WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Soulmate Psychic

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated. I saw something on Instagram recently

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<v Speaker 1>that basically sums up what I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners are feeling with the online dating apps. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a guy who says, I think my favorite part

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<v Speaker 1>of online dating is when you match with someone and

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking and it's going great, and three weeks later,

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<v Speaker 1>someone somewhere loses interest and you just never talk to

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<v Speaker 1>them again, and you just keep doing that over and

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<v Speaker 1>over and over until you're ninety and you're single and

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<v Speaker 1>you die alone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so true. Wow, what a romantic look, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>Aren't you upset that you got married and missed the

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<v Speaker 1>peak era of dating apps?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did I do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we have a guy on the phone who says

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<v Speaker 1>he also has become pretty frustrated with the online dating experience.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Steven. So Steven, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing yo?

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<v Speaker 2>You sound down?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I am pretty down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, buddy probably just closed his Tinder wrap right now

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<v Speaker 1>before he got on, So it's not going so well

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh No, I mean I just can't beat anybody. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>I was so tired. I did something pretty desperate recently.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of why I called, oh, oh you did

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<v Speaker 1>something desperate Desperate.

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<v Speaker 4>Wife's on ad online it said soul made psychic.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good catchy phrase. Yeah, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 4>For fifty dollars? The person was able to draw your

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<v Speaker 4>soul date.

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<v Speaker 2>For you draw.

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<v Speaker 1>A sketch of them. That's actually great because then you

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<v Speaker 1>can see, like when you see them in real life.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you know, why do I feel like they stock

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<v Speaker 2>your social media and then draw your ass?

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<v Speaker 1>But you're right, if you see them out in the world,

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<v Speaker 1>you could just hold up this photo and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're sol made. You don't bring a photo around with you,

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<v Speaker 1>you just know in your head.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, wait, wait, you all believe that someone can

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<v Speaker 2>do this, well if.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a psychic, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to go with sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook already doesn't believe in your soulmate before she even

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<v Speaker 1>knows anything about it.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't sound like either.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, well, we don't even know what the story is.

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<v Speaker 1>So you actually signed up and did this.

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<v Speaker 3>I did this. Twenty minutes later, I get to sketch

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<v Speaker 3>email to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's just even over it's online.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, it was a phone conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, okay, took to her, and then she draws What

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<v Speaker 5>kind of questions did she ask you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's asking me my interest, she's asking me you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, but she's not asking for a physical description of

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<v Speaker 1>your perfect woman. She's trying to get to know you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah exactly, okay, you about you.

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<v Speaker 1>But then she's drawing the lady of yours? So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you think of the picture?

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<v Speaker 3>So she's very pretty, that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Shocking, she didn't draw an ugly person, so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's very lucky for him. I'm sure she draws

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of ugly people for other people. But what

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<v Speaker 1>did you do with the photo?

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<v Speaker 3>I put her up a refrigerator.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, I didn't know what to do with

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<v Speaker 2>it away online.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you can put it on your dating app

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<v Speaker 5>and say this is what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now you're thinking brook, okay, you fill in the

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Well, did anything come of it?

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<v Speaker 4>So like a month later, I'm at this wedding and

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<v Speaker 4>I see a woman and it's like a shoe, exactly

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<v Speaker 4>like the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>No way?

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<v Speaker 4>Really?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, what did you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>First they try not to freak out. I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well now you must feel the pressure on you.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>So I build up enough confidence and I go over

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<v Speaker 3>there and I ask her dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, why aren't you awing yet? This is happening. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And what did she say when you asked her to dance?

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<v Speaker 3>She said, yes, that we're dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it's happening. So now you've opened the

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<v Speaker 1>door for true love to step through. But the big

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<v Speaker 1>question is did you tell her about the soulmate photo

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<v Speaker 1>that was sent to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I I told her I have a surprise for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, you're going to sell her. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>mean you told her that?

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<v Speaker 3>I just couldn't hold it in. It's too weird, it's

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<v Speaker 3>too coincidental.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, so that night, we're still at the wedding reception

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<v Speaker 5>and you're going to pull out the picture on your phone.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I know, I didn't even have a copy of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I'll text it to you.

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<v Speaker 3>I told her I'll text it.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your reaction though?

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<v Speaker 3>Did she lack?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what the caption was when you

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<v Speaker 1>texted the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>The caption was, isn't this crazy? This looks just like you?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, oh my god?

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<v Speaker 2>How long does it take her to respond to yours?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it about my first reaction? Is I have a stalker?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you still waiting for a reply? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she responded, She's like, wow, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, But then it was kind of a different vibe

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<v Speaker 4>from then on. She like I could tell something changed

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<v Speaker 4>now and she wasn't as into me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, maybe you have android because that happens, and

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<v Speaker 1>you sent it and got blurry.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't think that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So looking back on the events that unfolded,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like maybe you shouldn't have sent her

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<v Speaker 1>the picture?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he should have just brought her back to his

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<v Speaker 5>apartment so she could have seen it on the fringe.

