: what you have to do here is the thing that 25 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: I have been teaching myself for years that I used 26 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: to not always understand. So I'm trying to give it 27 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 2: to you. You have to be encouraged anyway. Now that's difficult, okay, Steve, 28 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 2: what you're talking about? You just told me all this 29 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,839 Speaker 2: discouraging stuff that can happen, and you said you got 30 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: to be encouraged anyway. Yeah, man, you have to, because 31 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 2: what's happening to you right now, the thing that you're 32 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: going through right now, the thing that everybody's going through 33 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: right now. Ain't nobody else smooth sailing? Man. Everybody got 34 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 2: something and if they if they don't smooth sailing, just 35 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: know this is coming. There's nothing I'm wishing on anybody. 36 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 2: It's just that this is life. This is how it 37 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: happens everybody, So please stop stop getting on the old 38 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 2: woe is Me bandwagon? 39 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: Old Lord? 40 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: Why met old Lord? Something always happened to me, something 41 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 2: always happens to everybody. But here's what you got to do. 42 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: When you get in moments like this, you got to 43 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: be encouraged. You got to remember in those times, in 44 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 2: those times when it's going wrong, you got to remember 45 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 2: all that you've been through. You got to remember all 46 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 2: that you've come through. You have to remember those other 47 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 2: times when you felt like this, and somehow, unexplainably you 48 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: don't even really stop to say nothing about it. It 49 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 2: just changed for you and the problem that was is 50 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: no more. And the situation that seems so insurmountable, you 51 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 2: got over it, You got around it, you got over it. 52 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: Sometimes you just got to slide right under it. Sometimes 53 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,799 Speaker 2: you got to plow through it. But in those times 54 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 2: when it's discouraging for you, when you feel like giving up, 55 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 2: those are the test. Those are the moments that will 56 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: determine whether we make it or not. I'll tell you 57 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 2: one thing for sure. If you give up in these moments, 58 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: right here here is a for show, you'll never make it. 59 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 2: That's unquestionably the deal. If you give up in these 60 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 2: dark times, if you give up in these what you 61 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: think is insurmountable moments, if you turn back now here 62 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 2: is the one thousand percent for shore. You ain't gonna 63 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 2: make it. But there is a bright side to this situation. 64 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 2: If you keep your head down, if you keep forging, 65 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 2: if you keep pressing on sometimes if you just stand 66 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 2: there and sometimes get knocked to your knees. But if 67 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 2: you stay in that place, if you just stay there 68 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: and ride the storm out, my head is bloodied but unbowed. 69 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 2: If you can just stay there, if you consider in 70 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 2: that moment and ride it out, you will win. You 71 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 2: will pass the test, and you will get to move 72 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 2: on to the next level. But there is no next 73 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 2: level without a test. You can't get to grade six 74 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: without passing grade five. You can can't be a senior 75 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 2: without first being a junior. You can't graduate without fulfilling 76 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: the hours and requirements. You see, I don't care what 77 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 2: you do in life. Look at it, it's all set 78 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 2: up on levels. Well, you've got to accomplish the thing 79 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 2: before in order to get to the next level. And 80 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 2: when you've made those level accomplishments, you get to graduate. 81 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: Now you can go on and get a master's and 82 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 2: a pH d. You can go on and become rich. 83 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 2: You can go become wealthy, or you can go or 84 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: you can go somewhere and think yourself in another set 85 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: of circumstances. But you got to go through something to 86 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: get to something. That ain't nothing free. So you can 87 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: stop that notion about being successful that is easy. Come on, man, 88 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: if it was easy. What we don't what we're talking about. 89 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 2: It is not easy. Stop thinking it is. It is difficult. 90 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what's even more difficult than becoming successful. 91 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 2: You want to know what that is? Try not being 92 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: successful your whole life. That's hard. You are listening to 93 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 2: a person who has done them both been successful and 94 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 2: really really been not successful. And I got news for you. 95 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: Both of them hard. But I would rather deal with 96 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 2: what it is to be something, to make something out 97 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: of myself, to force myself to go to work when 98 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: I don't feel like it. This morning was a rough 99 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: get up for me, but I got up and I 100 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: said thank you anyway. Never give up, and out of 101 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 2: watch this dude to heed the mess around and got 102 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 2: close to me because he just never gave up. Get 103 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: You can never ever give up. Never, It's not an option. 104 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: Giving up cannot be an option for you. You cannot 105 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 2: do that. It's out of the question. It's inconceivable in 106 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 2: your mind to quit, because to quit is to what 107 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 2: what you get when you quit nothing? That is a 108 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: reward for those who hang in there, who never give up, 109 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: who forge through, who see it through, who get knocked 110 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: down and get back up who gets trampled but somehow 111 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 2: gathers themselves and get back to your knees. But stay 112 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: in that place, man, don't ever give up. Don't let 113 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 2: go be encouraged. Think of all you've been through, Think 114 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: of all you come through. Think of all he's done 115 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 2: for you. Think of all the times you thought you 116 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: wasn't gonna make it, but somehow, without you ever even 117 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 2: saying thank you, he got through. He got you through it. Anyway. 118 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 2: That's that thing called grace. Now we kind of need 119 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 2: that in our life. All will all I need is 120 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: a little more grace. You can't give God no money 121 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: for grace, man. Grace is absolutely free. It's available to everybody, 122 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 2: but you can't get none if you quit. Don't give up. 123 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 2: I'll just tell you that flat out. Don't ever give up. 124 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 125 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:10,319 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, monkey trainers, elephant riders, 126 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 2: alligator wrestlers, donkey tosses, BMX, bicycle champs, whoever you are, hoppers, hotterers, shimmys, 127 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: whatever you do, Welcome to the ride. This is the 128 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Period P E R RAH I 129 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 2: O D Period dot exclamation point. Players and pimps not allowed. 130 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 2: I take that back. That is so players and pimps 131 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 2: welcome to the ride Bay. Steve Harv, Martyshow, Sheldon Strawberry 132 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 2: Collins for Reil, Mississippi, Monica Uh, junior boy and the 133 00:10:54,679 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 2: legend that is nephew Tommy Well Jr. Yeah, you know, 134 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: can I say something before you ask something? It has 135 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: been like I don't know if you've noticed, kind of 136 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 2: been like behind the scenes commenting on your questions and 137 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:15,599 Speaker 2: just with saying, you know, question some of your questions. 138 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 2: So I just wanted to bring that to your attention. 139 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 2: Watch you see here go ahead. 140 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 7: No, you know one thing about tom is you know 141 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 7: this is for the people that's listening, so we can 142 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 7: help them. You obviously don't want help. That's obviously with 143 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 7: your problems. 144 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 8: So here we go ahead. 145 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 7: Let me here we go on, So Ley talk to 146 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 7: you about mentoring. You know you got your boys camp 147 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 7: coming up? How do you even become a mentor? Can 148 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 7: everybody mentor? Because I know Tommy camp? Anybody do you 149 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 7: want to go to the camp? 150 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 2: Is? That's what this is. 151 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 9: Go to the camp. Let's go to the cancer. You 152 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 9: know they got they got, they got cots and everything. 153 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 9: You're sleeping there doing, but you're gonna get you a 154 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 9: little behind? 155 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 2: What but going in there? 156 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 8: What is it a question? I'm not listening to him. 157 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 8: I am not listening to him. 158 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: Well, every adult male can provide mentorship everyone. Okay, it's 159 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 2: it's not about fame or money or position. It's about manhood. Man. 160 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 2: We gotta teach as many of these young men in 161 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 2: our society today the principles of true manhood, what it 162 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 2: really means to be a man. To be a real man, 163 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 2: you have to respect the law. You have to honor God. 164 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 2: You have to go to work every day. You gotta 165 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 2: take care of your family. You gotta. You gotta honor women, 166 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: you got, you gotta, you gotta. If you have a child, 167 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 2: you gotta take care of your child. Man responsibility. You don't, 168 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 2: you don't. You don't get off from it. That's what 169 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 2: manhood is. We have to stop thinking manhood is being 170 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 2: a rap producer, a gold chain wharer. That ain't got 171 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. Man, bro, you gotta get 172 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: your manhood together. And we need only only can teach 173 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: that are men. Only men can teach manhood. I'm sorry 174 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 2: it be like me trying to teach womanhood to a 175 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 2: young girl. What I know about that zip? And so 176 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 2: it is with boys, it's important. We need as many 177 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 2: men as we can come and just share. Share your failures. 178 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 2: That's what they want to know. How do you fail 179 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 2: and get up and win? 180 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 9: Okay, that's what it is, all right, and take your 181 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 9: baseball cap off. 182 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 10: If you're going to be a man, be a man anyway. 183 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: We're moving on. 184 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty two minutes after we will hear 185 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 6: from the nephew as he runs that prank back right 186 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 6: after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 187 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 6: Your favorite Beet series are now on Paramount Plus. 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It is time now for the nephew to 197 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 6: run that prank back what you got for his neph. 198 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 9: This is on Orthodox methods, all right, on Authodox. That's 199 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 9: me going in there and me spending a good weekend 200 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 9: with you wife. I have a pregnant by Monday. What 201 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 9: I have a pregnant by Monday. That's all I'm saying, 202 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 9: run the prank cat. 203 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 2: Let's go. 204 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 11: Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach trying to reach brother 205 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 11: Roberts and speaking Hey, how you doing. I'm calling you 206 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 11: from the church. How you doing, brother man? I'm doing 207 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 11: super fantastic. Ind we ground is a good day. That's good, 208 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 11: that's good. Hey, hey, listen, man, we wanted to uh, 209 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 11: being one of the brothers of the church, I wanted 210 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 11: to give you a call. Man. You didn't make it 211 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 11: to day, but you and well you know, your wife 212 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 11: stood up to day and ask us to keep you 213 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 11: all in our prayers because y'all definitely trying to bring 214 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 11: a new child into the world. And she let us 215 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 11: know that, you know, she's being a little older now 216 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 11: forty one forty two, you know, she said it takes 217 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 11: a little longer to try and conceive a child and 218 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 11: you know in your earlier years. So we we definitely 219 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 11: wanted to let you know man that we we got 220 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 11: y'all in our prayers. Man. Man, you just don't know 221 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 11: how much we appreciate that. Man. Yeah, we've been trying, 222 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 11: but I know with prayers all things are possible. Yeah. Well, 223 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 11: we definitely want to definitely want to keep you all 224 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 11: in our prayers, man, and I hope that you all 225 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 11: able to conceive this child and bring, you know, bring, bring, bring, 226 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 11: bring a new new child into this world. You know 227 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 11: that the book says be fruitful and multiply. Definitely definitely. 