Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for
Speaker 1: joining us. We're so happy to be here. We're back today.
Speaker 1: We are so lucky. We got more fan questions. Oh,
Speaker 1: there's some really good ones here. And if you really
Speaker 1: want an answer from us, please, if you have a
Speaker 1: question for Susan and me, send them in. Go to
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Speaker 1: your questions. We always have an opinion and we're always
Speaker 1: willing to share it.
Speaker 2: Yes, please do. But first, let's get started with today's
Speaker 2: question of the day.
Speaker 1: Okay, read it out, go for it.
Speaker 2: How has your definition of true love changed over the years.
Speaker 1: For me, Susan, true love has not changed over the years.
Speaker 1: The definition of true life is just that it's loving
Speaker 1: something completely holy, working hard, wanting to spend that time.
Speaker 1: I think it just looks different how you express the
Speaker 1: true love, how you express it, how you express true love?
Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 1: Well, when you're when when we were young and first married,
Speaker 1: true love might mean letting our husbands sleep in on
Speaker 1: a Saturday morning so that and we get up to
Speaker 1: the kids and be quiet, or or you know, doing
Speaker 1: the yard work. If it was typically our husband's something
Speaker 1: like that. Where now for me, true love with the
Speaker 1: person I hope to find is going to be It's
Speaker 1: always about communication, but it's going to be about I
Speaker 1: think the way I show true love. That's what I
Speaker 1: guess I'm saying, the way I show you? What about you?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I took the words right out of my mouth.
Speaker 2: I used to believe the butterflies and the excitement of
Speaker 2: he walks through the room, and no matter how long
Speaker 2: you've been together, you would still get excited thinking that
Speaker 2: was true love. You need your best friend, somebody that
Speaker 2: you can share everything with, good or bad, happy or sad.
Speaker 1: Right, And I think that true love. We talked about it.
Speaker 1: We talked about it with Trista. True love takes a
Speaker 1: lot of work, takes it all does, and so I
Speaker 1: don't think that. I think we would be lucky at
Speaker 1: our age to have a chance to find it and
Speaker 1: have the chance to show true love and receive true love.
Speaker 2: I'm ready.
Speaker 1: I'm ready too. Are you ready to answer some fan questions?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 1: I guess so.
Speaker 2: Would you like me to go first? You want to
Speaker 2: read it?
Speaker 1: Knock yourself out all right?
Speaker 2: Question number one is from Leslie from New York, and
Speaker 2: she says, last month, I had a great first date
Speaker 2: with a guy that I met on a dating app.
Speaker 2: We had originally planned to just meet for coffee, but
Speaker 2: then we ended up talking and hanging out for almost
Speaker 2: five hours. That's a good date. We both were laughing
Speaker 2: and saying that this was the best first date either
Speaker 2: of us have ever had. I like it so far.
Speaker 2: When we left, we had already made tentative plans to
Speaker 2: meet up again the following week. Then nothing. Ooh, he
Speaker 2: completely ghosted me and never picked up the phone or
Speaker 2: answered any of my texts. He just texted me trying
Speaker 2: to make plans to see each other again. Should I
Speaker 2: give this guy another chance after he ghosted me for
Speaker 2: an entire month? Hell? No, really a month, Kathy, he's
Speaker 2: gone invisible? Oh well no?
Speaker 1: Oh, I can't even believe that, Susan. I really thought
Speaker 1: you and I were going to be on the same
Speaker 1: page on this one. I absolutely would meet him.
Speaker 2: Why really, so he can leave you hanging for another month?
