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Speaker 1: What's a friend?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm okay. I know something about you right now and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna share it.

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Speaker 3: Oh yuck.

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Speaker 1: No, oh my god, it's fine.

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Speaker 4: I know I'm so paranoid. It's like, did you know

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Speaker 4: what I did last summer?

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Speaker 1: No? I don't what did I do last summer? I

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Speaker 1: just know that I just know that you're I just

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Speaker 1: know that your husband is having these birthdays come up.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 4: Oh why did you come at me like that?

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Speaker 3: Don't come at me like that. God, dude, I'm from Jersey.

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Speaker 4: I'm from You can't be like I know, some abouby

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Speaker 4: bitch I said, I'm denying that ship.

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Speaker 3: What the what do you have on me? Jordan? You

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Speaker 3: can't cut?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude.

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Speaker 4: I'm from Jersey and I have anxiety. You can't come

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Speaker 4: at me like that.

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Speaker 1: But can you be from Jersey and not have anxiety?

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Speaker 1: Is there any part of Jersey?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: But between the sodium from the hogies and just the

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Speaker 4: sheer violence from the soccer and hockey games, you cannot.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry you know what.

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Speaker 4: That sentence did to me. No, it's okay. It's like

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Speaker 4: when people tell me don't move don't, don't, don't, don't move.

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Speaker 1: Let me just right right right right. I'm a move.

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Speaker 4: I'm a move like a ludicrous song, just like that.

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Speaker 4: Oh baby, don't I'm hot now? Ooh, the all natural

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Speaker 4: deodorant is spiking.

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Speaker 1: If it's Tom's, then it's over.

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Speaker 4: I went from lavendar to red onion in six seconds

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Speaker 4: in how dare you?

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Speaker 1: We love him? It's another lap around the sun, and

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Speaker 1: you know that's it. I just wanted to address that. Ew.

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Speaker 3: Can I just pour into him for a minute?

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Speaker 1: Yes? No, please?

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Speaker 4: This is kind of like special because his birthday is

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Speaker 4: on the fifteenth, and we've known each other for fifteen years,

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Speaker 4: and I did not know that I could meet a

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Speaker 4: person love them right away, just be like, oh fucking

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Speaker 4: I want to rip your face off, and then like

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Speaker 4: during marriage, actually want to rip his face off, and

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Speaker 4: then actually somehow, like somehow like get over it and

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Speaker 4: become stronger and like find new levels in depths to

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Speaker 4: relationship and love and friendship and what family really means

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Speaker 4: and putting that together, like the way you love on

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Speaker 4: your friends and you know, we call them our chosen family.

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Speaker 4: Like to do that with a person in a relationship

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Speaker 4: and combine DNA, Like I had no idea, and you know,

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Speaker 4: it's not something that like people really haven't told me,

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Speaker 4: and if they did, I probably won't even believe them,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I'd be like you, Hi,

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Speaker 4: you sappy, you crazy, you broke, you just make too

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Speaker 4: much money, Like you know, I'm always putting something on it.

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Speaker 3: But you know, wow, I just really really love this person.

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Speaker 3: It's like so.

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Speaker 1: Stupid, cuse now, chis Is. He's a great guy. He's

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Speaker 1: the only person that I've ever learned to do like

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Speaker 1: a guttural expression for in their name dame. And he's

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Speaker 1: worth it, you know, kis Kais baby, He's.

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Speaker 4: Worth every drop of spit on this microphone right now.

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Speaker 1: Gis a cavin, y'all. It's sopping Wait, so I need

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Speaker 1: to know, Yes, birthday.

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Speaker 4: Adult birthday is a different too, though, you know, like

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Speaker 4: you're just happy that your ankles aren't bothering you, sue.

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Speaker 1: Are you thinking something small and intimate for him? Are

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Speaker 1: you thinking something large for him?

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Speaker 3: We were never.

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Speaker 4: Into gift giving and then COVID happened and we're like, oh,

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Speaker 4: it's just nice to like get something not from Amazon,

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Speaker 4: do you know.

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Speaker 2: What I mean?

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Speaker 4: So you know, we do little meaningful gifts, and now

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Speaker 4: with children, it's just nice to go to a restaurant

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Speaker 4: and be like I'll drive you, drink, you know, dis

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Speaker 4: you all night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that part, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, just gonna be a little spa day, just like

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Speaker 4: all the things we keep saying we should do but

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Speaker 4: we don't have tang And then he's gonna do a

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Speaker 4: little boy's day out like day to night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna do that with him.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited about that. It's a big plan, huge

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Speaker 1: things planned. He was like, we're gonna go to this

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Speaker 1: bar and then after that, I don't know, it's like

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Speaker 1: it's like, okay, well, yeah, grand opening.

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Speaker 3: He likes the fuck around to find out.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah.

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Speaker 4: At one point, I was like, can I book you

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Speaker 4: a table at a strip club? Should I call a

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Speaker 4: soho house? Like I'm a planner and he likes to

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Speaker 4: just have friends show up and see where the night

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Speaker 4: takes us, which is really nice and very opposite from

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Speaker 4: me because I'm just like, if we're in this neighborhood,

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Speaker 4: we can do these four things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, I like to have that as well. It's

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Speaker 1: just like you kind of google map it. You could

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Speaker 1: go from here here, but I mean it's his night.

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Speaker 1: We'll throw our arm around it and see what's what.

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Speaker 4: But that's why he has people like us in his life,

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Speaker 4: because he's like, what should we do.

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Speaker 3: And then like we have options?

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Speaker 1: Fair, that's beautiful. I'm glad for both of you. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad for all of us, and it's just nice to

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Speaker 1: have a partner like that. Fifteen years man.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean you had a fun birthday too.