228 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 11: Now who's this again? Brother, brother a brother also. I 229 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 11: don't know if you know me directly, but I'm brother, 230 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 11: one of the brothers of the church. Okay, okay, brother, 231 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 11: thank you not not not not not not Robert. What 232 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 11: I want to ask you, man, was have you considered 233 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 11: any any alternatives methods as far as you know, maybe 234 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 11: helping this situation? Uh, we've looked at a few what 235 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 11: what what what are you referring to as an alternative? Well, 236 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 11: I mean I think I have a good thing then 237 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 11: that might be able to help this thing speed up 238 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 11: the process, and and and and you guys will be 239 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 11: expecting in no time. Man. Man, we are definite open 240 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 11: for some things like that. What what what what you 241 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 11: got to done? I mean, uh, well what I have 242 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 11: is a little a little unorthodox, man, But I think 243 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 11: if you allow me to help you on this, man, 244 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 11: I think that you'll be definitely satisfied. And you know, man, 245 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 11: if nine months or not, you got to be at 246 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 11: the hospital wait looking for you your baby for all 247 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 11: your paper girl, you know who are clarify an orthodox? Okay, 248 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 11: see what I have in mind, man, is have you 249 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:09,959 Speaker 11: considered maybe like a surrogate father class classified? Say, I'm 250 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 11: thinking the wrong thing. I don't want I want to 251 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 11: make shit will on the same page. What do you 252 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 11: mean by Sarah the fuck? Well? What it is man 253 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 11: is you know you know, of course a mother is 254 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 11: someone that will carry a child for those that cannot 255 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 11: carry one. You know what I'm saying, right right? So 256 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 11: what what? 257 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 12: What? 258 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 2: What? 259 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 11: I've gone to the doctor and got myself checked out, man, 260 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 11: good physical and everything. I'm physically fitting everything. And you know, 261 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 11: maybe I guess the complications are coming from uh you 262 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 11: as far as the child not being you know, you're 263 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 11: not being able to conceive right now now, now, ain't 264 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 11: there ain't nothing wrong with me? Man? Okay, Now what 265 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 11: you mean like you physically fit? I mean what yeah, 266 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 11: they got to do with shared Well, see what I'm 267 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 11: saying is if well you know, if you if you 268 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 11: allow me to come over and and supply my services. 269 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 11: I mean, let's say, if you left for a weekend, man, 270 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 11: and I say it over there by the time you 271 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 11: get back there, Man, what the time with you? Is this? 272 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 12: What's going on at this church? 273 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 4: Man? 274 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 11: Am I at the road church? They say you're telling 275 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 11: me you tray? Help me understand you saying you want 276 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 11: to come over and have sex with my wife? Well, 277 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 11: I mean, I mean, don't don't look at it like that. 278 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 11: Don't look at it like that. Look at it. I'm 279 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 11: helping you. You're telling me is irectly you just ain't 280 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 11: us though. What excuse me? Okay, you want to come 281 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 11: out of sex with my wor no, no, no, I 282 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 11: want to come over and just apply my services man 283 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 11: and put you guys in a better position that you 284 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 11: will be there your family life. You understand what I'm saying. 285 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 11: You understand Where'm coming from. 286 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 12: Now, I don't. 287 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 11: Time like you tell me you want to have sex 288 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 11: with my life. 289 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:40,360 Speaker 3: Man? 290 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:41,719 Speaker 11: What the is wrong with you? 291 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 3: Oh? 292 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 11: Hold on, hold on? No, this this this brother awesome man, 293 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 11: listen see what I'm what I'm trying to do. Man, 294 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 11: I don't give up you brother? Who is brother? 295 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 4: Man? 296 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 11: I don't know you? And then you talking about the church. 297 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 11: What kind of is this? This is thousand down at 298 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 11: this unt. No, really, the church don't have nothing to 299 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 11: do with this. It's me calling you to Lindy. Will 300 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 11: you come with me? Say, I'm trying to be if 301 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 11: you allow me to be the surrogand father, I don't 302 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 11: have a pregnant bout the end of the week. Man, 303 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 11: you got me. As soon as I say I'm coming 304 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 11: to bother study Tuesday to see you, you show us 305 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 11: the Bible study? So you ok? Okay? Garanteed you want 306 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 11: to have brother? Brother White said, what amount of man? 307 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 11: You keep looking at that like that? How we gonna 308 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 11: get this? Are we gonna get past this? So we 309 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 11: can get you to this child? Man, we are gonna 310 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 11: get past here. You talked about having sex with my wife. 311 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 11: Where are your wife? Said? Brother, you ain't got no 312 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 11: way So I have a wife, Brother Robert, What I'm 313 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 11: trying to do is help you along with yours and 314 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 11: getting this child con See, that's what I'm trying to help. 315 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 11: You can't help me talking about having sex with my wife, 316 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 11: you said on unther doc, I adn't think you was 317 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 11: going out far with it. You're getting my phone number? Well, 318 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 11: you know we we have people listened at the church. 319 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 11: We have all phone numbers listened. 320 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 12: She's just mine. 321 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 11: And when I get that to you that I hope 322 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 11: to see you, cause I'm gonna punch you at hey. Look, man, 323 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 11: why don't I Why don't I speak to your wife 324 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 11: when she comes church this week and I see how 325 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 11: I don't feel sing them my wife? Hold on, I'm 326 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 11: just gonna talk to her, see how she feels about 327 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 11: maybe maybe you know using this now you can't, man, 328 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 11: don't even look in the direction. 329 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 2: Brother? 330 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 11: What boy? Man? Who want you? I need to see 331 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 11: you myself? Okay? What? What? What? What is all the anger? Though? Brother? What? What? 332 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 12: What? 333 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 11: What do you man? The angry you just sending here 334 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 11: telling me that's the script. I'm gonna come half sick 335 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 11: with your wife. Get ang. Okay, brother, I got one 336 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,159 Speaker 11: more thing I need to tell you. Get Are you 337 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 11: ready for? Can I say this, Hey, you better hundred 338 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 11: before I hang up and you say, Okay, are you listening? 339 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 11: Brother Roberson? I didn't listen. I'm tired of listen. This 340 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 11: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You 341 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 11: just got prayed by your wife. 342 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 2: Man, what's you say? 343 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 11: Hey? Man? Tell me who can't be doing? Take that? Man, 344 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 11: I'm about to have a rest. Come to tell you 345 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 11: about it goes straight plus service in the mouth. He 346 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 11: look for you. Hey, one more thing? 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Guys, and people take that take weight loss, 365 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 6: drugs or hiding it from their romantic partners. 366 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: That is all coming up. 367 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 6: We're going to talk about all of this at the 368 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 6: top of the hour because right now it is time 369 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 6: to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 370 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: This is from Shannon and New Haven. 371 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 6: Shannon writes, I found out that my dad was married 372 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 6: to another woman when he got my mom pregnant. He 373 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 6: was there for most of my childhood and eventually married 374 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 6: my mom. 375 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: So I never knew. Why would my parents keep this 376 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 1: family secret from me? Who can't tell you that? Yeah, 377 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: to tail, no baby. 378 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 2: Would keep you because you wasn't born. You was not here, lady, lady, 379 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 2: let that go. Why would they keep that from you? 380 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: Was not born yet? Yeah? So why tell you some stuff? 381 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 2: And you know a much stuff happened before I got here. 382 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: I ain't never mentioned to me, right, and you're okay? 383 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 2: I'm fine? 384 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right. 385 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 6: Moving on to Lawrence and Decatur, Lawrence writes, my girlfriend 386 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 6: has become a dark cloud, and I tried helping her 387 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 6: with her money issues and family drama, but it's starting 388 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,959 Speaker 6: to weigh me down. I want to separate myself from her, 389 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 6: but I don't want to add to her grief. How 390 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:55,880 Speaker 6: do I break up with her nicely? 391 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:57,479 Speaker 12: Now? 392 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 2: You got to add to a dog? Get out, run 393 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: ye do it all it wants dog, Just drop the 394 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 2: helmet down. Ain't no easing out. 395 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: What should he say though? 396 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 2: What just leave? 397 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: Say nothing and leave? 398 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 4: Or what? 399 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 2: Hey? Listen? 400 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 401 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 2: Normally baby, listen, you know, normally people say it's not you, 402 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 2: it's me. In this case, is you. 403 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 11: Not me? 404 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: I'm out. 405 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 2: It ain't got nothing to do with me. I'm absolutely fine. 406 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 2: What fear of me becoming you is what's driving me crazy? 407 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 2: I got to go for peace of mind. 408 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, he said, it's dry. It's starting to weigh 409 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 6: him down, you know, stressing him out? Mm hm okay, all. 410 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:47,159 Speaker 1: Right, moving on that. 411 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 2: If if she's stressing you out, now, yeah, getting married 412 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 2: and watch what happened? Man? Run? 413 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 4: Run? 414 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: Okay? 415 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:57,919 Speaker 9: All right? 416 00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:58,239 Speaker 2: Uh? 417 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,720 Speaker 6: Moving on to CHERI in South Bend, Terese writes, I 418 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 6: had sex with a coworker and thought we were headed 419 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 6: toward a relationship. 420 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 1: But he's acting funny at work now. 421 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 6: He said he wants to keep things professional, but I 422 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 6: think it was just to hit it and quit it 423 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 6: for him. 424 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: Did the sex complicate things? 425 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 2: No, it's not. The sex ended things. 426 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 11: Yeah. 427 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, he did exactly what he wanted to do. 428 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, he got it, And now let's keep it professional. 429 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 2: You all over there at your desk with both your 430 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 2: both your hands on your face, looking at him, throwing 431 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 2: up little hard signs with your hands, hat, slipping notes 432 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 2: and stuff. Professional. No, we'll eat together. People will see us. Wow. 433 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 2: And you're not supposed to fragnize at work anyway, And 434 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 2: so I think keeping a professional is the best way 435 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 2: to do it, because you're not supposed to fragnize at work. 436 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 2: Can't make an eye contact him? Why she keep doing that? 437 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 2: Why looking over here? 438 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:04,119 Speaker 1: What should she? 439 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 6: I mean though, I mean this is a lesson learned 440 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 6: for her. I mean, let's let's at least try don't 441 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 6: do that at work, like you said. 442 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: Well, here's the deal. You slept with a coworker with 443 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 2: no no, with no end, with no means to an end. 444 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 2: You know you didn't. You didn't have a plan. You 445 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 2: just did it. 446 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: She aship. 447 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, once again she thought she thought you did something 448 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 2: without a plan. Okay, what did he tell you? This 449 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: was going? Man, I've just I've been looking for somebody 450 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 2: like you. You're the person I've been wanting you. You 451 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 2: got no confirmation of anything, and so you slept with 452 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 2: this guy. And now you want to create a plan 453 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 2: as you go, and you not in his plans. 454 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: So it's best for her to just let that go. 455 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 12: Move on. 456 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, a homework? 457 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 8: What what time? 458 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 11: Yeah? 459 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: I don't think he. 460 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 13: Said another worker And yes he meant it. He didn't 461 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 13: mean for you to hear it, right, better understanding? Yeah, yeah, 462 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 13: all right, yeah another coworker. He just said it like, yeah, no, 463 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,159 Speaker 13: didn't you he was looking down writ and saw me. 464 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 13: You didn't find another, right? 465 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 1: Didn't you just hear the celo say keep a professional? 466 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: It is nothing wrong with getting with a coworker work. 467 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: Oh oh, that's right. 468 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 4: We forgot. 469 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 1: Someone married her co worker? 470 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 11: All right? 471 00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 6: Last one, Steve, last one, Caleb and right I took 472 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 6: our kids to a seven year old's birthday party and 473 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 6: it was a pool party. My my wife showed up 474 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 6: later in a red two piece swimsuit. 475 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not red though. 476 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 6: I told her it was inappropriate, and she said she 477 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 6: believes in body positivity. 478 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: How do I encourage her to dress appropriately? 