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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Monday after a time change. WOFTA. I know. Yeah, hey,

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Speaker 1: welcome to it.

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Speaker 2: We're going to try to get through this altogether. A.

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Speaker 2: We do have a brand new second date for you

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Speaker 2: today to kind of wake you up keep you going,

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Speaker 2: and we always love to start those with comments.

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Speaker 3: Yes, bis Mango said hi from Romania. You guys almost

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Speaker 3: got me kicked out of class. I was listening to

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Speaker 3: y'all during class with my earphones and it suddenly got

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Speaker 3: out of power and the show started blasting in the

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Speaker 1: Thank god, my professor was a listener.

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Speaker 4: Now I know how to get better grades.

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Speaker 3: A professor was a listener too. I'm scared what segment

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Speaker 3: and what part was playing when it went out loud.

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Speaker 1: I mean usually get held back for that stuff.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I got us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, alright, alright, dummies, here's a bridge update right now.

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Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 7: I read an article recently where in New York City

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Speaker 7: right now, they're holding speed Day events, just tons of them,

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Speaker 7: where it's a three to one female to male ratio.

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Speaker 5: Keep going. I've heard about.

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Speaker 7: This, and this is where men can attend them for free.

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Speaker 7: And women have to pay one hundred dollars or more,

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Speaker 7: which is crazy drastic price difference. But guys just aren't

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Speaker 7: showing up to these like at all anymore. And the

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Speaker 7: reason why is because they interviewed some of the guys

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Speaker 7: and men say they feel like they're most likely going

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Speaker 7: to get ignored or rejected by the women there anyway,

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Speaker 7: So even a free ticket just feels like a big

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Speaker 2: So that all the men have given up in New

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Speaker 2: York City and blamed the women. Yeah, I love it,

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Speaker 2: That's what I just heard.

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Speaker 7: Well, it's nice that you came with such an open

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Speaker 7: heart towards these guys and their feelings. I'm sure that

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Speaker 7: it has nothing to do with how they feel. The

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Speaker 7: feel weird about the women, I know, but no one

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Speaker 7: knows that better than one of our listeners, Stacey, who's

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Speaker 7: on the phone right now because she wingmanned her brother

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Speaker 7: at one of these events. I'm not sure why he's

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Speaker 1: Wingmanning your brother. Your brother better have paid your one

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars entry show.

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Speaker 4: Stacey. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 8: Hey, guys, how's it going today?

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Speaker 5: Good? We asked you the questions.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I guess who paid? Did your brother pay

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Speaker 8: My brother did pay for it, okay?

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Speaker 1: And why did he think he wanted his sister to

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Speaker 8: You know, he's just a really shy guy. So he

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Speaker 8: asked if I would go with him, and of course,

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Speaker 8: you know, he's my baby brother. I'm sure I'm going

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Speaker 8: to go with him. I want him to find happiness.

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Speaker 5: You're like his comfort, like service animals.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, until you until you find a hot guy, and

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Speaker 4: then he's on his own.

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Speaker 8: Certainly, Why did.

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Speaker 5: You participate too?

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Speaker 9: I did.

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Speaker 10: I didn't find anybody, but he did.

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Speaker 8: Wait, we thought, okay, I thought.

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Speaker 1: This was a second date update for you.

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Speaker 8: No, I am actually calling for my brother.

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Speaker 4: Interesting.

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Speaker 8: I told him to call you guys. He said he

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Speaker 8: And he just was too embarrassed.

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Speaker 6: Couldn't do it.

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Speaker 5: Bud, He's with us like we're harmless. We're on the font,

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: But that's scary to be on the radio. Like I

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Speaker 7: Yeah, especially when we're talking to Brook as a man,

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Speaker 7: I don't feel fear coming.

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Speaker 2: I mean, your sister will air all your dirty laundry.

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Speaker 2: The nice thing is, we'll probably get the honest truth

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Speaker 5: Before this instead oblivious to everything.

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Speaker 1: That's how siblings were.

