Speaker 1: All right, break it down.
Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just fons Amy
Speaker 2: and Cat, gotcha, Cob and locking a brother, Ladies and felts,
Speaker 2: do you just follow an the spirit where it's all
Speaker 2: the front over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and them.
Speaker 2: But Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it
Speaker 2: just stop you feel things. This is feeling things with
Speaker 2: Amy and Kat.
Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat,
Speaker 1: and We've got our feelings of the day. I'll start
Speaker 1: because mine is more of a question with a feeling,
Speaker 1: because I'm curious. My feeling is curious about what you
Speaker 1: would do if you saw something in someone's teeth but
Speaker 1: you didn't really know them that well. Let me give
Speaker 1: you the scenario. So I'm at my house and I
Speaker 1: just chopped up the salad and I was eating it,
Speaker 1: and then these workers came. They weren't going to do
Speaker 1: the work at my house, but they were coming to
Speaker 1: sort of assess the situation and plan out. I guess
Speaker 1: how they're gonna do whatever. So three guys, three at
Speaker 1: my door, and I walk around my house with them
Speaker 1: for at least fifteen minutes, and then they leave and
Speaker 1: I look in the mirror and I have a big
Speaker 1: piece of leather right here on my tooth. Nobody told me,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, and here's the what we need
Speaker 1: in this room. And then over in this bathroom this
Speaker 1: is broken da da da, And I'm sure. I'm just
Speaker 1: like you know, and now all three, I mean sure
Speaker 1: they walked out and they're like, do you see that?
Speaker 1: Let us in her teeth?
Speaker 3: So like, do you know why they didn't see it?
Speaker 1: There's the way they didn't see it. I'm talking about
Speaker 1: dark leafy green. Okay.
Speaker 3: It wasn't like iceberg.
Speaker 1: No, not, dang it, a light piece of romaine. We're
Speaker 1: talking like mixed greens, the purple one.
Speaker 4: Oh no.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And you were probably really smiling too, because you're really friendly.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, and I think that one of them made
Speaker 1: some like joke at some point and then I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, haha, and then he and so I definitely, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: Like the vibe was good, Like I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 1: like these guys. I'm glad. I mean, I've actually worked
Speaker 1: with them before, but I hadn't seen them in a
Speaker 1: little bit, so it's sort of.
Speaker 3: Like, Hey, how's it going.
Speaker 1: I'm sure. I was like, how are you.
Speaker 3: And I have let us write.
Speaker 1: In my tooth?
Speaker 3: So what would you do?
Speaker 1: Well, I guess I'm like, well, yeah, well would I do?
Speaker 1: Would I just know that it was there the whole
Speaker 1: time and she's just at home, Like, say, I see
Speaker 1: it in somebody else's teeth and I'm at their house.
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's not out in public, we're not at home.
Speaker 1: I don't want to embarrass her, be awkward to being like, oh,
Speaker 1: you have something in your teeth, but I still would
Speaker 1: like to know. So I guess I've debated what I
Speaker 1: would do and would I say anything? And I guess
Speaker 1: if I was being hired by somebody and I don't
Speaker 1: want to make them feel uncomfortable, then I'm just not
Speaker 1: going to say anything. But now I'm also uncomfortable knowing
Speaker 1: that I had it the whole time and they didn't
Speaker 1: say anything.
Speaker 5: I think the hope there is is that they don't
Speaker 5: say anything, they don't have to address it, and you
Speaker 5: drink some water and flesh that out before you see it.
Speaker 1: And then nobody knows. That's the hope that is nailed it.
Speaker 1: That is the ideal situation. However, it's not what happened.
Speaker 1: I have a mirror in my kitchen and walked by
Speaker 1: it whenever they left and saw it, and I thought,
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, well that was fun. And you know,
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend. It's fine. It's not like I
Speaker 1: was interested in one of the guys I have got.
Speaker 1: Well one of them was kind of cute, but whatever.
Speaker 1: Friend cry Ocat Cryocat is single. She's like, did you
Speaker 1: get his number? I mean I have his number. He's
Speaker 1: doing work at my house. Hopefully he doesn't listen to this.
Speaker 5: Hopefully does yes, Hopefully he does listen, because then we
Speaker 5: have more male listeners and then he next time gonna
Speaker 5: be like, you know what, we should have addressed it.
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: I thought I was doing the right thing and apparently
Speaker 5: like I've learned something, thank you for talking about it.
Speaker 3: It's money awareness.
Speaker 1: I'm picturing like contractors when they're at work, like what
Speaker 1: they're listening to is likely not feeling like hey, Bud's
Speaker 1: so which feeling the other day that was me like
Speaker 1: spitting you know, just like you know, like I'm just
Speaker 1: picturing like people working and be like like they're dipping
Speaker 1: like a no, my feeling the day is gassy.
Speaker 3: You're just thinking contractors are just partying around.
Speaker 1: No, No, they're hard workers. Like they're working hard, and
Speaker 1: I just picture them being like all like, you know,
Speaker 1: buzzing on their tools and being like, man, I'm just
Speaker 1: feeling confused and grateful because you know, two feelings can
Speaker 1: be true at the same time. So maybe they are listening. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: next time, tell me that I have spinach or lettuce
Speaker 1: or whatever in my teeth or whatever it is.
Speaker 3: It could be a chia seed.
Speaker 1: I don't know, oh seeds. Oh can't, I can't. You
Speaker 1: know what you were so right about one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: And we're gonna get to your feeling of the day
Speaker 1: in a minute, because I'm I'm also curious about that
Speaker 1: because I know you have a whole story that I've
Speaker 1: been waiting to hear, you know, update on your personal life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's big, feel it's big.
Speaker 3: It's big. But I want you to say this because
Speaker 3: I need the.
Speaker 1: Cat needs the validation. I amy admit to you Kat
Speaker 1: in our Protein Balls, which is our first cooking show
Speaker 1: ever that we uploaded her first of two. We have
Speaker 1: two cooking shows. We have a Homemade Pasta and Protein Balls.
Speaker 1: They're both chef's kiss. Is that what they say?
Speaker 5: It?
Speaker 3: Yeah, except this, except this.
Speaker 1: So I noticed because I've been making I pull up
Speaker 1: our post anytime I need the recipe. It's not that hard.
Speaker 1: You think I should have it memorized, but I just
Speaker 1: I get nervous. I want to make sure that I've
Speaker 1: got everything right. And I know we omitted the chia
Speaker 1: seeds out of the video. I think I deleted that
Speaker 1: part out of the video because it's part of the recipe.