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Speaker 4: I mean I wasn't able to go, but dancing to

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Speaker 4: Expresso Martinis.

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Speaker 3: It's pretty great.

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Speaker 1: Dancing you Espresso Martini's. Had a nice hang with Sam Jay,

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Speaker 1: had a nice hang with young David Adote and Fibes

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Speaker 1: and all the other people that showed up. I have

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Speaker 1: to say this though, have given a gift to my

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Speaker 1: beloved and she almost broke up with me overgift. We

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Speaker 1: were kids. We were kids then, and I have to

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Speaker 1: admit it was a last minute on my way to

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Speaker 1: see her forgot it was her birthday situation. I bought

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Speaker 1: her these like sorry raggedy low top converse and was like,

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Speaker 1: eh am I right, and even her mom was just

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Speaker 1: like dump him. It was It was bad. It was

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Speaker 1: a low.

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Speaker 3: Point in Jamaica.

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Speaker 4: My mom always says, this bad luck for someone you

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Speaker 4: love to buy you shoes, because that means they're going

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Speaker 3: Now. I don't know who hurt her.

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Speaker 4: I don't know who hurt people in Jamaica, but that

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. That means you could never buy your person shoes.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, if you go shopping and they

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Speaker 1: you could go to Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Big mistake. Yeah, huge, huge mistake.

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Speaker 1: Huge mustake. Big non. I have to push back. I

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Speaker 1: disagree with that. I disagree with that, but you do

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Speaker 1: have to get your person the right thing. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like I know my person, like she loves a good handbag,

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Speaker 1: to like set a little money aside whenever epic days

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Speaker 4: May I also suggest Telfer bag or some sort of

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Speaker 4: like Brandon Blackwood, like a black owned bag. Yes, she

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Speaker 4: has a very diverse family and it's also very nice

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Speaker 4: just or black designers because they are doing it. Hey, everybody,

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Speaker 4: by the way, welcome to adulting. I'm mishelbey to. This

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Speaker 4: is Jordan Carlos. Hello everyone, we are out here talking

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Speaker 4: about love, birthdays, presents, just real life shit, you know

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Speaker 3: And it's so nice. I know.

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Speaker 4: There was like some discussion in the what was the

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Speaker 4: Real Housewives of Atlanta. I don't really remember because there's

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Speaker 4: I have to remember when recycling is I'm going to

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Speaker 4: take my medication because I'm forty six, and that's what happened.

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Speaker 4: But there was debate over if you have a birthday dinner,

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Speaker 4: who pays? Is it the birthday person or is it

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Speaker 4: the friends that pay?

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Speaker 1: Stop? The friends obviously pay. The birthday person should not pay. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: oh that's so nice. I had paid for my own

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Speaker 1: birthday back in the day. I mean, we fall spiritually

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Speaker 1: paid for own birthdays. But like, tell me, like, what

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Speaker 1: what you paid for your own birthdays? Stop?

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Speaker 2: I know?

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Speaker 1: Is it single? Michelle?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Wait, you had friends with you. Yeah, you went to

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Speaker 1: the dinner and you put down the money. Yes, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: we ain't doing that. Okay, we ain't doing that. In fact,

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Speaker 1: I have done that well into adulthood, and it was like,

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Speaker 1: do I carry that around a little bit?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: It's also like when you have broke friends you and

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Speaker 1: If their company is more important to you than the

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Speaker 1: check than you know, all good. But you can tell

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Speaker 4: I know, speaking of tone, what a segue? Our guest

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Speaker 4: is named tone? You guys, I'm a mall cop. Okay,

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Speaker 4: where's my uniform? I've got segwe.

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Speaker 1: Where's the air horn? The airhorn on.

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Speaker 3: The egghorn, the egghorn, the air horn.

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Speaker 1: It lives within looghorn, leghorn, egghorn, airhorn.

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Speaker 3: Foghorn lives within you.

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Speaker 4: The airhorn lives with an honest Yeah, man, what can

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Speaker 4: I say about this dude? He is amazing. We've worked

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Speaker 4: together on different things. He's a hilarious wink wink blink

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Speaker 4: blink bitch. He's a hilarious comedian actor and yeah, man,

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Speaker 4: he's torn the country right now and he's just got

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Speaker 4: hilarious stand up that you could just see all over

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Speaker 4: the intrawebs and such. And he's one of my most

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Speaker 4: favorite people. Everybody. Do you hear that? Bell ringing, just kidding,

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Speaker 3: I know you guys. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I'm not my job.

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Speaker 3: I know I have.

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Speaker 4: I have a onesie on this giving dad bod, so

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Speaker 4: I think that's why I'm doing the dad jokes.

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Speaker 1: All right, you guys we age so well.

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Speaker 3: Look at the fuck.

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Speaker 1: At us I didn't met. We're on zoom, and I

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Speaker 1: use a certain setting that like, you know, you can

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Speaker 1: do that on zoom that makes you look good?

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Speaker 2: Right, I use it too.

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Speaker 4: No, what tell me your white woman's secrets. I'm just

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Speaker 4: out here being like forty six and tired.

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Speaker 1: This digital concealer, it literally is so under preferences. You

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Speaker 1: can have it, like you can have the camera just

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Speaker 1: be kinder and kinder to your face, kinder kinder?

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Speaker 3: Still are we kinder? Out a ten or at eight

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Speaker 4: I have to say this is a very exciting episode

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Speaker 4: for me because I get to hang with you guys

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Speaker 4: working and now in this very special episode. One thing

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, my mom is stylish. I get that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it truly is an expression.

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Speaker 4: I'm always surprised because, like, even like the shoes and

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Speaker 3: I said, oh my god, I told you to do that.