479 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: She's at the pool party, y'all. 480 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 1: Nothing in appropriate about that, right, It wasn't a thong though. 481 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 2: She was at that the kids not two things could 482 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 2: have happened. 483 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 11: Let's go. 484 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 2: I gotta let you know. Two things could have happened 485 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 2: at this pool part. 486 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 4: Uh huh. 487 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 2: She believes in body positivity, that's what she said. Here's 488 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 2: a part she could be banging. Boy. 489 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm telling. 490 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 2: Where all the kids are going. 491 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: I want her to be my mama because why else 492 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: would he be mad? 493 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 5: Right? 494 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 2: And the other parents is out there because the other 495 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 2: mothers is going. What would she wearing? 496 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:13,959 Speaker 1: How did she come here? 497 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 2: In front of the water? She and the water helping 498 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 2: with the baby, come on splashing, you know, and you 499 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 2: know once you get wet, Once wet, I don't care, 500 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 2: I don't care who you are. You immediately look seventy 501 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 2: five percent better. 502 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 4: You look. 503 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she got to come about the water. 504 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 2: Uh huh. Now that could be one scenario. Here's the 505 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 2: other scenario. She a big girl and decided today was 506 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: today she was going to do body positives, and her 507 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 2: husband was going, hey, there's nothing in your suit where 508 00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 2: it's supposed to. 509 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: Be, but don't body shamer though, that's what she's saying. 510 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying she came out here and said 511 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 2: the body positivity she got, she got stuff coming out 512 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 2: her swim suit where it ain't supposed to come out, 513 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 2: you know when you buy the When the lady were 514 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 2: the uh that where the bra is connected to the 515 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 2: panties the bikini. But they had that little metal hooping 516 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 2: when your meat is coming out them hoop holes. All right, 517 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 2: thank you, Celo. Coming up next, we'll have some entertainment 518 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 2: for you right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Well, 519 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 2: you guys have heard of doom scrolling, right it is. 520 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 2: It is when you just lie around scrolling on your phone, 521 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 2: just for hours at a time. Well, now, studies show 522 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 2: that doom scrolling directly causes severe mental and physical stress 523 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: by keeping your body's nervous system trapped in a continuous 524 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 2: active threat response loop. Binging on distressing online information disrupts 525 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 2: your rest cycle. It can elevate your blood pressure, and 526 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 2: it can cause headaches and muscle tension as well as 527 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 2: mental exhaustion. 528 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 1: So here's a question for you, guys. 529 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 6: Do you have any symptoms when you're when you're constantly scrolling? 530 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: Do you still huh your eyes? 531 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 532 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 8: I can't see knowing? 533 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 1: Uh huh? 534 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 11: You bother? 535 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: Your eyes? 536 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 3: Scroll like I scroll all night two three, and then 537 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 3: we have to be at work so early. 538 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: Now I'm exhausted. Right now, it's time to go to bed. 539 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 11: Yeah. 540 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: You have to be scrolling and then look up and 541 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: can't see nothing. 542 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 1: It's blurry. 543 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 2: Wow, put this phone down. 544 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you gotta put it down. Yeah, that's true. 545 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: That story true facts. 546 00:31:56,080 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 6: Doom scrolling, All right, that's what it's called. Okay, moving on, 547 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 6: College students are struggling to read. 548 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know this. 549 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 6: There are videos and social media to prove it. A 550 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 6: Pepperdine University professor studied this phenomenon, and research shows that 551 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 6: gen Z grads are showing up to college without reading 552 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 6: skills that that used to be expected. Okay, it's worse 553 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 6: than struggling with big novels. Some students are having trouble 554 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 6: reading simple sentences. This reflects a broader trend, and studies 555 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 6: revealed that almost half of Americans didn't read a single 556 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 6: book last year, and overall reading has dropped forty percent 557 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 6: in the past decade. 558 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: Why because we're there and. 559 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 2: In grade school we absolutely did. Yeah, oh yeah, no, no, 560 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: see they're tiktoking now. 561 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're on their red Yeah nope, they. 562 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 2: Got verbal reading and all like that. They don't they 563 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 2: don't do that. Man, Yeah, they can't write. This is 564 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 2: a generation of content creator. Yeah, I know. 565 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 4: They have to. 566 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 3: We had to teach them how to write persons. Yeah, 567 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 3: they don't know how to write person Yeah. 568 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 2: No, they don't do that. They type, They text and 569 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 2: type everything. Yes, yes, correct, everything, All their papers is 570 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 2: turned in on a computer. They don't know how to 571 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 2: write everything. My kids when they write, man, they look 572 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 2: like they looked like a four year old wrote what's 573 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 2: going on with your My daughter actually said to me, Dad, 574 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:44,320 Speaker 2: your handwriting is beautiful. That's all we did. You want 575 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 2: to see so ugly? Let me text you so what 576 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 2: I've fully gotten? 577 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 11: What? 578 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: Go ahead? Go ahead? 579 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 2: In trouble And he had to write a hundred times 580 00:33:58,680 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 2: on the truck board. 581 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 1: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I will not talk. 582 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 1: I used to have to write I. 583 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 2: Will not talk. 584 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 1: I will not talk. I will not talk. 585 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 2: You know talk. Texting has saved me because I could 586 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,919 Speaker 2: just press the little microphone and talk into whom. 587 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 1: But oh yeah, you go. 588 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 2: The problem with that, I can't talk good. 589 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: Right there? 590 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 2: You just square I can't talk whoever? That whoever that 591 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 2: white lady is that tech that's typing. I know she'd be. 592 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 1: Goings struggling one word. She gives up, like I give up. 593 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, So, I mean we each generation has their struggles. 594 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 6: But I mean you got to know how to read, though. 595 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 6: I don't want you struggling to read that. That's kind 596 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 6: of a big one right there. Yeah, that's a big. 597 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 9: We read Tom saw you white dude running around with 598 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 9: the black dude, remember that? 599 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:56,479 Speaker 4: Yeah? 600 00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:57,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. 601 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 6: So when's the last time you guys have actually picked 602 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,879 Speaker 6: up a book and read a book from cover to cover. 603 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 6: That's been a long time too, you know, that's been 604 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 6: a long time. 605 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 606 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: On vacation, I like to read, yeah, the summer novels 607 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, vacation. You know you said not by 608 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 1: the pool when you get your book or whatever. Why 609 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: are you making that face? What's wrong? I'm just saying 610 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: if you are chilling. 611 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 2: Smoke all right. 612 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,239 Speaker 6: Finally, guys, people are taking g l P one weight 613 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 6: loss drugs like Ozimbic and wagobi. Uh, they're actually hiding 614 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,799 Speaker 6: it from their partners and secretly losing unwanted weight. It's 615 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,920 Speaker 6: mostly women hiding it from their partners for fear of judgment. 616 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 6: They don't want to be judged, they don't want to 617 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:02,440 Speaker 6: be lectured about it, okay, or their their partner just 618 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,320 Speaker 6: not understanding why they're using medication in the first place. 619 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 6: For some their partners have already expressed concerns about side 620 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,800 Speaker 6: effects or didn't support the idea, so it just feels 621 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 6: easier just to keep it quiet. You know, you don't 622 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 6: want to tell anybody. 623 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 2: So they're waking up. 624 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you're going to notice it along the way, 625 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 6: of course, but they're not going to tell you because 626 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 6: they don't want to hear it. 627 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: Period. 628 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,800 Speaker 2: Well, if you get fined, I don't care how you 629 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 2: do it. 630 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:31,400 Speaker 8: That's all waiting on. 631 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 2: Thank you waiting on that. 632 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 1: That's your response, thank you? 633 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:39,399 Speaker 11: Yeah? 634 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 6: So can you can your partners hide that from you 635 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 6: and you not notice it or question no, No, we 636 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 6: are going to be a one side. I wake up 637 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 6: and something look like something happened to you. 638 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: You go to bed overweight and you wake up your thing? 639 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,719 Speaker 2: Now you will sign eight when we went to be 640 00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 2: and how has you a phone? 641 00:36:58,920 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 11: Now? 642 00:36:59,200 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 2: Pretty? 643 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,319 Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be wonderful though? 644 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 645 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:10,320 Speaker 1: Thank you lord. All right, guys, thank you. 646 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,280 Speaker 6: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, Pastor Jamal 647 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:17,919 Speaker 6: Bryant has hinted about a new potential boycott, this time 648 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 6: of Asian owned businesses. We'll talk about it right after this. 649 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Think about 650 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 6: the people who mean the most to you. Giving them 651 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 6: valuable protection is a great gift you can offer, and 652 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,640 Speaker 6: Globe Life Insurance can make it easy. With Globe Life coverage, 653 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 6: there's no medical exam, just a simple application. Take this 654 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 6: step for the people you love. Call Globe Life at 655 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 6: one eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred, or 656 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 6: visit globelifradio dot com. That's one eight hundred two five 657 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,959 Speaker 6: one fifty four hundred or Globelife radio dot com. Well, guys, 658 00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 6: Pastor Jamal Bryant is at it again. He hasted at 659 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 6: a potential boycott of Asian owned businesses, including Chinese takeout restaurants, 660 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 6: beauty supply stores, and nail salons. This is all following 661 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:14,280 Speaker 6: a viral controversial video of an Asian man daring black 662 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 6: Americans to boycott Asian businesses now. In the video, he 663 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:22,960 Speaker 6: mocked the black community and said they Asian businesses do 664 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 6: not need black money to survive. He noted that most 665 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,759 Speaker 6: of the clothes we wear and products we use are 666 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:34,280 Speaker 6: made by Asians and come from Asia. In response, Doctor 667 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 6: Bryant shared the clip on his social media platforms with 668 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 6: the caption quote, well you heard it from them. They 669 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,919 Speaker 6: said they don't need our money and that we can't 670 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 6: survive without them. You want to test his theory? 671 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 11: Yeah? 672 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 1: Quote yeah. 673 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,359 Speaker 2: Let me say this. I don't see. First of all, 674 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 2: Asians are not black people's problem, and black people are 675 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:05,399 Speaker 2: not the Asians problem, like Carla was talking about off air. See, 676 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 2: all of these minority groups get to come here and 677 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 2: benefit off the blacks, off the backs of what blacks 678 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 2: have done. We built this country. We built this country. 679 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 2: We sat in the front of the bus when we 680 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 2: wasn't supposed to. We set at the lunch counters. When 681 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 2: they told us not to, we marched on Washington. We 682 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,840 Speaker 2: went across the bridge and Selm. We circle the DOJ Center. 683 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 2: We fought and bled for voting rights acts for people 684 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,320 Speaker 2: like that. Then you come here and you get to 685 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 2: benefit from all the labor that black people put in. 686 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 2: You get to benefit from that. But if we're not careful, 687 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 2: if we're not careful, we will allow the divide and 688 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 2: conquer to win. Because I'm telling you right now, in 689 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 2: this country, Asians are not the black people's problem. Our 690 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 2: problem starts up at the top of that administration. Don't 691 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 2: get this thing twisted. I don't give it what you 692 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 2: buy at what store. We got a bigger problem with 693 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:15,759 Speaker 2: an administration that's taking dee I, with the administration that's 694 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 2: trying to strip and and and and read this country 695 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 2: of a medicaid, of of of of all these other 696 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 2: benefits the destroyed d and I. They're taking black history 697 00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 2: out of schools. We got a bigger problem. I don't 698 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 2: give it where you buy your hair, your sneakers, your shoes. 