1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 1: Welcome to stuff Mom Never Told You from how Stuff 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: Works dot Com. Hello, and welcome to the podcast. I'm 3 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: Kristen and I'm Caroline. And you know what, Caroline, this 4 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: episode a a rerun of the Oprah Winfree Show. Show 5 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: is coming out on Christmas Day. Well, Oprah is one 6 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: of my favorite things. That's right. I felt like a 7 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 1: an update plus rerun on Oprah is a present in 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: and of itself. Don't you think I agree? I mean, 9 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: because here's the thing about Oprah. When this episode first 10 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: aired on stuff Mom Never Told You in late November 11 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: of two thousand eleven, Oprah had just finished up with 12 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: The Oprah win Free Show and was going through this 13 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: transition to the Oprah win Free Network, and everyone was 14 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: wondering can Oprah weather the transition? Yeah, there are a 15 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: couple of shaky moments there. Oprah Winfrey Network did not 16 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: look like it was going to be as hot a 17 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: commodity as her show was. But I mean, she has 18 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: proved herself to be a resilient lady, quite a tough cookie, 19 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: and she not only has pulled through, but she is 20 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: doing some pretty darn amazing things. Now, Yeah, Oprah kind 21 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 1: of had the best two thousand thirteen. Ever, first let's 22 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: back up and just say that she has gotten the 23 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: Oprah Win Free Network on stronger footing with Oprah's Next Chapter, 24 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: which is kind of the hallmark show of the entire network, 25 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: where she gets these exclusive celebrity interviews. Her interview, for instance, 26 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: with Lance Armstrong when he fessed up to doping was 27 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: a huge ratings boost. She's also talked to people like 28 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan and the NBA player who came out, Jason Collins. 29 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: So she's figuring out how to do this whole new 30 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: network thing. And she's even restarted up the Oprah book Club, 31 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: but it's now called Oprah's book Club two point oh. 32 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: So she's, you know, she's she's back in the game. 33 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: But she really came back in the game this past year. Yeah, 34 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: Forbes named her its highest earning celebrity, often worth two 35 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: point nine billion dollars. Yeah. And on top of that, 36 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: on top of doing very well financially, she also received 37 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: a little thing called the Presidential Medal of Freedom, which 38 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: is only the nation's highest civilian honor. She she was 39 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: awarded that medal by President Obama. With the likes of 40 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: Bill Clinton, glorious stein Um all sorts of incredible movers 41 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: and shakers, and Oprah herself is quite a mover and shaker. 42 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: She hit the big screen and Lee Daniels The Butler, 43 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: and she actually got a Screen Actors Guild Award nods, 44 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: so she might be up for a big award as 45 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 1: Best Supporting Act Risks for Awards. She played Gloria, who's 46 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: the wife of Cecil Gains aka the Butler played by 47 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: Forest Whitaker. Yeah, and people are saying that she is 48 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: very likely going to get an Academy Award nomination for 49 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: that role as well. Which can you imagine Oprah turning 50 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: sixty this coming year in January, right around the time 51 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: when the Academy Award nominations are coming out, And what 52 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: if Oprah got an Oscar? What a good birthday present? Seriously, 53 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: what can't she do well? She did declare in her magazine, 54 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: Oh the Oprah Magazine, that is your year to shine, 55 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: and so on the cover, it's featuring her going through 56 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: a lovely makeover. She goes from curlers to like a 57 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: incredible sequence dress. I'm gonna say, you know, all you 58 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: haters out there who think it's silly that she's on 59 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: her own cover every single time. I mean, I don't 60 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: mind it. I second that. I mean, just let Oprah 61 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: the Oprah because you know what she has earned it, 62 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: as you will learn or perhaps relearn, in this special 63 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: holiday rerun of a fan favorite episode from a ways 64 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: back the Oprah Winfrey Show Show, So take a listen. 