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Speaker 1: This is okayop hope of the craziest true stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm Carrie and here's Sophia. Do you think that the

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Speaker 1: boyfriend is overreacting?

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Speaker 2: I mean, based off of no context at all. I

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Speaker 2: don't think that you can tell the maid of Honor

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Speaker 2: not to come something really horrible. But right now I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna say he's wrong.

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Speaker 1: Well, there's only one way to find out spell that.

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Speaker 4: What oh I can see it? Hold on, Riley threw

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Speaker 4: it behind the green screen.

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Speaker 5: Screen.

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Speaker 4: That's this is all real.

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Speaker 1: This is all real?

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Speaker 2: Actually, yes, or you can call four four zero five

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Speaker 2: zero eight six' five six.

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Speaker 4: Seven all.

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Speaker 1: Right with that being, said let's dig into the. Story

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Speaker 1: so user classy and smart assy respect that name says longtime. Listener.

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Speaker 1: Oo we love that longtime. Listener first time posting this

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Speaker 1: was in twenty seventeen with my best friend of twelve

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Speaker 1: YEARS a let's call THEM a for, instance AND i

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Speaker 1: were graduating high school and we could essentially pass off as,

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Speaker 1: sisters so much so THAT i would show my parents

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Speaker 1: one of her pictures she posted on social media and

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Speaker 1: they would think that it was. Me that's pretty. Cool

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Speaker 1: that's like a little twin parent. Gratuation, yeah maybe you are.

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Speaker 1: Sisters maybe, ooh that could be spicy conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 4: Time maybe they.

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Speaker 1: ARE i could totally see, That but that's just us

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Speaker 1: being conspiracy. Eisp so for her, birthday For a's, birthday

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Speaker 1: we went back and got corresponding, tattoos mine on my

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Speaker 1: back and hers on her. Forearm why does that?

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Speaker 5: Matter, yeah lower, back.

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Speaker 1: Anti, lot we're. Back it is that what we call

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Speaker 1: a tramp.

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Speaker 6: Stamp whatever they, want, truly like you get one of

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Speaker 6: your best tramp stamp of a.

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Speaker 1: TATTOO i would If sophia asked me to get a

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Speaker 1: tramp stamp right, Now i'd be, like, yeah let's do.

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Speaker 5: IT i would do it for.

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Speaker 1: Content, Content, yeah for. Content so this all this all

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Speaker 1: tattoo like where it is on the back and form

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Speaker 1: is really important for the story. Later, anyway we graduate

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Speaker 1: and a few months LATER i asked her a to

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Speaker 1: be my maid of honor for my wedding planned For. September. Congratulations,

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Speaker 1: yeah so she said, yes AND i was so excited

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Speaker 1: to share this moment with my best. Friend she was

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Speaker 1: single at this. TIME i don't really know why this,

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Speaker 1: matters BUT i guess it will.

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Speaker 2: Matter, wait, so so her best friend is which best

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Speaker 2: friend the one she got the tattoo. With, Yes, oh

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Speaker 2: and someone else is having a. Wedding, no she, oh

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Speaker 2: pe is having a. Wedding, sorry.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, yeah so he's getting. Married, congratulations and she's super

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Speaker 1: excited because it is her maid of. Honor she was

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Speaker 1: single at the, time Which i'm, like. Okay in, FACT

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Speaker 1: i was pretty much doing all the planning and working

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Speaker 1: getting everything lined out for the, wedding AND i messaged

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Speaker 1: her periodically trying to set up a time just to hang,

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Speaker 1: out plan and generate. Ideas since she was a bridesmaid

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Speaker 1: in people's, WEDDINGS i figured she knew what being a

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Speaker 1: part of a bridal party. Was she had told me

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Speaker 1: stories from previous other bridal events that she's gone to.

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Speaker 1: Before she kept making excuses as to. Why i'm not

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Speaker 1: really sure what she meant to as to why she

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Speaker 1: kept making excuses as to.

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Speaker 2: Why she she couldn't like come to the events and

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Speaker 2: also like help do?

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Speaker 1: Gotcha, YEAH i think that's That i'm getting from, This

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Speaker 1: so she kept making excuses as to why she couldn't

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Speaker 1: come to any of the events for my own. Wedding,

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Speaker 1: well there was an old classmate a year or two

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Speaker 1: older than. Us his sister was our. Age let's call

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Speaker 1: him b B, okay so can we call?

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Speaker 4: Them can we give them names like alpha and?

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Speaker 1: Beta the first thing that came up to my mind

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Speaker 1: was off in beta and that should not have been the.

