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Speaker 1: to go out into the dating world, the prospects might
Speaker 1: be underwhelming. Well, no, there's a reason they're not taken yet.
Speaker 1: But speaking of myself as well, the volume of prospects though,
Speaker 1: can be overwhelming. Yeah, and that's why you have to
Speaker 1: look out out of however many swipes you're doing, one hundred,
Speaker 1: two hundred a day, you have to start thinking, maybe
Speaker 1: I need to look for a sign in here, a sign, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: something that shows you it's the right person. So like
Speaker 1: the opposite of a red flag, right, So for a
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of people in this room, that
Speaker 1: sign might be something that says STD free. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good sign. I mean, it's kind of picking,
Speaker 1: kind of picky in the world. But one of our listeners, Claire,
Speaker 1: was on a dating app recently and says that she
Speaker 1: saw a sign Claire. How are you today, Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: I'm good. Tell us who this guy is. What's his name?
Speaker 1: His name is Adam? Okay, and have you been doing
Speaker 1: dating apps for a while? Yes, I've been on Tinder while. Yes,
Speaker 1: I could hear the sadness in your voice. Just said,
Speaker 1: what was the sign that said Adam was the one
Speaker 1: for you? So on his bio his birthday is the
Speaker 1: same day as Nicholas Cage and I love him, like
Speaker 1: I am crazy about him. Wait, you're crazy about Adam
Speaker 1: or you actually like Nicolas Cage? Oh, I'm crazy about
Speaker 1: Nicholas Cage. We found the Wait, Nicholas Cage is your type?
Speaker 1: You're talking about the same Nicholas Cage we're talking about,
Speaker 1: like the actor. Yes, oh my gosh. You guys don't
Speaker 1: think he's had it all nothing? Yeah, yeah, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: I mean if you like things that come at truck stops.
Speaker 1: But maybe I think everybody's beautiful in their own way.
Speaker 1: But it tell us a little bit more about Adam,
Speaker 1: Like what stood out other than him having the same
Speaker 1: birthday asn't a Cage. I mean, he's like not really
Speaker 1: my type, but I decided to give him a shot
Speaker 1: because he has the same birthday as Nicolas Cage, and
Speaker 1: he's cute. You know, his personality I think is just
Speaker 1: what made him so much more endearing, and like I
Speaker 1: was really just into him. Okay, so like did you
Speaker 1: hit on him or did he hit on you? How?
Speaker 1: How did you guys make the date happen? So when
Speaker 1: we matched, I kind of just reached out to him
Speaker 1: and was like, we should get together and grab a
Speaker 1: drink because you know, I mean, it's got to work.
Speaker 1: He's the same sign as Nicolas Cage, So okay, what
Speaker 1: did you guys do for your date? So we went
Speaker 1: bar hopping and it was so much fun. He like
Speaker 1: knows a whole lot of these novelty shots. He was
Speaker 1: like feeling comfortable on oping up and ordered um, the
Speaker 1: shot called the Cement Mixer, which sounds like crazy, but
Speaker 1: it was so so good. Cement the most they like
Speaker 1: curdle in your mouth and oh, don't ever take one prank.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so gross it makes me want
Speaker 1: to gag. Was that fun for you to do like
Speaker 1: crazy shots and stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I'd like, normally I
Speaker 1: don't take shots, but like he was ordering these and
Speaker 1: I didn't want to, Like come off as a loser,
Speaker 1: so I took them. There was like a one that
Speaker 1: taste of like bubblegum like. It was called the Bazooka Joe.
