WEBVTT - Staying Curious, Making Changes & Sipping Proffee (Protein Coffee) 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:04.520 All right, break it down. 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:08.719 If you ever have feelings that you just fons Amy 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:13.000 and Cat, gotcha, Cob and locking a brother, Ladies and felts, 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:15.560 do you just follow an the spirit where it's all 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:19.799 the front over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and them. 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:23.360 But Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:28.479 just stop you feel things. This is feeling things with 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:29.360 Amy and Kat. 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:32.199 Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat, 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:35.680 and We've got our feelings of the day. I'll start 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:38.240 because mine is more of a question with a feeling, 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:42.240 because I'm curious. My feeling is curious about what you 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.680 would do if you saw something in someone's teeth but 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:47.599 you didn't really know them that well. Let me give 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.720 you the scenario. So I'm at my house and I 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:52.879 just chopped up the salad and I was eating it, 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.920 and then these workers came. They weren't going to do 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:57.560 the work at my house, but they were coming to 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:01.880 sort of assess the situation and plan out. I guess 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:06.000 how they're gonna do whatever. So three guys, three at 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:08.000 my door, and I walk around my house with them 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:11.760 for at least fifteen minutes, and then they leave and 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:13.560 I look in the mirror and I have a big 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:16.760 piece of leather right here on my tooth. Nobody told me, 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.080 and I'm like, okay, and here's the what we need 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.520 in this room. And then over in this bathroom this 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:24.000 is broken da da da, And I'm sure. I'm just 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:26.880 like you know, and now all three, I mean sure 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:28.319 they walked out and they're like, do you see that? 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:29.280 Let us in her teeth? 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:33.080 So like, do you know why they didn't see it? 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:35.920 There's the way they didn't see it. I'm talking about 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.080 dark leafy green. Okay. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:39.160 It wasn't like iceberg. 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:44.160 No, not, dang it, a light piece of romaine. We're 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:46.840 talking like mixed greens, the purple one. 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:47.720 Oh no. 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:48.600 Yeah. 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:51.560 And you were probably really smiling too, because you're really friendly. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:54.000 Well yeah, and I think that one of them made 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:57.080 some like joke at some point and then I was like, 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:01.520 oh yeah, haha, and then he and so I definitely, yes, yes, 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:04.560 Like the vibe was good, Like I'm like, oh, I 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:06.800 like these guys. I'm glad. I mean, I've actually worked 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:08.359 with them before, but I hadn't seen them in a 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:09.359 little bit, so it's sort of. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:10.520 Like, Hey, how's it going. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:12.160 I'm sure. I was like, how are you. 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:15.800 And I have let us write. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:16.440 In my tooth? 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:17.480 So what would you do? 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:21.640 Well, I guess I'm like, well, yeah, well would I do? 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.040 Would I just know that it was there the whole 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.200 time and she's just at home, Like, say, I see 0:02:26.200 --> 0:02:28.840 it in somebody else's teeth and I'm at their house. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:31.119 I'm like, she's not out in public, we're not at home. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:33.399 I don't want to embarrass her, be awkward to being like, oh, 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:36.400 you have something in your teeth, but I still would 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:39.440 like to know. So I guess I've debated what I 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.800 would do and would I say anything? And I guess 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:44.280 if I was being hired by somebody and I don't 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:46.080 want to make them feel uncomfortable, then I'm just not 0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:48.560 going to say anything. But now I'm also uncomfortable knowing 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:50.480 that I had it the whole time and they didn't 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:51.080 say anything. 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:54.880 I think the hope there is is that they don't 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:56.760 say anything, they don't have to address it, and you 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:59.280 drink some water and flesh that out before you see it. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:02.320 And then nobody knows. That's the hope that is nailed it. 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.440 That is the ideal situation. However, it's not what happened. 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:08.560 I have a mirror in my kitchen and walked by 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:12.000 it whenever they left and saw it, and I thought, 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:16.880 oh my goodness, well that was fun. And you know, 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.840 I have a boyfriend. It's fine. It's not like I 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:21.360 was interested in one of the guys I have got. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:25.480 Well one of them was kind of cute, but whatever. 0:03:26.200 --> 0:03:29.519 Friend cry Ocat Cryocat is single. She's like, did you 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:31.680 get his number? I mean I have his number. He's 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.960 doing work at my house. Hopefully he doesn't listen to this. 