65 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 1: Just for this episode, we brought in uh comfy couches 66 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: so that Caroline can jump on it because I'm in 67 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: love with Katie Holmes and yeah, we're we Kristen brought 68 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: in a wagon of fat Yes. And I also wrote 69 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: a fictional memoir yes, that I will accuse you of 70 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: all sorts of things. It's called A Million Little Podcasts. Wow, Wow, 71 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: Here we go. Here we go, folks, Get ready because 72 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: we're talking about Oprah today because on two thousand eleven, 73 00:04:56,040 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: a date that will live in infamy, the last episode 74 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: old of the Oprah win Free Show aired. It did 75 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: and then I mean, she started her own network, so 76 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: she didn't she didn't go far the Oprah win Free network, 77 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: which I'll go ahead and stay upfront that Discovery Communications, 78 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: which is the owner of how suffwork dot Com is 79 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: affiliated with so we'll keep our open win Free network 80 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: comments at bay because we really need to just talk 81 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: about the woman and the show, because she's one of 82 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: the most powerful and influential women in the world. Yeah, okay, 83 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 1: so where where do we start? I say we start 84 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: with the show and talk about exactly how many people 85 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: it has sucked into its orbit. Let's go for it. 86 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: That is forty eight million people. We're viewers of the show, 87 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 1: regular viewers of the show. That's a lot of people. 88 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:50,479 Speaker 1: She affected the lives of so many people, whether she 89 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: was telling you to buy a Panini press or you know, 90 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: helping you overcome something terrible in your life, or giving 91 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: you a Pontiac G six sedan odd let me tell okay, sidebar. 92 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: My mother religiously watched Oprah for years. For years, every 93 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: day four o'clock watched Oprah. She the day what I 94 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 1: don't remember what favorite things episode it was, but those 95 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: episodes always made her so angry because she wasn't getting 96 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: the stuff. She's like, I have to watch all of 97 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 1: these strangers get all of this stuff. She called her 98 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: sister crying. One of the last I don't know it 99 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: was in the past couple of years, she called her 100 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 1: sister crying and her sister was watching the show too, 101 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: and they just sat there and complain because she wanted 102 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: the favorite things so badly. Yeah, those are some cool 103 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: favorite things. Yeah, it would be Oprah has a good 104 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: taste in like pajamas and stuff, Pajamas and Panini's uh 105 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: forty eight million viewers, hundred and fifty countries. The Oprah 106 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: Winfree Show is beamed too. And just in terms of 107 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: ad dollars alone, to give you an idea of the 108 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: value of this talk show, a thirty second ad spot 109 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: during her show, Um, as it came toward the finale 110 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: on could run you a cool million millas. Yeah, it 111 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: was not cheap. No, I don't think I could just 112 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: run like a personal ad. It's like the super Bowl 113 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: of regular television talk shows. Yeah, every day, every day 114 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: of the Super Bowl. And what kind of stuff did 115 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: she talk about, Caroline, Well, I mean part of her 116 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: popularity was definitely that she brought so many previously taboo 117 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: topics to the forefront. Um. I mean, yeah, she had 118 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: her favorite things episodes which were definitely very popular. Everybody 119 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: wanted to tune in and be told what to purchase. Um. 120 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: But I mean she brought stuff forward, um like incests, 121 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: domestic abuse, sexuality, addiction, depression, AIDS, and she used her 122 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: own stories to sort of bring people into it, because 123 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: I think it was in the eighties during a show 124 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 1: was like the eighty eight or eighty seven where she 125 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: admitted to her viewers the whole public that you know, 126 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: she had been abused as a child and a young uh, 127 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: young adult also uh. And of course Oprah is not 128 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: without her critics and her controversies, which will also talk about. 129 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: Because for all of the influence that she has gained 130 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: over the twenty five years that she was on the air, 131 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: she has also launched the careers of other people such 132 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: as Dr Phil, Dr oz Um, Rachel Ray in fact, 133 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,599 Speaker 1: which I wish I didn't realize Rachel I used to 134 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: be on our show and Um, and also the Oprah 135 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 1: Book Club that has made so many authors so much 136 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: money and actually brought reading into the mainstream again. Some 137 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: people might argue and uh, yeah, with great power becomes 138 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: great responsibility, and some people think that maybe she has 139 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: abused that responsibility. But uh, you know, at the same time, 140 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: she's done a lot of good as well, which we'll 141 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: talk about with her philanthropy so much, right, Yeah, Well, 142 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: Speaking of philanthropy, she's reportedly given three fifty million dollars 143 