Speaker 1: But while we're doing video, cats like I really think
Speaker 1: we should leave the gia seeds out, and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: it's fine, We're gonna leave the geat seeds in. So
Speaker 1: we do, and we make the balls for the video
Speaker 1: and then we have to eat those and they have
Speaker 1: the chia seeds in them and they are getting stuck
Speaker 1: in my teeth left and right, and they are so annoying.
Speaker 1: And that's what that's what you said they would be.
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, no, no, gia seeds for life,
Speaker 1: like I'm keeping them in. Well, I delete it out
Speaker 1: of the video, but if you go down to the
Speaker 1: recipe part, which is in the caption, I still have
Speaker 1: chia seeds in there. So I actually need to go
Speaker 1: in and edit it and delete it because we don't
Speaker 1: need to send people down that path because emotional distress
Speaker 1: picking chia seeds out of their teeth.
Speaker 5: The only time you should be eating a chia seed
Speaker 5: is if you're home and nobody's gonna come over for
Speaker 5: a while and you're eating by yourself and you can
Speaker 5: brush your teeth after.
Speaker 3: Because those pesky little fellas.
Speaker 1: That is what they think is exactly what they should
Speaker 1: be called. They should be renamed.
Speaker 3: Peski little fellas seeds.
Speaker 5: Wait, we could have a brand of chia seeds called
Speaker 5: pesky Little fellas, but pesky.
Speaker 1: Little fes but like, why why would we wouldn't be
Speaker 1: the worst salespeople ever because we like buyer up.
Speaker 5: They called that, and like because they're annoying and like,
Speaker 5: well and I don't want them.
Speaker 1: Well, if you blend that they are they do serve
Speaker 1: a purpose and they can be good for you. So
Speaker 1: you can blend them in a smoothie and you'll never
Speaker 1: have them stuck in your teeth.
Speaker 3: Like you just don't really blend that smoothie though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think once you do, or yeah, they're
Speaker 1: pesty little suckers.
Speaker 3: They're not just fellas, there's little suckers.
Speaker 1: Yeah pls.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I used to eat well.
Speaker 5: I do make those to eat in between like therapy sessions.
Speaker 5: But when I made a batch with gia seeds, I
Speaker 5: had to not eat them at those times of the
Speaker 5: day because I had ten minutes to eat that and
Speaker 5: then like go rinse my mouth out.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and like you're with a client, you sit
Speaker 1: down distracted. If I was in a therapy session in
Speaker 1: my therapeut sad geo seeds in her teeth, So you
Speaker 1: would say something, I guess I really don't know what
Speaker 1: I would do till I'm exactly in this situation. I
Speaker 1: would like to think I always lean just tell them
Speaker 1: because someone would rather know. But like also the geo seeds,
Speaker 1: you can kind of feel okay when you're in the car.
Speaker 1: I got one stuck and I had no other way,
Speaker 1: and I had like dig in my bag for a
Speaker 1: piece of paper and then get the paper and like
Speaker 1: dig the cheese seed out. So we've omitted it from
Speaker 1: our protein balls. Go make them because they are so good.
Speaker 1: I've been making double batches in fact, my boyfriend's kids.
Speaker 1: Like the last time I made them, I made a
Speaker 1: double batch for my house and then for his house,
Speaker 1: and he took them home and he put them in
Speaker 1: a bag that night. The next day, by one pm,
Speaker 1: he's like, they're all gone. They've eaten them all. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, now I'm gonna need to do triple that,
Speaker 1: which which is a compliment to our protein balls.
Speaker 3: You you've made that batch, and so.
Speaker 1: I highly recommend people make those. And then I do
Speaker 1: need to do everybody a favor, and I need to
Speaker 1: go into the because I know, to admit omit it.
Speaker 1: But if other people are just now finding that recipe
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, I want to try these, and
Speaker 1: they're doing the cheese seeds, and they're gonna be annoyed
Speaker 1: with us because and we're like, oh, these pesky little suckos,
Speaker 1: Now they're stuck in my teeth. But protein balls are legit.
Speaker 1: That's one way we're getting extra protein. I'm also getting
Speaker 1: protein through my profy protein.
Speaker 3: Coffee Profe proffee I like better.
Speaker 1: I use my vanilla almond milk and I mix it
Speaker 1: in with my coffee and it's my little latte with
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Speaker 5: I'm glad that we're talking about this, because my favorite
Speaker 5: breakfast is a sesame bagel with butter.
Speaker 3: How many rooms protein are in that?
Speaker 1: I don't think any enough?
Speaker 3: None. But now that you're saying this, I can have
Speaker 3: my bagel and I can have my profy.
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Speaker 1: That is very key your way protein in here. Creamy
Speaker 1: vanilla is legit, Like I can add that into smoothies
Speaker 1: an oatmeal, no problem, It's good.
Speaker 5: That's a game changer because you add the vanilla and
Speaker 5: it just adds a little extra like ye.
Speaker 1: You're gonna think I'm crazy. But also in my oatmeal,
Speaker 1: I will sprinkle sea salt on top.
Speaker 3: What I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just love salty sweets.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go get a proffee and a bagel. Would
Speaker 3: you like one? Praffe? Praffee, praffee?
Speaker 1: All right, now to your feeling of the today.
Speaker 5: Okay, this isn't that crazy, but also it feels crazy
Speaker 5: that they did this. I feel relief because I did
Speaker 5: an adult thing today and I have changed my last name.
Speaker 1: I feel like I need to put my proffe praffee
Speaker 1: pro praffy. I need to put it down, and I
Speaker 1: need to clap for you. Thanks guys, that's probably one
Speaker 1: of the more annoying things. Like you, there are women
Speaker 1: out there that have been married for five, ten, fifteen
Speaker 1: years that have wanted to Now. Some women they don't
Speaker 1: want to do it, that's fine, respect Others they have
Speaker 1: wanted to do it and they just haven't found it
Speaker 1: in them. And I would like to say, you have
Speaker 1: a disadvantage you.
Speaker 3: Have, Adhd. I know, and I'm thank you for acknowledging.
Speaker 1: We need to acknowledge your where you are, I don't
Speaker 1: know why I went low, Adhd, I could still go high. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we need acknowledge, but wherever the normal brain is, that
Speaker 1: would just be like I need to go change my name,
Speaker 1: So I shall set up an appointment and go change
Speaker 1: my name.
Speaker 3: Like that's not us. So thank you, and I probably
Speaker 3: how long have you been married? A year and a half?
Speaker 1: Perfect? I feel like that's solid, very very reasonable.
