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Speaker 1: Hi, Amber, Hilelah, Welcome to an Unlikely Affair. Today is like, Amber,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you were into like reality TV

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Speaker 1: back in the day.

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Speaker 2: I've always been into it.

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Speaker 1: So I watched Total Divas on E became obsessed with

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Speaker 1: these two girls known as the Bella Twins. Today we

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Speaker 1: have Nicki and brig Garcia on the podcast. I am

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Speaker 1: so thrilled to have them on because number one, I'm

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Speaker 1: obsessed with the WWE.

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Speaker 2: I just find it fascinating and.

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Speaker 1: The shit they right and what they built off of it,

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Speaker 1: and they're so hot, right, they're so hot and like

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Speaker 1: rock and bods. And then Bree goes off and like

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Speaker 1: finds the love of her life. I really want to

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Speaker 1: know how that happened, like picture perfect marriage, what does

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Speaker 1: one look for? And then Nicky's kind of like me,

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Speaker 1: where she's like I'm gonna dabble with the younger men.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, ooh, I feel like we're on the same

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Speaker 1: life path. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 2: So that's I'm excited. I am too.

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Speaker 1: It's like gonna it's like nostalgic but very I mean,

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Speaker 1: they're a household name at this point, so I'm excited

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Speaker 1: to talk to them, especially them returning to the WWE.

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Speaker 3: It's a whole world, that whole you know, like it's

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Speaker 3: just a monster world that a lot. You're either in

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Speaker 3: it and you know everything, or you're out and you're

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Speaker 3: so curious, like, yeah, you.

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Speaker 2: Want to be in the club.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like this. That level of fandom is so

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Speaker 1: crazy to me. The people in the audience with the signs,

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Speaker 1: holy fuck. I want to also talk to them about

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Speaker 1: who they think would win between you and I going TOES.

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Speaker 1: I would definitely take a fulld out a fold up

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Speaker 1: chair to you.

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Speaker 2: That's my most favorite move.

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Speaker 3: Well thank oh, well, thank you. I'm sure that would

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Speaker 3: feel amazing.

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Speaker 2: It's not real. It's not real.

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Speaker 3: But knowing you, you would actually do it and it

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Speaker 3: would be like a oop, and then I would be like, okay, let's,

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Speaker 3: you know, get a stretcher Ambernesea.

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Speaker 2: You know what, You're right, You're so right. I see

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Speaker 2: you like missing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, remember the slap that we did for the TikTok

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Speaker 1: and I did the wrong.

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Speaker 2: I should not play pretend.

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Speaker 1: Your your liability for the biggest liability. Let's get Nikki

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Speaker 1: and Brigarcia in the building. I cannot wait.

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Speaker 2: Hi, you both wait what.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, we going today?

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Speaker 2: Is this just for us?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 4: We had We're here in New York, so it's like

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Speaker 4: media day.

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Speaker 5: We did some stuff. But I feel like for you both,

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Speaker 5: I can like kind of open it.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let it out. My love to have you, choker,

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Speaker 2: and this is cool. You both look amazing.

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Speaker 1: I have been watching you guys since the time I

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Speaker 1: was I was a youngin right when Total Divas came out?

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Speaker 2: What year was that? Gosh, do you remember two with that?

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Speaker 4: I mean before twenty ten, like two thousand was it?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 5: I got married twenty twenty thirteen, twenty yeah, twenty twelve,

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Speaker 5: twenty year right, okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, oh my god. And the moment you guys

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Speaker 1: stepped on the scene, it was like, who are these

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Speaker 1: two incredibly gorgeous women who are in such a strange

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Speaker 1: world like you guys, And the level of fandom.

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Speaker 2: I have to know because.

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Speaker 1: I know that you guys were like in the modeling

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Speaker 1: world and you were acting. You were also waitresses, like

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Speaker 1: I know the drill. How did you fall into the wwe?

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Speaker 4: Well, what's crazy?

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Speaker 5: So we were also competitive soccer players and Nicky and I.

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Speaker 5: It's funny because when we were growing up traveling in

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Speaker 5: the United States playing soccer, there was a couple of

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Speaker 5: user girls who we loved dressing up as the Spice

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Speaker 5: Girls and lip.

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Speaker 4: Singing for everyone.

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Speaker 5: So we always loved entertaining, and then we started to

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Speaker 5: waitress after high school.

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Speaker 4: We were hooter girls and we would always.

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Speaker 5: Do wwe pay per views, but yeah, we were total

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Speaker 5: hooter girls. And so this is like way before social media.

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Speaker 5: There was pretty much like a flyer where they were

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Speaker 5: on the search for female wrestlers.

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Speaker 4: They called it Diva Search, and I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: there's characters.

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Speaker 5: They're like rough and tough. I was like, this is

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Speaker 5: I was telling myself start like this is our calling.

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Speaker 5: But Nikki wanted to go play pro balling. I always

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Speaker 5: playing college soccer at the time, so college soccer, waitressing

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Speaker 5: and then we would do like modeling and acting gigs

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Speaker 5: on the side for extra money.

