WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Urgent Family Matter

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second Dude update. Today's second date update is

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<v Speaker 1>a little different from the normal ones. Kaylee, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us right now, actually got a call

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<v Speaker 1>back from the guy that she went out with. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Luke. Kaylee, tell us a little bit about Luke. First, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, tell us a little bit about Luke. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually met him on Facebook. Oh, he just randomly friended

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<v Speaker 1>me one day and we started flirting and I am ing,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I met him on this date. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>actually look like his profile or did you get catfish?

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty close, you know. Yeah? Good, It wasn't an

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<v Speaker 1>elderly woman that showed up. It was actually the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you thought it would be. Um, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do on your date? It was fun. We went

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<v Speaker 1>to this arcade place and they had billiard charts and

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<v Speaker 1>so it was like competitive and cute drinking game. We

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<v Speaker 1>even had some like kissing bets like if I won

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<v Speaker 1>or if you want you day you catch them. It

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<v Speaker 1>was fun, it was cute. You know, Jose is the

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<v Speaker 1>only one that I know that dates this way. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the only reason I'm worried for you about this. Luke

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<v Speaker 1>fell up? You mean Facebook. Yeah, I met every girl

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook. Now, Kaylee, your second day update is a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit different because you actually did talk to Luke

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Right He called me the day after

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<v Speaker 1>the date, Okay, like right away. I didn't have to wait.

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<v Speaker 1>But he was calling to tell me that he had

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<v Speaker 1>a family emergency come up and that he had to

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<v Speaker 1>go out of town for a while, but that he

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time and he wanted to see me again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really nice. That was like two weeks ago. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're still out of town. Have you thought about that? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've called him and sometimes it's his voicemail. Sometimes it

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<v Speaker 1>just range him races in two weeks that I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything. What was his last Facebook status update? Kaylee,

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<v Speaker 1>don't lie to me. He has completely disappeared from Facebook.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so crazy because he was on there quite a

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<v Speaker 1>bit and then nothing since he did he had this

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<v Speaker 1>family emergency. Absolutely nothing. He's probably blocked you from saying

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<v Speaker 1>certain months. No cynical. So you've tried to call him

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<v Speaker 1>a few times and it goes to voicemail. Does it

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<v Speaker 1>go to voicemail like he's sending you to voicemail? It

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<v Speaker 1>goes to voicemail? After like ringing for a while, and

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<v Speaker 1>then sometimes it just rings the rings and nothing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've tried to for your time. It's probably for you

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<v Speaker 1>too many? How many? Okay, maybe that's it? How many, Kaylee?

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<v Speaker 1>A few times a day, A lot of times to

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<v Speaker 1>let that this phone is working or not. I'm really sincerely, honey.

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<v Speaker 1>You should not be calling him that much. Oh, just

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<v Speaker 1>start dialing our number instead if it's turning into that

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<v Speaker 1>much of an addiction. Okay, are you at least blocking

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<v Speaker 1>your number when you call him? No? Not fucking ring number?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Well, at least maybe he'll answer when we

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<v Speaker 1>call from this number. I hope. So, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I hope he does. I'm scared. All right, Okayley,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play a song, come back and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. Okay, Okay, hang on in Jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. I think that I know why Kaylee kind

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<v Speaker 1>of screwed up. She screwed up? Yeah, Kaylee screwed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I think I figured it out because the

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<v Speaker 1>dude that you went out with, Luke called you after

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<v Speaker 1>the date, like the day after, and said, Hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>got some family emergency. I'm gonna be gone for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while. I think maybe he was telling you the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like you called him so many times

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<v Speaker 1>in the last two weeks that you scared him away,

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<v Speaker 1>called him right away and pause, like you can call him,

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<v Speaker 1>make true, somebody's still alive. I don't know. I was

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<v Speaker 1>more worried than anything. Yeah, but it was only two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he had a family emergency. Maybe he really did,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you would call him at a bad time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you kept calling over and over and over again.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I can't deal with it. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>think happened. I'm actually with Jubil on this one, which

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<v Speaker 1>is really rare, Kaylee, But man, and you got to

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad if it's a real, true family emergency and

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<v Speaker 1>you were bugging him. I don't know. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I was more concerned. Okay, okay, are you ready to

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<v Speaker 1>give him a call? See if he answer? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, I gotta speak to Luke please. Uh no,

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<v Speaker 1>he's he's he's not here. This is is not Luke. No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not is this is this two h six

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<v Speaker 1>three four seven? Yeah? This is this is Luke's phone,

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<v Speaker 1>But Luke is not here. Who am I? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jubil. I'm from brook and Jubil in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio station Moving ninety two point five. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I'm all right? Who is this? This is Bobby?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm his brother. Oh you're his brother? Yeah? Is there

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<v Speaker 1>a message you want me to give to him? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is kind of weird. Um, So is he around