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Speaker 2: I'm a big sock guy. You are you a sock

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Speaker 3: Yes? Are they thicker and keep your feet warm?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I never keep those, and then

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Speaker 1: Inside of my crocs, inside the crocks.

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Speaker 4: Ooh, so you don't like your feet to touch anything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, black man at the beach, do you wear no

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Speaker 3: What's forty days and forty ninth?

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Speaker 2: What beach we at? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Wow? What beach we at? Okay?

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Speaker 3: He is thorough.

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Speaker 2: Okay, soft sand, yes, maybe a little litter, Come on you, Bobby,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go shoes or flip flops

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Speaker 4: Yes, because it's always the hottest too. It's like turf

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Speaker 2: Right. Yeah, once I get the soft sand I'm getting,

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Speaker 2: I don't like the beach like that.

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Speaker 1: You don't like the beach like I didn't think so?

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Speaker 3: Does he likes sand? He doesn't even like dust on

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 4: Come on, sand, that's like just nature's glitter that it

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Speaker 2: Else I will go. I will go to the beach

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Right, See, I live in a beach house. Like my

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Speaker 2: I've never gotten on your beach and I've been there. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I refuse to step on, saying because I won't

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Speaker 4: I mean, not only do I have two dogs, two kids,

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Speaker 4: because that's what happens when you have a lively house,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna get dirty. But you can set yourself up

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yes, where's the craziest place you ever found? Saying?

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Speaker 4: Oh, under my titty? It was more like a pearl.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, beat me to that punch.

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Speaker 4: Everywhere. It's in my food. Sometimes I'm like, how did

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Speaker 4: it get in the salad?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how's applesol's crunching.

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Speaker 3: Exactly.

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Speaker 4: But can you be with someone who is a little dirty?

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Speaker 4: Not dirty, like dirty by your standards? Because there's dirty

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Speaker 4: because I'm always traveling. The suitcase gotta be emptied and

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Speaker 4: But like, can you be with someone dirty like ask

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's different. I mean, like, yeah dirty. We had

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Speaker 2: is like it's just unkept for the moment. Yes, dish

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Speaker 4: Part, oh mm, it's personal. I clean it probably four

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Speaker 4: because I'm potty training my kids, and their hands are

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Speaker 4: because your fingerprints gone. Finger prints gone. But I think

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Speaker 4: it'd be like making sure I raise polite children, or

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Speaker 3: It's none of that.

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Speaker 4: It's how do I get through trying to potty train

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Speaker 3: That is a shit. That is a true testament of

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Speaker 4: Because I'm you know, I need some anti anxiety medication

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Speaker 4: because we go into a bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Like no, why stop it?

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Speaker 4: Look, you know, like I'm a mess because they want

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Speaker 2: I'm like does that make you miss like you know,

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Speaker 2: I miss diapers? Yes, or pull up or something.

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Speaker 2: I never thought about it to you said it just now.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's because you want them to be able

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because you can lay down a little thing on

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Speaker 4: And for boys, I realized it's harder because every toilet

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Speaker 3: Was like this is insane.

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Speaker 4: Like do you remember actually the first time you were

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, absolutely you do. Yeah, So what was what

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Speaker 2: Or like I was probably seven or eight when it

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Speaker 2: do you mean to wipe it off?

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Speaker 1: Do you wipe it off?

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Speaker 2: I mean my forties not I do.

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Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, you got to.

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Speaker 3: Now do you wipe your dick off?

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Speaker 1: Some people flick it, you know, some people wipe it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: gentlemen wipe it.

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Speaker 2: I think, gentleman, wipe you.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 4: Well, we found the name of the episode.

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Speaker 3: We found the promo gentlemen, wipe it.

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Speaker 1: When I was a kid, I went to you know,

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Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, you could fit inside.

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Speaker 1: They were enormous. Urinals used to be at least five

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Speaker 1: for they were Who was it like this?

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Speaker 4: When did you guys realize that you guys were black

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Speaker 4: just like, I'm a threat, I'm a fetish, I am

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Speaker 4: I'm important. Like when did y'all we all have that

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Speaker 1: It never all happens at once, but I will let

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Speaker 2: I'll say I grew up in a predominant black neighborhood

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Speaker 2: ever seen before. My classes were real small, and everybody

446
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,680
Speaker 2: was cool because everybody grew up together, right, So, I

447
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,640
Speaker 2: mean all of us played ball together in soccer and basketball, baseball,

448
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,879
Speaker 2: all that stuff. But I think it was my oh

449
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,960
Speaker 2: it was. It was my junior year and I got

450
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 2: in trouble. They could have been some real crazy trouble.

451
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 2: I was in Chattanooga, Tennessee, and I was on the

452
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,119
Speaker 2: basketball team. We got we got eliminated, and then me

453
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 2: and another classmate who was I think a senior stayed

454
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,040
Speaker 2: back to like, oh, we need you all to help

455
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: with the girls teams, like carry equipment, all this kind

456
00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,200
Speaker 2: of stuff. So we didn't weren't starters, like they didn't

457
00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,479
Speaker 2: care about us. We stayed back, and then you know,

458
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 2: we tried to have a little fun time, you know,

459
00:20:55,160 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 2: with fingers and mouths and stuff. Right, and so high

460
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 2: school kids, right, and okay, YadA, YadA, YadA. I tell

461
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 2: you later at one point, but.

462
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,640
Speaker 1: I've never seen him glitch up like this.

463
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 2: Because I mean it was twenty five years ago. I mean, look,

464
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 2: I was trying to get my first BJ right, I

465
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 2: was shooting my shot. Yes, didn't get it. Another kid

466
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 2: did get it. And then so we get back to school.

