1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Jeedge. 2 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas in 3 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 2: a Pod with myself and Dolores. Good morning, Dolores, step 4 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: my friends. 5 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: I'm looking festive, but a little peaked. I'm not feeling great. 6 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 1: This has been lingering on and off since. 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it took Eddie a month to finally kick it, 8 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 2: two rounds of antibiotics and a month of being sick. 9 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: So anyway, I know it's not fun beaute so cute? 10 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: Oh thank you? 11 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: Is that hat covering your horns? 12 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 2: Girl? It is? My horns are inside this. You pull 13 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 2: that off too sparkily. So we are going to uh 14 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: cover Potomac today, episode twelve. But before that, let's get 15 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 2: into some headlines that have going through social media. Do 16 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 2: you want to start with the first one. 17 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: Britney Bateman's ex husband is arrested for violating the protective 18 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: order allegedly Ducks. This is her year to get harassed. 19 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: Huh Yeah, I'm starting to hear that. That's a scary thing, 20 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: and you know, it's a really big deal to violate 21 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: a protective order. They do not play around. It is 22 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: it's a protective order, like a like a restraining order. Okay, yeah, 23 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: and you know back when when I was in this business, 24 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: you can write to jail. They really this is the 25 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: husband of so. 26 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: Is this the husband that she has kids with? 27 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: No? No, this is the husband, the one she would marry. 28 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: Oh, the one that her children didn't like, because she's 29 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 2: been married a few times. Okay, this is that they weren't. 30 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: Wrong about him, but kids are typically not wrong. They're 31 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: like dogs. They could sniff out bad people. 32 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: Well, I guess he's harassing her, and there is lot 33 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. 34 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: But he's famous. 35 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well the new legal docs said that his name 36 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 2: is John. Essentially docs Britney earlier this month by posting 37 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: her cell phone number on TikTok with the comment there 38 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 2: you go, give her a call and the According to 39 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 2: the papers, Brittany received unpleasant text messages from strangers as 40 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 2: a result, had unknown people come to her house and 41 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: just a bunch of shit was going on. 42 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:35,119 Speaker 1: So she's got some problems. So was it worth? This 43 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: is the guy who her kids claim she chose him 44 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: over them. 45 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so not good. 46 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: Now. 47 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 2: Another thing that's not great is, you know, Wendy and 48 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: Eddie had their day in court. It was an effort 49 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: to squash the subpoena for eight years worth of records. 50 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's where they're going to get you. But 51 00:02:58,840 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: what is that? 52 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 2: Why do they need eight years of records? Is it 53 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 2: something to do with taxas or well? 54 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: When you get I mean, I don't know. I don't 55 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: really know the logistics of it. But when you get audited, 56 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: they're allowed to go back eight years, I believe. So 57 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,839 Speaker 1: within that eight years, you better hope you were clean. 58 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 2: Well, they are being forced to turn over their financial records. 59 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: They lost that. 60 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so the trial begins in April of next year. 61 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: April of next year. 62 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 2: That's not good. I don't know if this is true 63 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: or not, but I'm here for it. Real house was 64 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: Vanalana Nini Leaks is in talks to make a return 65 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 2: on Bravo And now I've seen I've heard two different 66 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: things that she's going to do another show, then I 67 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: heard she's back in Atlanta, and then now I'm hearing 68 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 2: that she's going to be going on the Girl's Girl Trip. 69 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: So I don't know if that's like a main cast 70 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: member or she's going to go to a party or 71 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: what And I don't even know if this is true. 72 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: She had a lot of law suits with Bravo and 73 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: she she really felt with them about a lot of things. 