WEBVTT - WHAT’S JOHN McENROE REALLY LIKE?

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<v Speaker 1>John McEnroe. It seems everybody has wanted to meet him

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<v Speaker 1>and hang out, Keith Richards to Andy Warhol to Nelson

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<v Speaker 1>Mandela and many others. For me it's been great fun

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<v Speaker 1>to go from a fan of his about forty years

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<v Speaker 1>ago to a friend. We've shared the greatest offices in tennis,

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<v Speaker 1>Wimbledon's bunker, the Arthurs Stadium booth. I have learned from

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<v Speaker 1>him and been challenged by him. John's passion for tennis

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<v Speaker 1>and pride and still being a big part of it

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<v Speaker 1>with his work in TV and the John mcernow tennis

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<v Speaker 1>academy in New York. That always inspires me. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>we recorded this just before the U S Open, Serena

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<v Speaker 1>Swan Song and before Roger Federer's retirement, so my reaction

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<v Speaker 1>to those big events are posted on my instagram. But,

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<v Speaker 1>as you're about to hear, John is a man of

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<v Speaker 1>many layers and great depth. I get asked all the

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<v Speaker 1>time what's Mac and Roe really like? This will open

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<v Speaker 1>that window pretty wide. So here's Johnny Mac. So, John,

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<v Speaker 1>we're at Wimbledon this summer. You call a match for ESPN,

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<v Speaker 1>later call another match for BBC, which is a normal

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<v Speaker 1>thing for you. Then we have a conversation and I say, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>a pearl jam tonight Hyde Park. You'RE gonna be able

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<v Speaker 1>to make it? You said no, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta DO BBC Studio. It's kind of a bummer

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<v Speaker 1>because I know you're a huge fan and a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of the man. So I go to Hyde Park. It's

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<v Speaker 1>this amazing show. Eddie vetter is inspired. The sunset, the

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<v Speaker 1>moon is rising. At the end of the show they

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<v Speaker 1>play rocket in the free world, covering Neil Young's classic

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<v Speaker 1>one verse into it. Enter stage left Johnny Mac, guitar

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<v Speaker 1>strapped over his neck, playing with the band. I think

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<v Speaker 1>like holy ship, you didn't know if you're gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>the show and you're on stage with them. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they call that bucket list s up. Obvious for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that was one of the few occasions. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the only occasion in the open ear that one of

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<v Speaker 1>the men's semi was a default. So in this one case,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I was very much looking forward to seeing

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<v Speaker 1>curios playing the doll, when that didn't happen, then there

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really a late show I had to do. So whila,

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<v Speaker 1>there I go. Actually, I played a show a few

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<v Speaker 1>years back, just before the pandemic charity show where I

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<v Speaker 1>played with my own band in Seattle, ironically, and Eddie

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<v Speaker 1>came to the show with my buddy Chris Chelios, and

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<v Speaker 1>I got him to come up and play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>It was only, you know, not sixty five thousand, admittedly,

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<v Speaker 1>probably sixty five or maybe a hundred, uh, and Eddie

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<v Speaker 1>sang rocking in the free world, ironically. So for me

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<v Speaker 1>it was unbelievable to go. You know, I had that

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<v Speaker 1>happened twice in the tournament, which is never happened before.

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<v Speaker 1>First to go up on my wife's Patty's birthday to

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<v Speaker 1>go see the eagles. She's played with Don and backed

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<v Speaker 1>backed him up on a couple of albums. Or One

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<v Speaker 1>of her biggest hits is with Don. And then he

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<v Speaker 1>asked me to play. Already gone at Hyde Park and

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<v Speaker 1>then Eddie did. So I'm safe to say that I

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<v Speaker 1>had a great Wimbledon. I'm glad to hear that, man,

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<v Speaker 1>because it seems like at times calling matches of the

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<v Speaker 1>world's greatest court, going on stage with Pearl GM, that's

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<v Speaker 1>just like another day in your life. That's just that's

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<v Speaker 1>just a regular day for you. Sometimes no, well, uh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not true. I've been fortunate to meet a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of great people associated with the music business. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>my love, besides tennis and Sports, is playing the guitar music.

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<v Speaker 1>Having the opportunity to meet these legends that I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up idolizing and music is inspirational obviously keeps it going.

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<v Speaker 1>On a boring practice session, Blair some Nice Music, it

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<v Speaker 1>keeps pumpsy off and then all of a sudden to

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<v Speaker 1>see that like Keith Richards and, uh, not to drop

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<v Speaker 1>any names here, but Robert planned, you know, and you

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<v Speaker 1>meet these guys, I mean led Zeppein was my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>band growing up. The stones are amazing and you're sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like on the city, you know, in some way

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<v Speaker 1>you're sort of like looking at them eye to eye

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like talking to like, Oh man, I really

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<v Speaker 1>love what you do and this is incredible and and

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of like you pinch yourself, like could this

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<v Speaker 1>really be happening? So I've got to admit that over

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<v Speaker 1>the course of the last forty five years I've been

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<v Speaker 1>very fortunate to been able to meet a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>great people and, you know, get respect, mutual respect, from them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what I love about you is you're not jaded at

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<v Speaker 1>anything and to have those experiences where you do kind

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<v Speaker 1>of meet your idols and they say that's pretty tricky, right,

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<v Speaker 1>to meet people that you idolize, but then, as you said,

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<v Speaker 1>eye to eye and it's becomes not geeking out on

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<v Speaker 1>them but a mutual admiration society, like they appreciate what

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<v Speaker 1>you did. I mean still surreal when you think about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it? UH, are you used to it? I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's somewhere between surreal and you're used to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you ever get totally used to it. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I still just keep in mind you're a kid from

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<v Speaker 1>Queens and here you are sitting standing next to Robert Plants.

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<v Speaker 1>So it never gets old. It was the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>like the very first time. You're there, there, you you

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<v Speaker 1>led Zeppelin one, two, three or four. These are all

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly important albums to people sort of our age. And

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<v Speaker 1>then boom, first time Robert Plant is sitting in front

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<v Speaker 1>of you saying Hey, I like what you do, man. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, trying not from sweating like like Albert Brooks

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<v Speaker 1>and broadcast news, you know, where you're just slabbering over

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<v Speaker 1>him and I suppose. But you know, I actually saw

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<v Speaker 1>it led Zeppelin at Madison Square Garden when I was

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<v Speaker 1>probably fifth, fourteen or fifteen years old, and I remember

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<v Speaker 1>thinking at the time it's like, why doesn't it sound

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<v Speaker 1>like a song on the you know, on the reck

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<v Speaker 1>her and you know, I realized through playing, starting to

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<v Speaker 1>play guitar and for and just learning more about music that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of the Zeppelin songs had three

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<v Speaker 1>four guitar parts on them, among other things, so it

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<v Speaker 1>was almost impossible to duplicate it. But it was still

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<v Speaker 1>like magical in its own way to see them. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I got a chance to see them years later

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<v Speaker 1>when page and plant went out, ironically in Croatia, and that's,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, one of the first times I got to

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<v Speaker 1>speak to them. I mean Jimmy Page is like the

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<v Speaker 1>Rock God. Obviously is one of the greatest guitar players

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<v Speaker 1>of all time. I happened to see him in a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of situations, more not casual, but like where he

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<v Speaker 1>was helping out like the Black Crows and doing stuff

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<v Speaker 1>for them and being part of a benefit. We can

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<v Speaker 1>talk to them a little bit more than hey, how

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<v Speaker 1>you doing type of things. But Robert Plant UH. He

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<v Speaker 1>actually came on my talk show. Most people don't know this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did have a talk show for six months

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<v Speaker 1>back in two thousand four and he was nice enough

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<v Speaker 1>during the US Open that year to come on my

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<v Speaker 1>show and do a bit. And I remember someone asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it was Robert, like, what your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>Zeppelin Song, and I always worked on the song the

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<v Speaker 1>guitar bringing on home. It's on the second album, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So I sort of blurted that out because

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying even though there's like fifty or a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred other songs that I liked better, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>realized it was a cover tune and I'm like, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my God, that was the old foot in my mouth on.