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: of her own money to charitable organizations, and through her 144 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: show she's managed to raise more than fifty one million, 145 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: which is pretty impressive. Yeah, I believe the honorary Oscar 146 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: that she was given this year was specifically for her 147 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: philanthropic work. And for instance, in two thousand seven, she 148 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: opened the Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa, also 149 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: kind of controversial, um kind of considering whether or not 150 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: that was the best way to uh to reach out 151 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: to those girls. Right. Well, she also had she started 152 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: the twelve million dollar endowment at More House, So that's 153 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: a way of lifting people up. You know, she's she's 154 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: trying to practice what she preaches basically on her show. 155 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: And she's also invested a lot specifically into the Chicago 156 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: community because Chicago is really where she got her start 157 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: in television. And speaking of which, why don't we why 158 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: don't we offer a little bio of or Gail Winfrey 159 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: born January Yeah, come with us, Come with us to Mississippi. Yeah, yes, 160 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 1: come to the farm on Mississippi where Oprah was born 161 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: to her unwed teenage mother and she was initially raised 162 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: by her grandmother on the farm, and then she was 163 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: sent off to Milwaukee to live with her mother, and 164 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: she had a rather promising childhood and elementary school. Uh 165 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 1: she was a star pupil and one of the television 166 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: episodes she actually brought back her favorite teacher from elementary 167 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: school kind of remember remember um. She also enjoyed church 168 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: involvement school activity, as she was frequently the one called 169 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: on to you know, say prayers or she handed out 170 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: Graham crackers at school. She liked she was a participator. 171 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: She was a joiner, yes, kind of a star personality 172 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: from the get go. But then at the age of nine, 173 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: she was moless did and raped by her cousin who 174 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: took care of um her and her siblings while her 175 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 1: mother was at work. And then um in her adolescence 176 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: she was also raped by an uncle and a family friend, 177 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: which really started, I mean, just this kind of history 178 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: of personal tragedy in Oprah's life. Yeah. She there was 179 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: actually a quote from her where she was reflecting on 180 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: her childhood of abuse and she just said, at one 181 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: point I just had the thought of like, Okay, well 182 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: this is life, Like this is what it's like you know, 183 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: how do I get away from this? But one thing 184 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: she did say also is that from the very young, 185 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: very tender age of four, she had this idea and 186 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: that there's a lot of talk about Oprah's idea UM 187 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: that she had for herself and that she never let 188 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: go of. And she said that it was sparked when 189 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 1: she was four years old on on her grandmother's farm 190 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: and her grandmother was, you know, hanging clothes on the 191 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 1: line or you know, doing chores and stuff, and she 192 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: was like, well, you're gonna have to learn how to 193 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: do this to one day, and Oprah was going, no, 194 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm getting mad at here. I'm not doing 195 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: what you're doing. So from a very young age, she 196 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: was determined to be different, to achieve more and just 197 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: rise up sort of beyond where she was now. With 198 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: all of the childhood sexual trauma that was going on 199 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: um and her getting pregnant at the age of fourteen, 200 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: it seemed like that dream that Oprah had would certainly 201 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: not be fulfilled, that she was only following in the 202 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: footsteps of her mother Um. She because she had been 203 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: acting out. Actually, she was sent to live with her 204 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: father in Nashville and her father is just horrified and 205 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: ashamed at a fourteen year old daughter is pregnant, but 206 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 1: she ends up losing the baby, and in a way, 207 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: this is really the huge turning point for Oprah where 208 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 1: she refocuses herself in school and I think she actually, 209 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, she graduated early, but she was um 210 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 1: her coursework was ahead of her age group, and she 211 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: ends up earning a full scholarship to Tennessee State University 212 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: and in ninth seen seventy one, her real big break 213 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 1: begins when she wins two pageant titles in that year, 214 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 1: Miss Fire, Miss Fire Prevention, and Miss Black Tennessee. And 215 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: when she wins Miss Black Tennessee, she's noticed by the 216 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: local black radio station w v o L that hires 217 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: her as an on air reporter, and this starts her 218 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: career in media and the rest is history. Goodnight, Yeah, no, yeah, yeah, 219 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: she really she really got going from a very young 220 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: age and eventually started. She had a morning show in 221 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 1: n she breaks into the talks show circuit in Chicago, 222 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: hosting AM Chicago in the same time slot as Phil Donahue. 