74 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: I think she was the one that broke the ice up, 75 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: suing Bravo a housewife suing if I remember correctly, and 76 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: they're bringing her back, well, okay, she's a great housewife 77 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: and a lot of people are here for it. Yeah, 78 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: a lot of the people are very very excited for it. 79 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, Nina. 80 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: Let's see if it's like riding a bike. 81 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: What's it like? 82 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: Let me ask you, Tamra, because I'm asking for a friends, 83 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: what's it like to go back after you haven't been 84 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: on for a bit? 85 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 2: A little bit intimidating? For me? It was the show 86 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: didn't do well without me, But then the also the 87 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: show aired during the pandemic, and the girls just they 88 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: just couldn't pull it off. So going back I felt 89 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: extra pressure because I felt like, well, the show's not 90 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 2: in a good place, and if I come back and 91 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: the show's still not in a good place, then it's 92 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 2: on me. So I felt like a lot of pressure, 93 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 2: a lot of pressure. 94 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: But well, you could only be yourself, you know. It's 95 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: yourself that gets you there, it's yourself that gets you back. 96 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 1: It's also sometimes yourself that gets. 97 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: You off, right, So. 98 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: You just can only be yourself. You can't try, you 99 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: can't get in your own head. I know that's easier 100 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: said than done. And you can't look at what other 101 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: housewives are doing. That's the biggest thing, because that's why. 102 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 2: Let's say Jersey comes back, which I did see some headlines. 103 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 2: You know, of course it's probably lies the rumors, but 104 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 2: it said that you, Teresa, Melissa, Margaret and Jen Fessler 105 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: were for sure coming back to next season. 106 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: We haven't heard anything. I'm not even holding it from 107 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm not even going to say I'll call me later. 108 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell you it's not like that. 109 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so there's not anything. 110 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: There's nothing, and you know that there's different slots like 111 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: you just don't pick up and say, oh great, we 112 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: gotta we got a cast now, and brab was like, okay, 113 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: we got to cast, we could start tomorrow. That doesn't happen. 114 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: This is a very planned thought out think. There's a 115 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: production company involved, there are people involved that have to 116 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: like get their lives going and you know, stay at 117 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: certain places and they need crews and people have already 118 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: taken jobs, not like the housewives, but you know the 119 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: production company right right right, So that's you know, being 120 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: that we haven't heard right now. That doesn't mean that 121 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: kind of means like nothing's happening within the next few months. 122 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's dive into episode twelve of Potomac. 123 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 2: Angel says she wasn't evicted. I don't think she was evicted. 124 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: I mean I always think of victed. 125 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: I mean in a rent to pay her rent. 126 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: You don't pay your rent. No, it's different if you 127 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: have an airbnb and they're like, hey, your time's up. 128 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 1: That's somebody else is coming. You gotta yeah. 129 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. So all the girls, some of the girls are 130 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 2: just really hard on her about you know, oh she 131 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: was kicked out. They're trying to find something wrong. And 132 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 2: that's how it's plain to me, like they're just trying 133 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: to find something wrong with her. So they have drama 134 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: on the show and I'm not nice to her. They're 135 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:20,239 Speaker 2: not nice to her. 136 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: And then you know, later on they're like taking a picture. No, no, 137 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: they were playing tuggle war and then and say, hey, Ashley, 138 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: come on, and this is like me and girl stuff 139 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 1: I don't like it. I'm sorry, even if you don't 140 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: like her, And it's not like great to be leaving 141 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: somebody else. Sometimes you do it you don't realize. But well, 142 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: you guys are getting ready to play a game and 143 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: leaving the girl on the side. 144 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 2: So Ashley comes up to her right and it's like, hey, 145 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 2: some girls are thinking you just moved here so you 146 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:47,559 Speaker 2: can be on the show. 147 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: Well, first of all, we never used to break the 148 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: fourth wall. But okay, but. 149 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: Here's the thing. Angel, even in her confessionals like yeah, 150 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: I moved here to be with Ashley, Giselle and Wendy. Yeah, 151 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 2: are you kidding me? Maybe I wish she would have 152 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: said that in the moment, but sometimes you don't always 153 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 2: think quick enough. 