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Speaker 4: But we were well we drop out and go back.

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Speaker 5: But at the time I was playing college fall Yeah.

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Speaker 5: But then so you guys, it was wild because Diva Search.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys ever saw Glow on Netflix,

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Speaker 5: but kind of like the same deal. You just show

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Speaker 5: up and you're like yeah, I got this, and then

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Speaker 5: you either make it or you don't. And actually Nicky

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Speaker 5: and I didn't make it. They're like, yeah, you're not

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Speaker 5: what we're looking for.

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Speaker 2: Well, can I ask you what that search was? Like,

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Speaker 2: like what did they have you do?

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Speaker 4: So my breed told me.

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Speaker 5: She's like, so you're just gonna show up, You're gonna

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Speaker 5: fight people. And I'm like, okay, cool, I got this.

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Speaker 5: So we show up in like jeans and shirts and

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Speaker 5: then they're like, so you need to get into bikini

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Speaker 5: we need to like rate your body.

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Speaker 4: I mean, they like judged us hard.

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Speaker 5: It was ended up being like almost like a hardcore

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Speaker 5: pageant vibes type of thing, like like you got judge

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Speaker 5: being bikinis.

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Speaker 4: You had to do like.

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Speaker 5: Cut a promo, your walk out, do a walk out,

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Speaker 5: what it would be like, what your character would be.

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Speaker 4: So there was no fighting at all.

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Speaker 5: Like and Her and I showed up because we thought

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Speaker 5: we were gonna be wrestling, so we showed up in

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Speaker 5: like ponytails. We made these shirts. Mine said Breezy foot cheesy,

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Speaker 5: her said Nicole.

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Speaker 4: For show.

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Speaker 5: We were like, bab you got us so dead, Like

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Speaker 5: all these girls like dressed up like go go damcers

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Speaker 5: almost yeah, and we're like, oh damn. I was like

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Speaker 5: I looked at her and I go, where did you

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Speaker 4: Because I just thought you were going to fight.

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Speaker 5: But we ended up making our way to the ring

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Speaker 5: and then had a proper like audition and they're like, okay,

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Speaker 4: More like a tryout.

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Speaker 5: So they flew us out to McDonough George outside of

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Speaker 5: Atlanta and they're like, go let him get in the

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Speaker 5: ring and like day one, they're slamming us and it

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Speaker 5: hurts so bad.

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Speaker 4: But we both looked each other and I'm like, this

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Speaker 4: is it, Like we love it.

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Speaker 1: So you knew that you loved it the moment you

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Speaker 1: stepped in the ring. It was like, oh, this is

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Speaker 1: our calleague yeeah.

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Speaker 4: We were like they had this like many little independent show.

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Speaker 5: I remember seeing one of the guys dressing up as

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Speaker 5: a vampire, like like everyone getting.

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Speaker 4: These weird gimmicks. But I'm like, we be a part

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Speaker 4: part of the show. We're like yeah. So the vampire guy,

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Speaker 4: he was so crazy tall.

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Speaker 5: His cape was like this, and then he opened it

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Speaker 5: and Breen and I like came out, We're like, this

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Speaker 5: is so like we just I was like, this is

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Speaker 4: Like yeah, it felt like, yeah, we're part of the circus.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say.

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Speaker 3: I literally was gonna say, it's like the circus on steroids.

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Speaker 1: Yes, if the circus just randomly started beating the shit

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Speaker 1: out of somebody, Yeah right.

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Speaker 5: I'm like jumps in and joins and like someone isn't

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Speaker 5: on an animal good old carny energy.

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Speaker 2: Yea Carni energy.

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Speaker 1: You know. It kind of was combining all of the

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Speaker 1: worlds that you guys had been in for so long,

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Speaker 1: like you got to be an actress that you It

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Speaker 1: was you know, the modeling obviously because you they want

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Speaker 1: you to be esthetically pleasing, but then the athletic background

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Speaker 1: where you guys get to because I have to imagine

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Speaker 1: that that is grueling. Like when you're done, you're fucking exhausted.

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Speaker 5: Oh beyond mentally physically, it takes. It takes a huge

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Speaker 5: toll in your body. I mean people don't even realize

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Speaker 5: running the ropes alone, when you're hitting those ropes coming

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Speaker 5: off for weeks, you'll be bruised and so tender till

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Speaker 5: you're back. We've always said, like your back almost grows

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Speaker 5: like this layer of protection because like this is what

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Speaker 5: a doctor put it tests. When we slam our bodies

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Speaker 5: accident every time you're slamming the mat. So think of

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Speaker 5: the impact you're putting your body through. We've been doing

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Speaker 5: it for almost twenty years with breaks in between, but

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Speaker 5: it's a lot, and you have some matches that are

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Speaker 5: even harder than others, and you're just waking up the

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Speaker 5: next day, like and you have to tell a story.

