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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. We're so happy to be here. We're back today.

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Speaker 1: We are so lucky. We got more fan questions. Oh,

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Speaker 1: there's some really good ones here. And if you really

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Speaker 1: want an answer from us, please, if you have a

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Speaker 1: question for Susan and me, send them in. Go to

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Speaker 1: bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour. Please send us in

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Speaker 1: your questions. We always have an opinion and we're always

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Speaker 1: willing to share it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, please do. But first, let's get started with today's

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Speaker 2: question of the day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, read it out, go for it.

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Speaker 2: How has your definition of true love changed over the years.

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Speaker 1: For me, Susan, true love has not changed over the years.

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Speaker 1: The definition of true life is just that it's loving

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Speaker 1: something completely holy, working hard, wanting to spend that time.

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Speaker 1: I think it just looks different how you express the

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Speaker 1: true love, how you express it, how you express true love?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?

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Speaker 1: Well, when you're when when we were young and first married,

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Speaker 1: true love might mean letting our husbands sleep in on

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Speaker 1: a Saturday morning so that and we get up to

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Speaker 1: the kids and be quiet, or or you know, doing

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Speaker 1: the yard work. If it was typically our husband's something

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Speaker 1: like that. Where now for me, true love with the

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Speaker 1: person I hope to find is going to be It's

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Speaker 1: always about communication, but it's going to be about I

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Speaker 1: think the way I show true love. That's what I

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Speaker 1: guess I'm saying, the way I show you? What about you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I took the words right out of my mouth.

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Speaker 2: I used to believe the butterflies and the excitement of

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Speaker 2: he walks through the room, and no matter how long

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Speaker 2: you've been together, you would still get excited thinking that

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Speaker 2: was true love. You need your best friend, somebody that

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Speaker 2: you can share everything with, good or bad, happy or sad.

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Speaker 1: Right, And I think that true love. We talked about it.

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Speaker 1: We talked about it with Trista. True love takes a

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Speaker 1: lot of work, takes it all does, and so I

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Speaker 1: don't think that. I think we would be lucky at

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Speaker 1: our age to have a chance to find it and

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Speaker 1: have the chance to show true love and receive true love.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready too. Are you ready to answer some fan questions?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: I guess so.

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Speaker 2: Would you like me to go first? You want to

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Speaker 2: read it?

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Speaker 1: Knock yourself out all right?

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Speaker 2: Question number one is from Leslie from New York, and

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Speaker 2: she says, last month, I had a great first date

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Speaker 2: with a guy that I met on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: We had originally planned to just meet for coffee, but

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Speaker 2: then we ended up talking and hanging out for almost

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Speaker 2: five hours. That's a good date. We both were laughing

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Speaker 2: and saying that this was the best first date either

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Speaker 2: of us have ever had. I like it so far.

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Speaker 2: When we left, we had already made tentative plans to

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Speaker 2: meet up again the following week. Then nothing. Ooh, he

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Speaker 2: completely ghosted me and never picked up the phone or

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Speaker 2: answered any of my texts. He just texted me trying

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Speaker 2: to make plans to see each other again. Should I

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Speaker 2: give this guy another chance after he ghosted me for

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Speaker 2: an entire month? Hell? No, really a month, Kathy, he's

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Speaker 2: gone invisible? Oh well no?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I can't even believe that, Susan. I really thought

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Speaker 1: you and I were going to be on the same

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Speaker 1: page on this one. I absolutely would meet him.

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Speaker 2: Why really, so he can leave you hanging for another month?

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Speaker 1: No, it's what do we talk about? Always? Communication? I

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Speaker 1: would sit down. Let's just call day Leslie. Let's call

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Speaker 1: him Joe. Leslie and Joe sit down after not seeing

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Speaker 1: and then I would say to him, very calmly, talk

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Speaker 1: for a month. Why did you gost me? I would

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Speaker 1: wait and see. Who knows, maybe there was a death

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Speaker 1: wasn't going to work out with her. Lady's a cheater

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Speaker 1: and I'm out.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't have a month to I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: I would have. I would probably ask during that text,

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Speaker 2: do you have an explanation as to why do you want?

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Speaker 1: The answer over text?

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Speaker 2: I don't care how I get it, but you better

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Speaker 2: give me some reason to want to come and meet you.

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Speaker 2: If I sit for thirty days, I'm gonna be upset

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Speaker 2: for the first week, maybe ten days. After thirty You're lost.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, not me. I want to look the guy

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Speaker 1: in the eye, because you know what looking a man

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Speaker 1: in the I agree with that part. That's why I'm

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Speaker 1: not texting this guy.

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Speaker 2: They only had one meeting and they had a fabulous time.

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Speaker 1: So something happened, did it? Something happened he was either hot,

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Speaker 1: in bed with Julie, somebody.

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Speaker 2: Else or Okay, okay, So then go back to why

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Speaker 2: is he just sending her a text to meet again?