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<v Speaker 1>He was probably gone. Could he at least said Kashmir

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<v Speaker 1>or stay away to heaven or something that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we wrote? So that was rather embarrassing, but I luckily

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<v Speaker 1>I got through it. I would have answered Kashmir. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I think that, like a lot of people, I fanassy's

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<v Speaker 1>about being a guitar hero. I friends tried to teach me,

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<v Speaker 1>but a combination of lack of talent and lack of patients,

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<v Speaker 1>that's usually not a formula for success in anything in life,

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<v Speaker 1>especially something as tricky as guitar. But people try to

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<v Speaker 1>teach me. We're not all time legends, and you had what,

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<v Speaker 1>as the story goes, Eddiev and Hey Allen, Carlos Santana

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<v Speaker 1>maybe clapped in once or twice, trying to help you

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<v Speaker 1>master the Guitar Um. Well, that's sort of true. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you sort of meet him and you're there to have

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<v Speaker 1>a drink and then they pick up the guitar. Bill Wyman,

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<v Speaker 1>the Bass player from the stones, was one of the

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<v Speaker 1>first guys, and I really was, you know, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>didn't start. I was like one when I realized I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to have a lot of time on the

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<v Speaker 1>road on my hands, and he was sort of trying

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<v Speaker 1>to teach me the one, four or five progression, which

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<v Speaker 1>is like the most basic progression in music, like a

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<v Speaker 1>blues progression. I was having trouble mastery that. I soon

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<v Speaker 1>after I went to Chicago where a buddy of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>Gary Fencer, who played for the Chicago Bears, took me

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<v Speaker 1>to this legendary Blues Club, the Checkerboard Lounge, buddy guys club,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I saw a buddy guy play and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, Oh my God, this guy is this

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<v Speaker 1>amazing and I'd happened to travel with this guitar, this

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<v Speaker 1>less Paul I had that I went the first guitar

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<v Speaker 1>every bought. I was like God, this thing is really heavy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get this. They're so heavy. And I watched

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<v Speaker 1>him playing. I'm like what in God's name? and My waisting,

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<v Speaker 1>my time playing the guitar. When you see this, I

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<v Speaker 1>had this big hotel room. I have to admit I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why I got it in. In Chicago was

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<v Speaker 1>we were playing at the arena near the airport and

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<v Speaker 1>I snatched the guitar the Smithereens in my hotel room.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, forget it, it's hopeless, don't even bother.

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<v Speaker 1>And so for a couple of years I really didn't play.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I realized, Oh my God, if you pick

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<v Speaker 1>up a strata or telly telecaster, those are a lot

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<v Speaker 1>lighter and sort of got renewed hope that I could

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<v Speaker 1>do it and played, you know, on and off, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually sort of tiring, like mentally if nothing else,

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<v Speaker 1>when you know I'm trying to focus all my energies

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<v Speaker 1>in tennis. Wasn't doing it a whole lot. At the

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<v Speaker 1>end of my career I decided, Um, I gotta start

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<v Speaker 1>playing more and actually put a band together. I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I called my myself the most traveled unsigned band in history. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we went all over the world. We're in Japan, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I sort of connected with tennis ex editions basically, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to South America, Japan, Hawaii, Europe on four occasions.

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<v Speaker 1>It was unbelievable. I got plenty of you suck, you know. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I started going out with Patty Smite, my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>and and she was sort of disillusioned at that time

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<v Speaker 1>and the music business been it on the road with

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<v Speaker 1>Rod Stewart, had sold had a platinum record. Uh, but

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<v Speaker 1>she sort of felt like, and I'm sure to the

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<v Speaker 1>degree still true, of changing. But you know, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>treat the women rockers the way they do the guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's and so I go, Hey, I got an idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I bring a lot of energy and I'm playing. We

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<v Speaker 1>should join, we should play in a band together. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she looked at me for a second. She and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, uh, yeah, and we should play mixed doubles

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<v Speaker 1>at Wimbledon. And I go, uh, you don't play tennis

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes exactly, and I'm like, okay, that's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, sent the message. And for a while

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<v Speaker 1>actually I was playing, and then there was finally one

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<v Speaker 1>festival I went to in Belgium, it's like one of

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<v Speaker 1>these summer festivals, where I was playing and it was

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<v Speaker 1>only for rock and for the music. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>came back and she said to me and goes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got this. Uh, we're about to have a daughter together.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got four between us. If anyone's gonna play music,

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<v Speaker 1>it's me, not you. Okay, so you were back towards

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<v Speaker 1>the tennis. I'll try to take care of the music game,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have taken if I have time, taking care

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<v Speaker 1>of all these kids. That's a that's a great story,

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<v Speaker 1>and now she met it with love. But it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of an ouch thing too, when somebody put you in

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<v Speaker 1>your place. You know, the tennis racket was like a

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<v Speaker 1>natural extension of your left arm and and maybe of

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<v Speaker 1>your soul was the guitar are a little bit less connected,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a little bit less innate as you tried

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<v Speaker 1>to master that. Well, I'm gonna Bring Patty back into

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<v Speaker 1>this for a second because she had a very simple

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<v Speaker 1>phrase that she used for the way I played guitar.

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<v Speaker 1>She said I wrestled it into submission. So that is

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<v Speaker 1>not what you would call a major compliment, but you

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<v Speaker 1>win when you're wrestling into submission. At least you win.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't look pretty, but you got the w yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way. You know. As as I've gotten older, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm certainly trying to look at the glass half full

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<v Speaker 1>more often. So that's the way I try to look

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<v Speaker 1>at that particular phrase. I do love it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a great outlet. I'm better than I ever was. Admittedly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's somewhat low bar. The pandemic allowed me to play

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<v Speaker 1>more guitar than I've ever played. Obviously was cooped up

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<v Speaker 1>in one place. I was fortunate up one of my

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<v Speaker 1>buddies is enraging against the machine, and we trained all

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<v Speaker 1>the time and we hung out all the time, him anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>not really musically. I Jam with him and Brad The

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<v Speaker 1>drummer a couple of times and been in watching rage

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<v Speaker 1>rehearse and sat or seeing them, but now it's just

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<v Speaker 1>playing like the two of us. So I'd actually got

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more time where I was actually playing with

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<v Speaker 1>Tim and he was playing drums, ironically, not base, and

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<v Speaker 1>every now and then he'd be like he in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of I'd be all pumped up, I'd be playing

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<v Speaker 1>a song and all of a sudden he'd stopped me, goes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're fucking time's off, your time's off, and he'd scream

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<v Speaker 1>at me and I'd be like to Um and but

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<v Speaker 1>he was right, of course, like a the time, and

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<v Speaker 1>so the one out of ten where I'd be like

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<v Speaker 1>it was you, not me. Okay, so, and he's not

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<v Speaker 1>even playing his natural instrument. But it was something that

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<v Speaker 1>Patty had well is saying. You know, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>can sing and key, you're okay, you know your guitars

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<v Speaker 1>getting better, but your time is a little you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can imagine in your head and those guitars

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<v Speaker 1>people that have hard to play or try when you're

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<v Speaker 1>actually stinging, maybe two and you're trying to think of

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<v Speaker 1>other things and think ahead and the words and you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening to the other people in your band. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's let's put it this way. It gave me an

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<v Speaker 1>appreciation for how great the people that I was watching.

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<v Speaker 1>You mentioned Pearl Jam and the Eagles and the police.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Trios in particular, because I've been playing recently

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<v Speaker 1>more as a trio the police. Uh Stevie, Ray Vaughan

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<v Speaker 1>when he played ZZ top Jimmy Hendrix. Yeah, exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've always limelight. Has always been a goal

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<v Speaker 1>of mine to play. Good luck singing it, not to

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<v Speaker 1>mention playing it. I mean if I could play the

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<v Speaker 1>guitar solo uncomfortably Numb the David Gilmar played, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I love my job, as you do, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'd walk away from the give I just had the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to do that. I think I would trade everything

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<v Speaker 1>for that. Your seven Grand Slam titles and singles. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone said, Hey, John, you gotta, you gotta give those back,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're gonna have this, the kind of Sublime Guitar

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<v Speaker 1>Talent that a lot of your heroes have, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be an ability that you'll have for your life.

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<v Speaker 1>You trade it. Oh God, that's a tough one. You know, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think deep down in my heart of hearts, I

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<v Speaker 1>made the right call. I Love Sports, I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean sports was my life growing up as a kid. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's hard to say that of course, it's tempting

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<v Speaker 1>to say if you were David Gilmour, it's not only

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<v Speaker 1>was a beautiful guy and a legendary guitar player, but

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<v Speaker 1>he had an absolutely beautiful voice on top of everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>So he had the whole package. So it would be

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<v Speaker 1>hard to say no, I don't want with David Gilmore.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of these other guys had these all time great

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<v Speaker 1>like the the Solo, you know when the two guys

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<v Speaker 1>trade in Hotel California, like, okay, this is you know this,

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<v Speaker 1>that's this stuff where you know they're up there with

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<v Speaker 1>the Rafa's in the no Vak Rogers. You know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the all time legendary Solos ever in rock and roll Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and they lived a life that like it was almost

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<v Speaker 1>I remember times because I try to keep up with

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<v Speaker 1>some of these guys sometimes and it was certainly fun trying.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was a certain point I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>too good. You know, he's guys Keith, you're too good man,

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<v Speaker 1>but but I'm I gotta go to bed, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think I think I made the right call.

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<v Speaker 1>Art's been important to people have called you an artist

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<v Speaker 1>for the racket. I know that that's a compliment you love.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the artistry is something that really, to some degree,

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<v Speaker 1>cannot be taught or coached. It's just innate. Is the

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<v Speaker 1>way you played have anything to do with the way

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<v Speaker 1>you connected with people who express themselves creatively, whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>a musician or a painter? Yeah, you know, I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to think so. You're absolutely the greatest complin ever got

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<v Speaker 1>was that you you're like an artist out there Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that that's something, hopefully, that people remember,

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<v Speaker 1>that I brought to the table. Uh so absolutely. I

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<v Speaker 1>connected them for a number of reasons. One when I

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<v Speaker 1>was fortunate enough to have enough money to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to afford to buy a car. And in our day, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're a little younger than me, but uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you cared about like the sound system, you had like

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<v Speaker 1>the speakers, and that then a lot. That was like

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<v Speaker 1>the second biggest thing. And then if you could have

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<v Speaker 1>an apartment, it was like, wow, I've got it. You'd

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<v Speaker 1>have uh, you'd I haven't made but after that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when I first started going around with my late great

0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:43.440
<v Speaker 1>buddy beatus Carolitis, he started taking me in a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of artists studios and galleries in Soho, which is in

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<v Speaker 1>downtown New York, and I got an opportunity to meet

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<v Speaker 1>artists and I was like wow, it just made me

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<v Speaker 1>feel better and when I started to buy art and

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<v Speaker 1>collected to walk down the stairs in the morning and

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<v Speaker 1>take a look at some be sort of sort of inspirational,

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<v Speaker 1>the way you hope to be as as as an athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>the way you want to pump someone up. Or I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here at my tennis academy right now hoping that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some of these kids will be inspired by by me

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<v Speaker 1>being here. Um. And the other part of the art

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<v Speaker 1>that I really respect is they're out there on an

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<v Speaker 1>island like a tennis player. They're by themselves. You walk

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<v Speaker 1>into a show, it's sort of like you walk out.