154 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: But she's new, like, she's not quick on her feet yet. Yeah. 155 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: But here's the thing, guys, I hate to break it 156 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: to you, but Housewives is a job and a business. 157 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: So if some producer reaches out to you and said, hey, 158 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 2: we'd really like to have you on the show, you 159 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 2: bet your sweet ass if you want to do it, 160 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: you're gonna move. 161 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: You know what, Angel, I'm gonna say it again, said 162 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: with love, start opening your mouth when somebody comes up 163 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: and makes you feel a certain way. Yep, you gotta 164 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: get tough, girl, because you will not make it here. 165 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: Just say, like, which you know? And what about you? 166 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: Let's talk about put it back. Let's talk about you, Ashley. 167 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 2: Let's talk about you. Ashley kissing Jackson, your friend's son. 168 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,439 Speaker 1: Well, Wendy talked about that. 169 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: So what are your thoughts on would you ever make 170 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 2: out or kiss with a little son. Let's say no, 171 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 2: like somebody. 172 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: Was if I was the mom, I'm always the mom, 173 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: Like somebody saying, yeah, I just made out with your 174 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: son and you're like, my friend, you're weird and that's gross, right, 175 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: and my son wouldn't do that. There's a lot of 176 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: girls to kiss. Yeah, Ashley's hot, so I mean I 177 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: get it. 178 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: I mean, what is there like a ten year age 179 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: difference between the two of them? 180 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 1: Ten? 181 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 2: Is that all between the jackson and age? 182 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? 183 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just trying to figure out, like how 184 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 2: old he was when this happened. 185 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: I don't care who it is. I don't like that. 186 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: I know no. 187 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 2: No, So we get to see did you see her? 188 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: And watch what happens? 189 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 2: Like girl she likes well, she's always looks good, she's beautiful. 190 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: Body's insane, like it's not the boy's no. 191 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 2: So we get to see themo. Themo Timo, I always 192 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 2: butcher his name and Stacey, you know she's. 193 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 1: Back to dating Josh. I'll watch what happens, like. 194 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 2: I did see a clip, did get a raised or something? 195 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: Did he plan a vacation? What changed? Why are you 196 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 1: back with Josh? Now? 197 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 2: One might say, oh, you just did that for TV. 198 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 2: Angel I didn't come back and say that you just 199 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 2: broke up with them for TV. 200 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: Just think Josh's mother's feeling right now, right, But they do. 201 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: They have a good time. He's a nice guy. He's 202 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: a nice guy, but he seems like a really nice guy. 203 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: I actually like Uncle Lump said, cut him loose because 204 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: he's too young for you. He wants a life and 205 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: important things like having a child, and you're not doing that. 206 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 1: So I felt like that's like Uncle Lump was trying 207 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: to tell her, like, give the guy a break, because 208 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: we know you're gonna just oviscerate the shit out of him. 209 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 2: Okay, So Wendy calls her dad and tells him she 210 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 2: misses him, and then she gets him on FaceTime and 211 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 2: he's cute. 212 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: He's just cute. 213 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a sweet moment. Have we heard about 214 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 2: what do you talk about her dad in the past 215 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: or is this something kind of new this season? I 216 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 2: don't remember her talking. 217 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: About her I feel like I would have remembered that. 218 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: But what I'm going to say is that, you know, 219 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: we're hard on our parents because we have expectations for them. 220 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 1: But I know that as a parent, I could have 221 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: done better in so many things. Of Course, they don't 222 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: come with a handbook, and that's why grandparents make up 223 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: for everything because their lives are different. They're more settled, 224 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: you know, they don't have the stress of a lot 225 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: of different things that young parents have, so they enjoy 226 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: their grandchildren so much more. Everyone I talk to because 227 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: that'll be the next phase of my life, and I'm like, 228 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: what's it like? Like Kathy Wichilly just had her first granddaughter. 