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:40.840 Hopefully does yes, Hopefully he does listen, because then we 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.240 have more male listeners and then he next time gonna 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:45.320 be like, you know what, we should have addressed it. 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:46.160 And I'm sorry. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.080 I thought I was doing the right thing and apparently 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:50.320 like I've learned something, thank you for talking about it. 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:51.240 It's money awareness. 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.280 I'm picturing like contractors when they're at work, like what 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:59.200 they're listening to is likely not feeling like hey, Bud's 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:05.600 so which feeling the other day that was me like 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:10.320 spitting you know, just like you know, like I'm just 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:16.120 picturing like people working and be like like they're dipping 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:25.200 like a no, my feeling the day is gassy. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:27.919 You're just thinking contractors are just partying around. 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.960 No, No, they're hard workers. Like they're working hard, and 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:34.919 I just picture them being like all like, you know, 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:38.240 buzzing on their tools and being like, man, I'm just 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:42.240 feeling confused and grateful because you know, two feelings can 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:50.480 be true at the same time. So maybe they are listening. Hey, guys, 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:55.280 next time, tell me that I have spinach or lettuce 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:56.960 or whatever in my teeth or whatever it is. 0:04:57.040 --> 0:04:58.000 It could be a chia seed. 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:02.760 I don't know, oh seeds. Oh can't, I can't. You 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.400 know what you were so right about one hundred percent. 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:07.280 And we're gonna get to your feeling of the day 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:09.880 in a minute, because I'm I'm also curious about that 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:11.760 because I know you have a whole story that I've 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:15.600 been waiting to hear, you know, update on your personal life. Yeah, 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.200 it's big, feel it's big. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.039 It's big. But I want you to say this because 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:19.400 I need the. 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:24.200 Cat needs the validation. I amy admit to you Kat 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:28.440 in our Protein Balls, which is our first cooking show 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.280 ever that we uploaded her first of two. We have 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:34.880 two cooking shows. We have a Homemade Pasta and Protein Balls. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:39.440 They're both chef's kiss. Is that what they say? 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:39.480 It? 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:41.840 Yeah, except this, except this. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.960 So I noticed because I've been making I pull up 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:47.360 our post anytime I need the recipe. It's not that hard. 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.039 You think I should have it memorized, but I just 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:51.240 I get nervous. I want to make sure that I've 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:54.280 got everything right. And I know we omitted the chia 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:56.520 seeds out of the video. I think I deleted that 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:59.160 part out of the video because it's part of the recipe. 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.040 But while we're doing video, cats like I really think 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:02.599 we should leave the gia seeds out, and I'm like, no, 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:04.840 it's fine, We're gonna leave the geat seeds in. So 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:07.880 we do, and we make the balls for the video 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:10.359 and then we have to eat those and they have 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.040 the chia seeds in them and they are getting stuck 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.039 in my teeth left and right, and they are so annoying. 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:15.919 And that's what that's what you said they would be. 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.840 And I was like, no, no, no, gia seeds for life, 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:22.840 like I'm keeping them in. Well, I delete it out 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:24.479 of the video, but if you go down to the 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:28.800 recipe part, which is in the caption, I still have 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:30.599 chia seeds in there. So I actually need to go 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:34.000 in and edit it and delete it because we don't 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:38.120 need to send people down that path because emotional distress 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:41.120 picking chia seeds out of their teeth. 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:43.360 The only time you should be eating a chia seed 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.520 is if you're home and nobody's gonna come over for 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:48.279 a while and you're eating by yourself and you can 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:49.159 brush your teeth after. 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:52.960 Because those pesky little fellas. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.720 That is what they think is exactly what they should 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.520 be called. They should be renamed. 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:58.719 Peski little fellas seeds. 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:01.479 Wait, we could have a brand of chia seeds called 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:04.000 pesky Little fellas, but pesky. 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:11.080 Little fes but like, why why would we wouldn't be 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:14.840 the worst salespeople ever because we like buyer up. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.000 They called that, and like because they're annoying and like, 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:19.960 well and I don't want them. 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:22.280 Well, if you blend that they are they do serve 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:25.880 a purpose and they can be good for you. So 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.760 you can blend them in a smoothie and you'll never 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.400 have them stuck in your teeth. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.760 Like you just don't really blend that smoothie though. 