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<v Speaker 1>What could possibly be better? Then walk into the Center

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<v Speaker 1>Court of Wimbledon, for example, and doing your things? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is sort of similar if an art if you

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<v Speaker 1>walk into this show and it's packed and people are

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, this is incredible. On the other side of

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<v Speaker 1>the coin, what could be worse? If you go out

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<v Speaker 1>in the wimbled instead of court and you lay an

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<v Speaker 1>egg and you just feel like you're two FT tall?

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<v Speaker 1>And then, the same as art you know the guts

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<v Speaker 1>to go there and some of the other sucks. It's terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't understand this abstract stuff. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't paint well enough. So you know you're putting

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<v Speaker 1>yourself out there. The other people would be comedients, like

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<v Speaker 1>stand ups. Those group of people I feel more connected to,

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps than any other entertainment type of people. Yeah, they can.

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<v Speaker 1>To continue the parallel. You know, you are out there

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<v Speaker 1>by yourself and and and many artists, like many athletes,

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<v Speaker 1>are somewhat tortured at times in their life. And and

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<v Speaker 1>sadness and anger can be great sources of inspiration. Many

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<v Speaker 1>great paintings, just like many great songs, have become from

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<v Speaker 1>a place of anger. Um, anger has played a role

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<v Speaker 1>in your life. We'll talk about that perhaps later. But

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<v Speaker 1>do you gravitate towards art that expresses intense emotions, where

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<v Speaker 1>you know and can relate to what the artist is

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<v Speaker 1>going through when you see the canvas and you know

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<v Speaker 1>he's poured himself out there and it's not always pleasant,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's compelling. Yeah, absolutely ensure. Yes, UM, totally gravitate

0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:08.720
<v Speaker 1>towards more uh type of art like that, something that's

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<v Speaker 1>thought provoking that makes you think, that can inspire. Sometimes

0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that artist is going through. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Sometimes you may not know yourself what you're

0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:21.800
<v Speaker 1>exactly what's happening within at a certain time. But there's

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<v Speaker 1>no question that that is the type of art that I've,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, collected over the years, the type of art

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<v Speaker 1>that I think is ultimately going to have more of

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<v Speaker 1>an impact on society in general and that's what we

0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:38.600
<v Speaker 1>continue to need. And you know, musicians it's tougher. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been with my wife Twenty eight years and it

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<v Speaker 1>sort of feels like, from what I see with her,

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<v Speaker 1>that you write more often, like you said, when it's

0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:49.600
<v Speaker 1>things are sort of down or they're not. You know,

0:20:49.640 --> 0:20:53.120
<v Speaker 1>it's easier to write sort of songs like that than upbeat,

0:20:53.160 --> 0:20:56.960
<v Speaker 1>peppie songs, you know, so and and and it feels

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<v Speaker 1>like it's sort of a shame because then that's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of you. The biggest thing for me is I want

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<v Speaker 1>my other have to be happen, you know, and fulfilled,

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<v Speaker 1>and in certain ways that doesn't necessarily help help her

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<v Speaker 1>and what her job is. Uh, I felt like, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was on top of the world and

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<v Speaker 1>I think to myself, you know, at that moment, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I had this documentary coming out and he says,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm the greatest player ever played. I point

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<v Speaker 1>out that was, you know, almost thirty eight years ago. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I wish I could say that now, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. But at that time I was like on

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<v Speaker 1>top of the world and certainly part of it was amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>but part of it wasn't that amazing. You know, there

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<v Speaker 1>was there was a void in the and so it's

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<v Speaker 1>your your to find that sweet spot that you need

0:21:49.800 --> 0:21:52.760
<v Speaker 1>to get to and as a human being and as

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<v Speaker 1>an athlete, is tricky, as as we're witnessing now with,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you an example, Naomi Osaka, Nick Curios, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find his, you know, ability. You just to go

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<v Speaker 1>out there and, you know, give a consistent effort, and

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<v Speaker 1>it hasn't been easy for they even try all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot more to it than meets the

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<v Speaker 1>I so, uh, I'm actually thankful that over the course

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<v Speaker 1>of time, I've done it with you for many years.

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<v Speaker 1>But as a commentator, yes, you're a backseat driver, but

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<v Speaker 1>you also want to be supporter as best you can,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you see people giving that all out effort.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the one thing I really don't like. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you do, I feel like hopefully I can tell the

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<v Speaker 1>people watching that will get them better to better understand

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in the head of some of these individuals.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it can be unbelievably easy when it's all working,

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<v Speaker 1>but most of the time it isn't. You talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the void. You use that word. Many people believe that

0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:55.879
<v Speaker 1>achievement can fill the void. Success can fill the void,

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<v Speaker 1>money can feel the void. Sometimes they find it's like

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<v Speaker 1>the exact opposite. For you. What was that the void

0:23:04.680 --> 0:23:07.080
<v Speaker 1>or of the sense of something was missing, or the challenge?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he get bigger and tougher as the fame grew,

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<v Speaker 1>as the ranking got better, as the spotlight got brighter? Yes, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>something crazy happened when I thought, Um, things were just

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<v Speaker 1>going so great for me personally. Uh, my greatest rival

0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:33.720
<v Speaker 1>I ever had biord board at years old, after I

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<v Speaker 1>beat him at the US Open to even our head

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<v Speaker 1>to head career record at seven and seven and seven,

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<v Speaker 1>decided he was never going to play another major. That

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<v Speaker 1>to me was like beyond belief that like that was

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<v Speaker 1>even possible. I remember when he said it to beat.

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<v Speaker 1>Garylitis and I were in an exhibition in Australia. We

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<v Speaker 1>were about to go down to the press conference, having

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<v Speaker 1>a beer before and Boran says us, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm retiring, and we started laughing. We thought he was kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, what the hell are you gonna do? You

0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:08.960
<v Speaker 1>know what, we don't know what else to do. Um.

0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:12.760
<v Speaker 1>And he said something to the effect of like someday

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:16.840
<v Speaker 1>you'll understand, um. And so I'm not sure I totally

0:24:16.840 --> 0:24:20.000
<v Speaker 1>ever understood it. Um, I get it certainly a lot

0:24:20.040 --> 0:24:22.080
<v Speaker 1>more because he'd been doing a lot longer and maybe

0:24:22.080 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 1>he was burnt out. But the all that sort of

0:24:25.160 --> 0:24:29.280
<v Speaker 1>attention that he had was shifted towards me because people

0:24:29.320 --> 0:24:32.880
<v Speaker 1>were afraid to sort of look at the reasons as

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<v Speaker 1>to why he was doing that and try to help

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<v Speaker 1>him through that. In my you know, that to me

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<v Speaker 1>was a horrible thing to happen in tennis, and so

0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:44.480
<v Speaker 1>that the pressure in a way was amped up more

0:24:44.480 --> 0:24:47.240
<v Speaker 1>and more on me because they didn't know where else

0:24:47.240 --> 0:24:49.680
<v Speaker 1>to turn their attention to and I was easy pickings

0:24:49.720 --> 0:24:53.159
<v Speaker 1>in a way. And so that went on for a

0:24:53.160 --> 0:24:55.440
<v Speaker 1>handful of years and then when I met my ex

0:24:55.480 --> 0:24:59.200
<v Speaker 1>wife who at that time hadn't done a movie. TAKETUM

0:24:59.280 --> 0:25:02.439
<v Speaker 1>my x yfe tatum O'Neil hadn't done a movie in

0:25:02.520 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 1>four or five years. I didn't realize, you know, I

0:25:05.600 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>might be an idiot, but I didn't think that the

0:25:10.200 --> 0:25:12.880
<v Speaker 1>some of the two parts was gonna be so much

0:25:12.920 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 1>bigger than US two as individuals. And all of a

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:19.000
<v Speaker 1>sudden it became even a bigger thing that I I

0:25:19.080 --> 0:25:24.400
<v Speaker 1>must say I had difficulties handlings that would that would

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 1>allow me to play to the best of my ability,

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 1>particularly since I wanted to and did have kids. So

0:25:30.800 --> 0:25:33.600
<v Speaker 1>that Juggling Act made it a bit overwhelming for me

0:25:33.680 --> 0:25:36.240
<v Speaker 1>from that point forward, even though I tried many different

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:38.919
<v Speaker 1>ways to try to get better. You know, I didn't

0:25:39.119 --> 0:25:41.960
<v Speaker 1>stop playing for six months, which is not that unusual now.