Speaker 1: No, it's what do we talk about? Always? Communication? I
Speaker 1: would sit down. Let's just call day Leslie. Let's call
Speaker 1: him Joe. Leslie and Joe sit down after not seeing
Speaker 1: a month. If I were Leslie, I'd come dressed for
Speaker 1: the nines. I see your no no, no, no, no no,
Speaker 1: and then I would say to him, very calmly, talk
Speaker 1: to me, tell me why I haven't heard from you
Speaker 1: for a month. Why did you gost me? I would
Speaker 1: wait and see. Who knows, maybe there was a death
Speaker 1: in the family, Maybe there was he got fired from
Speaker 1: his job, you know, maybe there were circumstances. I would
Speaker 1: give the guy a chance to explain himself. And if
Speaker 1: he said, you know, something like, well, you know, I
Speaker 1: was with Julie and I had to make sure it
Speaker 1: wasn't going to work out with her. Lady's a cheater
Speaker 1: and I'm out.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't have a month to I'm sorry,
Speaker 2: I would have. I would probably ask during that text,
Speaker 2: do you have an explanation as to why do you want?
Speaker 1: The answer over text?
Speaker 2: I don't care how I get it, but you better
Speaker 2: give me some reason to want to come and meet you.
Speaker 2: If I sit for thirty days, I'm gonna be upset
Speaker 2: for the first week, maybe ten days. After thirty You're lost.
Speaker 1: Oh no, not me. I want to look the guy
Speaker 1: in the eye, because you know what looking a man
Speaker 1: in the I agree with that part. That's why I'm
Speaker 1: not texting this guy.
Speaker 2: They only had one meeting and they had a fabulous time.
Speaker 1: So something happened, did it? Something happened he was either hot,
Speaker 1: in bed with Julie, somebody.
Speaker 2: Else or Okay, okay, So then go back to why
Speaker 2: is he just sending her a text to meet again?
Speaker 2: Call me, come over, send flowers, show me something.
Speaker 1: Well, remember we're talking about young people here who meet
Speaker 1: on dating apps and.
Speaker 2: A dating app, but doesn't mean they're young. Okay, let's
Speaker 2: go back. We're not assuming things.
Speaker 1: Okay, I am saying I think he could have called,
Speaker 1: he went out of her number. We don't know any
Speaker 1: of that. We don't know what Leslie's thinking or doing.
Speaker 1: We only know what this question says. I am telling
Speaker 1: you short and simply, I would meet up with him,
Speaker 1: look in the eyes, and see what he has to say,
Speaker 1: and then I'd make my decision. And I'd also stick
Speaker 1: him with a bill.
Speaker 2: So I probably have already done this, and maybe that's
Speaker 2: why I'm speaking this way, because I will never do
Speaker 2: it again. That's not worth it.
Speaker 1: I've learned my lasson. All right, let's move on. Cecilia
Speaker 1: from California rights. My husband and I have been together
Speaker 1: for ten years, married for five. Recently, we hosted a
Speaker 1: party and a bunch of his buddies from college came.
Speaker 1: Oh boy. After hours of drinking, we all started swapping stories.
Speaker 1: I found out that on spring break of his freshman year,
Speaker 1: my husband and his roommate paid for a prostitute. Oh
Speaker 1: they paid for a prostitute and both quote partook in
Speaker 1: the festivities. Though this was years before we had started dating.
Speaker 1: I am totally grossed out and disturbed by the information.
Speaker 1: I get why my husband never told me, But I'm
Speaker 1: having a hard time getting past this. Do you have
Speaker 1: any suggestions?
Speaker 2: And how would you feel what's happened in the past
Speaker 2: is in the past. He didn't even know her then.
Speaker 2: He was a guide. Not that it's okay, but guys
Speaker 2: do that. No, you should.
Speaker 1: Women don't.
Speaker 2: We're not talking about women here.
Speaker 1: You just said guys do that. Let's tale.
Speaker 2: I mean that happens. I wow, you might be disappointed
Speaker 2: or something like, babe, you really did that. But he
Speaker 2: didn't even know her then, and it was ten years
Speaker 2: ago and he was a freshman in college. He wasn't
Speaker 2: thinking with all the mL was your name again, I
Speaker 2: think it was Celia.
Speaker 1: Let it go, Let it go.
