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Speaker 1: Hello. I hate when we have to do the phone interviews.

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Speaker 1: I just was like telling you that my boyfriend today

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Speaker 1: I've been locked up. I've got to get out of here.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, i feel like I'm crawling out of my

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Speaker 1: You know. I finally have so much energy and I

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Speaker 1: feel great today. I'm trying not to push it. I

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Speaker 1: know it's fabulous, but I'm trying to push it because

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Speaker 1: I'm sure if I do, then I'll crash tomorrow, you know.

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Speaker 1: But like, well, the good news is the weekend's coming up,

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Speaker 1: so maybe if you give yourself. You know. The other

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Speaker 1: good news is like life is not really normal because

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Speaker 1: I'm like, let's go out clubbing, you know, like that's

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Speaker 1: how good I feel. I'm like, I want to go

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Speaker 1: to Whiskey Row. I want to dance, I want to

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Speaker 1: take some shots. You know how it's you know it is,

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I'm just ready. I'm like, there's some

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Speaker 1: holes in this house. I'm feeling it. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: even know what would happen to me if I was

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Speaker 1: in a bar and that came on and I started

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Speaker 1: drinking tequila because I've been locked up. It would be

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Speaker 1: out of control. You would end up with COVID again

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Speaker 1: because you probably make out with everybody everyone, like anyone around.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, do you want to guess? Do you

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Speaker 1: want to GISs? You? If people are gonna think I'm crazy,

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Speaker 1: but I'm sorry, y'all. I have literally been in isolation,

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Speaker 1: and you just start to go wild. It's like the

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Speaker 1: all of the days that are required of me, but

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to just I don't know, you know,

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Speaker 1: In terms of the number of days, is that like

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Speaker 1: what what day do you start counting from the day

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Speaker 1: you first remember symptoms, which it's like, I think I

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Speaker 1: the time I actually found out I was positive, I

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Speaker 1: was already seven days past that. So it's weird because

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Speaker 1: you know, but they say, and this has been a

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Speaker 1: big controversy and I'm sure I'll hear about this by

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Speaker 1: talking about it, but I'm just gonna say it anyway.

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Speaker 1: But you quarantine for the fourteen days and then after

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Speaker 1: that you can test positive for up to three months,

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Speaker 1: which is really shitty. But the CDC is said, has

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Speaker 1: said all doctors are saying your virus at that point

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Speaker 1: So even if you're testing positive, like it's kind of

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Speaker 1: a false positive, and um, you have a higher chance

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Speaker 1: So it's like you just have to get past the

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Speaker 1: point where you have symptoms and you've done your quarantine

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Speaker 1: but yeah, it's hard. You know, some of my clients

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Speaker 1: which sucks. It's interesting because I would have thought they

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Speaker 1: But I mean I've now I'm on like day eighteen.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to be like you know, and that's why

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Speaker 1: I'm going crazy, right, So let's talk about rap music.

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Speaker 1: It Okay, this is so interesting because obviously, like I

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Speaker 1: attention to this. But she released the song with MEGANA. Stallion.

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Speaker 1: It's called whop if you are just living under some

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Speaker 1: But it has been a huge controversy in our country

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Speaker 1: and it is like a super polarizing topic. I even

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Speaker 1: posted that you and I were going to talk about

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Speaker 1: if if if you know I've joked that I'm like, um,

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Speaker 1: I'm like even less qualified to talk about rap music.

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Speaker 1: And it's not because I have a thing against it.

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Speaker 1: It's just not my what I go to. Um And

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Speaker 1: the the surface of it. Okay. And I find Cardi B.

