WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Sister Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>to go out into the dating world, the prospects might

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<v Speaker 1>be underwhelming. Well, no, there's a reason they're not taken yet.

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<v Speaker 1>But speaking of myself as well, the volume of prospects though,

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<v Speaker 1>can be overwhelming. Yeah, and that's why you have to

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<v Speaker 1>look out out of however many swipes you're doing, one hundred,

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred a day, you have to start thinking, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I need to look for a sign in here, a sign, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>something that shows you it's the right person. So like

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite of a red flag, right, So for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of a lot of people in this room, that

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<v Speaker 1>sign might be something that says STD free. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good sign. I mean, it's kind of picking,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of picky in the world. But one of our listeners, Claire,

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<v Speaker 1>was on a dating app recently and says that she

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<v Speaker 1>saw a sign Claire. How are you today, Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. Tell us who this guy is. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Adam? Okay, and have you been doing

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps for a while? Yes, I've been on Tinder while. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I could hear the sadness in your voice. Just said,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the sign that said Adam was the one

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<v Speaker 1>for you? So on his bio his birthday is the

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<v Speaker 1>same day as Nicholas Cage and I love him, like

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<v Speaker 1>I am crazy about him. Wait, you're crazy about Adam

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<v Speaker 1>or you actually like Nicolas Cage? Oh, I'm crazy about

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<v Speaker 1>Nicholas Cage. We found the Wait, Nicholas Cage is your type?

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking about the same Nicholas Cage we're talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>like the actor. Yes, oh my gosh. You guys don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he's had it all nothing? Yeah, yeah, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if you like things that come at truck stops.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe I think everybody's beautiful in their own way.

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<v Speaker 1>But it tell us a little bit more about Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what stood out other than him having the same

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<v Speaker 1>birthday asn't a Cage. I mean, he's like not really

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<v Speaker 1>my type, but I decided to give him a shot

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<v Speaker 1>because he has the same birthday as Nicolas Cage, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's cute. You know, his personality I think is just

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<v Speaker 1>what made him so much more endearing, and like I

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<v Speaker 1>was really just into him. Okay, so like did you

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<v Speaker 1>hit on him or did he hit on you? How?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you guys make the date happen? So when

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<v Speaker 1>we matched, I kind of just reached out to him

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, we should get together and grab a

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<v Speaker 1>drink because you know, I mean, it's got to work.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the same sign as Nicolas Cage, So okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do for your date? So we went

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<v Speaker 1>bar hopping and it was so much fun. He like

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<v Speaker 1>knows a whole lot of these novelty shots. He was

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<v Speaker 1>like feeling comfortable on oping up and ordered um, the

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<v Speaker 1>shot called the Cement Mixer, which sounds like crazy, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was so so good. Cement the most they like

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<v Speaker 1>curdle in your mouth and oh, don't ever take one prank.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's so gross it makes me want

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<v Speaker 1>to gag. Was that fun for you to do like

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<v Speaker 1>crazy shots and stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I'd like, normally I

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<v Speaker 1>don't take shots, but like he was ordering these and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to, Like come off as a loser,

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<v Speaker 1>so I took them. There was like a one that

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<v Speaker 1>taste of like bubblegum like. It was called the Bazooka Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>There was like one called a Crouching Tiger, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what that is. But I was having

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<v Speaker 1>a blast and I thought it was so cool that

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like ordering all these cool things that

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<v Speaker 1>always happens when you go out to the bar. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this, I don't know, drinking, the guys buying it,

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<v Speaker 1>just drinking. I mean like, you say, you're having a blast,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm assuming you're wasted by the end of this day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Oh my gosh. So we get to the

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<v Speaker 1>third bar I think it was, and he gets a

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<v Speaker 1>text from his sister who like wanted to join, and

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, oh my god, that'll be cool. That's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>Like have her come. Oh wow, so you're meeting the

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<v Speaker 1>family on date one. Yeah, so I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet. So we're all taking shots together, we're having fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and she starts asking me questions, you know, as like

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<v Speaker 1>a sister would do. I mean, you were cool with

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<v Speaker 1>that because I actually dumped a guy once because he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted me to meet his three sisters, and I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>too much. I don't like the competition. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>too scary for me, like older sisters. I am an

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<v Speaker 1>older sister and like, you know, yeah, I'm like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's I think it's even more pressure to

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<v Speaker 1>meet an older sister than it is to meet the family,

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<v Speaker 1>like to meet the parents. I could see that for sure, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>but that sounds like it went pretty well. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think this is kind of like a different

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<v Speaker 1>scenario because she was already out and you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>checked it Adam and he just kind of wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>stop in and Okay, you know, come, so how did

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<v Speaker 1>everything end with you and Adam and his sister. So

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<v Speaker 1>by the end, I think, you know, we were all

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<v Speaker 1>just getting along. Everything was super cool and we're having

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<v Speaker 1>so much fun. But we were all very very drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>I was pretty toasted. Yeah, so I kind of started

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<v Speaker 1>getting the spin and I wasn't feeling really good and

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<v Speaker 1>I excused myself and I may have thrown up. I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Yeah, that's not the fireworks you want

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<v Speaker 1>to end a day usually. Yeah, did he see that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he saw it. I hope he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I just told him I needed some fresh air. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, towards the end, I hugged each other goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>We got into our own Coopers, and you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>went home. Is that why you think he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back just because you puked? I mean, the guy's

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<v Speaker 1>feeding you disgusting shots. What is his expectation? Girl? Can't hang?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can't imagine. It's just that, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we were having so much fun that I stop sick. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's in moments like these that I always wonder what

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<v Speaker 1>would Nick Cage do? And I think Nick Cage would

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, he would come back, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>would call Adam for you and ask him where's the treasure?

