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Speaker 1: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just fons Amy

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Speaker 2: and Cat, gotcha, Cob and locking a brother, Ladies and felts,

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Speaker 2: do you just follow an the spirit where it's all

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Speaker 2: the front over real stuff, tell the chill stuff and them.

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Speaker 2: But Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it

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Speaker 2: just stop you feel things. This is feeling things with

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Speaker 2: Amy and Kat.

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat,

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Speaker 1: and We've got our feelings of the day. I'll start

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Speaker 1: because mine is more of a question with a feeling,

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Speaker 1: because I'm curious. My feeling is curious about what you

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Speaker 1: would do if you saw something in someone's teeth but

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Speaker 1: you didn't really know them that well. Let me give

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Speaker 1: you the scenario. So I'm at my house and I

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Speaker 1: just chopped up the salad and I was eating it,

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Speaker 1: and then these workers came. They weren't going to do

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Speaker 1: the work at my house, but they were coming to

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Speaker 1: for at least fifteen minutes, and then they leave and

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Speaker 1: I look in the mirror and I have a big

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Speaker 1: piece of leather right here on my tooth. Nobody told me,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, and here's the what we need

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Speaker 1: in this room. And then over in this bathroom this

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Speaker 1: is broken da da da, And I'm sure. I'm just

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Speaker 1: like you know, and now all three, I mean sure

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Speaker 1: they walked out and they're like, do you see that?

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Speaker 1: Let us in her teeth?

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Speaker 3: So like, do you know why they didn't see it?

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Speaker 1: There's the way they didn't see it. I'm talking about

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Speaker 1: dark leafy green. Okay.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't like iceberg.

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Speaker 1: No, not, dang it, a light piece of romaine. We're

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Speaker 1: talking like mixed greens, the purple one.

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Speaker 4: Oh no.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And you were probably really smiling too, because you're really friendly.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, and I think that one of them made

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Speaker 1: Like the vibe was good, Like I'm like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: like these guys. I'm glad. I mean, I've actually worked

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Speaker 3: Like, Hey, how's it going.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. I was like, how are you.

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Speaker 3: And I have let us write.

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Speaker 1: In my tooth?

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Speaker 3: So what would you do?

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess I'm like, well, yeah, well would I do?

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Speaker 1: Would I just know that it was there the whole

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Speaker 1: I'm like, she's not out in public, we're not at home.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to embarrass her, be awkward to being like, oh,

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Speaker 5: I think the hope there is is that they don't

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Speaker 1: And then nobody knows. That's the hope that is nailed it.

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Speaker 1: That is the ideal situation. However, it's not what happened.

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Speaker 1: I have a mirror in my kitchen and walked by

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Speaker 1: it whenever they left and saw it, and I thought,

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Speaker 1: oh my goodness, well that was fun. And you know,

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Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend. It's fine. It's not like I

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Speaker 1: Well one of them was kind of cute, but whatever.

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Speaker 1: Friend cry Ocat Cryocat is single. She's like, did you

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Speaker 1: get his number? I mean I have his number. He's

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Speaker 1: doing work at my house. Hopefully he doesn't listen to this.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully does yes, Hopefully he does listen, because then we

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Speaker 3: And I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: I thought I was doing the right thing and apparently

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Speaker 5: like I've learned something, thank you for talking about it.

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Speaker 3: It's money awareness.

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Speaker 1: I'm picturing like contractors when they're at work, like what

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Speaker 1: picturing like people working and be like like they're dipping

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Speaker 3: You're just thinking contractors are just partying around.

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Speaker 1: No, No, they're hard workers. Like they're working hard, and

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Speaker 1: I just picture them being like all like, you know,

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Speaker 1: next time, tell me that I have spinach or lettuce

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Speaker 1: or whatever in my teeth or whatever it is.

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Speaker 3: It could be a chia seed.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, oh seeds. Oh can't, I can't. You

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Speaker 1: know what you were so right about one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: And we're gonna get to your feeling of the day

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Speaker 1: in a minute, because I'm I'm also curious about that

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Speaker 1: because I know you have a whole story that I've

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Speaker 1: been waiting to hear, you know, update on your personal life. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's big, feel it's big.

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Speaker 3: It's big. But I want you to say this because

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Speaker 3: I need the.

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Speaker 1: Cat needs the validation. I amy admit to you Kat

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Speaker 1: in our Protein Balls, which is our first cooking show

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Speaker 1: two cooking shows. We have a Homemade Pasta and Protein Balls.

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Speaker 1: They're both chef's kiss. Is that what they say?

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Speaker 5: It?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, except this, except this.