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Speaker 7: I'm curious, how much do you know about your brother

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Speaker 8: I mean I have the detail in the sense that

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Speaker 8: They had so much in common, Like my brother spent

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Speaker 10: Travel abroad program and it turned out that she did too.

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Speaker 8: They just seem to really really hit it off. And

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Speaker 4: And did he did he do that to her?

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Speaker 4: Touching arms and maybe you touched both their arms.

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Speaker 8: No, No, he was very respectful. But at the end

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Speaker 8: of the date they picked each other.

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Speaker 11: Okay, at the end of the speed dating, choose your

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Speaker 11: favorite wild to like pick somebody, spend the money to

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Speaker 5: Picked about money, Yes, sometimes you have change of hearts.

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Speaker 4: So this is the only interaction that they had is

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Speaker 8: No, they did go on a follow up date, oh

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Speaker 8: right after they went to dinner. I did not join

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Speaker 10: It is very possible he screwed it up there.

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Speaker 8: But okay, he said dinner was fine, but it ended

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Speaker 8: and just kept insisting that he didn't have to walk

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Speaker 5: Oh a bad.

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Speaker 7: Oh during the walk most you really don't have.

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Speaker 1: To come, well, I mean at night you want somebody to.

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Speaker 7: Anybody, I mean girl normally unless Yeah, clearly there's something

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Speaker 5: And that's how you know he did something wrong.

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Speaker 10: Right as the sister, It's it's very possible.

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Speaker 8: Ben is so sweet, like we call him sweet Benjamin

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Speaker 8: in the family, like that is I don't know if yeah.

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Speaker 7: Sweet Benjamin sounds like he needs extra like we have

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Speaker 7: her first reason why she's probably not calling him.

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Speaker 10: It is very possible.

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Speaker 8: But I also you know, he doesn't know what's going on,

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Speaker 8: and I just I want to help because he walked

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Speaker 8: She just waved, got right in her car, like, no

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Speaker 2: Does Ben know that you're doing this for him? I

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Speaker 2: know you encouraged him to do it, but does he

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Speaker 8: I told him I was going to. I don't know

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Speaker 8: if he believe me, but at this point he should.

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Speaker 5: It's gonna hit the air.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna hear it, sister instinct. What do you think

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Speaker 8: I feel like there was probably a misunderstanding of some

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Speaker 8: but Vita seemed so into him that it just doesn't

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What was her name?

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Speaker 8: Vita? Like, don't cry for me? Argentina?

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Speaker 1: Okay, the coconut water, Yeah, the coconut.

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Speaker 4: All right. So she sounds a little bit foreign.

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Speaker 7: Maybe she needs like a spicier guy in her life,

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Speaker 7: not sweet Ben. Well, she did go to Italy for

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Speaker 7: a while, that's true.

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Speaker 2: If she's also a shy person, this may be really overwhelming.

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Speaker 5: Well again, then we won't air it.

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Speaker 7: I know, well, I'm excited to find out when we

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Speaker 7: come back. We call Vita for on behalf of Stacy's

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Speaker 7: see why she was acting so awkward at the end

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Speaker 7: of their day when we come back and get it

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Speaker 7: with your second date update right after this hold.

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Speaker 6: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.

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Speaker 7: Behind every sweet shy boy is a proud, well spoken

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Speaker 7: sister ready to go to bat on his behalf sister.

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Speaker 1: Says our own shy boy.

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Speaker 7: And that's why Stacy reached out to us because she

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Speaker 7: wingmanned her brother Ben recently at a speed dating event

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Speaker 7: and watched him walk out the door with a pretty woman,

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Speaker 7: watched chemistry happen it Sweet Benjamin, he wants to write

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Speaker 7: it out that event and took her straight to dinner,

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Speaker 7: where apparently things probably went wrong. We don't know exactly

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Speaker 7: what happened there, but according to what Stacy has heard

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Speaker 7: back to her car, she said to him, you know,

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Speaker 7: waved goodbye at him before she left, and Stacy demands answers.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean Stacy's trying to help out.

