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Speaker 1: I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: Welcome guys to another episode of horrible decisions. I'm Mandy

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Speaker 1: be and I am joined by who Close. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to bro you don't like my intro yet four years

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Speaker 1: in and you still don't like any intro. Our favorite

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Speaker 1: intro that Mandy's. And I'm trying to think when I

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Speaker 1: was quiet and you intro maybe no, No, I like,

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Speaker 1: how do I intro? Which one do you like? Because

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Speaker 1: I hate when you do your weird French accent. It's

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Speaker 1: not the morning was really whatever episode? Because how advertisers

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Speaker 1: have an issue with us? No? Like, this is it?

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Speaker 1: We had our Heart strategy call and they were like,

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Speaker 1: you're like our top listen to show and we're still

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out why people have an issue. Mind you,

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Speaker 1: I think shout out to Dolly, who is the president

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Speaker 1: of the Doe Network who we had one. Shout out

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Speaker 1: to Maddie who was the only white woman. That's right, Ihaku,

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Speaker 1: shout out to all of the black women. But at

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Speaker 1: least they work with us. I know there's a whole

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Speaker 1: lot more on strategy call. There was only women. There

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Speaker 1: just love how Dolly did not give a fuck that

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Speaker 1: Maddie was on the because I was embarrassed. But you're

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Speaker 1: not your co workers. You know, you've got a cool

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Speaker 1: white co worker. I was like, yeah, I just can't

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Speaker 1: understand how these people get as we don't. Oh, we

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Speaker 1: know why, and the ship is bullshit. So we're working

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Speaker 1: on it. And Maddie jumpson, Yeah, we're talking to them

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Speaker 1: right now because it just had that makes sense and

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Speaker 1: the strategy shout. So we're happy for our team. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: shout out you guys. See, while we have been mixing

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Speaker 1: and blending it up with a lot of solo episodes

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Speaker 1: with Wheezie and I specifically because we want to get

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Speaker 1: back to the core of horrible decisions and it's talking

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Speaker 1: about kink and the lifestyle and the space and normalizing things.

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited for the guests that we have today.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we friends, kind of we became friends.

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Speaker 1: We see each other differently. Let me do a very

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Speaker 1: shameless plug tonight eleven PM. Sex Cells on FUSCA is

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Speaker 1: actually how I know our guests. So you guys want

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Speaker 1: to introduce yourselves only because being in the lifestyle, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what nicknames, what you want to go by.

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Speaker 1: I also just know y'all, but I don't think we

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Speaker 1: ever even be like, hey, I call him the plug

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Speaker 1: how wheezy and I know the two of you. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my name is is D. But I also go by

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Speaker 1: Mr st because I'm a professional dominatrix. Yes, okay, um,

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Speaker 1: I go by the Man Slithers Man slithers yea, the

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Speaker 1: like Mark Jackson and he's like, there you go that man,

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Speaker 1: right when Mark Directon is like there goes that man,

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Speaker 1: and like there's that bad man, the man and the way.

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Speaker 1: I'm Mr Mans. So are you guys? Are are a couple?

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Speaker 1: How long have you guys been together? Five years? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god? When did you guys realize that? You were like,

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Speaker 1: oh we nasty, we gotta go to the club together

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Speaker 1: really early on from the beginning. Yeah, did you know

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Speaker 1: we didn't meet at the club. No, great story. So

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Speaker 1: I'm a lifestyle dom and an old boyfriend of mine.

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Speaker 1: We were in a female lead relationship. A female lead relationship,

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Speaker 1: don't be knowing all these words? What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: So a female lad relationship, I mean there's there's all

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Speaker 1: makes most of the decisions where want one to do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's great. So and my boyfriend at that time also

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Speaker 1: I was gonna actually take him to Caligula after because

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Speaker 1: nice outfit. Why do you think that Daniel uses you

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Speaker 1: guys as the You said these were agreeded, but like,

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Speaker 1: I don't think he uses them. No, just I don't

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Speaker 1: quick want to get into Mr slitherers because I didn't

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Speaker 1: I absolutely love black women, like absolutely, like I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't cuff that. I don't change it because she's Asian.

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Speaker 1: That's why the problem was, right, Like, I don't need

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Speaker 1: I really believe what do you mean? So, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: It probably makes me feel like. I mean, I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. But I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to get into exploring swinger terms and lingo with

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Speaker 1: this episode. The other one. And I want to ask

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Speaker 1: Is that something that's that's grinton. I mean, we we

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Speaker 1: What do you call it? I just I just call

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Speaker 1: it him sucking a rod? I mean, okay, so let's

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Speaker 1: do you think that is? Do you think it's because

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Speaker 1: I just talked about this on Patreon. Actually, um, so,

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Speaker 1: I I feel you don't want to hear this personally.

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Speaker 1: Don't like when women are cowering because of the fear

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Speaker 1: or even men that ask you even in the sex club,

426
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: like people believe I don't. I mean, we're all super

427
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 1: open here, but people think, like maybe you don't love

428
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 1: someone that much if you can let them do this,

429
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 1: or how do you love someone so much and you

430
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 1: can watch them with someone else? Like, yeah, what do

431
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: you what's your what's your answer? With a man, I'm

432
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: a huge barrier. So for me, I love watching people

433
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: have sex. You know, it's live born, it's great. And

434
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 1: that's why I go to the sex clubs. I actually

435
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 1: think us fucking are the people enhances our relationship and

436
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,360
Speaker 1: deepens it. Isn't that crazy how that works? I said

437
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: I love you for my first time to old day

438
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: in a three Yeah. I interviewed the girl with her

439
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: new boyfriend, it's crazy, but it's true. Like you realize, like,

440
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: oh my god, I love doing this with you, having

441
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 1: this open this with you. Yeah, when did you, guys

442
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 1: fall in love? Was it that sex love? I mean

443
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: I've I told him when I first met him, because

444
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: we met before we engaged, and the first time I

445
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: saw him, I was like, oh my pussy popped when

446
00:23:49,920 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 1: I saw you. That was so romantic, Like I get

447
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: those things. Another term that I wanted to talk to

448
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: you guys about and see if you had any familiar

449
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: familiarity with is reconnection sex. So reconnection sex, for those

450
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: of you who are curious, is sex with your partner

451
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: after a lifestyle encounter with others. Sometimes it occurs immediately

452
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: after you are out of the presence of the others.

453
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes it is delayed until the next day or so.

454
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 1: This is sometimes referred to as reclamation sex, and that

455
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: you are reclaiming your partner as your own. However, since

456
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: this term might be understood his ownership in some sense

457
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: of your partner, most swingers prefer the term is reconnection sex.

458
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: Is this something that you guys see as to be

459
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: important after a night at the sex club or do

460
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: you make sure you end the night with each other.

