WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sweet Benjamin and His Big Sis 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:06.400 Hey, it's Monday after a time change. WOFTA. I know. Yeah, hey, 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:07.440 welcome to it. 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:09.760 We're going to try to get through this altogether. A. 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:11.760 We do have a brand new second date for you 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:14.040 today to kind of wake you up keep you going, 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:17.160 and we always love to start those with comments. 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:22.360 Yes, bis Mango said hi from Romania. You guys almost 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:24.680 got me kicked out of class. I was listening to 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.160 y'all during class with my earphones and it suddenly got 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:29.760 out of power and the show started blasting in the 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:30.840 silent amphitheater. 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:32.960 Thank god, my professor was a listener. 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:34.560 Now I know how to get better grades. 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:40.320 A professor was a listener too. I'm scared what segment 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.240 and what part was playing when it went out loud. 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:44.280 I mean usually get held back for that stuff. 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:45.839 Yeah, I got us. 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:50.360 Yeah, alright, alright, dummies, here's a bridge update right now. 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:53.360 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:57.680 I read an article recently where in New York City 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:02.120 right now, they're holding speed Day events, just tons of them, 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:05.880 where it's a three to one female to male ratio. 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:07.800 Keep going. I've heard about. 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:11.560 This, and this is where men can attend them for free. 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.880 And women have to pay one hundred dollars or more, 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:18.840 which is crazy drastic price difference. But guys just aren't 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:22.160 showing up to these like at all anymore. And the 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.880 reason why is because they interviewed some of the guys 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.480 and men say they feel like they're most likely going 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:30.759 to get ignored or rejected by the women there anyway, 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.480 So even a free ticket just feels like a big 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:34.160 waste of time. 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:36.360 So that all the men have given up in New 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:38.680 York City and blamed the women. Yeah, I love it, 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:39.520 That's what I just heard. 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:41.199 Well, it's nice that you came with such an open 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.560 heart towards these guys and their feelings. I'm sure that 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.480 it has nothing to do with how they feel. The 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:47.920 feel weird about the women, I know, but no one 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.720 knows that better than one of our listeners, Stacey, who's 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:53.880 on the phone right now because she wingmanned her brother 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:57.400 at one of these events. I'm not sure why he's 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:58.800 not on the phone with us. 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.720 Wingmanning your brother. Your brother better have paid your one 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:03.960 hundred dollars entry show. 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:06.200 Stacey. Welcome to the show. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:08.040 Hey, guys, how's it going today? 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:11.359 Good? We asked you the questions. 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:15.720 So yeah, I guess who paid? Did your brother pay 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:16.000 for this? 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.960 My brother did pay for it, okay? 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:21.960 And why did he think he wanted his sister to 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:22.359 be there? 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:26.760 You know, he's just a really shy guy. So he 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:28.520 asked if I would go with him, and of course, 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.320 you know, he's my baby brother. I'm sure I'm going 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:33.160 to go with him. I want him to find happiness. 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:35.200 You're like his comfort, like service animals. 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:37.440 Yeah, until you until you find a hot guy, and 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:38.120 then he's on his own. 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:40.519 Certainly, Why did. 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:41.400 You participate too? 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:43.160 I did. 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:46.200 I didn't find anybody, but he did. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.400 Wait, we thought, okay, I thought. 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:50.560 This was a second date update for you. 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:53.519 No, I am actually calling for my brother. 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:55.800 Interesting. 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:58.880 I told him to call you guys. He said he 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:01.720 was too nervous. I said, why don't you just email them? 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:04.320 And he just was too embarrassed. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:05.000 Couldn't do it. 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:09.119 Bud, He's with us like we're harmless. We're on the font, 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:09.400 I know. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.360 But that's scary to be on the radio. Like I 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:11.799 can get that. 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:14.120 Yeah, especially when we're talking to Brook as a man, 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:15.600 I don't feel fear coming. 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.639 I mean, your sister will air all your dirty laundry. 