699 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 2: I don't care. We are not and should not be 700 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 2: award with the Asian community and the Asian community should 701 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 2: not be award with the black people. But if everybody 702 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:51,759 Speaker 2: understood how they all benefit from the labor, the protests 703 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:53,880 Speaker 2: and the hardships of black people who were in this 704 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 2: country before any of y'all got over here, then you 705 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 2: would understand. And if we stay together, we can win. 706 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:06,440 Speaker 2: The real enemy is in the system. That's all. 707 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, well yeah say, and we're 708 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: gonna switch gears. 709 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 2: Uh. 710 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,120 Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll 711 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 6: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show with Roscoe 712 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:23,279 Speaker 6: Wallace right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 713 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 6: All right, Carla, he is here, your boy Roscoe into 714 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:31,800 Speaker 6: the building. 715 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,480 Speaker 1: Oh baby, all baby, all good in the neighborhood. 716 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 2: He ain't gotta get ready to day may We're going over. 717 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 1: Everybody'll hey, Roscoe's up? 718 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,439 Speaker 4: What's up with old baby girl? 719 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:51,759 Speaker 14: Hey? 720 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 1: Roscoe? 721 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 2: Hey? Hey, shall we're going on? I heard you buy 722 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 2: Sam now you day right? What I heard? 723 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 11: You? 724 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:11,000 Speaker 1: Stick to the script, Roscoe? You here is the script. 725 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,720 Speaker 2: I'm a writer. Whn script? 726 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:16,879 Speaker 4: He wrote? Boy? 727 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,919 Speaker 2: I believe he where you got going on? They would 728 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 2: what happened? 729 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 1: Well, I got a little bit of everything. 730 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:27,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna sprinkle it around all right, tomorrow Nicks versus 731 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 3: the Spurs. It's a Saturday game in San Antonio. Would 732 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 3: you go and sing the national anthem? Have you ever 733 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 3: been invited to do that in the NBA game or 734 00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 3: at the finals or anything. 735 00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,800 Speaker 2: No, I don't really food that national anthem? Oh you 736 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,800 Speaker 2: don't go that ain't No, No, that ain't that's so 737 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 2: you know, I don't know white people saying everything. 738 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 4: That ain't your jam. 739 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 2: That's not what you know. They ain't want any of 740 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,719 Speaker 2: the jam I wrote. I would have never wrote that. 741 00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,239 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we can ut. 742 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 2: Ain't that right there? I ain't know when you asked me, 743 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,280 Speaker 2: I ain't coming down there. I ain't singing San Antonio 744 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,040 Speaker 2: old saying New York. I ain't gonna sing no, well, 745 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 2: not no national anthem, not the anthorm. I don't care about. 746 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 1: Okay, would you perform halftime? Cardi B did the other 747 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 1: day in New York? Don't I don't food with Uh? 748 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 2: You know rap. I don't do too much rap. You know, 749 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 2: they just stole all the stuff. Uh, you know I 750 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 2: would know only song I would do it. Uh, halftime 751 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:30,360 Speaker 2: is if this world was mine, you know, if this 752 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:35,880 Speaker 2: world was mine at the game, at the the place, 753 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 2: your fee ye everything that I Oh, You've been so 754 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:51,000 Speaker 2: good to me. That's what I do. Halftime, you know whatever. 755 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 1: Not the anthem though, Okay, wait, excuse me one second, Carl, 756 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,280 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Can you say anthem for me? Roscoe? 757 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 2: Please? Anthem National anthem? 758 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:12,800 Speaker 3: God an all right, okay, Shirley. So he's always teasing, 759 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 3: kind of blurting with you a little bit. If you 760 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 3: were trying to take Shirley out. If you want to 761 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,240 Speaker 3: take Shirley out on a date, what song? 762 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:29,960 Speaker 2: Can I take you out to nine to have your 763 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 2: home before it's dark? Possibly? Can I take you out 764 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 2: to night? That's that's all I mean trying to do. 765 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 2: If you're trying to get a holler at him, you know, 766 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,239 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I mean, I mean, I 767 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 2: mean look at me, you know, everything on me, everywhere. 768 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:52,360 Speaker 6: Everywhere. 769 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 2: If you just got the Cadillact out the shop. 770 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:05,240 Speaker 1: That was very cute. All right. So June, Roscoe is black. 771 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 2: Music month, black music all all all rock O Wallace 772 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:10,759 Speaker 2: move either one? 773 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 3: Oh okay, then let it be your month then music. Yes, 774 00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 3: So since it's your month, what song would you like 775 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 3: to sing for us right now to celebrate your month. 776 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,960 Speaker 2: Everything you wrote, everything that's over anything, or you just 777 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 2: give me a song you want to know the history 778 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 2: of that's what we do. Let's do black history mode. 779 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 2: So you name the songs. I'll tell you how it 780 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:31,359 Speaker 2: comes back. 781 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 8: Black Music Month. 782 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 3: All right, give me a little Stevie Wonder, Stevie Wonder, 783 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:39,799 Speaker 3: Ribbon in the sky. 784 00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:58,960 Speaker 2: Or the sky for yeah, Ribbon in the sky? I 785 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 2: wrote that for Steve. You want a granddaddy? 786 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,320 Speaker 4: Oh what was this? 787 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:03,840 Speaker 1: Really? 788 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 2: Wonder? Breathe? 789 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. 790 00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:16,480 Speaker 6: Thank you, Roscoe. Coming up next, pe call right after this. 791 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:27,400 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up 792 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 6: at the top of the hour. It is my Strawberry 793 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 6: letter for today and the subject is I love him. 794 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,319 Speaker 1: But dot dot dot. We'll get into that find out 795 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 1: what that's all about in just a few because right 796 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 1: now you hear him. 797 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:45,440 Speaker 6: The nephew is here with today's prank phone call Nephew, 798 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,280 Speaker 6: what we're singing about? 799 00:46:47,400 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 2: What is show? Guess you're so spiritual? Period? 800 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 11: I just. 801 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:15,800 Speaker 2: Going down to had the bird that hurts you gotta go, 802 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 2: You gotta go deep. When you're going to have y'all 803 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 2: ever send your clothes out to a washing fold. You've 804 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 2: never done that. 805 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, when we're on the road, you. 806 00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 9: Do stuff like that if you want to. Y'all on 807 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 9: the road for a long period of times. You back 808 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 9: when plays, Yeah, you'll send your clothes out to a 809 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,439 Speaker 9: washing foe. Well, I work at the washing foe. 810 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. 811 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,359 Speaker 9: And as a gentleman that's been bringing his clothes, it's 812 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 9: about time we get him a. 813 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 6: Call yet to right, what's so strange about that? 814 00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,440 Speaker 9: That's what that exactly exactly? So heay, attention, here we 815 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:03,320 Speaker 9: go washing foe. Hello, I'm trying to reach sam or Sammy. 816 00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 12: I'm not ye Sammy, This Sammy? 817 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:06,840 Speaker 11: What's up? 818 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 2: Hey Sammy? How are you? 819 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 9: This is uh, this is Kevin. I'm the uh the 820 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 9: manager over here at Fresh and Clean Washing Fold. 821 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:14,680 Speaker 12: Yeah, well, what's going on? 822 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 15: OAV? 823 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,840 Speaker 2: You bring your clothes here pretty much on a on 824 00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,879 Speaker 2: a weekly basis? Is that correct? Yeah? 825 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 12: I stopped probably once a week. 826 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 9: Okay, And you're bringing you I mean you're pretty much 827 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 9: bringing a full load of clothes pretty much once a week. 828 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:28,680 Speaker 12: Right, Yeah, I just bring whatever I got. 829 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 9: Okay, Well, we got a bit of a problem talking 830 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 9: to my my employees here that have been you know. 831 00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 12: What's going on? I mean you not get your money 832 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:38,319 Speaker 12: or something. 833 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,520 Speaker 9: Oh no, no, no, you you're we have you on file. 834 00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 9: I mean your your your card goes through every week 835 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 9: when you when you bring your things. So no, that's 836 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:46,799 Speaker 9: that's not the issue at all. 837 00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,800 Speaker 12: I'll write them, what kind of problem could we have? 838 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,800 Speaker 9: Well, the ladies that are washing the clothes are complaining 839 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 9: that when you bring your load in. I mean, I 840 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:56,879 Speaker 9: don't know how to really tell you this, but you're 841 00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 9: they're saying that your underwear is too. 842 00:48:58,640 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 2: Dirty they don't want to wash it. 843 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 12: You know you playing right? 844 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 2: No, I'm dead serious. 845 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 12: What are you talking about? My underwear is dirty? I'm 846 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 12: not any more dirty than anybody else, sir. 847 00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:12,880 Speaker 9: All I can tell you is we watch quite a 848 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 9: few people's clothes on daily. 849 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,720 Speaker 2: Basis, weekly basis. 850 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 9: For my employees to complain about your load, then I 851 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:21,240 Speaker 9: have to give you a call. 852 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:22,000 Speaker 2: And talk to you about it. 853 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,960 Speaker 12: My man, I feel like you're on my phone. 854 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 2: No, that's not what this is, bro. This is actually 855 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,800 Speaker 2: a call. And you know we have we have two options. 856 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,040 Speaker 12: Are you out there calling everybody else? 857 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 2: No, I don't have it. I haven't had a complaint. 858 00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 12: I know there's more dirty people than me going in 859 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:39,839 Speaker 12: your spot because I see them there. 860 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,279 Speaker 9: Okay, here's a deal. We have two options here. You 861 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,400 Speaker 9: can scrub your underwear before you bring it in. 862 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:51,040 Speaker 12: First off, you over here raising your voice, Now, what 863 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:52,720 Speaker 12: are you talking about? Scrub my underwear? 864 00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 11: We clean? 865 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:56,120 Speaker 12: Man, I'm clean. I bring my sin, I drop it off, 866 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 12: I pick it up. 867 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,879 Speaker 9: Okay, so here's the problem once again, I'll start this off. 868 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,279 Speaker 9: You have two options, sir. You can bring in your 869 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 9: stuff scrubbed. Okay, when and when my ladies take a 870 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,920 Speaker 9: look at it, if they're comfortable with cleaning it, so 871 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,480 Speaker 9: be it. Or you know, we might not be able 872 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 9: to accept your your clothes anymore. 873 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,359 Speaker 12: Man, I don't even got to go up there anymore. Then, 874 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,479 Speaker 12: if you if you really playing around on my phone 875 00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 12: like this, I even got to go up in anymore. 876 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,759 Speaker 2: Let me talk to your manager, man, I am the manager, Sir, 877 00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 2: I'm Kevin. 878 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:26,560 Speaker 12: You don't sound like the manager. 879 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 11: How are you? 880 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:28,680 Speaker 12: What? 881 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,319 Speaker 2: What does a manager sound like? Then, Sammy, you know. 882 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,319 Speaker 12: Who owned the building. Let me talk to him. 883 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 9: Okay, here's out here right now. I'm the manager and 884 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,240 Speaker 9: I'm the one taking care of this problem. My ladies 885 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,759 Speaker 9: have a problem with washing your underwear, and I'm calling 886 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,120 Speaker 9: you to let you know there's a problem. 887 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:43,880 Speaker 2: I'm letting you know. 888 00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 9: The way to rectify the problem is you can scrub 889 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:47,960 Speaker 9: them before you bring them in and then we. 890 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,160 Speaker 2: Will wash them. If you do not want to do that, 891 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 2: we will not be allowed. 892 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,960 Speaker 12: To take You ain't got to rectify. You just need 893 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,040 Speaker 12: to quit calling my phone on this boot. I ain't 894 00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:57,640 Speaker 12: gonna go up there no more. Then, that's fine. I 895 00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,799 Speaker 12: ain't got to come through your spot, that's fine. 896 00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,880 Speaker 2: Do you know how dirty how funky your clothes got 897 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:03,120 Speaker 2: to be? 898 00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 9: Man? 899 00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,400 Speaker 2: For my for my people to be telling me they 900 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 2: don't want to wash them the morning, you're not how funky? 901 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 2: That's got the beat? 902 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:09,480 Speaker 11: Sammy man? 903 00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 12: Who your people? Who are your ladies? Man? I go 904 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 12: up in there. I ain't never had a problem with they. 905 00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:16,840 Speaker 12: You know what, I ain't never even seen yourself? And 906 00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,759 Speaker 12: this mother? What if you being at there now? It 907 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 12: looks like I got a problem with Kevin. Who the 908 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:22,520 Speaker 12: is Kevin? 