467
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 2: He starts telling everybody that we both did and I'm like,

468
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 2: why are you telling people I did? I didn't like

469
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 2: I tried and it did not happen. And then, I mean,

470
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 2: when I tell you, the rath that came down on

471
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 2: me versus him was completely different. I mean they called

472
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:40,959
Speaker 2: me up to the office. My mom had to come

473
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 2: out of I mean it was like I got I mean,

474
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,199
Speaker 2: school was like, we're not inviting you back. But his

475
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,199
Speaker 2: family gave a lot of money to the school and

476
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 2: to the church that was attached to and so that

477
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,439
Speaker 2: part his was not even in the age range it

478
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 2: should have been, and nothing happened to this kid.

479
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, this, this would have happened different

480
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 1: if I right, if I had been different.

481
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: I think I saw a difference, Like right there in

482
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 2: front of me. I mean, I've seen my dad get

483
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,119
Speaker 2: a ticket just off some dumb shit. I've seen, you know,

484
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 2: just stuff that you hear about and see as you're

485
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 2: you know, thirteen to sixteen. But that was that moment

486
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 2: where I was like, Yeah, what the fuck just happened?

487
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 1: What was the feeling in that moment when you kind

488
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 1: of had that that epiphany?

489
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 2: Then? I mean it was people trying to course me

490
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 2: to admit something that I didn't do. And then her

491
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 2: father came in and I was like, can I just

492
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 2: be honest with everybody? I was like, she told you

493
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 2: it didn't happen. I told you it didn't happen. And

494
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 2: then I end up telling the it wasn't really a principle.

495
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 2: I guess it was a chancellor of the of the school.

496
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 2: I mean I ended up saying I was like, can

497
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 2: we just talk for a second, and he's like, you know,

498
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,439
Speaker 2: he's already acting upset, like you know, and he was

499
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 2: the brother to the bishop of the church, which we

500
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 2: can go through that whole rabbit hole of that shit too.

501
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: But anyway, so this is like a Christian school as well. Yeah,

502
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. It was wild.

503
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 2: So like, I go, even if this had happen, which

504
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 2: you know, I was like, which it did not, it

505
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 2: did not happen. Let's just say it happened. Let's just

506
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 2: say it happened. Togo, you had an affair on your

507
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 2: wife ten years ago. In the whole community about it. No, no,

508
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 2: and like you're still here, so shouldn't you just turn

509
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 2: the other cheek? Everybody else turned the other cheek?

510
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 3: You did that?

511
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: Did that?

512
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 2: Petty?

513
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 3: Come on, come on, Petty Rockspin, let's go.

514
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 2: And then he was like, get out of my office.

515
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 3: Yo, you got to stick up for yourself. I'm so

516
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 3: glad you did that.

517
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to. My mom went hard. My mom

518
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 2: was working at the law firm a time. She was

519
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 2: like a paralegal, and you know, she was talking to

520
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 2: I mean, it was like a whole it was a

521
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 2: whole thing. It was a whole thing.

522
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

523
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 2: It was Wow. Yeah.

524
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: From then on where you're like, Okay, things are different.

525
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you just like I'm rewatching a House

526
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 2: of Cards on Netflix, right, I'm rewatching the show and

527
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 2: me and a friend were talking about the character the

528
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 2: other day that Herschela A Lee plays, and he was like,

529
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: he's so buttoned up in kind of stiff, and I go,

530
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times because I work corporate

531
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: American too, right, and it's like there are so few

532
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 2: brown people, black people. We go to a convention that's

533
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: like three four hundred people and it's eight of us.

534
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 2: Where you go, I can't miss this convention.

535
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: Yeah right.

536
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,239
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, Troy or Brad can oversleep and then make it

537
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: past lunch and nobody knows they're missing. Yes, I mean

538
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 2: I gotta be ironed to a crisp. I gotta have

539
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 2: my hair. I gotta have my beard done, right, I

540
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 2: gotta have you know. So it's like a different level

541
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 2: of like swagging professionalism that you have to have. Yeah,

542
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: somebody else can can smell like beer and they be like,

543
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 2: you must have had a great night last night. I

544
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 2: look shitty, but they like they had a good time.

545
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 1: Exactly.

546
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 4: I feel like you just explain the codebook for female comedians.

547
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 4: You could have eleven unfunny, basic dumb motherfuckers. Men tell

548
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 4: all the same shit in a different way, and the

549
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 4: one or two jokes that a female comedian might say

550
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 4: that don't hit Oh you know, bitches ain't funny? This that,

551
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 4: and the third like you have to just be so

552
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 4: much better than everybody. So that's when when people like

553
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 4: ask me advice owns a comedian. First of all, stop

554
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 4: trying to pick my brain. I don't have a brain

555
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 4: left anymore. Figure it out like I did. Or two,

556
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 4: just keep going and be as funny as you can

557
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 4: be for either two people or two thousand people. Just

558
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 4: be funny as fuck. Make it hard for people to

559
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 4: follow you.

560
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 2: Well, I mean that parallel is interesting because I never

561
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,239
Speaker 2: heard it from the opposite side. Right. You always hear

562
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 2: like what you just gave, and then the rationale for it,

563
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: and you go, okay, I see it. But and then

564
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 2: giving the rationale ford first, and then going here's the

565
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 2: comp is You're right? I mean, because I probably would

566
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 2: admittedly look at going like, man, she need to clean up. Yeah,

567
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 2: and it's not that she's not funny, but I go

568
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 2: she got to iron These jeans need to be.

569
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,719
Speaker 1: Iired, these sheets need to be ironed.

570
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 2: I can't pay attention to her now because these gens

571
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 2: a wrinkle.

572
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.

