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Speaker 1: now I don't want to go. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: And Riley?

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Speaker 1: If your parents brought your friends, no, they're friends.

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Speaker 2: On vacation, would you go as long as they be

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Speaker 2: my friend?

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Speaker 1: Fair is fair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my parents friends are cool.

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Speaker 1: No, my friends' friends are very cool. I've been on

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Speaker 1: vacation with some of them and it's been so fun.

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Speaker 2: Are your parents' friends also your friends?

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Speaker 1: No, like the adults, I wouldn't say, like.

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Speaker 2: You're an adult, Sophie, what.

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Speaker 1: My parents friend's children are my friends?

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Speaker 2: But not so you can't go up to like your parents'

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Speaker 1: No, I probably wouldn't say that to anyone though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I've hung out with them solo because I this

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Speaker 1: is specifically for like my like mom's friends in Australia,

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Speaker 1: like I've I've I mean, I wouldn't say they're friends

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Speaker 1: but you know, like I would say, I'm very close

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Speaker 2: I'm just seeing why why can't they help you? Friends?

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Speaker 1: Why can't Why can't we be friends? Why can't we

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Speaker 1: to Terabithia. So Relative Young ninety thirty seven says, this

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Speaker 1: but I'm not sure how to handle the situation at hand,

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Speaker 1: so I need advice for context. My parents are swingers.

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Speaker 1: Oh I see, I see. Yeah, okay, this makes it a

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Speaker 1: little bit. I found out about them being swingers right

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Speaker 1: after I graduated high school in twenty sixteen. Oh, that's

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Speaker 1: a horrible time to figure that. Well, like you're going

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Speaker 2: Ever a good time that your parents are swingers. Like,

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Speaker 1: I think I think it would have to happen at

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Speaker 1: those are the two options for me personally. Everyone has

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Speaker 1: are you coping? I never really had an opinion on

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to see exactly I was about

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and bring your like you're trying to think of

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Speaker 1: A very Grandma Carol and pupla girl.

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Speaker 1: thank you. I'm fully aware that my parents are adults

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Speaker 1: the Swingers, I would want to do anything to like

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Speaker 2: That's the part of it. You have to already assume.

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Speaker 1: Like me, they like me, they love me. The confidence

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Speaker 2: They have a lot of confidence. They also the calendar.

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Speaker 2: Side note, would you like a calendar from us?

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Speaker 1: From the ok this is my suggestion before Riley co.

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Speaker 2: Ops it it was who it was?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, its me? It me. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like one of the leak say, like a.

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Speaker 1: Whatever calendar do you want?

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Speaker 2: What are those ones with like the girl resignment? Oh no,

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Speaker 2: I thought that's what you at first were talking about.

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Speaker 1: No, I'll show you later, uh Dan, Phil If I

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Speaker 1: I feel like maybe I'm just in my own corner

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Speaker 1: If you look up Dan and Phil calendar, they did

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Speaker 2: I didn't have like internet until I was like either,

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Speaker 1: Okay? Not until I know I have it?

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Speaker 2: Who are these people? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So they did like this like well, I guess that's older.

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Speaker 2: Weird you know. Okay, Okay, I see, I see.

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Speaker 2: I'm down. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And if we do like a dog calendar, we can

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Speaker 2: This here here, here, I got it. I gotta get.

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Speaker 1: Show.

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Speaker 2: Okay, dot show that's the that's the thing. It's live.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, hey, guys, I mean this is gonna come out

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Speaker 1: much later. But our are okay O p dotch Wait,

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Speaker 2: That's not a good picture.

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Speaker 1: That's a great picture. You look like you're you look

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Speaker 1: like you're in one of those movies where like like

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Speaker 1: you like rescued him, and you're like, I don't really

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Speaker 1: and they're like, you need this dog, and slowly you

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Speaker 1: come to love each other. That's what this picture is

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Speaker 1: giving you. Okay, let's get back to the story. Relevant comments.

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Speaker 1: Dexter's style says, your parents sound incredibly demanding and childish.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't go at all, point blank tell them. Your

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Speaker 1: covered all by saying nonsense like I'm just living my

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Speaker 1: Opie replied, it is so bizarre. I truly love my parents,

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Speaker 1: and I know it would hurt them if I tell

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Speaker 1: them I'm not going, but it makes me so uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: Captain Tax says, Yeah, I'm all for alternative lifestyle, but

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Speaker 1: you can't be doing that around your kids. Family time

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Speaker 1: OPI replied, I'm all for supporting my parents, as they

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see every single thing they do.

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Speaker 1: A kiss here and there is fine, but to make

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Speaker 1: And that's where I draw the line. Yank for your comment.