909 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:22,719 Speaker 11: Man? 910 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,399 Speaker 12: You say you the manager? You ain't never been there. 911 00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm just not here when you're here? 912 00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,800 Speaker 12: Are you in the back washing those draws? What the 913 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:30,960 Speaker 12: going on with you? Man? 914 00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,120 Speaker 9: I'm not in I'm not in the back washing, but 915 00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,800 Speaker 9: I am. I am here periodically when i need to be. 916 00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 9: Don't worry about when I'm at man. 917 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,600 Speaker 12: I ain't never seen your I ain't never had a 918 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:40,399 Speaker 12: problem with your lady. 919 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 9: Hey, well, don't worry about when I'm at work. Worry 920 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,720 Speaker 9: about how to scrub your underwear. That's what you worry about. 921 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:47,839 Speaker 2: Man. 922 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:50,600 Speaker 12: I'm done with you, bro. What's the strew on my phone? 923 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 12: Doing this for everybody at them washing Poe? 924 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:54,239 Speaker 11: Bro? 925 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:55,320 Speaker 2: You know what? You know what. 926 00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:57,480 Speaker 9: I'm trying to be as professional as I can. But 927 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 9: the way that you're talking to me, you can wash 928 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:01,400 Speaker 9: your close your own self, then. 929 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:02,320 Speaker 2: That's what you can do. 930 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 12: That's fun, man, And you could keep on managing the 931 00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,439 Speaker 12: god sqaundering. Man, what are you doing with your life? 932 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 9: Okay, well, do whatever you're doing with your life, But 933 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,240 Speaker 9: what do the world of favor and clean your draws? 934 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 11: Bro? 935 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,239 Speaker 12: I'm gonna come through and wash your You keep talking 936 00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:18,759 Speaker 12: around on my phone. 937 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 9: Hey man, how you want to do this? Here's what 938 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,240 Speaker 9: I'm gonna do. I'm just letting you know I'm gonna 939 00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 9: double charge your credit card for the amount of work 940 00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:27,360 Speaker 9: that my people had to do. 941 00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:31,600 Speaker 12: My clot I'm putting stop payment on my so if 942 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 12: that goes through and you're in, we're gonna have mo problem. 943 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 9: Well, I don't know how you're gonna put a stop 944 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,439 Speaker 9: to it When I'm running your card right now, there's 945 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:39,680 Speaker 9: nothing you can freaking do. 946 00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:42,480 Speaker 12: Okay, Okay, that's that's fine. I'm gonna I'm gonna show 947 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,280 Speaker 12: up with the fresh and clean there. You're a manager, 948 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,120 Speaker 12: you should be there fifty hours a week. Then I'm 949 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:47,360 Speaker 12: gonna come meet your Kevin. 950 00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,920 Speaker 9: Okay, well, that's that's fine with me. You know what, 951 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 9: I don't understand. Why can't you just say, you know what, 952 00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,800 Speaker 9: let me do a better job at cleaning my underwear? 953 00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:55,360 Speaker 2: How about that? 954 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,200 Speaker 12: I know, I know your life ain't that good. I 955 00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:02,279 Speaker 12: know you over there managing and now he's getting bored 956 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,840 Speaker 12: of working. But don't be calling my phone playing around 957 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,040 Speaker 12: and this because I know you ain't doing this nobody else. 958 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,600 Speaker 9: I'm exactly doing this or something. I'm not doing this 959 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,080 Speaker 9: to anybody else. I don't have to do it anybody 960 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:12,759 Speaker 9: else because nobody's bringing their clothes in like this. 961 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,959 Speaker 12: Bro, I've been up there. Your employees are more dirty 962 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:16,239 Speaker 12: than my. 963 00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:20,719 Speaker 9: Well, Sammy, evidently not. Evidently not your clothes. Why are 964 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 9: my employees complaining about you? 965 00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:25,759 Speaker 12: I don't know. I want your employees complaining about your too. 966 00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:29,839 Speaker 9: They're not complaining about my underwear, Sammy, you're the dirty guy. 967 00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:30,719 Speaker 11: Man. 968 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,040 Speaker 12: You know what I'm done with your You got any 969 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:34,319 Speaker 12: other you want to talk about? 970 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,160 Speaker 2: We can talk about Carlton. 971 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,520 Speaker 12: What do you just Carlton? How do you know Carlton? 972 00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 12: I know he doesn't bring it stuff there. 973 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:43,880 Speaker 2: Oh, you want to talk about your brother Carlton? You 974 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 2: want to talk about him? 975 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,920 Speaker 12: My brother Carlton. You know if he bringing it something? 976 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,760 Speaker 12: He just started. So, yeah, what we're gonna talk about Carlton? 977 00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 12: What Carlton doing? 978 00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:53,839 Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna tell you what Carlton doing. 979 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 9: Carlton has been calling me, nephew Tommy from the Steve 980 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,560 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show to prank phone call you, Sammy d 981 00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 9: You just got brank, baby, You just got branked by 982 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 9: your brother Carlton and the nephew. 983 00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:10,160 Speaker 14: Hey, man, you you ain't baby told me about the 984 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:17,760 Speaker 14: underwear broed. 985 00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 2: We need a little washing scrub, baby, little washing scrub man. 986 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:26,439 Speaker 12: You you you're good? 987 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:27,319 Speaker 2: You all right, man. 988 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,759 Speaker 9: Nobody's nobody. Your underwear is clean, Sammy, your underwear is clean. 989 00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:32,799 Speaker 9: Keep dropping them off at the washing pold. Don't quit, 990 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:34,480 Speaker 9: don't quit, take your clothes up there. 991 00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,719 Speaker 12: I'm good man. I don't know about Carlton as it is, 992 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:38,279 Speaker 12: but I'm good. 993 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:41,279 Speaker 9: I ain't Sammy d You gotta tell me twenty twenty. Baby, 994 00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,920 Speaker 9: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio. 995 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:47,560 Speaker 12: Show in the land, The Steve Harvey Show, My nephew, Tommy, 996 00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 12: you clean baby. 997 00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:52,760 Speaker 2: Little washing scrub, washing scrub. 998 00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:56,319 Speaker 4: See. 999 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 2: You know what some people got You don't wash your 1000 00:54:58,160 --> 00:54:59,799 Speaker 2: under clothes at home. You know what I'm saying. 1001 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 9: Everything I ain't meant to be dropped off at the 1002 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:04,000 Speaker 9: Washington's na. 1003 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pretty gross uh prink Aul. 1004 00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,319 Speaker 9: Hey, we don't no, no, no, no, no, we don't 1005 00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:17,320 Speaker 9: prank it up in here, Frank, we just did this. 1006 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 9: This is a spranking is a safe space. 1007 00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:28,560 Speaker 2: You don't. We don't do anything save space. 1008 00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:35,000 Speaker 1: Okay, stupid space. We know that, all right. Strawberry letter 1009 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,040 Speaker 1: coming up next. Thank you, nephew. I love him. But 1010 00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,480 Speaker 1: that that is the subject right after this. 1011 00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:46,000 Speaker 6: Your favorite B E T series are now on Paramount 1012 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 6: Plus in Deerra from Detroit, an overworked teacher finds herself 1013 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,160 Speaker 6: drawn into a cold case. Catch up before the new 1014 00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 6: season premieres July twenty ninth. Then and Ruthless, a woman 1015 00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:00,799 Speaker 6: works to free herself from a religious cult. Watch now 1016 00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 6: before the new season arrives June thirtieth. 1017 00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:03,800 Speaker 1: Plus. 1018 00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:07,960 Speaker 6: Eva Marcil returns as Madam, a woman who fights to 1019 00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,560 Speaker 6: retain control of her exotic male dancers in the final 1020 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,880 Speaker 6: season of All the Queen's Men, Now streaming at to 1021 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:19,400 Speaker 6: Paramount plus dot com. To get started, you're listening Steve 1022 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 6: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 1023 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,879 Speaker 6: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, 1024 00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:34,360 Speaker 6: parenting and more, please submit your Strawberry letters. Is Steve 1025 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:38,640 Speaker 6: Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We 1026 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,040 Speaker 6: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 1027 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 6: like we're going to read this one right here, right 1028 00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:43,760 Speaker 6: now today. 1029 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 1: You never know it could be yours. 1030 00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,960 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1031 00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:48,759 Speaker 2: We got it for you. 1032 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 4: Here. 1033 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 2: It is Strawberry Letter. 1034 00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:56,360 Speaker 6: Subject I love him but dot dot dot Dear Stephen Shirley, 1035 00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,399 Speaker 6: I'm a thirty year old professional woman dating a man 1036 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:02,200 Speaker 6: that just got a divorce. I met him while he 1037 00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 6: was still married, but we didn't go out until he 1038 00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:08,000 Speaker 6: moved out of his home. He was still married but 1039 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 6: legally separated. On our first date, his wife followed him 1040 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,600 Speaker 6: and she made a big scene in public, calling me 1041 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:19,880 Speaker 6: all kinds of names. He cursed her out so badly 1042 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 6: that I was ashamed for her and scared of him. 1043 00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 6: I knew in the back of my mind that she 1044 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,800 Speaker 6: would be a problem and he might one day curse 1045 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,560 Speaker 6: me out like that if he got mad enough at me, 1046 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:32,760 Speaker 6: but I kept on dating him. 1047 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,320 Speaker 1: When he got a divorce, he opened up. 1048 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:38,120 Speaker 6: About how he cheated on his wife twice and she 1049 00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:42,240 Speaker 6: caught him both times. He told me that he'd gotten 1050 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 6: that out of his system, and since he has a 1051 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 6: good woman in parentheses me, he didn't have a reason 1052 00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:54,520 Speaker 6: to cheat. He's a great lover and provider, and he's cultured. 1053 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,800 Speaker 6: He asked me to marry him on a Sunday in 1054 00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 6: front of my mother, and I said yes. By that Wednesday, 1055 00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:04,920 Speaker 6: I found out he might have another woman that he 1056 00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 6: was sleeping with, and she said he told her he 1057 00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 6: wants a future with her. I told her that I'm 1058 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:14,000 Speaker 6: engaged to him, and she was surprised. I called him 1059 00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 6: at work and he said he wanted to talk face 1060 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:19,920 Speaker 6: to face. So he picked me up from work and 1061 00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 6: we drove an hour to the lake and he had 1062 00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 6: snacks and. 1063 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,240 Speaker 1: Wine in the car. He told me that the lady 1064 00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 1: was lying and he thought I was smarter than that. 1065 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,200 Speaker 6: We made love on a blanket by the lake, and 1066 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:36,080 Speaker 6: my heart said that this was my husband. It was 1067 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:40,560 Speaker 6: the most romantic day ever. My heart flutters around him. 1068 00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,240 Speaker 6: But I don't think I know him well enough to 1069 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 6: marry him. Our wedding is in June, and I love him, 1070 00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,960 Speaker 6: but dot dot dot, I need more time. Are most 1071 00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,240 Speaker 6: people uncertain before the wedding? 1072 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:54,880 Speaker 1: Well, a lot are. 1073 00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,400 Speaker 6: I won't say most, but a lot of people are. Yeah, 1074 00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:01,520 Speaker 6: uncertain before the wedding. But you should be pretty certain though. 1075 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 6: Haven't you heard the saying. 1076 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 1: When people show you who they are, believe them. I mean, 1077 00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 1: this man has shown you what he's capable of. 1078 00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 6: You even said you were afraid of him after he 1079 00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:15,520 Speaker 6: cursed his wife out like that, but you still didn't 1080 00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,440 Speaker 6: break it off with him. You said he's a good lover. No, 1081 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 6: you said he was a great lover and provider. You 1082 00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 6: know those are wonderful qualities in a man, to be 1083 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,520 Speaker 6: a great lover, great provider, all of that. But did 1084 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 6: you forget did you forget that he cheated on his 1085 00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:35,160 Speaker 6: wife twice and then that's why they're getting a divorce. Okay, 1086 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,880 Speaker 6: So whatever you do, you got to get to know 1087 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:41,560 Speaker 6: this man. You got to continue that. You may find 1088 00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 6: out other things that he does. The real hymn is 1089 00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:48,440 Speaker 6: going to eventually show up. I mean, you know, I 1090 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 6: get them the lake and sex by the lake, and 1091 00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:54,000 Speaker 6: the fruit and the wine and the snacks and all 1092 00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,360 Speaker 6: of that, but you got to listen to your gut. 1093 00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:00,560 Speaker 6: You obviously can't forget how he acted when he was 1094 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 6: angry at his first wife, and you're wondering if one 1095 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:04,480 Speaker 6: day maybe he could do. 1096 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 11: That to you. 1097 01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:08,200 Speaker 6: Well, he certainly has the capacity for it now, doesn't he. 1098 01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:11,720 Speaker 6: So I suggest to you, guys, go to marriage counseling 1099 01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:16,520 Speaker 6: before getting married, even you know, if you even are 1100 01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 6: still considering taking that step. You guys need some kind 1101 01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:23,480 Speaker 6: of understanding, some kind of guidance. Marriage is one of 1102 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,360 Speaker 6: the biggest things you can do in life, So you 1103 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:29,040 Speaker 6: need to do whatever you can to protect yourself. Tell 1104 01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 6: him you want to go to marriage counseling first and 1105 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:32,280 Speaker 6: see how that goes. 1106 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:37,200 Speaker 2: Steve, you know what, I happen to agree with everything 1107 01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 2: Shirley said, I do, lady. I just want to add 1108 01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 2: this one thing. I love him. But okay, well, you 1109 01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,200 Speaker 2: know my fathers tell me all the time if when 1110 01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 2: you say butt in the gates, everything you said in 1111 01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:56,720 Speaker 2: front of that. So when you're talking to me and 1112 01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:00,160 Speaker 2: you say butt boy, just noted whatever you said before, Oh, 1113 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 2: don't even apply no more. And that's the case right here. 1114 01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:08,560 Speaker 2: But this is a case of intuition. And God gives 1115 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,919 Speaker 2: intuition to women to protect you from the hunter, which 1116 01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 2: is us. See, we have hunting skills, you have intuition, 1117 01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 2: which that which is your safeguard against us. But y'all 1118 01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:25,520 Speaker 2: keep ignoring the intuition because you want to believe your 1119 01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 2: heart instead of your mind. And that's where the problem starts. 