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Speaker 5: So you're being that physical and then you have to

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Speaker 5: telling a story, right.

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Speaker 3: I think looking hot would be the hardest part. You're like, oh, wait,

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Speaker 3: my angle, this is the better.

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Speaker 5: I mean, there's definitely times out of the match we'd

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Speaker 5: then when people now when social media came around and

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Speaker 5: people just screenshot you in action, and I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Dude, like I don't love that. Can we not do that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So now that you guys are coming back, what was

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Speaker 1: the break like? Because I know that you said that

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Speaker 1: you would have breaks in between, but do you feel

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Speaker 1: like you have stayed on top of your game, like

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Speaker 1: people are losing their minds that, like, you guys are

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Speaker 1: going to be back in action.

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Speaker 2: How are you guys feeling pressure?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: A lot of pressure for sure, because the women, it's

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Speaker 5: the greatest the division's ever been, and I are we

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Speaker 5: inspired a lot of the women, which are so amazing

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Speaker 5: for what our era was doing. And when you take

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Speaker 5: that time off and then you come and compete with

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Speaker 5: girls that looked up to you, or women that looked

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Speaker 5: up to you but also are holding an even higher standard,

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Speaker 5: You're like, oh shit, I'm in my forties and these

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Speaker 5: women looked up to me. I need to go prove

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Speaker 5: like one I could hang with them and then show

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Speaker 5: them that I'm still the woman that inspired them so

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Speaker 5: long ago.

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Speaker 4: So there's a lot of pressure there for sure.

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Speaker 3: First of all, you guys don't look like you're in

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Speaker 3: your forties. I think you're lying. That can't be true.

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Speaker 2: Forty two Yeah, it looks so good.

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Speaker 4: I believe it.

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Speaker 1: You know what, though, you want to know who? I

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Speaker 1: feel like the game has just changed. I mean, Gwen Stefani,

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Speaker 1: the kim Kys of the world, Jennifer Lopez, like no one,

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Speaker 4: Much better. We're bitch better works.

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Speaker 4: Nikki and I both want to prove like that we

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Speaker 4: I'm like, they're just gonna give me the tent.

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Speaker 1: I'm gotta get in there living for everything that's happening

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want front row.

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Speaker 4: It's in Vega.

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Speaker 2: It's in Vegas hundred, tell me when, tell me when April.

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Speaker 4: So we'll find out it's a two day event.

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Speaker 5: But we'll find out what day we're on April eighteenth

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Speaker 4: So much fun. You just get and when you start.

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Speaker 5: So live and can you explain like a live wrestling

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Speaker 2: You're gonna guys, I have to be there.

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Speaker 4: Okay, We're gonna have you guys.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so excited. My found. We let's go,

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Speaker 2: let's do no and I'm gonna have new boobs.

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Speaker 1: Oh my boobs are going to be there to me,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the same. What are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Like Nicki and I were like, we're gonna just be

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Speaker 4: You either like us or you don't. We don't care.

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Speaker 5: We all go through that, and people who are tuning

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Speaker 4: What we all go through in this world.

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Speaker 5: And I feel like that's why God chooses people and

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Speaker 4: I know you're all going to get through it. Shit

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Speaker 4: Some people don't get through that, but we all do.

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Speaker 2: For sure.

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Speaker 3: I am sure people love you guys because it humanizes you.

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Speaker 3: People want to see They don't want to just see

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Speaker 4: Get it get totally.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it took a while to get to this

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Speaker 1: But also, and this just happened recently, you guys have

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy for you both.

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Speaker 2: It is not my issue. My life goes on.

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Speaker 1: And once I kind of accepted that and knew that

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Speaker 2: It's ever evolving, it's ever changing.

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Speaker 5: So well, you know, I read that. I'm sure a

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Speaker 5: It'll be very hard to change. So let them, and

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Speaker 5: didn't mean it that way, or I just put my

445
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:11,680
Speaker 5: foot in my mouth a lot, like I just whatever

446
00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 5: I think first, instead of like pausing and like actually

447
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,520
Speaker 5: think about what I'm saying. I'm just going to say it.

448
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,200
Speaker 5: And I said, I don't know if that's what I meant.

449
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 2: No, I think it is so endearing. I think, yes,

450
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,240
Speaker 2: it is, Like I think it is so cute.

451
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:31,680
Speaker 1: And you know, there's something very sexy about being misunderstood. Yeah,

452
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 1: you know, right, So I think you roll with it.

453
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 2: Baby.

454
00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 1: I have a question for you, b because the cameras

455
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 1: are on and you have managed to have a love

456
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 1: story that most people can only dream about.

457
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, so true.

458
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 1: How did you How did you know that this person

459
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,719
Speaker 1: was your person? How are you able to have a

460
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 1: sustainable relationship being in the public, Like, I know that

461
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:05,200
Speaker 1: there's so many of us for me for sure, Yes,

462
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,719
Speaker 1: give me, give me the secret sauce.