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Speaker 1: That is yikes. That is big yikes. I heard of

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Speaker 1: Fluff says, if I were you, I'd invite them out

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Speaker 1: Explain that I appreciate that they see me as an adult,

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Speaker 1: I tell them that I'm uncomfortable with this new couple.

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Speaker 1: I do not view them as family, regardless of the

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Speaker 1: will no longer be joining them. Let them be upset.

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Speaker 1: They've decided who they want to spend time with.

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Speaker 2: Yum. Yeah, the family advice, even though they may see

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't family exactly.

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Speaker 1: You can't make other people. You can't force family on people,

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Speaker 1: like even if they were actual family. You can't force

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Speaker 2: That you That was a great Ok, that was a

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Speaker 1: I thought you were like, what are you saying?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, you can't force family family on people. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's like so deep.

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Speaker 1: Family is the injured dog that you found on the

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Speaker 1: you have to earn its trust before you can Hi. Everyone.

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Speaker 1: A few weeks ago, I made a post about my

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Speaker 1: I did, and it didn't go well. Also, sorry the

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Sucks.

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Speaker 2: What do you think happened?

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Speaker 1: I think the parents were like, I don't care what

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Speaker 2: We're in a.

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Speaker 1: Relationship and you have to deal with it. And then yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then they've meant no contact.

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Speaker 2: No contact. I say, low contact, low contact.

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Speaker 1: Maybe no contact is to going too far low content.

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Speaker 1: So onto the update, I brought up all of my

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Speaker 1: of course it's not their business. Like it's no one's business.

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Speaker 1: Much you do on your own time, But don't like

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Speaker 1: That's especially like stuff with like sexual things. That's like

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Speaker 1: I stop it, which is true. They're adults and can

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Speaker 1: to see. They also consider their girlfriend and boyfriend to

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Speaker 1: They also see no issue with their friends calling themselves

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Speaker 1: and they could take someone else, and until they understand

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Speaker 1: where I'm coming from, I would not be coming around.

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Speaker 1: So over the time being, my parents are being cut off.

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Speaker 1: I'm very sad about the outcome, and it makes me

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Speaker 1: But to each their own I guess. Thank you all

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Speaker 1: for the comments. I read every single one of them.

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Speaker 1: Even if I didn't comment back, I still read them.

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Speaker 1: There were some very nice, supporting ones that really helped,

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Speaker 1: So thank you all. And final comment from OP on

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Speaker 1: sure if she's planning ongoing or not, so if she doesn't,

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Speaker 2: Oh that actually sounds like it'll be nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, the sister and ope and maybe their partners

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Speaker 2: Oh and then like the fiance and then her husband

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Speaker 2: and the baby. No, the baby's not there, but oh

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Speaker 2: it's just the sisters.

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Speaker 1: Well, the baby's like in the belly, baby's not been birthed.

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Speaker 2: Oh baby's still not.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait no no no, no, no, you're right.

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Speaker 2: No wait last story, baby wasn't here yet, So I

439
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Speaker 2: think baby baby baby exists yes, No, I think it

440
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Speaker 2: seems like the parents are being a little very immature, Yeah,

441
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Speaker 2: which really sucks because it doesn't seem like, oh, pee's

442
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Speaker 2: against the relationship.

443
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Speaker 1: It just seems like the way that the parents are

444
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Speaker 1: going about, you know, about it is not good and

445
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Speaker 1: making people uncomfortable.

446
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Speaker 2: And also I think like the parents are doing this

447
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Speaker 2: because they want to feel a little bit more young

448
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Speaker 2: and youthful.

449
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, it seems like they like their relationship.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's just they're not going about it like

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Speaker 1: you have to be respectful of other people, especially your children,

452
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Speaker 1: especially when you were bringing in outside relationships, because that's

453
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Speaker 1: like a big thing for like a child to deal with,

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Speaker 1: even no matter how old they are. And it doesn't

455
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Speaker 1: seem like there's I don't know how old is op

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Speaker 1: op is do in a okay, but they found out

457
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Speaker 1: about this right after high school, which is.

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Speaker 2: Pretty in twenty sixteen, so we can calculate, we can

459
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Speaker 2: calculate it. I just think that actually, don't do the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's later the episode not helpful at all.

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Speaker 1: Twenty sixteen, seven years oh wait, no, twenty yeah, all

462
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Speaker 1: the seven to eight years, depending on when in twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Right, so figured out in twenty sixteen when they graduated.

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Speaker 2: So let's just say they're eighteen in twenty sixteen, and

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Speaker 2: now the year's twenty twenty four, had for like twenty

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Speaker 2: six yeah, and the sister, younger sister is probably like

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Speaker 2: twenty three when.