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Speaker 1: So I noticed because I've been making I pull up

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Speaker 1: You think I should have it memorized, but I just

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Speaker 1: I get nervous. I want to make sure that I've

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Speaker 1: got everything right. And I know we omitted the chia

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Speaker 1: But while we're doing video, cats like I really think

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Speaker 1: And that's what that's what you said they would be.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, no, no, no, gia seeds for life,

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Speaker 1: like I'm keeping them in. Well, I delete it out

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Speaker 1: picking chia seeds out of their teeth.

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Speaker 5: The only time you should be eating a chia seed

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Speaker 3: Because those pesky little fellas.

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Speaker 1: That is what they think is exactly what they should

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Speaker 3: Peski little fellas seeds.

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Speaker 5: Wait, we could have a brand of chia seeds called

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Speaker 1: Little fes but like, why why would we wouldn't be

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Speaker 5: They called that, and like because they're annoying and like,

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Speaker 5: well and I don't want them.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you blend that they are they do serve

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Speaker 3: Like you just don't really blend that smoothie though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think once you do, or yeah, they're

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Speaker 3: They're not just fellas, there's little suckers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah pls.

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Speaker 3: I used to eat well.

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Speaker 5: I do make those to eat in between like therapy sessions.

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Speaker 5: But when I made a batch with gia seeds, I

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and like you're with a client, you sit

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Speaker 3: You you've made that batch, and so.

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Speaker 1: I highly recommend people make those. And then I do

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Speaker 1: But if other people are just now finding that recipe

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Speaker 1: with us because and we're like, oh, these pesky little suckos,

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Speaker 1: Now they're stuck in my teeth. But protein balls are legit.

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Speaker 1: That's one way we're getting extra protein. I'm also getting

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Speaker 1: protein through my profy protein.

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Speaker 3: Coffee Profe proffee I like better.

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Speaker 1: I use my vanilla almond milk and I mix it

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Speaker 1: in with my coffee and it's my little latte with

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Speaker 1: twenty five grams of protein. Not just any protein, high

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Speaker 1: quality isopure protein.

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Speaker 5: I'm glad that we're talking about this, because my favorite

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Speaker 5: breakfast is a sesame bagel with butter.

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Speaker 3: How many rooms protein are in that?

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Speaker 1: I don't think any enough?

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Speaker 3: None. But now that you're saying this, I can have

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Speaker 3: my bagel and I can have my profy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the snurgs they can do it too. We have

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Speaker 1: That is very key your way protein in here. Creamy

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Speaker 5: Which also makes me think I'm having like a squirrel

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Speaker 5: Okay, what when you're going to a party somewhere and

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Speaker 3: So people like that. I think she knows to do that.

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Speaker 1: Yes with him. Yeah, he didn't have to go do

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Speaker 5: I will say I had a hard time deciding do

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Speaker 5: Interesting, So I kept my medal name because it's the

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Speaker 5: And I almost kept a Fauda too, but that was like,

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Speaker 5: that's so annoying, Katherine Mary Defada van.

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Speaker 1: Buren, Like, what if you hyphenated Catherine Defada van Buren.

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Speaker 5: Well, so you know, we've been reading Family of Liars

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I know, I guess you can choose which way you

441
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Speaker 1: want hyphenate it, but probably more times than not than

442
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Speaker 1: just a mouthful. Yeah you think, yes, Catherine Defada van

443
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Speaker 1: Buren is a lot.

444
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Speaker 3: I told you my name that my mom callbab me

445
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,080
Speaker 3: when I was younger, right, I'm.

446
00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:18,879
Speaker 1: Trying to remember it right now. I know you told me.

447
00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 1: We had it on air. We had a whole thing.

448
00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:22,400
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't remember it because it was long

449
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Speaker 1: Catherine Brittany, Denise, Linda Defata, get your butt in here.

450
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:34,000
Speaker 5: Yes, Katherine Mary, Elizabeth Francis, Sally Brittany Defada. So what

451
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,520
Speaker 5: if it was Katherine Mary, Elizabeth Francis, Sally Britney Defada

452
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Speaker 5: van Buren ba'am.

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Speaker 3: What if I went to the Social Security Office and

454
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Speaker 3: they're like, what would you like to change your name to?

455
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Speaker 5: And I was like, well, Katherine Mary live with Francis.

456
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Speaker 3: What would they say?

457
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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that you were a little cuckoo.

458
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Speaker 1: You can't stop me Cocoa puffs for sure. Well maybe,

459
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Speaker 1: I mean I guess they yeah, they can't stop you.

460
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 1: But like chad Ocho Cinco whatever, that football player he

461
00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 1: kept changing his name to stuff. Really uh huh, I

462
00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:03,000
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, Meta World Peace, like lots of different names.

463
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Speaker 1: I think it's really really funny that you're like, casually,

464
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Speaker 1: do you remember what it was? Almost like you were

465
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Speaker 1: testing me and it's like ten names, but you can't remember.