463
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:09,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

464
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 5: Well, you know it's interesting because Brian was never considered

465
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 5: my type. When I looked at my type in my

466
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,840
Speaker 5: twenties of what I was dating, and we both never

467
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 5: really looked twice at each other.

468
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 4: It was like we were kind of forcing him. He

469
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,400
Speaker 4: like we cringed him out so bad.

470
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not a cringe out.

471
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 5: He would gets so annoyed at us because we'd be

472
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,679
Speaker 5: on overseas tours and we were always the type that

473
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 5: was like blasting music, drinking wine and wanting everyone to party,

474
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 5: and he does not drink and never has and like

475
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 5: just wanted to read a book in peace and quiet.

476
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,360
Speaker 4: And we'd be on the tour bus and we're like.

477
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 5: Come on, Brian, and he'd be like, oh, I hate

478
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 5: these girls so much, like hated us. Well, I don't

479
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:54,920
Speaker 5: know hate, not hate at that point. But we got

480
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 5: put in the storyline and we started talking a lot,

481
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:02,479
Speaker 5: and we just had the same views. We connected on

482
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,639
Speaker 5: so many of the different things. We both realized, like

483
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 5: we wanted to go in the Peace Corps out of

484
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 5: high school, like just a lot of things.

485
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 4: It was crazy.

486
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 5: I never had felt so connected with someone in conversation.

487
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 5: And we started to become friends, and before wrestling shows

488
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 5: I would always invite him. I always liked to go

489
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 5: to museums or something in the arts world and he

490
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 5: started tagging along with me, and we both just fell

491
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 5: for each other. And I felt like, if I saw

492
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 5: it all, yeah, I would ask you, oh, you're not

493
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:33,679
Speaker 5: calling for Daniel Bryan, are you like segments? And I

494
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 5: was like, do you think he's gay? I don't even

495
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 5: think he's into girls.

496
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 1: Oh no, you're brutal, brutal, You're brutal.

497
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 5: But before he and I, it was like, so when

498
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 5: we fell for each other, I remember when we started

499
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 5: to do Total Divas, we both just kind of told

500
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 5: each other like, if it ever gets to a point

501
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 5: that it's tearing us apart, it's not worth it to us,

502
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 5: because this means more than any of that. Yeah, And

503
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 5: there was times where he and I had to kind

504
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 5: of step to the side and I'm like, listen, guys,

505
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 5: Brian can't film today, Like it's too much. And I

506
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 5: was very delicate with the situations, like I'm like with him,

507
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 5: and we didn't mind showcasing when things got hard, especially

508
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 5: because my husband does fight depression and we've been on

509
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 5: that journey.

510
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 4: But he and I just feel.

511
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 5: Like we're hippies, Like we're very grounded people and when

512
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 5: we know we need to decompress. We go hiking together,

513
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 5: we garden together, like we're out in nature a lot.

514
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,679
Speaker 5: And I hate to say it, I feel like nature

515
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 5: is this calming, free decompression all this humans. Sometimes when

516
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 5: we're out there, we don't realize how good it makes

517
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 5: this feel. But it's good for relationship. It's good for

518
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 5: their relationship with our children. And so I don't know

519
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 5: if it's been in more in the natural world, having.

520
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 4: This relationship that's helped us. You know, they're very good people.

521
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 5: But also yeah, and I know a very understanding husband.

522
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 5: We've respected each other along the way too, in a

523
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 5: lot of respect.

524
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 3: Like that's the most important thing, is respect. I told

525
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,479
Speaker 3: a lot of this the other day. Is you have

526
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 3: to respect someone first and then you admire them, and

527
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 3: then you trust them, and then you love them, Like

528
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 3: that's the order of operation. And I could totally relate.

529
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 3: I moved in August last August from la to Montana,

530
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 3: And when you were talking about nature, I didn't know

531
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 3: why I came out here during the summer to just

532
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 3: visit my sister and I had no intentions of moving here.

533
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 3: And I got here and I looked at the mountains

534
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 3: and I said I need to be here. I don't

535
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 3: know why. And then I figured out I need to

536
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 3: be up in big sky or the bridgers in the

537
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 3: middle of nowhere. And it was like the most healing thing.

538
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 3: So when you said, I was like, oh my god,

539
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 3: one hundred percent get that.

540
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 4: It's crazy when you're like soul calls you.

541
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 5: Because like bra and I would always go to NAPA

542
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 5: because we never really got vacation time, so when we'd

543
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 5: have a few days off, like NAPO was always our spot.

544
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 4: To go, decompress, have fun.

545
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 5: And then when twenty twenty hit and when we were

546
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 5: pregnant and then we had our boys, we just wanted

547
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 5: to be away from cities and we're like, why does

548
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 5: NAPA always call us like we it has to be

549
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 5: more than vacations. So we just picked up our ship

550
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 5: and moved there.

551
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 4: We found two homs like each other.