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Speaker 1: Case but so what do you, Say anna And brian And? Brian,

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Speaker 1: Okay anna And. Brian Uh so there was an old

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Speaker 1: classmate a year or two older than. Us his sister

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Speaker 1: was our. Age let's call Him. Brian When brian found

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Speaker 1: OUT i was getting, married he was. Pissed, okay we

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Speaker 1: bird did volunteer, firefighting and at a meeting he confronted,

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Speaker 1: me saying THAT i should have given him the, chance

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Speaker 1: Guy hold, On, brian it's weird of, You. Brian so

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Speaker 1: that was not the. CASE i did not promise him a.

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Speaker 1: Chance he got mad WHEN i then said, NO i

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Speaker 1: wasn't gonna call off the wedding to date him or

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Speaker 1: give him a better. Explanation that also he has the

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Speaker 1: right to date, me et, cetera et.

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Speaker 2: Cetera so So brian basically, Went, Brian, Wait i'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Be brian and your Op, okay, okay wait what did he?

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Speaker 4: Say, Like i'll Be ryan.

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Speaker 1: Getting up just, finished you, know sprouting some, fires putting

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Speaker 1: out some. Fires why did date? ME I i wanted

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Speaker 1: a chance with, You. Brian i'm getting, married BUT i

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Speaker 7: You.

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Speaker 4: BRIAN i never liked you like.

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Speaker 1: THAT i pro you promised me. ONE i don't THINK i.

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Speaker 1: PROMISED i don't THINK i promised you, That. Brian and

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna call off the wedding for, Me.

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Speaker 4: Brian we've been dating for sixteen, years my partner AND. I,

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Speaker 4: no we're gonna call off the.

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Speaker 1: Wedding how dare? You? Brian how dare?

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Speaker 7: You?

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Speaker 1: Brian i'm gonna call, WELL i got another another frier

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Speaker 1: to put out your, Back. Brian, no, anyway another fire

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Speaker 1: and you're. Gone And brian Is brian doing his Own brian?

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Speaker 1: Thing brian is so.

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Speaker 5: Great.

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Speaker 4: Thanks maybe we're trying to take.

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Speaker 1: Ancast, yeah we're trying To so this is this is

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Speaker 1: us trying, Out this is our. Desertion real. Grawlings, ANYWAY

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Speaker 1: a week, LATER i see a post On facebook about

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Speaker 1: A anna And brian being in a relationship. TOGETHER i

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Speaker 1: was worried About anna and continue to message, her asking

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Speaker 1: if she wanted to hang out or if she could

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Speaker 1: help me figure something.

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Speaker 2: Out, okay we figure something, Out oh with the, well,

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Speaker 2: no it's with the, wedding because, like she hasn't been

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Speaker 2: responding to her bridesmaid's, stuff so she's probably, like, hey

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Speaker 2: can you figure something out with the bride my.

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Speaker 1: STUFF i thought she wanted to figure something out With,

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Speaker 1: brian like that whole, situation Because anna is Dating, brian

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Speaker 1: so it could be like the mix of the, wedding

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Speaker 4: Anna bridesmays do a lot for, weddings.

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Speaker 1: So they especially because she's the maid of honor exactly,

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Speaker 1: Exactly so IF i was, LUCKY i would get a

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Speaker 1: response From. Anna OTHERWISE i was. Ignored she then messages

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Speaker 1: me after about a month or so saying That brian

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Speaker 1: has a poor an addiction and that she thinks he

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Speaker 1: is cheating on. Her you ignored your, friends, Dude this

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Speaker 1: is getting kind of. Lost SO i, SAID i can

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Speaker 1: can talk about. It that's Really so WHEN i go

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Speaker 1: to pick her, UP i find out that they have

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Speaker 1: moved in, together AND i asked her about what was going. On,

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Speaker 1: yeah this is this is a weird.

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Speaker 2: Guy this is out of the, Blue anna Texts, opie

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Speaker 2: and but Also brian and her are.

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Speaker 4: Still together in the same.

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Speaker 1: between the Time anna And brian got, together between the

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Speaker 1: yeah so the very fast moving.

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Speaker 1: Fast, yeah that's pretty. Fast, anyway what basically happens Is

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Speaker 1: anna went on to say that she was heavy set

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Speaker 1: now and they are so. Happy anna sign super, happy.

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Speaker 4: But clearly not because he's a born addiction and she thinks, that,

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Speaker 4: yeah he's cheating on.