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Speaker 1: To be so incredibly intelligent, like in a different way

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Speaker 1: And I'm all, I am all for it. And I

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Speaker 1: so you thought it was dumbing her down a little bit? Yes,

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Speaker 1: And and but I wasn't offended by it. I'm just

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Speaker 1: like um, and in fact, I think the lyrics are

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Speaker 1: It's like what, like there's so many amazing things to

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Speaker 1: write about them. But so I I missed the point initially,

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Speaker 1: I just think the song is like it's it's like

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Speaker 1: So it's like it's really interesting to me to read

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Speaker 1: these articles and we'll get to some of those in

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Speaker 1: a minute. But a lot of people are just so

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Speaker 1: This is rap music, guys, Like we're not speaking about

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Speaker 1: by men, like lick my lollipop? Are you serious? Slob

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, a woman has the balls. That

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Speaker 1: was a funny play. Okay, sorry, woman has the guts

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Speaker 1: to go say you know, okay, well, y'all are singing

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Speaker 1: ones that y'all want to sing along to. So you

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Speaker 1: saw her say somewhere she was talking about how polarizing

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Speaker 1: there's certainly enough information out there about this song right now,

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Speaker 1: go listen to this. So it's interesting that people are

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Speaker 1: it's it made that song massive. It made kids want

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Speaker 1: point I was making that it's just what rap songs

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Speaker 1: this is the thing, and it's like the older I've gotten,

423
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 1: the more I'm like, but wait a second, Like I

424
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 1: want to be satisfied too, and like that's okay, and

425
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,439
Speaker 1: that's like a good thing a lot of times for

426
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 1: their relationship. But what's so interesting is like, for me

427
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 1: at least, I have found that a lot of men,

428
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: when you come up with this topic comes up or whatever,

429
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: even if they're super outspoken, and even if they're guys

430
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: that are just like maybe you know the big objectifiers

431
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,959
Speaker 1: of women or just like dudes, dudes is what they

432
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: would say, um, or like when guys are like, well,

433
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: he's just a dude, Like I hate that ship. But

434
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 1: like they seem to have a huge problem when a

435
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 1: woman comes in and they're talking about you know, they're

436
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 1: outspoken about this kind of stuff, especially about their sexual needs.

437
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: Which I find so interesting that this has become such

438
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 1: controversy because it's not really a controversy publicly with a

439
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 1: lot of and I guess that's not true. It is

440
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: with men and women, but the women that I'm that

441
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 1: I like, am hearing from the negative parts of it.

442
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 1: I'm I'm curious how much of the old mindset and

443
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 1: the old mentality from men is playing into that. Does

444
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 1: that make sense? Yeah, I mean, look, I think that

445
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: there's a lot has been revealed about sort of those

446
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: mentalities in our country over the last four years. And um,

447
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: it always shocks me when I see women that are

448
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: holding back progress. And I don't know, you know, that's

449
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,719
Speaker 1: I don't know why that shocks me because certainly so

450
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: you can't expect just because of someone's gender that um,

451
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: they're gonna, you know, everyone's going to be progressive. But like,

452
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 1: it always shocks me when when I hear a woman

453
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: say something that is anti feminist. Um, and I don't

454
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 1: you know it's I think it's probably because that whole

455
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,719
Speaker 1: movement has been politicized, so it carries this negative connotation

456
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: when it's you know, in the same way that Black

457
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: Lives Matter is not saying that anyone else's life doesn't matter. Um,

458
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 1: Feminism is not saying that women are better than men.

459
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: It's saying that women want to be treated as equals.

460
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: Like when you think about the idea that like there's

461
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,239
Speaker 1: that saying boys will be boys, Like why isn't there

462
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: a girl's will be girls? You know, well, I think

463
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,479
Speaker 1: that's what's happening. That's to me, that's exactly what this

464
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: song is kind of being like no more excuses for

465
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 1: your bad behavior, like we we have this too, and

466
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 1: like doesn't mean you go be an asshole, but it's

467
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: just kind of like why do you guys just get

468
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, our testofs rhone so fucking hot

469
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: and no, like, well, I'm in my thirties, go read

470
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: the reports on what that means about a woman's like hormones,

471
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 1: you know, Like I don't know. I just don't. Yeah,

472
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: I agree with you, like I don't. I don't get it,

473
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 1: and I don't um, I don't understand. I sort of

474
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: feel like when itself seems like a woman is going

475
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: against it, I just think it's like it's like an

476
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: uncomfortable response because it hasn't been this way for so

477
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: long and so it's like a new thing. I will say. So,

478
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read a couple of messages that we got.