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:21.840 The nice thing is, we'll probably get the honest truth 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:23.600 about what you think he did wrong. 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:26.720 Before this instead oblivious to everything. 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:27.600 That's how siblings were. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.080 I'm curious, how much do you know about your brother 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:32.160 and the girl he met, Like, how much detail do 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:32.480 you have? 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.560 I mean I have the detail in the sense that 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:39.400 I was there and I was kind of overhearing what 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.160 they were saying. But they hit it off so well. 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.120 They had so much in common, Like my brother spent 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:46.840 a year in Italy for a. 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:49.760 Travel abroad program and it turned out that she did too. 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:53.440 They just seem to really really hit it off. And 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:57.120 you know that arm touch you just like reach across 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.720 the table when you're laughing, and it means more than 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.160 just touching your arm. She did that like five times. 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:06.320 And did he did he do that to her? 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:07.480 Just touching arms? 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.800 Touching arms and maybe you touched both their arms. 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.880 No, No, he was very respectful. But at the end 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:15.240 of the date they picked each other. 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:19.640 Okay, at the end of the speed dating, choose your 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:23.200 favorite wild to like pick somebody, spend the money to 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:26.359 be at the event, and then not follow through with 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:27.360 the person that you. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:32.000 Picked about money, Yes, sometimes you have change of hearts. 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:34.080 So this is the only interaction that they had is 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:34.920 at the speed dating. 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:38.440 No, they did go on a follow up date, oh 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.600 right after they went to dinner. I did not join 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:43.280 them for that one. 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:45.640 It is very possible he screwed it up there. 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:50.159 But okay, he said dinner was fine, but it ended 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:53.520 with him walking her to the car. He was hoping 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:55.680 to chat with her, but she was really really quiet 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:57.880 and just kept insisting that he didn't have to walk 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:58.320 her back. 0:04:58.640 --> 0:04:59.920 Oh a bad. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:03.560 Oh during the walk most you really don't have. 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:06.360 To come, well, I mean at night you want somebody to. 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:12.000 Anybody, I mean girl normally unless Yeah, clearly there's something 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:14.240 happening between the two of them where she doesn't want 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:14.800 him around. 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.159 And that's how you know he did something wrong. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.400 Right as the sister, It's it's very possible. 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:24.400 Ben is so sweet, like we call him sweet Benjamin 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:32.359 in the family, like that is I don't know if yeah. 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:32.760 Sweet Benjamin sounds like he needs extra like we have 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:35.000 her first reason why she's probably not calling him. 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:37.799 It is very possible. 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:39.960 But I also you know, he doesn't know what's going on, 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:43.000 and I just I want to help because he walked 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.640 herto the car and apparently she didn't even say thank you. 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.280 She just waved, got right in her car, like, no 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.839 opportunity to even hug goodbye. 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:54.160 Does Ben know that you're doing this for him? I 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:56.080 know you encouraged him to do it, but does he 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:57.120 know you took the reins? 0:05:57.800 --> 0:05:59.440 I told him I was going to. I don't know 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:01.680 if he believe me, but at this point he should. 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:04.919 This is interesting. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:05.760 It's gonna hit the air. 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:08.800 He's gonna hear it, sister instinct. What do you think 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:09.480 went wrong? 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:13.440 I feel like there was probably a misunderstanding of some 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:16.839 kind at dinner. I don't know what it could be, 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:20.400 but Vita seemed so into him that it just doesn't 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:21.159 make sense. 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:22.599 I'm sorry. What was her name? 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.440 Vita? Like, don't cry for me? Argentina? 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:30.440 Okay, the coconut water, Yeah, the coconut. 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:33.480 All right. So she sounds a little bit foreign. 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:35.760 Maybe she needs like a spicier guy in her life, 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:38.080 not sweet Ben. Well, she did go to Italy for 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:40.000 a while, that's true. 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:43.479 If she's also a shy person, this may be really overwhelming. 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:46.320 Well again, then we won't air it. 