Speaker 1: There was like one called a Crouching Tiger, which I
Speaker 1: don't even know what that is. But I was having
Speaker 1: a blast and I thought it was so cool that
Speaker 1: he was just like ordering all these cool things that
Speaker 1: always happens when you go out to the bar. You're like,
Speaker 1: what is this, I don't know, drinking, the guys buying it,
Speaker 1: just drinking. I mean like, you say, you're having a blast,
Speaker 1: but I'm assuming you're wasted by the end of this day.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh my gosh. So we get to the
Speaker 1: third bar I think it was, and he gets a
Speaker 1: text from his sister who like wanted to join, and
Speaker 1: we were like, oh my god, that'll be cool. That's fine,
Speaker 1: Like have her come. Oh wow, so you're meeting the
Speaker 1: family on date one. Yeah, so I thought that was
Speaker 1: really sweet. So we're all taking shots together, we're having fun,
Speaker 1: and she starts asking me questions, you know, as like
Speaker 1: a sister would do. I mean, you were cool with
Speaker 1: that because I actually dumped a guy once because he
Speaker 1: wanted me to meet his three sisters, and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: too much. I don't like the competition. It was just
Speaker 1: too scary for me, like older sisters. I am an
Speaker 1: older sister and like, you know, yeah, I'm like, ah,
Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's even more pressure to
Speaker 1: meet an older sister than it is to meet the family,
Speaker 1: like to meet the parents. I could see that for sure, actually,
Speaker 1: but that sounds like it went pretty well. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I think this is kind of like a different
Speaker 1: scenario because she was already out and you know, she
Speaker 1: checked it Adam and he just kind of wanted to
Speaker 1: stop in and Okay, you know, come, so how did
Speaker 1: everything end with you and Adam and his sister. So
Speaker 1: by the end, I think, you know, we were all
Speaker 1: just getting along. Everything was super cool and we're having
Speaker 1: so much fun. But we were all very very drunk.
Speaker 1: I was pretty toasted. Yeah, so I kind of started
Speaker 1: getting the spin and I wasn't feeling really good and
Speaker 1: I excused myself and I may have thrown up. I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, that's not the fireworks you want
Speaker 1: to end a day usually. Yeah, did he see that?
Speaker 1: I don't know if he saw it. I hope he didn't.
Speaker 1: I just told him I needed some fresh air. Okay,
Speaker 1: but you know, towards the end, I hugged each other goodbye.
Speaker 1: We got into our own Coopers, and you know, we
Speaker 1: went home. Is that why you think he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back just because you puked? I mean, the guy's
Speaker 1: feeding you disgusting shots. What is his expectation? Girl? Can't hang?
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't imagine. It's just that, I mean,
Speaker 1: we were having so much fun that I stop sick. Well,
Speaker 1: it's in moments like these that I always wonder what
Speaker 1: would Nick Cage do? And I think Nick Cage would
Speaker 1: play a song, he would come back, and then he
Speaker 1: would call Adam for you and ask him where's the treasure?
Speaker 1: And then he'll get your second date update right after this. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on if you're just tuning in for
Speaker 1: the second date update, We've got Claire on the phone.
Speaker 1: And Claire had quite a night, did Oh? Yes? She
Speaker 1: went bar hopping with a guy named Adam who she
Speaker 1: met on Tinder. They drank a bunch of novelty shots together.
Speaker 1: They were having a great time. By the end of
Speaker 1: the evening. Adam's sister even stopped by to meet her
Speaker 1: and say Hi, Now, Claire, we never asked you this.
Speaker 1: Did you tell Adam the only reason you went out
Speaker 1: with him is because he shares a birthday with Nick Cage,
Speaker 1: Because if you did, that could be why he's avoiding you.
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't tell him, Okay, you that you
Speaker 1: remember Claire was very intoxicated. I think that there may
Speaker 1: be a lot of pieces of this night, Claire that
Speaker 1: you're leaving out not on purpose. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: do remember ordering like two more Crouching Tigers from the bartender,
Speaker 1: so I know, I don't know what yeah that is.