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Speaker 1: Her the truth is she wasn't. HAPPY i could see

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Speaker 4: Face you could see it directly In anna's. Face, yea oh,

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Speaker 4: wait no is that what.

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Speaker 1: Op COULD i.

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Speaker 4: Can't you could see it In anna's.

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Speaker 1: Face, yeah you could see. It, oh he could see

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Speaker 1: him about, it and she said. YES i asked What brian.

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Speaker 1: Said he said it was just porn and that it

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Speaker 1: wasn't really. Cheating so all of this is to say

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Speaker 1: That anna And brian are going through issues right now

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Speaker 1: Because brian has a porn. Addiction But brian doesn't think

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Speaker 1: it's cheating because it's just. Poorn So anna is having

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Speaker 1: issues and she's all. Happy she's, like, Oh i'm in

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Speaker 1: a happy relationship. Regardless but is she really happy if

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Speaker 1: her boyfriend is in hot water about having a porn.

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Speaker 2: ADDICTION i feel like like the porn thing is a

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Speaker 1: Guess, Yeah so it also strikes the whole thing is,

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Speaker 1: like what's going on with the? Wedding first of.

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Speaker 4: All, Story, YEAH i care about your wedding up?

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Speaker 5: Here, yeah Yeahship.

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Speaker 7: Brian.

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Speaker 2: Yeah WELL i thought That brian was like for like

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Speaker 2: cheating on her with another, person but.

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Speaker 3: In her, Head it's, like what is? Cheating, yeah, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So i'm gonna go quickly back into the story because

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Speaker 1: If brian just blew off the, conversation and she said,

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Speaker 1: no it was. Good their relationship Between anna And brian

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Speaker 1: was good for a couple of, days and then the

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Speaker 1: argument started back up. Again she said that what hurt

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Speaker 4: Her, ah that's really.

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Speaker 1: Hard oh he THINKS i think That anna is. Beautiful

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Speaker 1: AND i told her that if he couldn't see, that

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Speaker 1: then he is an idiot and she should definitely find someone.

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Speaker 5: Better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that was until what happened. Next so a bunch

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Speaker 1: of things. Happened, Basically brian came home and saw a,

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Speaker 1: together he And anna. Together, okay he was visibly upset

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Speaker 1: when he saw me Because i'm not sure that she

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Speaker 1: i left because it was, late and the LONGER i

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Speaker 2: Me, Yeah brian's weird AND i had that whole thing. Earlier,

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Speaker 2: yeah this is the skit that we.

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Speaker 1: Did this is getting. Crazy, yeah it sounds like there

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Speaker 1: is issues Between brian And, anna BUT i feel like

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Speaker 1: there must be something else that. Played, YEAH i would

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Speaker 2: Story, Yeah, no it feels Like, brian Like brian's not

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Speaker 4: There that's what i'd think because like not too obviously

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Speaker 1: Sacks, yeah and then the porn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah so, Anyway op gets a message From anna saying

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Speaker 4: Her oh my, god gas, lighting as we.

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Speaker 1: LEARNED i, asked, well how is this going to affect our,

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Speaker 1: that could be considered. Back, yeah, nope, dogs, nope Sheat,

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Speaker 4: Joe, oh he's just trying to plan a. Wedding.

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Speaker 1: YEAH i even asked what that was supposed to me

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Speaker 1: for my bridal shower and Invite. Anna she says that

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Speaker 2: Go brian sounds super, controlling and this is sounding like

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Speaker 1: Part so, now it wasn't UNTIL i got a call In,

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Speaker 1: july SO i assumed this was months later That anna

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Speaker 1: God, okay, okay so this is getting a little a

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Speaker 4: Scary.

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Speaker 1: Scary So anna had a bust and noser to highs were.

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Speaker 1: Sold brian was still with his struck on the. Bridge

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Speaker 1: IT i rush you to the, er worry because no

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Speaker 1: OH i stayed until she was. Discharged she only said

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Speaker 4: Yeah as opposed.

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Speaker 1: To the other conversations With brian's, sister nurses and other

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Speaker 2: Wrong brian's Pulling it seems Like brian's pulling her away

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Speaker 2: from her. Friends anna away from her friends and trying

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Speaker 1: HER i Think brian is intentionally pulling her away from.

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Speaker 2: Both, yeah, yeah BECAUSE i think that it seems like

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Speaker 4: Is trying to take away that support.

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Speaker 1: System so basically op trying to check out on. Her

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Speaker 1: in the days after it was, Ignored, yeah she was

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Speaker 1: to me still lie made of N, yeah let's not

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Speaker 1: forgetting THAT i had no intention of removing her from that,

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Speaker 1: to be made of Hon she still called herself my

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Speaker 1: made of R oh, oh this does get really, sad.