466
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,600
Speaker 1: I got, I know, I really wanted to try. And

467
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Speaker 1: then once you started doing it, I was like, there's

468
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Speaker 1: no way I would ever remember that one Maybe one

469
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,000
Speaker 1: day a real friend was, I'll surprise you. Oh my

470
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 1: real friend was, okay, tell me it again.

471
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Speaker 5: Well you're gonna have this on video. You can go

472
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Speaker 5: back and watch. But Catherine Mayor.

473
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Speaker 4: Because that's how I spent my free time watching your

474
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Speaker 4: own video, I'm cringe.

475
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Speaker 5: God, Catherine, Mary Elizabeth. That should be easy, Catherine, Mary Elizabeth,

476
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 5: because it's mine, Okay, Francis, Francis Sally, Sally, Brittany, Jesse, Raphael.

477
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Speaker 3: I was thinking.

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Speaker 1: Too, Okay, well you are a wife, right to Patrick, yes,

479
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 1: obviously I am, and to anybody else that is listening,

480
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 1: that is a wife. I was a wife. I'm no

481
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Speaker 1: longer one.

482
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Speaker 3: Well you may be one in the future.

483
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Speaker 1: I might be one, and I shall be a gift

484
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 1: because that is what we are. I saw this entire

485
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Speaker 1: article about how a wife is the cheat code to life.

486
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Speaker 1: So men, find yourself one.

487
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I want to hear why so I can.

488
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:16,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Married men outperform single men across the country in

489
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Speaker 1: nearly every category. Married men have higher income ten to

490
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Speaker 1: forty percent more than single peers.

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Speaker 3: That's a huge.

492
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Speaker 1: Higher Yeah, I get that's a huge difference. But still,

493
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Speaker 1: even if it's just ten percent higher, that can be

494
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Speaker 1: a lot lower risk of depression with a wife, better

495
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: physical and mental health, greater career stability, longer life span,

496
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Speaker 1: more productive, less likely to engage in risky behavior.

497
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Speaker 3: I'm keeping my husband safe.

498
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Speaker 1: Uh huh. So wives multiply everything, because a good wife

499
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,439
Speaker 1: doesn't just support, she multiplies. She multiplies your efforts. You're

500
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Speaker 1: discipline your legacy. Basically in a nutshell, it's saying men

501
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 1: expand when they have women, and I'm sure we probably

502
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:10,400
Speaker 1: expand too, but like, I think we're already pretty experimented awesome.

503
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Speaker 1: They go on to say that for a woman, her

504
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Speaker 1: intuition is unmatched and men often lack that. So then

505
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Speaker 1: when you've got a good wife, a good partner in that,

506
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 1: and then she also can be your mirror. She can

507
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Speaker 1: show your blind spots, not to shame you, but to

508
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Speaker 1: shape you.

509
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Speaker 5: As you're saying this, I'm like, yes, companionship that like

510
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 5: relationship that would elevate. The more we have close relationships,

511
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 5: the better that we are in life, whether that's a

512
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Speaker 5: spouse or not. But I bet this is different for men.

513
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Speaker 5: I haven't read this research article. That's where this came from.

514
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:47,399
Speaker 5: But my assumption would be because men struggle so much

515
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 5: to have vulnerable, deep connection like when they're with the guys.

516
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 5: I mean, I feel like this is a tale as

517
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 5: old as time joke right now, Like my husband will

518
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 5: come home and be like his own and so is

519
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 5: getting married and I'm like.

520
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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Like how did they propose? I don't know.

521
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 3: I didn't ask, Like is he excited? I don't know.

522
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 3: I didn't ask. What's the girl's name? I don't know.

523
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 3: I didn't ask.

524
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Speaker 5: And I'm like, so he just said I'm getting married

525
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 5: and you just said okay. Like they don't have these

526
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,880
Speaker 5: girls are like, oh my gosh, tell me everything.

527
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Speaker 3: How are you feeling?

528
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Speaker 5: They just don't have the opportunity to connect the same way,

529
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 5: which is also shows up in how they're supported too,

530
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 5: Like I think Patrick has a great group of friends

531
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Speaker 5: that are very supportive, but the support I give him

532
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 5: is a deeper, emotional, more I think, all encompassing kind

533
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Speaker 5: of support. So that's probably why this is different for

534
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Speaker 5: men than women, because we already have that as women

535
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Speaker 5: with our female friendships, but men lack that, and so

536
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Speaker 5: we come in and fill that. That can be very

537
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Speaker 5: exhausting because women are doing it for women and now

538
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 5: they're doing it for men and very exciting.

539
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Speaker 1: I love that. Thank you for that perspective. Licensed therapist,

540
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: after welcome the thought of Bean Buiau. Mary van Buren, Sorry, Catherine,

541
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Speaker 1: Mary van Buren.