Speaker 2: You're pretty battle three battles exactly how what I feel.
Speaker 1: I mean, I would feel oo in the moment, but
Speaker 1: ten years ago. I don't know if you have kids.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you have a family. But you
Speaker 1: know what, I'd be more worried, Cecilia, if he'd been
Speaker 1: with a prostitute since you've been with him.
Speaker 2: So that's a whole different ball. You're just saying it's over.
Speaker 1: I think, Cecilia, if you have a good marriage, thank
Speaker 1: your lucky stars for it. Go give him a kiss,
Speaker 1: tell them to buy a bouquet of flowers, and move on.
Speaker 2: I let it go, babe, Let it go. Don't sweat
Speaker 2: the small stuff. But thank you for writing in. And
Speaker 2: if you have anything else to say, we're here to listen.
Speaker 1: And we hope you're happy.
Speaker 2: I know. Question number three Okay, Anonymous from Missouri said this,
Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan, I could really use some advice. My
Speaker 2: mother is my best friend. We have always been, especially
Speaker 2: in the last few years since my dad passed away.
Speaker 2: We even moved her into a new, larger home so
Speaker 2: that she could live with us all Recently, she met
Speaker 2: a man at church and has gone out on a
Speaker 2: few dinners. She seems happy and to like him. But
Speaker 2: I'm having a really hard time with this. I worry
Speaker 2: sometime he will take advantage of her or hurt her.
Speaker 2: She is very naive in many ways. She and my
Speaker 2: dad married when she was just eighteen, and she hadn't
Speaker 2: even pumped her own guess until he passed. I'm trying
Speaker 2: to support her and let her do what she wants,
Speaker 2: but I am struggling. I worry someone will take advantage
Speaker 2: of her or hurt her.
Speaker 1: Okay, can I take this one? Mm hmm, okay, I
Speaker 1: think so. When my husband passed away, my daughter really
Speaker 1: struggled with the idea of me day. I think that
Speaker 1: this young lady from Missouri is probably dealing with a
Speaker 1: little bit of that. It's just hard to see your
Speaker 1: mom with someone that's not your dad, so I think
Speaker 1: that's part of what's going on. I think you are
Speaker 1: so sweet to consider your mom and having her safe.
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, you bought a house so she
Speaker 1: could live with you. You are a lovely young lady.
Speaker 1: But I do think again, from my standpoint, being alone
Speaker 1: and my husband passing away. Your mom is probably lonely.
Speaker 2: Even though she lives with them and loves it.
Speaker 1: Let her, Yeah, well, let let her. If she met
Speaker 1: the guy at church and she's been on a few
Speaker 1: dinners with him, it's okay. It's okay, and it's and
Speaker 1: by the way, it's okay for you to struggle. It
Speaker 1: is hard. It is hard to accept that your mom
Speaker 1: could move on and bring someone else into her life.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean in any way that she will
Speaker 1: ever forget your dad. So if that's what's going through
Speaker 1: your mind, I hope it isn't because nobody will ever
Speaker 1: replace your dad.
Speaker 2: And also I get that you love your mom and
Speaker 2: you want to protect her. Once again, communication tell her
Speaker 2: you're a little concerned. Mom, Just keep your eyes open.
Speaker 2: And but it is okay because look at us, look
Speaker 2: at our age and Kathy's or whatever. I'm divorced. We're
Speaker 2: gone to go and find and meet people and date
Speaker 2: and hopefully build a relationship with someone. You don't want
Speaker 2: her to be alone until she passes. Right, even though
Speaker 2: her life is fulfilled living with you and your family,
Speaker 2: that's a wonderful, it's.
Speaker 1: Not totally fulfilled. That's the whole thing.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: She likes someone else, I think let her go a
Speaker 1: little bit. Okay, but wait, can I ask you one thing? Sure,
Speaker 1: have you not pumped your own guess since you were
Speaker 1: twenty something?