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Speaker 1: Guys so, now about a month and a half before the,

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Speaker 1: WEDDING i messaged her aget to no. RESPONSE a month

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Speaker 1: before a, RESPONSE i go hang out with her and

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Speaker 4: Mother, okay that's. GOOD i mean at least she's away From.

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Speaker 1: Brian at this, POINT i called the wedding off STORY.

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Speaker 2: O my update, Please oh my, God, wow that's a juicy.

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Speaker 4: UPDATE i hope. That, YEAH i.

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Speaker 1: HOPE i hope you're.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah before we like jump into like asking for

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Speaker 2: your story time is, okay and, yeah that's a.

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Speaker 1: Lot so now this is WHERE, i AS, op may

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Speaker 1: have been the. Asshole When brian confronted me at our,

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Speaker 1: meeting he said something weird THAT i didn't think about

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Speaker 1: until things With anna started, happening and something she didn't

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Speaker 1: know BECAUSE i didn't go into it with. Her but

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Speaker 1: he told me he was going to date, me WHETHER

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Speaker 1: during the whole fire like the.

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Speaker 4: Oh he was, like you promised.

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Speaker 1: Me SO i started talking to her about what happened

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Speaker 1: with him AND i at that. Meeting, yeah, okay so,

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Speaker 1: Long So i'm gonna take a break right, here. Tildar,

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Speaker 1: Basically anna did not know the whole time That brian

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Speaker 1: was Into, op, oh because she she's, saying by the

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Speaker 1: looks of, it that she only started talking to her

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Speaker 1: about what happened at that conversation after the.

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Speaker 2: Accident and let's not Forget anna An op looked like, Sisters.

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Speaker 1: OH i forget about.

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Speaker 3: That oh, No and then Uh anna had like she

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Speaker 3: Probably brian's, like, oh you looking better Than, anna and do.

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Speaker 1: All this all adds?

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Speaker 3: Up because, honestly in the back conspiracy theory time in

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Speaker 3: the back Of anna's head is that Like op looks

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Speaker 3: better and then she's having all these insecurities.

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Speaker 4: It's not, true which is, yeah but like still.

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Speaker 3: Everyone beautiful Way, yeah but that's probably what's going in

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Speaker 3: the back Of anna's head and that's why she's been

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Speaker 3: so cold To.

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Speaker 2: Op, yeah like Feeling Secure's brian's already spent all this

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Speaker 2: time pulling her away From op and.

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Speaker 1: Then, yeah that's that's fucked, Up, brian that's fucked. Up.

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Speaker 4: Brian you suck. Up you're, Cool And, ANNA i hope you're.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah tinues. Yep SO i told her that the

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Speaker 1: complaints that she had about him and the pictures of

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Speaker 1: some of the porn that she had shown, me and

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Speaker 1: them dating felt like a way to get back at. Me,

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Speaker 1: yeah which is what we were all talking.

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Speaker 4: About but you can't tell, That, Anna, no you can't see.

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Speaker 4: That Dana op.

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Speaker 1: As the only thing he seemed to do other than

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Speaker 1: physically because he wouldn't let us see each other as

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Speaker 1: in me And anna practically the entire TIME i was

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Speaker 1: THINKING i was being wrong and hoping that this whole,

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Speaker 1: thing this whole, idea was, wrong her whole perception of

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Speaker 1: the relationship was. WRONG i told her that much as

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Speaker 1: if he really was being, sincere that he wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: told her who to hang out, with that she couldn't

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Speaker 1: go to the bridal shower or wedding or have anything

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Speaker 1: to do with me if he really loved. Her so

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Speaker 1: basically the whole thing, is If brian really Loved, anna

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't have put her through all this, heurmoil all

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Speaker 1: this hell to just make her avoid Seeing. Ope but

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Speaker 1: it sounds like there's something else at play here Because brian.

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Speaker 4: May still have even it seems like he's obsessed With.

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Speaker 2: Ope but, ALSO i don't know if you can Tell anna,

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Speaker 2: That like if you're, like, HEY i don't, know BUT

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Speaker 2: i think That brian never actually liked you and only

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Speaker 2: dated you be with.

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Speaker 1: Me, YEAH i, don't, like how do you tell a?

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Speaker 4: Friend THEN i think you kind of have to keep.

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Speaker 1: That, well what basically happened Is anna shot back At

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Speaker 1: ope as to why my wedding was being called. Off

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Speaker 1: but my whole story As ope was basically that my partner,

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Speaker 1: cheated but they went about it in a different, way separate.