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Speaker 7: Is ready to hit someone if someone doesn't explain what

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 8: Slow down, Oh, you are not wrong. I am ready to.

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Speaker 1: Stacy.

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Speaker 4: I knew it.

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Speaker 8: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: We never asked.

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Speaker 2: Did Vita find out that you were at the speed

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Speaker 8: I don't know if she did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just wondering, but it did occur to me.

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Speaker 8: That could be a weird thing, right.

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Speaker 2: Some people that may not sit right, especially if they're

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Speaker 1: They don't understand that the.

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Speaker 7: Way that Ben may have brought it up at dinner

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Speaker 7: could be you know, yeah, I took my sister to

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, you officiated the wedding, honey, different, I

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Speaker 2: said the SAS's wedding.

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Speaker 7: Yea. How you say the words matters a lot. Let's

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Speaker 7: find out what happened. We don't know, so the only

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Speaker 7: way to find out is if Vita picks up the

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Speaker 7: phone and actually comes clean with it.

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Speaker 4: So let's do it. I'm gonna dial the number. Here

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Speaker 4: we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Vita.

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Speaker 9: Yes, this is her.

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Speaker 7: Hey Vita, thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're

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Speaker 7: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Hi Vita, good morning. I like your name.

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Speaker 9: Hi, thank you.

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Speaker 1: You sound really outgoings not you?

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Speaker 8: Thank you? Guys.

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Speaker 9: What's up?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we're really eager to talk to you because we

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Speaker 7: heard you.

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Speaker 4: Went out with a guy we kind of know, Benjamin.

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Speaker 7: His name is ben as a friend of ours. You

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Speaker 7: guys went on a speed date. That's where you met,

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Speaker 7: and then went on a dinner date afterwards.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, the pity date.

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Speaker 4: What how would you say that for us?

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Speaker 9: Well, like at the speed date, he was just like

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Speaker 9: borderline crying about how he hasn't been out with a woman.

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Speaker 1: I hate that these are our boundaries as women.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll take some free dinner from this sweet not

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe she took him out. Did you pay?

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Speaker 8: No? He paid?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well like a gentleman.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, when you when you said yes to dinner,

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Speaker 9: I mean, he couldn't have thought that I was too

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Speaker 7: That's not quite the review that we heard. We were

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Speaker 4: At the speed dating.

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Speaker 1: Never you had lived in Italy. He had lived in Italy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he had arms. You had arms. You touched your

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Speaker 9: I remember on the speed date, I kept touching his

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Speaker 5: Yeah, just eating bumps on a log.

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Speaker 8: So it was pretty pathetic.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I feel like he's adorable because he's a pathetic.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. You never gave him a chance. It

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Speaker 9: I went to freaking dinner with him.

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Speaker 8: What do you mean I did give him a chance.

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Speaker 2: He'd already written in your mind that it was a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, even if he does something cool, it's hard to

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Speaker 4: Well, did he do something cool?

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Speaker 4: Was he was at least and respectful during your dinner date?

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Speaker 9: He was fine, but just like anything like once you

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Speaker 9: Like he couldn't even order his own dinner, like I

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Speaker 5: Awkward, Yeah, or.

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Speaker 4: Just maybe nervous around a really pretty woman.

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Speaker 13: A pretty woman out to dinner, you should at least

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Speaker 5: I'm taking you to the nicest place in the city.

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Speaker 1: It's going to look good. He's on the phone.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we do.

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Speaker 7: Because here's the deal, Vita, we kind of have a

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Speaker 4: His sister, Stacy, however.

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Speaker 13: Is are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 7: She was the one who reached out looking to get

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Speaker 4: So she wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 13: I think, Stacy, how dare you?

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Speaker 12: You are an absolute monster of a human And I

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Speaker 9: You typically he can't even like call the radio station himself.

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Speaker 12: He has you.

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Speaker 8: He can't call the radio station himself because he's so

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Speaker 1: You see you so what, let's take a deep breath.

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Speaker 1: But she didn't know you were listening.