Speaker 5: I probably did it in a really bad time, but
Speaker 5: I was like, I have the appointment, I'm already planning
Speaker 5: to go. I've already talked myself into going. I have
Speaker 5: to do it. But I'm also in the midst of
Speaker 5: selling and buying a new house. So I'm sure that
Speaker 5: makes the paperwork a little bit confusing because my ID
Speaker 5: and my social Security name now don't match. Because here's
Speaker 5: the thing. I could go on about this, and I'm
Speaker 5: sure you could too. I'm sure any woman who has
Speaker 5: changed name could go on about this. You don't just
Speaker 5: go to the Social Security office and change your name.
Speaker 5: You do that you feel something out online, then you
Speaker 5: go there. You have an appointment, but you still have
Speaker 5: to wait an hour and a half, even though the
Speaker 5: appointment actually takes all of three minutes. You do that,
Speaker 5: they give you a piece of paper. You can do
Speaker 5: anything else until you have that. Then you have to
Speaker 5: get a new driver's license. Then you have to get
Speaker 5: another appointment. They have to probably hours of your life.
Speaker 5: Then you have to get a new passport. I don't
Speaker 5: think that takes hours of your life, but it's expensive.
Speaker 5: Then you have to change all your bank accounts. Then
Speaker 5: I have to change my professional license. Then I have
Speaker 5: to like change the name my car is in this name,
Speaker 5: my this is in this name.
Speaker 3: Like everything.
Speaker 5: It's like there's a million things to do and it's
Speaker 5: hours and hours and hours. And I'm like, what can
Speaker 5: we make men do that is equal to this because
Speaker 5: I don't get it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we got to shorten the stick on this one.
Speaker 1: For sure.
Speaker 3: I think that your husband should have to go with
Speaker 3: you to every appointment. Yeah, well technically is paying for it?
Speaker 1: Well, if you have combined accounts, some couples keep everything
Speaker 1: separate that, yeah, he doesn't have to do anything.
Speaker 5: Like. I also have a lot of anxiety and I
Speaker 5: do not love going to new places where I don't
Speaker 5: know what it's going to be like. So I was
Speaker 5: texting somebody who has done this, and I was like, Okay,
Speaker 5: what do you do when you get there?
Speaker 3: Like are they scary? Like what do you sit somewhere?
Speaker 5: Like? Yeah, I just wanted to know what I was
Speaker 5: getting myself into. And if you are going to Nashville,
Speaker 5: I will let you know. It's really simple. You just
Speaker 5: go in through a door, you check in on your phone,
Speaker 5: you sit there and wait until they call your name.
Speaker 5: It wasn't bad, but that was part of why it
Speaker 5: haven't gone also because I'm like, oh, this feels scary,
Speaker 5: but if my husband went with me, I wouldn't have
Speaker 5: that fear. Awkward moments are not awkward as much when
Speaker 5: you're with somebody else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like when you have a buddy.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Which also makes me think I'm having like a squirrel
Speaker 5: thought when you go to a friend's house like you've
Speaker 5: never been to their house before.
Speaker 3: Do you hit nervous.
Speaker 5: When you go to a friend's house like you've never
Speaker 5: been to their house before. Do you hit nervous, like
Speaker 5: nervous about what I'm land? Yes, like if I'm going
Speaker 5: to where's the bathroom? Where are the exits? No, not
Speaker 5: so much that, but like, am I gonna go knock
Speaker 5: on the right door?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Like A lot of times when I go to somebody's
Speaker 5: house for the first time, I'll text them be like
Speaker 5: I'm here. She's making sure this is the right place
Speaker 5: before I go knock on their door because, oh my gosh,
Speaker 5: can you imagine knock, knock, knock, and it's like somebody's grandma.
Speaker 1: Like, you're at the wrong house, not your friend's grandma.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think the last time I went somewhere
Speaker 1: knew like a house that was new cry okat just
Speaker 1: brought up. We went to our friend Jen's house one
Speaker 1: day to lay out the pool and she was already
Speaker 1: laying out at her pool. And her house is rather
Speaker 1: how shall I put it, large and beautiful, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I was a little intimidated, but she's big,
Speaker 1: down to earth. I think it depends on Like for me,
Speaker 1: it's not just any house. I think it just depends
Speaker 1: on who I'm meeting because she but she's so cool
Speaker 1: and down to earth. It felt comfortable. So I'm trying
Speaker 1: to think of anytime I felt awkward or uncomfortable going
Speaker 1: to someone's house. I guess I just don't now, I
Speaker 1: don't have that feeling like you do.
Speaker 3: You know what I love?
Speaker 5: Okay, what when you're going to a party somewhere and
Speaker 5: they have balloons on the mailbox, that's helpful, So shout
Speaker 5: out if anybody is planning a shower or a party
Speaker 5: for anything. If you're inviting a large amount of people,
Speaker 5: one of those people is probably nervous about coming, and
Speaker 5: I'm nervous about going to the wrong door.
Speaker 3: So if you just put a little sign or something
Speaker 3: so they know.
Speaker 1: I appreciate balloons on if it's difficult to find, like
Speaker 1: any corner leading up to the event. Like I like
Speaker 1: signs with arrows and balloons because that's really good for
Speaker 1: my brain. Because looking at a map, I do get nervous.
Speaker 1: But I love when it's like, oh, left here where
Speaker 1: the balloons are, and then you'll see more balloons. To
Speaker 1: turn right and then you'll see the house that's goot balloons.
Speaker 3: That's legit.
Speaker 1: But that definitely takes thought and time and planning. And
Speaker 1: I don't really know what kind of party I'm going
Speaker 1: to that has that, but I know that I've had
Speaker 1: that situation before, like.
Speaker 3: A wedding, like the backyard wedding reception.
Speaker 1: Reception boomah, that has been like out somewhere that's not
Speaker 1: easy to navigate, and then you have balloons that guide you.
Speaker 1: It's legit. Yeah, Like I could just have that on
Speaker 1: a Tuesday, going to somebody's house.
Speaker 3: Now you didn't go to my I don't think you
Speaker 3: were at my wedding shower.
Speaker 1: Were you?
Speaker 3: You would?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, because I would remember. I know where
Speaker 1: it was. I can't remember why I couldn't go unless
Speaker 1: it's so that you didn't invite.
Speaker 3: Me you were I'm just kidding. I know, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think I could make it.
Speaker 3: I don't remember.
Speaker 4: But every reason it wasn't like just no, don't feel
Speaker 4: like it wasn't like, eh, my sister in law and
Speaker 4: my brother live on a farm, so their house was
Speaker 4: really difficult to get to.