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.200 I know, well, I'm excited to find out when we 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:53.920 come back. We call Vita for on behalf of Stacy's 0:06:54.120 --> 0:06:59.960 brother again, Ben, I'm sweet, Ben, I forget. We'll see 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.440 see why she was acting so awkward at the end 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:04.760 of their day when we come back and get it 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:07.280 with your second date update right after this hold. 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:10.320 On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:16.200 Behind every sweet shy boy is a proud, well spoken 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:21.200 sister ready to go to bat on his behalf sister. 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:22.880 Says our own shy boy. 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:26.000 And that's why Stacy reached out to us because she 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.559 wingmanned her brother Ben recently at a speed dating event 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.640 and watched him walk out the door with a pretty woman, 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:36.880 watched chemistry happen it Sweet Benjamin, he wants to write 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:39.320 it out that event and took her straight to dinner, 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:44.680 where apparently things probably went wrong. We don't know exactly 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:47.880 what happened there, but according to what Stacy has heard 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:50.880 from her brother several times, as he was walking her 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:52.760 back to her car, she said to him, you know, 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:56.200 you don't have to walk with me, which is not 0:07:56.280 --> 0:08:00.160 a good sign. Ye never said thank you and just 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:06.040 waved goodbye at him before she left, and Stacy demands answers. 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.560 Well, I mean Stacy's trying to help out. 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:12.600 Is ready to hit someone if someone doesn't explain what 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:12.960 went on? 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:13.440 Right? 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:16.920 Slow down, Oh, you are not wrong. I am ready to. 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:19.040 Stacy. 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:19.720 I knew it. 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:20.000 Do you know? 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:20.960 We never asked. 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:23.520 Did Vita find out that you were at the speed 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:24.200 dating event? 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:27.160 I don't know if she did. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:29.600 Okay, I'm just wondering, but it did occur to me. 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.960 That could be a weird thing, right. 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.040 Some people that may not sit right, especially if they're 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:34.920 not close with their sibling. 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:36.760 They don't understand that the. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:38.400 Way that Ben may have brought it up at dinner 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:40.520 could be you know, yeah, I took my sister to 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:43.720 the speed dating events, and that could be kind of awkward. 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:46.840 My husband often says, I married my sister. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.720 I'm like, no, you officiated the wedding, honey, different, I 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.720 said the SAS's wedding. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:56.120 Yea. How you say the words matters a lot. Let's 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:58.480 find out what happened. We don't know, so the only 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:00.199 way to find out is if Vita picks up the 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:01.880 phone and actually comes clean with it. 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:04.600 So let's do it. I'm gonna dial the number. Here 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:14.000 we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Vita. 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:16.240 Yes, this is her. 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:19.200 Hey Vita, thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:20.360 called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.480 Hi Vita, good morning. I like your name. 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:25.559 Hi, thank you. 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:28.480 You sound really outgoings not you? 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:32.280 Thank you? Guys. 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:33.360 What's up? 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.400 Yeah, we're really eager to talk to you because we 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:37.000 heard you. 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:40.760 Went out with a guy we kind of know, Benjamin. 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:43.000 His name is ben as a friend of ours. You 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.320 guys went on a speed date. That's where you met, 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:47.120 and then went on a dinner date afterwards. 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:50.120 Yeah, the pity date. 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:55.440 What how would you say that for us? 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.680 Well, like at the speed date, he was just like 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:02.559 borderline crying about how he hasn't been out with a woman. 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:07.360 I was like, Okay, well I guess let's just go 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:07.960 after this. 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:11.240 Are you exaggerating a little bit? I mean maybe he 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:13.080 was just maybe. 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.040 Maybe his eyes. 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:21.520 Walk us through the crying part. 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:24.800 I mean it's not crying, but like just like borderline, 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:28.760 like tears and sulky. But you know, he wasn't creepy, 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.160 so like I knew like he would be safe to 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:32.640 go out with. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.520 Yeah. 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:37.800 I hate that these are our boundaries as women. 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:42.880 Yeah, I'll take some free dinner from this sweet not 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:44.880 creepy guy, and then I'll ghost him forever. 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:47.280 Well, maybe she took him out. Did you pay? 