223 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: And the interesting thing is, h Phil Donahue was one 224 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: of the pioneers in sort of the the girl talk 225 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 1: talk show format. Um, but he's going up against or 226 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: Oprah's going up against him, And needless to say, we 227 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: all know what happens. Oprah gets her own show, AM 228 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: Chicago is expanded in nineteen eighties six to an hour 229 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: long format, and eventually Phil Donahue goes down the tubes. Well, 230 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 1: oprad just has this way of relating to people. She 231 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: she you know that she walked out into the audience, 232 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 1: she was part of the audience. She was asking questions 233 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: of her guests, whether it was a celebrity and author 234 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: or a criminal or you know, just a single mother. 235 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: You know, she was asking questions that the audience themselves 236 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: would want to know. And so she had this way 237 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: of dealing with people, this this sort of empathy that 238 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: that made them more comfortable and able to share things. 239 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: And she's just I guess she took her past experiences 240 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: and we're able to was able to really use those 241 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: on the show. And like you said, Caroline, Um, when 242 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: she was so open, initially very early in those talk 243 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: show days about her history of sexual abuse, it really 244 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: dismantled that fourth wall between the viewer and you know, 245 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: that person on the television talking directly to them and 246 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: relating directly to them. And even now twenty five years later, 247 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: when she is, you know, one of the richest women 248 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: in the world, people are still able to relate to 249 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: her on a very just kind of friendly basis, right, 250 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: you know, like they would just run into her on 251 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: the street and be like, hey, let's go get lunch over. Yeah, 252 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: she's someone you'd see in a grocery store and just 253 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: be able to have a chat with, even though she's 254 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: obviously running in circles so beyond you know, the everyday viewers. Yeah, 255 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: but no, she well, part of her popularity is that 256 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: she understands the full range of the quote unquote female experience. 257 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: She knows that being a woman is not just about shopping, 258 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: but it's not just about being a mother and having 259 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: a family. There's there's a whole range of things to 260 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: being a woman. And Caitlin flanagain in The Atlantic I thought, 261 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: had a good quote about it. Um She's said that 262 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: Oprah can move so easily between episodes about on the 263 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: one hand, rape and domestic violence and on the other 264 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: shopping and decorating, demonstrates not a lack of focus, but 265 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: the fact that she understands the full equation of the 266 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: female experiences in ways that few others have. Yeah, and 267 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: it's not only just the female experience, but also the 268 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: black female experience on television so open for one of 269 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: the first times. And that's something that too, that she's 270 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: been um very consistent with of supporting the black community 271 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: and supporting other black women. And I think that's one 272 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: of the reasons too, why she's made such a significant impact, 273 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: because she's I don't know, I feel like she's been 274 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: able to, in her own way, love her or hate her, 275 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: been able to bridge certain communities. Yeah, well, she was 276 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: inspired by so many different women on television, so I 277 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: think she took bits and pieces from everybody and you know, 278 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: and then incorporated them into her own experience. You know. 279 00:16:56,920 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 1: She said that she had so much admiration for Mary 280 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 1: Tyler Moore, and she was so excited to see Diana 281 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: Ross on television and seeing Sydney Portier getting out of 282 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: a limousine at the Academy Award. So she was just 283 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 1: so inspired by all of these things she saw on 284 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: television and other women hosting talk shows and everything that 285 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 1: you know, she was able to combine her knowledge, her 286 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: life experience with a really stathy television show, exactly, with 287 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: an incredible amount of influence. For instance, with the Oprah 288 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: book Club. Okay, we gotta talk about the Oprah book Club. Um. 289 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 1: It was launched in and the first book that she 290 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,360 Speaker 1: promotes was Jacqueline Mitchard's The Deep End of the Ocean. 