1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show three. 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 2: It's time first to push that reset button. I don't 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 2: know why we wait until December thirty first into January first, 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 2: but it is an incentive for some. So I don't 5 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: want the year to end on bad terms. So I 6 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: want everyone in here to apologize to me immediately for 7 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: what you know, what you did. 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 3: I'm never sorry. You deserved it. Whatever I did, you 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 3: deserved it. 10 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 2: No infriend of it. It was a meme I saw 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: the other day. 12 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 4: The meme. 13 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: It was like, I don't want to end this year 14 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 2: on bad terms. Apologize to me. I don't know, you know, 15 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: is anyone planning any sort of reset for the new year? 16 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 3: Absolutely? Yeah. I've tried to get my reset going early 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 3: so that I'm not that person that shows up in 18 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 3: January at the gym. I started in December. See what 19 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 3: I did there? 20 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: Say health recess? 21 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 3: Absolutely yeah? 22 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I've decided I'm going to I'm 23 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 2: starting to rethink life a little bit. Oh, how I'm 24 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: approaching life? Like you know, I never thought of competition 25 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 2: as being anything, but it's whatever's self imposed procrastination. Is 26 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 2: your competition? Absolutely hanging out with the wrong people. Is 27 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: your competition though, Those are the things that are holding 28 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 2: you back. And so I'm I'm thinking, you know, maybe, 29 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 2: however many years are left, make him count, make him 30 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 2: count a little more. Hell yeah, add value to those 31 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 2: remaining years like that. So I better get hurry hurrying 32 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: on this thing. 33 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 4: I mean, you never know. You just don't know how 34 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 4: m's long time. 35 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 2: I don't know what we say. 36 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 4: Wouldn't want to know if they even if you could 37 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 4: find out, I wouldn't want to know. 38 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 2: No, we are okay, well I'm not really we don't 39 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 2: have to talk about mortality at this point. I'm just 40 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: just saying, but you. 41 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 4: Have to make the best of every day. You should. 42 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 2: Exactly, even if we have fifty thousand years left, what 43 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 2: have we been doing wrong so far that we need 44 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 2: to correct? And you know, how many times have you 45 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: met someone who's older than you and you say to them, 46 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: oh my god, you have your life so together, but 47 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 2: it seems like it's just of late share. For instance, 48 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: she just does what she wants, she does it how 49 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 2: she wants. She wasn't always like that. Why do we 50 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: wait until we're seventy seven years old to live our. 51 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 3: Lives because you learn from experience. 52 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm also sorry. Enjoy the body you're in now, 53 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: or how you look now, because I look back at 54 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: pictures and I was telling Froggy this afore. I'm like, 55 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: when I when I took this picture, I thought I 56 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: looked like crap. 57 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 3: I'm like, now I look back and I. 58 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: Go, damn, I look good. 59 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: Enjoy what you look like now, because in a couple 60 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: of years you're gonna be like, yeah, I looked good. 61 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 2: Then, yeah, well this is as good as That's it? 62 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 2: Bots and fillers for what's up? Nate? 63 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 5: Can I also give a warning to all the twenty 64 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 5: year olds twenty five year olds, here comes Nat. Yeah, 65 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 5: well got serious. You never fully ever get it together 66 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 5: in your life. You always think when you're younger, like, oh, 67 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 5: when I'm forty, it'll all come together. When I'm forty five, 68 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 5: it never ever really does happen. So get rid of this. 69 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 5: That is the life lesson. And I've told this story 70 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 5: a million times. My dad, on his deathbed says, you're 71 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 5: always scared. You're always wondering if you're doing the right 72 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 5: thing and saying the right thing. Never it never stops. 73 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 6: What's scary you know, Gandhi gave me great advice when 74 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 6: it comes to traveling, and she says, always go to 75 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 6: the places now that require a lot of walking and 76 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 6: hiking because later in life you're not going to be 77 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 6: able to have that. I'm like, that makes all the 78 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 6: sense in the world. So I should save the places 79 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 6: that are close by and the places that don't require walking. 80 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 2: You know, for like when I'm in my you know, 81 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: seventies and eighties, you're doing that now, you know what 82 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 83 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 4: Like, but if I want to go visit like Tokyo, 84 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 4: oh you know where. 85 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: Go to places like far Far. 86 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 6: I know, but like you know what I'm saying, you 87 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 6: become a little less abled exactly. 88 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 2: So if you, for instance, like Positano, for instance, the 89 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: city is built on a hill. You know those old 90 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: ladies they've been living there since they were kids, and 91 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: now they're in their nineties and they still walk up 92 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: and down those hills every single day. Yeah, there's not 93 00:03:58,400 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: a lot of uber activity. 94 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I better go. 95 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 2: Sooner than leader to pussy. 96 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: Tondo, you know, like Machu Pichu or the Great Wall. 97 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 3: You want to walk the Great Wall? All these things? 