479
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: Of course my mom slide into my d M s

480
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: on this one. I was like I couldn't escape that

481
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: one on this I knew the second I posted about

482
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 1: the song. I was like, I'm gonna hear about this one,

483
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: and sure enough she did. So here's what she said.

484
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 1: She completely disagrees with me, of course. Um, but she said,

485
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: sliding into your d MS to say that I just

486
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 1: read the lyrics. I don't think this is a woman

487
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: owning their sexuality. I think it is women allowing men's

488
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: perception of what sexuality is to shape their thinking. It

489
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: makes me sad when the teenage babysit are picks up

490
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 1: little girls at school and they start singing the CARDI

491
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: Be songs on the radio. This is not teaching girls

492
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,479
Speaker 1: to be confident in themselves as sexual being but whores

493
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,199
Speaker 1: like men for ages have referred to them. Uh, we

494
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: can be better than this, We can model better than this.

495
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: Sex should be a beautiful act between people who care

496
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: about each other, not something that needs to be mopped

497
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 1: off the floor. Just saying I know, Randa, I mean,

498
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 1: she's actually, you know, here's the deal. I agree with

499
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 1: like the parental part of this, Like this is not

500
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: an appropriate song for children in my opinion at all.

501
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 1: Like children shouldn't be having sex right, And I think

502
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: that it's on parents to teach their kids, um to

503
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: teach their kids about sex, and like, you know, I

504
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 1: agree about sex being a caring act between two people,

505
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: and I personally like prefer monogamy, you know, all of

506
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: these things. Like I don't disagree with what my mom said,

507
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 1: I will say I think there is a generational difference

508
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: that I'm noticing, and there's some shift in this new

509
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: younger generation. We've talked about it a little bit before,

510
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: about like the fluidity of sexuality, you know, like I

511
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: feel like women are um questioning. I don't. I don't

512
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: know if we're like settling in on oh, let's be

513
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: sluts and that's the way we want to own our sexuality.

514
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: But I think we're getting to a place and I

515
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: think a lot of the younger generations are like I

516
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: want to figure out what I like, what I want,

517
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 1: what I need, versus just being told from someone else

518
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: or being told from a guy, Like I want to

519
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: know that for myself. Well yeah, and I think that

520
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: the point that she makes about like men calling women

521
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: horrors for hundreds of years, it's like, well, that's just

522
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:53,959
Speaker 1: name calling. And if this if me owning my sexuality

523
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: and like and and expressing my desires and how I'm

524
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: satisfied makes me a horror. Then I'm a fucking whore

525
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: and call me a horror. And also why does it

526
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 1: make you a whore? That's the bigger question, right because

527
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,959
Speaker 1: horror is just a word that like has been created

528
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: to put somebody down. And so I think that what

529
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: Cardi B and Megan of Salion are doing, they're they're

530
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: sort of taking the power out of that being like,

531
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: well call call me that. I mean, it's in the

532
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: same way that you know, they're derogatory terms for racist,

533
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: you know, skin colors, and it's we see how skin

534
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: colors they take the power back and use that word themselves.

535
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: And I think it's the same exact thing is happening here,

536
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: and you know, it's a horror. That word was was

537
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: created to say, I don't agree with your stance on something,

538
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: So that makes you a whore. But you know what,

539
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: that makes you a fucking square because you're probably a

540
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: virgin who whose whose wife you've beaten into submission, you

541
00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And it's and like to me,

542
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: that ain't cool, you know, So I I think that, like,

543
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: I love that they're sort of taking the reins back

544
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: on that on that that word in particular, and and

545
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: and and further to the point of um, you know,

546
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: sex being you know, between two people we love each other. Yes,

547
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 1: I agree, and I think that makes sense, magical and

548
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: there's a real connection. But I also think sex is

549
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,239
Speaker 1: something that happens, um when you're not expecting it too,

550
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: and it can be like fiery and fun and passionate,

551
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: and it doesn't you don't have to be in love

552
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: with the person, And that's totally fine too, as long

553
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: as you are making the choice to engage in it

554
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: yourself and no one is forcing you to do it.