291 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: And since then, the number of books sold since being 292 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 1: selected on her show million. Yeah that's crazy. Yeah, and 293 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 1: only eleven of the books that she's ever single about 294 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: have not made it onto the USA Today bestseller list. Basically, 295 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:01,400 Speaker 1: if Oprah likes your book, you are right. It's Panini 296 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: Press in your vacuum cleaner or whatever. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, 297 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: she there's been a lot there's been a lot of 298 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: flak over this whole book club thing because on the 299 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,959 Speaker 1: one hand, it's getting people to read, you know, like 300 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:18,959 Speaker 1: she's encouraging people to read. She's bringing people in and 301 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 1: being like, yes, country as a whole, let's let's all 302 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 1: read this book together and talk about it. It's it 303 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: gives people a sense of community. Um. Even though it's 304 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: on television and she's so rich and so far, you know, 305 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,239 Speaker 1: you're still part of something. And so she's encouraging all 306 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:35,959 Speaker 1: these people to read. But on the other hand, there 307 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: are a lot of people who say, well, you're not 308 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: picking the right kinds of books, or your book club 309 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: is not cool enough for my book, which was the 310 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: case with Jonathan Franzen. Oh yeah, please please talk about 311 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 1: this Jonathan Franzon controversy because this one. I was not 312 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:57,479 Speaker 1: aware of this the frands And episode right. He um, 313 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: he wrote the novel corrections, just fantastic recommend it. I mean, 314 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: it's good that you like it. Have you ever watched Oprah? 315 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 1: Because he doesn't think that people who watch Oprah would 316 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: get his book. He said that it would be too 317 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: hard for them, and basically saying that it would be 318 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 1: too hard for the stereotypical middle aged housewife to read 319 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: this book. Basically, I was like, yeah, that's nice and all, 320 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: but don't put your corporate logo on my book. Come on, 321 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: I read that that was my pool side read a 322 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 1: few summers ago, so not not that challenge. And I 323 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: did not need my unabridged dictionary, so I need to 324 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 1: figure out the plot your old English. Yeah, I'm magnifying glass. 325 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: And also, I mean she sent tolstoys Inna Karenina back 326 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: up to number one in what two thousand. But I 327 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: mean I've never I mean I've never even read Anna Karna. Really, 328 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I admit it. Hey they're fine. Hey, maybe 329 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 1: you should join the Opera Book Club. I know, well 330 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 1: I didn't pick up I picked up Love in the 331 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 1: Time of Cholera grocery store. You know, we've in our 332 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: in our romance novel podcast, we talk about mass market 333 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: paperbacks like sold it, you know whatever, big box store, 334 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: the grocery store, whatever. And yeah, there are Oprah book 335 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: Club books at the grocery store. And so I picked 336 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 1: up Love in the Top of colg and some went 337 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: along with my serious whatever. And some of it is 338 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: fantastic literature. I mean, I think the fact that so 339 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: many more people now know about authors such as Tony 340 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: Morrison and Alice Walker, who are two of Oprah's most favorite, 341 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: uh female authors, I would attribute that to Oprah. But 342 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: at the same time, though, we got to talk about 343 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 1: things like The Secret. Oh yeah, pseudo science. Yeah, she's 344 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: definitely gotten a lot of flak for her promotion of 345 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: pseudo science. So books like The Secret, which basically say, 346 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: um so, all these bad things that are happening to you. 347 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 1: You're just not putting enough positive energy out into the universe. 348 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 1: It's your fault. It's all about the the universal law 349 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: of attraction. And you know, I have met people who 350 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 1: firmly believe in the power of the Secret. I personally 351 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 1: have never read The Secret. UM. But at the same time, 352 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 1: you know, when you have that again, it's going back 353 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: to that thing of what do you do when you 354 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: have such incredible influence like Oprah has when you make 355 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 1: decisions to promote things like the Secret and bring Jenny 356 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:29,239 Speaker 1: McCarthy on to talk about autism vaccine connection that is 357 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 1: yet to be verified by any kind of scientific study. 