Speaker 5: You literally, why people were like driving down there was
Speaker 5: a bunch of cows in the middle of the road
Speaker 5: that they had to like honk at.
Speaker 3: It was like a welcoming committee house.
Speaker 1: I would have loved that.
Speaker 3: You actually would have loved it. It was cute. Well
Speaker 3: of close cows because they smell and there's a lot
Speaker 3: of flies around them.
Speaker 1: It's fine.
Speaker 3: Anyway.
Speaker 5: I think she had to put a balloon on the
Speaker 5: mailbox because you literally turn and you just turned into
Speaker 5: a farm versus like a house.
Speaker 3: So people like that. I think she knows to do that.
Speaker 5: But I'm saying, even if you're house is on a
Speaker 5: very normal street and the house number is very clear,
Speaker 5: still balloons might help your anxious friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so keep that in mind.
Speaker 3: And maybe the Social Security office with the balloons on
Speaker 3: the front of the victor's woe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're here, You're at the right place. Yeah,
Speaker 1: speaking of becoming a wife and you changing your name
Speaker 1: to Patrick's last name, like he got you as a
Speaker 1: wife and then you went and did all this awesome
Speaker 1: stuff for him today to like be a Van Buren.
Speaker 1: Yes with him. Yeah, he didn't have to go do
Speaker 1: all this work and be at Defada No, and that
Speaker 1: interesting thing. You grew up with Dafada and then you
Speaker 1: married into Van Buren, Like you have cool last names
Speaker 1: either way.
Speaker 5: I will say I had a hard time deciding do
Speaker 5: I drop de Fodder or do I drop my middle name.
Speaker 1: That was something that I considered with my mom too,
Speaker 1: and I ended up keeping My mom did. Her maiden
Speaker 1: was Christopher, and on her license it said Judy Christopher Moffitt,
Speaker 1: and so I followed suit like she did, and I
Speaker 1: did Amy Moffitt Brown. And then eventually I went back
Speaker 1: and I changed it because I messed the Elizabeth because
Speaker 1: I love my middle name. So I'm just saying I
Speaker 1: had it Moffatt Bround for a while and you changed
Speaker 1: and then I changed it to Elizabeth.
Speaker 5: Interesting, So I kept my medal name because it's the
Speaker 5: same thing, Like, I love my medal name, and it
Speaker 5: was my grandma's name, and I just like like having that,
Speaker 5: And I almost kept a Fauda too, but that was like,
Speaker 5: that's so annoying, Katherine Mary Defada van.
Speaker 1: Buren, Like, what if you hyphenated Catherine Defada van Buren.
Speaker 5: Well, so you know, we've been reading Family of Liars
Speaker 5: their names was was it hyphenated? They just had a
Speaker 5: double lass name, they had Taft Sinclair. All of the
Speaker 5: daughters were they kept?
Speaker 1: Yeah, good question. I guess I don't know why it's
Speaker 1: that way.
Speaker 5: I assumed because both families were prominent. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 5: so I'm like I could have. And also, Patrick, why
Speaker 5: didn't we have the conversation that you would also keep
Speaker 5: my name?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why is he not? Patrick van Buren Defada. If you hyphenate,
Speaker 1: let me tell you first. Yeah, which one goes first?
Speaker 3: The Fata van Buren South.
Speaker 1: I know, I guess you can choose which way you
Speaker 1: want hyphenate it, but probably more times than not than
Speaker 1: just a mouthful. Yeah you think, yes, Catherine Defada van
Speaker 1: Buren is a lot.
Speaker 3: I told you my name that my mom callbab me
Speaker 3: when I was younger, right, I'm.
Speaker 1: Trying to remember it right now. I know you told me.
Speaker 1: We had it on air. We had a whole thing.
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't remember it because it was long
Speaker 1: Catherine Brittany, Denise, Linda Defata, get your butt in here.
Speaker 5: Yes, Katherine Mary, Elizabeth Francis, Sally Brittany Defada. So what
Speaker 5: if it was Katherine Mary, Elizabeth Francis, Sally Britney Defada
Speaker 5: van Buren ba'am.
Speaker 3: What if I went to the Social Security Office and
Speaker 3: they're like, what would you like to change your name to?
Speaker 5: And I was like, well, Katherine Mary live with Francis.
Speaker 3: What would they say?
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that you were a little cuckoo.
Speaker 1: You can't stop me Cocoa puffs for sure. Well maybe,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess they yeah, they can't stop you.
Speaker 1: But like chad Ocho Cinco whatever, that football player he
Speaker 1: kept changing his name to stuff. Really uh huh, I
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, Meta World Peace, like lots of different names.
Speaker 1: I think it's really really funny that you're like, casually,
Speaker 1: do you remember what it was? Almost like you were
Speaker 1: testing me and it's like ten names, but you can't remember.
Speaker 1: I got, I know, I really wanted to try. And
Speaker 1: then once you started doing it, I was like, there's
Speaker 1: no way I would ever remember that one Maybe one
Speaker 1: day a real friend was, I'll surprise you. Oh my
Speaker 1: real friend was, okay, tell me it again.
Speaker 5: Well you're gonna have this on video. You can go
Speaker 5: back and watch. But Catherine Mayor.
Speaker 4: Because that's how I spent my free time watching your
Speaker 4: own video, I'm cringe.
Speaker 5: God, Catherine, Mary Elizabeth. That should be easy, Catherine, Mary Elizabeth,
Speaker 5: because it's mine, Okay, Francis, Francis Sally, Sally, Brittany, Jesse, Raphael.
Speaker 3: I was thinking.
Speaker 1: Too, Okay, well you are a wife, right to Patrick, yes,
Speaker 1: obviously I am, and to anybody else that is listening,
Speaker 1: that is a wife. I was a wife. I'm no
Speaker 1: longer one.
Speaker 3: Well you may be one in the future.
Speaker 1: I might be one, and I shall be a gift
Speaker 1: because that is what we are. I saw this entire
Speaker 1: article about how a wife is the cheat code to life.
Speaker 1: So men, find yourself one.
Speaker 3: Okay, I want to hear why so I can.
Speaker 1: Okay, Married men outperform single men across the country in
Speaker 1: nearly every category. Married men have higher income ten to
Speaker 1: forty percent more than single peers.
Speaker 3: That's a huge.
Speaker 1: Higher Yeah, I get that's a huge difference. But still,
Speaker 1: even if it's just ten percent higher, that can be
Speaker 1: a lot lower risk of depression with a wife, better
Speaker 1: physical and mental health, greater career stability, longer life span,
Speaker 1: more productive, less likely to engage in risky behavior.