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<v Speaker 1>So at this point, where are you at now?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what are you gonna do? She woke it

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<v Speaker 3>back to me. Really I had to move on from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you could don't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you call this a lady Gann and you

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<v Speaker 1>have a new picture drawn up?

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<v Speaker 4>Or I'm like, I'm kind of just back on the apps.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like you, I'm thinking maybe I need to find

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<v Speaker 3>others wone older.

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<v Speaker 2>But you found her? So wait, wait, wait, are we

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<v Speaker 2>going to call this girl?

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<v Speaker 1>For you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean yeah, now because it has been a couple of.

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<v Speaker 1>Months, I need yeah, I mean you need closure, man.

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<v Speaker 3>I know anyone would I need closure from.

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<v Speaker 5>What he met his so many Brooke and she's ghosting

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<v Speaker 5>for threes okay, his life. I feel like we're trying

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<v Speaker 5>to force something here, but I'll be on board.

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<v Speaker 1>She'll give m answer.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Did we ever get the girl's name? By the way, her.

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<v Speaker 3>Name is Zoe?

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<v Speaker 1>Okaye. Well, we're gonna come back and call your soulmate

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<v Speaker 1>Zoe and try and get you your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this second date update. You believe in love

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<v Speaker 1>at first sight? Yes, Jeff? What about Okay? So yes?

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<v Speaker 1>From Jose and from the girls? What about love it

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<v Speaker 1>first sketch? No cause. Months ago, one of our listeners, Steven,

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<v Speaker 1>paid a professional psychic to draw him a photo of

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<v Speaker 1>his future soulmate before he's ever met her. He hung

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<v Speaker 1>it up on his fridge, and wouldn't you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>a short while later, he ends up meeting a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who looks just like that photo when he was at

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding. Her name was Zoe, and they danced and

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<v Speaker 1>got to know each other. Everything was on the up

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<v Speaker 1>and up until he got home and texted her the

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<v Speaker 1>soulmate's sketch picture. Yeah, cooled off after that. It got

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<v Speaker 1>me thinking though, like, how could we help him when

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<v Speaker 1>we get her on the phone, and maybe we could

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<v Speaker 1>say that he drew the picture after he met you,

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<v Speaker 1>just from memory. He's a really good artist that it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like a soulmate thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he just apologizes and says I didn't that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Your answer to everything. Apologize for what he did.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good photo.

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<v Speaker 5>It has to be flattering it, I mean, you can't lie,

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<v Speaker 5>Like how long is he going to keep up that

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<v Speaker 5>he's a good artist?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, it just came to him in a

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<v Speaker 1>moment of inspiration. That's the point. I'm not an artist.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the heavens that just guided my hand in that.

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<v Speaker 1>You exactly what. Sadly, though, Stephen is back on the

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps now, looking for older women and long distance stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever he can get because he's so dejected. Let's not

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<v Speaker 1>say that, but we won't bring that up. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying his mind is still wondering, though, what about my

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<v Speaker 1>soulmate Zoe? Isn't that right, Stephen? You've never forgotten about her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't forget. This wasn't that long ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but so a couple of months she could be

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship already. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm glad that we're going in with the positive attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>So my promise I will keep trying. Nobody in this

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<v Speaker 1>room is going to believe in love except for me

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<v Speaker 1>and Jose, So we're gonna do our best. Let's call

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<v Speaker 1>Zoe and see what she has to do.

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<v Speaker 5>The weight of love on your shoulders. It must be hard,

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<v Speaker 5>it's difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, two rings, she answered. I knew it, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for answering the phone right now. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Zoe right, Yes, okay, did you know that too? That

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<v Speaker 1>was luck on that one. But you're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with a show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Oh Zoe, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm okay, okay, Yeah? Why am I being

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<v Speaker 6>cold right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? Some might say it's fate that brought us to

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<v Speaker 1>you today, but others would just say it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners named Stephen who asked us to call you.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, thank you? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, hold on, do you remember Stephen?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm not no.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh wow, that's a picture. Really worked I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, so Zoe, we're doing a segment here called

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<v Speaker 1>a second Date Update where we're trying to help Steven

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<v Speaker 1>get in touch with you again because it's been a

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<v Speaker 1>while since you've chatted since the wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, no, there's a reason why we haven't chatted.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, Well do you do you want to tell us?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it seems like it's very clear why you're

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<v Speaker 2>not calling him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you clear to him. We don't we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't think it's clear to him that I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not really up for him wanting to date my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>So why.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he hit on your mom at the wedding reception?

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<v Speaker 6>Or as far as I know, he hasn't met my mom,

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't know if he told you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, hold on, this is a lot. What we know

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<v Speaker 1>is that you guys met at a wedding. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>danced and had a good time. After the wedding, he

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<v Speaker 1>texted you a photo that looked a lot like you

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<v Speaker 1>and then and we thought.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the reason. Yeah, called the fact that it

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<v Speaker 2>freaked you out.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well, I mean that was creepy anyway, but.