358 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 1: You can read more about that on how Stuffworks dot 359 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: com if you don't believe me, UM, And bring on 360 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 1: Susanne Summers, who is going over her her controversial health 361 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 1: regimen to keep her young in the vein of it's 362 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: like I'm Parks and Recreation, Rob Blow's character who will 363 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 1: live forever? Um. Yeah, And then you know, launching the 364 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 1: careers of people like Dr Phil who again probably has 365 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: just as many if not more critics as he does followers. Well, 366 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: all this, all this stuff that we were just talking 367 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: about about, UM, pseudoscience and whatnot, and how you know, 368 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 1: there's there's all this talk of Oprah and the Oprah 369 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: Show as a religion and how you know, she was 370 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 1: raised um in the Baptist Church and so religion played 371 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: a big part in her life and like we said, 372 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: as as a child, church was really important to her. 373 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 1: But you know, through her show she sort of promoted 374 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: all of this this just different veins, just different types 375 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: of religion. And she's talked about different ways to find 376 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 1: spirituality and that's kind of the key, is that she's 377 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: definitely focused more on spirituality and finding in her peace 378 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: than she is talking about like a particular religion. Catherine Lofton, 379 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: she's an assistant professor of American Studies and Religious Studies 380 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: at Yale, has has a lot to say about Oprah. 381 00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 1: In fact, she wrote a book called Oprah The Hospital 382 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 1: of an icon She argues that Obrah has become a 383 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: religion quote because she invites ritual processes towards her and 384 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: her iconography. Foster's produced ritual and that ritual critics say 385 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: is that people run out and buy stuff, sort of 386 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: the whole idea of consumption fulfilling that self need. But 387 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: at the same time, like you can argue with so 388 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 1: many different ways because yes, obviously with segments like favorite things, um, 389 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 1: you can say that that promotes just a false consumerism, 390 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 1: and yes there's a studoscience aspect of it, um, but 391 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: it does seem like the root of all of it. 392 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: It's not a bad message that she is promoting at 393 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: the end of the day, which is living your best 394 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 1: life and enriching yourself and also being open and sharing 395 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:56,719 Speaker 1: your experiences with other people. UM. I don't know, it's 396 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,400 Speaker 1: kind of it's kind of hard. It's like I keep 397 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: doing this motion with my hands of the weighing the 398 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: scales because there there's you know, stuffing you can say 399 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: on on either side. And for someone like me, like 400 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a very uh, basically like Switzerland 401 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 1: when it comes to Oprah. I never really grew up 402 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,199 Speaker 1: with Oprah. Um. My mom never really followed Oprah. I 403 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: had roommates, um who were really obsessed with Oprah. But 404 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: I just I don't know, she was never really that 405 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: much a part of my life. So I recognize the 406 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: impact that she has and also have been taken aback 407 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: at certain times by you know, maybe pulling out a 408 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: wagon of sixty pounds of lard and choosing to promote 409 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: certain things. It's interesting how strong the reactions are to Oprah, 410 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: Like people out there are obsessed with her, like they 411 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: might do you know, like the Michael Jackson concert thing 412 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,199 Speaker 1: and like totally start trying to pass out, or you know, 413 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: they just totally slam her and say that she's fake, 414 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: she's materialistic. You know, she's promoting all of this junks, bions. 