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Speaker 2: Call me, come over, send flowers, show me something.

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Speaker 1: Well, remember we're talking about young people here who meet

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Speaker 1: on dating apps and.

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Speaker 2: A dating app, but doesn't mean they're young. Okay, let's

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Speaker 2: go back. We're not assuming things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I am saying I think he could have called,

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Speaker 1: he went out of her number. We don't know any

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Speaker 1: of that. We don't know what Leslie's thinking or doing.

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Speaker 1: We only know what this question says. I am telling

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Speaker 1: you short and simply, I would meet up with him,

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Speaker 1: look in the eyes, and see what he has to say,

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Speaker 1: and then I'd make my decision. And I'd also stick

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Speaker 2: So I probably have already done this, and maybe that's

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Speaker 2: why I'm speaking this way, because I will never do

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Speaker 2: it again. That's not worth it.

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Speaker 1: I've learned my lasson. All right, let's move on. Cecilia

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Speaker 1: from California rights. My husband and I have been together

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Speaker 1: for ten years, married for five. Recently, we hosted a

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Speaker 1: party and a bunch of his buddies from college came.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy. After hours of drinking, we all started swapping stories.

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Speaker 1: I found out that on spring break of his freshman year,

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Speaker 1: my husband and his roommate paid for a prostitute. Oh

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Speaker 1: they paid for a prostitute and both quote partook in

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Speaker 1: the festivities. Though this was years before we had started dating.

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Speaker 1: I am totally grossed out and disturbed by the information.

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Speaker 1: having a hard time getting past this. Do you have

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Speaker 2: And how would you feel what's happened in the past

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Speaker 2: is in the past. He didn't even know her then.

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Speaker 2: He was a guide. Not that it's okay, but guys

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Speaker 2: do that. No, you should.

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Speaker 1: Women don't.

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Speaker 2: We're not talking about women here.

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Speaker 1: You just said guys do that. Let's tale.

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Speaker 2: I mean that happens. I wow, you might be disappointed

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Speaker 2: or something like, babe, you really did that. But he

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Speaker 2: didn't even know her then, and it was ten years

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Speaker 2: ago and he was a freshman in college. He wasn't

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Speaker 2: thinking with all the mL was your name again, I

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Speaker 2: think it was Celia.

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Speaker 1: Let it go, Let it go.

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Speaker 2: You're pretty battle three battles exactly how what I feel.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would feel oo in the moment, but

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Speaker 1: ten years ago. I don't know if you have kids.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you have a family. But you

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Speaker 1: know what, I'd be more worried, Cecilia, if he'd been

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Speaker 2: So that's a whole different ball. You're just saying it's over.

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Speaker 1: I think, Cecilia, if you have a good marriage, thank

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Speaker 1: your lucky stars for it. Go give him a kiss,

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Speaker 1: tell them to buy a bouquet of flowers, and move on.

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Speaker 2: I let it go, babe, Let it go. Don't sweat

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Speaker 2: the small stuff. But thank you for writing in. And

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Speaker 2: if you have anything else to say, we're here to listen.

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Speaker 1: And we hope you're happy.

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Speaker 2: I know. Question number three Okay, Anonymous from Missouri said this,

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Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan, I could really use some advice. My

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Speaker 2: We even moved her into a new, larger home so

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Speaker 2: She is very naive in many ways. She and my

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Speaker 1: Okay, can I take this one? Mm hmm, okay, I

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Speaker 1: think so. When my husband passed away, my daughter really

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Speaker 1: But I do think again, from my standpoint, being alone

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Speaker 2: Even though she lives with them and loves it.

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Speaker 1: Let her, Yeah, well, let let her. If she met

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Speaker 1: by the way, it's okay for you to struggle. It

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Speaker 1: is hard. It is hard to accept that your mom

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean in any way that she will

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Speaker 2: And also I get that you love your mom and

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Speaker 2: And but it is okay because look at us, look

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Speaker 2: at our age and Kathy's or whatever. I'm divorced. We're

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Speaker 2: gone to go and find and meet people and date

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Speaker 2: and hopefully build a relationship with someone. You don't want

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Speaker 2: her to be alone until she passes. Right, even though

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Speaker 2: her life is fulfilled living with you and your family,

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Speaker 2: that's a wonderful, it's.

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Speaker 1: Not totally fulfilled. That's the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: She likes someone else, I think let her go a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Okay, but wait, can I ask you one thing? Sure,

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Speaker 1: have you not pumped your own guess since you were

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Speaker 2: She must live in Jersey.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I want to. I

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Speaker 1: I might move to Missouri if I don't have to

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Speaker 2: Oh please. But I just love receiving all these questions,

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Speaker 1: Keep doing you, keep doing you. You'll find the right

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Speaker 1: Okay, Susan, we've answered other people's questions. Now it's time

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Speaker 1: would you rather? I'm going to read them and then

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Speaker 1: got it all right? Would you rather date a man

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Speaker 2: Now would you rather receive flowers or chocolate for Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? No? I don't believe you.