Speaker 1: I mean, I I'm guessing after you take a shot
Speaker 1: of crouching Tiger, you get the hidden dragon. Yes, that's
Speaker 1: the problem, That's what they say. Yeah, because Claire did
Speaker 1: remember going and running out of the bar to relieve
Speaker 1: some nausea. Possibly she doesn't it, but I feel like
Speaker 1: I feel like these are the biggest risk second eate updates, Claire,
Speaker 1: because I mean, you could have done something really embarrassing
Speaker 1: that we're just about to find out about. Are you
Speaker 1: okay with that? I mean, I have to know, but
Speaker 1: I'm like cringing a little. Okay, Buckle up, Claire. It
Speaker 1: could be a rocky ride. Here we go. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: dial Adam's phone number right now. You're ready, Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: let's do it. Hello. Hey, is this Adam? Uh? Yep? Yo,
Speaker 1: Adam was good bro. It's Jeffrey. What do you sound? So?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Voice? Anyone talks? No one
Speaker 1: talks like that. Oh okay, Sorry, hello Adam, sir, pleasure
Speaker 1: to make your acquaintance. Adam. We're working on the middle
Speaker 1: ground with Jeffrey. Sorry. Man, you guys tell me you
Speaker 1: want me to talk young? Yeah, it doesn't work for you.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, okay, sorry about that, Adam, but I
Speaker 1: don't know what was going on. But I'm about to
Speaker 1: hang up the phone. Please don't hang up. I apologize. Look,
Speaker 1: we're a radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning
Speaker 1: and we're doing something right now called a second date update.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of that before? I have not
Speaker 1: heard of it. Okay, don't worry. It's not where Jeffrey
Speaker 1: tries out new slang words. I thought it was pretty good,
Speaker 1: but whatever. All right. So, the way the second date
Speaker 1: update works is if you go out with someone and afterwards,
Speaker 1: if they're not calling you back. You can email our
Speaker 1: show and we'll reach out to that person for you
Speaker 1: to try and figure out the reason why. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: And so recently you took out a girl who's hoping
Speaker 1: to get ahold of you, and her name's Claire. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I do know Claire. Yeah, okay, yeah, and so yeah,
Speaker 1: Claire told us about how you guys met, said she
Speaker 1: had a great time on your bar hopping date, and
Speaker 1: she's hoping to get some answers for why you've been
Speaker 1: ghost in her lately. She wants to know, like what
Speaker 1: does she want to know exactly? She wants to know
Speaker 1: the reason that you're not getting a hold of her
Speaker 1: after your night together, because she said that she had
Speaker 1: a blast with you taking the novelty shots. She said
Speaker 1: she met your sister. I mean she did say that
Speaker 1: she got a little bit sloppy at the end of
Speaker 1: the night. Maybe, yeah, but which sounds like it was
Speaker 1: to be expected. You were. I mean, you made her,
Speaker 1: you ordered a cement mixer for her. You must too, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it was it was fine, it was nice. Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just don't think Claire and I are going to
Speaker 1: work out. Okay, can you explain why because Claire has
Speaker 1: no idea and she was honest. I mean she said
Speaker 1: a lot of the night was a little hazy, So
Speaker 1: maybe something happened that she doesn't remember. Uh No, not really.
Speaker 1: I just I think the vibe wasn't right. I mean
Speaker 1: it was good at some parts, but overall, I think
Speaker 1: it probably wasn't for the best. Okay, could I mean,
Speaker 1: could you be a little bit more specific though, because
Speaker 1: she really wants to know what she did wrong? Like,
Speaker 1: was it her getting drunk? Did she say something weird
Speaker 1: in front of your sister? To be honest, the my
Speaker 1: sister wasn't really my sister. Huh what does that mean?
Speaker 1: She was actually an ex girlfriend of mine? Still closed?
Speaker 1: Oh your ex girlfriend you played off as your sister
Speaker 1: or you dated your sister. Yeah, now we need clarity. No,
Speaker 1: I've never dated my sister. All right, but this girl
Speaker 1: that you told Claire was your sister is actually an
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend. Yeah, you know, we dated years ago. We've
Speaker 1: remained friends. She knows a lot about me, and I'm
Speaker 1: not very good at like the whole reading people thing,
Speaker 1: and I invite her out sometimes to basically help me
Speaker 1: out with that part of things, Like if I'm having
Speaker 1: a good time with somebody, I'll invite her out, say hey,
Speaker 1: what do you think? And it just wasn't a good fit.
Speaker 1: The vibes were a little off, and to be honest,
Speaker 1: my ex didn't really like Claire that much. Wait, the
Speaker 1: vibes didn't fit according to her or according to you,
Speaker 1: that's a good question. I was kind of on the fence,
Speaker 1: and again, like I'm not great, especially with alcohol involved,
Speaker 1: like reading people, and I like having a second opinion.
Speaker 1: I trust her. It was fine, but you know, my
Speaker 1: ex was like this would never work. Wait wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: wait wait, how many times have you done this because
Speaker 1: you're still single? I mean, has your ex ever said like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is a great girl for you. Yeah, yeah she has.
Speaker 1: And to be honest, you hit it out of the park,
Speaker 1: Like that's why I trust her so much. She's a
Speaker 1: great judge of character. How do you later explain to
Speaker 1: someone you're dating that your sister is actually your ex girlfriend.