415 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm the same way as as you. I. 416 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: You know, I see the good she does. She's encouraging 417 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: people to read, you know, she's encouraging people to overcome 418 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: bad circumstances in their life. Um so, yeah, I mean 419 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 1: I don't I read OH Magazine, which we haven't mentioned 420 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: OH Magazine. Forbes named OH Magazine the most successful startup 421 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 1: in the entire industry ever. Yeah. Well, when you already 422 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: have a humongous base of of fans and followers and 423 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: people who love you and who will do anything that 424 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: you say, I mean, yeah, yeah. I think that The 425 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: time when I was most astonished by Oprah's sheer power 426 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: was during the presidential election and the controversial sway that 427 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: she had an uh pulling for Barack Obama. I mean 428 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: it was It's incredible, um and the fact that I talked, 429 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: I mean, think of out it like a talk show 430 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 1: host can go into the political arena and show up 431 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: at a rally with Obama and be like, this is 432 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 1: who I have picked. I mean, what other what other 433 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: Larry King couldn't do that? I mean, like what other 434 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: talk show hosts could do that? Incredible that she can 435 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: do that and yet still form that in sociological terms, 436 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: that paras social relationship with a viewer that allows us 437 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: to still you know, people like your mom to still 438 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: relate to her as a friend. Yeah, women's talk, women's talk, 439 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: I mean, lover or hater like you. You've got to 440 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,679 Speaker 1: give it to Oprah that she has done something pretty incredible. 441 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: And now that she's moved into this new project of 442 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: trying to build her own network, it will be really 443 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: interesting to see whether or not that influence will only 444 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: grow or if it will wayne. But at this point, 445 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 1: I mean, she's wow, and hey, you know what if 446 00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,479 Speaker 1: you want to put yourself on the cover of your 447 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 1: own magazine and every month I say, do it is 448 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: your magazine, Do whatever you want, I'll read it. I 449 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: don't care. I know, people people use the fact that 450 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: Oprah's only had she's had a She shared the cover 451 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: with Michelle Obama and who else and with Ellen Degenerous. 452 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,919 Speaker 1: I think it was in the same year, so she's like, 453 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: I'll knock it all out of once, and people, you know, 454 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: use it as some sign of this mega maniac. Yeah, 455 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: and of course there are you know, the gossipy anecdotes 456 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: about her being just an incredibly demanding and crazy boss 457 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: to work for. And I'm sure when you are running 458 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,880 Speaker 1: one of the most successful production companies in modern media, yeah, 459 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,360 Speaker 1: you probably are putting in sixteen hour days. And I'm 460 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: sure if you're one of the most powerful woman in 461 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 1: the world, you probably do kind of crazy sometime. Hey, 462 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: I get cranky when I'm tired and I am on 463 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: you know, I'm managing nothing. And I think it's pretty 464 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,680 Speaker 1: impressive that a woman who has ranked the number three 465 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: most powerful woman in the world behind Michelle Obama and 466 00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 1: Irene Rosenfeld who's an executive at Craft, has kept her 467 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: love life private. I mean, we all, everyone in the 468 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: world knows who Steadman Graham is and Gail King her 469 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 1: best friend, and all the absurd speculations that go on, right, 470 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: But I mean, I think it's pretty impressive when you 471 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 1: have celebrity divorces and babies and marriages and whatever on 472 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: the news all the time, Like two seconds after they happen. 473 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,640 Speaker 1: You know, nobody's chasing down open being like, oh God, 474 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 1: let me get a picture of you eating with Steadman. 475 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: Oprah doesn't need it. She yeah, she just waves her 476 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 1: finger and it's like nope, Well imagine. I mean, if 477 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: you are that influential and that a list of a celebrity, 478 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: you gotta I'm sure you have to protect your privacy 479 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: fiercely or else. I mean, you're just never going to 480 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 1: have any time off the camera. What else can we say? 481 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: I mean, there's just so much. There's so much to Oprah. 482 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: She's multifaceted. She she impresses me so much the fact 483 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: that she, as a four year old, had this idea 484 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: that she was going to be different, and she proceeded 485 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: to take every opportunity that she could and she rose 486 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: to the stature that she has now. And if anything, 487 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: you got to give it to her for bringing those 488 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: taboo subjects out of the closet and talking about them 489 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: and making us maybe more comfortable. Um, talking about issues 490 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: amongst ourselves to taking down that fourth wall. So we 491 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed listening to revisiting really our Oprah Winfrey 492 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 1: show show uh this holiday season. And if you are 493 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: Oprah Um, we are two podcasters who are available to 494 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: appear on the Oprah win Free Network at any time. 495 