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Nadal just didn't play for six months and won the

0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Australian opening, for God's Sakes, at thirty five years old.

0:25:48.520 --> 0:25:52.639
<v Speaker 1>I was twenty six and seven and turn turn twenty

0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:55.840
<v Speaker 1>seven when I started to take the time off, and

0:25:55.920 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 1>I felt like I did it for the right reasons.

0:25:58.480 --> 0:26:01.800
<v Speaker 1>The plan was to get better. How bad did I

0:26:01.840 --> 0:26:04.240
<v Speaker 1>feel when I never I never even got to the

0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:07.800
<v Speaker 1>same level, much less got better. So that wasn't easy

0:26:07.840 --> 0:26:11.000
<v Speaker 1>to take. Uh Um, and then as you decide, like

0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:15.520
<v Speaker 1>as an athlete, some people can handle. I remember in

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 1>nine five, which was just before I took this about it,

0:26:20.040 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 1>I did a series of exhibitions with porn and he

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 1>he was like I remember thinking I was really burnt

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:29.399
<v Speaker 1>out and my wife, ex wife, was pregnant. I'm like,

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:32.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to Australia, I stan't and I gotta regroup.

0:26:32.240 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 1>He goes, no, no, you can go. If you win

0:26:34.400 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 1>Australia and the masters, you you'll still be number one.

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:39.720
<v Speaker 1>And I had lost the Lendel in the finals of

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>the open and lost. You wimbled in and I was

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:45.520
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't looking good, you know, it looked like landels

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>of me number one. He talked me into in a

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>way and and I thought I said at the time.

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>I said, you know, it's not that bad to be

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:54.800
<v Speaker 1>too in the world. I could live with that for,

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, a year or a couple of years. He goes,

0:26:57.280 --> 0:27:00.159
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter if you're two or a hundred. So

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:01.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's sort of the psyche of the person.

0:27:02.040 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I think it does matter personally, you know, I'd rather

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:06.760
<v Speaker 1>be too than a hundred, but he wanted to be

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:10.879
<v Speaker 1>all or nothing, you know. So you see how people

0:27:10.960 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 1>operate in different ways. So I sort of went along

0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:16.639
<v Speaker 1>for six, seven years. Chris. Honestly, we're deep in you know,

0:27:16.680 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 1>it's a horrible feeling and tough to it even at now.

0:27:20.000 --> 0:27:23.280
<v Speaker 1>But I sort of knew I wasn't gonna win, you know,

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:26.640
<v Speaker 1>the anywhere close to the level. I was maybe Never

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:29.720
<v Speaker 1>gonna win anyone. I kept hoping, you know, get one

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:32.119
<v Speaker 1>more and I knocked on the door a couple of

0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:36.400
<v Speaker 1>times but never did. That was that's pretty disappointing. Yeah,

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:39.160
<v Speaker 1>but you persevered, which most people, I mean you're never

0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:42.800
<v Speaker 1>had to deal with playing tennis after the peak of

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:44.919
<v Speaker 1>his powers on the crest, because he stepped out. As

0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:47.640
<v Speaker 1>you said, it's twenty five is on top. Typically athletes

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:51.639
<v Speaker 1>grind away and try to, you know, regain recapture some

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:53.520
<v Speaker 1>of that, as you did, and it wasn't like you

0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:56.440
<v Speaker 1>fell apart. I think you made the semis of your

0:27:56.520 --> 0:28:00.440
<v Speaker 1>last Wimbledon right and the US Open you were right there.

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:03.879
<v Speaker 1>You're still contending. You weren't losing Um, you know, in

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:07.719
<v Speaker 1>the first round to some uh, him and Egger. So

0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:09.679
<v Speaker 1>you you were competitive to the end, but that, but

0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 1>you're saying that really ate at you because you had

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:16.879
<v Speaker 1>been number one and it just it was it was

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:23.680
<v Speaker 1>tough to abide the slightly eroding skills and results. Yeah, but,

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I must say it was. It still was

0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:28.240
<v Speaker 1>a hell of a way to make a living, you know,

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:29.879
<v Speaker 1>in a way. And so I'm thinking, don't you know,

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, despite your nose, that you know, cut off

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>your nose, despite your face, or whatever the phrases, you know.

0:28:36.880 --> 0:28:39.200
<v Speaker 1>So I was sort of like, well, let's just keep

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:42.360
<v Speaker 1>at this, maybe maybe you'll get like and it turned out,

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:43.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, at the time and like, who the hell

0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:47.080
<v Speaker 1>are these guys? Oh, Pete Sampras, loose end in the SIS,

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 1>not a bad players. Andre Agassie, not too shabby. currier was,

0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:53.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, that was the last guy ever played at

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>the US Open. Cost Him in my last open in

0:28:56.360 --> 0:28:59.120
<v Speaker 1>the round of sixteen. Well, he was pretty good there

0:28:59.120 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 1>for a couple of years. So these weren't, you know, hacks.

0:29:02.480 --> 0:29:05.400
<v Speaker 1>I was losing too, but it was, you know, sort

0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:08.960
<v Speaker 1>of like Whoa. Okay, this is not the easiest thing,

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 1>but and I had a growing family, so it was.

0:29:14.080 --> 0:29:17.720
<v Speaker 1>I gave it the best shot I had under the circumstances.

0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:21.200
<v Speaker 1>That time wasn't good enough, obviously, um, but I felt

0:29:21.240 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 1>like generally, all in all, I feel proud that I've

0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:27.800
<v Speaker 1>tried to make the best decisions I possibly could at

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:29.960
<v Speaker 1>the time. I didn't anticipate at the end of my

0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:32.480
<v Speaker 1>final year, that I get it, you know, get divorced,

0:29:32.800 --> 0:29:36.200
<v Speaker 1>for example, you know, as an example. So that threw

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:39.040
<v Speaker 1>everything off for you know, even further. So, you know,

0:29:39.120 --> 0:29:41.240
<v Speaker 1>we could go on and on, but I think all

0:29:41.280 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>at all, for the most part, uh, and I'll start

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:47.440
<v Speaker 1>with my present wife, Patty, I made a series of

0:29:47.520 --> 0:29:53.520
<v Speaker 1>pretty good decisions. Yeah, I'd say so. Um, you were

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>taught early on, John, perfectionism as an example from your parents.

0:29:58.000 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 1>It's hard to rewire yourself when you are a perfectionist,

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I think. I think chasing achievement and relentless improvement isn't

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>quite the same thing as being a perfectionist, where it

0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:12.960
<v Speaker 1>rips you up to not be one out of a hundred.

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 1>A lot of perfections. I don't know that they're they're

0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:18.680
<v Speaker 1>super happy whatever walk of life they're in. How has

0:30:18.720 --> 0:30:22.240
<v Speaker 1>that been for you? Sort of the the pursuit of

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 1>perfection and trying to balance that off with a happy life. Um, yeah,

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I think I'd like to take pride in the fact

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 1>that I've tried to sort of wean myself off that

0:30:35.040 --> 0:30:37.959
<v Speaker 1>in essence to a degree that I don't want to

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>put that type of expectation on myself every single day

0:30:41.720 --> 0:30:43.920
<v Speaker 1>in my life. Some of my kids may tell you

0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:49.160
<v Speaker 1>otherwise at times, Um, and certainly I have high expectations

0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:51.960
<v Speaker 1>for them, as as as I continue to do for myself,

0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>but I just think that at a certain point there

0:30:55.760 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>was a course in economics, course where, you know, they

0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>talked about law of diminute. She returns and I you know,

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to spend my entire life where like

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not living up to what I think I can.

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I want to sort of look at the class half

0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:12.480
<v Speaker 1>full and, you know, look at this journey that I've

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 1>taken and feel like this has been a hell of

0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 1>a ride, instead of like what could have, would have

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:21.280
<v Speaker 1>should have. You know, I could sit there and tell

0:31:21.320 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 1>you about what I should have done in the tennis court.

0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I could sit there and tell you I should have

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:29.720
<v Speaker 1>held on a lot of art pieces that I bought that,

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, would have been a hell of a lot

0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 1>more valuable had I held onto him, and I probably

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:38.000
<v Speaker 1>in a way, and I don't want it to be

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>that way where you lose sleep over that, over more

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:44.640
<v Speaker 1>than some of the losses you had while I was playing.

0:31:45.040 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 1>Everyone thinks it's like and I've been lucky. I want

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>to say that that I've made you more money than

0:31:51.320 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>I ever thought I would and I continue to be

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 1>able to make a great living. Uh, and I would

0:31:56.800 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 1>be doing a disservice to the kids at my academy,

0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:01.440
<v Speaker 1>my own is, and a lot of other people if

0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting there whining about what I should have done

0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 1>instead of being, you know, talking about like what we

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 1>talked in the beginning. I just was on stage a

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:13.600
<v Speaker 1>month ago with Pearl Jam in front of Sixty Thou people,

0:32:14.120 --> 0:32:19.200
<v Speaker 1>with Chris Fowler taking a picture for me. Thank you. Hey.

