1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Would I be the ahole if I refuse to help 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: with my partner's daughter's grad party after I've been banned 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: from attending. 4 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I don't think so. If you're if 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 2: you're banning attending, you got You've got no obligation. 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: How am I going to help with something I'm banned 7 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: at no obligation? Coomebye. Now, my long term partner has 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 1: been divorced for years. The divorce was acrimonious, and he 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: and his ex wife did not get along. I honestly 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: don't even know the true definition of acrimonious. 11 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 2: I think like acrimonious means not good. I don't know, but. 12 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's the definition now, not good. 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 2: The divorce was not good. Miriam Webster. 14 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: We've been asked to host their daughter's graduation party at 15 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: our home because my because my partner's ex dropped the 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: ball and failed to secure the venue. 17 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: Way to go. I spent a week planning after the party, 18 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 2: making arrangements, ordering materials to make her vision of reality. 19 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: This sounds like a great friend, Yeah for real? Right friend? 20 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: A week later, she informed us that my presence would 21 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: anger her mother and under no circumstances could I attend 22 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: the party being held at my own home. 23 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 2: Okay, that's especially ridiculous. Is at your own home and 24 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 2: you couldn't attend the party. 25 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, I'm literally gonna be sitting back and 26 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: watching Netflix while all you are partying. I'm not in 27 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:30,199 Speaker 1: the party. 28 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 2: I'm not in the party. Yeah, go on, carry on, 29 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 2: carry on. I'm just sitting here. I'm just watching Is 30 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 2: it a cake? Don't mind me? We should react to 31 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: is it a cake? We really should. 32 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to get our we need to throw 33 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: some reactions out there. I am expected, however, to devote 34 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: my time and creative talents to making her graduation party beautiful? 35 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: Would I be the a hole. 36 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: If I refuse to plan and organize and decorate for 37 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: this party? 38 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 2: And there's an update? Okay, first off, would I be 39 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: the a whole? No, you wouldn't be the bro and 40 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: not to invite you to the party. This is ridiculous. 41 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: Also in your own you you really can't. 42 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: It's almost impossible to uninvite someone to a party in 43 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: their own home. 44 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: Like, all right, Like I would understand maybe, like if 45 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 2: they're paying her or him him or her, I don't 46 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 2: know that we know all right. If they are paying 47 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 2: they them for Yeah, there we go. If you're paying 48 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: them for like setting up this party, then maybe you 49 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 2: can make it as a demand like that, Like maybe 50 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: it makes a little bit more sense. But if you're 51 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: not paying them and just expecting to put all this 52 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: time and energy into planning an event for you, like, 53 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 2: come on, it's. 54 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: Ridiculous, completely ridiculous. Yeah, it's way O d in my own, 55 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: my own home. That's the most offensive to me. Yeah, 56 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm ignoring all of you and staying my 57 00:02:55,880 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: ass in my own home. Update in our home next 58 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: door to this boring party. All of my best girlfriends 59 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: and I will be consuming the food that I had 60 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: planned for the party while dressed in LBDs. 61 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: Or doing some research. The research team is on it. 62 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 2: Little little black dresses, Oh little bit dresses. 63 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: Man, read it. Y'all love acronyms. So while we're dressed 64 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: in little black dresses, drinking champagne and contemplating my future, 65 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: let it be known. 66 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 2: Op, good for you with your life. I live your 67 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 2: life and uh and maybe get out of there.