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: That's right because the Oprah win Free Network, I think, 496 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: as we mentioned in that episode, is a part of 497 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: the Hell Stuff Works and Discovery Communications families. So you 498 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: know what, Caroline Oprah is kind of like our coworker, 499 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: that's right. She probably has nicer shoes than I do, 500 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 1: but she is still a colleague. Yeah, and if she 501 00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: would ever want to name us as one of her 502 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: favorite things, we would be fine with that. So and 503 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: that would be the most magical Christmas present of all. 504 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: But I do hope that all of you listening are 505 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: having a happy and hopefully RESTful holidays season. And if 506 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: you have any thoughts at all to share on Oprah, 507 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 1: did you see Lee Daniels The Butler? I have yet 508 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: to see it. I need to see it because apparently 509 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: her portrayal, as we mentioned, is stellar. So if you've 510 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: seen it, let us know. Moms Stuff at Discovery dot 511 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: Com or any other thoughts on Oprah, Gail Steadman, what 512 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 1: have you. You can send them our way, or you 513 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: can tweet us at mom Stuff Podcast. You can message 514 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: us on Facebook as well, and we have a couple 515 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 1: of messages to share with you when we come right 516 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: back from a quick break and now back to our letters. 517 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 1: So you've got a couple of letters to share from 518 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: our episode a while back on Beauty Salons Versus Barbershop, 519 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: and Megan wrote us big fan of the podcast, been 520 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: listening for years. Thanks Megan. I had a couple of 521 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: thoughts when listening to the Beauty Salon Versus Barbershop episode. 522 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 1: As a white woman with a very large amount of 523 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: extremely curly hair, I've spent my life walking into hair 524 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: salons and seeing the hairdresser's blanche because they have no 525 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 1: idea how to cut curly hair. Well, because I'm not Black, 526 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: they can't use that we don't cut that kind of 527 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: hair excuse, so they have to give it a try, 528 00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 1: and generally I end up with terrible haircuts. When I 529 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: moved to a city with a large black population, I 530 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: found I preferred going to black salons because they know 531 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 1: what they were doing. With my hair. Also, as a 532 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 1: side note, I have a degree in public health and 533 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: during my schooling we studied several programs that used beauty 534 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: salons to promote positive health, particularly in the Black community. 535 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: Some that come to mind our program advertising breast cancer 536 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 1: screening and an educational program involving flyers about diabetes and 537 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: heart disease since they disproportionately affect the Black community. Love 538 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: the podcast and keep up the good work. Well thanks Megan, 539 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: and I have a letter here from Mallory. She says, 540 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: thanks so much for highlighting the life and career of 541 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: Madam C. J. Walker in Your Hair Salon podcast. I 542 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: am an Indianapolis native, which is where Walker based her 543 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: beauty empire. India is so proud of our cultural heritage 544 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: and Madam Walker is a big part of it. There's 545 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,479 Speaker 1: a theater in the city that she built as a 546 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: cultural hub and also to house her company. The theater 547 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: is named after her and is still operational. I had 548 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 1: the opportunity to perform there once as a high school student, 549 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 1: and it is truly a gem in the city. Walker 550 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 1: has always been interesting to me because she really is 551 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 1: one of the most successful Indianapolis entrepreneurs of historical note male, female, 552 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: black or white. I love that she melded her business 553 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 1: and cultural affinities to support the community. As an artist, 554 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: I think it's important for business leaders to support the arts, 555 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: and Walker was a thought leader in our city pioneering 556 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,479 Speaker 1: this idea as well. One of the things I love 557 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 1: about Indianapolis is our robust African American culture. I don't 558 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: think many realize this because Indiana is also the historical 559 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: home to several KKK Grand Dragons. However, the city of 560 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 1: Indianapolis is truly world class has many different cultures to 561 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 1: thank for its development. I love to hear about the 562 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,959 Speaker 1: rich heritage of my state and city, and I'm thrilled 563 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: at one of our major cultural contributions made it to 564 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: your podcast. 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