0:32:19.040 --> 0:32:21.360
<v Speaker 1>I happened, just happen to have a glass of water

0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:24.120
<v Speaker 1>in my hand which is is just about half full,

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 1>and that's an expression you use a couple of times, right,

0:32:26.840 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 1>and I know you use it a lot, and it's

0:32:29.160 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 1>just a way of looking at life where you're focusing

0:32:30.840 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 1>on what you have and not what you lack, and

0:32:33.080 --> 0:32:35.560
<v Speaker 1>it's a beautiful perspective. Sometimes it takes a lot of

0:32:35.600 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 1>us a little time to arrive there. Some people never

0:32:38.400 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 1>get there, unfortunately. What was the moment John of the

0:32:41.760 --> 0:32:45.280
<v Speaker 1>period time where you began to look at things more

0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 1>optimistically and and I don't know if sunny disposition is

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:51.840
<v Speaker 1>a phrase I used, but I just in terms of hey,

0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 1>things are good, let's not focus on this part of

0:32:55.440 --> 0:32:58.800
<v Speaker 1>the glass that's empty when I'm lacking. You know, when

0:32:58.800 --> 0:33:01.640
<v Speaker 1>I had children, I think that I looked at life

0:33:01.680 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 1>in a different way, even though my results were there.

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I loved having kids, Um and I wanted pretty desperately

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:12.000
<v Speaker 1>to show that it wasn't about them. That the reason

0:33:12.080 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I wanted. I screwed up, you know, it's not their fault, obviously,

0:33:15.760 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>but that sort of changed my perspective, even though I

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:21.000
<v Speaker 1>was getting hammered in in some ways in my own

0:33:21.000 --> 0:33:23.440
<v Speaker 1>hand by others. Why is he not one or two

0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 1>in the world? He's eight in the world of ten

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 1>or whatever the hell he is. Um and I suppose Um.

0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, going through a divorce is really painful. Um

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:37.320
<v Speaker 1>and I just feels lost, at least I did. Um.

0:33:37.360 --> 0:33:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I remember when I met a Patty Um and then

0:33:39.800 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 1>subsequently matter one a Christmas Day of n didn't see

0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 1>her until September of did not see her one time,

0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 1>and I was playing, Um, Andre Agassi an exhibition in

0:33:54.320 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 1>Phoenix five days after he won the US Open that year,

0:33:58.560 --> 0:34:02.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure that Andre I and well deserved was,

0:34:02.360 --> 0:34:05.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, celebrating his win, so he wasn't too worried about,

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, the match he was playing against me in

0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Phoenix five days later. But I beat him, you know,

0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:13.920
<v Speaker 1>and I hadn't played for the better part of two years,

0:34:13.960 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, closing in on two years. So you know,

0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I was feeling all high and mighty about myself, pretty

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>good about it, and that's when I called Patty up

0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:23.160
<v Speaker 1>again because I was going to l a for a

0:34:23.160 --> 0:34:27.799
<v Speaker 1>few days and Um, at that time I went out

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.759
<v Speaker 1>with her. She and and we had a date and

0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I think there's something about this. The

0:34:34.640 --> 0:34:38.440
<v Speaker 1>next day, Chris, I went up to play this charity match, uh,

0:34:38.719 --> 0:34:43.040
<v Speaker 1>with Michael Chang's charity, and right before I went on

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:45.879
<v Speaker 1>the court, they told me beat us had died and

0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I just went completely numb. And I'm telling you, I

0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:52.759
<v Speaker 1>would have beaten anyone in the world. Six may I

0:34:52.760 --> 0:34:55.040
<v Speaker 1>could have beaten Shang one in one. That day, I

0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 1>just was so numb that you don't even think. And

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>I called Patty up because I was coming back to

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.759
<v Speaker 1>L A and I was like, you know, I I

0:35:03.760 --> 0:35:05.520
<v Speaker 1>want to be with you tonight, and she's like Hey, wait,

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:09.279
<v Speaker 1>hold on, slow down here. You know, thinking, you know,

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 1>there was some guy just wants to you know, you

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 1>can imagine the rest. and to me it was more

0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>not that that wasn't something that I thought would be

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:22.600
<v Speaker 1>a good idea, but at the same time I wanted

0:35:22.680 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 1>to be with her because I needed I was just

0:35:24.880 --> 0:35:28.439
<v Speaker 1>was like completely overwhelmed. And I think right after that,

0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:34.680
<v Speaker 1>after that horrible thing that happened with Vitas, I started

0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>to think to myself, this is the time where you've

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 1>got to make, you know, really make more of an effort,

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:42.000
<v Speaker 1>and I started to feel like I was. I was

0:35:42.040 --> 0:35:46.280
<v Speaker 1>able to turn the tables in my life, slowly but surely,

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:50.279
<v Speaker 1>but that was certainly one of the big moments for me,

0:35:50.360 --> 0:35:53.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, and over the course of time, Um, I

0:35:53.920 --> 0:35:56.600
<v Speaker 1>think I've each year I think I've done a little

0:35:56.719 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 1>better better job of it. So, you know, basically wean

0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:02.960
<v Speaker 1>myself off that. You know, whether it's being or perfectionist.

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's not like you never you ever lose that,

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:08.160
<v Speaker 1>but I'm a little soft now in the tennis court.

0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:09.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't go for the kill like that.

0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:11.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, how can I do it now? But over

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 1>the course of time. And maybe that's not the worst thing,

0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 1>because I think I got to be uh UH. You know,

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:20.560
<v Speaker 1>empathy wasn't my strongest suit. So it was my weaknest

0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:23.920
<v Speaker 1>suit actually. So I think I've gotten better in in

0:36:24.440 --> 0:36:28.319
<v Speaker 1>areas that I was weaker at and been able to appreciate.

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, for quite a few years when I was

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:34.840
<v Speaker 1>doing commentary, I uh was people would come up to

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:37.879
<v Speaker 1>me the first probably ten fifteen years and they'd be like,

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:40.319
<v Speaker 1>you know something, you're a better commentator than you are

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:44.919
<v Speaker 1>a player. I wouldn't justice God, how dare you say what?

0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:47.399
<v Speaker 1>And then I thought to myself I was a pretty

0:36:47.480 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 1>damn good tennis player. If they're saying that I'm better

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:53.279
<v Speaker 1>at tennis, at comments in them at tennis, that's a

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 1>hell of a compliment. You So, you idiot, take it

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:59.719
<v Speaker 1>is one. So it took probably about ten years for

0:36:59.840 --> 0:37:03.160
<v Speaker 1>me sink in, but that's made me appreciate what I've

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 1>been doing with you and a few others over the

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:08.640
<v Speaker 1>course of the last even twenty more, because now it's

0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:13.480
<v Speaker 1>been but I think it's my thirties US Open. That's

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:17.720
<v Speaker 1>important to to understand the compliment more than the insult,

0:37:17.760 --> 0:37:21.400
<v Speaker 1>because sometimes you can take it either way. But inside them,

0:37:21.480 --> 0:37:23.919
<v Speaker 1>I think yeah, John, I think it's fair to say

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>that you know, number one ranked tennis player in the

0:37:27.520 --> 0:37:31.360
<v Speaker 1>world commentator right right there as well. So you're to

0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:34.120
<v Speaker 1>be it to achieve two different careers that are related

0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:37.560
<v Speaker 1>but different, ultimately different. Um playing is not the same

0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:40.319
<v Speaker 1>as talking about it, and and to be able to

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:42.840
<v Speaker 1>to get to the pinnacle in a couple of different

0:37:43.600 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 1>UH professions and can still be improving it after sixties

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:51.319
<v Speaker 1>is cool. As I said before, I mean I work

0:37:51.400 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 1>with a lot of really talented, really interesting people, quote unquote, characters.

0:37:55.880 --> 0:37:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I guess you'd be in the character club. I mean

0:37:58.000 --> 0:38:01.800
<v Speaker 1>that's a compliment to me, better than lands on a

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:06.799
<v Speaker 1>bit just there. But in terms of Um working with you,

0:38:06.880 --> 0:38:09.279
<v Speaker 1>I it is so cool to see that is an

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:11.319
<v Speaker 1>all time great and something that's been doing as long

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 1>as you have. You still approach a routine match with

0:38:15.000 --> 0:38:19.040
<v Speaker 1>passion and Energy and interest and and that's not something

0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:21.040
<v Speaker 1>that ought to be taken for granted. I mean it

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:23.160
<v Speaker 1>is so cool to be able to share the space when,

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:25.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, or just a routine second round match at

0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:28.799
<v Speaker 1>some tournament. It is not a piece of tennis history.

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:30.719
<v Speaker 1>You'RE gonna be written on that court that day, but

0:38:30.840 --> 0:38:32.960
<v Speaker 1>you still you get fired up for it. So and

0:38:32.960 --> 0:38:36.719
<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's very cool. I absolutely think that's, you know,

0:38:36.800 --> 0:38:39.040
<v Speaker 1>the biggest thing that I should bring to the table.