461
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 1: Is there any rules um to that? Or with threesomes?

462
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: How is reconnection sex with you guys? Um, I don't

463
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,239
Speaker 1: know if they're reconnection. I mean we we rec then

464
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: I immediately when we start walking out the door, automatically

465
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: having a conversation like what would you like it could

466
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: be after the moment happened. Soon as they walk away,

467
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: we're like, yo, what happened? You see that happened? And

468
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: we plup that, you know, like we just start going

469
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 1: and like little kids, like show me, tell me what

470
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,719
Speaker 1: how you feel, like show me show me your WRS.

471
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: I'll show you my situation or tell you how I

472
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: feel about the situation or like for me, I always

473
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: want her to have like the most intense time, like

474
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 1: because I sometimes push it on her like oh please,

475
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: like I do that. I don't really see him in

476
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: ext I'm right there. You can do this like you

477
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,159
Speaker 1: have sex at the sex club or just what is

478
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 1: the most What is the most amount of partners you

479
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: have had at one night in a sex club? I

480
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: would say three? Yeah, okay, three or four? What's your

481
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: ideal night together? Because we're talking about the term with

482
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 1: you guys talk a lot today and you are aready

483
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: tell us about how you weren't up a good time,

484
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: but like, do you enjoy three sms mm f like

485
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: or is your ideal thing you watching for both of you?

486
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 1: If it's a different answer, I'd like than I'm too.

487
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I'm probably the one partician Penny much

488
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: more than her, like what you've seen, like probably it's

489
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 1: not like actually the true situation, Like I'm probably the

490
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: one she loves to watch more than anything, like more

491
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: than more than me. I mean, I love to watch

492
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: while doing participating, so pleasing is where I like, I

493
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: love to pleasure so um, and she likes to watch

494
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: me do that. But we're going to get it to

495
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: our vanilla ship. I was gonna say, so your ideal

496
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: nighted sex club together is not sucking each other. Um,

497
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: we find each other all the time. Yeah, that's like

498
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: Piazzas and I will be one dick. I'd be like,

499
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: you're sucking man at the sex club. We fund each

500
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: other at the club. I mean, we were usually people

501
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: who get it started, Like I would like to proclaim

502
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: that title. I feel like me and my man, depending

503
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: how early we get there, we be the first one

504
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 1: is active. Maybe you were the first ones actor when

505
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: you got there, like we were probably already playing, and

506
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: there was there was another party going on, like a

507
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: rave one time upstairs, and I guess uh, Daniel was

508
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: doing like a tour to the people of the sex club,

509
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: and bench I was going on, sure, I'll just sucking

510
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: my nigga dick while he was giving a tour, and

511
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 1: I was like, this is what we do. What was crazy?

512
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: But when I go to the sex club, I feel

513
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: like we do our intro. We say hi to everyone

514
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: because now there's regulars. We're kind of regulars, like my

515
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: man being there dapping niggers up. I'll be like, all right,

516
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: calm down, yeah, So we'll have our drink and then

517
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 1: we get into within the hour, we're in our own world.

518
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: And I know, you get into your own world and

519
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 1: that leads us to our vanillaship. This comes from Vice

520
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: and really it's an article on the Beginner's Guide to

521
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: Sex Clubs. Now, we've had a ton of conversation about

522
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: sex clubs, but I want you guys to say, or

523
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: you guys to give some advice on what you should

524
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: do and things to think about before you get to

525
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: the sex club. So whether it's a conversation with your partner,

526
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 1: how you come prepared, the things that should be in

527
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: your purse before you're even at the sex club. What

528
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: inhibitions and things should you have in mind? You should

529
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 1: because we have a laundry list of things, so you know,

530
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: and we're like, yeah, preparation. Yeah, we call ourselves a

531
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: couple of pros because that's what we do. We do.

532
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: You know, we have like a sex bag we have.

533
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: You know, we were very comfortable, so we know each

534
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: other and what each other's desires are. You know, we

535
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: already had those conversations over multiple times. I think that

536
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: before you go into a sex club, and if you

537
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: are even with your partner or not, understand why are

538
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: you going? What is the draw for you to go here?

539
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: Is it voyeurism? Is it submicion? I just want to

540
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: get a new more. I just want a lot of sex.

541
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: When whatever it is, why are you here? Absolutely? Um?

542
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: I think um setting your setting your standard a pace

543
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: like with your partner right like you, Um, you're one

544
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: person maybe much much further ahead in their personal development,

545
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: like of like of sexualizing themselves. Like okay, I like

546
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: coucle play. I want to have a threesome with two women.

547
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: I want to have an MMF or whatever you what

548
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: is you want to do, but you need to be

549
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: able to consistently communicate that even in real time. I'll

550
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: said the last time that I went to the sex club,

551
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,959
Speaker 1: I brought my homegirl with me. UM shout out Medina

552
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: from Cocktails, And I felt like I had to be

553
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: a therapist that night because there was a woman who

554
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: was in love with Medina and she took Medina to

555
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: the couch. They played with each other and her man

556
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: tried to join and Medina was like no, and the

557
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: girlfriend kept playing And I wish we could have captured this,

558
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: like I wanted to on Patreon UM, but audio sucked up.

559
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: But we talked about it, and I felt responsible to

560
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: talk to the boyfriend because you could tell they're both

561
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: at the sex club. I think he wanted to experience more,

562
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: and yet the girlfriend was getting all of the pleasure

563
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: and he didn't, and you could tell that he was

564
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: getting upset, and I was like, this is gonna be

565
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: this is gonna have to be a conversation. I was like, Ohdinna,

566
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: you're breaking couples up me here, But you have to

567
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: have the conversation. Honestly, I think a lot of men

568
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: want their first three, so they're so fucking pressed for it. Yeah,

569
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: so excited about it. I mean, And I don't know

570
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 1: if this would have been there first. I mean I

571
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 1: say that because I feel like, if you've been around

572
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: the block, you ain't get managed it like that. He

573
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: seemed to me upset. And maybe these guys have had

574
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: an experience, but like for men to act like that,

575
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: to be that thirsty, to be in it right now,

576
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: you you must not be just to me. Um. The

577
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: only reason I say want their first reason is so

578
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: bad because the people are even interviewed in the Fused episode,

579
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: all of the couples that I interviewed were had never

580
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: been to NSFW, and every man was like, well, I

581
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: think that's the thing too. When you go to a

582
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: sex club especially that's what people especial partners. It comes

583
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: at a cost. So it's a little more costly than

584
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: maybe your average night going to a club if you're

585
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: just getting drinks, because you know there's an entry fee,

586
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: you bring your own bottle, you want to eat like

587
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: you know, And so I think that there are sometimes expectations,

588
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: specifically for men to want to be involved instead of

589
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: just seeing their partner, like you guys have enjoyed themselves.