552
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 5: On Zillow told like our dudes like bye, you could

553
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,880
Speaker 5: not but we're going and it's been the greatest thing.

554
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 5: But I realized, like it just we had to be

555
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 5: in a place where we can disconnect. There's no big buildings,

556
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 5: there's no airports. Were amongst vineyards and mountains and sunrises

557
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 5: and sunsets and like like we were just called there.

558
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 2: And I get it. Yeah, my dream is for Lala

559
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: and I to live next door to each other.

560
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: Oh we get big scat is so not happening. I

561
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: hail from Utah, all right, I got the nature.

562
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 2: Love it great. I'll bop in, bop out.

563
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 3: She always says to me. She's like, when are you

564
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 3: coming back to La And I'm like, it's going to

565
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 3: take a lot.

566
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 2: To get back yourself.

567
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: It's not like I'm some like little social butterfly and

568
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,679
Speaker 1: want to be in a big city. Not what it

569
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: is at all. Like I hunger down. I love my

570
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: little house. I like love to go.

571
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 3: Outside, and you go to Palm Springs. You escape to

572
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 3: go to Palm Springs.

573
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm the the gray in this situation.

574
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 1: The three of you have gone rogue, off the grid, joy.

575
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 4: Have all of us to come to and then, yes, you.

576
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: See That's how I feel, Big Sky. Do you think

577
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 2: you'll ever come back to like the city life?

578
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 4: No away?

579
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 5: I mean I like chickens, my greenhouse, oh, my garden beds.

580
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 2: You know what with the state of the world, you

581
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: have it figured out.

582
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 4: I do you know what I told my kids. Now

583
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 4: my kids are eight and five.

584
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 5: Okay, the garden. My kid's not to grow food. I

585
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 5: was like, what's so important now is to learn life skills.

586
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 5: My daughter right now is learning how to ham like

587
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 5: she's in sewing class. And I was just like, life skills.

588
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 5: If you know how to grow your own food, you're

589
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 5: already ahead. And I think it's such an important skill

590
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 5: and it's easy, and it's like like Sunday, just past Sunday.

591
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 5: I sent her picture. I went to the nursery, spent

592
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 5: like four hundred dollars. I like, planted like spring flowers.

593
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 5: I did a bunch of my garden beds, I you know,

594
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 5: cleaned out the coop. I like, just our whole family

595
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 5: was out there and make my kids do it with

596
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 5: me and my husband. We both obviously enjoy it. But

597
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 5: it was such a fun family day.

598
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: I loved it. You're speaking my language.

599
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, And oh my gosh, you need to get chickens

600
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 5: because chickens will change your life. Like those girls make

601
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 5: me laugh all the time. They're the cutest little things.

602
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 5: At gather them for dactyls that just.

603
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, oh they still don't let you know, Oh,

604
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 6: my mom has My mom has a ranch in Nebraska,

605
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 6: and she's taught us how to you like put them

606
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 6: to sleep.

607
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 2: I don't even know if that's like.

608
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 4: But that's so. But you know, I rescued mine from

609
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 4: a fight.

610
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 2: Pa, you know what, I fuck with you so hard.

611
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 1: I love that you rescued your chickens for you.

612
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 2: Good for you, you know what I mean.

613
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 5: But they're like fighting chickens, so they do not let

614
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 5: me get closed. You know.

615
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: Do you take the birds out of the streets, but

616
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: you can't take the bird?

617
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 2: No? No, no no. Do they each have a name,

618
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 2: by the way, did you need your chicken?

619
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 4: And they have their own plaque, their own flack.

620
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 5: It's Miss Hide and Seek, Tinkerbell Fiddler because she loves

621
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 5: me on the roof, Brownie Princess Pearl, and then Fluffy

622
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 5: rest in Peace got taken by a hawk.

623
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 2: Oh fuck, a bird cried, Yeah.

624
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 4: You gotta watch I go. I literally, you guys have

625
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 4: to see me. I'm on hop duty like every.

626
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 5: Damn out there, and like like one day this hawk

627
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 5: came and I was like, oh shit, it's like right

628
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 5: up in this tree and my girls were like laying out.

629
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 5: So I like grabbed this hoe and I like stood

630
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 5: on my garden bed and I didn't want to make

631
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 5: a loud noise to my chickens go crazy. And I'm

632
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 5: like like flipping to.

633
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 4: The hawk because I'm like, you know, hawks have those

634
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 4: good eye visions. I'm like, it can see me.

635
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 2: I can see you for sure. You know what I mean,

636
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: You've got great eyes.

637
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 4: The two crows.

638
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 5: Came and started pecking up the hawk and made it go,

639
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 5: oh my good.

640
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 7: Oh, I'm loving the amount of bird. The bird should

641
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 7: it's happened. You know, it's the circle of like over here.

642
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 7: I know this is like what I do on my

643
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 7: off days.

644
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 4: Is that like crazy?