542
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Speaker 5: Do you think it would be weird if I went

543
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 5: by Katherine Mary nor?

544
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Speaker 1: I would feel like it was more of a Southern thing,

545
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: like for you to have like two.

546
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 3: Names, but it's supposed to be marry Katherine.

547
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 1: True, but I would just think, oh, look at her.

548
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: She likes to do things opposite.

549
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 3: She's unique, unique New York, Unique New York.

550
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: How now brown Cow? How now brown Cow? Have you

551
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 1: tried Alex Kooper's unwell drinks? No me, neither. You haven't either,

552
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: But I thought about buying one at Target the other day.

553
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Speaker 3: They're at Target.

554
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're a target, feel like, I don't know, but

555
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: they are there and I saw it, and the only

556
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Speaker 1: thing that stopped me is I really wanted to drink it,

557
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Speaker 1: like I needed some to drink, and I wanted it

558
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: then like I wanted.

559
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Speaker 3: It nothing else?

560
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: Well, no, there was, so I ended up getting just water.

561
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Speaker 3: Have you watched her documentary yet?

562
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 1: I have Okay, I liked it. Okay, thought was good.

563
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 1: I learned a lot about her. I haven't listened to her,

564
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: but I thought the documentary, being that I didn't know

565
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 1: much about her, I was very intrigued and very impressed,

566
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 1: very very impressed.

567
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Speaker 3: I think she's a likable person.

568
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 5: But for anybody who doesn't know about like the rebrand

569
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 5: of calling.

570
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I never gonna make her so much more

571
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Speaker 3: relatable and likable.

572
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Speaker 5: And I think I might not listen every week, but

573
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Speaker 5: there are a lot of episodes I listen to.

574
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Speaker 3: Speaking of I just listened to.

575
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Speaker 5: When I was telling you about Renee Rapp, didn't really

576
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 5: know much about her.

577
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Speaker 3: She's so cool.

578
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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna have to go check out that, because

579
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: you I don't think I know who.

580
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 5: She's unapologetically herself, but not in a like I was

581
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 5: about to say, insufferable way.

582
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just liked her.

583
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 1: I was drang, she's like in an authentic way, because

584
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 1: sometimes people are trying to be unapologetically themselves and then

585
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 1: it's like it feels off.

586
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 5: I think there's probably some things that her PR team

587
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 5: is like, oh no, but it's working well.

588
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah is what it is. I don't even know

589
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 1: alexis Earl. You know, it's not her name. What's her name,

590
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: Alex Earl.

591
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Speaker 3: Alex Earl, ale Alex Cooper. That's why Okay, it's so

592
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Speaker 3: crazy alexis No, it's Alex a L.

593
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Speaker 1: I x Oh. Maybe that's why I just know what

594
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: I see on social media because I haven't followed a lot.

595
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: I don't listen to their podcast and I don't I

596
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: don't even not even an Alex Earl fan. I just

597
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: know that she is, evidently from the get go who

598
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: coined the get Ready with Me videos and that's how

599
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: that sort of started. And I know she's huge and

600
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: made a name for herself and has crazy brand deals

601
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: and whatnot. But I guess she started a podcast under

602
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 1: Alex Cooper's unwell, and then it was now it's called

603
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: it's called okay, and now they're dunze donzo like what

604
00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: that's the tea I want? And I don't even know,

605
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: but I would like to understand what happened because I think,

606
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: just as you know. And then Alex Cooper, her original

607
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: co host, don't call her daddy, they did not end

608
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 1: on good terms.

609
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 3: They must not have sib Yeah.

610
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: If they just had the little essay like, hey, SIB, Yeah, yeah,

611
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: I think I sib.

612
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 3: Maybe SIV.

613
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 5: I am really curious because I was like deep in

614
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 5: the Sophia and Alex breakup thing.

615
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 3: I was so interested in that because.

616
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: The original coast and call her daddy okay, and oh gosh,

617
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 1: that is a bummer for her. See I only knew

618
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: about her because of the documentary.

619
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 5: Okay, So like I didn't listen to call her daddy

620
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 5: back then because that's it.

621
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 3: Was very different.

622
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Speaker 1: By different, you mean like very sexual and not my vibe.

623
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: But also she that's a marketing genius, like she knows

624
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: she's doing.

625
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 5: And I was watching her documentary and I was like, dang,

626
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 5: if I could be more like her, that would be

627
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 5: awesome because that would make me.

628
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 3: I mean, who knows.

629
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Speaker 5: I'm sure there's other people that have tried to do

630
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 5: that and they didn't get sixty million dollar deals, but

631
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 5: I would never and like I don't have those some

632
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,239
Speaker 5: of those stories to talk about anyway. But also like

633
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 5: her like family and stuff, like would listen and like

634
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 5: go to her shows and.