590
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: Can you tell us about a time that you know

591
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: obviously you guys are friends of NSFW and you love

592
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: that space, but like maybe early on in your relationship

593
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:51,479
Speaker 1: with sex club, you went to where you guys had

594
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: a bad experience, not necessarily the name of a club,

595
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: but just like whether something happened there, whether the way

596
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: they carry it on, Like, what's something people should look

597
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: out for? Um, I think any space is going to

598
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: be bad experiences. Um. Each person has their own set

599
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: of standards. Next, and the thing is to rid yourself

600
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: as you of your expectations. Your expectations provide you with

601
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: an imposition on another person, right, So like you're gonna

602
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 1: impose your expectations another person because you see someone in

603
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: them that you're carrying want for them. You're not letting

604
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: them come to the table as an offering to you, like, Hey,

605
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 1: we are celebrating our experience here together, let's have some sex.

606
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: What about even just the venue itself or the way

607
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,239
Speaker 1: that the parties carried on or anything that could be

608
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: better than in accept abut does better? I think that

609
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: you know he like look of My partner loves the

610
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: look and layoutup and w and the fact that you

611
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: just kind of to Caligula. There's different looks. I mean,

612
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: it could look like a bar, or it could look

613
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: like a beautiful law. You know, there's definitely different looks

614
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: from each one I've been to. Do you guys prefer

615
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: a certain layout? Um, I don't layout a thing for me.

616
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 1: Intimacy is a thing for me. Like how how the

617
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: atmosphere goes for me? I don't like music sound. I'm

618
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: very um auditory. So if if the music is too

619
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: loud and I can't have a conversation with the woman

620
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: next to me, that's a problem, you know what I mean? Like,

621
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: how do I get hurt? How do we get to intimate?

622
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: How do we have a like we screaming? Like I've

623
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: never seen sex get carried on when the person is

624
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: yelling at each other, Like I've never seen that, right, Um,

625
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: please help me out here space Like she's supposed to

626
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: feel comfortable so I can say my piece and you

627
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: yelling in her ear? Yeah, that's not sex at all.

628
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: And normally women, even in a regular club that it

629
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: becomes annoying because now I'm trying to hear you over

630
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: loud music and now you're just too close because I'm

631
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: just father absolutely okay, And you know I never even

632
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: thought of that time. The loudness of the music. The

633
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: nuance of things is how you get your things, you

634
00:33:55,320 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like if you're just saying saying,

635
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: like everybody has sex, right, like like how you have

636
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: it is why somebody wants you. Do you find that

637
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: because there's not many single men that go to a

638
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: sex club too often, we find it well in terms

639
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: of price, yeah, right, So most sex clubs offer a

640
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: couples a rate and single men are higher. The ladies

641
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: maybe free or super discounted rate. But I want to

642
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: know because when couples are coming in and want to

643
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: bring in a man or maybe another c situation. Black

644
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 1: men have fetishize a lot, do you join other couples

645
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: that are hetero couples for like to like tell us

646
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: about that or even your experience it maybe like I

647
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: really want a black guy, like has that happened? That is? Um,

648
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: I've had that experience. I don't particularly care for the experience.

649
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: I don't care for the BBC language if you mean,

650
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: if you mean because I would like to be sure

651
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 1: that's what I'm watching exactly. You're using it to find

652
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: you're using it to call, right, Like oh yeah, right,

653
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: like you're using it to like so I'm trying to

654
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: find my people, so like I know they're using this,

655
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 1: uh this button, so I'm going to press the button

656
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: to get what I need. But the question is like

657
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: if you're if you feel the persons at BBC or

658
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: something like that, like they're an appendage on me, Like

659
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: you will see like woman dates BBC, husband loves like

660
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: you don't mean it, give him a whole, solid, whole name, like,

661
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 1: oh person, white guy crushes woman on whatever. Right, BBC

662
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: does this same action, the same thing. You're an appendage.

663
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: He's a solid person, even how the porn is listed.

664
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 1: So like, and let me let you know the BBC

665
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: that I have and how I get down. It's my

666
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: intensity that that lays them. It's how it's how I move,

667
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,919
Speaker 1: it's what I do, right, Like we've had conversation where

668
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: big dicks do nothing for her like big and feels

669
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: like little because he has no intensity. We don't talked

670
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,919
Speaker 1: about that, all right, So yeah, big dicks don't don't

671
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: always mean pleasurable. It doesn't all is mean I'm gonna

672
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: be pleased, But there are a lot of men that

673
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: come in with a big dick and think that's all

674
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: they need. So we've had this conversation and like it's

675
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: my intensity that gets some like knocked out or has

676
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: their eyes rolling back, or like you know, you can

677
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: see as the white of their eyes are clutching the

678
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: fucking sheets around me. Get it? I mean that's just

679
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: like how I plan to get down. So like how

680
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: I see sex, it's how I come at it. Do

681
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 1: you enjoy though being the bull or because you're the

682
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: cuck in your relationship? Like how how did you just

683
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: go from the bull? Well, your your intensity is your sensitivity, right,

684
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: So your sensivity and bravery is the same thing, right,

685
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: Like being vulnerable and being braves the same thing. They're

686
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: both going on the same the same same plane, right,

687
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 1: So cuck hold and bull goes on the same plane.

688
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: Like I absolutely like watching her play. I don't feel

689
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: like I don't feel inferior at all, Like it intensifies

690
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: who I am. Um. I also prefer like like NBA

691
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: style ship like so like if you're gonna like like

692
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: we're in the league, like somebody show me, no, not sport,

693
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: fucking like, show me you've got skills. He's my fucking woman,

694
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: like so that I know that I need to raise

695
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: my game too. That's a little bit sport. Yeah, you

696
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: put intent behind it, so I don't need to diminish

697
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: it to that. Like but I say, but I don't

698
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: want to love that. There's a little of it in there,

699
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why. For sure. It's a power dynamic, yeah,

700
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: because like I've never got to have that, like a

701
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 1: man that's got to watch someone else with me and

702
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: then like oh hell no, like now I gotta. I

703
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: was for it, like feeling like I absolutely put it

704
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: down after because no, he's not even like that. Like

705
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: when we go home, I will be like, tell me

706
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: all the dudes you want to fuck, like I want

707
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: to hear how wild you are and see this is crazy.

708
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: This is the kind of dynamic that is weird for me.

709
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: So my relationship he is very much. You sound like

710
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: him right now, and I'm just I know I'll be

711
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 1: talking and now I'm like, damn, niga, did you get

712
00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: my nigga thinking like this? Um? But when we talk,

713
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: that's the thing he is like, you know, I know

714
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: who you were before because I probably overshare the partners

715
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: and how many I had before him, And so he's like,

716
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: I never want to feel like I'm holding you back.