Speaker 2: She must live in Jersey.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I want to. I
Speaker 1: want you to let well that she lives in Missouri. Yes,
Speaker 1: I might move to Missouri if I don't have to
Speaker 1: pump my own gas anymore. I didn't even know that
Speaker 1: was a thing.
Speaker 2: Do you know? When I was first married, he would
Speaker 2: wash the car every weekend. I still do it to
Speaker 2: this day. Every Friday, I clean my car. It's like
Speaker 2: a ritual. But he used to do those things for me,
Speaker 2: and that was so sweet. Fill up the car. My
Speaker 2: dad did it for my mother. Really, he'd fill her
Speaker 2: car up with the gas every weekend and wash the car.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, when we were talking earlier about true love, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I mean, the things that they do for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that shows.
Speaker 2: That gets me into what's your love language? There's so
Speaker 2: many love languages. Some people like to do things for others.
Speaker 2: That's their way of showing love. And one of the
Speaker 2: things that I thought about recently was, I know what
Speaker 2: my love language is. But to be able to see
Speaker 2: what his love language is, I just assume affection and
Speaker 2: touch and I want to feel love. But I assumed
Speaker 2: everybody felt like I did until I read about the
Speaker 2: five languages of love, and some of them are very
Speaker 2: similar to the others. But some people like gifts. Some
Speaker 2: people like giving gifts, you know, So there we go.
Speaker 2: He liked to do things for her, and I never
Speaker 2: pump gas.
Speaker 1: I want the gift of something pumping gas for I
Speaker 1: just decided my new traits for finding a partner pump
Speaker 1: my gas.
Speaker 2: Oh please. But I just love receiving all these questions,
Speaker 2: and it gives us something to talk about and think
Speaker 2: about in our own lives. And I hope all of
Speaker 2: you out there that hear these stories are questions that
Speaker 2: we're talking about you can relate to your life in
Speaker 2: some way. One more question we have, Go ahead, Kathy.
Speaker 1: Jacqueline says, Hi, I just turned thirty one, and for
Speaker 1: various reasons and just always focusing more on myself, I
Speaker 1: have never been in a relationship at this age. It's
Speaker 1: understandably coming off as a big red flag on dates
Speaker 1: when I meet someone and I'm wondering what your advice
Speaker 1: is to start that conversation with someone so that they
Speaker 1: would give me a chance.
Speaker 2: What do you think is, well, it gave me something
Speaker 2: to think about. Actually, So number one, why haven't you
Speaker 2: been in any relationships? Is it because you were studying
Speaker 2: or you're focusing on your career or were you just
Speaker 2: plumb not interested? And what makes you interested now? Is
Speaker 2: my first part of that question. You should focus on
Speaker 2: yourself because a better you is a better second half
Speaker 2: in a relationship, the other half in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I agree with I think that there's been
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure put on young, younger people today
Speaker 1: to get in relationships and get married. And you know,
Speaker 1: our kids, we've talked about this. Our kids have focused
Speaker 1: on their lives. My daughter didn't get married till she
Speaker 1: was thirty four, she met her husband. When she knows
Speaker 1: nothing wrong, that's my point. So I think it's of
Speaker 1: concern that she believes that there's something wrong.
Speaker 2: But how did she write it? Again? She said that
Speaker 2: they're questioning it.
Speaker 1: Well, she's asking how does she make it come across
Speaker 1: that she's not that there'sn't some reason that she hasn't
Speaker 1: been in a relationship. Because I was focused.
Speaker 2: On my career and I want to be one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: And I think many people today are meeting I would
Speaker 1: I to me, it's a non issue. You just go
Speaker 1: into it if you're interested in.
Speaker 2: I don't feel like it's a problem. Well she does, Yes,
Speaker 2: she does.
Speaker 1: But I would say, go into the dinner of the
Speaker 1: date whatever, talk about who you are, talk about your
Speaker 1: goals in life, talk about your job.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't lead off with it.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about my wealth.