Speaker 3: I'm keeping my husband safe.
Speaker 1: Uh huh. So wives multiply everything, because a good wife
Speaker 1: doesn't just support, she multiplies. She multiplies your efforts. You're
Speaker 1: discipline your legacy. Basically in a nutshell, it's saying men
Speaker 1: expand when they have women, and I'm sure we probably
Speaker 1: expand too, but like, I think we're already pretty experimented awesome.
Speaker 1: They go on to say that for a woman, her
Speaker 1: intuition is unmatched and men often lack that. So then
Speaker 1: when you've got a good wife, a good partner in that,
Speaker 1: and then she also can be your mirror. She can
Speaker 1: show your blind spots, not to shame you, but to
Speaker 1: shape you.
Speaker 5: As you're saying this, I'm like, yes, companionship that like
Speaker 5: relationship that would elevate. The more we have close relationships,
Speaker 5: the better that we are in life, whether that's a
Speaker 5: spouse or not. But I bet this is different for men.
Speaker 5: I haven't read this research article. That's where this came from.
Speaker 5: But my assumption would be because men struggle so much
Speaker 5: to have vulnerable, deep connection like when they're with the guys.
Speaker 5: I mean, I feel like this is a tale as
Speaker 5: old as time joke right now, Like my husband will
Speaker 5: come home and be like his own and so is
Speaker 5: getting married and I'm like.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Like how did they propose? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I didn't ask, Like is he excited? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I didn't ask. What's the girl's name? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I didn't ask.
Speaker 5: And I'm like, so he just said I'm getting married
Speaker 5: and you just said okay. Like they don't have these
Speaker 5: girls are like, oh my gosh, tell me everything.
Speaker 3: How are you feeling?
Speaker 5: They just don't have the opportunity to connect the same way,
Speaker 5: which is also shows up in how they're supported too,
Speaker 5: Like I think Patrick has a great group of friends
Speaker 5: that are very supportive, but the support I give him
Speaker 5: is a deeper, emotional, more I think, all encompassing kind
Speaker 5: of support. So that's probably why this is different for
Speaker 5: men than women, because we already have that as women
Speaker 5: with our female friendships, but men lack that, and so
Speaker 5: we come in and fill that. That can be very
Speaker 5: exhausting because women are doing it for women and now
Speaker 5: they're doing it for men and very exciting.
Speaker 1: I love that. Thank you for that perspective. Licensed therapist,
Speaker 1: after welcome the thought of Bean Buiau. Mary van Buren, Sorry, Catherine,
Speaker 1: Mary van Buren.
Speaker 5: Do you think it would be weird if I went
Speaker 5: by Katherine Mary nor?
Speaker 1: I would feel like it was more of a Southern thing,
Speaker 1: like for you to have like two.
Speaker 3: Names, but it's supposed to be marry Katherine.
Speaker 1: True, but I would just think, oh, look at her.
Speaker 1: She likes to do things opposite.
Speaker 3: She's unique, unique New York, Unique New York.
Speaker 1: How now brown Cow? How now brown Cow? Have you
Speaker 1: tried Alex Kooper's unwell drinks? No me, neither. You haven't either,
Speaker 1: But I thought about buying one at Target the other day.
Speaker 3: They're at Target.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're a target, feel like, I don't know, but
Speaker 1: they are there and I saw it, and the only
Speaker 1: thing that stopped me is I really wanted to drink it,
Speaker 1: like I needed some to drink, and I wanted it
Speaker 1: then like I wanted.
Speaker 3: It nothing else?
Speaker 1: Well, no, there was, so I ended up getting just water.
Speaker 3: Have you watched her documentary yet?
Speaker 1: I have Okay, I liked it. Okay, thought was good.
Speaker 1: I learned a lot about her. I haven't listened to her,
Speaker 1: but I thought the documentary, being that I didn't know
Speaker 1: much about her, I was very intrigued and very impressed,
Speaker 1: very very impressed.
Speaker 3: I think she's a likable person.
Speaker 5: But for anybody who doesn't know about like the rebrand
Speaker 5: of calling.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I never gonna make her so much more
Speaker 3: relatable and likable.
Speaker 5: And I think I might not listen every week, but
Speaker 5: there are a lot of episodes I listen to.
Speaker 3: Speaking of I just listened to.
Speaker 5: When I was telling you about Renee Rapp, didn't really
Speaker 5: know much about her.
Speaker 3: She's so cool.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna have to go check out that, because
Speaker 1: you I don't think I know who.
Speaker 5: She's unapologetically herself, but not in a like I was
Speaker 5: about to say, insufferable way.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just liked her.
Speaker 1: I was drang, she's like in an authentic way, because
Speaker 1: sometimes people are trying to be unapologetically themselves and then
Speaker 1: it's like it feels off.
Speaker 5: I think there's probably some things that her PR team
Speaker 5: is like, oh no, but it's working well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah is what it is. I don't even know
Speaker 1: alexis Earl. You know, it's not her name. What's her name,
Speaker 1: Alex Earl.
Speaker 3: Alex Earl, ale Alex Cooper. That's why Okay, it's so
Speaker 3: crazy alexis No, it's Alex a L.
Speaker 1: I x Oh. Maybe that's why I just know what
Speaker 1: I see on social media because I haven't followed a lot.
Speaker 1: I don't listen to their podcast and I don't I
Speaker 1: don't even not even an Alex Earl fan. I just
Speaker 1: know that she is, evidently from the get go who
Speaker 1: coined the get Ready with Me videos and that's how
Speaker 1: that sort of started. And I know she's huge and
Speaker 1: made a name for herself and has crazy brand deals
Speaker 1: and whatnot. But I guess she started a podcast under
Speaker 1: Alex Cooper's unwell, and then it was now it's called
Speaker 1: it's called okay, and now they're dunze donzo like what
Speaker 1: that's the tea I want? And I don't even know,
Speaker 1: but I would like to understand what happened because I think,
Speaker 1: just as you know. And then Alex Cooper, her original
Speaker 1: co host, don't call her daddy, they did not end
Speaker 1: on good terms.
Speaker 3: They must not have sib Yeah.
Speaker 1: If they just had the little essay like, hey, SIB, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I sib.
Speaker 3: Maybe SIV.
Speaker 5: I am really curious because I was like deep in
Speaker 5: the Sophia and Alex breakup thing.
Speaker 3: I was so interested in that because.
Speaker 1: The original coast and call her daddy okay, and oh gosh,
Speaker 1: that is a bummer for her. See I only knew
Speaker 1: about her because of the documentary.