717
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: And so when we go to those clubs, he'd be like,

718
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: you're good, go go get Dick, go go, and I'm like, no,

719
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just want to have you. Um. But also

720
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 1: the fact that I love that you're saying that. He

721
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 1: said the same thing, like, I know what i'd do

722
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, like I don't mind if someone else

723
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: comes in and pleases you, and I want to lead

724
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: that into the hor derv do you have any tips

725
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 1: for couples that are interested in the coke or bowl dynamic?

726
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: What would be your tips to someone considering it? They

727
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: haven't done it yet, but they've been talking about it.

728
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: What would be your advice to a couple looking to

729
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 1: engage in this as from the woman perspective and from

730
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: the male perspective of them, So for like, is it

731
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: the woman wanting this? Ye? Okay, uh be honest, I

732
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: think it's one of the things that I would say

733
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: is that if you are thinking about it, just say, hey,

734
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: I've been really I really want to you know, try

735
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 1: someone anew, how how do you feel about that? And

736
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 1: start off that conversation. It's and then also the person

737
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: receiving that is being secure within themselves to say, Okay,

738
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: let's sit this down and not feel like it is

739
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: a job on who they are. You know, when we

740
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: first started dating and also going into sex clubs and

741
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: things like that, you know, we had a lot of

742
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: conversations beforehand of what this means for our relationship. How

743
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: do we feel if we're in a you know, different situations.

744
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: You know, we've we've talked it out, and I think

745
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: that's the most important thing. Is It all starts with

746
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: the conversation what was your first experience? Like, like did

747
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 1: you want more? Not even together? I mean, like how

748
00:39:55,880 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: do you know? It seems like you've mastered it, you

749
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 1: know what I mean? But I mean you both are

750
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: very confident, right, like of course we all have king

751
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: story out, but like, yeah, how did you know you

752
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: were into this lifestyle? So I became a so I

753
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: discovered uh being in like me d SM. So I

754
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: came into this through kink and this was about six

755
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: years ago and I had a domestic slave. Um he

756
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: would come in you know, clean my house. I need

757
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: one of them. Where are you getting them from? Yeah?

758
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: He loved it for it, he didn't pay for it.

759
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: And I was a lifestyle dom. I wasn't a professional level,

760
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: so I mean, I'm still a lifestyle dom. Uh. And

761
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: I was actually getting ready to go on a date,

762
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: so I was so while he was cleaning up, I

763
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: was kind of like figuring out what to wear things

764
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: like that, and he told me, he was like, you know,

765
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: if there's any next time, I would love to help

766
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,399
Speaker 1: you get ready to go on your date. And as

767
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 1: soon as he said that, I was like, I want

768
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 1: one of these as soon as yeah. As soon as

769
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 1: he said that, I was saying yeah, I was like, man,

770
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: I would love to be in a relationship where I

771
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 1: can go out and like, you know, date or other

772
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: man or do and like I was slave. Let you

773
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: know that, that's so dope. That is crazy, right. I

774
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 1: didn't know. So this was very early on, uh you know,

775
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: me going through my discovery of kings, so I didn't

776
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: even know that there was a formal name for it.

777
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 1: It wasn't until about a year later, when I was

778
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: in my FLR that my my then boyfriend said, well,

779
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm a bit of a cuck. And I was like,

780
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 1: what is this and he explained, he goes, oh my god,

781
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: I had a name and hasn't name. I wonder if

782
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: we draw people like to think about that, you know,

783
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: you met someone ended up with someone that's into kinky

784
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: ship me or we have less threesomes. You guys found

785
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: each other. Like do people smell it on you? I

786
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: mean I think that you do. I mean you think

787
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: it also comes in conversations. Uh, you know who you're

788
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: comfortable and who you who you just know can receive

789
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: the information to where once you find someone that you

790
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: know you can be yourself with in and out the bedroom,

791
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: it's like this huge, you know, weight lifted off your shoulder,

792
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: especially as a woman, to be able to tell your

793
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 1: partner I really want other dick. Like I had a

794
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: Nigga text me at four I am. My man was

795
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: coming over that day, and I said, but you don't

796
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: believe what Nigga thought. He was gonna get pussy at

797
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: four I am. And that's just a conversation. I didn't

798
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: feel like I had to hide it from him. And like,

799
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: so it's just a weight to where you guys can

800
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: enjoy each other without hiding things. UM, I want to

801
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: ask you before we get into fully cut, before we

802
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 1: get out of here, Um, what advice would you give

803
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 1: to a man um as far as confidence of maybe

804
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: entering the CUK situation where he doesn't feel um emasculated bravado.

805
00:42:55,080 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means, Andy Kole. You

806
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: men are fragile, like absolutely like paper thin, fragile with

807
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: water on it like women women. Women run the sex

808
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: arena like it's a matriorch society. So you have to

809
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: understand that you're offering yourself as a pleasure like Okay,

810
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,959
Speaker 1: here's who I am, blah blah blah, here's and women

811
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: will say, I'm drawn to you, I would like to

812
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: sleep with you. Men men, um, if they're looking for

813
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: their women are looking for their women's likes, looking for

814
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: a fantasy for her. If they're absolutely have a fetish

815
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: for this, for this cake, they're looking for a man

816
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: that's going to be something there women probably would never

817
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: get as someone who's so dumb. What's your dynamic in

818
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: your relationship now? Because your girlfriend's a dom do you

819
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: feel that like one? But like seriously, like are you

820
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: stubbing at home? Do you feel, Yeah, well, neither one

821
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: of us, neither one of us, is it please with

822
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: a smirk, like neither one of us. I mean, I

823
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,959
Speaker 1: don't consider myself dumb or alpha or any of those things,

824
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: like I'm me right and okay if you just don't

825
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: want to say sub no, no, any of those things,

826
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 1: but you know what it's given. But that's so that's

827
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 1: also strange to me because you I don't know of

828
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: those dynamics to work, especially for as long as it has.

829
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: You don't really see two doms together, Like I've definitely

830
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: become a sub with my man being as dumb as

831
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: he is. So it's weird because you guys still both

832
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 1: have very dumb like energy, right, And that's what I'm

833
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: saying to you, like we figured a way to bridge

834
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: our likings in our in our fetishes and our kinks

835
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: versus like you must do this or I must take

836
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: this place on you, Like who are you alpha too?