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Speaker 4: God o p's a long.

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Speaker 5: Year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah SO i was feeling really down as everyone blew

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Speaker 1: off my bridle. Shower my best friend was M I

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Speaker 1: a things are going on with my now ex partner

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Speaker 1: and canceling another, wedding canceling a. Wedding, Sorry SO i

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Speaker 1: decided to get another tattoo full circle. BABY i got

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Speaker 1: her half of the tattoo and added some things to.

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Speaker 2: Decorating she got Her anna's half of the tattoo because

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Speaker 2: they got matching.

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Speaker 1: Tattoos, yes because after every, THING i THOUGHT i lost

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Speaker 1: my Friend anna for.

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Speaker 4: Good.

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Speaker 1: Ah they stayed together for not much longer after the,

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Speaker 1: fact And brian tried again to come around me since

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Speaker 1: he couldn't do it through the fire department, anymore.

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Speaker 4: So he, tried so they got back. Together anna And brian.

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Speaker 1: And brian did end up getting back. Together that's.

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Speaker 4: Tough that's really.

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Speaker 1: Tough So anna AND i hung out one time after

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Speaker 1: they broke. Up NOW i posted a picture of my

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Speaker 1: updated tattoo and everyone knew about. It and the updated

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Speaker 1: tattoo is basically After anna and had a, Fallout SO

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Speaker 1: i never hit it from. ANYONE i was wearing a

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Speaker 1: tank top and jean And anna was sitting next to

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Speaker 1: me on the same side as my. TATTOO i had

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Speaker 1: turned to talk to someone else when she pointed it.

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Speaker 4: Out.

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Speaker 1: OH i told, her as this was over a year

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Speaker 1: at this, point THAT i barely heard from, her and

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Speaker 1: IF i heard from, HER i didn't know IF i

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Speaker 1: was going to see her again because Of. Brian she

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Speaker 1: seemed to understand about the whole tattoos, situation AND i

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Speaker 1: dropped her off at home later that. Night so Basically

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Speaker 1: anna And i's relationship never. Recovered the MESSAGES i would

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Speaker 1: send to her would be. IGNORED i missed my best. Friend.

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Speaker 1: Oh LATER i went to check and see how she

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Speaker 1: was doing SINCE i didn't hear from her for so.

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Speaker 1: Long she posted a picture of her, tattoo saying she

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Speaker 1: needed ideas to cover it up with as it was

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Speaker 1: a mistake to get with the person that she shared it.

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Speaker 1: With oh my, GOD i don't even care that it's

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Speaker 1: been years AND i still miss my ex best. Friend

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Speaker 1: WAS i the? Asshole and DID i push my friend? Away?

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Speaker 1: No this is, tough, Guys this is really. Heartbreaking.

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Speaker 2: YEAH i THINK i think when you're like a person

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Speaker 2: is in an abusive.

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Speaker 4: Relationship, yeah you can. Do you can only do so.

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Speaker 2: Much, yeah because like the their partner is actively trying

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Speaker 2: to cut off all of their like their whole support.

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Speaker 2: Group and yeah and like you, know creating making you

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Speaker 2: out to be the bad, guy and so, YEAH i

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Speaker 2: don't THINK i.

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Speaker 1: Just feel bad For. ANNA i Think, Anna. BRANNA i

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Speaker 1: think this was Ultimately brian being the do doo, head

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Speaker 1: like the actually.

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Speaker 4: And, yeah, yeah actually bad bad.

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Speaker 1: Guy this just makes me feel sad because it sounds

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Speaker 1: like a very like it sounds like a friendship, breakup

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Speaker 1: but there was nothing communicated during the. Breakup it was

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Speaker 1: just people ghosting each. Other, yeah it Being. Anna, yeah

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Speaker 1: and it's all Because brian puppet in the, background puppet,

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Speaker 1: master just Telling anna what to do or not to.

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Speaker 1: See fucking. Sucks, guys really don't do. That that's.

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Speaker 5: Your.

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Speaker 4: Partner should not be pulling you away from your.

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Speaker 1: Friends how do you feel about the whole? Thing?

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Speaker 4: Bad?

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Speaker 2: Bad, no it's Not, NO i DON'T OPI i don't

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Speaker 2: think that. YOU i think maybe you shouldn't have Told

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Speaker 2: anna that you thought That brian was only dating for

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Speaker 2: to get you, know to be with.

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Speaker 4: You but everything else is not your.