555
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: I think that there is a reason why most of

556
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: the animals on this planet, humans have a desire and

557
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: get pleasure out of sex that's not by accident. And

558
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: I think for those reasons. Um, it's not just a

559
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: procreation thing that's meant to be like shared between a

560
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 1: man and a woman who were married, Like it's supposed

561
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: to be some thing that is fun and pleasurable. Um. Well,

562
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: I think our bodies feel good, like if you want

563
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: to hut, somebody own it. And I think the empowerment

564
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 1: in sects comes from you do what feels safe and

565
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: right to you. And like, obviously, if we're talking about

566
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: what we're teaching younger people, what I would want to

567
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: teach younger people around me would be to be respected,

568
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: to be cared for, to be um, to not abandon yourself.

569
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: You know, like these are like all of the things.

570
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,719
Speaker 1: But I don't I don't think we can define for

571
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: someone else what that's going to look like. And that's

572
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: like that's but that's like a newer outlook on this,

573
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: you know. Um, So okay, So another message we got

574
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: was from Chris I got. I just want to say,

575
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: first of all, it took me a long time ago

576
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: through all these messages and I'm only going to read

577
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: a couple just to give the points, the main points

578
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: that I got overall. But this was like people were

579
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: so passionate. There was hundreds of messages that just were

580
00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: like no or yes. You know, it was crazy. Um,

581
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: but Christie said, no, that's not owning sexuality. That's blatantly

582
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: trying to project sexuality onto others. I'm a very sexually

583
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 1: driven person, but I suppose I still believe in decorum

584
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: and a little modesty. However, many women now feel like

585
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: they must take their power back from men who projected

586
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: their over sexuality onto women for years, especially in the

587
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: rap industry, which is exactly what we were saying, is like,

588
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: I do feel like there is a little bit of

589
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: the like, well, y'all fucking did this for years, so

590
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,239
Speaker 1: here you go, like I'm gonna do this in my

591
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: own way and we're gonna do it back. And I

592
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: don't know if that's necessarily like empowering. Do you know

593
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: what I'm I don't know. I'm saying that same point again, Yeah, yeah, no, Um,

594
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: go ahead. I hate mom on the time because we

595
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: can't look at each other and I'm just processing it.

596
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I think like the fact that this song

597
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: has is causing this like outrush really deep, really deep

598
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: sort of cultural conversation. Is mine? Isn't that? Everything? Let's

599
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: get real and everything is so polarizing this year. It's

600
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: like you're either one side or the other and there's

601
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: like there feels like there's not any in between. I'm

602
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,239
Speaker 1: so curious about what's happening in our society. So this

603
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: is another one from Natalie. She said, absolutely not. This

604
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 1: song is disgusting. What are we teaching children? This music

605
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 1: video is basically porn and contributes to an over sexualized

606
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: culture that treats women as objects. Porn perpetuates the cycle

607
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: of human trafficking and rape. As a society, we have

608
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: drifted away from the purpose of sex, something special and

609
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: sacred between two people. I have never been fulfilled from

610
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: a one night stand. The same opinion goes for all

611
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: of the rap songs by men, as well as calling

612
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: women bitches and talking about their bodies. As a woman,

613
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: this song is disgusting and ridiculous to me. I'm twenty

614
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: nine years old, no children, and I'm not a prude.

615
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: I just take pride to my sexuality, the way that

616
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: God into ended as private and sacred gift with the

617
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: person that you love. Yeah, I mean it's I I

618
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: think that Natalie needs to remember that, like these these

619
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: women are choosing to do it, you know. I don't

620
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: think I don't think that anyone is making then makes

621
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,959
Speaker 1: this music video. And yeah, granted it was directed by

622
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: a man, but I have a feeling that Cardi B

623
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: and Megan Mas signs d N A pun intended is

624
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: all over it, you know, Like, I don't think that

625
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: they did anything in that video that um that was

626
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: sexualizing them I think they were expressed. I think they

627
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: were expressing themselves. Yeah, I think it's it's definitely a

628
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: very like go ahead. I was just saying, I think

629
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: there's a difference between being sexualized and being sexual Well,

630
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: to me, it goes back to everyone has a differ

631
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: and comfort level, and like, you know, I can see

632
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: where some people would be like this is basically poor.

