WEBVTT - Let’s Get Real

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us. We're so happy to be here. We're back today.

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<v Speaker 1>We are so lucky. We got more fan questions. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's some really good ones here. And if you really

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<v Speaker 1>your questions. We always have an opinion and we're always

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<v Speaker 1>willing to share it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, please do. But first, let's get started with today's

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<v Speaker 2>question of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, read it out, go for it.

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<v Speaker 2>How has your definition of true love changed over the years.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, Susan, true love has not changed over the years.

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<v Speaker 1>The definition of true life is just that it's loving

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<v Speaker 1>something completely holy, working hard, wanting to spend that time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just looks different how you express the

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<v Speaker 1>true love, how you express it, how you express true love?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when you're when when we were young and first married,

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<v Speaker 1>true love might mean letting our husbands sleep in on

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<v Speaker 1>a Saturday morning so that and we get up to

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<v Speaker 1>the kids and be quiet, or or you know, doing

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<v Speaker 1>the yard work. If it was typically our husband's something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Where now for me, true love with the

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<v Speaker 1>person I hope to find is going to be It's

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<v Speaker 1>always about communication, but it's going to be about I

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<v Speaker 1>think the way I show true love. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm saying, the way I show you? What about you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I took the words right out of my mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to believe the butterflies and the excitement of

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<v Speaker 2>he walks through the room, and no matter how long

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<v Speaker 2>you've been together, you would still get excited thinking that

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<v Speaker 2>was true love. You need your best friend, somebody that

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<v Speaker 2>you can share everything with, good or bad, happy or sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, And I think that true love. We talked about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about it with Trista. True love takes a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work, takes it all does, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that. I think we would be lucky at

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<v Speaker 1>our age to have a chance to find it and

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<v Speaker 1>have the chance to show true love and receive true love.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready too. Are you ready to answer some fan questions?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like me to go first? You want to

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<v Speaker 2>read it?

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<v Speaker 1>Knock yourself out all right?

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<v Speaker 2>Question number one is from Leslie from New York, and

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<v Speaker 2>she says, last month, I had a great first date

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<v Speaker 2>with a guy that I met on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 2>We had originally planned to just meet for coffee, but

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<v Speaker 2>then we ended up talking and hanging out for almost

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<v Speaker 2>five hours. That's a good date. We both were laughing

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<v Speaker 2>and saying that this was the best first date either

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<v Speaker 2>of us have ever had. I like it so far.

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<v Speaker 2>When we left, we had already made tentative plans to

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<v Speaker 2>meet up again the following week. Then nothing. Ooh, he

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<v Speaker 2>completely ghosted me and never picked up the phone or

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<v Speaker 2>answered any of my texts. He just texted me trying

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<v Speaker 2>to make plans to see each other again. Should I

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<v Speaker 2>give this guy another chance after he ghosted me for

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<v Speaker 2>an entire month? Hell? No, really a month, Kathy, he's

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<v Speaker 2>gone invisible? Oh well no?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I can't even believe that, Susan. I really thought

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<v Speaker 1>you and I were going to be on the same

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<v Speaker 1>page on this one. I absolutely would meet him.

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<v Speaker 2>Why really, so he can leave you hanging for another month?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's what do we talk about? Always? Communication? I

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<v Speaker 1>would sit down. Let's just call day Leslie. Let's call

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<v Speaker 1>him Joe. Leslie and Joe sit down after not seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a month. If I were Leslie, I'd come dressed for

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<v Speaker 1>the nines. I see your no no, no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I would say to him, very calmly, talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me, tell me why I haven't heard from you

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<v Speaker 1>for a month. Why did you gost me? I would

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<v Speaker 1>wait and see. Who knows, maybe there was a death

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<v Speaker 1>in the family, Maybe there was he got fired from

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<v Speaker 1>his job, you know, maybe there were circumstances. I would

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<v Speaker 1>give the guy a chance to explain himself. And if

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<v Speaker 1>he said, you know, something like, well, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was with Julie and I had to make sure it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't going to work out with her. Lady's a cheater

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm out.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I don't have a month to I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>I would have. I would probably ask during that text,

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<v Speaker 2>do you have an explanation as to why do you want?