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:41.200
<v Speaker 1>It's an energy and a passion for it, you know,

0:38:41.280 --> 0:38:43.320
<v Speaker 1>no matter what it is. I think that's what people

0:38:44.040 --> 0:38:46.640
<v Speaker 1>want and that's what I want. You know, that's what

0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 1>I brought to the table. I think that's what separated

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:51.759
<v Speaker 1>me for a while out a tennis score. What it

0:38:51.840 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 1>wasn't like here. You here. I don't look like Raphae

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.120
<v Speaker 1>and the doll a whole lot with my guns. You know,

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.319
<v Speaker 1>if you know what I'm saying. Um. So I had

0:38:58.320 --> 0:39:01.560
<v Speaker 1>to try to hopefully intimidate different ways. And what way

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 1>would that be? Bring that energy that they would they

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 1>would feel on the other side of the net and

0:39:06.200 --> 0:39:09.919
<v Speaker 1>throw them Um. So that is certainly something I tried

0:39:09.920 --> 0:39:12.520
<v Speaker 1>to bring the table. Comments or I would like, you know,

0:39:12.560 --> 0:39:15.000
<v Speaker 1>and I got a couple of sports enemy's, I think

0:39:15.000 --> 0:39:18.520
<v Speaker 1>in Um Britain, uh with with the BBC, but I

0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:21.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't get when I got nominated. Now no one cares

0:39:21.080 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 1>about Santis, apparently. So we don't even get dominated. Or

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe we're not as good. No, we are as good.

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 1>But at one time I was at the words show,

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 1>it makes me think, and I was at a table

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 1>that NBC used to be called, obviously you remember, before

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>espn did it Wimbledon and the French and so I

0:39:42.600 --> 0:39:44.239
<v Speaker 1>was sitting at the table and I was sitting next

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:47.440
<v Speaker 1>to Dick Enberg, and so I was up against John Madden,

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>who wanted like twenty times or whatever in a row

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:53.400
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and a few other people. And so they go,

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.960
<v Speaker 1>Ladies and gentlemen, the best color commentator is John Matt

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:59.719
<v Speaker 1>and Dick turned to me and goes to congratulations and

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:10.720
<v Speaker 1>it's like Madus Great Dick Emberg. He called it game, set,

0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:13.080
<v Speaker 1>match of a little too earlier there. That said, well,

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:16.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't that's the only time I said, oh Myn

0:40:17.520 --> 0:40:19.839
<v Speaker 1>as someone who's not been shower with the with with

0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:22.200
<v Speaker 1>the trophies, I can tell you that's that's not about that.

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:25.600
<v Speaker 1>So don't don't worry about that. I think you're gonna

0:40:26.080 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 1>the lack of the lack of a sports emmy is

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:32.160
<v Speaker 1>is you're gonna be okay. You know, just the number.

0:40:32.280 --> 0:40:36.799
<v Speaker 1>We talked about some rock stars and artists, but just

0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 1>the number of interesting people, John that, that have come

0:40:39.640 --> 0:40:42.719
<v Speaker 1>into your orbit. They continue to. What are Harrelson sitting

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:44.279
<v Speaker 1>in the Green Room with you and Patty the other

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:48.160
<v Speaker 1>day Wimbledon? It's just so interesting that these people you know,

0:40:48.400 --> 0:40:51.399
<v Speaker 1>they respect what you did, they connect with you, they

0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:52.840
<v Speaker 1>want a pc of you, they want a PC of

0:40:52.880 --> 0:40:54.799
<v Speaker 1>your time, they want to say they know you. I

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 1>mean that's that's interesting to to have that, whether it's

0:40:59.640 --> 0:41:01.800
<v Speaker 1>ex fleets, you mentioned a few of the people of

0:41:01.960 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 1>all sorts of orbits you've had a chance to interact

0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:09.719
<v Speaker 1>with and learn from and observe. You know what, the

0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:13.359
<v Speaker 1>greatest thank you for that, and it's the greatest perk

0:41:13.440 --> 0:41:17.359
<v Speaker 1>I ever got by far, is this is the opportunity

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:21.720
<v Speaker 1>to meet sort of these extremely interesting people in different

0:41:22.160 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 1>walks of the entertainment business, whether it's other athletes that

0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:28.879
<v Speaker 1>I've become friends with over the years. Some of them

0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I met younger than other others I didn't. In all

0:41:32.239 --> 0:41:36.000
<v Speaker 1>the different sports, and then you got the movie stars, uh,

0:41:36.000 --> 0:41:40.200
<v Speaker 1>and you got the musicians. Uh. There was one person

0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:44.480
<v Speaker 1>that topped at all of those by far, M I.

0:41:44.640 --> 0:41:47.120
<v Speaker 1>One of the best decisions I ever made was in

0:41:47.280 --> 0:41:49.719
<v Speaker 1>nineteen eighty when I was offered a million dollars to

0:41:49.800 --> 0:41:53.319
<v Speaker 1>go play Borg and apartheid South Africa, that sort of

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:55.560
<v Speaker 1>fake homeland they came up with to start to make

0:41:55.600 --> 0:41:59.360
<v Speaker 1>it look like they were treating blacks fairly. And I

0:41:59.800 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 1>I chose not to go down there and I never

0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:07.200
<v Speaker 1>went there and I feel like I've gotten a lot

0:42:07.200 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 1>of support over the years from the African American community.

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.279
<v Speaker 1>That makes me feel great that even some of them

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:15.480
<v Speaker 1>aware of the fact that I didn't go there. But

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 1>eventually parts I'd ended and I um and Nelson Mandela

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:23.480
<v Speaker 1>was elected president and so there was a seniors event

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I went to in Joe Burg and long story short,

0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I went to have an opportunity. I Yannick Noah, who

0:42:30.560 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 1>was with me, and Biorn Borg and we got an

0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:36.840
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to go to Nelson Mandela's home where he lived

0:42:36.960 --> 0:42:40.840
<v Speaker 1>as the president, and I came. I brought one of

0:42:40.880 --> 0:42:43.560
<v Speaker 1>my rackets, Chris, and I had, you know, the wood

0:42:43.640 --> 0:42:47.480
<v Speaker 1>rackets from like the night eighty one, which the last

0:42:47.680 --> 0:42:49.880
<v Speaker 1>years I played with. I think eighty two is the

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:52.480
<v Speaker 1>last year, but and I brought it, I gave it

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:55.960
<v Speaker 1>to Nelson Mandela and I saw him hold that. He

0:42:56.000 --> 0:42:58.760
<v Speaker 1>had the most beautiful hands that I had ever shook

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:01.720
<v Speaker 1>hands with my life. It just he sort of felt

0:43:01.719 --> 0:43:03.680
<v Speaker 1>like an angel on earth and he said to me

0:43:04.320 --> 0:43:07.879
<v Speaker 1>at one point, he said it's an honor to meet you,

0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:11.239
<v Speaker 1>and I thought to myself, Oh my God, I'd give

0:43:11.280 --> 0:43:13.480
<v Speaker 1>ten million dollars if I had this on tape right

0:43:13.520 --> 0:43:16.560
<v Speaker 1>now to these people that are, you know, going after me.

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:19.359
<v Speaker 1>That Nelson, you know, of course I was, you know,

0:43:19.440 --> 0:43:22.200
<v Speaker 1>feeling that with him. Are you kidding me? But that

0:43:22.320 --> 0:43:26.040
<v Speaker 1>was probably the greatest individual sort of minute, one of

0:43:26.040 --> 0:43:28.480
<v Speaker 1>the greatest of my life when, you know, he said

0:43:28.560 --> 0:43:31.960
<v Speaker 1>that he's like and then he followed that up with Um,

0:43:32.080 --> 0:43:35.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, I listened to your match, the match you

0:43:35.520 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 1>played against you and Borg at Wimbledon in or whatever,

0:43:39.080 --> 0:43:42.280
<v Speaker 1>and I thought to myself, this guy was in Robin's

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:46.600
<v Speaker 1>island for twenty seven years and I'm sitting there complaining

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 1>about a line called and he doesn't seem to have

0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 1>an ounce of bitterness about anything. That happened to me

0:43:53.040 --> 0:43:55.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, how is this even possible? This is

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:57.960
<v Speaker 1>like the greatest human being I ever met. So I

0:43:58.000 --> 0:44:02.360
<v Speaker 1>guess in some ways it was um it was for

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:06.400
<v Speaker 1>me and unbelievable a moment to be able to meet him.

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I not that you know, meaning a lot of these

0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:12.040
<v Speaker 1>other people, whether it's, you know, Jack Nicholson, for example,

0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:14.200
<v Speaker 1>and my he was like my all time favorite actor.

0:44:14.280 --> 0:44:16.759
<v Speaker 1>You go down the list. I've been lucky, but that

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:20.680
<v Speaker 1>topped everything. Yeah, I guess it would. I mean, as

0:44:20.719 --> 0:44:23.880
<v Speaker 1>the story goes, Mandela convinced the guards at Robin Island

0:44:23.920 --> 0:44:27.560
<v Speaker 1>to put your match with Borg on BBC radio. It

0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:30.360
<v Speaker 1>meant that much to him that he would try to

0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:33.440
<v Speaker 1>press and get a favorite out of him because he

0:44:33.520 --> 0:44:36.080
<v Speaker 1>just wanted to hear on the radio and have to

0:44:36.120 --> 0:44:38.760
<v Speaker 1>imagine you playing Borg at Center Court. I can't imagine

0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:43.360
<v Speaker 1>anything cooler than that. That it meant that much to him. Yeah,

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 1>so you know, it's tough to it's tough to go.