Speaker 5: Okay, So like I didn't listen to call her daddy
Speaker 5: back then because that's it.
Speaker 3: Was very different.
Speaker 1: By different, you mean like very sexual and not my vibe.
Speaker 1: But also she that's a marketing genius, like she knows
Speaker 1: she's doing.
Speaker 5: And I was watching her documentary and I was like, dang,
Speaker 5: if I could be more like her, that would be
Speaker 5: awesome because that would make me.
Speaker 3: I mean, who knows.
Speaker 5: I'm sure there's other people that have tried to do
Speaker 5: that and they didn't get sixty million dollar deals, but
Speaker 5: I would never and like I don't have those some
Speaker 5: of those stories to talk about anyway. But also like
Speaker 5: her like family and stuff, like would listen and like
Speaker 5: go to her shows and.
Speaker 1: I know her dad's like in the audience. I think
Speaker 1: her parents are super cute, and I guess I like
Speaker 1: the way they can be open about that sort of
Speaker 1: stuff and it's like a safe space. And it seems
Speaker 1: like but she's grandma and her mom like they raise them,
Speaker 1: like let's talk about everything. So she obviously felt comfortable
Speaker 1: doing that. But yeah, I don't think I could ever
Speaker 1: talk about those things.
Speaker 5: I mean I think also as a therapist and as
Speaker 5: a professional person, I couldn't probably do the things that
Speaker 5: she was doing, not just talking about like sex and stuff,
Speaker 5: but I mean she just was a character online doing funny,
Speaker 5: crazy things, and you do it until it works. I'm
Speaker 5: sure a lot of people were like, she's so weird,
Speaker 5: but like look at.
Speaker 1: Her now, right, And I mean there's stuff she'd had
Speaker 1: to shift because even with HR, she's like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't be advising people to do X y Z,
Speaker 1: and she's had to mature and grow and evolve and
Speaker 1: she has.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Anyway, when her and Alex got together, it felt like
Speaker 5: it was like gonna be this cute like mentorship thing
Speaker 5: because I think Alex is in our early twenty Alex,
Speaker 5: Alex Earl is in her early twenties. Alex Cooper is
Speaker 5: I think thirty thirty one ish, so I was like, Oh,
Speaker 5: this is gon be so cool that they can mentor
Speaker 5: each other. So I've been trying to do a little sleuthing,
Speaker 5: but I couldn't tell you one thing. I have some ideas,
Speaker 5: but they're not rooted in anything, so it would be
Speaker 5: kind of gossipy just to share them.
Speaker 3: But I think both of them are going to probably
Speaker 3: capitalize on that story at some point.
Speaker 1: It's just when there are multiple podcast duos that have
Speaker 1: just split without like who explanation. I just see the
Speaker 1: drama unfolding online. I don't know them because I don't listen,
Speaker 1: but it just makes me think, like I'm glad we
Speaker 1: have a solid foundation and relationship that will what if
Speaker 1: one day, like or me, but I snapped you or
Speaker 1: you just did one of us just disappears and.
Speaker 3: We don't talk about it. Like how do I get.
Speaker 1: Certain things being private? Like I've had certain relationsis ships
Speaker 1: that have ended and what has unfolded is private. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about relationships that are in a work relationship that
Speaker 1: is very public together like a podcast. Let's just leave
Speaker 1: podcasts as the only example of what I'm talking about,
Speaker 1: because that's actually these relationships I'm talking about online and
Speaker 1: It's weird how it sucks you in because some of
Speaker 1: them I click on TMZ or this article or this
Speaker 1: thread about what, and I don't know these people at all,
Speaker 1: And next thing, you know, twenty minutes has passed, and
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out, like why their podcasts broke
Speaker 1: up and why they hate each other.
Speaker 5: And but what's happened interesting that you're more You weren't
Speaker 5: interested in their podcast, and you might not have even
Speaker 5: known about it, but you are interested about the drama
Speaker 5: of the podcast.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just that I want to figure out what happens,
Speaker 1: so then maybe I can make sure like I don't
Speaker 1: want this to happen to us, which I don't think
Speaker 1: it will. But I wonder what that because I don't
Speaker 1: deep dive on every quote unquote breakup. But I guess
Speaker 1: the thing about the podcast splits I find interesting could
Speaker 1: bring you see there's another one that who's Dax's Oh.
Speaker 5: My gosh, yes, Okay, well, I think there's way more
Speaker 5: to this.
Speaker 3: So Liz Plank was a co host on The Man Andough.
Speaker 5: Podcast, which was a really good podcast hosted by her,
Speaker 5: Justin Baldoni and another guy named Jamie Heath, which I
Speaker 5: know a lot of people have feelings about all of that,
Speaker 5: and then she also had a podcast, We Need a
Speaker 5: Family Chart, Dak Shepherd and Monica have I'm Armchair Expert.
Speaker 5: Monica had a podcast with Liz Plank called like Cycle
Speaker 5: Sinking or something like that, and it was on the
Speaker 5: Armchair Expert feed.
Speaker 3: That went away.
Speaker 5: I think Dax Shepherd got a new deal somewhere and
Speaker 5: that podcast went away, and then Monica and Liz are
Speaker 5: no longer friends, and then Liz also left man Enough,
Speaker 5: and I think man Enough just collapsed because of all
Speaker 5: of the drama happening with him and Blake Lively. So
Speaker 5: I'm just curious, like what happened with Monica because they
Speaker 5: were best friends and had this really seemingly fun relationship,
Speaker 5: and what happened with Justin Baldoni, because Liz hasn't said anything.
Speaker 3: About it, which I wish.
Speaker 1: I think is okay because I've had things in my
Speaker 1: life I'm not going to say anything about, and I
Speaker 1: think it's out of respect for the other person, so
Speaker 1: I can appreciate that. So while I am still curious,
Speaker 1: and that's sort of the theme of this episode, because
Speaker 1: I was curious if you would tell me if I've
Speaker 1: let us in my teeth and I'm curious now if
Speaker 1: you should hyphenate your name or not, and then I'm
Speaker 1: curious about some of these podcast breakups. But also I
Speaker 1: respect that it's none of my business if we don't
Speaker 1: get all the details, and it's like, okay, fine, I
Speaker 1: may never know. And it's not like I spent living.
Speaker 1: It's not living rent free like some things in my
Speaker 1: mind do, like where is Amy Bradley? But I still
Speaker 1: don't know. But I respect it because people ask me
Speaker 1: about things in my life that I'm just not gonna address.
Speaker 1: I'm just not gonna Yeah, and it's out of respect.