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Speaker 2: Why would I lie?

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Speaker 1: I have known people though that, are you ready? Huh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I would pause and give me time to think

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to rewind all my life.

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Speaker 2: Oh, here's a good one, Kathy, all right. Would you

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Speaker 2: No stop it there was, that's all.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't say that. Yeah, we don't like either one of

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Speaker 2: Would you rather travel the world for free for a

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Speaker 1: Now, I would travel you and I both love to travel.

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Speaker 1: Travel the year, and I would travel free for a year,

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Speaker 1: and it wouldn't have to be at five star restaurants

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Speaker 2: Well, because of you and the five stars, I need

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Speaker 2: the five star restaurants. I like food. Kathy, tell me

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Speaker 2: I love God. Maybe because my dad was a butcher.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I had the best meats and Italians

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Speaker 2: and then we cook good. I'm just saying, all right,

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Speaker 2: it's I.

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Speaker 1: Like it, even food.

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Speaker 2: But like if I give you something great, you'll go,

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Speaker 2: that's very good. Anything's very good. I'm going to give

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Speaker 2: you a rather question because I already know the answer. Okay, good,

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Speaker 2: and then you'll know what my answer is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, would you rather walk five miles or eat a

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Speaker 1: spaghetti dinner?

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Speaker 2: I'd have to walk the five miles and I can

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Speaker 2: enjoy this.

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Speaker 1: Susan, you can't walk five miles. Let's be honest here,

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Speaker 1: who can't? You can't?

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Speaker 2: I challenge you, girlfriend, I can walk five miles just

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Speaker 2: down when I was in Elston, I know only a mile,

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Speaker 2: but you were press. What did you say?

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Speaker 1: I was impressed. It was a mile.

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Speaker 2: I'm a walker. I can walk. I can't run. I

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Speaker 2: cannot run. But I'll walk five miles with you any day.

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Speaker 1: I would. I'm telling you I would rather go for

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Speaker 1: a hike, bike, ride, kayak walk than just about anything else.

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Speaker 2: I love to walk.

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Speaker 1: No, you love to eat. I do.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't mean the next timeber to.

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Speaker 1: Gather Susan, I'm getting your sneakers. We're going to do.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna put it up on Instagram. You're going to

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Speaker 1: walk five miles and I'm going to be picking you

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Speaker 1: up off the pavement.

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Speaker 2: You're really not. If you're wrong, I challenge you to.

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Speaker 1: That you're wrong. You heard it, y'all heard it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you heard it.

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Speaker 2: I'll track it all right.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather be able to speak any language or

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Speaker 1: be able to communicate with animals?

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Speaker 2: I would rather speak any language, many languages. I do

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Speaker 2: communicate with my animals, my cat. My cats are like dogs. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's creepy, but okay, I mean to them like that.

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Speaker 1: Try head out of it. Oh no, I would love

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Speaker 1: so true story I have studied. Let me count them.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure, guys, she's going to brag. She speaks

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Speaker 2: a lot of No, I don't.

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Speaker 1: That's where I was going. I'm pretty good at English.

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Speaker 1: I took five years of French. I've taken I don't know,

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Speaker 1: four or five years of Spanish, two years of German.

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Speaker 1: I pretty much can ask for a bathroom.

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Speaker 2: And when we were in Saint Martin, you were starting

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Speaker 2: the little French thing. The Nancy chimed in with hers.

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Speaker 2: It was kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: As I know, is that you know the one you know,

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Speaker 1: the first one? You know, the first one I learned.

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Speaker 1: You know what that means? Do you want to go

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Speaker 1: to bed with me?

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Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, okay, well, let's not share that one. Would

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Speaker 2: you rather be the funniest person in the room or

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Speaker 2: the smartest person? Oh, Kathy, you got both of.

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Speaker 1: Those, But if you had to choose one, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I like being funny.

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Speaker 1: I like being funny.

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Speaker 2: I like would you rather go back to the past

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Speaker 2: and meet your loved ones who passed away or go

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Speaker 2: to the future to meet your children or grandchildren? To

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Speaker 2: be definitely the latter.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, I'd rather go back and see my loved one.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I want to see the future ones that I

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Speaker 2: didn't get to meet, Well you will.

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Speaker 1: You'll be looking down to see angel flying Angel Susan

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Speaker 1: Here she comes. Well.

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Speaker 2: I hope you guys enjoyed us again today because we

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Speaker 2: love doing this and we'll be back every week to

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Speaker 2: do it. And that's it for this episode. Thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for joining us today on Bachelor Happy Hours

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Speaker 2: Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Susan, Yes, I'm not aboff begging. If you know

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Speaker 1: any good looking single guys who might be interested in

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Speaker 1: dating Susan or may please send them our way, because

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Speaker 1: I'm going to pick the best one for myself and

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Speaker 1: the second best one for Susan.

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Speaker 2: Course she is of course she is DM me and

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