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<v Speaker 1>The answer over text?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care how I get it, but you better

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<v Speaker 2>give me some reason to want to come and meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>If I sit for thirty days, I'm gonna be upset

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<v Speaker 2>for the first week, maybe ten days. After thirty You're lost.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, not me. I want to look the guy

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<v Speaker 1>in the eye, because you know what looking a man

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<v Speaker 1>in the I agree with that part. That's why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not texting this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>They only had one meeting and they had a fabulous time.

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<v Speaker 1>So something happened, did it? Something happened he was either hot,

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<v Speaker 1>in bed with Julie, somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Else or Okay, okay, So then go back to why

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<v Speaker 2>is he just sending her a text to meet again?

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<v Speaker 2>Call me, come over, send flowers, show me something.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, remember we're talking about young people here who meet

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<v Speaker 1>on dating apps and.

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<v Speaker 2>A dating app, but doesn't mean they're young. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 2>go back. We're not assuming things.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I am saying I think he could have called,

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<v Speaker 1>he went out of her number. We don't know any

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<v Speaker 1>of that. We don't know what Leslie's thinking or doing.

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<v Speaker 1>We only know what this question says. I am telling

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<v Speaker 1>you short and simply, I would meet up with him,

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<v Speaker 1>look in the eyes, and see what he has to say,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'd make my decision. And I'd also stick

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<v Speaker 1>him with a bill.

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<v Speaker 2>So I probably have already done this, and maybe that's

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<v Speaker 2>why I'm speaking this way, because I will never do

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<v Speaker 2>it again. That's not worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned my lasson. All right, let's move on. Cecilia

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<v Speaker 1>from California rights. My husband and I have been together

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<v Speaker 1>for ten years, married for five. Recently, we hosted a

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<v Speaker 1>party and a bunch of his buddies from college came.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boy. After hours of drinking, we all started swapping stories.

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<v Speaker 1>I found out that on spring break of his freshman year,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband and his roommate paid for a prostitute. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>they paid for a prostitute and both quote partook in

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<v Speaker 1>the festivities. Though this was years before we had started dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I am totally grossed out and disturbed by the information.

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<v Speaker 1>I get why my husband never told me, But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>having a hard time getting past this. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any suggestions?

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<v Speaker 2>And how would you feel what's happened in the past

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<v Speaker 2>is in the past. He didn't even know her then.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a guide. Not that it's okay, but guys

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<v Speaker 2>do that. No, you should.

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<v Speaker 1>Women don't.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not talking about women here.

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<v Speaker 1>You just said guys do that. Let's tale.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that happens. I wow, you might be disappointed

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<v Speaker 2>or something like, babe, you really did that. But he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even know her then, and it was ten years

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<v Speaker 2>ago and he was a freshman in college. He wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>thinking with all the mL was your name again, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it was Celia.

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<v Speaker 1>Let it go, Let it go.

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<v Speaker 2>You're pretty battle three battles exactly how what I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would feel oo in the moment, but

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<v Speaker 1>ten years ago. I don't know if you have kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you have a family. But you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'd be more worried, Cecilia, if he'd been

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<v Speaker 1>with a prostitute since you've been with him.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a whole different ball. You're just saying it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, Cecilia, if you have a good marriage, thank

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<v Speaker 1>your lucky stars for it. Go give him a kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>tell them to buy a bouquet of flowers, and move on.

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<v Speaker 2>I let it go, babe, Let it go. Don't sweat

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<v Speaker 2>the small stuff. But thank you for writing in. And

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<v Speaker 2>if you have anything else to say, we're here to listen.

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<v Speaker 1>And we hope you're happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. Question number three Okay, Anonymous from Missouri said this,

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<v Speaker 2>Kathy and Susan, I could really use some advice. My

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<v Speaker 2>mother is my best friend. We have always been, especially

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<v Speaker 2>in the last few years since my dad passed away.

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<v Speaker 2>We even moved her into a new, larger home so

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<v Speaker 2>that she could live with us all Recently, she met

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<v Speaker 2>a man at church and has gone out on a

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<v Speaker 2>few dinners. She seems happy and to like him. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm having a really hard time with this. I worry

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<v Speaker 2>sometime he will take advantage of her or hurt her.