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:49.280 No? He paid? 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:51.720 Okay, well like a gentleman. 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:55.320 But yeah, when you when you said yes to dinner, 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.760 did you tell him like, fine, take me out? Like 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.960 was it obvious that it was a pity date or 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:01.880 did he think you were actually into it? 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:04.520 I mean, he couldn't have thought that I was too 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:08.120 into it, Like I didn't seem like overly enthusiastic about it. 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:10.360 I was just like, Okay, well let's go to dinner. 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:13.840 That's not quite the review that we heard. We were 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.400 under the impression there was more chemistry between you two. 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:17.040 At the speed dating. 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.760 Never you had lived in Italy. He had lived in Italy. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:22.360 Yeah, he had arms. You had arms. You touched your 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:23.319 arm with his arm. 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:26.040 I remember on the speed date, I kept touching his 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.880 hand because he had like peanut butter on it or something. 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:32.880 Like that made me not want to touch it. 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.120 Yeah, just eating bumps on a log. 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.080 So it was pretty pathetic. 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:41.439 Oh, I feel like he's adorable because he's a pathetic. 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:44.400 Here's the thing. You never gave him a chance. It 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:45.200 sounds like. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:46.800 I went to freaking dinner with him. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:48.360 What do you mean I did give him a chance. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:50.080 He'd already written in your mind that it was a 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:52.360 pity date, you know, like once you pity someone you 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:53.960 can't like, there's no respect there. 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:56.320 Yeah, even if he does something cool, it's hard to 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:57.600 break out a pity. 0:11:57.480 --> 0:11:58.720 Well, did he do something cool? 0:11:58.800 --> 0:11:58.880 Like? 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:01.760 Was he was at least and respectful during your dinner date? 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:04.520 He was fine, but just like anything like once you 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:07.960 get the ick with somebody, like and you know what, 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:11.120 Like he couldn't even order his own dinner, like I 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:14.079 had to pick his meal for him, like mother, like 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.440 the price, he didn't ask me to cut up his food. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.240 Awkward, Yeah, or. 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:23.319 Just maybe nervous around a really pretty woman. 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:26.960 A pretty woman out to dinner, you should at least 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:28.920 be able to, like order for yourself. 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:33.439 I'm taking you to the nicest place in the city. 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:36.520 It's going to look good. He's on the phone. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:42.080 Yeah, yeah, we do. 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:45.760 Because here's the deal, Vita, we kind of have a 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:50.319 surprise for you because Ben is not on the phone 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:51.160 with us right now. 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:53.960 His sister, Stacy, however. 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:55.800 Is are you kidding me? 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:57.120 I'm not. 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:59.520 She was the one who reached out looking to get 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.000 answers on Ben's behalf. 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:02.320 So she wants to talk to you. 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:07.959 I think, Stacy, how dare you? 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:13.960 You are an absolute monster of a human And I 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:17.200 am so grateful, so grateful that my brother is not 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:20.440 going on a second date with you, and I cannot. 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:26.760 You typically he can't even like call the radio station himself. 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:27.480 He has you. 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.640 He can't call the radio station himself because he's so 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:34.840 used to women like you causing these kinds of problems. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:39.600 You see you so what, let's take a deep breath. 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.600 But she didn't know you were listening. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.600 She didn't know, like she wasn't trying to hurt anybody's feelings. 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.199 I understand it was probably hard to hear it. 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.280 It was harsh, But you know what, if she didn't 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:51.280 like him, why did she pick him for the date? 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:54.280 Why was he the one you have to pick a person. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:58.120 I didn't want him to bust out flying like I 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:01.080 was literally just like the dog a bone. 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:06.080 Oh it sounds rude, but she was trying to help. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:08.719 You were not trying to help? Are you kidding me? 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:10.839 This wanted a frizzy. 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.920 You literally said it, You literally said it in the call. 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:15.959 What did she say? 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:18.920 She said she was not interested, and that she went 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:20.720 out with him anyway. She called it a pity date, 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:22.440 and I swear to God if I her pity date 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:23.320 one more time. 