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.320 Yeah, but I think once you do, or yeah, they're 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:37.800 pesty little suckers. 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.240 They're not just fellas, there's little suckers. 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:41.360 Yeah pls. 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:41.640 Yeah. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:42.720 I used to eat well. 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:45.560 I do make those to eat in between like therapy sessions. 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:47.640 But when I made a batch with gia seeds, I 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.880 had to not eat them at those times of the 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.960 day because I had ten minutes to eat that and 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:54.320 then like go rinse my mouth out. 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:56.440 Oh yeah, and like you're with a client, you sit 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:59.600 down distracted. If I was in a therapy session in 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:01.800 my therapeut sad geo seeds in her teeth, So you 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:04.320 would say something, I guess I really don't know what 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.160 I would do till I'm exactly in this situation. I 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:08.320 would like to think I always lean just tell them 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:10.880 because someone would rather know. But like also the geo seeds, 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.840 you can kind of feel okay when you're in the car. 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:15.960 I got one stuck and I had no other way, 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:17.280 and I had like dig in my bag for a 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.200 piece of paper and then get the paper and like 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:22.800 dig the cheese seed out. So we've omitted it from 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.680 our protein balls. Go make them because they are so good. 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.200 I've been making double batches in fact, my boyfriend's kids. 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:30.080 Like the last time I made them, I made a 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.360 double batch for my house and then for his house, 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.200 and he took them home and he put them in 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.240 a bag that night. The next day, by one pm, 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:40.520 he's like, they're all gone. They've eaten them all. And 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:43.559 I'm like, well, now I'm gonna need to do triple that, 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:47.240 which which is a compliment to our protein balls. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.839 You you've made that batch, and so. 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:53.080 I highly recommend people make those. And then I do 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:54.800 need to do everybody a favor, and I need to 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.400 go into the because I know, to admit omit it. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.560 But if other people are just now finding that recipe 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:01.839 and they're like, oh, I want to try these, and 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:03.760 they're doing the cheese seeds, and they're gonna be annoyed 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.560 with us because and we're like, oh, these pesky little suckos, 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:11.880 Now they're stuck in my teeth. But protein balls are legit. 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.880 That's one way we're getting extra protein. I'm also getting 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:17.360 protein through my profy protein. 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.680 Coffee Profe proffee I like better. 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.480 I use my vanilla almond milk and I mix it 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:25.400 in with my coffee and it's my little latte with 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:28.439 twenty five grams of protein. Not just any protein, high 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:29.840 quality isopure protein. 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.160 I'm glad that we're talking about this, because my favorite 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:34.400 breakfast is a sesame bagel with butter. 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:35.800 How many rooms protein are in that? 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.040 I don't think any enough? 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.199 None. But now that you're saying this, I can have 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:41.800 my bagel and I can have my profy. 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:44.240 Yes, the snurgs they can do it too. We have 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:47.280 a code Feel twenty. You can try it for yourself 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:50.440 at isopureprotein dot com. Boom. You pop in Feel twenty 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:55.160 code at checkout and you're gonna save twenty percent unflavored. 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.920 That is very key your way protein in here. Creamy 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:00.480 vanilla is legit, Like I can add that into smoothies 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:01.880 an oatmeal, no problem, It's good. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:05.240 That's a game changer because you add the vanilla and 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:07.120 it just adds a little extra like ye. 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:09.959 You're gonna think I'm crazy. But also in my oatmeal, 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:11.440 I will sprinkle sea salt on top. 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:12.920 What I don't know. 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:14.400 I just love salty sweets. 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:16.480 I'm gonna go get a proffee and a bagel. Would 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:18.960 you like one? Praffe? Praffee, praffee? 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:22.560 All right, now to your feeling of the today. 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.760 Okay, this isn't that crazy, but also it feels crazy 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:29.440 that they did this. I feel relief because I did 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:33.720 an adult thing today and I have changed my last name. 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:36.920 I feel like I need to put my proffe praffee 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:39.960 pro praffy. I need to put it down, and I 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:43.560 need to clap for you. Thanks guys, that's probably one 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:46.079 of the more annoying things. Like you, there are women 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:49.840 out there that have been married for five, ten, fifteen 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:52.600 years that have wanted to Now. Some women they don't 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:55.320 want to do it, that's fine, respect Others they have 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.880 wanted to do it and they just haven't found it 0:10:57.880 --> 0:11:00.520 in them. And I would like to say, you have 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:02.079 a disadvantage you. 