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<v Speaker 2>She is very naive in many ways. She and my

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<v Speaker 2>dad married when she was just eighteen, and she hadn't

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<v Speaker 2>even pumped her own guess until he passed. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to support her and let her do what she wants,

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<v Speaker 2>but I am struggling. I worry someone will take advantage

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<v Speaker 2>of her or hurt her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can I take this one? Mm hmm, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>think so. When my husband passed away, my daughter really

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<v Speaker 1>struggled with the idea of me day. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>this young lady from Missouri is probably dealing with a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of that. It's just hard to see your

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<v Speaker 1>mom with someone that's not your dad, so I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of what's going on. I think you are

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<v Speaker 1>so sweet to consider your mom and having her safe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, come on, you bought a house so she

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<v Speaker 1>could live with you. You are a lovely young lady.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do think again, from my standpoint, being alone

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<v Speaker 1>and my husband passing away. Your mom is probably lonely.

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<v Speaker 2>Even though she lives with them and loves it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let her, Yeah, well, let let her. If she met

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<v Speaker 1>the guy at church and she's been on a few

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<v Speaker 1>dinners with him, it's okay. It's okay, and it's and

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, it's okay for you to struggle. It

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<v Speaker 1>is hard. It is hard to accept that your mom

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<v Speaker 1>could move on and bring someone else into her life.

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't mean in any way that she will

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<v Speaker 1>ever forget your dad. So if that's what's going through

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<v Speaker 1>your mind, I hope it isn't because nobody will ever

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<v Speaker 1>replace your dad.

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<v Speaker 2>And also I get that you love your mom and

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<v Speaker 2>you want to protect her. Once again, communication tell her

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<v Speaker 2>you're a little concerned. Mom, Just keep your eyes open.

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<v Speaker 2>And but it is okay because look at us, look

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<v Speaker 2>at our age and Kathy's or whatever. I'm divorced. We're

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<v Speaker 2>gone to go and find and meet people and date

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<v Speaker 2>and hopefully build a relationship with someone. You don't want

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<v Speaker 2>her to be alone until she passes. Right, even though

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<v Speaker 2>her life is fulfilled living with you and your family,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a wonderful, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not totally fulfilled. That's the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>She likes someone else, I think let her go a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Okay, but wait, can I ask you one thing? Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>have you not pumped your own guess since you were

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<v Speaker 1>twenty something?

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<v Speaker 2>She must live in Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know. I want to. I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to let well that she lives in Missouri. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I might move to Missouri if I don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>pump my own gas anymore. I didn't even know that

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<v Speaker 1>was a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know? When I was first married, he would

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<v Speaker 2>wash the car every weekend. I still do it to

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<v Speaker 2>this day. Every Friday, I clean my car. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>a ritual. But he used to do those things for me,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was so sweet. Fill up the car. My

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<v Speaker 2>dad did it for my mother. Really, he'd fill her

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<v Speaker 2>car up with the gas every weekend and wash the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, when we were talking earlier about true love, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I mean, the things that they do for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that shows.

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<v Speaker 2>That gets me into what's your love language? There's so

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<v Speaker 2>many love languages. Some people like to do things for others.

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<v Speaker 2>That's their way of showing love. And one of the

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<v Speaker 2>things that I thought about recently was, I know what

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<v Speaker 2>my love language is. But to be able to see

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<v Speaker 2>what his love language is, I just assume affection and

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<v Speaker 2>touch and I want to feel love. But I assumed

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<v Speaker 2>everybody felt like I did until I read about the

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<v Speaker 2>five languages of love, and some of them are very

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<v Speaker 2>similar to the others. But some people like gifts. Some

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<v Speaker 2>people like giving gifts, you know, So there we go.

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<v Speaker 2>He liked to do things for her, and I never

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<v Speaker 2>pump gas.

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<v Speaker 1>I want the gift of something pumping gas for I

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<v Speaker 1>just decided my new traits for finding a partner pump

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<v Speaker 1>my gas.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh please. But I just love receiving all these questions,

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<v Speaker 2>and it gives us something to talk about and think

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<v Speaker 2>about in our own lives. And I hope all of

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<v Speaker 2>you out there that hear these stories are questions that

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about you can relate to your life in

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<v Speaker 2>some way. One more question we have, Go ahead, Kathy.