635
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: I know her dad's like in the audience. I think

636
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: her parents are super cute, and I guess I like

637
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: the way they can be open about that sort of

638
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: stuff and it's like a safe space. And it seems

639
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: like but she's grandma and her mom like they raise them,

640
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 1: like let's talk about everything. So she obviously felt comfortable

641
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: doing that. But yeah, I don't think I could ever

642
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: talk about those things.

643
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 5: I mean I think also as a therapist and as

644
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 5: a professional person, I couldn't probably do the things that

645
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 5: she was doing, not just talking about like sex and stuff,

646
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 5: but I mean she just was a character online doing funny,

647
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 5: crazy things, and you do it until it works. I'm

648
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 5: sure a lot of people were like, she's so weird,

649
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 5: but like look at.

650
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: Her now, right, And I mean there's stuff she'd had

651
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: to shift because even with HR, she's like, oh, you know,

652
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't be advising people to do X y Z,

653
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: and she's had to mature and grow and evolve and

654
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: she has.

655
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

656
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 5: Anyway, when her and Alex got together, it felt like

657
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 5: it was like gonna be this cute like mentorship thing

658
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,719
Speaker 5: because I think Alex is in our early twenty Alex,

659
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 5: Alex Earl is in her early twenties. Alex Cooper is

660
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Speaker 5: I think thirty thirty one ish, so I was like, Oh,

661
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 5: this is gon be so cool that they can mentor

662
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 5: each other. So I've been trying to do a little sleuthing,

663
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 5: but I couldn't tell you one thing. I have some ideas,

664
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 5: but they're not rooted in anything, so it would be

665
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 5: kind of gossipy just to share them.

666
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 3: But I think both of them are going to probably

667
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 3: capitalize on that story at some point.

668
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: It's just when there are multiple podcast duos that have

669
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: just split without like who explanation. I just see the

670
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: drama unfolding online. I don't know them because I don't listen,

671
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: but it just makes me think, like I'm glad we

672
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: have a solid foundation and relationship that will what if

673
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: one day, like or me, but I snapped you or

674
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: you just did one of us just disappears and.

675
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: We don't talk about it. Like how do I get.

676
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: Certain things being private? Like I've had certain relationsis ships

677
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: that have ended and what has unfolded is private. I'm

678
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: talking about relationships that are in a work relationship that

679
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: is very public together like a podcast. Let's just leave

680
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: podcasts as the only example of what I'm talking about,

681
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: because that's actually these relationships I'm talking about online and

682
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: It's weird how it sucks you in because some of

683
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: them I click on TMZ or this article or this

684
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: thread about what, and I don't know these people at all,

685
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: And next thing, you know, twenty minutes has passed, and

686
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out, like why their podcasts broke

687
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: up and why they hate each other.

688
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 5: And but what's happened interesting that you're more You weren't

689
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 5: interested in their podcast, and you might not have even

690
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 5: known about it, but you are interested about the drama

691
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 5: of the podcast.

692
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just that I want to figure out what happens,

693
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: so then maybe I can make sure like I don't

694
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: want this to happen to us, which I don't think

695
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: it will. But I wonder what that because I don't

696
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: deep dive on every quote unquote breakup. But I guess

697
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: the thing about the podcast splits I find interesting could

698
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: bring you see there's another one that who's Dax's Oh.

699
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 5: My gosh, yes, Okay, well, I think there's way more

700
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 5: to this.

701
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 3: So Liz Plank was a co host on The Man Andough.

702
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 5: Podcast, which was a really good podcast hosted by her,

703
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 5: Justin Baldoni and another guy named Jamie Heath, which I

704
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,239
Speaker 5: know a lot of people have feelings about all of that,

705
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 5: and then she also had a podcast, We Need a

706
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 5: Family Chart, Dak Shepherd and Monica have I'm Armchair Expert.

707
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,719
Speaker 5: Monica had a podcast with Liz Plank called like Cycle

708
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 5: Sinking or something like that, and it was on the

709
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 5: Armchair Expert feed.

710
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 3: That went away.

711
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 5: I think Dax Shepherd got a new deal somewhere and

712
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 5: that podcast went away, and then Monica and Liz are

713
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 5: no longer friends, and then Liz also left man Enough,

714
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 5: and I think man Enough just collapsed because of all

715
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 5: of the drama happening with him and Blake Lively. So

716
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 5: I'm just curious, like what happened with Monica because they

717
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 5: were best friends and had this really seemingly fun relationship,

718
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 5: and what happened with Justin Baldoni, because Liz hasn't said anything.

719
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: About it, which I wish.