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Speaker 2: She didn't know, like she wasn't trying to hurt anybody's feelings.

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Speaker 2: I understand it was probably hard to hear it.

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Speaker 8: It was harsh, But you know what, if she didn't

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Speaker 8: Why was he the one you have to pick a person.

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Speaker 9: I didn't want him to bust out flying like I

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Speaker 5: Oh it sounds rude, but she was trying to help.

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Speaker 10: You literally said it, You literally said it in the call.

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Speaker 1: What did she say?

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Speaker 10: She said she was not interested, and that she went

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Speaker 10: and I swear to God if I her pity date

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I agree, Vita is saying some not nice things.

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Speaker 1: But stacy, maybe like, even though it's a pity date,

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Speaker 1: maybe your brother doesn't have to know. You know, it's

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Speaker 1: like getting a job when you already have a job.

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Speaker 2: Is easier, like going on another date when you know

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's a boost of confidence he needs.

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Speaker 5: Let him break up with her.

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Speaker 8: Y'all are spinning this in a way that you're trying

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Speaker 4: Exactly broke? How dare you treat a kind man like your.

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Speaker 1: Brother was like crying during the.

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Speaker 10: Speed I was sitting right there. He was absolutely not crying.

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Speaker 12: He was engaging in the conversation.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, a little too engaged, just like a little too emotional.

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Speaker 13: And then and then I did her like what adult

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Speaker 10: You know what I've heard enough, You've already said all

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Speaker 9: Sister, you should go out with your brother like.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I know we should do more brother sister second

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Speaker 5: My sister will call a girl yell at her.

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Speaker 1: Brother. Stacy, could you maybe see that you guys.

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Speaker 2: Like your family's may be coddling your brother a little

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Speaker 8: This isn't about my brother anymore. This is about that woman,

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Speaker 4: I know Brook is not the most pleasant.

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Speaker 10: I'm talking about Vita because what she did to that

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Speaker 1: A grown man.

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Speaker 8: Lord, that sweet boy needs to grow up.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, and you need to find a soul, you harpy.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I'm not sure.

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Speaker 4: It hurts though.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 7: It's at this point in the call where we always

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Speaker 4: Out on another date and we would pay for it.

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Speaker 7: So at this point, Vita, I feel like there's a

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Speaker 13: No, I think I'm going to pass on that one.

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Speaker 4: So you're passing with Stacy, but not on her brother.

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Speaker 9: I'm good.

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Speaker 13: And Stacy, I don't appreciate you calling me names.

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Speaker 8: Your brother should grow the up.

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Speaker 1: Maybe a hard truth, Maybe.

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Speaker 8: He should, But at least he won't be alone for

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I think she meant that as a dig

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Speaker 5: Don't hate those.

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Speaker 7: Oh sorry, it's kind of sweet.

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Speaker 6: You're right, brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: I don't know why during the call, I just I

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Speaker 7: think that during intimacy, Sweet ben shyly raises his hand

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Speaker 4: Oh excuse me hand?

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, yeah, I mean he couldn't order his own dinner.

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Speaker 7: He had peanut butter all over his arm. I'm starting

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Speaker 1: I might not say that nobody pictured that you were there.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I was jumping straight to the ends.

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Speaker 5: I can't imagine any of it.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna hate to admit Vita actually made a good point.

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Speaker 7: If he really wanted a second date with her, he

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Speaker 4: Been the one that called.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, that's kind of all the dates.

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Speaker 2: That's the problem is, Like I understand that it can

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Speaker 7: Yeah, are you practicing the speech to give to your

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Speaker 1: Dude, I already tell my kids.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, listen, Mommy's not going to be around to

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Speaker 5: So learn to ask your date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a real man.

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Speaker 7: But look, we can help you out with your dating

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Speaker 1: Let's not offer that again.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I thought it was fine, But if

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Speaker 7: you need help, reach out to the show and we

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Speaker 7: can call that person who's not calling you back. Go

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Speaker 7: check out all of our second date updates. They're online

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Speaker 7: where you get your podcast at Brook and Jeffrey