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<v Speaker 1>Jacqueline says, Hi, I just turned thirty one, and for

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<v Speaker 1>various reasons and just always focusing more on myself, I

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<v Speaker 1>have never been in a relationship at this age. It's

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<v Speaker 1>understandably coming off as a big red flag on dates

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<v Speaker 1>when I meet someone and I'm wondering what your advice

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<v Speaker 1>is to start that conversation with someone so that they

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<v Speaker 1>would give me a chance.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think is, well, it gave me something

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<v Speaker 2>to think about. Actually, So number one, why haven't you

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<v Speaker 2>been in any relationships? Is it because you were studying

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<v Speaker 2>or you're focusing on your career or were you just

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<v Speaker 2>plumb not interested? And what makes you interested now? Is

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<v Speaker 2>my first part of that question. You should focus on

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<v Speaker 2>yourself because a better you is a better second half

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship, the other half in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, I agree with I think that there's been

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pressure put on young, younger people today

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<v Speaker 1>to get in relationships and get married. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>our kids, we've talked about this. Our kids have focused

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<v Speaker 1>on their lives. My daughter didn't get married till she

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<v Speaker 1>was thirty four, she met her husband. When she knows

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong, that's my point. So I think it's of

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<v Speaker 1>concern that she believes that there's something wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>But how did she write it? Again? She said that

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<v Speaker 2>they're questioning it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's asking how does she make it come across

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<v Speaker 1>that she's not that there'sn't some reason that she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been in a relationship. Because I was focused.

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<v Speaker 2>On my career and I want to be one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think many people today are meeting I would

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<v Speaker 1>I to me, it's a non issue. You just go

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<v Speaker 1>into it if you're interested in.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel like it's a problem. Well she does, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>she does.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would say, go into the dinner of the

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<v Speaker 1>date whatever, talk about who you are, talk about your

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<v Speaker 1>goals in life, talk about your job.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't lead off with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking about my wealth.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never been in a relationship, but I'm thirty one.

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<v Speaker 1>Red flag, Yeah, don't lead off that. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>the red flag is more in your mind than it

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<v Speaker 1>will be in.

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<v Speaker 2>The ends too. I do too, unless you're dating the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong guy, and.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of those out there.

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<v Speaker 2>There are a lot of those out there. But I

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<v Speaker 2>wish you a lot of luck. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>there's nothing wrong with waiting till then, And I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>you did you first, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep doing you, keep doing you. You'll find the right

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<v Speaker 1>guy when it's time, and you don't have to worry

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<v Speaker 1>about red flags. If it's the right guy, you'll know

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<v Speaker 1>it absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for writing in, and if you do have a

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Susan, we've answered other people's questions. Now it's time

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<v Speaker 1>for us to play a game. Today's game is called

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<v Speaker 1>would you rather? I'm going to read them and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're both going to pick out which one we'd rather do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>got it all right? Would you rather date a man

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<v Speaker 1>that is bald or a man with excessive back hair?

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<v Speaker 2>God, I would have to wax that in a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be gone.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a hairdresser, she could do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And a bald man doesn't bother me as long as

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<v Speaker 2>he shaves his whole head.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I actually have attracted a bald man.

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<v Speaker 2>I like both. I like no hair like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like just the round top and they try to grow

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<v Speaker 2>it on the side and has a comb over. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I dated a guy uh since my husband passed away,

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<v Speaker 1>who very handsome guy. UH. Will never date him again though,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's he's the guy that was never married. But

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<v Speaker 1>when I first met him the first few dates, he

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<v Speaker 1>wore a ball cap all the time, which to me

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<v Speaker 1>is a no.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so he didn't know because he's uncomfortable with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no, once we got to know each other, he

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<v Speaker 1>took it off. So I'm going with a bald guy. Okay, sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Now would you rather receive flowers or chocolate for Valentine's Day?