720
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: I think is okay because I've had things in my

721
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: life I'm not going to say anything about, and I

722
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: think it's out of respect for the other person, so

723
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: I can appreciate that. So while I am still curious,

724
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: and that's sort of the theme of this episode, because

725
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: I was curious if you would tell me if I've

726
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: let us in my teeth and I'm curious now if

727
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: you should hyphenate your name or not, and then I'm

728
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: curious about some of these podcast breakups. But also I

729
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: respect that it's none of my business if we don't

730
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: get all the details, and it's like, okay, fine, I

731
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: may never know. And it's not like I spent living.

732
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: It's not living rent free like some things in my

733
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: mind do, like where is Amy Bradley? But I still

734
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: don't know. But I respect it because people ask me

735
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: about things in my life that I'm just not gonna address.

736
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm just not gonna Yeah, and it's out of respect.

737
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: I guess I shouldn't use the word never ever ever,

738
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: but at this point I'm not, and if I ever did,

739
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: it would be from my perspective and my perspective only,

740
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: and not you know what, I think you've hurt anybody.

741
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 5: I hear what you're saying, and this is that's a

742
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 5: different I think, I like, get ready to say this.

743
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 3: It's not that big of a deal to count. Let

744
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 3: me get ready.

745
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 5: I think that a lot of people who are not

746
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 5: speaking about certain things. A lot of people are not

747
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 5: speaking about things because it's respect it's their privacy, it's

748
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 5: them having boundaries. I think other people don't say things

749
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 5: because they are waiting for the best moment to share

750
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 5: some big news.

751
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 3: Like there was Sheena say, I do love.

752
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 5: Interpub rules, rip to that cast, but she just recently

753
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 5: came out with and this is like I haven't read

754
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 5: the article.

755
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 3: I just read the headlines.

756
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 5: But like her, I guess husband cheated on her while

757
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 5: she was pregnant, but she didn't share that information while

758
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 5: it would have been like more pressing on the show,

759
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 5: which could have created a whole storyline on the show,

760
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 5: because I think it's when the whole sam of all

761
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 5: things happened.

762
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 3: So she's like, I have this big bomb.

763
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 5: I don't want to let that fizzle if this other

764
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 5: thing is going to take over, right, So I have

765
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 5: to find a better time. So she waits two years

766
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 5: and then she shares it. Now this is me speculating,

767
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 5: but like that's an example where people might not be

768
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 5: sharing things just because they're waiting for the right time.

769
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 5: So we just have to be patient so they can

770
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 5: profit off of sharing their personal information, which they should.

771
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: Or sometimes people yes, like there was that bomb you're saying,

772
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: but like there could be a book deal, and like

773
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: their book is coming out and they're going to put

774
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: it in the book, which I could see waiting to

775
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: save it to put in the book.

776
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 3: And then now it's smart. I'm saying that, like, not

777
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 3: as a bad thing. I'm saying like, that's smart.

778
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 5: Like sometimes we just have to be patient because like,

779
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,399
Speaker 5: if they're going to share this part of their life

780
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,240
Speaker 5: that's so personal, which I don't know that I would

781
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 5: let them make some money off of it.

782
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: Let them, let them shoot. Oh my gosh, I don't

783
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: think I told you this. On the Bobby Bone Show,

784
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: read Chat GPT wrote obituaries for the main cast of

785
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 1: the show. Wait that is so dark, so morbid, right,

786
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: but whatever, it was also entertaining, Okay, So they wrote

787
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: it for Bobby, Me, Lunchbox, and Eddie. So four obituaries

788
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: and Ray read them and chat GPT ended mine with

789
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: something like I can't remember exactly, but like everybody that

790
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: attended the funeral got like a choose Joy bracelet and

791
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: like a let them tattoo or something I'm paraphrasing, but

792
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 1: it ended with let them And I was like, no, no, no, no,

793
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: let them. I yelled that on the during the segment

794
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: like I with no explanation, like no, like we have

795
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 1: a whole deep dive on mel Robbins let them theory,

796
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: and now I'm you know, no, let them Let them

797
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 1: is okay in certain circumstances, but I'm not an overall

798
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: let them theory. Girl.

799
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 3: That's interesting, I know.

800
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: Maybe, but maybe because that it pulls things from and

801
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 1: because we have maybe the let them very deep dive,

802
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: then maybe it associates that with Amy Brown and so

803
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: then they're like, you know, because it had the choose

804
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: joy in there, and it had like that I was

805
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: gonna have what are the essential oils at my funeral?

806
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: And you know I put essential oils on my dryer balls.

807
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So like things that I've said or things

808
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: that are out there, it pulled.

809
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 5: I was funny, You're gonna have choose joy bracelet. And

810
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 5: it depends hat.

811
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: Yes, it depends choose joy, but not always because maybe

812
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: choose joy.