Speaker 1: I guess I shouldn't use the word never ever ever,
Speaker 1: but at this point I'm not, and if I ever did,
Speaker 1: it would be from my perspective and my perspective only,
Speaker 1: and not you know what, I think you've hurt anybody.
Speaker 5: I hear what you're saying, and this is that's a
Speaker 5: different I think, I like, get ready to say this.
Speaker 3: It's not that big of a deal to count. Let
Speaker 3: me get ready.
Speaker 5: I think that a lot of people who are not
Speaker 5: speaking about certain things. A lot of people are not
Speaker 5: speaking about things because it's respect it's their privacy, it's
Speaker 5: them having boundaries. I think other people don't say things
Speaker 5: because they are waiting for the best moment to share
Speaker 5: some big news.
Speaker 3: Like there was Sheena say, I do love.
Speaker 5: Interpub rules, rip to that cast, but she just recently
Speaker 5: came out with and this is like I haven't read
Speaker 5: the article.
Speaker 3: I just read the headlines.
Speaker 5: But like her, I guess husband cheated on her while
Speaker 5: she was pregnant, but she didn't share that information while
Speaker 5: it would have been like more pressing on the show,
Speaker 5: which could have created a whole storyline on the show,
Speaker 5: because I think it's when the whole sam of all
Speaker 5: things happened.
Speaker 3: So she's like, I have this big bomb.
Speaker 5: I don't want to let that fizzle if this other
Speaker 5: thing is going to take over, right, So I have
Speaker 5: to find a better time. So she waits two years
Speaker 5: and then she shares it. Now this is me speculating,
Speaker 5: but like that's an example where people might not be
Speaker 5: sharing things just because they're waiting for the right time.
Speaker 5: So we just have to be patient so they can
Speaker 5: profit off of sharing their personal information, which they should.
Speaker 1: Or sometimes people yes, like there was that bomb you're saying,
Speaker 1: but like there could be a book deal, and like
Speaker 1: their book is coming out and they're going to put
Speaker 1: it in the book, which I could see waiting to
Speaker 1: save it to put in the book.
Speaker 3: And then now it's smart. I'm saying that, like, not
Speaker 3: as a bad thing. I'm saying like, that's smart.
Speaker 5: Like sometimes we just have to be patient because like,
Speaker 5: if they're going to share this part of their life
Speaker 5: that's so personal, which I don't know that I would
Speaker 5: let them make some money off of it.
Speaker 1: Let them, let them shoot. Oh my gosh, I don't
Speaker 1: think I told you this. On the Bobby Bone Show,
Speaker 1: read Chat GPT wrote obituaries for the main cast of
Speaker 1: the show. Wait that is so dark, so morbid, right,
Speaker 1: but whatever, it was also entertaining, Okay, So they wrote
Speaker 1: it for Bobby, Me, Lunchbox, and Eddie. So four obituaries
Speaker 1: and Ray read them and chat GPT ended mine with
Speaker 1: something like I can't remember exactly, but like everybody that
Speaker 1: attended the funeral got like a choose Joy bracelet and
Speaker 1: like a let them tattoo or something I'm paraphrasing, but
Speaker 1: it ended with let them And I was like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: let them. I yelled that on the during the segment
Speaker 1: like I with no explanation, like no, like we have
Speaker 1: a whole deep dive on mel Robbins let them theory,
Speaker 1: and now I'm you know, no, let them Let them
Speaker 1: is okay in certain circumstances, but I'm not an overall
Speaker 1: let them theory. Girl.
Speaker 3: That's interesting, I know.
Speaker 1: Maybe, but maybe because that it pulls things from and
Speaker 1: because we have maybe the let them very deep dive,
Speaker 1: then maybe it associates that with Amy Brown and so
Speaker 1: then they're like, you know, because it had the choose
Speaker 1: joy in there, and it had like that I was
Speaker 1: gonna have what are the essential oils at my funeral?
Speaker 1: And you know I put essential oils on my dryer balls.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So like things that I've said or things
Speaker 1: that are out there, it pulled.
Speaker 5: I was funny, You're gonna have choose joy bracelet. And
Speaker 5: it depends hat.
Speaker 1: Yes, it depends choose joy, but not always because maybe
Speaker 1: choose joy.
Speaker 3: When it's appropriate, and it depends when that is going
Speaker 3: to be.
Speaker 1: That's also the whole thing with Pimp and joy and
Speaker 1: my mom wasn't It was more that my mom was
Speaker 1: spreading joy and then choosing joy of herself, but also
Speaker 1: leaning into the hard moments, like for my mom, Pimp
Speaker 1: and Joy was neamia e ten, which was the joy
Speaker 1: of the Lord is my strength, So I'm going to
Speaker 1: have joy and I'm gonna spread joy. And she would
Speaker 1: just talk to everybody at the hospital. That's why when
Speaker 1: Walker Hayes wrote the Joy Like Judy song about Pimp
Speaker 1: and Joy for my mom, he put the line in
Speaker 1: there that was stood out to him the most was
Speaker 1: that he was like, she even be talking to people
Speaker 1: in the elevators, because my mom who talks to people
Speaker 1: in the elevators, and especially when you're on your way
Speaker 1: to treat like you're feeling horrible and blah and you're
Speaker 1: going in for chemo, and my mom felt like total crap,
Speaker 1: and she would make it a point to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I love your scar for you have a pretty sweater,
Speaker 1: or how long have you been coming here? Like she
Speaker 1: would make conversations just especially to the people that were
Speaker 1: there alone, because some people my mom never went to
Speaker 1: a treatment alone, and we would see people there all
Speaker 1: the time alone and that's got to be hard. So anyway,
Speaker 1: that's Pimp and Joy, spread joy all the joy. Maybe
Speaker 1: we serve Profy God, prof got it.
Speaker 3: We serve pro with it English accent.
Speaker 1: Profy, that's a profy. Okay, protein coffee, it's delectable. You
Speaker 1: just take the coffee and you take a little milk.
Speaker 1: I prefer unsweetened vanilla almond milk with a scoop of
Speaker 1: unflavored I supure protein. It'll give you twenty five grams
Speaker 1: of high quality protein. Like why is anything more fun
Speaker 1: in a British accent? Like sound better in a British accent?
Speaker 1: Like it sounds more credible. I mean I'm credible, Like
Speaker 1: I use is supure protein? Like I'm credible, I'm credible
Speaker 1: smart British meat? Doesn't it sound more like delable? Like
Speaker 1: it makes you want to try it, doesn't it? I
Speaker 1: do you want to put it in your oatmeal?