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<v Speaker 2>So where did your mom come into play here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. So at the wedding, he said he was surprised

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<v Speaker 6>that I was single because he thought I was pretty

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<v Speaker 6>whatever and yeah, and I was like, oh, yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 6>Even my mom's dating, she's on the apps. Whatever. I

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<v Speaker 6>laughed about it, and he texted me that photo. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 6>But after that, my mom matched with him on one

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<v Speaker 6>of the apps.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, Really, your mom tells your matches?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, I mean my mom and I are fairly close,

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<v Speaker 6>and she showed me who she matched with.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you thinking that he went and like matched with

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<v Speaker 1>her on purpose?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that it matters, probably to her.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't care how it happened. It's just the

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<v Speaker 6>fact that it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, Well we don't know everything about how stuff

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<v Speaker 1>happened the way that it happened. The only person who

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<v Speaker 1>has the answers to that would be Stephen.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He may not even know, yeah, because.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't mention anything like this when we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 1>But he is on the other line right now waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to speak with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Zoe.

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<v Speaker 3>What why?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 1>That's how the segment works, Steven, are you there.

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<v Speaker 3>This is awkward. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, did you know that you had matched with

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<v Speaker 2>her mom?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I told you guys, I was like back on the

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<v Speaker 3>apps and looking for maybe someonet older.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you said, yeah, you didn't say you met with

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<v Speaker 1>her family. You didn't say you went just one generation up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so why's your mom got that young of a

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<v Speaker 2>dating pool? You should check her.

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<v Speaker 5>She let job for the competition mom live.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you two need to talk about this clearly, dude, what.

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<v Speaker 6>Is actually wrong with you? Like you're gonna you're gonna

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<v Speaker 6>call the station and you're going to tell them like

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<v Speaker 6>you're trying to figure out what's wrong. But clearly what's

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<v Speaker 6>wrong is you're trying to get with my mother after

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<v Speaker 6>trying to get with me.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't know you were responding to me. You're being

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<v Speaker 4>kind of cold. I didn't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, for good reason.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>The first straw was you sending me that creepy picture anyway,

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<v Speaker 6>so obviously I was going to be stand offish. And

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<v Speaker 6>then my mom showed me her dating app with you

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<v Speaker 6>on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, have you been talking to her mother and.

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<v Speaker 3>We changed the messages?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you send is a date going to happen

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<v Speaker 1>between you and Zoe's mom? Is that on the books.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't want to ruin things with Zoe and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh when he was prioritizing you Zoe?

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<v Speaker 2>Is you send the mom the same picture you sent Zoe.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to make that the stick again.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, okay, learning Okay, Stephen.

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<v Speaker 6>I even showed her the picture that you sent her

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<v Speaker 6>to me and she still isn't you?

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<v Speaker 3>So you guys can just go, she said, she's still

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<v Speaker 3>into me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, you go enjoy yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh guys, we did it.

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<v Speaker 2>We f have a soul. May God, so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you're saying you ship the relationship with your

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<v Speaker 1>mom and Steven, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean, I don't know what else I can do. I

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<v Speaker 6>can't just tell my mom who she can and can't date.

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<v Speaker 6>So like, how am I supposed to talk to her

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<v Speaker 6>about that.

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<v Speaker 2>At this point? A double date or I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm going in default to the love expert

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. Do you think that we should do

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<v Speaker 1>in this situation?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know perfect great ideas?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, ze dinner with either of them?

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<v Speaker 1>Well she probably should because soon Stephen could be your stepdad.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be around a Thanksgiving case.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to set bout to your mom if you

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<v Speaker 2>got the same age ring.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we would normally offer to send Steven out

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<v Speaker 1>with Zoe, but I guess Stephen will offer to send

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<v Speaker 1>you out with Zoe's mom on the.

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<v Speaker 2>First So insulting. I am sorry, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that insulting?

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<v Speaker 6>Because that'd be greatat.

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<v Speaker 1>Zoey's already turned him down. He's a free agent. He

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<v Speaker 1>can date whoever he wants. Zoe, will you ask your

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<v Speaker 1>mom for us?

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<v Speaker 3>Please?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>No, forget all you guys. I'm sorry, this can't get anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, darn Actually I'm actually worried that it can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your grandma still alive? Because you never know? Yesrooking

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. Wow, who knew fifty bucks on

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<v Speaker 1>a soulmate's psychic picture could work not once, but twice?

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about value getting your money's worse.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not even think about that. It's actually twenty

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<v Speaker 2>f bucks per person at this point. That's great. You

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<v Speaker 2>could call it a family deal, really could if.

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<v Speaker 1>You think about it. Zoe was just the bread crumb

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<v Speaker 1>that led Steven to his eventual destiny.

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<v Speaker 2>The psychic Big Families, so that this can happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Per I mean, what if I know we're all skeptical,

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<v Speaker 1>but what if they really are meant to be? Would

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<v Speaker 1>that Second Date update update be the most anticipated one

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<v Speaker 1>we ever did on this show. Turn this into a movie,

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<v Speaker 1>we will be.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you guys not been following this the Miley Cyrus

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<v Speaker 5>family drama right now? Oh my god, her mom Tish

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<v Speaker 5>got married to a guy that her younger sister was dating.

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<v Speaker 5>The whole thing is a hot mess. Those two aren't talking.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't end well. I'm just telling you.

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