813
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 3: When it's appropriate, and it depends when that is going

814
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 3: to be.

815
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: That's also the whole thing with Pimp and joy and

816
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: my mom wasn't It was more that my mom was

817
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: spreading joy and then choosing joy of herself, but also

818
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: leaning into the hard moments, like for my mom, Pimp

819
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: and Joy was neamia e ten, which was the joy

820
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: of the Lord is my strength, So I'm going to

821
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: have joy and I'm gonna spread joy. And she would

822
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: just talk to everybody at the hospital. That's why when

823
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: Walker Hayes wrote the Joy Like Judy song about Pimp

824
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: and Joy for my mom, he put the line in

825
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: there that was stood out to him the most was

826
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: that he was like, she even be talking to people

827
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: in the elevators, because my mom who talks to people

828
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 1: in the elevators, and especially when you're on your way

829
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: to treat like you're feeling horrible and blah and you're

830
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 1: going in for chemo, and my mom felt like total crap,

831
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: and she would make it a point to be like, oh,

832
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: I love your scar for you have a pretty sweater,

833
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: or how long have you been coming here? Like she

834
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: would make conversations just especially to the people that were

835
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: there alone, because some people my mom never went to

836
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,879
Speaker 1: a treatment alone, and we would see people there all

837
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 1: the time alone and that's got to be hard. So anyway,

838
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: that's Pimp and Joy, spread joy all the joy. Maybe

839
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: we serve Profy God, prof got it.

840
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 3: We serve pro with it English accent.

841
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: Profy, that's a profy. Okay, protein coffee, it's delectable. You

842
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: just take the coffee and you take a little milk.

843
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: I prefer unsweetened vanilla almond milk with a scoop of

844
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: unflavored I supure protein. It'll give you twenty five grams

845
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: of high quality protein. Like why is anything more fun

846
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: in a British accent? Like sound better in a British accent?

847
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: Like it sounds more credible. I mean I'm credible, Like

848
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: I use is supure protein? Like I'm credible, I'm credible

849
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: smart British meat? Doesn't it sound more like delable? Like

850
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: it makes you want to try it, doesn't it? I

851
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: do you want to put it in your oatmeal?

852
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 3: You mean my protmeal?

853
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 2: Oh?

854
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: Yes, your oatmeal with protein? I forgot protmeal. M Oh

855
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: how about creamy vanilla?

856
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 3: Creamy krimmi? Krimmi?

857
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: How do you krim crima vanilla?

858
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 5: I think that English people sound more did well Americans.

859
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: Also, I'm watching The Gilded Age right now, and that's obviously.

860
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 3: You've been watching that for years.

861
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,399
Speaker 1: I have the new seasons back.

862
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 3: Oh it's like season four.

863
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: I think so the way they spoke. I mean, this

864
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: is New York society, and I love the way they speak.

865
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: Everything its not indeed, oh oh indeed, Oh take a seat.

866
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,879
Speaker 1: You must be famished. I'm like, oh dad, you're like, dang,

867
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 1: I'm starving. Anybody got some I supure protein? And then

868
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: the bit it's like, oh do you want some isopure?

869
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 3: Yeah?

870
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: And oh guess what, kat, we have a code. The

871
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,280
Speaker 1: code is feel twenty Feel twenty at checkout.

872
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 5: Is there a word that you wish you said in

873
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 5: your vocabulary? What do you mean, like a elevated word

874
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 5: that you want to integrate into your Oh?

875
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:52,919
Speaker 1: Like I said, like a word?

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Speaker 3: I just yeah. If you're like, I want to start

877
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 3: saying famished instead of this, or I want to say like.

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Speaker 1: Well I sort of just started using it today. Coffee delectable,

879
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: oh hmm, fantastic.

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Speaker 3: No, fantastic is not like a well what are you

881
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: the word police?

882
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 4: I don't.

883
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Speaker 1: What do you have one?

884
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 2: No?

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00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 3: But I think that so delicious. I think you use

886
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 3: that word. I just have been thinking.

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Speaker 5: I listen to a lot of audiobooks and I'm like,

888
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Speaker 5: I want to start reading them because I don't think

889
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 5: I take it in as.

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Speaker 3: Much of the like the new habits.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and I want sometimes I think that I just

892
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 5: like am grabbing for a word that I don't have

893
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 5: in my head yet and I need more words.

894
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Speaker 1: So you want to be athosaurus? Yes, Yes, me too.

895
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Speaker 1: I was real proud of my son the other day

896
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Speaker 1: and I don't know why, but I guess I know why.

897
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: But I guess I shouldn't be surprised, right. I don't

898
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 1: want to be like, wow, you're a new word today,

899
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: because he's going to be fifteen, so it's like wow.