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<v Speaker 1>And then he'll get your second date update right after this. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on if you're just tuning in for

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update, We've got Claire on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>And Claire had quite a night, did Oh? Yes? She

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<v Speaker 1>went bar hopping with a guy named Adam who she

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<v Speaker 1>met on Tinder. They drank a bunch of novelty shots together.

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<v Speaker 1>They were having a great time. By the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the evening. Adam's sister even stopped by to meet her

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<v Speaker 1>and say Hi, Now, Claire, we never asked you this.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell Adam the only reason you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with him is because he shares a birthday with Nick Cage,

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you did, that could be why he's avoiding you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't tell him, Okay, you that you

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<v Speaker 1>remember Claire was very intoxicated. I think that there may

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<v Speaker 1>be a lot of pieces of this night, Claire that

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<v Speaker 1>you're leaving out not on purpose. Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>do remember ordering like two more Crouching Tigers from the bartender,

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<v Speaker 1>so I know, I don't know what yeah that is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I I'm guessing after you take a shot

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<v Speaker 1>of crouching Tiger, you get the hidden dragon. Yes, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem, That's what they say. Yeah, because Claire did

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<v Speaker 1>remember going and running out of the bar to relieve

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<v Speaker 1>some nausea. Possibly she doesn't it, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like these are the biggest risk second eate updates, Claire,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, you could have done something really embarrassing

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<v Speaker 1>that we're just about to find out about. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>okay with that? I mean, I have to know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like cringing a little. Okay, Buckle up, Claire. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be a rocky ride. Here we go. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dial Adam's phone number right now. You're ready, Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Hello. Hey, is this Adam? Uh? Yep? Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>Adam was good bro. It's Jeffrey. What do you sound? So?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? Voice? Anyone talks? No one

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<v Speaker 1>talks like that. Oh okay, Sorry, hello Adam, sir, pleasure

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<v Speaker 1>to make your acquaintance. Adam. We're working on the middle

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<v Speaker 1>ground with Jeffrey. Sorry. Man, you guys tell me you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to talk young? Yeah, it doesn't work for you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Well, okay, sorry about that, Adam, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what was going on. But I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>hang up the phone. Please don't hang up. I apologize. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>we're a radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>and we're doing something right now called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard of that before? I have not

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<v Speaker 1>heard of it. Okay, don't worry. It's not where Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>tries out new slang words. I thought it was pretty good,

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<v Speaker 1>but whatever. All right. So, the way the second date

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<v Speaker 1>update works is if you go out with someone and afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>if they're not calling you back. You can email our

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<v Speaker 1>show and we'll reach out to that person for you

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<v Speaker 1>to try and figure out the reason why. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so recently you took out a girl who's hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to get ahold of you, and her name's Claire. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I do know Claire. Yeah, okay, yeah, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Claire told us about how you guys met, said she

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time on your bar hopping date, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's hoping to get some answers for why you've been

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<v Speaker 1>ghost in her lately. She wants to know, like what

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<v Speaker 1>does she want to know exactly? She wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that you're not getting a hold of her

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<v Speaker 1>after your night together, because she said that she had

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<v Speaker 1>a blast with you taking the novelty shots. She said

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<v Speaker 1>she met your sister. I mean she did say that

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<v Speaker 1>she got a little bit sloppy at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night. Maybe, yeah, but which sounds like it was

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<v Speaker 1>to be expected. You were. I mean, you made her,

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<v Speaker 1>you ordered a cement mixer for her. You must too, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was it was fine, it was nice. Okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think Claire and I are going to

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<v Speaker 1>work out. Okay, can you explain why because Claire has

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<v Speaker 1>no idea and she was honest. I mean she said

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the night was a little hazy, So

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<v Speaker 1>maybe something happened that she doesn't remember. Uh No, not really.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I think the vibe wasn't right. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was good at some parts, but overall, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it probably wasn't for the best. Okay, could I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>could you be a little bit more specific though, because

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<v Speaker 1>she really wants to know what she did wrong? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>was it her getting drunk? Did she say something weird

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<v Speaker 1>in front of your sister? To be honest, the my

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<v Speaker 1>sister wasn't really my sister. Huh what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>She was actually an ex girlfriend of mine? Still closed?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh your ex girlfriend you played off as your sister

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<v Speaker 1>or you dated your sister. Yeah, now we need clarity. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never dated my sister. All right, but this girl

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<v Speaker 1>that you told Claire was your sister is actually an

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<v Speaker 1>ex girlfriend. Yeah, you know, we dated years ago. We've

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<v Speaker 1>remained friends. She knows a lot about me, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not very good at like the whole reading people thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I invite her out sometimes to basically help me

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<v Speaker 1>out with that part of things, Like if I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>a good time with somebody, I'll invite her out, say hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think? And it just wasn't a good fit.