229 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: I saw so cute, beautiful, and she's like, it's like, 230 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: oh my god, it's like nothing I can describe. And 231 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: my friend Chris the same thing. Like people talk about it, 232 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: but as a parent, as a first time parent, it's hard. 233 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:16,319 Speaker 1: It's not easy. Yeah, So getting to what my point 234 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: is is, you know, we Wendy's dad worked with what 235 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: he had. He's very old school, Nigerian old school. He's like, 236 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: let's not talk about the past. She's like, I didn't 237 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: see you for my birthther He's like, let's not talk 238 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 1: about the past. You know, they want you to be hard. 239 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: They grew up harder than everyone. 240 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 2: Right right. I because of my situation with my daughter, 241 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 2: I follow a lot of people. They talk about stuff 242 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 2: like this. 243 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: Oh and yeah, I'd love to hear about that. 244 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. And there's one lady, older lady that I just 245 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: started following, and she's been on both sides of it. 246 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: So she was a kid that turned their back on 247 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 2: their parent, and then she had her wait her parents 248 00:12:56,640 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: turned her back on her, and then she earned her 249 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 2: back on them. It's just a whole long story. But 250 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: just listening to her talk and she said, listen, we're 251 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 2: just kids that grew up that had kids like we 252 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 2: make mistakes and nowadays kids are just like what, I'm 253 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 2: protecting my peace. There's a lot of that going on. 254 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 2: Instead of working through whatever the issue you had with 255 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:26,079 Speaker 2: your parent, I'm protecting my peace. It's basically running from 256 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 2: your problems. Just a new modern way of saying I'm 257 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 2: running for my problems. I mean, unless your parents are 258 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 2: abusive or things like that. In this situation, it sounds 259 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 2: like that the dad wasn't always around. But you know, 260 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, and I tell my 261 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 2: kids this, he's still your dad. You can't agree with 262 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 2: everything that he says or does, but ord dad or did, 263 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 2: He's still your dad. 264 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: Not every parent, though not every parent deserves that grace. 265 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 2: They don't, No, they don't. There is exceptions, for sure, 266 00:13:58,280 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 2: for sure. 267 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 1: And there is also a part of it that is 268 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 1: a part of your healing, healing by forgiving them in 269 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: a way. I And that's really where the place I 270 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: come from when I speak to people who have that 271 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 1: kind of thing, I'm like, for yourself, you know, And 272 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: if not, that's fine. Everybody to each his own. But 273 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: if you want to think about, if there's one day 274 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: whether not hear anymore, you're going to regret, because regret 275 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: is a really rough thing. 276 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 2: She just did a whole thing on regret. I wish 277 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: I remember her name, might tell people to follow her. 278 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 2: She just did a thing on regret that parents either 279 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: parent either way, either the parents disown or the children disown, 280 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 2: and then somebody dies, and then that person spends the 281 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: rest of their life regretting. 282 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: Well, you don't want to do that. Get it out 283 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: of your system. If it works, it works, if it doesn't, 284 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: walk away from it. But at least say I tried anyway. 285 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so, I mean I was happy to see her. 286 00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 2: I actually felt bad for Winny in this whole episode, 287 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: you know, with the dad situation. And then later on 288 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: talking to the mom, what did you think about Wendy's 289 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 2: home renovation. 290 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: I've been following it. I remember her saying, oh, we're 291 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: going to do them. Well, I mean, does it look good? Yeah? 292 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: I think Wendy's got great taste. 293 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it looked great. Yeah, great, loved it. 294 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 2: And then Kiarana moves in with Greg Kianna. I know, 295 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 2: even though her mom's like, no, don't do it, she 296 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 2: did it. Anyways. Do you think it's the right decision. 297 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: I think her friends listen, you have to live with 298 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: your own decisions. You can't and we all do. And 299 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: she's like, I know, we're going to get engaged. I 300 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: got a lot of shit for being with Paul and 301 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: saying he's not he's still he's not divorced yet, and 302 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: you know, how much time are you wasting being with 303 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: him to get married. I've been married, here's my here's 304 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: my gripe with this Kianana, and I understand that. You know, 305 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: you don't want to be influenced by other people. You 306 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: want to be with this man and you think it's 307 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: gonna come one day. But I've had children. If this 308 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: is if you want kids or if you want a 309 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: life with somebody, you cannot waste your youth. That is 310 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: a crime in of itself. My mother always said, do 311 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: not let a man waste your youth. And that's what 312 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: her mother is saying. And you know, you can meet 313 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: a lot of women who say, I was with this 314 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: guy for eight years, during all my child bearing years, 315 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: I wanted a kid more than anything, and he never committed. 