Speaker 2: I've never been in a relationship, but I'm thirty one.
Speaker 1: Red flag, Yeah, don't lead off that. But I think
Speaker 1: the red flag is more in your mind than it
Speaker 1: will be in.
Speaker 2: The ends too. I do too, unless you're dating the
Speaker 2: wrong guy, and.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of those out there.
Speaker 2: There are a lot of those out there. But I
Speaker 2: wish you a lot of luck. And you know what,
Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with waiting till then, And I'm glad
Speaker 2: you did you first, and.
Speaker 1: Keep doing you, keep doing you. You'll find the right
Speaker 1: guy when it's time, and you don't have to worry
Speaker 1: about red flags. If it's the right guy, you'll know
Speaker 1: it absolutely.
Speaker 2: Thanks for writing in, and if you do have a
Speaker 2: question for us, we want to hear it. Please go
Speaker 2: to bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour. You may even
Speaker 2: be featured on one of our podcasts.
Speaker 1: Okay, Susan, we've answered other people's questions. Now it's time
Speaker 1: for us to play a game. Today's game is called
Speaker 1: would you rather? I'm going to read them and then
Speaker 1: we're both going to pick out which one we'd rather do. Okay,
Speaker 1: got it all right? Would you rather date a man
Speaker 1: that is bald or a man with excessive back hair?
Speaker 2: God, I would have to wax that in a minute.
Speaker 2: That would be gone.
Speaker 1: She's a hairdresser, she could do it.
Speaker 2: And a bald man doesn't bother me as long as
Speaker 2: he shaves his whole head.
Speaker 1: You know, I actually have attracted a bald man.
Speaker 2: I like both. I like no hair like I don't
Speaker 2: like just the round top and they try to grow
Speaker 2: it on the side and has a comb over. No.
Speaker 1: I dated a guy uh since my husband passed away,
Speaker 1: who very handsome guy. UH. Will never date him again though,
Speaker 1: because he's he's the guy that was never married. But
Speaker 1: when I first met him the first few dates, he
Speaker 1: wore a ball cap all the time, which to me
Speaker 1: is a no.
Speaker 2: No, so he didn't know because he's uncomfortable with it.
Speaker 1: Well, no, once we got to know each other, he
Speaker 1: took it off. So I'm going with a bald guy. Okay, sure?
Speaker 2: Now would you rather receive flowers or chocolate for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1: In today's world?
Speaker 2: I thought it was both.
Speaker 1: I mean, here we go. Listen everybody out there. When
Speaker 1: I asked these questions, Susan's first answer is both. Just
Speaker 1: so you know, for me, I actually would rather receive flowers.
Speaker 1: Now I'm on my own. I buy flowers for myself occasionally,
Speaker 1: although I've had to stop because my two geriatric cats
Speaker 1: eat them and then throw up.
Speaker 2: But no, the question was if you had a choice, now, right,
Speaker 2: I would you rather definitely flowers?
Speaker 1: Okay, definitely? Okay, what about you?
Speaker 2: I like it? Bet, I'm not a big chocolate person, so.
Speaker 1: I can I have your chocolate? Yes? And then I'll
Speaker 1: get both?
Speaker 2: You kids, would you rather have the ability to see
Speaker 2: ten minutes into the future or one hundred and fifty
Speaker 2: years into the future.
Speaker 1: I'm going to be really honest with you. You say both,
Speaker 1: I'm going to know I didn't say both. No, I'm
Speaker 1: this I'm going to say ten minutes because I don't
Speaker 1: want to know. I don't It's the same thing I
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to psychics or mediums.
Speaker 2: I don't want to know. One hundred and fifty years
Speaker 2: will know what angel we're going to be down, I'm
Speaker 2: coming down to protect like that would be kind of
Speaker 2: cool too, But now I go ten minutes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, ten minutes. Ok Okay. Would you rather find
Speaker 1: we need to pass this one. Nope, we're doing it.