573
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 4: When people don't look good on stage, it just irks

574
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 4: me because I'm like, if that's your thing, that's one thing,

575
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 4: but people are paying money to see you.

576
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely my thing. You've upgraded, Jordan, Thank you, friend.

577
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 4: Jordan would be on stage with masking tape gens, yes,

578
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 4: because he like ripped his jeans.

579
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: It was duct tape. It wasn't masking tape. Sorry, hey man,

580
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: that's good tape. That is a good tape. Thank you

581
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: very very much. I just want to keep her Anderson

582
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: Cooper three sixty honest. Okay, like that's all it is.

583
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was wild for a while. I didn't

584
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: know who I was. I needed to reclaim myself. Yeah, man,

585
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: it does mean that you need to be perfect. It's

586
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: almost like Obama with the brown suit. They'll never let

587
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 1: him forget that fucking brown suit. That was his biggest controversy.

588
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 3: It was more tan exact.

589
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: You can't forget it.

590
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 3: I can't.

591
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 4: It was giving Men's Warehouse coupon, but that's okay. He

592
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 4: made it look good.

593
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just I mean, if you don't go

594
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 2: he should went all the way. So he's sucker that shirt,

595
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like if you're gonna go

596
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 2: there and go there. Yes, we're a Sperry boat shoot, like,

597
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 2: come on, what do we do it?

598
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 4: I used to work at a TVO back in the

599
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 4: day in the Jersey mall Quaker Bridge Mom. We would

600
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 4: sell colored men's suits. So it was like till it

601
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 4: was giving like boys men, like if you want to

602
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 4: be in a boy group, mustard with the ties and stuff.

603
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 4: It was giving like low budget zoot suit, you know,

604
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 4: if you felt like you want to be like a

605
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 4: Cap calloway and a jet of Jackson video. That's alright

606
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 4: with me. That's the name of the anyways, I'm fine,

607
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 4: I'm fine.

608
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 3: What do you mean?

609
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: So it was it was a vibe.

610
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 3: It was a shmood as the kids call it.

611
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, anytime you wear a suit that loud, you have

612
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 2: to be coming from somewhere else. First.

613
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, everything's the second stop.

614
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 2: Everything's the second stop. You can that cannot be your

615
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,400
Speaker 2: first stop. It was performing and you're like you showed

616
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 2: up somewhere else, but you can't put that on and

617
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 2: it'd be like where you come from. You're like you're

618
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 2: like no, no, no, no, no, no no no.

619
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: I love it.

620
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 3: You know what I love too.

621
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 4: It's like I feel like in the last why I

622
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 4: want to see like the last three to five, last

623
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 4: three years, it feels like your adult in game tone

624
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 4: has gotten to the next level. Like every time I

625
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 4: talk to him Jordan, he's like, I gotta powerwash my

626
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 4: porch right now. I'll call you back what I know.

627
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 4: Or he's like, oh man, I gotta go feed these

628
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 4: really big deer. My neighbors said what, I don't what longhorns?

629
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: Longhorn so exactly nobody goes to feed your big deer.

630
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what you said what I could barely

631
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 3: get through a lantern fly? What was the shift for

632
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 3: you to just like kind of go off the grid

633
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 3: but still show up for parties? It's confusing.

634
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I should have bought something years ago, but I finally,

635
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 2: you know, bought something. I got the logistics of travel,

636
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: you know, you just said it packing a bag all

637
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: the time, and like, what do you want to do

638
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 2: and where do you see yourself for the next ten,

639
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 2: I go, I do not want to be in this

640
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 2: apartment for the next ten because the rate is too good.

641
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 2: I don't want this rate to keep me from elevating.

642
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 2: I want some property. I want to know I have neighbors,

643
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: but not see them right And honestly, this is the

644
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: first time, probably since I was living in my parents' house,

645
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: that I have like neighbors versus like people I live

646
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 2: next to.

647
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 3: Yes, isn't that lovely?

648
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: I love it like that.

649
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: By the time I got here, it was like, I

650
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: want to live close enough to the airport. I don't

651
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 2: want to hear the airplanes. I don't want to see neighbors,

652
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,239
Speaker 2: but I want to know they're back and forth. I mean,

653
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 2: and they they have a nice small town energy to them,

654
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 2: where they're like, hey, man, we knew you're out of town.

655
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 2: Let us know. We're gonna make sure. We'll walk around,

656
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: make sure you don't have any hoses on just dripping water.

657
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: We'll make sure that nothing's broken, we'll check the mail.

658
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 3: I love that. It's the community.

659
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's such a dope community. So like this

660
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: is a neighbor now, it's amazing. I mean, they grow

661
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: peppers and onions, and tomatoes, and we get bags of

662
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: vegetables every three or four weeks from them.

663
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: I mean, it's who does it?

664
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: Yes, it's really dope.

665
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. You mentioned long horn cattle.

666
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering where in the ponderosa you are right now,

667
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: like when you got long horned cattle? What in the forms?

668
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I live east of Austin, like twenty twenty

669
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 2: five minutes.

670
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but luckily, you know, I mean, we.

671
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: Don't work till that night, so after I go into

672
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: the city, I'm going out to the traffic. So like

673
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 2: seven when I head into the city, it takes me

674
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 2: twenty minutes to get there. Wow. So it's not really

675
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 2: a big deal. But I'll just send y'all a picture

676
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 2: of this. We woke up one morning having a cup

677
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 2: of coffee and look out back and there's like twenty

678
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 2: like wild hogs in the backyard for adults in like

679
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,239
Speaker 2: fifteen sixteen like kind of babies just eating acorns from

680
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 2: a under tree about I mean, they're probably thirty yards

681
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 2: from the back door, of forty yards.

682
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 3: That's so beautiful.

