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Speaker 1: kJ on Reddit rights.

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Speaker 2: For over a year, my neighbor's dog kept getting into

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Speaker 2: my yard, digging up my plans and making a mess.

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Speaker 2: I tried talking to my neighbor, reinforcing my fence, even

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Speaker 2: offering to help with training, but nothing worked. Finally, I

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Speaker 2: installed an electric fence along my side of the property line,

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Speaker 2: and just like that, the problem stopped. Now my neighbor

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Speaker 2: is furious, saying his dog Nino, won't even go into

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Speaker 2: his own backyard anymore because it got shocked once and

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Speaker 2: is scared. He claims I overreacted and I should have

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Speaker 2: warned him. But after a year of dealing with it,

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Speaker 2: how is this my fault?

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Speaker 3: It ain't your fault. You put up electric fist to

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Speaker 3: protect your problem. Now what they need to do? What's

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Speaker 3: the dog named Nino?

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Speaker 2: Nino?

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Speaker 4: You gotta gets non Nino scared to go in the yard.

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Speaker 3: We got the dog, need no need to go into therapy,

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Speaker 3: that's all.

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Speaker 4: Just give him work through and just work through his issues.

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Speaker 2: He was shocked, digging up his plants and all that,

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Speaker 2: making a mess.

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Speaker 4: Of the guards.

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Speaker 3: Out.

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Speaker 4: Now Nino don't come in the backyard no more. That

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Speaker 4: ain't got nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 3: Put him on the leash and walk him out there

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Speaker 3: and walk him around that yard and train him how

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Speaker 3: to walk around the yard. Show him there's nothing to

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Speaker 3: be afraid of. But now you Nino ain't going out

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Speaker 3: there by himself.

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Speaker 4: Put that leash.

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Speaker 3: Some dragon's ass out there. When he sit the glass down,

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Speaker 3: keep pulling. Walk him over there by the fence. Why

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Speaker 3: watch him go through it. But you know, it's like

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Speaker 3: it's like it's like invi a fence, you know, which

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Speaker 3: is great to have. You can let your dog out

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Speaker 3: and don't have to worry about it running off. You

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Speaker 3: get invisit fence. They put this invisible force field around.

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Speaker 3: They put all these white flags around your yard. Then

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Speaker 3: they put a dog a collar on your dog with

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Speaker 3: a shock device. Every time he goes by the white

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Speaker 3: flags too close, he gets shot.

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Speaker 4: So a dog learns where the areas are.

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Speaker 3: He can run without getting shot, and he stays with them.

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Speaker 3: And it's an invisible fence. Yeah, and Junior, you really

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Speaker 3: need it because you already you just need to hook

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Speaker 3: a collar on the dog. You can let his hand

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Speaker 3: go right on out there up writ in by fence.

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Speaker 3: That that's the way you do it. And they come

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Speaker 3: over and they work with your dog, and they train

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Speaker 3: you and everything.

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Speaker 2: They're true.

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Speaker 1: Your problem solved, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Veronica at Steve BARBFM, Veronica says, my

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Speaker 2: in laws constantly have something to say about my parenting.

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Speaker 2: They say, quote this gentle parenting isn't working? Whip his behind?

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Speaker 2: Or ain't nobody cooking two dinners? These kids eat what

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Speaker 2: we eat. I know they probably.

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Speaker 1: Mean well, but it feels like they don't respect my

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Speaker 1: choices as a parent.

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Speaker 2: To make things worse, my husband doesn't see the problem

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Speaker 2: and thinks I'm overreacting. I don't want to start a

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Speaker 2: family feud, but I also don't want to keep feeling

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Speaker 2: like I have to defend my parenting every time we're

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Speaker 2: around them.

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Speaker 1: How should I handle this?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, lady, let's let's look at Maybe everybody

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Speaker 3: can't be wrong just because you want to be right.

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Speaker 3: The baby out of control? Can't nobody do none witting?

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Speaker 3: They suggest? I asked women, they let your baby grow

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Speaker 3: up and do like you want to do. Win cooking

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Speaker 3: two meals?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh?

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Speaker 1: Want spaghetti you and green bean?

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Speaker 4: That's what you said. I don't want that. We never

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Speaker 4: had two meals at our house.

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Speaker 1: Ever, oh never, growing up, never, you ate whatever.

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Speaker 4: Your parents. They didn't ask me what I wanted.

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Speaker 3: I had a whole lot of play the pento beans

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Speaker 3: and corn bread.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 4: You didn't say nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just ate it and shut up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Sall right. Those were your choices, all right.

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Speaker 4: Gonna be hard to play them all when you're weak.

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