Speaker 1: Would you rather find true love today or win the
Speaker 1: lottery next year?
Speaker 2: As much as I would love to hit the big
Speaker 2: one on the lottery, I would like to be in love.
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? No? I don't believe you.
Speaker 2: Why would I lie?
Speaker 1: Because Susan?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Really yeah? Really me? You don't want to be
Speaker 2: in law?
Speaker 1: Of course I want to be in love. But if
Speaker 1: I have enough money, I'll have love.
Speaker 2: No stop it, you will lie. Wait, like I said, both,
Speaker 2: that's a both.
Speaker 1: That's a can I just paint the picture? Look at
Speaker 1: the billboard up on the highway. So many zeros you
Speaker 1: can't count them all.
Speaker 2: But love is love? Really true love?
Speaker 1: Though, I'll pick love, okay, okay. Would you rather have
Speaker 1: another ten years with your partner that you don't have
Speaker 1: right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah, or I can't even answer that, or.
Speaker 1: A one night stand with your with your celebrity pass.
Speaker 2: We'll pass on my question.
Speaker 1: Move on, all right? Would you rather wear the same
Speaker 1: socks for a month? I know we're passing this one.
Speaker 2: Too, or the same underwear? I'll go command though, Babe,
Speaker 2: I'm not wearing the same underwear for a week. Why
Speaker 2: would you even? Why where'd that come from?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I didn't make it up.
Speaker 1: I have known people though that, are you ready? Huh?
Speaker 1: Take their underwear and wear it and then turn it
Speaker 1: inside out.
Speaker 2: So, for goodness sake, call me. I'll buy you another pair.
Speaker 2: I mean, is it because you don't have enough? Why
Speaker 2: would somebody? I mean wear the same socks for a month?
Speaker 2: I hardly wear socks, so I'll take that one. I
Speaker 2: just won't wear them. God. Would you rather have a
Speaker 2: pause or a rewind button in your life?
Speaker 1: For me? That's easy? What is it you heard? Trista?
Speaker 1: She said she everything has brought her to where she
Speaker 1: is today for a reason, for a reason. But in
Speaker 1: my life I would rewind because I would do some
Speaker 1: things differently in my marriage.
Speaker 2: Okay, I would pause and give me time to think
Speaker 2: about things before I make the wrong decisions. I've made
Speaker 2: some decisions that I wish I didn't. So yes, it
Speaker 2: could be answered like you're saying, redo, But that's like
Speaker 2: she said, that's why we are where we are and
Speaker 2: who we are today because of the life's decisions.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to rewind all my life.
Speaker 2: I say that.
Speaker 1: You know, Well, if we're imagining, let's imagine how we
Speaker 1: want it.
Speaker 2: Oh, here's a good one, Kathy, all right. Would you
Speaker 2: rather walk in on your adult children or have them
Speaker 2: walk in on you? No brainer?
Speaker 1: Oh for me, I'd have them much have prefer them
Speaker 1: to walk in on me because there's no one in
Speaker 1: my bed.
Speaker 2: No stop it there was, that's all.
Speaker 1: Doesn't say that. Yeah, we don't like either one of
Speaker 1: those two.
Speaker 2: Would you rather travel the world for free for a
Speaker 2: year or have fifty thousand dollars to spend however you please?
Speaker 2: They need to add a comma in there. I mean,
Speaker 2: that's not enough money, don't. It's not a comma. It's
Speaker 2: some more zeros, That's what I mean. At a kamma,
Speaker 2: you need a couple more zeros.
Speaker 1: Now, I would travel you and I both love to travel.
Speaker 1: Travel the year, and I would travel free for a year,
Speaker 1: and it wouldn't have to be at five star restaurants
Speaker 1: and five star hotel.
Speaker 2: Well, because of you and the five stars, I need
Speaker 2: the five star restaurants. I like food. Kathy, tell me
Speaker 2: did your mom not cook or like? What was it
Speaker 2: that she Kathy eats to live? Susan lives to eat?