633
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: I mean they're like literally groping and almost making out

634
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: and all of it, and there's all these things. I

635
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: will say, I want to make one quick note. Kylie

636
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: Jenner in the video is like so fucking pointless to me,

637
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: and I don't get it. It pissed me off almost

638
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 1: because I was like, that's it. Yeah, yeah, but literally

639
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: all she just walked out a hall like I wanted

640
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: her to walk in the room and do something like

641
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what, but like something like a bust dance,

642
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: move top into a split like everyone else did. Like

643
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: what we're like. The thing is is like I feel

644
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: like they thought that they needed that and then it's

645
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 1: totally it's going to fire anyway, right, um, But anyway,

646
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,720
Speaker 1: I can see why it's not for a lot of people,

647
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: and like why it's not of their taste level. But

648
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: I don't believe in saying that someone what someone else

649
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: is doing with their own sexuality is wrong, you know

650
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like that is where I'm just kind

651
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: of in this more open mindset maybe than some people.

652
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: Like Okay, like that could be true for you, and

653
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: you don't have to actually like the song. It could

654
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: offend you this song. Um, but I don't think it's

655
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: right for us to go. Cardi B And Megan are

656
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: like completely Like I've seen some articles where they're saying

657
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: that they are sending women back a hundred years and

658
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeow, I don't. I actually don't agree with

659
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 1: that at all because when I listened to it, I

660
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: feel empowered. I do, and I feel like, you know,

661
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 1: it makes me want to be like, hey, this just

662
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: be more honest about and like ask myself what I want?

663
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 1: What do I need? And that hasn't been how I've

664
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: lived my entire life, and so it just is another

665
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: point of like, if these women are being bold enough

666
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: to step up and step out there, then it inspires

667
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: me to do the same. Um. I think I think

668
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: they're doing it to an extremes and it's like I

669
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 1: think Anyone who thinks that, like, you know, the goal

670
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: is for everyone to act that way is crazy. There. Yeah,

671
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: it's it's and it's also entertainment. It's But that said,

672
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: I do think that you know, there is um, they

673
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: do have influence on how people act, you know. It's

674
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: like and that's that's uh, that's where I think parenting

675
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:24,240
Speaker 1: comes in, and it's like you can teach your kids like, Okay,

676
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 1: this is the message of this song. It doesn't mean

677
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: that you need to go and act this way, you know.

678
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: In the same way that like the Kardashians I think

679
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: of influenced sort of the social media culture, and like,

680
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: you know, I don't think that their intention was for

681
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: dummies taking selfies to fall off of cliffs because they're stupid,

682
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 1: you know, Like, but that is a result of people

683
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: feeling like they need to live this life online that

684
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 1: like has extreme photos and whatever just to like send

685
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: out a message and um, but I don't think that

686
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: makes the Kardashians culpable in that particular, you know instance,

687
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: when somebody you know falls off a cliff or whatever

688
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: for trying to get a great selfie. I do, however,

689
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: think that they have driven the narrative of Um, you know,

690
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: living this fabulous life on TV, on socials can make

691
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: anyone rich and famous. So stupid people are are trying

692
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 1: to make that happen. And the truth is like the

693
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 1: Kardashian family like did it like with a lot of smarts.

694
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: You know, they're not stupid people, right. I mean, I

695
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: think that's a good point about the celebrity aspect and

696
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: I have a message I'm gonna read about that in

697
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: just a second. But, um, you know, a lot of

698
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: pressure is put on celebrities, like, well, you're in the

699
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,720
Speaker 1: public eye, so like it's your responsibility because you're teaching

700
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: these people. And it's like I hear that, I do

701
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: hear that. Um, but celebrities are human beings and these celebrities,

702
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: these rappers are artists and like they get to do

703
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: whatever they want with their art. That's like Cardi B

704
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: has made herself a career out of being outspoken, out

705
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: of being like shock factor, and so like that doesn't