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Speaker 1: Fault, NO i don't think so. Either, yeah But RILEY

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Speaker 1: okop fans yours to hear what you.

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Speaker 5: Think, yeah but some of the comments step.

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Speaker 4: Up have you ever experienced anything like? This hopefully.

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Speaker 1: Not friendship breakups are the, worst, guys don't ever forget.

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Speaker 6: That.

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Speaker 5: My steps, done steals my. Car, Fine i'll call the.

439
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 5: Police but what happened next was way worse THAN i ever.

440
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 7: Expected it's like IN gta when you're like cruising, Around

441
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 7: you're going the speed, limit being the, rules and then

442
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 7: some rando crashes into your, car and then the police

443
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 7: get called on, you and then you're.

444
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 5: Like NOW i have to throw fifty your names and

445
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 5: you nice to do.

446
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 7: It don't make me escalate this as. Police you take

447
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 7: out the, MACE i take out the. BAZUKA i thirty

448
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 7: for a, female am a. Doctor good for?

449
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 5: You good for? You and part of my job entails

450
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 5: being on call for one to three nights a, week

451
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,919
Speaker 5: twice a. Month my Fiance dale thirty mail has been

452
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 5: saving with my step son's mom to buy him a

453
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 5: car For. Christmas my Stepson rex sixteen, mail, which, honestly

454
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 5: if your name Is, rex like you're you're Already you're

455
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 5: already in. Trouble like what Does rex stand? For is

456
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 5: his hand for? Anything?

457
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 7: Ranosaurs? TRULY i mean what my name Is Taranosaurus? Rex

458
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 7: you can call Me rex.

459
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 5: Now rex has a, license but always has to borrow

460
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 5: his mom station wagon or his dad's beat up pickup.

461
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 5: Truck his mom's car is layme and, embarrassing and his

462
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 5: dads can only hold one. Passenger not. Practical fourteen makes

463
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 5: sense onto the main. Conflicts rex texted me yesterday around

464
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 5: twelve and asked if he could borrow my car after.

465
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 5: School his friends wanted to go to the, mall but

466
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 5: the bus route is too is too, long he, thinks so?

467
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 7: Long you, know my grandfather had to go uphill in

468
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 7: the snow both. Ways that's right to get the, School that's.

469
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 7: Right at least you could do a tick a.

470
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 5: Bus we have to walk thirty to miles to deliver

471
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 5: these podcasts every, day delivered by snail mail to your Ear.

472
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 5: God so he asked if he could borrow my. CAR

473
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 5: i texted back and said, sorry but, No i'm on

474
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 5: call again with the. Hospital can you ask your? Mom

475
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 5: he says. NO i told him, sorry but my answer

476
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 5: is still. No i'm sure you will find a. Solution

477
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 5: ask your. Friends i'm sure you'll figure it. Out if

478
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 5: you're seeing where this is, going you're less shocked THAN i.

479
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 7: Am i'm not saying where this is going, yet so

480
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 7: he he, Walks, yeah, yeah exactly.

481
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 5: EASY i was up in my home office WHEN i

482
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 5: Heard rex and his friends downstairs after. SCHOOL i was

483
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 5: going to see if they needed, anything but they left

484
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 5: only after a few. Minutes, hmmm, quick quick pit stop

485
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 5: there Res an hour, LATER i went to the, kitchen

486
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 5: cleaning up empty bottles and wrappers from their.

487
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 7: Snacks WHEN i saw. This they can't even put away

488
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 7: the snacks.

489
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 5: Literally like it's there's a trash can right there at.

490
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 5: Sixteen clean up for. Yourself come, on you, disgusting, filthy fucking.

491
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 5: Animals your existence disgusts. Me you belong in a. Zoo,

492
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 5: YES i saw the spot WHERE i left my keys.

493
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 5: EMPTY i begin to. Panic so it begins right. FIRST

494
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 5: i bolted to the. Door the car was.

495
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 7: Gone, dude the gall and this guy to freaking steal

496
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 7: his mom's.

497
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 5: Car stepmom's.

498
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 7: Car geeza for this is literally so, ergo we will

499
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 7: meet you with a.

500
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 5: Pazuka, yes, yeah we will meet you with the rockets

501
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 5: full license to show up with it with a berzuka

502
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 5: and just blast his kin. DISME i immediately dialed my step.

503
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 5: Son he picks up and it's obviously he's in a

504
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 5: mall because there's loud music playing in the. Background like

505
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 5: he doesn't even. Care he's not even, like hold, on,

506
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 5: guys let me be like run into the. Bathroom she's, Like,

507
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 5: yo what's what's, up? Mommy It's. Rex It's. Rex, up It's.