Speaker 2: I love God. Maybe because my dad was a butcher.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I had the best meats and Italians
Speaker 2: and then we cook good. I'm just saying, all right,
Speaker 2: it's I.
Speaker 1: Like it, even food.
Speaker 2: But like if I give you something great, you'll go,
Speaker 2: that's very good. Anything's very good. I'm going to give
Speaker 2: you a rather question because I already know the answer. Okay, good,
Speaker 2: and then you'll know what my answer is.
Speaker 1: Okay, would you rather walk five miles or eat a
Speaker 1: spaghetti dinner?
Speaker 2: I'd have to walk the five miles and I can
Speaker 2: enjoy this.
Speaker 1: Susan, you can't walk five miles. Let's be honest here,
Speaker 1: who can't? You can't?
Speaker 2: I challenge you, girlfriend, I can walk five miles just
Speaker 2: down when I was in Elston, I know only a mile,
Speaker 2: but you were press. What did you say?
Speaker 1: I was impressed. It was a mile.
Speaker 2: I'm a walker. I can walk. I can't run. I
Speaker 2: cannot run. But I'll walk five miles with you any day.
Speaker 1: I would. I'm telling you I would rather go for
Speaker 1: a hike, bike, ride, kayak walk than just about anything else.
Speaker 2: I love to walk.
Speaker 1: No, you love to eat. I do.
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean the next timeber to.
Speaker 1: Gather Susan, I'm getting your sneakers. We're going to do.
Speaker 1: We're gonna put it up on Instagram. You're going to
Speaker 1: walk five miles and I'm going to be picking you
Speaker 1: up off the pavement.
Speaker 2: You're really not. If you're wrong, I challenge you to.
Speaker 1: That you're wrong. You heard it, y'all heard it. Okay,
Speaker 1: you heard it.
Speaker 2: I'll track it all right.
Speaker 1: Would you rather be able to speak any language or
Speaker 1: be able to communicate with animals?
Speaker 2: I would rather speak any language, many languages. I do
Speaker 2: communicate with my animals, my cat. My cats are like dogs. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's creepy, but okay, I mean to them like that.
Speaker 1: Try head out of it. Oh no, I would love
Speaker 1: so true story I have studied. Let me count them.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure, guys, she's going to brag. She speaks
Speaker 2: a lot of No, I don't.
Speaker 1: That's where I was going. I'm pretty good at English.
Speaker 1: I took five years of French. I've taken I don't know,
Speaker 1: four or five years of Spanish, two years of German.
Speaker 1: I pretty much can ask for a bathroom.
Speaker 2: And when we were in Saint Martin, you were starting
Speaker 2: the little French thing. The Nancy chimed in with hers.
Speaker 2: It was kind of cute.
Speaker 1: As I know, is that you know the one you know,
Speaker 1: the first one? You know, the first one I learned.
Speaker 1: You know what that means? Do you want to go
Speaker 1: to bed with me?
Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, okay, well, let's not share that one. Would
Speaker 2: you rather be the funniest person in the room or
Speaker 2: the smartest person? Oh, Kathy, you got both of.
Speaker 1: Those, But if you had to choose one, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I like being funny.
Speaker 1: I like being funny.
Speaker 2: I like would you rather go back to the past
Speaker 2: and meet your loved ones who passed away or go
Speaker 2: to the future to meet your children or grandchildren? To
Speaker 2: be definitely the latter.
Speaker 1: Oh see, I'd rather go back and see my loved one.
Speaker 2: Oh, I want to see the future ones that I
Speaker 2: didn't get to meet, Well you will.
Speaker 1: You'll be looking down to see angel flying Angel Susan
Speaker 1: Here she comes. Well.
Speaker 2: I hope you guys enjoyed us again today because we
Speaker 2: love doing this and we'll be back every week to
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