837
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: During the day? Who are you walking around telling what

838
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: to do like outside of your job if you're if

839
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: you're a boss, but like people are like I'm down

840
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: on these, like if you go on field or whatever

841
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: like that, like I'm dom alf was like but who

842
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: are you done with? Right? Like, so I'm not exactly

843
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: like my only feeling is like to bridge my my

844
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: likings with her right so that I can get what

845
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: I need and she can get what she needs. She's

846
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: like at some points she's very possessive, and for me,

847
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: I need to be able to have communications so I

848
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: can move through things. Talk about that because I'm possessive too,

849
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: but nonogous relationship. She's like, I CHEALOUSEA just comes with me,

850
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: and it comes with everyone in your like like not a.

851
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: So well, let me explain. Like when I say I'm possessive,

852
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 1: I like a lot of like ownership of somebody, and

853
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily but it's not like a possessive you

854
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 1: can't obviously like the partners I've had to see with

855
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 1: other people. And I'm in a nominogous relationship, but the

856
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: possessiveness comes from this weird place and sometimes I can't

857
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 1: explain it because I am this person, or people will

858
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: think I'm lying because they'll see me get possessive. But

859
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 1: I want to know what the fuck you guys are

860
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: on here? Because you allow each other to do your thing?

861
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: How does your possessiveness work. I mean, I I would

862
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: say overall. I mean I can get possessive in certain situations.

863
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: That's that's the thing. Is he aware of those situations? Yeah,

864
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: he's aware. And um the thing is, you know, I

865
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: love him pleasing other women because there's a lot of

866
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 1: bad sex out there, you know, and wanted to share.

867
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: Look what I got, bitch, and it's coming home with me?

868
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: Are we are? We there? What's what I'm like? Yeah,

869
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: I want you to feel this way. I wanted to

870
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: be like I always like if we have a kid,

871
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: I want to go in to pta meetings and like

872
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: other women like, girl, that's your husband, Like yo, like

873
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: a real girl, I know. And she just I was

874
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: just gonna ask you guys your parents Actually Yeah, absolutely,

875
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: I love that he said the p c amy and

876
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 1: but also also so go back to that state in

877
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: the situation. Um, I love sharing him. And I think

878
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: that's that if I could make a woman realized like no,

879
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: that there are men out there that that was that's

880
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 1: not out there for them that want to please you, awesome,

881
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: you know, like when her eyes roll back, love it

882
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: because I'm there with you, girl, I see it. Um

883
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: it is when she feels that she can take she

884
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: wants to take him. How do you how do you

885
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: know when what makes you feel that way? It's like

886
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: a gut is there private? They want to have sex privately?

887
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: Do you guys have sex privately with other people? We

888
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,919
Speaker 1: do have sex, like without each other present, but I've

889
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: done that before. Um, but it's kind of like I

890
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: don't know. It's like a feeling that I get that

891
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 1: they are sending messages to him privately. We have group

892
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: we have group texts for a reason. I love seeing

893
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: her say, oh I think he's hot, Oh my god,

894
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: he sucked you so well, Like that turns me on.

895
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: But if you're doing it privately and saying you know,

896
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: is it when I've always felt like that, When there's

897
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: no camaraderie, you're almost like I was in the word

898
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: sister between me another girl like wanting to be friends

899
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: like you friends. But like most unicor most girls that

900
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: I've brought into me like not are over the top,

901
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 1: but they're very clear that they're like there for me

902
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: to or not, even if they're not working with me,

903
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: but like that they get the dynamic. Yeah, like they're

904
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: talking to me, they're looking at me, and then it's

905
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: not a real approval like go suck is dick now,

906
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: but like they know that we've got something before they

907
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 1: do it. They like the comfortability first. When people don't

908
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 1: want that, that's when I'm on Tyler. That's that's how

909
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 1: I feel, is that when I feel that they are

910
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: not respectful of our our relationship, that's when the possessiveness

911
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: and the jealousy And is that something that you check

912
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: the woman on or you check him on to make sure. Look,

913
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: he said it's my okay, she's checked some women. But

914
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: it's really like, hey, I don't like her, and it's um,

915
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: I don't like her for specific reasons or um, this

916
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 1: is what she did. Like for me, I'm not in

917
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 1: her perspective right, so I'm not her. I'm possibly playing

918
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: or doing something where I don't. I don't, I wasn't aware.

919
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: What did you see? Absolutely? Absolutely like that, you know

920
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, let's be clear what's happening? You know?

921
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: I mean because I she's my fun. Has this hoever

922
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: happened in the reverse? Where? Oh? Absolutely? Like I'll tell

923
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: her I don't even know she knows this? Oh yes,

924
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:47,359
Speaker 1: Jerry Spring and put the camera on we were we

925
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: were actually an FWS last week or something like that,

926
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: and it's rare that she last week. I mean, I'm

927
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 1: just saying I'm thinking at the time it was she.

928
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: I was sitting up in the front near the door,

929
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 1: so I wasn't even in the play areas, like you said,

930
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: like just chilling, chilling, right, and um. She comes up

931
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 1: to me and she's like, hey, baby, make rumps my

932
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: back and sits down next to me, and she's like, oh,

933
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: I want you to meet this guy. I look up

934
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: for my ship, like who is this nigger? I might

935
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: even a lie to you, like being vulnerable? How how

936
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: you move forward? Right? So like I I looked up. Okay,

937
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, he plays basketball and this and that

938
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: and whatever, you know, giving me the rundown, Give me

939
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: the rundown, right, And she's like, I know you like

940
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: to hoop and blo blah. So she's trying to make

941
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: the connection to like make sure like I'm good, like

942
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 1: like like he likes the things you like. Here's the bridging.

943
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:47,720
Speaker 1: It's gonna be cool. Let him put his dick in me. Okay,

944
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: I see I see the move. Okay, Okay, I see

945
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: the move. So She's trying to like make sure I'm

946
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: good and she he just like turned away and she's

947
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: like I want to fuck him? Okay, Like why this dude? Right?

948
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: So in my mind, I'm like, oh, I'm gonna I'm

949
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: about to find out, like why you want to funk

950
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: this dude? Like and honestly, it was nothing like it

951
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: was just like that you get like why him? You

952
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And out of all the dudes

953
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: we've seen multiple times, why this dude? Like I said

954
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: that about your man too, Like I just don't be

955
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: knowing sometimes, right, so what But it's one of those

956
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: things like I was like you should look. I'm like, okay,

957
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 1: but like this dude came out of nowhere, right, So

958
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: she brought him to me, which is like a whole

959
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 1: other kind of way you generally are. Well, she's scouting together,

960
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,479
Speaker 1: is that why? Oh? I'm always scouting for her? Like

961
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm always like what about I do? Because I want

962
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: to have a good time. I don't like you may

963
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: be talking to my man he does that when we're there,

964
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, I'm good, you can go and

965
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 1: have fun. But he asked me, like you go how atome?