316 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: We finally broke up and he got married and had 317 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: a kid within six months with somebody else. Yeah. Still, 318 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: but Kiarana likes nice stuff. She's carried it in her 319 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: chanel boxes. This guy's buying her her nice stuff, and 320 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: she made a point for us to all know her 321 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: name is on the condo he bought her. Okay, good, 322 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: and it could stay that way and you could still 323 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: go get a life with somebody else live in the 324 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: house he bought you. 325 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 2: It's okay to get nice presents, but when you're dating 326 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 2: somebody and they don't want to get married, but then 327 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 2: they're just giving you nice stuff. Nothing's going to change. 328 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 2: They're not going to want to marry you. They're just 329 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 2: they're pain for you, is all they're doing. He doesn't 330 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 2: seem I mean, he does seem like he was a 331 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 2: little bit more comfortable on camera this episode from in 332 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: the past. But that whole scene about her talking about, oh, 333 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,719 Speaker 2: it's an engagement ring and then he gives her a 334 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 2: bag that's from a the jewelry store, it's so corny. 335 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: Okay, that's it. I want do you. 336 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: Think that this is to throw her off? Because it 337 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 2: was really like such a douche move and you're like, oh, 338 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: it's a picture frame, and you know, she was disappointed, 339 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 2: but she played it off like oh that was so sweet. 340 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 2: Even in her confessional she couldn't even go are you 341 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 2: fucking kidding me? She was like, oh, you know, he seems. 342 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: To prove us all wrong, including her mom, prove us. 343 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 2: Wrong right right right, So I don't know. I think 344 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 2: that it could possibly be that he is going to propose, 345 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 2: but he was just trying to, you know, trick her 346 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:06,360 Speaker 2: or make her things. 347 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 1: The build up. 348 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's the build up. 349 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean even put a picture of them. And 350 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: I love getting a picture with a frame. If anybody said, 351 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: you know, if anybody's got last minute gifts, go to 352 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 1: CBS or Walgreens, print a picture, put it in a 353 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 1: frame and say your gift is in the mail. I 354 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 1: do that all the time. I love it. 355 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 2: I love giving like framed pictures. Yeah, two people. I 356 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: love that. So Tia has a half sister and they 357 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,640 Speaker 2: go to lunch. She's very pretty, very pretty, and they 358 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 2: get all emotional realizing their dad just wanted them to 359 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 2: be close. And Tia didn't realize why until she was older. 360 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: So she's made it clear. 361 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,719 Speaker 2: Tia is that she's team mom. And I don't know 362 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 2: what exactly all he did, but he obviously has other 363 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 2: children with other women and. 364 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: Then and certain cultures. 365 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 2: That's okay, that's okay. So it's good to see that 366 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 2: the girls are now reconnecting, and they must not talk 367 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 2: much or see each other much, because she asked, Tia 368 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 2: asked her, did the kids remember you? 369 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 1: Stupid? She was there last year she was there last year. 370 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: That's what they said in the scene. 371 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: Oh god, I. 372 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 1: Did a year old. 373 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's like, did they remember? She's like, yeah, yeah. 374 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: Whenever, off the record, I have an illegitimate sister that 375 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: looks just like me, saying. 376 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 2: I know she works on that show Rhode Island. 