508
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 5: Rex you, know to leave a. Message she'll leave a.

509
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 7: Message i'm probably plowing some some ten right, now hitting

510
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 7: a hot piece of, ass so leave me a.

511
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 5: Message there we. Go that's what it. IS i told

512
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 5: him to get his ass home, now and he laughed

513
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 5: and said That i'm not his. Mom he'll be home

514
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 5: whenever he. Pleases, no it's her, car, though. Bro THE

515
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 5: i would never have the audacity as a sixteen year

516
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 5: old to say.

517
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,959
Speaker 7: That, yeah, well, yeah you're Not. Rex, Bro i'm. NOT

518
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 7: i got the confidence of Freaking.

519
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 5: Rex. DUDE i need everyone's. Mom he needs to make

520
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 5: it like a like a one of those like male empowerment.

521
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:03,120
Speaker 7: Courses, yeah it's Called rex has sex and he can

522
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 7: too follow the ten step programs to get your rex.

523
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:15,239
Speaker 5: Erect that's, right erex. Erexed i'm not, proud BUT i

524
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 5: told him that he has twenty minutes to get home

525
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 5: OR i will call the police and report it. Stolen,

526
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 5: Yeah i'll lay down the law. Mother that's. Right rex

527
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 5: panics and said that he couldn't find all his friends

528
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 5: and drive home in twenty.

529
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 7: MINUTES i told, him tough. Crap who? Cares, yeah who

530
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 7: gives a.

531
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 5: Shit ten minutes, LATER i get a text that he

532
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 5: is in the mall parking lot and will be home.

533
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 5: SOON i Phoned rex's mom and informed her of his.

534
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 5: Stunt she was madder than me WHEN i told her

535
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 5: THAT i was on call for the. Hospital she apologized

536
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 5: and promised to talk To rex and dale a.

537
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 7: Sap, yeah, okay this at least this is good. Parenting

538
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 7: like there's one same. Person, yeahere it's, like, uh he

539
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 7: could do whatever he. Wants if he wants your, car,

540
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 7: uh he can have, it he can take.

541
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 5: It it's just your, car, like you're just people. Dying,

542
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 5: yeah you could. Walk he needs to go to the

543
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 5: ball with his. Friend, seriously, yeah, yeah people.

544
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: Dying the ball with his.

545
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 5: Friends come, on it's my baby.

546
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,199
Speaker 7: Only people will always be. Dying rex only has so

547
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 7: many years of his childhood, friends his child. Doing he's only.

548
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 5: Sixteen. One rex came, in threw my keys down and

549
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 5: locked himself in his. Room Good dale finally came home

550
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 5: around eight and said he had been on the phone

551
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 5: with his. Ex he demanded to know WHY i punished his.

552
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 7: Son, okay, well first, off she just asked for the,

553
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 7: car like the car. Back, second he kind of punished

554
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 7: himself by locking himself in his, room so it's, like,

555
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 7: oh she's not doing anything. Wrong she actually didn't punish him,

556
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 7: because like she she threatened to call the, police but

557
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 7: hasn't like, taken there's. Been rex has had nothing thing

558
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 7: go against him except returning the.

559
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 5: Car, yes that was rightfully if not His, YES i

560
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 5: put my foot down and explain THAT i am on

561
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 5: call for the hospital and that MEANS i need my.

562
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 5: Car rex stole my. Car dale, Disagrees.

563
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 7: Yo, dale it's ain't a good relationship Bro El For, dale.

564
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 5: His ex agrees with me and decided that she will

565
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 5: not be Buying rex a car anytime soon due to his.

566
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 5: Entitlement it's nice to have one sane.

567
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 7: Person, yeah maybe this is why they got freaking, divorced you, know,

568
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 7: yeah divorced in the first. Place, yeah because it's, LIKE i,

569
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 7: Mean dale sounds like a piece of.

570
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 5: Work, also it's, like how do you not notice the

571
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 5: red flags? Earlier? Yeah how does that not? HAPPEN i

572
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 5: am so?

573
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 7: Sorry Like dale seems like he doesn't know to handle

574
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 7: himself or his good.

575
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 5: Awful and no. Judgment But dale is thirty and the

576
00:29:55,880 --> 00:30:01,239
Speaker 5: kid is. Sixteen oh, shit so oh fuck uh just

577
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 5: Saying adam was, FOURTEEN i even.

578
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 7: Realize that that's, crazy, right? Insane at least one of

579
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 7: them has matured since.