1120 01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:34,520 Speaker 2: You're thirty year old professional. You're dating a man that 1121 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,240 Speaker 2: just got a divorce. He was still married. When you 1122 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:39,520 Speaker 2: get mad, y'all ain't go out till he moved out 1123 01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:43,120 Speaker 2: of his house. He was still married but legally separated. 1124 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 2: On your first date, his wife followed him and she 1125 01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 2: made a huge scene in Pulley called you all kind 1126 01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,360 Speaker 2: of name. He cuts out so bad you felt bad 1127 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,080 Speaker 2: for her, and you were scared of him. And then 1128 01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,160 Speaker 2: you knew in the back of your mind. See here 1129 01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:02,320 Speaker 2: we go, the mind, now the mind. The mind is 1130 01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:06,720 Speaker 2: where the intuition resides, heart is it gets you in trouble. 1131 01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:09,080 Speaker 2: Your mind is where that I knew in the back 1132 01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:12,000 Speaker 2: of my mind she would be a problem, and he 1133 01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:14,720 Speaker 2: might one day cuss me out like that if he 1134 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,400 Speaker 2: got mad enough in me when we come back. That 1135 01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 2: has set the toe for the rest of my answer. 1136 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,480 Speaker 2: All right, well, understand what I'm right. 1137 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,160 Speaker 6: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 1138 01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:28,400 Speaker 6: twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter subject 1139 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 6: I love him, but dot dot dot. 1140 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,920 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. 1141 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:38,960 Speaker 2: It's Steve Harbin Marley show Man. It might be two 1142 01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:41,280 Speaker 2: birds in that bush, But if you let this bird 1143 01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 2: go to reach in there for the two in the 1144 01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,919 Speaker 2: bush and they fly out the bush, you ain't got nothing. 1145 01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,880 Speaker 2: A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. 1146 01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,640 Speaker 8: But if it's two and that I having to catch both, 1147 01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:53,960 Speaker 8: wouldn't that be better? 1148 01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 2: See keyword in that was a small word with the smaller, 1149 01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:01,960 Speaker 2: the smallest words with the biggest consequence. If if I 1150 01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:04,600 Speaker 2: robbed this bank, and if they don't catch me, I'm 1151 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:09,560 Speaker 2: gonna be rich. He Okay, a whole lot of ifs 1152 01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:10,920 Speaker 2: sitting in prison today. 1153 01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:20,600 Speaker 7: Coming up right after that, everybody's your favorite play cousin Junior, 1154 01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:23,200 Speaker 7: we need to talk. You're playing on getting gas at 1155 01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:26,120 Speaker 7: the same station again, But there's a lower price around 1156 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:28,400 Speaker 7: the corner gas. But he's been a trusted source for 1157 01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:32,200 Speaker 7: over twenty five years helping drivers save millions. Plus, you 1158 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:34,400 Speaker 7: can earn points in the app for an extra ten 1159 01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,280 Speaker 7: cents a gallon off just for playing games or even 1160 01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,400 Speaker 7: dining out. Stop overpaying for gas. If you had check 1161 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,720 Speaker 7: gas Buddy, you could be saving money. Download the free 1162 01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:47,480 Speaker 7: gas Buddy app today. Choose your road to savings. 1163 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 6: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, 1164 01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:54,000 Speaker 6: the subject I love him butt dot dot dot. 1165 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,360 Speaker 2: Well, here we go, perfect case of a woman following 1166 01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:01,480 Speaker 2: her heart and ignoring her intuition. Tuition is in your mind. 1167 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 2: Your heart is filled with nothing but emotions. Your heart hurts, 1168 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:12,000 Speaker 2: your heart bleeds, your heart loves, your heart breaks. All 1169 01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:16,160 Speaker 2: that your mind just thinks and that's where your intuition is. 1170 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:20,280 Speaker 2: Stop ignoring it. Ladies, your thirty year old woman dating 1171 01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:22,280 Speaker 2: the man got a divorce. You made him while he 1172 01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:24,360 Speaker 2: was married, but you all didn't go out until he 1173 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:27,560 Speaker 2: moved out the house. He was still married but legally 1174 01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 2: second separated. Y'all went out on your first date. His 1175 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:33,920 Speaker 2: wife followed. Y'all made a huge scene, call him all 1176 01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 2: kinds of names. He cussed out. He cuts out so bad. 1177 01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,320 Speaker 2: You was ashamed for her, but you was scared of him. 1178 01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,720 Speaker 2: Then here we go. I knew in the back of 1179 01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 2: my mind that she would be a problem and he 1180 01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 2: might one day cuss me out like that if he 1181 01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:49,760 Speaker 2: got mad enough at me. Now you knew this in 1182 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,320 Speaker 2: the back of your mind. That's where your intuition resides. 1183 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,680 Speaker 2: But I kept on dating. When he got a divorce, 1184 01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:58,840 Speaker 2: he opened up about how he had cheated on his 1185 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:04,280 Speaker 2: wife twice. She caught him both times. This dude, this 1186 01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:11,760 Speaker 2: dude can't cheat. He cheated on his wife twice, she 1187 01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 2: caught him both times. Y'all went on one date. She 1188 01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:21,600 Speaker 2: caught y'all. Then this dude's track record for getting caught. 1189 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:25,720 Speaker 2: He you dating somebody real stupid. Now I just want 1190 01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:29,760 Speaker 2: you to know that. You know, he told me that 1191 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:31,960 Speaker 2: he got that out of his system since he has 1192 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 2: a good woman and he didn't have a reason to 1193 01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:36,880 Speaker 2: treat cheat. Now here you go. He's a good lover 1194 01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:41,480 Speaker 2: and provider and he's caltured. But he's stupid though. See 1195 01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,160 Speaker 2: that's the part you're leaving up. He's a great lover, provider, 1196 01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:51,160 Speaker 2: he's cultured, and he's stupid. He asked me to marry 1197 01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:54,439 Speaker 2: him on Sunday in front of my mama, and I said, yes, 1198 01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:56,800 Speaker 2: now it's Sunday. 1199 01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:57,000 Speaker 11: Now. 1200 01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:04,000 Speaker 2: By that Wednesday, three days I found out he might 1201 01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:08,040 Speaker 2: have another woman that he was sleeping with and she 1202 01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:11,560 Speaker 2: said he told her that he wants the future with her. 1203 01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:16,920 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, his wife busted him twice, y'all went 1204 01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:21,560 Speaker 2: on one date hest she busted y'all, he asked you 1205 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:25,000 Speaker 2: to marry him on Sunday on Wednesday. You done busted 1206 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:30,560 Speaker 2: it again. How dumb is this man? Right here? You're 1207 01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:36,280 Speaker 2: dating somebody? That stupid man. He can't cover tracks. He 1208 01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,520 Speaker 2: might be a good provider and he might be a 1209 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,720 Speaker 2: good lover, but he's not a good protector. See, you 1210 01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:45,280 Speaker 2: don't know how to protect a woman's feelings. He not 1211 01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:50,960 Speaker 2: gonna guard your heart because he reckless, he's stupid, she said. 1212 01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 2: He told her he wants the future with her. I 1213 01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,520 Speaker 2: told her, I'm engaged to him. She was surprised, really 1214 01:06:56,720 --> 01:07:01,720 Speaker 2: when y'all engaged called him at work and he said 1215 01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:06,360 Speaker 2: he wanted to talk face to face. See that face 1216 01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:08,600 Speaker 2: to face. That gave him time to get itself together. 1217 01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:11,600 Speaker 2: So he picked you up from work and we drove 1218 01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,680 Speaker 2: an hour or two a lake, and he had some 1219 01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 2: snacks and wine in the car. Well, it ain't that 1220 01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:20,560 Speaker 2: a good thing? Oh yeah, oh yeah, I'm gonna go 1221 01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:23,840 Speaker 2: fix her all this busting me. I'm gonna get me 1222 01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:28,800 Speaker 2: some crackers and some wine, Gonna get some cheese cheese 1223 01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 2: blocks and cut him up. Don't get me a blank. 1224 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:35,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to her down here by this lake. Yeah, 1225 01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:39,000 Speaker 2: a good thing. He bought them snacks. He told me 1226 01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,760 Speaker 2: that the lady was lying, and he thought I was 1227 01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:45,200 Speaker 2: smarter than that. Wait a minute, if the lady lined, 1228 01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:50,080 Speaker 2: how did you find the lake? What you just you 1229 01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 2: mean to tell me that you pulled a woman's name 1230 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:57,560 Speaker 2: out of thin air and called her and she just 1231 01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:02,280 Speaker 2: happened to know who he was. No, he told you 1232 01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:04,360 Speaker 2: the lady was lying, and he thought I was smarter 1233 01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:08,880 Speaker 2: than that. You are smarter. You found out Wednesday, right 1234 01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:12,640 Speaker 2: after he asked you to marry him. Sunday, we made 1235 01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 2: love on a blanket by the lake and my heart said, 1236 01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:19,000 Speaker 2: this is my hook and he go, you can here 1237 01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:23,640 Speaker 2: you go there, that's around with your heart. Here your 1238 01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:26,160 Speaker 2: heart go, ladies, here you go. Heart told me, this 1239 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:29,280 Speaker 2: is my husband. Your brain just had you call a 1240 01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,640 Speaker 2: woman out of a note where and bingo, she was 1241 01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:35,800 Speaker 2: having a future with the dude too. So now it's 1242 01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:39,280 Speaker 2: really three chicks that his wife he was cheating on. 1243 01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 2: You busted him with one, and the wife then busted 1244 01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,280 Speaker 2: him with the two he cheated on, and y'all on 1245 01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:48,400 Speaker 2: your first day now dump is back at it again 1246 01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:54,360 Speaker 2: getting busted. We made love on the blanket by the lake, 1247 01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:57,439 Speaker 2: and my heart said, this is my hubs. It was 1248 01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:00,840 Speaker 2: the most romantic day ever. You need to have some 1249 01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:06,240 Speaker 2: more days. Then, how is this the most romantic day ever? 1250 01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:09,320 Speaker 2: On the day that you found out he was sleeping 1251 01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 2: with somebody else, this is the most romantic day. You 1252 01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:16,599 Speaker 2: need to hear him have some more days. Our wedding 1253 01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,840 Speaker 2: is in June. My heart flutters around him, but I 1254 01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:23,000 Speaker 2: don't know him well enough to marry him. Our wedding 1255 01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,120 Speaker 2: is in June, and I love him, but I need 1256 01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 2: more time. Why don't you take more time? Ain't nothing 1257 01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:31,800 Speaker 2: to say. You got to get married in June. Call 1258 01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:35,439 Speaker 2: it off so you can find out what you really 1259 01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:38,000 Speaker 2: got and you might find out a whole lot more. 1260 01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,800 Speaker 2: Are most people uncertain before the wedding? What is you 1261 01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:46,880 Speaker 2: worrying about most people? For you wrote the letter you 1262 01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:50,200 Speaker 2: are you are concerned and you need to be and 1263 01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,679 Speaker 2: you need to call this wedding off and get yourself 1264 01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:54,400 Speaker 2: together until you know this man better. 1265 01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,439 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you Steve. 1266 01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,639 Speaker 6: It's Steve Harvey FM on Instrument and Faithbook and check 1267 01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:04,800 Speaker 6: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up 1268 01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,560 Speaker 6: at forty six minutes after the hour, It's Junior with 1269 01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:10,519 Speaker 6: sports talk and we'll get into that right after this. 1270 01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:13,920 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1271 01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:19,759 Speaker 15: Everybody should favorite play cousin Junior. 1272 01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:20,960 Speaker 8: We need to talk. 1273 01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,559 Speaker 7: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again, 1274 01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:26,360 Speaker 7: but there's a low price around the corner gas. But 1275 01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:28,920 Speaker 7: it has been a trusted source for over twenty five years. 1276 01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:32,360 Speaker 7: Helping drivers save millions. Plus you can earn points into 1277 01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 7: app for an extra ten cents a gallon off just 1278 01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:38,599 Speaker 7: for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying for gas. 1279 01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,800 Speaker 7: If you had check gas Buddy, you could be saving money. 