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Speaker 1: Yeah seven baby well or she had a baby. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And like I don't know, it's old enough to be

470
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Speaker 1: like you kind of have to get over whatever relationship

471
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Speaker 1: stuff is going on with your parents. But I don't

472
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Speaker 1: think it's any Like I just think PDA is when

473
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Speaker 1: it's sometimes can go a little far.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have to be respecial flashing each other.

475
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Speaker 1: That's weird. That's weird that specifically like that, that's too far.

476
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Speaker 2: Only flash Like I don't really flash people.

477
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Speaker 1: I've never flashed.

478
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Speaker 2: You will flash me what's going on. It's like my

479
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Speaker 2: guy friends will just like go their ass in a window.

480
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Speaker 2: That's happened twice from the same friend.

481
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Speaker 1: Well then anyways, Oh, here's my time on your brother

482
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Speaker 1: in a drawer.

483
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Speaker 2: So like some people put their baby, Let me know

484
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Speaker 2: if you've ever put your baby in closet or like,

485
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Speaker 2: where do you put your baby when you have it?

486
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Speaker 1: Let me know, I would think they're a little caught,

487
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Speaker 1: but maybe.

488
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Speaker 2: That's just like its own little house.

489
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Speaker 1: Yeah, like the the what's it called?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they put them? Yeah yeah, but where is

491
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Speaker 2: that crib located? I don't know, that's the question I

492
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Speaker 2: want to know. Yeah, not that I'm weird, I just

493
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Speaker 2: am curious, where's your crib? Where's yours? Because my parents

494
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Speaker 2: will put it in the closet or in their retreat.

495
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Speaker 2: And one time my parents went on vacation and I

496
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Speaker 2: think they had a crib, but like my brother at

497
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Speaker 2: the time is one of my little brothers were small

498
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Speaker 2: enough to fit in the drawer, so they like made

499
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Speaker 2: it really comfy and just took the drawer out of

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Speaker 2: the drawer and oh.

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Speaker 1: Like on vacation, so they didn't have the crip with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they just like, I don't know where they

503
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Speaker 2: put the drawer, but they just had him in there

504
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Speaker 2: just hanging out, and he seem fine.

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Speaker 1: But okay, I see I was picturing you you put

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Speaker 1: a baby in a drawer, And then.

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Speaker 2: I think they may have just as if it were

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Speaker 2: oh okay, just but then they were like, oh that's funny,

509
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Speaker 2: and then they took them out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but yeah, well, let us know in the comments

511
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Speaker 1: if your parents are swingers, let us know how that makes.

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Speaker 2: You feel, and call us and we'll let's call.

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Speaker 1: Us your parents are swingers. There, that's where you can

514
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Speaker 1: call and let us know about your your parents' relationships.

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time

518
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Speaker 2: for okop relash. Have you ever been cheated on?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, uh no not yet? Oh well yeah his

521
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Speaker 2: dad yikes, Well my girlfriend that's a Christian? Yes, what

522
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Speaker 2: had happened? You come a small very bad.

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Speaker 1: The best of APIs tom we're fans of small dips.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?

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Speaker 1: Next question?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been cheated on?

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Speaker 1: She?

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Speaker 2: I had on topics Nicki minajst top tier. Why she's

529
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Speaker 2: super bomb. Yeah, he had a kid with another person

530
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Speaker 2: while we were still married. I mean that's pretty big.

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Speaker 2: When did you find out about the other kid? Right

532
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Speaker 2: after the kid was born?

533
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Speaker 1: And uh, he found out about the other kid? What

534
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Speaker 1: three years ago?

535
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Speaker 2: Two years ago? On Instagram? Have you ever cheated nah?

536
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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: She promiscuous. Mom, che You're not gonna get locked down? No, no, no,

538
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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna blocked now, I can't yeh to se I'm.

539
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Speaker 1: Saying I see it.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever cheated? No? Have you ever been tempted? No?

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Speaker 1: Wait, there was a pause, There is a giant eyes pause.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever cheated?

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00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: No? No, no, of course not you.

544
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Speaker 2: Have you ever cheated on someone?

545
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Speaker 1: Now?

546
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Speaker 2: Are you sure? Not? Even? Like? Oh no, not even

547
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Speaker 2: it's your longest relationship, two months, the only one as well,

548
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 2: it's ear to be faithful two months relationship. Have you

549
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: ever cheated me?

550
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Speaker 1: No?

551
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 2: Never, not even a little bit. No, because is a

552
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: big thing for me. What do you say to him

553
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 2: when you found out?

554
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: What there thinking?

555
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Speaker 2: Is there anything that he could have said that you

556
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Speaker 2: would have been like?

557
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Speaker 1: That makes total sense, honey, Let's get back together like

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Speaker 1: oh she chipped and foul on my No,