966
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,760
Speaker 1: How often do you get to be wild honestly? Honestly,

967
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 1: I'm starting to think it's your head now, but it's

968
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: in my head. I'll be honest with you. I think

969
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 1: I've been to the second I think this is. But

970
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: this is someone that genuinely, like I said if I

971
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: met him at a different time, I used to come

972
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: on this podcast to say I need a nigga who

973
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,799
Speaker 1: will let me keep all my hopes right. But I'm

974
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: saying in a position now where but he's fulfilling in

975
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: everything to where I don't need anything from anyone, right.

976
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: I'm so fulfilled. Do you feel fulfilled? I think most

977
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: people I feel fulfilled too, But I don't mean I

978
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,399
Speaker 1: don't want to somebody else. I just haven't been there yet.

979
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: I think you're not there yet. The feeling part is

980
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 1: that she can. She has the option. I'm like, man,

981
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: I like women who have options. You know, I don't

982
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 1: want to. I gotta get with this dude and that

983
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: dude like I wanted to be like because I don't

984
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: do it. Because she chose me makes me better. It

985
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: takes a minute because you want to kind of be together.

986
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: And I think for anyone listening who sees this dynamic,

987
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 1: Like people have asked me, like, what happened, old baby,

988
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: because I'm sing other people and it's like the non

989
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,399
Speaker 1: monogamy has been there that after two years, that's when

990
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, Okay, now I really understand

991
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: my relationship is. Now there's a comfortability. Now I know

992
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,319
Speaker 1: where it's going. Now I can suck someone else without

993
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: being scared. Because when someone tells you that you're kind

994
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,799
Speaker 1: of like, no, but I love you. I want you

995
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: to know I love you, like, don't worry I'll need

996
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: other dick. There's a lot of reassuring that comes with that,

997
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 1: me and him, both sides. I mean, but he's been like,

998
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: I don't want you to ever feel like I would

999
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: look at you differently. I don't want you to, you know,

1000
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: feel as though I'm I'm gonna judge you or think

1001
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: of you on a lower way because you decided to

1002
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: be with an a a partner. And I think that

1003
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: that's that's what's so amazing about I'm and I'm so

1004
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,839
Speaker 1: glad that we started this show to have these conversations

1005
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: because cheating or having sex with another person is a

1006
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: deal breaker for so many people that they're fucking holding

1007
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: hands right now. It's so funny because mine is cheating,

1008
00:53:56,840 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: but not having sex another person. My deal breakers cheating.

1009
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,439
Speaker 1: It's different. But through the level of betrayal in line,

1010
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,240
Speaker 1: don't lie to me. And if we're into this space

1011
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 1: where I can genuinely tell you, a nigga text me

1012
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: and wanted this pussy and I got offered to be

1013
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 1: flown out, but I didn't really want to go, like

1014
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: to have that level of honest conversations, you do feel

1015
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: betrayed when you're like, bro, I'm so honest with you

1016
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: and you still feel the need the lie. I let

1017
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 1: you funk other people in front of me, and you

1018
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: still chose to do it behind my back. It's because

1019
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:34,240
Speaker 1: when you are a monogamous couple and you have the urge,

1020
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, if you're a monogamous you know

1021
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 1: you were breaking something. You knew it was gonna hurt

1022
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,959
Speaker 1: me in some way. And I'm not saying that lying

1023
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: is like protecting anyone, but it's more understandable that you're

1024
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: lying in that situation. But when Lyne goes on within

1025
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 1: an open situation is like non negotiable. Can I ask

1026
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 1: you guys real quick too before we get out of

1027
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 1: here in the in the in the sense of cook

1028
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: and lifestyle and swinging, What then counts as cheating in

1029
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: this space where technically we're open, technically we swing, technically

1030
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: I know you're with other people. What then is cheating

1031
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: in this in this sense? Um? For me, I think

1032
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: holding back your desire and not being able to work

1033
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: it out, like like unwilling willfingly wilfully working it out,

1034
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: like you can always move past your jealousy, you can

1035
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: always resolve an issue. If you're trying to hold it back.

1036
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: Then to me, that's like a cheat to the to

1037
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 1: our team, like me and you, me and you want

1038
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: the same team, right, you're you get beat and I'm like, yo, man,

1039
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: you gotta be baseline. You need to work on this

1040
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: with You're like, I ain't working on this, like we're

1041
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: in the game, bro, Like what do you mean you

1042
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 1: keep liking Like, no, you're on the baseline. And that's

1043
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: why she came up there and said he likes she knew,

1044
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: but like point of scope, you just like is is

1045
00:55:58,239 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: more of a cheat to me if you're not you're

1046
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: unwilling to work it out, but you will continue to

1047
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,919
Speaker 1: like sleep with other dudes like while while we're going

1048
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: through the situation and I'm like, oh, you do you

1049
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: wanna tell me what's going with your desire? Like no,

1050
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 1: I want to tell you none of that, but you

1051
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:13,800
Speaker 1: sucking other dudes? You know what I mean saying like

1052
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: randomly like we may swap some situations most like not

1053
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: in spite. I think when you're doing these things like

1054
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: I don't like non monogamy in the relationship isn't good

1055
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: right because exactly something that I'm not giving you And

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Speaker 1: now that because it's really the truth, Like we are

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00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: all in non monogamous situations because comfortability. So if we're uncomfortable,

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Speaker 1: tell me you just suck someone else because we can't

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00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 1: right now? Absolutely? Oh okay, I like that. You said,

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Speaker 1: what about you? What would be considered cheating to you? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Them bitches? This texting on the side, right, you know

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00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: about all? I know? I know everything. Yeah, he shares

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00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: everything with me, so you same you know she's got

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Speaker 1: the power. I don't. Yeah, absolutely, I would say I

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Speaker 1: would say the same thing if he's like holding back,

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Speaker 1: if he you know, he tells me something even though

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00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: he knows it's going to make me upset. Do you

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00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: think oversharing is necessary and a dynamic question I need

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00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 1: to know because my friends all think I overshare, so

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Speaker 1: but in none of them are in the dynamic that

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Speaker 1: we died in or that I'm in, or even that

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Speaker 1: y'all are int What do you believe in oversharing in

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Speaker 1: this type of non monogamous dynamic of a relationship. Not

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00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: for me, I mean I would consider myself an overshare.