Speaker 1: That's a tough pickle to get yourself in. Yeah. Usually,
Speaker 1: you know, I wait a couple months and it kind
Speaker 1: of bring it out as a joke, and it's kind
Speaker 1: of funny because we're already dating, so it's not a
Speaker 1: big how lied to me about who my family is? Well,
Speaker 1: I wonder how Claire feels about that, because I need
Speaker 1: to tell you this, Adam. She's actually been on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and heard everything that she said. What
Speaker 1: is going hard? Boy? Change your Okay, this is a
Speaker 1: little weird, But yeah, I would argue saying that your
Speaker 1: ex girlfriends your sister is a little weird. So what
Speaker 1: are you thinking, Claire? I don't know. It's just like
Speaker 1: I don't understand why, right, Yeah, I know it sounds weird,
Speaker 1: but I also I didn't really mean for you to
Speaker 1: know about this stuff, and I am sorry, but it
Speaker 1: is something that's like I do trust this person and
Speaker 1: trust me. We do not want to get back together
Speaker 1: or anything. It's just more of like like a third
Speaker 1: party to help me out. Well, can you be more
Speaker 1: specific about why your ex didn't like Claire? Like, what
Speaker 1: did she say about me? I don't know if we're
Speaker 1: Do you really want to know this stuff? Oh? No,
Speaker 1: yeah I do. I think you probably don't. But it's okay, Claire,
Speaker 1: I do. I mean, okay, if you want to do this.
Speaker 1: She said that you kind of talked a lot about
Speaker 1: yourself during the day, and I was kind of annoying.
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? She was asking me all kinds of
Speaker 1: questions about myself? What am I supposed to things? I
Speaker 1: was answering, the question is about me and where I
Speaker 1: am and where I'm from, like the normal questions that
Speaker 1: you would answer about yourself. Like I mean, yeah, but
Speaker 1: it was kind of a lot. You know though, that
Speaker 1: is actually not too bad of an insult. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think that we can all fall victim to that sometimes,
Speaker 1: Like you're not the only person who has ever answered questions.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've just been like, had I got
Speaker 1: caught in a one sided conversation? Can you look back
Speaker 1: and think like maybe you were asking enough questions about them?
Speaker 1: I mean maybe I was like a little more chatty
Speaker 1: since I was drunk and just like you know, I
Speaker 1: guess maybe rambling on and caring about myself. She also
Speaker 1: said that you were on your phone a lot too.
Speaker 1: We were talking about like traveling in places that we've been,
Speaker 1: and I took a trip to Italy and I was
Speaker 1: sharing those photos with you guys. Oh yeah, you're sharing
Speaker 1: phones of your vacations. Yeah, it's all about you again, guys.
Speaker 1: I mean these are points that we can all learn from, right,
Speaker 1: you can grow. Yeah, and Claire actually had a really
Speaker 1: nice time and a great vibe with you up until
Speaker 1: that point. So then just go, Adam. I was definitely
Speaker 1: very drunk, so I feel like you didn't get enough
Speaker 1: time to like really get to know me without having
Speaker 1: your X there, like you know, asking me all these questions.
Speaker 1: And then I was nervous because here I am thinking, like,
Speaker 1: this is your sister, right, and I'm trying to make
Speaker 1: a good impression. I'm also drunk, and I might have
Speaker 1: been talking a lot. And yeah, yeah, just stop talking there,
Speaker 1: Just stop talking there, Claire. You have to learn, You
Speaker 1: have to learn from your past mistakes. Shut up right now,
Speaker 1: Up you guys, stop joking with me. Claire. I think
Speaker 1: I think that you bring up excellent points. Okay, I
Speaker 1: mean you do. Yeah, Well here's what I'm gonna do, Adam.
Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with Claire one more
Speaker 1: time without your X? Yeah? That should be a rule.
Speaker 1: You said that you vibed with her before she came along.
Speaker 1: What do you think give her another shot? Will pay
Speaker 1: for it? I mean, for goodness sake, she's still interested
Speaker 1: after hearing that messed up story about the sister line. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess my X and I did kind of set
Speaker 1: you up for disaster a little bit and you We
Speaker 1: were asking a lot of questions and you about you
Speaker 1: and your trip, and yeah, I would love to see
Speaker 1: you again. Yeah, Claire, does that work for you? That
Speaker 1: does it works for me? And sounds so disappointed with it,
Speaker 1: like I'm glad, I'm just I'm a little bit embarrassed too.
Speaker 1: So again, we don't need to hear about your feelings.
Speaker 1: A moving ninety two point five