0:44:47.080 --> 0:44:49.319
<v Speaker 1>Where do you go from there? But you know it's

0:44:49.440 --> 0:44:52.000
<v Speaker 1>of all the people, I mean these people. Okay, Mandela

0:44:52.360 --> 0:44:55.920
<v Speaker 1>was impressed and set up an honor to meet you.

0:44:57.600 --> 0:45:03.640
<v Speaker 1>Who Have you run into? That was totally unimpressed and

0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:05.960
<v Speaker 1>then you're you're excited to meet them and you just

0:45:06.000 --> 0:45:12.400
<v Speaker 1>get nothing. Um. Well, you know, we've been talking throughout

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 1>this podcast about how we want to keep the glass

0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:17.839
<v Speaker 1>half full here. We don't want to go to, you know,

0:45:18.040 --> 0:45:21.719
<v Speaker 1>the people that blew me off. So sometimes empty half

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 1>pretty interesting that I don't want to think about that.

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:25.879
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you about the worst human being I ever

0:45:26.080 --> 0:45:29.320
<v Speaker 1>that was when we played David's Cup in two thousand

0:45:29.400 --> 0:45:32.920
<v Speaker 1>and one year. I was captain. We went to Zimbabwe

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:37.680
<v Speaker 1>and we had to go to Robert Mugabi's palace because

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not exactly sure why, because he's the president or whatever,

0:45:41.719 --> 0:45:43.920
<v Speaker 1>and this guy had to be five feet tall. In

0:45:43.960 --> 0:45:45.919
<v Speaker 1>his hands was like he poured a bucket of water

0:45:45.960 --> 0:45:47.920
<v Speaker 1>in his hands and shook our hands and he was

0:45:48.000 --> 0:45:51.560
<v Speaker 1>sweating and it was so bizarre, like, and this is

0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:56.360
<v Speaker 1>even before they realized how palacious of person he was. Um.

0:45:56.400 --> 0:46:01.719
<v Speaker 1>So that would easily be the as I'm saying this,

0:46:01.840 --> 0:46:04.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of people that blew me off,

0:46:04.680 --> 0:46:06.719
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to do that. I'm not going there.

0:46:06.760 --> 0:46:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. You refused to say who blew you off

0:46:09.560 --> 0:46:12.320
<v Speaker 1>and you're still it's just but is that pride or what?

0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:15.560
<v Speaker 1>You don't want to make them look bad. No, it's

0:46:15.600 --> 0:46:18.560
<v Speaker 1>more like I don't want to put out the energy,

0:46:18.680 --> 0:46:20.719
<v Speaker 1>the effort to think about it, you know, because I'm

0:46:20.760 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 1>in too good a place. I can understand that, John.

0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Let's not put energy on negative stuff. But what? What?

0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I just joined the club that you've been in a

0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 1>couple of years. So, so when you're sixty you're supposed

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:33.640
<v Speaker 1>to have wisdom, you're supposed to have perspective, you're supposed

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:35.520
<v Speaker 1>to have learned a couple of things. I mean, how

0:46:35.560 --> 0:46:39.560
<v Speaker 1>do you think you know, reaching this stage of your life? Um, yeah,

0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:42.200
<v Speaker 1>you lose a step on the court and some things

0:46:42.239 --> 0:46:45.000
<v Speaker 1>physically as an as an athlete. I know that's something

0:46:45.239 --> 0:46:47.319
<v Speaker 1>that's difficult to reconcile for a lot of people. But

0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:52.319
<v Speaker 1>what what do you feel great about being despite you know,

0:46:52.400 --> 0:46:56.120
<v Speaker 1>the alternative is not good to you know, walking around

0:46:56.160 --> 0:46:59.600
<v Speaker 1>at sixty three, you could be underground. What what do

0:46:59.640 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 1>you feel great about reaching this stage and and and

0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:07.319
<v Speaker 1>still improving in areas? Um, I feel great about the

0:47:07.360 --> 0:47:11.280
<v Speaker 1>fact that I at least you know, I'm in my book,

0:47:11.760 --> 0:47:14.520
<v Speaker 1>that I have improved that little bit, whether it's you

0:47:14.560 --> 0:47:16.680
<v Speaker 1>know how I've dealt with my own children, in my

0:47:16.719 --> 0:47:22.080
<v Speaker 1>own relationships, my perspective, all those things. You know, obviously

0:47:22.080 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>when you're sixty three you're, you know, a shelley yourself physically,

0:47:26.320 --> 0:47:28.279
<v Speaker 1>but I still love to get out there. I love

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:31.200
<v Speaker 1>to try to work out, to get the kids, rile

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:33.800
<v Speaker 1>the kids up once in a while show them whose boss.

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:36.800
<v Speaker 1>So that part when I can't do that's a little

0:47:36.800 --> 0:47:39.960
<v Speaker 1>bit tough. But you know, I think, Um, I've tried

0:47:40.000 --> 0:47:43.160
<v Speaker 1>to for I would say for ten years, because I

0:47:43.160 --> 0:47:45.680
<v Speaker 1>played on the main circuit for fifteen and for the

0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:48.959
<v Speaker 1>better part of the next I was actually playing more

0:47:49.880 --> 0:47:52.799
<v Speaker 1>seniors champion, whatever event do you want to call that.

0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Then I was commentating. Even so, I recognized that that's

0:47:58.960 --> 0:48:01.640
<v Speaker 1>a great drug. You know. It's UH, one of the

0:48:01.680 --> 0:48:04.880
<v Speaker 1>best drugs you can have that you get paid for something.

0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:08.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, what's the expiration data most athletes? It's pretty

0:48:08.320 --> 0:48:11.040
<v Speaker 1>damn quick. So if you think, you know, you can

0:48:11.160 --> 0:48:14.239
<v Speaker 1>make it forty years, say, doing something and playing on

0:48:14.280 --> 0:48:18.160
<v Speaker 1>a fairly regular basis, uh, it would be my duty

0:48:18.160 --> 0:48:20.319
<v Speaker 1>to look at that like half full. But I was

0:48:20.840 --> 0:48:23.720
<v Speaker 1>working hard for the course of the past ten years

0:48:23.719 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 1>to sort of Wean myself off that addiction so that

0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:29.439
<v Speaker 1>it would get to the stage where I'd be able

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<v Speaker 1>to handle it when I didn't play anymore, and I

0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:35.680
<v Speaker 1>think I've done pretty well at that. So I I

0:48:35.800 --> 0:48:40.399
<v Speaker 1>take pride in that. I feel good about that, um,

0:48:40.480 --> 0:48:43.440
<v Speaker 1>because that's something that you could easily get caught up

0:48:43.480 --> 0:48:45.160
<v Speaker 1>in and just you know, I didn't want to be

0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:49.240
<v Speaker 1>like Mr McEnroe, please come this way, you need to

0:48:49.320 --> 0:48:51.400
<v Speaker 1>exit the court now or other we're gonna pull you

0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:55.360
<v Speaker 1>off it, and it was getting closer, Um, so you

0:48:55.480 --> 0:48:58.080
<v Speaker 1>gotta leave it to the other people just at some point.

0:48:58.120 --> 0:49:00.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've really enjoyed the comments and I've I'm

0:49:00.239 --> 0:49:02.800
<v Speaker 1>thinking I want to do another great run. You know,

0:49:02.880 --> 0:49:07.279
<v Speaker 1>they're five years, whatever it is, Um, and then hopefully,

0:49:07.920 --> 0:49:10.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, I want to go out like on a high,

0:49:10.280 --> 0:49:12.200
<v Speaker 1>though you know, I don't want to be the same

0:49:12.239 --> 0:49:14.200
<v Speaker 1>with that. You know, I feel like it's been good

0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:17.160
<v Speaker 1>to me. Hopefully I've been good to the people I've

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:19.880
<v Speaker 1>worked for, but you want to go out and in

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<v Speaker 1>a positive note for everyone. So that would be part

0:49:23.280 --> 0:49:25.759
<v Speaker 1>of that. And the opportunity to do almost anything and

0:49:25.800 --> 0:49:27.120
<v Speaker 1>more of a quiet where you can be on the

0:49:27.120 --> 0:49:29.400
<v Speaker 1>beach in California a bit and sort of you know

0:49:29.400 --> 0:49:32.319
<v Speaker 1>that Yin and Yang is great. Uh. So I you know,

0:49:32.360 --> 0:49:34.960
<v Speaker 1>I've worked hard to get to the point where I

0:49:35.000 --> 0:49:37.319
<v Speaker 1>feel like I want to enjoy myself as much as

0:49:37.360 --> 0:49:40.000
<v Speaker 1>possible and put in emphasis on that and spend time

0:49:40.040 --> 0:49:42.719
<v Speaker 1>with the people I want to be around, not with

0:49:42.840 --> 0:49:46.040
<v Speaker 1>things that I have to do, uh, for reasons that

0:49:46.280 --> 0:49:49.399
<v Speaker 1>don't have much you know, and they're not important enough

0:49:49.440 --> 0:49:53.279
<v Speaker 1>to take serious, like just because it's money, for example. Uh,

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:55.160
<v Speaker 1>that would be one. So, you know, I think I've

0:49:55.200 --> 0:49:57.640
<v Speaker 1>done a pretty good job going in that direction. For

0:49:57.680 --> 0:50:00.759
<v Speaker 1>a while, when you played, a sense you were not

0:50:00.840 --> 0:50:02.960
<v Speaker 1>one that would go from the hotel room to the

0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:04.839
<v Speaker 1>Court of the gym to the restaurant, the same one

0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:07.960
<v Speaker 1>every night. You you seem to value experience. You understood that.