706
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: just because there's a celebrity out there doing something that

707
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: is offensive to you, that doesn't make them wrong. That

708
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: is where your parenting is comes in and that's your responsibility,

709
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: Like that is your job to educate your kids, and

710
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: like we can't control what's out there in this world unfortunately,

711
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: you know, and so like you don't get to just

712
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: not be a parent and go, well, this is that

713
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: celebrity's fault, Like I don't think that that's fair, right, Well,

714
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: I also think too, it's like you look, you look

715
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 1: at any sort of just taking it back to the

716
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,760
Speaker 1: art comment, it's like, you know, um, now I'm blanking

717
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: on the artist's name, but the man who like, um

718
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: painted oversized women, um, and it was naked, Like nudity

719
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 1: has been this thing that's like always been an art

720
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: that probably went against the grain of what like the

721
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 1: puritanical thinking was at the time. But now we look

722
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 1: back at it and we're like, this is classic art that, um,

723
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: you know, is revered and worth millions and millions of dollars.

724
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: So you know, in a hundred years, when we look

725
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: back and this art and you know, in the same

726
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 1: way I brought up a two live of crewel like

727
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: this will probably seem like a nursery rhyme in twenty years. Yeah. Um,

728
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: my friend Kerson I thought had a really great message

729
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 1: and so I'm gonna read it. It's a little long.

730
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 1: There's a couple of points, but I think they're really great.

731
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: She said. Ah, there is so much to this. I

732
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: haven't even known how to break it all down. This

733
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: is such a This is nuanced and should be talked

734
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 1: about in a nuanced way, not just this is good

735
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: or this is wrong. She said. One, Yes, we need

736
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 1: to bust out of old narratives that keep women locked

737
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: up physically, emotionally and sexually. Men sing about this ship

738
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: all the time, and no one ever puts up any

739
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 1: fight about that ever hashtag patriarchy. Two is this the

740
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 1: most conscious way to do it? No, I don't think so.

741
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: I think there's a grounded, spiritually aligned freeway to express

742
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: sexuality and its wholeness and not just about the bumping

743
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: grind of genital pleasure. To me, this feels really carnal.

744
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: But who am I to judge? Where this where she

745
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: is coming from as the artist, which is what I

746
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: was just saying. Three is it her job to be

747
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: a good role model for kids? No, that is the

748
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: parents job to decide what to allow their kids to

749
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: see and hear, and they need to be invested in

750
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: their kid's life enough to follow through with that, not

751
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 1: policing the celebrities. Like I just think that's such a

752
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: good point, because it's like you're just gonna get pissed

753
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: at Cardi B for releasing the song. Well, like why

754
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: don't you go engage with your teenager and talk about

755
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: this ship. Maybe this is actually a good opportunity to

756
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: have a hard conversation or to order like put something

757
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: in context that they understand or care about, you know.

758
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: And let's let's not forget Cardie B was a stripper,

759
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 1: you know, totally. Any parent who's out there thinking like

760
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: it's Cardi B's responsibility to be a good role model, Like, no,

761
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 1: she was a stripper before she was a rapper. Like

762
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 1: what do you expect, Like she's gonna she's gonna talk

763
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: about what she knows the most about, you know. But

764
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 1: I yeah, I forget your friend's name. I think she's

765
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: absolutely right, Like this is this is an amazing opening,

766
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 1: a door opening for a parent to sit down with

767
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: their kid and be like, hey, have you heard this

768
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: song right, and like let's talk about it exactly. Katie

769
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: writes to us, and she said men have been profiting,

770
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: profiting off sexualizing women forever. Damn good that women are

771
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 1: taking that power back. This dumb controversy is all the

772
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: evidence of this double standard you need. We are we

773
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: still shame women for expressing their sexuality and celebrate men

774
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: when they do it. Lucas says, I think that if

775
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: a male rap artist released a song this quote unquote vulgar,

776
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: nobody would have batted an eye. Shauna says, love it

777
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 1: all for it. Men sing wrap and make music about women,

778
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 1: so own that wop. Alyssa says, I think it's great.