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.800 Have, Adhd. I know, and I'm thank you for acknowledging. 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:08.200 We need to acknowledge your where you are, I don't 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.440 know why I went low, Adhd, I could still go high. Yeah, 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:13.679 we need acknowledge, but wherever the normal brain is, that 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.439 would just be like I need to go change my name, 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.480 So I shall set up an appointment and go change 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:17.800 my name. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:21.560 Like that's not us. So thank you, and I probably 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.120 how long have you been married? A year and a half? 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:28.640 Perfect? I feel like that's solid, very very reasonable. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:31.079 I probably did it in a really bad time, but 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:34.160 I was like, I have the appointment, I'm already planning 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.440 to go. I've already talked myself into going. I have 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.640 to do it. But I'm also in the midst of 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:40.680 selling and buying a new house. So I'm sure that 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:43.760 makes the paperwork a little bit confusing because my ID 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:47.120 and my social Security name now don't match. Because here's 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:49.559 the thing. I could go on about this, and I'm 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:51.840 sure you could too. I'm sure any woman who has 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.040 changed name could go on about this. You don't just 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:56.560 go to the Social Security office and change your name. 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:59.560 You do that you feel something out online, then you 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:01.400 go there. You have an appointment, but you still have 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:03.240 to wait an hour and a half, even though the 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:06.520 appointment actually takes all of three minutes. You do that, 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:08.000 they give you a piece of paper. You can do 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:11.000 anything else until you have that. Then you have to 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.199 get a new driver's license. Then you have to get 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:15.960 another appointment. They have to probably hours of your life. 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:18.199 Then you have to get a new passport. I don't 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:20.479 think that takes hours of your life, but it's expensive. 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.040 Then you have to change all your bank accounts. Then 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.440 I have to change my professional license. Then I have 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:27.800 to like change the name my car is in this name, 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.320 my this is in this name. 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:29.840 Like everything. 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:32.120 It's like there's a million things to do and it's 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:33.839 hours and hours and hours. And I'm like, what can 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:35.680 we make men do that is equal to this because 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:36.280 I don't get it. 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:38.600 Oh yeah, we got to shorten the stick on this one. 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:39.079 For sure. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.360 I think that your husband should have to go with 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:44.679 you to every appointment. Yeah, well technically is paying for it? 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.240 Well, if you have combined accounts, some couples keep everything 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.480 separate that, yeah, he doesn't have to do anything. 0:12:49.600 --> 0:12:52.439 Like. I also have a lot of anxiety and I 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.640 do not love going to new places where I don't 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.360 know what it's going to be like. So I was 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.679 texting somebody who has done this, and I was like, Okay, 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:01.839 what do you do when you get there? 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:05.240 Like are they scary? Like what do you sit somewhere? 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.640 Like? Yeah, I just wanted to know what I was 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:11.680 getting myself into. And if you are going to Nashville, 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.480 I will let you know. It's really simple. You just 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.640 go in through a door, you check in on your phone, 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:19.080 you sit there and wait until they call your name. 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:22.040 It wasn't bad, but that was part of why it 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:25.120 haven't gone also because I'm like, oh, this feels scary, 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.640 but if my husband went with me, I wouldn't have 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.679 that fear. Awkward moments are not awkward as much when 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:32.400 you're with somebody else. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:33.480 Yeah, like when you have a buddy. 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:34.480 Yeah. 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:36.800 Which also makes me think I'm having like a squirrel 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:40.160 thought when you go to a friend's house like you've 0:13:40.160 --> 0:13:41.160 never been to their house before. 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:42.400 Do you hit nervous. 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.160 When you go to a friend's house like you've never 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.520 been to their house before. Do you hit nervous, like 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:02.160 nervous about what I'm land? Yes, like if I'm going 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:06.360 to where's the bathroom? Where are the exits? No, not 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.120 so much that, but like, am I gonna go knock 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:09.800 on the right door? 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:10.760 Oh? 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:12.520 Like A lot of times when I go to somebody's 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.440 house for the first time, I'll text them be like 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:16.440 I'm here. She's making sure this is the right place 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:19.880 before I go knock on their door because, oh my gosh, 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:23.920 can you imagine knock, knock, knock, and it's like somebody's grandma. 