645
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: Speaking of hoes in the air, Nicky, not call you

646
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: a hoe. By the way, I was referring to myself

647
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: because I have been in my whole era and I

648
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: was twenty twenty years younger then her.

649
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 2: Ex he's hers, I don't claim him.

650
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And now I've started holding it up with like

651
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: young young men and then an article Yeah but okay,

652
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: yeah that you too like a young man. And I

653
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 1: want to ask how young is too young?

654
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: First? Let's talk about that.

655
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 5: I mean, I do like twenty years young, super young,

656
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 5: like you can't go beyond that I feel like, and

657
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 5: what what was it like twenty years? Like twenty years

658
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 5: is too young's.

659
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 4: Oh, like twenty two is even super young.

660
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 2: That's very young, very young? So what are we in?

661
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: Like maybe like twenty six is that? Okay?

662
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 4: Yeah? I like late twenties are good if he's mature.

663
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree.

664
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 4: That makes a different conversation with the one.

665
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 5: No, I know, but what I mean is like I

666
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 5: kind of feel like one week from Obviously it depends

667
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 5: on the person, but I realized, like young twenties are young,

668
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 5: like late twenties.

669
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: Are great, Okay, So this is the problem that I

670
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: I have I've run into is even with the twenty

671
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: let's say twenty six, because I was I started to

672
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: like kind of talk and communicate with a twenty three

673
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: year old, and my family intervened and had like a

674
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: full on sit down with me. They were like, you've

675
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: lost your fucking mind. So I'm like, all right, twenty six,

676
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: ten years, but you cannot teach life experience, no, right?

677
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was talking to this guy who was

678
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: like very well educated.

679
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 2: But then there were moments.

680
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: For example, I asked him we were at dinner, and

681
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: I was like, how do you feel about me having

682
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: children because I you know, I know you've never dated

683
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 1: anyone with kids, And he goes, it's not a problem,

684
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 1: you know, it's just like it's what you have, And

685
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not just what I have, like quite

686
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: literally makes up who I am as a person. Yes,

687
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, So you can have like this

688
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: big fancy degree, play a professional sport, and travel and

689
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: do whatever it is you do, but you cannot teach

690
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: the life experience. When you start talking to two younger,

691
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: younger men, what are like the little red flags that

692
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: you go like, Okay, this is not going anywhere beyond

693
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: like either a hookup or just like a good conversation.

694
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 4: Well, I already look at the guys in their twenties.

695
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 4: Is just a hookup? I know?

696
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 5: For me, like, it's not It wouldn't be anything more

697
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 5: than that. It's not realistic. And I'm someone who's obsessed

698
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 5: with conversation. I'm obsessed with sharing experiences. So I already

699
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 5: know like alone, especially just to being a man, like

700
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 5: I need to have someone like you said, who's lived

701
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 5: a journey.

702
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 4: I need that. That's how I connect.

703
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 5: So I've only looked at the ones in their twenties

704
00:32:56,520 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 5: that I've been with as hookups like have fun, helps

705
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 5: you get your group back, makes you feel sexy. But

706
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 5: I've never thought of them anything more because one being

707
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 5: a mom and just knowing what I want for.

708
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 4: When I get older.

709
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 5: What I've realized and tell me if you feel this way.

710
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 5: One thing that has made me realize being with some

711
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 5: guys in their twenties, they don't have the appreciation and

712
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 5: they shouldn't by the way of aging or of what

713
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 5: a body does when it gives birth, like when you're like,

714
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 5: my dream would be like someone maybe around my age

715
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 5: give or take, who's maybe divorce and has kids, who

716
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 5: can appreciate what a woman has gone through as far

717
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 5: as like pregnancy, had a kid, but also the aging process,

718
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 5: like I kind of I was thinking after I've talked

719
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 5: to some of the younger ones, I'm like, I really

720
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 5: want to connect with someone that I could be like

721
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 5: doesn't it suck getting these wrinkles? Or like, gosh, isn't

722
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 5: this forty era like so crazy? Like sometimes when I'm alone,

723
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 5: I realize it where it's like, so you could grow

724
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 5: old with someone so you could laugh at those things

725
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 5: and have fun and they get it. I love this

726
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 5: when they don't appreciate it in that way. And then

727
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 5: like with her, I almost said it almost started to

728
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 5: giving me an insecurity, and then I have to be

729
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 5: like no, no, no, wait, you look great.

730
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 4: For your age. I don't mind her all the time.

731
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 4: I'm like, dude, you're smoking hot.

732
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: You are hot.

733
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 5: It was the media because they made a big deal

734
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 5: about this age gap that it was the time I

735
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 5: had people come at me calling me a groomer, calling

736
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 5: me a grandma, and I was like, what.

737
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 2: The fuck, I'll fuck with you.

738
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it kind of it made it ruined things

739
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 5: for sure, like even something fun, because it was like

740
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 5: it just made me feel very weird, and I was like,

741
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 5: I don't like this kind of attention at all.

742
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: It's just like there, I so relate to everything you're saying.