377 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: Families didn't sign up for this, right, yeah, and they 378 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 1: don't really focus on my family a lot. 379 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 2: So I mean that would be a difficult thing for 380 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:58,959 Speaker 2: Tia because you know, she has this half sister, she 381 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:00,719 Speaker 2: doesn't have a really it doesn't sound like she has 382 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 2: much of a relationship with her father. And do you 383 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 2: resent that person? Do you want to get to know 384 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 2: your half sibling? Do you not want to? I think 385 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:17,880 Speaker 2: every situation's dif personal choice. And will it piss off 386 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,880 Speaker 2: her mom? Like, will it upset that's. 387 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 1: The other thing. So, so it was was it a 388 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 1: thing that it happened while their parents were married, Like 389 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 1: this is a whole First of all, moms have to 390 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: leave that up to the kid's decision, and don't don't 391 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: hold it against them because it might be something that 392 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 1: happened that is hurtful to you, But it's also a 393 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 1: half sibling of your child. 394 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 2: Right, right, You can't put that on your child. 395 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 1: No, because but you know unless but the person could 396 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: be bad or good, you don't know. But that person 397 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: as an adult has to find out for themself. 398 00:20:55,600 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, this whole episode's about kind of siblings relationships. Because 399 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: then we move on to Wendy, her mom and her 400 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 2: sister come over to her house. This was a pretty 401 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 2: damn heated scene, like, I'm in shock her mom, I 402 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 2: don't have any words. 403 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: It's the new list I don't want to fight list 404 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: that I have. Is her mom's on it now too. 405 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, And so she tells her mom that she 406 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 2: called her dad, and her mom just gets pissed off 407 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 2: and is like, he's no dad, he's a sperm donor. 408 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: Listen. As a single mom, life was probably very hard, 409 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: very hard for her and having to make sure Like 410 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 1: a guy, let's face it, and I don't care who 411 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,719 Speaker 1: gets mad at me. A guy could zip up his 412 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: pants and walk away right all he wants. He could 413 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,919 Speaker 1: do that. I was told that when I was probably 414 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,119 Speaker 1: eight years old. Yeah, and I came from a very like, 415 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: straight up hard family. I saw my kid My aunts 416 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 1: raised their children by themselves. One aunt raised five boys 417 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: by herself waitress. My other aunt still to this day 418 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 1: works four jobs in her eighties, she still wants to waitress. 419 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: I watched this, I loved it, and yeah, that can happen, 420 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: and I can understand where her mother's coming from, like 421 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: give me a break. But again, if that's what you want, 422 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: if that's what she. 423 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: Wants, I'm wondering if this was something like how long 424 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 2: has it been since Wendy's talked to her dad? I 425 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 2: think she had said it in prior episodes, but I 426 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 2: just can't remember, like has it been like twenty years, 427 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 2: thirty years? Is she doing this now? Because why what's 428 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 2: the motivation? Because the mom seemed really pissed off, and 429 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 2: she said things like, I know what you're doing. 430 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: Okay, well, guess what, mom, he's doing. If she knows 431 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: what she's doing, if she's what do you say when 432 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: someone's doing it for something? If she's uh, if the 433 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: mom is trying to she did it for the show, 434 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 1: If that's just what it is, we don't know. I 435 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 1: know what you're doing. They guess what, mom? The money 436 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: that you like to spend that she has is made 437 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,640 Speaker 1: on the show that she's doing it for, so right, grant. 438 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna says that's a very, very very good 439 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: point because it was only last week that her mom said, 440 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: I like spending your money. Well, guess where it is 441 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 1: money's coming from? Do you have in different places? 442 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 2: But do you think that Wendy's mom is part of 443 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 2: the reason Wendy's in the situation she's in right now? No, No, 444 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 2: what do. 445 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 1: You mean, like because she has to support her. 446 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:53,360 Speaker 2: Mom, like she just her mom puts certain expectations on her. 447 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,479 Speaker 2: Wendy likes, I don't know what she likes expensive stuff. 448 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,239 Speaker 1: And first of all, it's still alleged. We don't they 449 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: haven't been found guilty yet. 450 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, she hears the mom and allowance, but that's her 451 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,679 Speaker 2: choice to give her mom and allowed She doesn't have to. 452 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 2: Her mom says she works four jobs. Now. I always say, like, 453 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,640 Speaker 2: if you're in your forties or fifties, even in your thirties, 454 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 2: like you make the choices you make, or on you, 455 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 2: If you're going to do something to be illegal or 456 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 2: shady or whatever, that's on you. That is on you. 457 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,360 Speaker 2: So I know that we're all a product for environment. 