Speaker 3: You mean my protmeal?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yes, your oatmeal with protein? I forgot protmeal. M Oh
Speaker 1: how about creamy vanilla?
Speaker 3: Creamy krimmi? Krimmi?
Speaker 1: How do you krim crima vanilla?
Speaker 5: I think that English people sound more did well Americans.
Speaker 1: Also, I'm watching The Gilded Age right now, and that's obviously.
Speaker 3: You've been watching that for years.
Speaker 1: I have the new seasons back.
Speaker 3: Oh it's like season four.
Speaker 1: I think so the way they spoke. I mean, this
Speaker 1: is New York society, and I love the way they speak.
Speaker 1: Everything its not indeed, oh oh indeed, Oh take a seat.
Speaker 1: You must be famished. I'm like, oh dad, you're like, dang,
Speaker 1: I'm starving. Anybody got some I supure protein? And then
Speaker 1: the bit it's like, oh do you want some isopure?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And oh guess what, kat, we have a code. The
Speaker 1: code is feel twenty Feel twenty at checkout.
Speaker 5: Is there a word that you wish you said in
Speaker 5: your vocabulary? What do you mean, like a elevated word
Speaker 5: that you want to integrate into your Oh?
Speaker 1: Like I said, like a word?
Speaker 3: I just yeah. If you're like, I want to start
Speaker 3: saying famished instead of this, or I want to say like.
Speaker 1: Well I sort of just started using it today. Coffee delectable,
Speaker 1: oh hmm, fantastic.
Speaker 3: No, fantastic is not like a well what are you
Speaker 3: the word police?
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 1: What do you have one?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: But I think that so delicious. I think you use
Speaker 3: that word. I just have been thinking.
Speaker 5: I listen to a lot of audiobooks and I'm like,
Speaker 5: I want to start reading them because I don't think
Speaker 5: I take it in as.
Speaker 3: Much of the like the new habits.
Speaker 5: Yes, and I want sometimes I think that I just
Speaker 5: like am grabbing for a word that I don't have
Speaker 5: in my head yet and I need more words.
Speaker 1: So you want to be athosaurus? Yes, Yes, me too.
Speaker 1: I was real proud of my son the other day
Speaker 1: and I don't know why, but I guess I know why.
Speaker 1: But I guess I shouldn't be surprised, right. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be like, wow, you're a new word today,
Speaker 1: because he's going to be fifteen, so it's like wow.
Speaker 1: But when they do need maybe it's because English is
Speaker 1: their second language. Yeah, when they do use new words words,
Speaker 1: I find myself being like, hey, all right. I mean
Speaker 1: I try not to like make a huge just low.
Speaker 3: Key like in some emergency confetios.
Speaker 1: Like oh, but my son was asking me a question
Speaker 1: about cancer and because like both my mom and my
Speaker 1: dad had it, and then he said, well, so if
Speaker 1: somebody else in your family has it, which this is
Speaker 1: a conversation we have never had before, and he's using
Speaker 1: this word you'll hear it in a second, And I'm
Speaker 1: just like, where would he have picked up on that?
Speaker 1: Because I don't know that it's a word that he
Speaker 1: would have learned in school unless they've talked about it
Speaker 1: anyway here it is. So he just looked at me
Speaker 1: and he said, so, does that mean that you're going
Speaker 1: to be more prone to get cancer? And in my mind,
Speaker 1: I was like, he just used prone, Like I was
Speaker 1: just really impressed by that because I don't know that
Speaker 1: that's a word that gets used a lot, and it's
Speaker 1: we don't talk about that in our home. I mean,
Speaker 1: he knows that my parents had it, but I've never
Speaker 1: been like that means I might be more prone or susceptible.
Speaker 5: Or maybe it was I was impressed. Maybe it was
Speaker 5: his prone prone. Maybe it was his school's word of
Speaker 5: the week. Because when I was in middle school, we
Speaker 5: had the word wizard, and the word wizard would come
Speaker 5: on the announcements every Monday, and a wizard crossed him
Speaker 5: and share with us the words.
Speaker 3: Okay, it was our assistant principle.
Speaker 1: I am going to ask him if they have a
Speaker 1: word of the week, But I was just I loved
Speaker 1: that he used the word prone. So to your point,
Speaker 1: we could do that with ourselves, like maybe be our
Speaker 1: own little word wizards and give ourselves new words to use,
Speaker 1: and then have we done that before, Like on here.
Speaker 5: Stick we did the word of the week on the
Speaker 5: fifth thing. We did like twice, but we would pick
Speaker 5: words that were like not good.
Speaker 1: They just weren't like beautiful.
Speaker 3: What did you say? Delicious? Your word of the week
Speaker 3: is delicious? Definition? Is it tastes good?
Speaker 1: You're oh, exquisite? Cry?
Speaker 3: Okay, exquisit that you have exquisite? Yes, this proffy is delicious.
Speaker 3: You must have exquisite taste. There you ca. That was
Speaker 3: really hard for me to say.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're reminding me of Parent Trap, Lindsay
Speaker 1: Lohan's character that's British. You sounded like that, you know,
Speaker 1: because she's playing both the America.
Speaker 3: The different between me and you. Oh you have I
Speaker 3: have class and you don't. I feel like I just
Speaker 3: sounded like not the parent Trap. She had a cute voice.
Speaker 1: That is such a cute movie Parent Trap. I love that.
Speaker 1: And Lindsay Lohan like talk about comeback, Like she just
Speaker 1: was doing a bunch of press for the Freaky Friday,
Speaker 1: New Freaky Friday movie, and I'm like, yay, I'm celebrating
Speaker 1: that that comeback. Like Lindsay Lohan seems to be doing
Speaker 1: really well. She lives in Dubai.
Speaker 3: Yeah did you hear that? Yeah, and her husband is
Speaker 3: like one of the wealthiest men.
Speaker 1: Oh really, I guess I didn't know that part.
Speaker 3: I just sorry.
Speaker 1: We're talking about how she lives in Dubai and it's
Speaker 1: great because taking pictures of people there, like celebrities or
Speaker 1: just normal people is illegal. Really, she can't. You can't
Speaker 1: pull out your phone and start recording somebody doing anything. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we hope that you're having the day that you need
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Speaker 1: trying to be so intentional about our intake, our consumption
Speaker 1: A good word, yeah, just like every word. I could
Speaker 1: do this. I just have to stop and think, like,
Speaker 1: what's the elevated word of eat consumption, consume, consume.
Speaker 3: I consumed some chicken for dinner.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we'll work on this, Okay, all right, Kat.
Speaker 1: Until next time, I hope you have the day you
Speaker 1: need to have. Boy,