779
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: Men have been sexualizing women for so long. I think

780
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: it's powerful to take it back and own your sexuality.

781
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: And yes, I would agree. It's hilarious. I loved this one.

782
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: This is from Amanda. She said, it's amazing. If we

783
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 1: want to be sexual and express our inner freak, then

784
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: we should be able to do so with no judgment.

785
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 1: Here's a text that got from my man this war morning,

786
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: hashtag wop princess, and he said, good morning, baby, I

787
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: love you. I hope you have an amazing day, and

788
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: I know you've got that wop so it can be

789
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,399
Speaker 1: like a cute like it's just like you know, like

790
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: I do think that there is some power in just

791
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:29,760
Speaker 1: saying like yeah, I like sex, Like I like sex,

792
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: I want these things. I have these needs, Like I

793
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: don't think that it has to be we're going to

794
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: a men's idea of sex and we're like completely degrading

795
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: ourselves if we say that kind of thing. I think

796
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:44,439
Speaker 1: you can still be in a loving, caring situation that's

797
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 1: respected and own yourself totally. Uh. This is from Let's

798
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: not forget? Isn't Cardi b married? Like yeah on her?

799
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: So this is an interesting Well, the point that I'm

800
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 1: making is she's not going out there and telling people

801
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: to funk a bunch of people, right, and and so

802
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: it's an assumption that people are making that that's the case,

803
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: Like she's in a loving marriage, right. I mean, I

804
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 1: will say I am super curious about what they're like,

805
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: what their sexual escapades are like, because I mean they

806
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: are like freaks, you know. They like they're on the

807
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: red carpet like licking each other. He's like tapping her

808
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: tit on the red carpet. Like it's like it's like

809
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: a lot, but like that's their deal, right, Like that

810
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: is how they're famous, is they are so over the

811
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: top that it's like the shock factor. And so I

812
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: mean I think if you get mad about it, it

813
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 1: doesn't do anything. It's just like that's just what they're

814
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: gonna do. And it's like you might as well just

815
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: laugh because it's absurd. Um. You know, totally, it's entertainment.

816
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: I mean, either way, hate it or love it, it

817
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: is definitely entertaining. Our friend Annie Rodin and she said,

818
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: I mean, she's not carrying cancer with WP, but she's

819
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: bringing a whole new kind of mini is um that's

820
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: an as unapologetic as all this damn patriarchy we've been

821
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: experiencing since the beginning of time. It might be too

822
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: much for some people, but I'm down with it. It's

823
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: just a totally mixed bag. And I think ultimately my

824
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: take on the whole thing is well, I mean, I

825
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: love the song. I think it's hilarious, like I said,

826
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: and I have been working out to it pretty much

827
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: every day before I got covid um. But I I

828
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: think for me, I like that a woman is like

829
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: stepping into the place and taking away the power of

830
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: words like you're saying and just as like, fine, you

831
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: guys are gonna rap about this, I'm gonna go make

832
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 1: a ship ton of money and I'm gonna say it myself,

833
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna take the power back myself and tell

834
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: you what I want, what I need, and I'm gonna

835
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you in that place. I mean, am

836
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: I walking around talking about a whop? No? Like am

837
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: I bringing that into my personal life? No? But the

838
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: mentality of just like it's okay for me to have

839
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 1: needs and wants and to own that and say that

840
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: is very empowering to me. And so I don't have

841
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: judgment on how they say it or what they do

842
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: and what their sexuality looks like, but the mentality behind it,

843
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm all for it. I'm here for it. I agree,

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Speaker 1: I agree, and look, I don't. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: I'll ever listen to the song again by choice. You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it's probably gonna be forced on you

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Speaker 1: if you go anywhere. But if I go anywhere, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to hear it. First of all, I cannot believe

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Speaker 1: that they figured out a clean version of the song.

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00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,720
Speaker 1: Isn't clean though, That's what I'm saying, Wet and gushy

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00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: is that clean? Like? I still don't want any kids

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Speaker 1: around me listening to that? Right? Yeah? Make me really uncomfortable.