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<v Speaker 1>In today's world?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was both.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, here we go. Listen everybody out there. When

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<v Speaker 1>I asked these questions, Susan's first answer is both. Just

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, for me, I actually would rather receive flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm on my own. I buy flowers for myself occasionally,

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<v Speaker 1>although I've had to stop because my two geriatric cats

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<v Speaker 1>eat them and then throw up.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, the question was if you had a choice, now, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I would you rather definitely flowers?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, definitely? Okay, what about you?

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<v Speaker 2>I like it? Bet, I'm not a big chocolate person, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I can I have your chocolate? Yes? And then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get both?

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<v Speaker 2>You kids, would you rather have the ability to see

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<v Speaker 2>ten minutes into the future or one hundred and fifty

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<v Speaker 2>years into the future.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be really honest with you. You say both,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to know I didn't say both. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>this I'm going to say ten minutes because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. I don't It's the same thing I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk to psychics or mediums.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to know. One hundred and fifty years

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<v Speaker 2>will know what angel we're going to be down, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>coming down to protect like that would be kind of

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<v Speaker 2>cool too, But now I go ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, definitely, ten minutes. Ok Okay. Would you rather find

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<v Speaker 1>we need to pass this one. Nope, we're doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you rather find true love today or win the

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<v Speaker 1>lottery next year?

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<v Speaker 2>As much as I would love to hit the big

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<v Speaker 2>one on the lottery, I would like to be in love.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me? No? I don't believe you.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would I lie?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Susan?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Really yeah? Really me? You don't want to be

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<v Speaker 2>in law?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course I want to be in love. But if

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<v Speaker 1>I have enough money, I'll have love.

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<v Speaker 2>No stop it, you will lie. Wait, like I said, both,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a both.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a can I just paint the picture? Look at

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<v Speaker 1>the billboard up on the highway. So many zeros you

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<v Speaker 1>can't count them all.

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<v Speaker 2>But love is love? Really true love?

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<v Speaker 1>Though, I'll pick love, okay, okay. Would you rather have

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<v Speaker 1>another ten years with your partner that you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or I can't even answer that, or.

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<v Speaker 1>A one night stand with your with your celebrity pass.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll pass on my question.

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<v Speaker 1>Move on, all right? Would you rather wear the same

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<v Speaker 1>socks for a month? I know we're passing this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, or the same underwear? I'll go command though, Babe,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not wearing the same underwear for a week. Why

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<v Speaker 2>would you even? Why where'd that come from?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't make it up.

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<v Speaker 1>I have known people though that, are you ready? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>Take their underwear and wear it and then turn it

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<v Speaker 1>inside out.

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<v Speaker 2>So, for goodness sake, call me. I'll buy you another pair.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, is it because you don't have enough? Why

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<v Speaker 2>would somebody? I mean wear the same socks for a month?

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<v Speaker 2>I hardly wear socks, so I'll take that one. I

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<v Speaker 2>just won't wear them. God. Would you rather have a

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<v Speaker 2>pause or a rewind button in your life?

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<v Speaker 1>For me? That's easy? What is it you heard? Trista?

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<v Speaker 1>She said she everything has brought her to where she

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<v Speaker 1>is today for a reason, for a reason. But in

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<v Speaker 1>my life I would rewind because I would do some

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<v Speaker 1>things differently in my marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I would pause and give me time to think

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<v Speaker 2>about things before I make the wrong decisions. I've made

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<v Speaker 2>some decisions that I wish I didn't. So yes, it

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<v Speaker 2>could be answered like you're saying, redo, But that's like

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<v Speaker 2>she said, that's why we are where we are and

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<v Speaker 2>who we are today because of the life's decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't want to rewind all my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I say that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Well, if we're imagining, let's imagine how we

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<v Speaker 1>want it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, here's a good one, Kathy, all right. Would you

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<v Speaker 2>rather walk in on your adult children or have them

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<v Speaker 2>walk in on you? No brainer?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh for me, I'd have them much have prefer them

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<v Speaker 1>to walk in on me because there's no one in

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<v Speaker 1>my bed.

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<v Speaker 2>No stop it there was, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't say that. Yeah, we don't like either one of

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<v Speaker 1>those two.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you rather travel the world for free for a

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<v Speaker 2>year or have fifty thousand dollars to spend however you please?