683
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: Deer, we got road runners?

684
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: Oh cool?

685
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 3: What's that?

686
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: They're birds?

687
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: Like the cartoon.

688
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 2: I mean, they're probably be beach twelve sixteen inches. It's like,

689
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 2: it's cool. I mean, we got deer. I mean I've

690
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 2: been out front. We had donkeys in the front yard

691
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 2: at one point that just kind of rolled in.

692
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 4: That's so beautiful and you must feel I don't know,

693
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 4: I'm just assuming because the beach for me is very grounding.

694
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

695
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 4: I like my feet season in the sand, in the water,

696
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 4: because it's nice to be around nature when we're in

697
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 4: such a crazy, self serving career. Yeah, especially that is

698
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 4: so up and down for a lot of different reasons.

699
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 4: It's so nice to be grounded when you just are

700
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 4: trying to create art in the midst of capitalism, Yeah,

701
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 4: running its course, And so do you find that to

702
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 4: be grounding for the most part, Because the way you

703
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 4: just spoke about it was very beautiful.

704
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 2: I love it. I Mean we got a nice pool

705
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 2: in the back, and we sit in the pool and

706
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: we might be having a glass of wine watching the

707
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 2: TV out there, and then like two deer just come

708
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: running by, and it's like it's beautiful.

709
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel isolated?

710
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: Not really, because I'm close enough to the city, right

711
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 2: and there's other little downtown. There's like a little small town.

712
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: I guarantee you thirty years ago, I would not have

713
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 2: hung out.

714
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 3: It is there a main street, a main street.

715
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 2: Main street is main street, main street be main streeting

716
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: and it's probably four lights long. But it's like a

717
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: couple of cool bars and it's like five seven minutes away.

718
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: So we'll go down there and kick it, oh and

719
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: go to the bar, watch a game or something. Yeah,

720
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 2: I mean it is isolating, but still because we travel

721
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: so much, it never feels like that.

722
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like an oasis. You get to go home too.

723
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: That's great.

724
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 2: If I had to be here for six months straight,

725
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 2: it might turn into that because I've never beenwhere that long.

726
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 2: Just isolated, So I don't know what that feels like

727
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 2: it right, But I mean, you know, having the problems

728
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: with the house I love too. There's ones I can fix,

729
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 2: Like I need to fix a light switch on YouTube

730
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: or talk to a neighbor. But all my neighbors do

731
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 2: real man stuff. They're all electricians, plumbers. I mean they

732
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 2: work on h VAX. I mean, if I don't want

733
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: to call a SERVI f my you know, home warranty,

734
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,959
Speaker 2: then I call hey, Jeff and man, I think something's

735
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: going on with my gauge is you know? Can you

736
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 2: come check it out? He's like, man, I'll be there

737
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 2: in an hour.

738
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're gonna you're gonna need to look at

739
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: the compressor. Yeah, and see if that's if that's oh

740
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: boy feeding in the line from the compressor, Oh boy,

741
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: you know.

742
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 3: If that's he's throwing out the words he knows.

743
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got a little water jump with a little air.

744
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 2: Now with the water jumping a little bit, so let's

745
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 2: bleed these lines real quick.

746
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 3: That's awesome, dude. It feels like you hacked life.

747
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 2: You know how you pay him with a beer and

748
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: a shot, and anybody asks.

749
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: Wow, a beer and a shot? Oh my gosh.

750
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: When they see Ron White downtown, they're like, hey, you

751
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 2: think you can give me tickets to Ron White? Absolutely?

752
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely.

753
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 3: You're like, I got tickets to Ron Black if you

754
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 3: want to see him.

755
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: That's crazy. So you found something. How long have you

756
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: lived there?

757
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: A year and a half. I mean I would say

758
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: we've been here half the time just because of travel

759
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 2: and out of town for work and all kind of stuff.

760
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how you really appreciate it is when you're

761
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 4: not there all the time.

762
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And that's the.

763
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 3: Same for relationships.

764
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 4: What listen, we have our audience sending questions and we

765
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 4: try to answer them.

766
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 3: So here's a question, and it's a good question. Question.

767
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 4: Is I'm in a new relationship, when should we talk

768
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: about our finances, our goals, our debt, our investments, et cetera.

769
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 2: Yo.

770
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 4: You know, a lot of people are just like, what's

771
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 4: mine as yours? What's yours is mine? Some people are like,

772
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 4: is mine, it's yours and ours?

773
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: How old are these people like that? That's I think

774
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: that makes a difference. I would say, talk about debt

775
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 2: before finances, and I know that probably is wrapped into that,

776
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: but I was like, I'm not doing nothing with nobody

777
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: in like real debt.

778
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 4: Oh that's just a turnoff for you in a relationship

779
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 4: to pursue not at this age.

780
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 3: Interesting, okay, but in your thirties.

781
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: What about a mortgage that's good debt? Okay, okay, okay,

782
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: you're saying bad debt like the mop.

783
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 2: You know, twelve grand a student loan debt is different

784
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 2: than eighty grand a student loan debt, right or two

785
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 2: hundred student loan debt. You know, I'm actively marrying into

786
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 2: this debt. Yeah, to go is this gonna be a

787
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 2: problem later? I can I look down the line and go,

788
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 2: hey man, you got to stop buying these purses or

789
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: these shoes. Yeah, and I do think they're beautiful. You

790
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: look wonderful, but take a picture in it because you're

791
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 2: not gonna bring it home.

792
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

793
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 4: Also, like, look, I know a lot of people are like,

794
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 4: I want to date someone that's been to college. But

795
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 4: if you date someone who works and hasn't been to college,

796
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 4: they don't have any student debt, that's kind of hot.

797
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: It's true.

