Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second Date Update. Since we started doing the
Speaker 1: second date updates, our email box has been so full
Speaker 1: of people wanting to know why they've been blown off
Speaker 1: after a first date. That's ridiculous. Um. Ashley is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us right now. She apparently met a
Speaker 1: guy on a dating website. His name is Nathan, right, Ashley? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you met this dude online and then you guys
Speaker 1: went out how to go? This was definitely one of
Speaker 1: the best dates I've ever had. What do you guys do?
Speaker 1: We just went for drinks and we instantly clipped and
Speaker 1: we were laughing the whole time. We've never had like those,
Speaker 1: you know positives. You sound very smitten with Nathan after
Speaker 1: one date, and it did feel that way. I've never
Speaker 1: had a date so so well, So how did the
Speaker 1: date end? And why hasn't it gotten back to you? Um?
Speaker 1: The kiss was great, To be honest, I totally would
Speaker 1: have liked to go back to his place. Did you
Speaker 1: let him know that? I kind of did, and he
Speaker 1: said he couldn't do that. What do you mean you
Speaker 1: kind of did? Like? How did you let him know?
Speaker 1: You said take me back to your place now I
Speaker 1: love you? Or oh? I did not do that. I
Speaker 1: think he was just trying to be like gentlemanly or
Speaker 1: romantic or whatever. Okay, actually, how long ago was this date?
Speaker 1: Two weeks ago? He didn't text me a few days
Speaker 1: after and say I'll call, But he didn't call, so
Speaker 1: I don't know if something happened, you know, like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's just it's confusing. You don't think that
Speaker 1: maybe you being up front about wanting to go home
Speaker 1: with him might have creeped him out, or he's just
Speaker 1: not that kind of dude. He didn't seem creeped out
Speaker 1: by it. If he texted, he probably can't be that
Speaker 1: creeped out, right, Like he would just not text at
Speaker 1: all unless he was scared. Yeah, he could be scared.
Speaker 1: He could just be nice because all text You know,
Speaker 1: I'm the past. I've texted girls when I haven't wanted
Speaker 1: anything to do with him. Um, all right, Ashley, we're
Speaker 1: gonna call him right after this and see if we
Speaker 1: can get an answer as to why he hasn't called
Speaker 1: you back. Okay, Okay, thank the worst pain, ioking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. Ashley emailed us after going out with Nathan.
Speaker 1: They had what she says was a great date. At
Speaker 1: the end of the night they made out, she offered
Speaker 1: herself to him. Is that a good way to say it? Ashley?
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's fine. She said that it was love
Speaker 1: at first sight. Possibly. Yeah, so she was really really
Speaker 1: into this dude. So we're gonna call and get him
Speaker 1: on the phone. You ready, Ashley? Yeah? I feel like
Speaker 1: you're going to be crushed by this answer. I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's dude love at first sight. She's got a lot
Speaker 1: invested in this one date. Hello. Hey, is this Nathan? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is Nathan. Here's this is Jewil from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jubil in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five.
Speaker 1: How you doing? Man um? Why are you calling me? Well?
Speaker 1: We have a mutual friend, a girl named Ashley. Do
Speaker 1: you know it? Ashley? Am I on the radio right now?
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to be on the radio.
Speaker 1: That's what's going on. You are, But before you just
Speaker 1: hear me out for a second. Okay, we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called Second Date Update. Ashley emailed us,
Speaker 1: wanting to know why you haven't gotten back to her
Speaker 1: after you guys went out and had what she thought
Speaker 1: was a great time. If she's wondering if I've had
Speaker 1: a nice time with her, then I absolutely did. She
Speaker 1: was fantastic. She was a really great girl, and I
Speaker 1: wanted to give her a call back. I just couldn't
Speaker 1: bring myself to do it. And why is that? She
Speaker 1: said that you texted her and said that you're gonna call,
Speaker 1: and they never called. The problem is that I couldn't
Speaker 1: in touch with her because I am married. Oh what? Oh? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And I thought she was really fantastic, and so I
Speaker 1: had to cut it off right there. You know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys met on a dating website. You're on a
Speaker 1: dating website and you're married. Yes? Are you like in
Speaker 1: the marriage or are you separated? Things have been going
Speaker 1: roughly for a while now, and I think that we're
Speaker 1: on the path to being separated. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: can't believe this. Nathan, Ashley's on the phone right now
Speaker 1: before she is, I can't believe this. You're married. That's like,
Speaker 1: my instincts are completely awesome. All the good ones are
Speaker 1: they're married or gay. So you got to marry one
Speaker 1: so horrible? Oh my god, I'll like to think about
Speaker 1: is his poor wife? Yeah? So what? Sorry? Have you
Speaker 1: gone out with women off this dating website before. I've
Speaker 1: kind of just started to test the waters a little
Speaker 1: bit because things are going really roughly. You know, there
Speaker 1: have been discussions about a separation, and I really did
Speaker 1: like Ashley, and I did not expect to ever kind
Speaker 1: of really hit it off that way with somebody. I
Speaker 1: just started to feel really guilty. I guess about doing that,
Speaker 1: you know, but you should feel guilty like you're messing
Speaker 1: with her, You're messing with me, Like I haven't been
Speaker 1: not excited about somebody for a really long time. And
Speaker 1: then I'm just sitting around wondering why you haven't called meanwhile,
Speaker 1: not knowing that you're married. Obviously, I'm not just gonna
Speaker 1: come out and tell you that I'm married. It's you
Speaker 1: shouldn't be out with me anyway. You know, it's easy
Speaker 1: to say that when you're not in a situation. You
Speaker 1: know that's okay, Hey, napin, how long have you been married?
Speaker 1: Three years? Too long? Apparently? Yeah, exactly do you know
Speaker 1: why your marriage isn't working? Probably because he's on dating side. Um, like, man,
Speaker 1: you obviously have some stuff you have to figure out.
Speaker 1: I mean, the crazy thing is that I'm sitting here,
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking, like, if Ashley wanted to have a
Speaker 1: second date, then huh, alright, so the show, the show
Speaker 1: will pay for you, guys to go on a second date. Uh,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and pay for you to cheat
Speaker 1: on your wife. U. We cannot pay for this date, dude,
Speaker 1: I'm serious. We cannot pay for this date. There's every
Speaker 1: moral fiber in me is screaming no right now. Part
Speaker 1: of our deal though, that's what we do if the
Speaker 1: West comes along triple day. We don't have the budget
Speaker 1: for that. Guys, don't worry. I'm not going on another
Speaker 1: date with him. Like, if you, for some reason you
Speaker 1: fake the things out way down the line and you
Speaker 1: guys are separated, then maybe you can call me and
Speaker 1: I'll think about it. But I'm not so when you
Speaker 1: leave her, you got my number, give me a call.
Speaker 1: It's not a good choice, Ashley, you got your answer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: good luck on the dating site. Thanks. Thanks, And I
Speaker 1: was talking to her man, not you, and she learned
Speaker 1: a partial