580
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 5: Fourteen, yes, Actually dale Thinks i'm making a big deal

581
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 5: out of. NOTHING i didn't end up going into, Work

582
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 5: so why DID i have to Threaten? Rex that's?

583
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 7: Terrible she needed the car Because rex is being an

584
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 7: asshole and didn't like come back with the.

585
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 5: Car and has no he has no like entitled miant

586
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 5: to it. Whatsoever that's? Why and what if someone called

587
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 5: exactly like, GOD i have only gone in twice this

588
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 5: year while on. Call just because nothing happens doesn't mean

589
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 5: That i'm always freeing into Clear rex is now. Grounded

590
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 5: fiance barely speaks to. Me he asked me If i'm

591
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 5: going into work today and if, not WILL i? APOLOGIZE

592
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 5: i am not budging and he is still pissed and

593
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 5: doesn't get. It, yo he should not be. Pissed also red.

594
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 7: Flags, also maybe you shouldn't go through with the fiance to,

595
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 7: husband uh kind of. Change maybe you should just keep

596
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 7: it fiance to ex.

597
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 5: Fiance, well funny you say that because there is a up,

598
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 5: day let's hear. It so Apparently dale reads this sub

599
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 5: breddit on his work, breaks so he texted me a

600
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 5: link to the post during his dinner. BREAK a short time,

601
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 5: LATER i received a call From rex's, mom who said

602
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 5: That dale called her ranting about HOW i made him

603
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 5: look bad. ONLINE i, mean.

604
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 7: No one knows it's You, dale actually yourself And. Opie

605
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 7: she she changed the NAMES.

606
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 5: I she didn't state whether she used fake or real names.

607
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 5: NAME i think she used real.

608
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 7: Names.

609
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 5: Bro i'm Imagining dale reading this and he's, like she

610
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 5: told him that she didn't give a flying flippity do

611
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 5: dot day good because he did not react the way

612
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 5: that a good parent. Should dale was so furious that

613
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 5: he told his ex he would be calling his mom

614
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 5: to see if anyone actually cared about his.

615
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 7: Feelings that was such a lame, Respot, Bro i'm calling

616
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 7: my mom.

617
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 5: My mommy was a board being no idy. Other, Well

618
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 5: dale's mother handed his ass back to. Him, good thank.

619
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 7: GOD i love how everyone Around dale has. Sense, yes thank.

620
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 5: God uh and Reiterated dale that he was not an

621
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 5: active part in his son's life until he was. Six,

622
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 5: bro mom was dropping bombs over, here so he has

623
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 5: no leg to stand. On dale tried to complain about

624
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 5: how everyone was being unfair to. Him mom shut him

625
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 5: up and told him that his son did something wrong

626
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 5: and that this isn't about punishing him for being a bad.

627
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 5: Father dale returned home a little while, ago about an

628
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 5: hour earlier than he usually. Does he looked, defeated but

629
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 5: he was still short with. Me said he was disappointed

630
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 5: THAT i, posted and now everyone thinks he's a joke

631
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 5: and a bad. FATHER i, mean you are so Swond.

632
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 7: Dale, ALSO i love how it's Like dale got roasted

633
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 7: On reddit and now he's about to get roasted in

634
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 7: this story when he coasted it Like dale's getting freaking

635
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 7: roasted to this center every every, Turn.

636
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 5: Dale you. Suck that's right.

637
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 7: NOW i didn't think this conversation would end up with

638
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 7: my ending the engagement and. Relationship oh whoa, wow that's.

639
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 7: Escalated dale got his whole life. Ruined this whole life is,

640
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 7: ruined but it. Did the house is all in my.

641
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 7: Name So dale is packing up his crap and crawling

642
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 7: back to his mama's.

643
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 5: House dale got, Fucked yeah he.

644
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 7: DID i wonder if he's like mad at his son,

645
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 7: now like if you can't take the, Blame he's, like

646
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 7: you did.

647
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 5: THIS i, mean even even a delusional person at that

648
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 5: point would like at least shift the.

649
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: Blame.

650
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 7: Why there's just so many opportunities for him to like say, like, ah,

651
00:33:58,080 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 7: MAN i am.

652
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Speaker 5: Wrong but he kept going to every one and being, like,

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Speaker 5: NO i deserve. Sympathy that he went to his.

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Speaker 7: Mom, yeah and his mom dared abund a new asshole

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Speaker 7: and it's, Like, dale you're being an, Idiot, like come.

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Speaker 5: On it's all. You dale's out, there cut it. Out