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<v Speaker 2>They need to add a comma in there. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not enough money, don't. It's not a comma. It's

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<v Speaker 2>some more zeros, That's what I mean. At a kamma,

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<v Speaker 2>you need a couple more zeros.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I would travel you and I both love to travel.

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<v Speaker 1>Travel the year, and I would travel free for a year,

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<v Speaker 1>and it wouldn't have to be at five star restaurants

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<v Speaker 1>and five star hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because of you and the five stars, I need

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<v Speaker 2>the five star restaurants. I like food. Kathy, tell me

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<v Speaker 2>did your mom not cook or like? What was it

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<v Speaker 2>that she Kathy eats to live? Susan lives to eat?

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<v Speaker 2>I love God. Maybe because my dad was a butcher.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I had the best meats and Italians

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<v Speaker 2>and then we cook good. I'm just saying, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's I.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it, even food.

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<v Speaker 2>But like if I give you something great, you'll go,

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<v Speaker 2>that's very good. Anything's very good. I'm going to give

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<v Speaker 2>you a rather question because I already know the answer. Okay, good,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you'll know what my answer is.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, would you rather walk five miles or eat a

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<v Speaker 1>spaghetti dinner?

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<v Speaker 2>I'd have to walk the five miles and I can

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy this.

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<v Speaker 1>Susan, you can't walk five miles. Let's be honest here,

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<v Speaker 1>who can't? You can't?

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<v Speaker 2>I challenge you, girlfriend, I can walk five miles just

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<v Speaker 2>down when I was in Elston, I know only a mile,

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<v Speaker 2>but you were press. What did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I was impressed. It was a mile.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a walker. I can walk. I can't run. I

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<v Speaker 2>cannot run. But I'll walk five miles with you any day.

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<v Speaker 1>I would. I'm telling you I would rather go for

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<v Speaker 1>a hike, bike, ride, kayak walk than just about anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to walk.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you love to eat. I do.

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't mean the next timeber to.

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<v Speaker 1>Gather Susan, I'm getting your sneakers. We're going to do.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna put it up on Instagram. You're going to

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<v Speaker 1>walk five miles and I'm going to be picking you

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<v Speaker 1>up off the pavement.

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<v Speaker 2>You're really not. If you're wrong, I challenge you to.

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<v Speaker 1>That you're wrong. You heard it, y'all heard it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you heard it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll track it all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you rather be able to speak any language or

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<v Speaker 1>be able to communicate with animals?

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<v Speaker 2>I would rather speak any language, many languages. I do

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<v Speaker 2>communicate with my animals, my cat. My cats are like dogs. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's creepy, but okay, I mean to them like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Try head out of it. Oh no, I would love

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<v Speaker 1>so true story I have studied. Let me count them.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure, guys, she's going to brag. She speaks

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where I was going. I'm pretty good at English.

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<v Speaker 1>I took five years of French. I've taken I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>four or five years of Spanish, two years of German.

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<v Speaker 1>I pretty much can ask for a bathroom.

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<v Speaker 2>And when we were in Saint Martin, you were starting

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<v Speaker 2>the little French thing. The Nancy chimed in with hers.

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<v Speaker 2>It was kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>As I know, is that you know the one you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the first one? You know, the first one I learned.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what that means? Do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to bed with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Jesus, okay, well, let's not share that one. Would

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<v Speaker 2>you rather be the funniest person in the room or

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<v Speaker 2>the smartest person? Oh, Kathy, you got both of.

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<v Speaker 1>Those, But if you had to choose one, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I like being funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I like being funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I like would you rather go back to the past

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<v Speaker 2>and meet your loved ones who passed away or go

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<v Speaker 2>to the future to meet your children or grandchildren? To

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<v Speaker 2>be definitely the latter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh see, I'd rather go back and see my loved one.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I want to see the future ones that I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't get to meet, Well you will.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be looking down to see angel flying Angel Susan

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<v Speaker 1>Here she comes. Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you guys enjoyed us again today because we

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<v Speaker 2>love doing this and we'll be back every week to

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Susan, Yes, I'm not aboff begging. If you know

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<v Speaker 1>any good looking single guys who might be interested in

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<v Speaker 1>dating Susan or may please send them our way, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to pick the best one for myself and

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<v Speaker 1>the second best one for Susan.

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