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:30.480 Okay, Okay, I agree, Vita is saying some not nice things. 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:32.840 But stacy, maybe like, even though it's a pity date, 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:34.720 maybe your brother doesn't have to know. You know, it's 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:37.240 like getting a job when you already have a job. 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.400 Is easier, like going on another date when you know 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:40.400 you've been on one. 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:42.600 Maybe it's a boost of confidence he needs. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:43.880 Let him break up with her. 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:46.280 Y'all are spinning this in a way that you're trying 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.680 to get her off the hook. And how dare you 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.400 treat a kind man like that? 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:54.720 Exactly broke? How dare you treat a kind man like your. 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:56.560 Brother was like crying during the. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:15:00.520 Speed I was sitting right there. He was absolutely not crying. 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:04.280 He was engaging in the conversation. 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:08.360 Yeah, a little too engaged, just like a little too emotional. 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:11.600 And then and then I did her like what adult 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.360 cannot place their own suit order? 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.840 You know what I've heard enough, You've already said all 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:22.440 of these things, and you have absolutely made the worst 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:25.400 decision of your life. You would be lucky to date 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:26.440 someone like my brother. 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:36.040 Sister, you should go out with your brother like. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.200 Okay, I know we should do more brother sister second 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:38.840 updates because this is awesome. 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:40.920 My sister will call a girl yell at her. 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:46.600 Brother. Stacy, could you maybe see that you guys. 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:48.760 Like your family's may be coddling your brother a little 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:51.440 bit too much, like you're calling as. 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:57.760 This isn't about my brother anymore. This is about that woman, 0:15:57.960 --> 0:15:59.960 that toxic woman and her behavior. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.560 I know Brook is not the most pleasant. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:09.280 I'm talking about Vita because what she did to that 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:12.000 sweet boy, regardless of what he's. 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:12.560 A grown man. 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.280 Lord, that sweet boy needs to grow up. 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:22.520 Yeah, and you need to find a soul, you harpy. 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:25.240 Oh, I'm not sure. 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:25.720 It hurts though. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:26.920 You know. 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.640 It's at this point in the call where we always 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:31.280 offer to send the couple. 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:33.240 Out on another date and we would pay for it. 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.240 So at this point, Vita, I feel like there's a 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:39.000 chance that we could have all three of you meet 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:42.240 up one more time to work out your differences and 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:43.680 all order food for each other. 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:46.840 No, I think I'm going to pass on that one. 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:50.360 So you're passing with Stacy, but not on her brother. 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:52.520 You're still open to Ben on both of them. 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:53.400 I'm good. 0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:57.560 And Stacy, I don't appreciate you calling me names. 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:59.280 Your brother should grow the up. 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:03.560 Maybe a hard truth, Maybe. 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:05.679 He should, But at least he won't be alone for 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.879 the rest of his life because he'll have. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:11.680 Yeah, okay, I think she meant that as a dig 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:15.080 ta vita, but I worry that might actually happen where 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:17.520 Big Sis is actually going to end up becoming Sweet 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:21.520 Benjamin's mommy, ordering him smiley faced pancakes off the I 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:23.120 Hop menu for the rest of his life. 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:24.080 Don't hate those. 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:27.840 Oh sorry, it's kind of sweet. 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:31.000 You're right, brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:34.679 I don't know why during the call, I just I 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:37.520 had this weird image in my mind. But do you 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:42.160 think that during intimacy, Sweet ben shyly raises his hand 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:45.840 and asks the woman to help him put on his prophylactic. 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:49.760 Oh excuse me hand? 0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:52.840 Oh wow, yeah, I mean he couldn't order his own dinner. 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:55.959 He had peanut butter all over his arm. I'm starting 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:58.560 to see what Brooks saw during their conversation. 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:02.160 I might not say that nobody pictured that you were there. 0:18:02.240 --> 0:18:05.439 Oh, I was jumping straight to the ends. 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:07.280 I can't imagine any of it. 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.880 I'm gonna hate to admit Vita actually made a good point. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.639 If he really wanted a second date with her, he 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:14.120 should have. 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:15.040 Been the one that called. 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:17.399