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00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: But the thing is is most of it's written an innuendo,

854
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: you know, like I want you to park that big

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Speaker 1: old mac truck inside this little garage. Like technically that

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00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: is a clean, leering macaroni in a pot. Like unless

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Speaker 1: you go, unless you like urban Dictionary, you're probably not

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Speaker 1: gonna know what that means totally. So um, look, I

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Speaker 1: it's it's it's not what I'm going to come home

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Speaker 1: and listen to after a long day at work. But

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Speaker 1: I also don't have a problem with it, you know,

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Speaker 1: other than it's just not being my genre of music.

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Speaker 1: Like I there's there's been plenty of clean hit hip

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Speaker 1: hop songs that I would say the same thing about,

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Speaker 1: you know, like it's just not my thing. So I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not I'm certainly not the authority on on that,

867
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Speaker 1: but I can say from my opinion that I love

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00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: that they're pushing the boundaries. And you know what, sometimes

869
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: you just gotta shake shut up to get people to listen,

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00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: you know, like you have to smack them in the

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00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: face otherwise it goes right over their head. And by

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Speaker 1: the way, I'm sure that there have been songs written

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Speaker 1: by men equally explicit they just don't get the attention

874
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: because Cardi B is better at getting people's attention. Just

875
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 1: figured out that game. But I mention, if we dug

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Speaker 1: deep enough, we could find some dirty fucking songs that

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Speaker 1: got put out. I don't think you have to dig

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00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 1: that deep. I mean listen to any rap song all

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00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: you know. I think it's just like a new generation

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00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: of women rappers are coming out, Like you know, An

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00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: told you I would listen to rap basically every time

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00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm working out, and I like, I love MEGANA. Stallion,

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Speaker 1: I love a lot of these songs. And my boyfriend

884
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: constantly is commenting like how do you listen to that?

885
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: Like they're literally talking about getting like a guy to

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00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: go down on them all the time, like that's the

887
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: new thing in rap songs. But I think this is

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00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,959
Speaker 1: like their version of being like, you know, like here

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00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: we come watch out, like this is this is what

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00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: rap music has been, and like they're leaning into that.

891
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: It's just that like women haven't typically done it as much.

892
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: Although like there's like the Little Kims, the Trina's, I

893
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: mean there's there is this stuff, it just has not

894
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 1: been as publicized as this seems to never forget the

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00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: opening lyric of kims first album, Why don't you go

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Speaker 1: ahead and share that with us? She said, I used

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Speaker 1: to be scared of the dick to the ship. See,

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00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: I mean, how is that any different than what I

899
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: throw lips to the ship that could be taken. So anyways,

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00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: it's right, it's such a great lyric and it's a

901
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 1: proud that she's proud about it, you know. And I think,

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00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: you know, it's a little Kim paved the way for

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Speaker 1: a lot of these women, you know, like, oh absolutely,

904
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Speaker 1: I mean it's yeah, it's been happening for years. Cardi

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Speaker 1: b is finally just like and it's also the times

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00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: where I think, you know, the rise of feminism and

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00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: women empowerment and after the me too stuff, I think

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00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 1: it's just on a different radar for most people than

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Speaker 1: it has been in the past. So I'm here for

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00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: the whop. I think the point is for us to

911
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: give everyone their own right to express themselves and their

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00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 1: own capacity, and if it offends you, you don't have

913
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Speaker 1: to hate on them. Just go, like, do your own thing,

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Speaker 1: and teach your kids what you want them to be taught,

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Speaker 1: and do what you want to do too. And I think, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, as Cardi B says, Oh, you know what,

917
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Speaker 1: like just because you've got to deal with your dop,

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Speaker 1: don't hate on my wop. I wish that I knew

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Speaker 1: what that meant, because I feel like it was proud,

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00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: really good, but dry ask. I mean, it's like it's

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Speaker 1: Instagram adopt for I don't apologe just missed that. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna blame covid. Well. I hope that we answered some

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Speaker 1: questions for you guys. Thank you so much for the

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Speaker 1: still don't want to talk about this kind of stuff,

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Speaker 1: whether necessarily, but you don't have to now she slides

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