98 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 3: Do it now? 99 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 4: Very good? 100 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 3: Advice save the easy, easily accessible stuff when you're old. 101 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,839 Speaker 2: So another meme. I saw what was it? It had two 102 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 2: doors to a home. One door was blue, one door 103 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 2: was red. Have you seen this? Oh yeah, red door, 104 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 2: go back in time and fix all your mistakes. Blue door, 105 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 2: go in and get ten million dollars in cash. 106 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: Oh blue door, baby, Yeah, yeah, I would take the blue. 107 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 2: So what do you think about fixing the mistakes from 108 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: the past. 109 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 3: I think the only mistakes I would fix would be 110 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 3: spending more time with people that I lost. Knowing that 111 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 3: I was going to lose them, I would say, Okay, 112 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 3: you're going to be so sick of me because I'm 113 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 3: around all the time. But aside from that, I think 114 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 3: every mistake that I've made, as corny as it sounds, 115 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 3: it brought me to where I am today. It taught 116 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: me everything you could. 117 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 4: It cheeps you to who you are. The mistakes that 118 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 4: you've made, you've learned. They don't have to be necessarily mistakes. 119 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 4: Is there You learned ways not to do things exactly, 120 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 4: and so now you know how to do them. 121 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: We learned we learned in the wild man a. 122 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: Couple of boyfriends. 123 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 2: I might say, well, okay, not. 124 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 3: Go with it. 125 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 2: See, this is why, and I get hell every time 126 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: I say this. I really live with zero regret. 127 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 1: That's good. 128 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 2: Well, I know, no, there are things I've done which 129 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 2: were shady, crappy. It can't be that bad there, but 130 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: I don't believe it. But I don't regret doing that. 131 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: Regret to me is it's just wait, it's wasted time, 132 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: wasted energy. Regret. Why it's in the past. I can't 133 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 2: go back and change it, but I can learn from it. 134 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 2: Are the things I've said and things I've done I 135 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 2: wish I hadn't. 136 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 4: Oh. Absolutely, you don't have to repeat the same mistakes 137 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 4: tomorrow that you're making today. It's you can stop them 138 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 4: today and say not worry about what you've done in 139 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 4: the past. 140 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: So going back in time to fix mistakes, no, no, no. 141 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 3: If I could go back in time with that ten 142 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 3: million dollars and all the knowledge I know now. 143 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: Maybe Okay, well no, it doesn't be one door or 144 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: the other. Come on, come on, gandhi. Oh deep, it's 145 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 2: the deep part of year. Is what do you get 146 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: a nostalgic What makes you feel nostalgic during the holidays? Oh? 147 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: I miss my dad? No, but I always think about, 148 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: like all the cool things that he loved Christmas time, 149 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: so like he loved the holidays, so this time of year, 150 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: you know, and he knows this is my favorite time 151 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: of year. And he died, you know, in November. So 152 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: people are like, well, do you get really depressed? And 153 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: I go, I don't get depressed because I know he 154 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't want me to be. I just try to carry 155 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: on the happiness that he had in his heart for 156 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: this time of year. 157 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: Good. 158 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: So, yeah, did I wish he was here? 159 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 2: I tell you what. It's the music takes me back 160 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: to my mom and dad. Yeah, because they love Christmas. 161 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,559 Speaker 2: My mom, oh my gosh, she was a Christmas nut. 162 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 3: Is there a specific favorite? 163 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: Well, I'll be home for Christmas. It was one of 164 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 2: her favorites. 165 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 3: We should play it. 166 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 2: Who do we have I'll be home for Christmas? That's 167 00:06:59,240 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 2: what's that frog. 168 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 4: I love the shows, Like I watched the old Rudolph 169 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 4: of the old Frosty shows and it was funny. I 170 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 4: posted about it the other day and my mom messaged me. 171 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 4: She said, you still watch those? She said, you always 172 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 4: had to watch those as a kid. And it does 173 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 4: watching that old those old Clay Nation characters and whatever. 174 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 4: I know that times have come so far, but to 175 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 4: watch that takes me right back to being a kid 176 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 4: when life was so much simpler. 177 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: Do you say, I'm mister he yes, I. 178 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 5: Do. 179 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: I always love that song. 180 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 4: Take it back. 181 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 2: So let that nostalgia work for you, is my point. 182 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 2: You know what. Sometimes it could make you sad, melancholy. God, 183 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 2: you just missed your dad so much, you know what. 184 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 2: But let that nostalgia work for you. It make you 185 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 2: feel good about where you are right this very minute. Yeah, 186 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: and everything that makes you who you are. And you 187 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 2: learn through all those years when you're a little bitty 188 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 2: girl and you heard Christmas songs you said on your 189 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 2: dad's lap, you know, use us, use us fear advantage 190 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 2: for sure. Hey we don't we have a phone tap 191 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 2: on the way. Yes, huh Christmas song. Now, I'm not 192 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: saying any of the songs I want to hear. Nat 193 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: King Cold being Crosby. 194 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: Oh there's a good one. Come on, it's play something 195 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: from White Christmas. 196 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,679 Speaker 3: We're the one from home alone. That's scary, loves. 197 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: I got something from White Christmas for you, White Christmas. 198 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: May I sure it's Nat King Cole. 199 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 4: Hello, Christmas song. 200 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 2: Yes, not white Christmas. Here's here's white Christmas.