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<v Speaker 1>at all? No? He's not. Is he? Okay? Yeah? He's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there something I can help you with? Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling because there was somebody that emailed us that went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with him. We do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called a second Date Update. Basically, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>interested in somebody and they don't call you back after

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<v Speaker 1>a date, we call him for you. So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling looking for Luke. Okay, Well, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who this person is, but I think it's probably best

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<v Speaker 1>to just let somehow that Luke is. He's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be available for a while. Is he all right? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Did something happen to Luke? Because Okay, the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he went out with is concerned about him and she's

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to get ahold. Well I understand that, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's nice to hear it. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you can relay the message back to her. That's

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<v Speaker 1>he's not going to call her back. You can't give

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<v Speaker 1>me another number or something. I mean, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call a county jail, you can do that. But

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<v Speaker 1>you saying, so Luke is locked up right now? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's in custody. What did he do? Listen? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what didn't he do? I'm not going to get into

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<v Speaker 1>all that. So that's this his own thing. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>in jail. He's in jail. Hey, what what's your name? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>What's that? What's your name? My name is Bobby. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we have we actually have the girl Kayley on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line, hoping to talk to Luke. What can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell her? Like? Will Luke be calling her back in

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<v Speaker 1>five to ten, twenty five? Life? Like? How long it's

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<v Speaker 1>got time frame? Honestly, I don't really know. I probably

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be speaking about his case. But you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>had a few outstanding warrants and then one thing led

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<v Speaker 1>to another and he had to turn himself in a

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<v Speaker 1>few warrants. How long has he been locked up? Two weeks? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the urgent family matter wasn't necessarily something to do

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<v Speaker 1>with anybody else, just maybe you're your own family. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay, Kayley, do you have a mess did you'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to send to Luke on the inside? Wait? Who

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<v Speaker 1>is I'm Kaylee? Who who are you? You dated Luke? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't date him, like bleorah. We had one date

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<v Speaker 1>and it was really good and then the next day

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<v Speaker 1>he called me, was like, oh my gosh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>family emergency al call you soon as I can. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I didn't hear back from him. His sons been weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just curious to do a really good time. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't You didn't mention anything to me, But so

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<v Speaker 1>what how do you know him? How to like like

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<v Speaker 1>a world? Ye? Man, he just like randomly foundily on gates?

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<v Speaker 1>But did he do that a lot? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know how many how many people he's not

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook? But so wait a minute. You only went

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<v Speaker 1>on one date then, right, yeah, one day? So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what she told you he did, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know he was working a minimum wage shop. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a firefighter and I take care of myself pretty well,

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<v Speaker 1>so just throw that fact out there right here. A firefighter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, you know, we weren't here on our date,

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<v Speaker 1>so like he didn't like wine and dine me. We

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<v Speaker 1>went out and we had like cheap ears and playol.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, you need to have a that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>man date, like a guy needs to take you on

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<v Speaker 1>on a real date. What's a real date? Like dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like you know, you got to sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and have dinner, get to know one another. Just

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it sounds like Luke. It sounds like he

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<v Speaker 1>just took somebody bowling, Like that's the stuff he was

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<v Speaker 1>doing back in high school. It was a little more

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<v Speaker 1>flirtatious than bowling. I don't know. I think this is

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<v Speaker 1>more flirtatious than is this really happening right now? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I ask Can I ask you guys a question? Bobby,

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<v Speaker 1>would you be interested in going out with Kaylee? Your

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<v Speaker 1>brother only went out on one date with her. We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it. The girls that Lucas dated in

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<v Speaker 1>the task, he's dated some some cute girls. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're like anything any of the girls that he's

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<v Speaker 1>dated before, I mean, what kind of brother are you serious? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>he's locked up, what are you gonna do? He's gotta

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<v Speaker 1>take care of his You know, the girls that he's

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<v Speaker 1>dating hus some out, they're gonna get lonely. I bet

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<v Speaker 1>this brother even turned him in, like you're ratting him

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<v Speaker 1>out and taking his women. Bobby, do you have many

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<v Speaker 1>court dates or anything that we should know about? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm free and clear. Nice? Are you the hotter brother Bobby?

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<v Speaker 1>My family says I am. So you know I've always

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<v Speaker 1>been lifting the key one is what they said. So

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Well, Bobby, would you like to take Kaylee

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date? Your brother won't know about it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down with it. Kaylee sounded like you deserve to

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<v Speaker 1>be wined and dined after this experience. O God, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's the least I could do to sort

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<v Speaker 1>of say, we're sorry for this unfortunate perfect We're sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm kind it down play Hopefully they are

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<v Speaker 1>not playing this in the jailyard right now. Dude, your

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<v Speaker 1>brother Bus has a really bad karma. Well, congratulations, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys you got a first date out of our second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put you guys on the phone so you can

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<v Speaker 1>get it all figured out. Okay, Bobby, cool? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell your brother to stay strong and broken Jupil. In

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, it might seem