743
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 1: Because they're the twenty years older was like disgusting. But

744
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: now going even just ten years younger, that does pop

745
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: up for me because there are things that they say

746
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is happening? Like you never heard

747
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,959
Speaker 1: the word crows feet? What the fuck do you mean?

748
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 4: I mean it's wild?

749
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 5: Yes, well I completely agree with you, and when I

750
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 5: mean no, see this is where it could be different,

751
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 5: Like it's hard when there's professional athletes. So where I

752
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 5: feel like they're different when they're younger is you can't

753
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 5: grab a younger athlete's hand and be like you're going

754
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 5: to be a pro.

755
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 4: That's how we were going to do it.

756
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 5: They have their own motivation, their own goals, they're they're

757
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 5: very what's the word I'm looking for, the driven driven

758
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 5: for young men.

759
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,800
Speaker 4: So to me, that's where I like didn't.

760
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 5: Feel weird about my thing is like it was a

761
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 5: very driven man, like you wouldn't think young unless.

762
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 4: Like then you realize there's no life experiences.

763
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 5: Then there's another one that was like younger who didn't

764
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 5: have those kind of goals And I'm like, whoa, you

765
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 5: are such a guy in his twenties who like.

766
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 4: To do in life and that was like weird and

767
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 4: didn't know things.

768
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, he didn't know things, you know.

769
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: It is a different It's just a different ballgame when

770
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 1: you have a child to think of as well. Because

771
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: how how old is your son?

772
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 4: Mateo's five five and a half.

773
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,320
Speaker 2: I love that name. That's right, because you're your guys

774
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 2: is Yeah.

775
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 4: Boys are two hours apart. Our boys are and then

776
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 4: my daughter eight.

777
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh I love this. That is so so much fun.

778
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: That is an age where like who you bring around,

779
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: they're gonna have memory of him totally.

780
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 5: And I have like a rule for me is like

781
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 5: I won't let anyone around Mateo. Tell I've been with

782
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 5: the guy for a while.

783
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:48,720
Speaker 2: What's a while?

784
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 4: I mean for me probably minimum a year?

785
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 5: Really yeah, Like I need to know he's for good

786
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 5: because my son, he's sensitive.

787
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 4: And he's very protective of me, and it would break him.

788
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 5: To one for man to he's not even ready for

789
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 5: a new guy to come in like at all, Like

790
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 5: that would break my son and I wouldn't do that

791
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 5: to him.

792
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 4: But let's just say years down the road, Like I would.

793
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 5: Have to know it's for good pretty much for him

794
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 5: to be around Matteo, because Mitteo loves people very much,

795
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 5: Like he's crazy close with Uncle Brian, and if anything

796
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 5: would to put him through a breakup again, I think

797
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 5: would be devastating for him.

798
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 4: But like I just have to make sure I know

799
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 4: someone's right, especially as Mama's boy. While you're sharing, I was.

800
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 5: Just laughing thing this I do want to say, just

801
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 5: because like so Cooper, because obviously that's when I've made

802
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 5: headlines with incredible guy.

803
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 4: We just have a big age gap. But I want like, because.

804
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 5: There's been other ones, but for him, like he's amazing,

805
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 5: it's just the age gap.

806
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: What's the age gap between you and Cooper?

807
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 4: Well, he's the twenty year one that I made the

808
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,320
Speaker 4: headlines with. Yeah, he's amazing.

809
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 5: It's other ones that you know, with the life EXPERI

810
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 5: but with him because I don't want anything, you know,

811
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 5: bad about him. You know, have you guys seen the

812
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 5: reels of the premenopause stuff?

813
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 2: Women doing no tell me, oh my gosh, it should

814
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 2: be doing it.

815
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 5: So they go to their husband They're like, can you

816
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,240
Speaker 5: take off the take out the trash and the husband's

817
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 5: like yeah in two minutes and then it's like they

818
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 5: like just scream and rip them.

819
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 4: Apart like a joke.

820
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

821
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 5: I was just thinking of these like twenty year old

822
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 5: guys dealing with like women who are like like, yeah,

823
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 5: I had off for like.

824
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you just made me think a lot.

825
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: I did not even think about that part.

826
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 5: Well, and that's like my thing is I just That's

827
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 5: why I'm like, I have to have someone older because

828
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 5: there's just too much shit going on like inside outside.

829
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 2: You're right, you know, I need someone.

830
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 4: Like connect with and be And because.

831
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 5: The guy at the bar last night that even though

832
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,240
Speaker 5: he ended up being a douche, ended up being a douche,

833
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 5: but he was just he was around eighty eight or something,

834
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 5: thirty five, I can tell why he's been single for son.

835
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's why I've always stated older men.

836
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. I'm an old soul.

837
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: No, but she likes im like just shy of a

838
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 1: foot in the grave.

839
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 8: But you're way too fucking hot to be Oh with

840
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 8: saggy balls. Okay, Saggi balls. There's nothing wrong with Saggie balls.