798
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: I mean, like I just said, plumbers, h VAC and

799
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 2: electricians paid, Yes, paid.

800
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: It's a skill.

801
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 3: They're not going to lay them pipes.

802
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 2: Do My neighbor, My neighbor, they got three cars, a

803
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,760
Speaker 2: boat to RV. They got like a little model t roaster.

804
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 2: They take mad trips, and I'm like, yo, they go

805
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 2: to work. Yeah, it's a different kind of thing, right.

806
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,479
Speaker 1: It's like some people work to live and some people

807
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: like have you know, artistic drive and want and want

808
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: to make something, you know what I mean saying. So

809
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: it's like I put no value judgment on either. Ooh okay,

810
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: but I feel you One, you're gonna be subject to

811
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: more debt for sure.

812
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

813
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 1: And two rich people always want to know how to

814
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 1: fix a screen, a window screen, so you're always gonna

815
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: have somebody to do that and be around. So I get,

816
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying.

817
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, To answer the question, I would say, I

818
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 2: think talk about that debt, but finances, I think it

819
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: should come up.

820
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 1: No romance to that finance. Is that what you're saying.

821
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 2: I mean, look, well I'm forty one now, but being

822
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 2: being twenty five, I group with a mom that works,

823
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 2: So I just always thought i'd be with a woman

824
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: that worked, and I am. But at this point, I go,

825
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 2: she don't have she can decide if she you know,

826
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 2: she she can't, or she whatever she wants to do.

827
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 3: I wouldn't even know how to like be around someone

828
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 3: that didn't work.

829
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, what what do you do all day?

830
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 3: Well?

831
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: What if you couldn't work? What if what if you

832
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: got hurt on the job or something like that?

833
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,919
Speaker 4: You find something you can make earrings of someone? Etsy,

834
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 4: you gotta do something now, you can't just be here

835
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 4: doing nothing. You gotta do something. Yeah, your hobby needs

836
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:58,479
Speaker 4: to make money?

837
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 2: What about all mutual friends. He and I were talking,

838
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 2: but he said this to me. He goes, I'm a

839
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: big bitter, but she gonna do something.

840
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, he goes.

841
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 2: This money is your shopping money or whatever you have

842
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 2: to do. He goes, you don't have to really get

843
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 2: paid for it, but you will be doing something. You're

844
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 2: gonna be busy.

845
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we need.

846
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 3: Something to talk about. But will you need experiences?

847
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: Give me a story, Give me a story, bitch, I'll

848
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 1: have a story. But I got a question. Okay, is

849
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: it okay to take my current boyfriend to a restaurant

850
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: that an X introduced me to? Yo? Oh yes, you

851
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: say yes?

852
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 2: Yes? Oh wow? Is it took me to? Or that

853
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 2: was our restaurant? Like we went there all the time, like.

854
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: Introduced me to.

855
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 3: Clearly it's on the brain, on the mind because it's like,

856
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 3: how'd you find this place?

857
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: I love it?

858
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 5: No one says that there's a bar that I used

859
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 5: to go to in La that like I would, you know,

860
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 5: I'd bring a chick in every now and then when

861
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 5: I was right, and then if.

862
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 2: We didn't work out, and I if I saw her

863
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: months later, bring somebody else there because she thought it

864
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: was cool too. Appalled see.

865
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 4: See, when you're giving someone the experience and then they

866
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 4: use that experience on someone else, that's like, that's a.

867
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: Little shisty if it's a gym of a place. Yeah, okay,

868
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: so you felt a certain possession over this bar. So

869
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: as you're saying appalled.

870
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 3: It's also the experience that he was providing.

871
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 4: That's the possession, right, And so for me, I'm saying, nah,

872
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 4: find another restaurant, unless you're in a small town when

873
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 4: there's three good restaurants.

874
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 2: But like, if we ended on good terms and we

875
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 2: can agree that, hey, we'll only talk to let each

876
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: other know when we're gonna be there, what in the black.

877
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:53,240
Speaker 1: Seinfeld is happening right now? If we broke.

878
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 2: Up, If we broke up and you have the curtnesy

879
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: to go, hey, just just let you know. I'm gonna

880
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 2: take the restaurant on Thursday. So just and I go, hey,

881
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 2: thank you for being.

882
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, what do you do with everybody that you've

883
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 4: had relations with in your phone?

884
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 3: You delete them?

885
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: No, because because emergency still matter to me. And that's

886
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 2: a conversation that I've had.

887
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: I wish you could see my face, but it's a podcast.

888
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. I just love how fluid.

889
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,800
Speaker 1: The answer was, did not even think about it.

890
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 3: He had the conversation already.

891
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 2: I don't talk to exes. Yeah, out of respect, I

892
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: don't talk to exes that we broke up. It was

893
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 2: a nice, amical breakup. It's fine. Or we had a

894
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: bad breakup, we don't talk. But there is a civil

895
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 2: thing that Like, if one of my exes happens to

896
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: be in Austin or something and she's driving around on

897
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: a Wednesday or something, she's like, yo, I don't know

898
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: who else to call. I have a flat tire or something.

899
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: That's the kind of call I won't min because I

900
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 2: wouldn't want her out strained on the highway. Yes, there

901
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 2: are other means, but if I get that call, I'm

902
00:38:58,239 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 2: gonna try to help out. Am I going to go

903
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 2: to her unless she's walking out a highway or something,

904
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 2: no phone is dead or she stopped thinking I have

905
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: an easy phone number and she stops in and calls

906
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:08,720
Speaker 2: me to go. You're the only number I can remember.

907
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, listen this Okay, that's that's fair.

908
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: You're the emergency, okay.

909
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: Michelle Early also from the South. Yeah, and then now

910
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 2: I can't be from the South.