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:25.880 Like, you're at the wrong house, not your friend's grandma. 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:26.280 I don't know. 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:27.800 I'm trying to think the last time I went somewhere 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:31.440 knew like a house that was new cry okat just 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.720 brought up. We went to our friend Jen's house one 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:35.320 day to lay out the pool and she was already 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:37.480 laying out at her pool. And her house is rather 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:43.120 how shall I put it, large and beautiful, and yeah, 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:45.680 I think I was a little intimidated, but she's big, 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.880 down to earth. I think it depends on Like for me, 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:50.760 it's not just any house. I think it just depends 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:53.080 on who I'm meeting because she but she's so cool 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:55.920 and down to earth. It felt comfortable. So I'm trying 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:59.320 to think of anytime I felt awkward or uncomfortable going 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.040 to someone's house. I guess I just don't now, I 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:02.520 don't have that feeling like you do. 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:03.560 You know what I love? 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:06.600 Okay, what when you're going to a party somewhere and 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:09.840 they have balloons on the mailbox, that's helpful, So shout 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:12.680 out if anybody is planning a shower or a party 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:15.640 for anything. If you're inviting a large amount of people, 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.840 one of those people is probably nervous about coming, and 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.400 I'm nervous about going to the wrong door. 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:21.600 So if you just put a little sign or something 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:22.160 so they know. 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:26.160 I appreciate balloons on if it's difficult to find, like 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:28.760 any corner leading up to the event. Like I like 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:32.360 signs with arrows and balloons because that's really good for 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:35.440 my brain. Because looking at a map, I do get nervous. 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:38.720 But I love when it's like, oh, left here where 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:41.320 the balloons are, and then you'll see more balloons. To 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:44.480 turn right and then you'll see the house that's goot balloons. 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:45.520 That's legit. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:48.480 But that definitely takes thought and time and planning. And 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:50.920 I don't really know what kind of party I'm going 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:52.800 to that has that, but I know that I've had 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:53.840 that situation before, like. 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:57.880 A wedding, like the backyard wedding reception. 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:01.120 Reception boomah, that has been like out somewhere that's not 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:03.440 easy to navigate, and then you have balloons that guide you. 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:05.720 It's legit. Yeah, Like I could just have that on 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:07.200 a Tuesday, going to somebody's house. 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:08.840 Now you didn't go to my I don't think you 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:10.480 were at my wedding shower. 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:11.400 Were you? 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:11.680 You would? 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:13.760 Yeah, you know, because I would remember. I know where 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:16.040 it was. I can't remember why I couldn't go unless 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:17.280 it's so that you didn't invite. 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:21.440 Me you were I'm just kidding. I know, I don't. 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:22.440 I don't think I could make it. 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:22.920 I don't remember. 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:25.920 But every reason it wasn't like just no, don't feel 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:29.320 like it wasn't like, eh, my sister in law and 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:32.760 my brother live on a farm, so their house was 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:33.840 really difficult to get to. 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:36.840 You literally, why people were like driving down there was 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:38.280 a bunch of cows in the middle of the road 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:39.440 that they had to like honk at. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.200 It was like a welcoming committee house. 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:42.160 I would have loved that. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:44.640 You actually would have loved it. It was cute. Well 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:47.000 of close cows because they smell and there's a lot 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:47.720 of flies around them. 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:48.320 It's fine. 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:49.280 Anyway. 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.440 I think she had to put a balloon on the 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:53.880 mailbox because you literally turn and you just turned into 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:55.560 a farm versus like a house. 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.280 So people like that. I think she knows to do that. 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:00.920 But I'm saying, even if you're house is on a 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:03.920 very normal street and the house number is very clear, 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.000 still balloons might help your anxious friends. 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:09.320 Yeah, so keep that in mind. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:11.840 And maybe the Social Security office with the balloons on 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:13.040 the front of the victor's woe. 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.640 Yeah, like you're here, You're at the right place. Yeah, 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:19.119 speaking of becoming a wife and you changing your name 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:22.639