1280 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,840 Speaker 7: Download the free gas Buddy app today. Choose your road 1281 01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:46,560 Speaker 7: to save me. 1282 01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:49,800 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and sports talk. 1283 01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:50,640 Speaker 2: Junior, what you. 1284 01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:51,160 Speaker 1: Got for us? 1285 01:10:51,400 --> 01:10:54,439 Speaker 7: I wan shutte Father's Day. That's Father's Day Night at 1286 01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 7: the Njpack in Newark, New Jersey. Old Quakes Father's Day 1287 01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:02,200 Speaker 7: comedy special myself along with Earthquake hosted by Cheryl Underwood, 1288 01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:06,280 Speaker 7: T K. Kirkland, Donelle, Rollin's Delay and Bishop. That's having 1289 01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:07,640 Speaker 7: it on father to Day Night. That's what I have 1290 01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:10,000 Speaker 7: first of all. But now let's talk about it. FIFA 1291 01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 7: is here, FIFA has started. Are y'all excited about this? 1292 01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 7: Does anybody know what FIFA is? 1293 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:17,800 Speaker 8: Are we watching the game? 1294 01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,760 Speaker 7: The World Cup? It's all in North America. It's every 1295 01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:26,479 Speaker 7: game is in North America. Go Because I don't know 1296 01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:28,800 Speaker 7: nothing about soccer. I never played soccer, I never played 1297 01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:29,840 Speaker 7: professionally or nothing. 1298 01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:32,960 Speaker 2: So I have some resarch sports cash. Yeah, well, thank you. 1299 01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,080 Speaker 8: I appreciate this comping man, Thank you very much. 1300 01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 4: So I didn't know this. 1301 01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:41,200 Speaker 8: This is what you need to know about soccer. 1302 01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:43,400 Speaker 7: I did not know that the average soccer player in 1303 01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,839 Speaker 7: the game runs six to eight miles. 1304 01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:48,840 Speaker 8: I'm out at that point. That's why I don't take soccer. 1305 01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,840 Speaker 15: Yeah, and it's not called all. 1306 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,920 Speaker 1: The Yeah, it's six to eight miles. 1307 01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:57,000 Speaker 7: You don't want to take like two miles of running 1308 01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,639 Speaker 7: like we can't walk lene of this break? 1309 01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 1: You ain't no breaks in this not. 1310 01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:06,960 Speaker 2: Have you ever noticed a nobody fat playing soccer? 1311 01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:08,320 Speaker 8: And I saw that nobody? 1312 01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 2: Big? 1313 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:09,640 Speaker 11: Why is that? 1314 01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,360 Speaker 2: You ain't think how that happens? 1315 01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:14,880 Speaker 7: Did you also know this that is not called a 1316 01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:17,439 Speaker 7: soccer field. You cannot say that. It's called a pitch. 1317 01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 7: It's called a pitch. So don't go out there when 1318 01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,439 Speaker 7: you're talking this weekend talking me, Yeah they're on the 1319 01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:23,040 Speaker 7: soccer field. 1320 01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:24,920 Speaker 8: No, they're on the pitch. That's when you need to 1321 01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:25,720 Speaker 8: know that you. 1322 01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:27,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1323 01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:32,760 Speaker 7: Now, also I found out soccer started in eighteen sixty three. 1324 01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:33,800 Speaker 8: You didn't know that either. 1325 01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,240 Speaker 7: See, I don't know how these game got started in 1326 01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:39,840 Speaker 7: eighteen sixty three? How did you even call it soccer? 1327 01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:43,639 Speaker 7: Slavery was were two years from the day folk saving. 1328 01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:47,320 Speaker 7: But it started in England. Started in England. So these 1329 01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:49,439 Speaker 7: are some things y'all need to know about soccer. Yeah, 1330 01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:51,360 Speaker 7: go ahead, Carlon, So was soccer? 1331 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:54,160 Speaker 1: It wasn't started here, No, it. 1332 01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:57,920 Speaker 8: Started in London. Yeah, started London. Yes, that's why I 1333 01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:58,559 Speaker 8: found out. 1334 01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:01,280 Speaker 2: This soil segment or history. 1335 01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:04,559 Speaker 7: What if we're gonna talk, if they're gonna be here 1336 01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:06,960 Speaker 7: for the next ninety days, know some stuff you can 1337 01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 7: use when you're sitting around people. 1338 01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, like so I don't even know all these. 1339 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, you sitting around side, you know something? 1340 01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:20,559 Speaker 1: You need to know something. 1341 01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:23,680 Speaker 8: We don't know nothing about the game. You gotta watch 1342 01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 8: this for the next ninety days. You need to know that. 1343 01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 11: I like it. 1344 01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,120 Speaker 7: Now, America play the night they playing the night they're 1345 01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,760 Speaker 7: playing Paraguay. I don't know where Paraguay at, but we're 1346 01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:33,599 Speaker 7: playing them in Los Angele. That's what we're playing first. 1347 01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:34,760 Speaker 1: So okay, there you go. 1348 01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:38,360 Speaker 8: Yeah you so, I'll just tell you what is it. 1349 01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:42,719 Speaker 2: It's La Atlanta, Houston playing all. 1350 01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:45,160 Speaker 8: Over Toronto, Mexico City. 1351 01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:48,000 Speaker 7: You know, everyone, just watch your game and then come 1352 01:13:48,040 --> 01:13:49,960 Speaker 7: back with some information so I could use it for 1353 01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:50,880 Speaker 7: the FIFA World Cup. 1354 01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 1: That's all just all right, junior, Thank you. 1355 01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:57,759 Speaker 6: Coming up at the top of A wife was playing 1356 01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:59,920 Speaker 6: games with her husband and a backfire. 1357 01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:03,519 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 1358 01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:11,040 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is from Cam and Sagana. 1359 01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:14,600 Speaker 6: Cam says, my husband was out with his boys and 1360 01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:17,719 Speaker 6: I had called him several times and he didn't answer 1361 01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:20,160 Speaker 6: his phone. So I went to stay at my sister's 1362 01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:22,479 Speaker 6: house so I wouldn't be home when he got there. 1363 01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:26,439 Speaker 6: I watched the cameras and saw him stumble in at 1364 01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:29,720 Speaker 6: two am, fixing his shirt as he got out of 1365 01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:33,479 Speaker 6: his car. He called me all night and I didn't answer. 1366 01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,080 Speaker 6: I called him the next morning and told him where 1367 01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:38,479 Speaker 6: I spent the night, and I admitted that I was mad. 1368 01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,320 Speaker 6: So I stayed aut all night to get his attention. 1369 01:14:41,800 --> 01:14:45,000 Speaker 6: He's upset and he's ignoring me. He won't tell me 1370 01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:49,760 Speaker 6: why he was out until two am. So how did 1371 01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:52,040 Speaker 6: he turn this around on me and act like I'm 1372 01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:52,679 Speaker 6: the problem? 1373 01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:57,680 Speaker 2: Because he was supposed to because the best office is 1374 01:14:57,760 --> 01:15:04,240 Speaker 2: a good office lock and that's all he did. Now 1375 01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:11,280 Speaker 2: he was out with his boys. Cool got that, that's 1376 01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:13,599 Speaker 2: what he said. You went over your sister's house. 1377 01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:14,040 Speaker 1: Cool. 1378 01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:18,479 Speaker 2: But while y'all playing these games, he was out with 1379 01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,000 Speaker 2: his boys. He called you. He ain't answered the phone. 1380 01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 2: He called you, you didn't answer your phone. 1381 01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:24,559 Speaker 12: HM. 1382 01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:28,880 Speaker 2: See y'all then, y'all then you want to get mad. 1383 01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 2: Y'all want to get mad at each other. You mad 1384 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,400 Speaker 2: at him because what he did. Now he mad at 1385 01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:37,880 Speaker 2: you for you doing what you did. That's what y'all 1386 01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:40,599 Speaker 2: get when y'all play games, were playing these little simple games. 1387 01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:44,240 Speaker 2: Your husband gets you to go out, you know? 1388 01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:47,519 Speaker 1: Does he get to stay out till two am? 1389 01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:47,840 Speaker 11: Though? 1390 01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:50,160 Speaker 4: He just he did. 1391 01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:52,200 Speaker 1: That's why the. 1392 01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:55,280 Speaker 4: Late. 1393 01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:58,519 Speaker 1: But she didn't like it. 1394 01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:03,759 Speaker 2: But he's an adult and he out with his boys 1395 01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:06,240 Speaker 2: and you now he got a curfew with you. So 1396 01:16:06,400 --> 01:16:08,240 Speaker 2: let me ask you this, what you want to be 1397 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:09,880 Speaker 2: his wife? Or you want to be his mama? What 1398 01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:10,400 Speaker 2: you want to be? 1399 01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:12,920 Speaker 1: Let me see there you go with all of that, 1400 01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:13,680 Speaker 1: it's flipping it. 1401 01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:16,519 Speaker 6: Let me ask you this, what is the respectable time 1402 01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:20,040 Speaker 6: you think for a husband to come after staying out 1403 01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:20,599 Speaker 6: with his boys. 1404 01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,719 Speaker 2: I'm three with your boys? 1405 01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:27,320 Speaker 1: Man, Okay, Now you can't be coming in when the 1406 01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:31,599 Speaker 1: sun is rising? So is there dudo? 1407 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,759 Speaker 2: You got to come in and dripping with him? Blood. 1408 01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:39,080 Speaker 2: You got driven with blood. 1409 01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:40,200 Speaker 11: You got to. 1410 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:44,000 Speaker 2: You don't have your galls and an age man, just 1411 01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:44,960 Speaker 2: you somewhere. 1412 01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:51,960 Speaker 6: You're coming in with the sunrising. Wow, guys, I don't 1413 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,680 Speaker 6: know about this. All right, we have time for another one. 1414 01:16:55,080 --> 01:16:56,759 Speaker 6: This is from Porter and Colleen. 1415 01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:57,479 Speaker 11: Uh. 1416 01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:01,000 Speaker 6: Porter says, my my son went to the prom with 1417 01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:04,160 Speaker 6: my buddy's daughter. The girl left the prom and went 1418 01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:08,080 Speaker 6: to hang out with her girlfriends without my son. My 1419 01:17:08,160 --> 01:17:10,920 Speaker 6: buddy said it was my son's responsibility to get the 1420 01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:14,000 Speaker 6: girl home safely. I agree with him, but I think 1421 01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:17,080 Speaker 6: that's a conversation that he should have with his child. 1422 01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:19,400 Speaker 6: Was my son supposed to stop her? 1423 01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:25,559 Speaker 2: Well, listen, if a young man comes to your house 1424 01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:28,840 Speaker 2: to pick up your daughter to take her out, you 1425 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:32,000 Speaker 2: are allowingness to happen, and you are expecting him to 1426 01:17:32,160 --> 01:17:38,599 Speaker 2: bring her back. Now, whatever happens in the interim, how 1427 01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:41,799 Speaker 2: she wound up with her girlfriends, this was the prom. 1428 01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, but yeah, he should have 1429 01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:49,800 Speaker 2: expected him to bring his daughter back home and when 1430 01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,400 Speaker 2: he set it right now, you can't make this little 1431 01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:57,439 Speaker 2: girl do nothing because you ain't her daddy. But now 1432 01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:00,760 Speaker 2: I would have got on the phone when hey, dad, 1433 01:18:01,120 --> 01:18:04,360 Speaker 2: my day doing with these girls. I don't know what 1434 01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:10,120 Speaker 2: to do or or mister Price. Hey, uh, I know, 1435 01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:12,439 Speaker 2: I told you i'd bring her home, but she just 1436 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,439 Speaker 2: went somewhere with the girlfriends and I don't know where 1437 01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:17,479 Speaker 2: she went. So I just want to call and let 1438 01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:21,160 Speaker 2: you know that. That's the thing, right, you know something. 1439 01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:23,679 Speaker 2: But you got to get this man his respect because 1440 01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:27,280 Speaker 2: you asked for his daughter's hand go out to the prom. 1441 01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:30,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she should communicate with her parents, which was. 1442 01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:37,720 Speaker 2: She hello, yeah, hello, she wrong, Hey mama, Look, I'm 1443 01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:39,480 Speaker 2: going over here with my girlfriends. 1444 01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:41,760 Speaker 1: Okay, all right. 1445 01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:44,280 Speaker 2: Once again they think they can do whatever they want 1446 01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:44,479 Speaker 2: to do. 1447 01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:48,080 Speaker 6: All right, guys, thank you. Coming up at twenty minutes 1448 01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:50,240 Speaker 6: after you, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1449 01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:51,280 Speaker 6: Show right after this. 1450 01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:54,280 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1451 01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:01,519 Speaker 6: In a historian Yahoo, a young man was on a 1452 01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:05,400 Speaker 6: first date and his date was repeatedly rude to their waitress. 1453 01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:08,560 Speaker 6: The guy was so embarrassed that he went to the 1454 01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:13,000 Speaker 6: manager and the waitress and apologized for his date being 1455 01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:16,320 Speaker 6: so rude. He asked to pay his tab, and he 1456 01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:19,240 Speaker 6: left without returning to the table with his date. The 1457 01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:22,360 Speaker 6: manager informed the rude young woman that her date was over, 1458 01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:25,800 Speaker 6: her tab was paid, and she was free to leave. 1459 01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:29,280 Speaker 6: So the question is was the guy wrong for leaving 1460 01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:30,760 Speaker 6: the girl at the restaurant? 1461 01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:36,400 Speaker 2: Perfect move? Yeah? I mean he said, wow, this is crazy. Yeah, 1462 01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:40,760 Speaker 2: so he went up there, apologized to the waitress and 1463 01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:46,200 Speaker 2: the manager paid the table yes, and left. Hey, yo, 1464 01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:50,040 Speaker 2: date over, everything's been paid. You free to go bye? 1465 01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:53,040 Speaker 11: Yeah. 1466 01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:53,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1467 01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:59,040 Speaker 6: And you could tell about a person's everybody right, how 1468 01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:01,960 Speaker 6: they treat people who are rock serve you. 1469 01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:03,920 Speaker 1: You can tell about their character right. 1470 01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:06,000 Speaker 2: Here, because the mayor probably sitting there going, hey, what 1471 01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:06,640 Speaker 2: what's up? 1472 01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:12,080 Speaker 1: What if she was like really fine, you drop zig gorgeous? 1473 01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:13,160 Speaker 8: That changes everything. 1474 01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:18,080 Speaker 1: The service sucks at the restaurant. Come on, maybe let's 1475 01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:18,840 Speaker 1: hear it out of here. 1476 01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:23,559 Speaker 8: Yeah, come on, boot, you'll tell my booshi loud. 1477 01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:25,320 Speaker 1: You guys are so shallow. 1478 01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:29,920 Speaker 2: All right, that's sir, sir, you need to better train 1479 01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:30,599 Speaker 2: these people. 