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Speaker 1: But what's oversharing like being able to share all of

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00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: me with her? Is that a problem? Right? Like I'm

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Speaker 1: absolutely going to tell her everything that I possibly can

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00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: so that we can have a more intense situation and

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Speaker 1: that we are like having the best time and she

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Speaker 1: feels it. She can walk around like my man gives

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Speaker 1: me all the deeds, I'll see what to be honest,

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00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: because it's not like good sex, granted, like girls are shady,

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00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: but it's just hard. Like honestly, we've had even listeners

1084
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: comment about, um, oh, like your sex life perfect, or

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00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: you're talking about relationship being this way everything is so

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00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: perfect and is well I'm saying, just even making that comment,

1087
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: people don't find their perfect partner or things that they want,

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00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: so like it is really hard to find someone that

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00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: is just as for women is like we are when

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00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 1: we're like oka like you guys may not use that term,

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00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,960
Speaker 1: but that's essentially what our minute doing, right like in

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00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: just in this funner way, but like, yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Not that I get what someone's I mean, I am

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00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 1: saying that I don't disrespect, I guess, but it's just

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00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: like people really feel like why can't I have that?

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00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 1: Instead of celebrating for you? Right, And that's my thing

1097
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: is that, you know, why why can't you say that's amazing?

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00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: I need to find someone like that because the first

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00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 1: thing someone should say is we're your brother's at where

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00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 1: your friends at? And instead like I'm trying when your

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00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: girls gonna be gone? They really? Right? I mean I

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00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 1: just picked up a new best friend for sure, and

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00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: he can he's very similar to me. Yeah, very very

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00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 1: similar to me, and the thought frost so much decisions.

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00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: I need him to pull the you know, he's really

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Speaker 1: on the Instagram count to you, like he's really not

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Speaker 1: for that. I love that ship you know Instagram. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I get Instagram talking. I'm assuming he doesn't have the

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00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: selfies for you, but yeah, I mean I can show

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Speaker 1: you on Instagram at this point, he has a small

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00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: dick and gets jealous because all the men who are

1112
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Speaker 1: in this lifestyle, like a lot of them, do not

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Speaker 1: have to I love a few thousand and under, and

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00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: really I need some I've got to do. The other

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Speaker 1: day who had one eighty and I was like, damn,

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Speaker 1: I will go to to like that's a mone because

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Speaker 1: I don't care, absolutely don't do anything. So you follow

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00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: a count I said. We were talking about this before

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Speaker 1: we came, and I was like, listen, I understand about

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Speaker 1: having like Google followers, like dude, like tons of tons

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Speaker 1: of people, But honestly, if my followers were like you

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Speaker 1: you you know, three hundred top notch women, tell me

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Speaker 1: how dope that is? Like that's three like Cardi b

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Speaker 1: many easy like the people who follow me. That's fact.

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Speaker 1: If you could pick a top like a five hundred,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like you're the kind of guy, but

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Speaker 1: it's like if you don't have anything to do. But

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Speaker 1: imagine just Beyonce has a fence. She has. Beyonce has

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Speaker 1: I think maybe like four hundred people in a different

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Speaker 1: Instagram maybe three d something like that where she actually

1131
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 1: posts every day and it's like people she fucks with yeah,

1132
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Speaker 1: like I could see that a lot of celebrities have that,

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Speaker 1: the niggers in the league. That he hit me on

1134
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Speaker 1: a fences like I want right like yo, he pulls

1135
01:00:56,920 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: her perfect like many fun with him. No, you're like,

1136
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: you tell me you haven't met a guy I have.

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01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 1: Recently when I went to l A, he had like

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Speaker 1: eight hundred followers, but we were at a really popping

1139
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 1: party and I was like, okay, because you're assuming maybe

1140
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: your industry person or maybe you're not maybe just cool

1141
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 1: with people. When I click on his Instagram, I just

1142
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: follow these random like I follow much hot girls. They

1143
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 1: all followed him exactly, and I felt like such a

1144
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: because I was sure, okay, maybe just he's just thought.

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Speaker 1: I mean, no, I can't name a nigga. Do whatever

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Speaker 1: you want. I'm just saying like, or they're just a

1147
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 1: super just right, you're just like yo, I would secret

1148
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 1: that like like I scrolled this nigga pictures or I

1149
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: love what he's saying so much that I reread his

1150
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: erotica like look at him down for this nigga like sneak,

1151
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: which before we do get out of here, because both

1152
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: of you guys do at least have with Twitter, but

1153
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: you do have um an only fans where you you

1154
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 1: have erotica like actors like you. You really get into

1155
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: that clearly, which is why you were so beautiful in

1156
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 1: speaking the words so real quick before we get out

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Speaker 1: of here. Since you're not big on Instagram and stuff

1158
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,080
Speaker 1: where else? Then can someone find you if they don't

1159
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: just happen to bump into you at the sex club? Well,

1160
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 1: the thing is she's pushing me and like, raise up

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01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 1: my Instagram like so like I've been putting my erotica

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01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: and stuff out there, like some some images here and there.

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01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: So it's erotica images, Is it poems? Is it writing

1164
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: the type of erotica art? Because that's exactly um. I

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01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: like to editoralize my sex so I would think, um,

1166
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: if you think we do. She used to send me

1167
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 1: pictures of black and white in her life. Why is

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01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: it in black and white? You know you know where

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01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: that comes from. When you sunk a lot and you've

1170
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 1: seen a lot. It's why you're probably watching amateurs ship

1171
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: now I am watching. It's the same thing I just started,

1172
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 1: and now you need a different level of the art.

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01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: It's a a sense of intimacy, really intensity at the

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01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 1: same time. So for me being able to capture that

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01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: in camera and then make sure you my library of

1176
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: a year, like so many years out of my life.

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01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: I feel so bad for the people about to hite

1178
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: all up like it's like, is simply just a gallery

1179
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: of my picks in videos that I've done before. So

1180
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 1: your only fans is what? And then I also want

1181
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 1: you to give out your Twitter as well, because you're

1182
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 1: you're more active on Twitter. Yeah, um, so go ahead

1183
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 1: and drop your links. Sorry, guys, we didn't make it

1184
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: the whole mail because we were just so enthronged. The

1185
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 1: coule experienced the swinging lifestyle, the non monogamy, and it's

1186
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: been I don't know the last couple we've had on

1187
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 1: the couch. We did get to do um the poly

1188
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 1: couple during COVID, But what couple have we had outside

1189
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 1: of the one who kept making us delete the YouTube

1190
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Speaker 1: video because they came on here and said they had

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Speaker 1: fifty plus threesomes and didn't know our reach. So the

1192
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Speaker 1: girl kept reporting the guy did. We asked you guys

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Speaker 1: sometimes you sugar, sugar, That's why we asked you because

1194
01:03:57,480 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: but when it came out like you will like our

1195
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: which is large, but this is a space where so

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01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:06,600
Speaker 1: many people of color are curious but want to meet

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01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: like minded people of color. So you may ask questions,

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01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: you may get reached out by that for people that

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Speaker 1: want to join or you know, are curious about how

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Speaker 1: you started and that's why, like we were like sure

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01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: because y'all about again let it So anyways, drop your links.