0:50:08.160 --> 0:50:10.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's a big world out there. There's more

0:50:10.160 --> 0:50:12.040
<v Speaker 1>to it than tennis. So many players today, so many

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:14.719
<v Speaker 1>athletes today, limit themselves and I don't think they take

0:50:14.760 --> 0:50:16.680
<v Speaker 1>in what the world has to offer, even though they're

0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:19.040
<v Speaker 1>being you know, if they're flying around a these amazing

0:50:19.040 --> 0:50:21.680
<v Speaker 1>places in the world, they don't they don't sense the

0:50:21.719 --> 0:50:24.400
<v Speaker 1>possibility or they think that even embracing that's going to

0:50:24.520 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 1>detract from their chances of winning a title. You're still

0:50:28.320 --> 0:50:31.400
<v Speaker 1>pursuing experiences and sort of embracing what's going you're going

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:34.440
<v Speaker 1>to Antarctica to play a match with your brother Patrick

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:37.120
<v Speaker 1>this winter, the first ever matched down there, and we

0:50:37.120 --> 0:50:39.760
<v Speaker 1>were talking you're you're just excited about that, the boat trip,

0:50:39.840 --> 0:50:43.000
<v Speaker 1>just being in Antarctica. You seem to still have kind

0:50:43.000 --> 0:50:45.919
<v Speaker 1>of a thirst and a passion for new experience and

0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:49.879
<v Speaker 1>in the big wide world out there, that's definitely gonna

0:50:49.920 --> 0:50:51.960
<v Speaker 1>be a new experience for me. I'm not a big

0:50:52.000 --> 0:50:54.160
<v Speaker 1>boat guy, so you know, I don't want to get seasick,

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:57.520
<v Speaker 1>but that sounded like something like a bucket list thing,

0:50:57.920 --> 0:51:00.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, and that's I've had a couple of is

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:03.879
<v Speaker 1>this year and the music side of things Um, and

0:51:03.920 --> 0:51:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I've traveled to parts of the world. That's one of

0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:09.799
<v Speaker 1>the great things that being a tennis player is that

0:51:09.880 --> 0:51:11.640
<v Speaker 1>you do see a lot of the world that you

0:51:11.719 --> 0:51:15.120
<v Speaker 1>never would otherwise see. But it is true. I'd like

0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:17.040
<v Speaker 1>to tell you that I was able to sort of,

0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:19.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, do everything while I was playing, but I

0:51:19.800 --> 0:51:22.879
<v Speaker 1>remember somewhat early on in my career I'd be going

0:51:22.920 --> 0:51:25.480
<v Speaker 1>out and I loved art we've talked about that, and

0:51:26.320 --> 0:51:29.960
<v Speaker 1>go to galleries and museums and see things. That gets

0:51:30.000 --> 0:51:32.320
<v Speaker 1>tiring mentally, you know, and I found that, like you,

0:51:32.320 --> 0:51:34.960
<v Speaker 1>would fatigue me. So I actually had to back off

0:51:35.040 --> 0:51:37.200
<v Speaker 1>on that and some of the things I would have

0:51:37.239 --> 0:51:39.359
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do, and I would have wanted to meet

0:51:39.440 --> 0:51:43.080
<v Speaker 1>with people, whether they're politically or otherwise, to try to

0:51:43.160 --> 0:51:45.239
<v Speaker 1>learn more about the city. That I felt like I

0:51:45.280 --> 0:51:47.920
<v Speaker 1>wasn't able to do. As a matter of fact, I

0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:51.719
<v Speaker 1>did sort of pushed uh, I had this idea of

0:51:51.800 --> 0:51:55.600
<v Speaker 1>doing a sort of a travel show. Obviously, the pandemic

0:51:55.760 --> 0:51:58.919
<v Speaker 1>hit and that cut some of that off, but maybe

0:51:59.000 --> 0:52:02.360
<v Speaker 1>the interest level to do but go to the places

0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:04.719
<v Speaker 1>that I've been to that I hadn't really seen in

0:52:04.760 --> 0:52:06.759
<v Speaker 1>the way I would have wanted to, and to meet

0:52:06.800 --> 0:52:11.240
<v Speaker 1>the people in Stockholm, for example, meet people in situations

0:52:11.280 --> 0:52:14.399
<v Speaker 1>that were out of the ordinary for me and so

0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:16.680
<v Speaker 1>that I could continue to learn. I thought that the

0:52:16.800 --> 0:52:21.160
<v Speaker 1>interesting for a network. Apparently it wasn't that interesting because

0:52:21.200 --> 0:52:25.680
<v Speaker 1>it hasn't happened yet, but nonetheless there are there is

0:52:25.760 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 1>part of me that felt like I could have done more,

0:52:29.280 --> 0:52:31.760
<v Speaker 1>but I don't. You know. Again, that's another perfect example.

0:52:31.840 --> 0:52:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Like well, I should have done this. You know, Hindsights, obviously,

0:52:36.200 --> 0:52:41.319
<v Speaker 1>and it takes a lot of emotional effort to go

0:52:41.400 --> 0:52:43.799
<v Speaker 1>out and do your thing and try to play up

0:52:43.840 --> 0:52:46.440
<v Speaker 1>to the ability. Even when I was playing the champions tour,

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:49.319
<v Speaker 1>I felt like it took everything I had to try

0:52:49.360 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 1>to do the best I could. And so you sort

0:52:52.160 --> 0:52:55.200
<v Speaker 1>of are stuck a little bit into that hotel type

0:52:55.200 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 1>of airport type thing. I was gonna do the first one,

0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:02.759
<v Speaker 1>the first episod so where it would just be airport

0:53:02.840 --> 0:53:06.600
<v Speaker 1>to airport to hotel to tendersport back and do the

0:53:06.600 --> 0:53:10.200
<v Speaker 1>whole first episode like that and said, people seeing this

0:53:10.280 --> 0:53:13.360
<v Speaker 1>is my life. Oh, just kidding, there's actually gonna be

0:53:13.440 --> 0:53:18.040
<v Speaker 1>more to this, but hasn't gotten off the ground yet. Well,

0:53:18.880 --> 0:53:22.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine that there's much left on the bucket list,

0:53:22.160 --> 0:53:25.800
<v Speaker 1>but then again, a lot of us never scratch everything

0:53:25.800 --> 0:53:28.120
<v Speaker 1>off the list because you just add new things on there. John.

0:53:28.120 --> 0:53:30.319
<v Speaker 1>But I think that in terms of people that I

0:53:30.400 --> 0:53:33.719
<v Speaker 1>know of her or no, uh, a life that's been,

0:53:34.560 --> 0:53:37.000
<v Speaker 1>it continues to be, well lived and interesting and fulfilling

0:53:37.040 --> 0:53:42.600
<v Speaker 1>and rarely boring, uh, and fun. I hope you hope

0:53:42.600 --> 0:53:46.000
<v Speaker 1>you understand that. If that's what it's about you. You're

0:53:46.040 --> 0:53:48.360
<v Speaker 1>doing great man, and then you're an inspiration to me

0:53:48.400 --> 0:53:50.920
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of other people in that area. Well,

0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:55.759
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. You know, I I do feel very fortunate. Um,

0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like some of it. You know, maybe

0:53:58.480 --> 0:54:03.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not so dumb after all. You know, maybe I know,

0:54:04.000 --> 0:54:06.160
<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm talking about a little bit. Maybe

0:54:06.200 --> 0:54:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I could get some of these kids their parents at

0:54:08.719 --> 0:54:11.880
<v Speaker 1>my tennis academy to listen to me. You store, what

0:54:11.920 --> 0:54:14.480
<v Speaker 1>do you know about tennis now? The game's changed a

0:54:14.520 --> 0:54:19.160
<v Speaker 1>little more to it than just how you hit up forehand. Yes,

0:54:19.280 --> 0:54:22.480
<v Speaker 1>as you heard, there's a lot more to John than tennis.

0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Along those lines, I recommend you check out the excellent

0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:30.200
<v Speaker 1>new documentary McEnroe on showtime. It traces the whole arc,

0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:33.319
<v Speaker 1>how the legend was born but, more importantly, how he

0:54:33.360 --> 0:54:36.560
<v Speaker 1>continues to grow and evolve. John told me that's what

0:54:36.640 --> 0:54:39.800
<v Speaker 1>he was hoping the film would do. We hope you

0:54:39.880 --> 0:54:43.000
<v Speaker 1>enjoyed my conversation with John. Encourage you to rate and

0:54:43.040 --> 0:54:46.800
<v Speaker 1>review and subscribe. It really helps us. As always, my

0:54:46.880 --> 0:54:50.479
<v Speaker 1>thanks to co Executive Producer Jennifer dempster and editor Jason

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<v Speaker 1>White Hilt. You've got more guests coming up in season

0:54:53.480 --> 0:54:55.839
<v Speaker 1>five of foul. Who you got, and check out our

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<v Speaker 1>catalog of back episodes. I'll talk to you soon. One