841
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 8: Maybe that's my thing.

842
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm with you. There's it.

843
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like almost seventy. Wasn't that guy almost seventy? About die? No? Sixty?

844
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. Here's the thing, this one I'm saying.

845
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 3: Because I have children, I find that even guys around

846
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 3: my age, even the guys that I've tried to date,

847
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 3: they're like still growing out. And I'm like, I'm not

848
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 3: at that phase in my life. Like, shit's real. I

849
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 3: wake up. I have a kid that didn't go to

850
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 3: school today. I have a meltdown in the other someone's

851
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 3: going through a break up. I'm dealing with paramenopause Like

852
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 3: this is real fucking life, Like I can't deal with

853
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 3: the child. And some guys that are thirty eight, yeah,

854
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 3: they're just not there yet.

855
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: They're not there.

856
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 3: So if you go a little older, maybe someone that's

857
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 3: been married or has kids, like you said, they have

858
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 3: an appreciation for being a single mom for you know,

859
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 3: doing everything that we have to do on a day

860
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 3: to day basis to keep looking young, healthy, fit, a

861
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:33,280
Speaker 3: happy home like, spiritually aligned, sober like it's it's a lot, No.

862
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 4: It is a lot.

863
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 5: I you know, the young ones are great to just

864
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 5: make you feel sexy again, if you know, they make

865
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 5: you feel that way, right, But that's you know, that's

866
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 5: kind of it. They give you that, they give you

867
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 5: that confidence boost. I'm an older man that make you

868
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:47,720
Speaker 5: feel sexy?

869
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: Well no, but what I mean.

870
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 5: It's gonna say, what you want to be with is

871
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 5: like an older man that's they know how to seduce that.

872
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 4: Okay, that's been the biggest thing too. I like to

873
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 4: be seduced. I mean, that's point.

874
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 5: If you want incredible set wine and dang you you

875
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 5: there has to be sedection before. We don't just get

876
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 5: right to it. And that's the one thing about an

877
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 5: older man. He knows how to seduce a woman.

878
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, the foreplate has to be amazing.

879
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 5: Yeah to me, that's like great sex now, Like I

880
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 5: don't need to get banged all night.

881
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 1: No, I don't want to be banged all night please,

882
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: Like the jack rabbiting is just like so no, thank you.

883
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: Like if you are trying to get my pants, you're

884
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: gonna have to start at the crack of dawn, all right,

885
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: but that work.

886
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 5: I love day sex like I'm too tired to have

887
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 5: night sex, Like I love data.

888
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 4: Oh.

889
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 2: I love to roll over on my side like this.

890
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 5: Yeah. We literally love having day sex. And then we

891
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 5: walk and go get tacos. It's like our favorite thing.

892
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: I love. Like mid day sex. That's the best.

893
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 4: Midday great.

894
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's like I'm energetic, like I have

895
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 2: no bags. Yeah no, that's when you found your person though.

896
00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: Mid day light.

897
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 5: Out dating now and like having sex, it's like you

898
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 5: don't want lights like just that, like holiness.

899
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 3: I want my red light on. I want like it

900
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 3: just I got to set the mood. It's got to

901
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 3: be all totally.

902
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: That's a seeking mood. Yeah, I've had the heyday talking

903
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 1: to you guys. Where can people follow so that we

904
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: can like be on our shit. And I'm going to

905
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: see you guys at midd end of April.

906
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 2: By the way, I'm coming.

907
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 5: Yes, you are well, Nikki and I I have a

908
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 5: feeling you will be seeing us here soon on Monday

909
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 5: Night Raw on Netflix or Friday Night SmackDown on USA.

910
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 4: But we will be at.

911
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 5: WrestleMania April eighteenth and nineteen, eighteenth and nineteenth in Las Vegas.

912
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 4: You guys will get the Allegiant Stadium.

913
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 5: Obviously we want those tag team titles, so we hope

914
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,479
Speaker 5: that we will be fighting for them. But the minute

915
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 5: we find out we are follow our social media's, we're

916
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 5: putting it out there.

917
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 4: We're going to bring you both to the show. You're

918
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 4: going to be a cham you guys' faces rest hustling fans.

919
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 5: WrestleMania is like our super Bowl, but even grander. So

920
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 5: you it's it's the best show to come. And now

921
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 5: we're going to Montana to decompress because that I love that.

922
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 2: Skuy please come and we needed.

923
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 4: We need cowboys. So if you find some single cowboys.

924
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, I'll hook you up. There can

925
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 2: be our wing woman.

926
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 5: I will I find I honestly, huh, I feel like

927
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 5: I'm good.

928
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 4: I find them. I don't know, hot guy.

929
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 2: I love it.

930
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for being on an Unlikely Affair.

931
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: You guys are freaking amazing. I'm so happy for you guys,

932
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 1: and you guys, thank you for listening to another episode

933
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 1: of an Unlikely Affair.

934
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 2: We're going to catch you guys next week. Bye bye