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01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: Where can they reach out to you, whether it's on

1203
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 1: only Fans, Twitter, Instagram, drop your sheet. Okay for me

1204
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 1: my only fans only fans at the Man, the Manslathers

1205
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 1: and um on Instagram it's the Manslathers or at the

1206
01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: Manslathers and you can find me also and read it

1207
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 1: at the mans on all platforms. At Reddit okay and

1208
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Speaker 1: read it, read it thread And what about you, mistress

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Speaker 1: d P t d P. Yeah, so my website is

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Speaker 1: uh miss petite d nyc dot com and all of

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Speaker 1: that what they use? I don't know what a little

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Speaker 1: Is that what it is? It will also be in

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Speaker 1: we need their episode. We need the sex called episode

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Speaker 1: to come out. I was. I was because I think

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Speaker 1: it makes sense, Like we've just talked so much about

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Speaker 1: it and you guys are part of it, so it's dope.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so very much for joining UM. So much

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Speaker 1: fun and again, I just love the in depth conversation

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Speaker 1: we just had and how did you guys enjoy it?

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Speaker 1: you for tuning in to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. Fine,

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Speaker 1: all right, UM, this was like December, like right before Christmas,

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Speaker 1: and this dude that I have been seeing for like

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Speaker 1: over a year, we finally linked up again after like

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Speaker 1: a couple of months and it was just not good.

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Speaker 1: He had whiskey dick, he had cocaine dick. It was

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Speaker 1: just horrible. So he was driving me home and I

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Speaker 1: text some out of the man's I was like, I

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Speaker 1: can't wait to see you tomorrow. You know what's just

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Speaker 1: happy here's my story way, So his dick just wasn't

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Speaker 1: getting up. So you just made plans with another dick

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Speaker 1: that you knew was gonna get up. M hm. You

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Speaker 1: know what's crazy. I never really shared this, but one

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Speaker 1: of the niggas that I pegged, we never fucked because

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Speaker 1: he had coke dick, and I was so off because

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Speaker 1: I don't you know, most my niggas gonna be doing coke.

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Speaker 1: They just do fucking like tim blunts in a row.

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Speaker 1: Coke dick, I'm telling y'all now, does not get up.

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01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: Coke dick is like a little flashed, little baby thing.

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01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:35,120
Speaker 1: They just stay there. So like it's imps. I pegged

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Speaker 1: this nigga all night long and then pegged him in

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Speaker 1: the morning, and his dick just didn't get up because

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Speaker 1: of the coke. Do you have a different experience with Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I've only done like I do, only had sex

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Speaker 1: with black men that have done coke with me, like,

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Speaker 1: but um, them niggas are all right. Well, he was

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Speaker 1: like he's an expert in doing nice. He definitely did

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Speaker 1: a lot, not like one or two lines like yeah, no,

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01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: this nigga this definite party party ship, like when I'm

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01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 1: at my seven am ship, like nigga's be doing coke

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Speaker 1: at the spot. So yeah, he was like dumbheart night,

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Speaker 1: maybe because it was his first time and then like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I ain't gonna hold you, bro, the

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Speaker 1: nigga that I like, And I think he was nervous

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Speaker 1: because this was his first time being pegged and we

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Speaker 1: had talked it out for so long, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I was coming with the big body bitch. So when

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Speaker 1: I pegged him, maybe he did extra lines of coke

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Speaker 1: because that I didn't get fucked that night or the morning,

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Speaker 1: like because see a lot of people say that coke

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Speaker 1: makes you crazy horn, so a lot of niggas could

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Speaker 1: work for hours. I mean, his budoole was opening up, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you that. He's ready for that that.

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Speaker 1: There have been times when it's like, uh, sorry to

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Speaker 1: keep cutting off when he would just be doing it

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Speaker 1: they'll be doing it all all night and he's just

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Speaker 1: like I can't even come. But then sometimes he just

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Speaker 1: can't get it over all, like you can't even get

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Speaker 1: to that point. So that's what it was that time.

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Speaker 1: So like Molly or like any kind of drug like that,

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Speaker 1: like like a hyper drug, I can never have a orgasm.

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Speaker 1: See in Molly, Bitch, you remember I fund that niggett

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Speaker 1: in the car after the club, bitch, I was I

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Speaker 1: wanted some Molly Dick, but coked it. That ship. Don't

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Speaker 1: do ship, bro. It's like hitty dick. Actually get hard

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Speaker 1: coke dick. Don't get hard bro. I don't know how

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01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: you getting hard coke dick. Maybe they snore and baking

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Speaker 1: powder because bitch coke dick be flashid, Bro, it'd be flashid,

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Speaker 1: I guess someone said in my experience, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: like bitchy hit the niggas ready tad anyway, UM, I

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Speaker 1: will tell you since y'all say, I'm bringing her up.

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Speaker 1: When me and Scissors used to like party hard, like

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Speaker 1: we went to Paris, we did somen't fucking coke and

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Speaker 1: her and I sucked for like three hours and she

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Speaker 1: was like, Bitch, I'm never gonna come and now starting

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Speaker 1: to hurt. I was like me too, but I don't

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Speaker 1: want to stop. Which we had to get a barrier

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Speaker 1: for the scissor, and that's how long we was last

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Speaker 1: a barrier. Alright, alright, stop and we're gonna leave off

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Speaker 1: with one of those sex capades, SIP. And I have

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Speaker 1: to know a story if you've done this, SIP, if

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Speaker 1: you've had sex with a staff member of a hotel

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Speaker 1: or resort while staying there, that's wild. Dr E, you slurping? Big?

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Speaker 1: Oh don't wait? Who's the girl that working at the

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Speaker 1: hotel right now? It's a spot. Wait, A lot of

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Speaker 1: a lot of y'all aren't drinking, and I feel some

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Speaker 1: type of way uh trey jen j swap shay, damn.

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Speaker 1: A lot of this is rhyming that I sound like

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Speaker 1: I'm wrapping like damn. Okay, So dr E can you

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Speaker 1: well said it was this? Oh yeah baby? Oh yeah, baby,

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Speaker 1: go ahead. You just slurped and I saw you slurp?

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Speaker 1: Was he that far? Mind? Did he turn your sheets down?

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Speaker 1: What happened? Oh my god? He was at the front desk.

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Speaker 1: Bit did he lose his job? No? So how did

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Speaker 1: you count? Code? Oh? No, I still get discount cold.

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Speaker 1: How did you let him know that he wanted him

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Speaker 1: to come to your room. I told him he was cute,

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01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 1: he should come to my room. What time you get old?

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Speaker 1: I'm blood