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<v Speaker 1>The vibes were a little off, and to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>my ex didn't really like Claire that much. Wait, the

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<v Speaker 1>vibes didn't fit according to her or according to you,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good question. I was kind of on the fence,

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<v Speaker 1>and again, like I'm not great, especially with alcohol involved,

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<v Speaker 1>like reading people, and I like having a second opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>I trust her. It was fine, but you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>ex was like this would never work. Wait wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait, how many times have you done this because

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<v Speaker 1>you're still single? I mean, has your ex ever said like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a great girl for you. Yeah, yeah she has.

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<v Speaker 1>And to be honest, you hit it out of the park,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's why I trust her so much. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>great judge of character. How do you later explain to

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<v Speaker 1>someone you're dating that your sister is actually your ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a tough pickle to get yourself in. Yeah. Usually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I wait a couple months and it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bring it out as a joke, and it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of funny because we're already dating, so it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>big how lied to me about who my family is? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how Claire feels about that, because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you this, Adam. She's actually been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and heard everything that she said. What

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<v Speaker 1>is going hard? Boy? Change your Okay, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>little weird, But yeah, I would argue saying that your

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<v Speaker 1>ex girlfriends your sister is a little weird. So what

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<v Speaker 1>are you thinking, Claire? I don't know. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why, right, Yeah, I know it sounds weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also I didn't really mean for you to

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<v Speaker 1>know about this stuff, and I am sorry, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is something that's like I do trust this person and

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<v Speaker 1>trust me. We do not want to get back together

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. It's just more of like like a third

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<v Speaker 1>party to help me out. Well, can you be more

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<v Speaker 1>specific about why your ex didn't like Claire? Like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did she say about me? I don't know if we're

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really want to know this stuff? Oh? No,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah I do. I think you probably don't. But it's okay, Claire,

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I mean, okay, if you want to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that you kind of talked a lot about

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<v Speaker 1>yourself during the day, and I was kind of annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding? She was asking me all kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>questions about myself? What am I supposed to things? I

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<v Speaker 1>was answering, the question is about me and where I

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<v Speaker 1>am and where I'm from, like the normal questions that

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<v Speaker 1>you would answer about yourself. Like I mean, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of a lot. You know though, that

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<v Speaker 1>is actually not too bad of an insult. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that we can all fall victim to that sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're not the only person who has ever answered questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I've just been like, had I got

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<v Speaker 1>caught in a one sided conversation? Can you look back

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<v Speaker 1>and think like maybe you were asking enough questions about them?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe I was like a little more chatty

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<v Speaker 1>since I was drunk and just like you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess maybe rambling on and caring about myself. She also

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<v Speaker 1>said that you were on your phone a lot too.

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking about like traveling in places that we've been,

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<v Speaker 1>and I took a trip to Italy and I was

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<v Speaker 1>sharing those photos with you guys. Oh yeah, you're sharing

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<v Speaker 1>phones of your vacations. Yeah, it's all about you again, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean these are points that we can all learn from, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you can grow. Yeah, and Claire actually had a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice time and a great vibe with you up until

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<v Speaker 1>that point. So then just go, Adam. I was definitely

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<v Speaker 1>very drunk, so I feel like you didn't get enough

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<v Speaker 1>time to like really get to know me without having

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<v Speaker 1>your X there, like you know, asking me all these questions.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was nervous because here I am thinking, like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your sister, right, and I'm trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>a good impression. I'm also drunk, and I might have

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<v Speaker 1>been talking a lot. And yeah, yeah, just stop talking there,

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<v Speaker 1>Just stop talking there, Claire. You have to learn, You

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<v Speaker 1>have to learn from your past mistakes. Shut up right now,

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<v Speaker 1>Up you guys, stop joking with me. Claire. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you bring up excellent points. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you do. Yeah, Well here's what I'm gonna do, Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to go out with Claire one more

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<v Speaker 1>time without your X? Yeah? That should be a rule.

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<v Speaker 1>You said that you vibed with her before she came along.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think give her another shot? Will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it? I mean, for goodness sake, she's still interested

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<v Speaker 1>after hearing that messed up story about the sister line. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess my X and I did kind of set

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<v Speaker 1>you up for disaster a little bit and you We

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<v Speaker 1>were asking a lot of questions and you about you

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<v Speaker 1>and your trip, and yeah, I would love to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again. Yeah, Claire, does that work for you? That

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<v Speaker 1>does it works for me? And sounds so disappointed with it,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm glad, I'm just I'm a little bit embarrassed too.

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<v Speaker 1>So again, we don't need to hear about your feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>A moving ninety two point five