900
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: But when they do need maybe it's because English is

901
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,280
Speaker 1: their second language. Yeah, when they do use new words words,

902
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: I find myself being like, hey, all right. I mean

903
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,280
Speaker 1: I try not to like make a huge just low.

904
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Speaker 3: Key like in some emergency confetios.

905
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: Like oh, but my son was asking me a question

906
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: about cancer and because like both my mom and my

907
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 1: dad had it, and then he said, well, so if

908
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: somebody else in your family has it, which this is

909
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: a conversation we have never had before, and he's using

910
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:25,919
Speaker 1: this word you'll hear it in a second, And I'm

911
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: just like, where would he have picked up on that?

912
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: Because I don't know that it's a word that he

913
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: would have learned in school unless they've talked about it

914
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: anyway here it is. So he just looked at me

915
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: and he said, so, does that mean that you're going

916
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: to be more prone to get cancer? And in my mind,

917
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: I was like, he just used prone, Like I was

918
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: just really impressed by that because I don't know that

919
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: that's a word that gets used a lot, and it's

920
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: we don't talk about that in our home. I mean,

921
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: he knows that my parents had it, but I've never

922
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: been like that means I might be more prone or susceptible.

923
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 5: Or maybe it was I was impressed. Maybe it was

924
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 5: his prone prone. Maybe it was his school's word of

925
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 5: the week. Because when I was in middle school, we

926
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 5: had the word wizard, and the word wizard would come

927
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 5: on the announcements every Monday, and a wizard crossed him

928
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 5: and share with us the words.

929
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 3: Okay, it was our assistant principle.

930
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: I am going to ask him if they have a

931
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: word of the week, But I was just I loved

932
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,760
Speaker 1: that he used the word prone. So to your point,

933
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 1: we could do that with ourselves, like maybe be our

934
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,280
Speaker 1: own little word wizards and give ourselves new words to use,

935
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: and then have we done that before, Like on here.

936
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 5: Stick we did the word of the week on the

937
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 5: fifth thing. We did like twice, but we would pick

938
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 5: words that were like not good.

939
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: They just weren't like beautiful.

940
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 3: What did you say? Delicious? Your word of the week

941
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 3: is delicious? Definition? Is it tastes good?

942
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: You're oh, exquisite? Cry?

943
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 3: Okay, exquisit that you have exquisite? Yes, this proffy is delicious.

944
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 3: You must have exquisite taste. There you ca. That was

945
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 3: really hard for me to say.

946
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:18,240
Speaker 1: I feel like you're reminding me of Parent Trap, Lindsay

947
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: Lohan's character that's British. You sounded like that, you know,

948
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: because she's playing both the America.

949
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 3: The different between me and you. Oh you have I

950
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 3: have class and you don't. I feel like I just

951
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 3: sounded like not the parent Trap. She had a cute voice.

952
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: That is such a cute movie Parent Trap. I love that.

953
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: And Lindsay Lohan like talk about comeback, Like she just

954
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: was doing a bunch of press for the Freaky Friday,

955
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: New Freaky Friday movie, and I'm like, yay, I'm celebrating

956
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 1: that that comeback. Like Lindsay Lohan seems to be doing

957
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: really well. She lives in Dubai.

958
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 3: Yeah did you hear that? Yeah, and her husband is

959
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 3: like one of the wealthiest men.

960
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: Oh really, I guess I didn't know that part.

961
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 3: I just sorry.

962
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: We're talking about how she lives in Dubai and it's

963
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: great because taking pictures of people there, like celebrities or

964
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: just normal people is illegal. Really, she can't. You can't

965
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: pull out your phone and start recording somebody doing anything. Okay, Well,

966
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 1: we hope that you're having the day that you need

967
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Speaker 1: to have. And if there's any takeaway from this episode,

968
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Speaker 1: it is stay curious and drink your profee and drink

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Speaker 1: your coffee, and don't forget to use our code Feel

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Speaker 1: twenty Feel twenty I supure protein dot com. We should

971
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Speaker 1: say it to English I supure protein dot com and

972
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: that link will be in the show notes. But really,

973
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Speaker 1: if you want to join us in trying this and

974
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Speaker 1: upping your protein woo like us whoo subscribe you were saying,

975
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,919
Speaker 1: like us, like not like and subscribe. I mean we're

976
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 1: trying to be so intentional about our intake, our consumption

977
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: A good word, yeah, just like every word. I could

978
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Speaker 1: do this. I just have to stop and think, like,

979
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:03,240
Speaker 1: what's the elevated word of eat consumption, consume, consume.

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00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 3: I consumed some chicken for dinner.

981
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we'll work on this, Okay, all right, Kat.

982
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Speaker 1: Until next time, I hope you have the day you

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Speaker 1: need to have. Boy,