1480 01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:36,479 Speaker 6: We'll have more of this ignorant show coming up. We'll 1481 01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:40,759 Speaker 6: play around it, wouldie rather Right after this, you're listening 1482 01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:42,639 Speaker 6: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1483 01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:49,080 Speaker 15: Everybody's your favorite place, Cousin Jr. 1484 01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:50,240 Speaker 8: We need to talk. 1485 01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:52,840 Speaker 7: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again, 1486 01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:55,600 Speaker 7: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But 1487 01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:58,200 Speaker 7: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years 1488 01:20:58,320 --> 01:21:01,519 Speaker 7: helping drivers save million plus. You can earn points in 1489 01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:03,960 Speaker 7: the app for an extra ten cents a gallon off 1490 01:21:04,320 --> 01:21:07,400 Speaker 7: just for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying 1491 01:21:07,479 --> 01:21:10,160 Speaker 7: for gas. If you had check gas Buddy, you could 1492 01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:13,799 Speaker 7: be saving money. Download the free gas Buddy app today. 1493 01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:16,760 Speaker 7: Choose your road to saving time. 1494 01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:19,120 Speaker 6: Now, Guys, for a rounded, would you rather would you 1495 01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:23,400 Speaker 6: rather use barbecue winners as fish bait or cheetos as 1496 01:21:23,520 --> 01:21:24,080 Speaker 6: fish bait? 1497 01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:26,439 Speaker 1: This should be an easy one for you. 1498 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:26,800 Speaker 2: Guys. 1499 01:21:27,280 --> 01:21:29,040 Speaker 1: You're not gonna care you fishermen. 1500 01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:30,759 Speaker 4: Cheese? 1501 01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you if you make them the right thing 1502 01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:34,680 Speaker 2: and put them on this. 1503 01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:48,080 Speaker 10: Wait, what barbecue? It's some poor fishing. Whys you just 1504 01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:50,320 Speaker 10: lunchbox or something? 1505 01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:50,800 Speaker 2: What is this? 1506 01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:57,479 Speaker 6: Would you rather uh have an ability to make people 1507 01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:00,679 Speaker 6: disappear or the ability to read minds? 1508 01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:13,840 Speaker 2: Both blink golf y, Yeah, I'll give it whatever on 1509 01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:19,639 Speaker 2: your mind? You out right on out of here? 1510 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:23,040 Speaker 11: All right? 1511 01:22:23,840 --> 01:22:24,240 Speaker 2: Where is. 1512 01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:26,840 Speaker 1: Tommy? Blinked him? 1513 01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:27,120 Speaker 5: Mouse? 1514 01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,840 Speaker 6: Would you rather golf with your female co workers or 1515 01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:34,719 Speaker 6: would you rather go to putt putt golf with your ex. 1516 01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:38,439 Speaker 2: Golf with y'all, like eighteen holes with y'all. 1517 01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:45,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, same, what does that hate? 1518 01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:47,760 Speaker 9: I'm gonna go ahead. I'm gonna play with y'all. I 1519 01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:49,200 Speaker 9: don't want to do not with my ex, so I'm 1520 01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:53,800 Speaker 9: gonna play with y'all. But y'all don't have to be quiet, though, 1521 01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:55,400 Speaker 9: y'all to take us. 1522 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:59,120 Speaker 1: To the golf course, see right there? Stay, you pay 1523 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:00,599 Speaker 1: for us one time to get golf. 1524 01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:02,400 Speaker 12: Yes, it was. 1525 01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:07,519 Speaker 2: How they work. Ain't played since then. 1526 01:23:07,800 --> 01:23:12,320 Speaker 1: No, we've been out there, but haven't played. But it 1527 01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:15,320 Speaker 1: was fun though, Thank you? Was fun. It was fun. 1528 01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:19,280 Speaker 6: Would you rather wear a bonnet to the airport or 1529 01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:21,439 Speaker 6: a three piece suit to the cookout? 1530 01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:23,559 Speaker 1: Which one? 1531 01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:25,880 Speaker 2: Well, I sound like a male or female thing. 1532 01:23:26,120 --> 01:23:29,600 Speaker 1: Really, men wear bonnets. They have male bonnets, now they do. 1533 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:32,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to put this suit on and go into 1534 01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:32,960 Speaker 2: this cookout. 1535 01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:37,719 Speaker 1: You not wear your. 1536 01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:43,120 Speaker 2: Man I don't care nothing. I'm put your suit on, 1537 01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:46,240 Speaker 2: going down here his body kit. I'm not wearing no 1538 01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:46,880 Speaker 2: bonnet though. 1539 01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:50,519 Speaker 1: It's definitely not wearing a bonnet at the airport. No, 1540 01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:54,040 Speaker 1: all right? Would you rather snitch on a family member 1541 01:23:54,280 --> 01:23:55,800 Speaker 1: or take the rap for them? 1542 01:23:56,520 --> 01:24:01,479 Speaker 13: Oh a, a just gone back. I'm not taking that 1543 01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:07,240 Speaker 13: forrest if you didn't yeah they did, yeah, hell but 1544 01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:08,639 Speaker 13: I'll tell you no way. 1545 01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:10,200 Speaker 2: I'm not doing no time. 1546 01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:13,280 Speaker 1: What happened just gets stitches and all of that. 1547 01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:22,920 Speaker 2: I've got stitches now, stitches full of stitches right now. 1548 01:24:24,400 --> 01:24:25,120 Speaker 4: What happened to you? 1549 01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 1: What happened to your thumb? 1550 01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:28,959 Speaker 2: Had a fishing accident yesterday? 1551 01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:29,479 Speaker 11: I was. 1552 01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:34,760 Speaker 6: All right, thanks guys coming up and accident is our 1553 01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:36,479 Speaker 6: last break of the day, and we'll close out the 1554 01:24:36,520 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 6: show with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1555 01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:41,800 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1556 01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:47,639 Speaker 15: Everybody should fingers play cousin JUNR. 1557 01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:48,840 Speaker 2: We need to talk. 1558 01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,439 Speaker 7: You're playing on getting gas at the same station again, 1559 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,200 Speaker 7: but there's a lower price around the corner gas. But 1560 01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:56,800 Speaker 7: he's been a trusted source for over twenty five years 1561 01:24:56,920 --> 01:25:00,120 Speaker 7: helping drivers save millions. Plus you can earn points in 1562 01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:02,559 Speaker 7: the app for an extra ten cents a gallon off 1563 01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:06,000 Speaker 7: just for playing games or even dining out. Stop overpaying 1564 01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:08,760 Speaker 7: for gas. If you had check gas Buddy, you could 1565 01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 7: be saving money. Download the free Gas Buddy app today, 1566 01:25:12,720 --> 01:25:14,519 Speaker 7: choose your road to savings. 1567 01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:17,360 Speaker 1: Here we are guys, last break of the day on 1568 01:25:17,600 --> 01:25:18,600 Speaker 1: this Friday. 1569 01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:24,720 Speaker 6: Yes, finally it's here. We love our Fridays and we 1570 01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:27,120 Speaker 6: love our audience, and we thank you for listening. 1571 01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:29,599 Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Jun you have a question for Steve 1572 01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:30,519 Speaker 1: before we get out. 1573 01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:33,560 Speaker 8: Well, yeah, unc man, I want to talk to you 1574 01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:34,200 Speaker 8: about this an. 1575 01:25:34,680 --> 01:25:37,040 Speaker 7: You know you've been through pretty much everything I asked you, 1576 01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:38,880 Speaker 7: That's why you have so much depth about it. But 1577 01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:44,040 Speaker 7: what about how you feel about disobedience to God. I've 1578 01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:48,040 Speaker 7: never heard you speak about that, about how the consequences 1579 01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:50,240 Speaker 7: are when we disobeyed versus when we. 1580 01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:54,640 Speaker 2: Just got cause been disobedient. That's why I want you 1581 01:25:54,680 --> 01:26:00,160 Speaker 2: to talk about it. Detail ain't my favorite subject. It's 1582 01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:04,800 Speaker 2: gotten me in the most trouble I've ever been. I don't, 1583 01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:09,000 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think about disobedience to God. I 1584 01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:13,920 Speaker 2: think about I guess I've never used the word disobedience. 1585 01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:18,479 Speaker 2: I just haven't always followed the letter of the law 1586 01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:22,080 Speaker 2: to the t. But then you know what Junion nobody has. 1587 01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:26,640 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what I have learned about. What are 1588 01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:29,559 Speaker 2: you what you're calling disobedience to God, which I'm calling 1589 01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:36,840 Speaker 2: falling short, which I'm calling getting it wrong? Not being it, 1590 01:26:37,000 --> 01:26:42,160 Speaker 2: not staying on the white line. Nobody has. I'll tell 1591 01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:44,639 Speaker 2: you one thing, man, what people do. Sometimes you beat 1592 01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:48,639 Speaker 2: yourself up a bit too much about not getting it right. 1593 01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:52,200 Speaker 2: When I have to share this news with you. No one. 1594 01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:59,600 Speaker 2: No one gets it right all the time, nobody. I 1595 01:26:59,680 --> 01:27:03,880 Speaker 2: don't know any sin free people, never met one. I 1596 01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:06,840 Speaker 2: thought my mother was I prompt I swear I did. 1597 01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:11,040 Speaker 2: But as I kept getting old and old and older, 1598 01:27:11,160 --> 01:27:14,600 Speaker 2: I realized my mama was a human being too. She 1599 01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:19,400 Speaker 2: had many flaws. I wasn't exposed to her, but she 1600 01:27:19,560 --> 01:27:25,840 Speaker 2: had a mini Nobody gets through this life freely. I 1601 01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:29,320 Speaker 2: hear preachers on it. I mean, I thank God for 1602 01:27:29,439 --> 01:27:35,000 Speaker 2: faith and religion, I really do. But all these different 1603 01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:44,519 Speaker 2: sects of religion. You know, whether it's Baptist, Pentecostal, Methodist, Lutheran, Catholic, Jewish, Islam, 1604 01:27:45,600 --> 01:27:50,040 Speaker 2: everybody claims that their way is the right way, when 1605 01:27:50,120 --> 01:27:53,800 Speaker 2: in essence, you don't know how God gonna call this thing. 1606 01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:56,800 Speaker 2: I don't care what interpretation of the Bible you make. 1607 01:27:58,160 --> 01:28:00,560 Speaker 2: You know, somebody could come up with a different interpretation 1608 01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:03,080 Speaker 2: of it. But I do know this, at the end 1609 01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:05,920 Speaker 2: of this whole life, whoever you are, God will be 1610 01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:09,880 Speaker 2: the final judge of the matter. It is not my 1611 01:28:10,240 --> 01:28:15,760 Speaker 2: job to desecrate or degrade or talk about any other 1612 01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:20,599 Speaker 2: faith that's not similar to mine. It's not my job 1613 01:28:20,760 --> 01:28:23,439 Speaker 2: to say it's my way or the highway. That's just 1614 01:28:23,680 --> 01:28:28,719 Speaker 2: not my job. I think there's something in the Bible 1615 01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:33,240 Speaker 2: that says that you shouldn't judge. I'm sure there's something 1616 01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:36,679 Speaker 2: in there that says that. So I try my best 1617 01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:40,000 Speaker 2: to stay out of the judging business, especially when it 1618 01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:44,679 Speaker 2: comes to a person's faith. I know what the Bible says. 1619 01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:49,719 Speaker 2: I know, I've read some things about you know what's 1620 01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:52,400 Speaker 2: expected of us, and that's the faith I have, and 1621 01:28:52,479 --> 01:28:55,240 Speaker 2: that's the one I live by. But guess what. I 1622 01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:59,599 Speaker 2: come short of that a lot, a lot. I come 1623 01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:02,960 Speaker 2: short of that often. And I got news for you, 1624 01:29:03,439 --> 01:29:07,439 Speaker 2: so do you. I don't care who you are. You 1625 01:29:07,520 --> 01:29:10,559 Speaker 2: could put a PhD behind your name. You can come 1626 01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:12,960 Speaker 2: out there in the road with the three bars on 1627 01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:15,559 Speaker 2: the sleeves. You can come out there with a hat 1628 01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:18,439 Speaker 2: on with a tassel going to one side. You can 1629 01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:22,400 Speaker 2: get a bunch of initials after your name, MD, pH D, 1630 01:29:23,240 --> 01:29:26,639 Speaker 2: as K, you can get whatever you want. You gonna 1631 01:29:26,640 --> 01:29:31,200 Speaker 2: come up short. You gonna come up short. You, sir 1632 01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:35,439 Speaker 2: and you madam, are a human being. I don't care 1633 01:29:35,800 --> 01:29:40,320 Speaker 2: what education level you then reached. You gonna come up short. 1634 01:29:41,240 --> 01:29:43,439 Speaker 2: I know you're gonna come up short. And this ain't 1635 01:29:43,479 --> 01:29:46,160 Speaker 2: a knock on education. But you ever seen a person 1636 01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:49,000 Speaker 2: go get a degree and they start working. They found 1637 01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:51,080 Speaker 2: out that degree didn't get them where they wanted them 1638 01:29:51,080 --> 01:29:52,680 Speaker 2: to go, and they go back to school and get 1639 01:29:52,720 --> 01:29:57,479 Speaker 2: another degree and another one. I know some people, man 1640 01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:00,920 Speaker 2: that went back to school four times, got the highest 1641 01:30:00,960 --> 01:30:04,800 Speaker 2: level of PhDs that you can get, thinking it was 1642 01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:07,000 Speaker 2: going to better their life, and it didn't. 1643 01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:08,439 Speaker 4: It didn't. 1644 01:30:08,560 --> 01:30:10,840 Speaker 2: You just paid some more money with school four more 1645 01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:15,320 Speaker 2: years and it didn't make your life better. Which leads 1646 01:30:15,360 --> 01:30:17,000 Speaker 2: me to what I always thought, if you got a 1647 01:30:17,080 --> 01:30:18,920 Speaker 2: degree and it ain't working for you, why would you 1648 01:30:19,000 --> 01:30:22,000 Speaker 2: go get another one of them? Now, I'm not knocking 1649 01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:25,479 Speaker 2: education because it's necessary. And like you got to go 1650 01:30:25,600 --> 01:30:28,080 Speaker 2: to school eight years, you're gonna be a lawyer or 1651 01:30:28,120 --> 01:30:31,920 Speaker 2: a doctor. You in helping people bus you gotta know 1652 01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:35,000 Speaker 2: what you're doing. It's critical that you get this education. 1653 01:30:36,320 --> 01:30:39,280 Speaker 2: It's even more critical, man, critical man, that you keep 1654 01:30:39,400 --> 01:30:41,639 Speaker 2: up with the new things that's coming out in your field, 1655 01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:44,439 Speaker 2: and I'm taking a turn in this conversation, but it's 1656 01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:46,560 Speaker 2: leading me now to this little health thing, and I 1657 01:30:46,640 --> 01:30:48,679 Speaker 2: want to talk to y'all about just for real quick. 1658 01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:51,880 Speaker 2: If you are dealing with a doctor out there, and 1659 01:30:51,960 --> 01:30:53,880 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say this because I've had to do this, 1660 01:30:54,280 --> 01:30:58,519 Speaker 2: go get yourself a second and a third opinion. Don't 1661 01:30:58,600 --> 01:31:02,360 Speaker 2: take the opinion of one doc. That doctor may have 1662 01:31:02,479 --> 01:31:05,200 Speaker 2: been a doctor for thirty years, but do you know 1663 01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:08,799 Speaker 2: what has happened since he received his degree in medicine, 1664 01:31:09,200 --> 01:31:11,760 Speaker 2: And if he don't stay current and go back to 1665 01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:16,000 Speaker 2: training on different things, some of his information can be outdated. 1666 01:31:16,720 --> 01:31:22,880 Speaker 2: Get yourself a second and third opinion, because medical advancests 1667 01:31:23,200 --> 01:31:26,880 Speaker 2: change all the time, and if your doctor ain't keeping 1668 01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:30,000 Speaker 2: up with the changes, he can't advise you. Now he's 1669 01:31:30,040 --> 01:31:32,479 Speaker 2: only advising you about what he knows, but he might 1670 01:31:32,600 --> 01:31:35,479 Speaker 2: not know enough. I was all over the place with 1671 01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:38,679 Speaker 2: dis closing remarks, but that's what I wanted to say, 1672 01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:42,880 Speaker 2: you know why, because I ain't perfect. Have a great day, y'all, 1673 01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:45,720 Speaker 2: talk to God today. He'd absolutely loved to hear from you. 1674 01:31:46,120 --> 01:31:49,840 Speaker 2: And that was a closing remark that was done in 1675 01:31:50,000 --> 01:31:53,160 Speaker 2: complete imperfection and I still like him. 1676 01:31:57,520 --> 01:32:00,959 Speaker 6: For all Steve Harvey contacts, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1677 01:32:01,000 --> 01:32:04,479 Speaker 6: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1678 01:32:04,640 --> 01:32:09,479 Speaker 6: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. 1679 01:32:09,880 --> 01:32:12,559 Speaker 6: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.