458 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,439 Speaker 2: But it looks like her mom was a very hard worker. 459 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: She's working three jobs, three or four jobs. So her 460 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 2: mom was saying that she's just a sperm donor be 461 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 2: careful of the dad. 462 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 1: She's right. If he didn't help them, if he didn't 463 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: provide for them, that's a fuck exactly what he is. 464 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish I had a little bit more or 465 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 2: I can remember. They might have said it about the 466 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 2: history of her and her father, like was he never 467 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 2: in her life? Was he? 468 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 1: What is it? But I mean the way song at 469 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: about this papa was a roll and stuff stone. Wherever 470 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 1: he laid his hat was his home. 471 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 2: But according to the moms, like be careful, like you 472 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 2: don't want to be around this guy. Uh, Wendy. But 473 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: Wendy said, like, that's not fair to say because you 474 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 2: were married to him. 475 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: Okay, Wendy, your mom has every right to feel the 476 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: way she does if that is the way he treated her, 477 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: and if he everything with all responsibilities for you and 478 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: your sister were on her. I don't blame her for 479 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: being mad, but she shouldn't act the way she does. 480 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 1: Mean she got vicious. 481 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 2: Well her sister. Yeah, I'm not condoning the way she 482 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: acted at all. And even Wendy goes at one point girl, 483 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 2: you're doing too much and trying to have a moment. 484 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 1: Well, she's gonna allowance. She's got to make a scene too. 485 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 2: I wonder how they're doing. I mean, I'm sure say 486 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 2: that you know. 487 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: Everyone who's been on my ship. 488 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 2: Well she should she should do something, work for that money. 489 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 1: She got into character. 490 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 2: Mom, mom got into character. 491 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: And your mom's in character every day. 492 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 2: My mom is always in character. She just says whatever's 493 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 2: on her mind. 494 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: My mother just doesn't. 495 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, can you just feel to your mouth just 496 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 2: a little bit. Well, Wendy's mom does not feel to 497 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 2: her mouth whatsoever. And then Wendy's like, get out, leave 498 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 2: my house. And then Wendy's mom's literally leaving, telling her 499 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 2: shut the f up, shut the f up. 500 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 1: Well, that's a lot of a lot of feelings and 501 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: emotions coming from a place where her mom had things had. 502 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: Life was not easy for her mother because of the 503 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 1: things the father did to her. I'm sorry she was 504 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: wrong to speak to her daughter like that. 505 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 2: She had it wrong, wrong, so wrong. And you know 506 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 2: what's wrong I was. I didn't speak to my dad 507 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,239 Speaker 2: very often for ten year and did hardly saw him 508 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 2: because my parents got divorced, and it got really bad 509 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 2: and nasty. And you know, I would every once in 510 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 2: a while talk to him, but I just tried to 511 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,399 Speaker 2: stay away from him because I chose my mom's side. 512 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,919 Speaker 2: It's it's damaging and it's hard, you know. And I 513 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 2: say that to two of my kids that do not 514 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 2: speak to their dad, and it's I go, this is 515 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,160 Speaker 2: stuff that you're gonna go be going to therapy when 516 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 2: you're like forty. So sometimes like you have to take 517 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: the good with the bad and just no no limitations. 518 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 1: Again, if someone thinks they're going to regret it, then 519 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 1: they have to take it and do it anyway. 520 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah's but yeah, okay, but it was a good episode. 521 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,479 Speaker 1: I'm bad for Wendy. I felt I did bad for her. 522 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 1: Her mom was way too hard on her, way way 523 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: too hard. And guess what, when Wendy's paying the allowance, 524 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: you gotta watch how you talk to her. Sis. Sorry, right, 525 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 1: that's how I am. 526 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 2: Now. If I'm paying for anything in yours, you better 527 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 2: watch how you talk to me. 528 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: I agree with them 529 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 2: All right, guys, thank you for tuning in to another 530 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 2: episode of Two Teas in a Pod and we'll see 531 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 2: you next week.