911
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, I I don't understand. But look,

912
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 3: we can't be using the.

913
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 4: Southern hospitality as an exco used.

914
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: But we were raised to be black knights. So this

915
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: is what you gotta do. You gotta right, you gotta

916
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 1: ride in.

917
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: But like you got to ride in in just one way,

918
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 3: don't ride in the other way.

919
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: Oh. I would do everything in my power not to

920
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 1: show up. Text her your triple A number, you know

921
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like they toe it, they toe it

922
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: for free, and change your tires for free. Gotcha. They

923
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: toe it everybody for free for the first two miles.

924
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 3: So, oh my goodness.

925
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 2: But this is also also that must be a Northeast

926
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 2: woo because down here I get seventy miles by the way.

927
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, that's lovely. Yeah wow, look how tough

928
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: it is up here.

929
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 2: But I will say this, yes, I could never make

930
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: it with a woman who drives who doesn't have triple

931
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 2: A or some sort of service. Oh, this is something

932
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: as an adult you have to have and know. Yeah,

933
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 2: the inside assistance you need, you need that.

934
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 3: See I don't. I don't know how to change a tire.

935
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 3: I have to learn that. I know, but I do

936
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 3: have triple A.

937
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: You can easily do it.

938
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 4: I think I could because you know, I'm like real

939
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 4: fight or flight kind of bitch. So I'm just like

940
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 4: he hope you know. But like, if it's a lantern

941
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 4: fly in my hair, I'm just gonna I'm gonna lay

942
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,879
Speaker 4: down and let the Good Lord take me because I'm

943
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 4: gonna hear my like a Maya Angelo quote about rainbows

944
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 4: and just like be off, I'm just gonna fold like

945
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 4: a fitish shape.

946
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: If it's a lantern fly, like, just know that I

947
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: loved you.

948
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 3: The best way I could.

949
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: Okay, but.

950
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 4: If it's a tire, like if it's a tire change

951
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,399
Speaker 4: in somewhere in America that looks like the hills have eyes,

952
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 4: just know that I always spoke well about you, and

953
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 4: I hope someone very pretty gets to play me in

954
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 4: my lifetime movie because we did.

955
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: I'm out.

956
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: I know you can change the time, Michelle. I saw

957
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: you working out with Yamanika Sanders. You literally deadlifted the

958
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: rack as well. I was like, look at Michelle, go

959
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 1: so you can do this. You could be a NASCAR

960
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: in the pits, Like where do we go from? Just

961
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: today you could do it. I'm just saying I hate

962
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: my pet peeves learned helplessness.

963
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:30,439
Speaker 2: Oh, so you do it, well, get one of those, dude.

964
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 2: This is to get one of those. That's the hardest part.

965
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and finding where the jack goes. Once you

966
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 2: find what jack goes, you're in the game.

967
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 3: I've been married for thirteen years. I know where a

968
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 3: jack goes.

969
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 4: Okay, last question, I can't, but I can. Oh, this

970
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 4: is a nice little household question. I've just started living

971
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 4: with somebody. Should we combine our laundry?

972
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, of course, of course it's no for me.

973
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 4: Lord, Why why I don't need to be washing you'll

974
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 4: ragty ask man panties when you can't wipe your ass properly,

975
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 4: but know how to change a fucking tire. Get the

976
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 4: fuck out of here. No, I'm not your mama, okay,

977
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 4: and you are not much sugar daddy. I'm gonna wash

978
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 4: my own panties. You wash your own panties the way we.

979
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 3: Could do the house. If you like your shirt's folded

980
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 3: like that, you should do it. I don't work at

981
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 3: the gap, bitch.

982
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 4: We can combine household shit like towels, but don't hit

983
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 4: me with I like my towels folded like this, they folded.

984
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 3: Why is everyone so quiet?

985
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm laughing.

986
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 2: I don't even know how they work. What The only

987
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 2: time I use the washing dryer is when I'm trying

988
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 2: to d wrinkle a shirt and I throw it in

989
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 2: the dryer under a wrinkle release. That's it.

990
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 3: I don't know how what in the Maid of Manhattan

991
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 3: is going on right now?

992
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 2: Don't know how it works, have no idea, don't know

993
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 2: how to dish wash it work, don't know how to

994
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: wash and dry work? How do you? Okay, but you

995
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: know what? Yes, I can change a tire, Oh lord, yes,

996
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: I keep a car clean, I keep the gas filled up.

997
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 2: I do most of the cooking.

998
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 1: You take the trash out, Take the trash out.

999
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:06,959
Speaker 3: Do you swoop the floor?

1000
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: No, I'm not allowed to. She won't let me.

1001
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: Got you.

1002
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 3: Do you make the bed?

1003
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 5: No?

1004
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 2: Interesting?

1005
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 4: Do you dry your feet when you come out of

1006
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 4: the shower or do you have just like a wet

1007
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 4: fucking floor?

1008
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: No?

1009
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: No, we got a mad We got one of the

1010
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: good mats. Okay, good mad my drows feet? Okay, okay,

1011
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 2: I'll tell you. There is a clear uh, there was

1012
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 2: a clear divide when we moved in, we were both

1013
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: trying to help each other out do stuff, and then

1014
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:38,359
Speaker 2: at one point it organically separated to going, why don't

1015
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 2: you go outside and handle that stuff unless you need

1016
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: me real bad. I'm not pulling them more of these weeds.

1017
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 2: I'm not moving nothing. I'm not moving debris. If it's plants,

1018
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 2: some flowers or some snake plants and aloes or whatever,

1019
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: she'll take care of that. But like outside of that,

1020
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 2: she's like.

1021
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 3: You, she'll take care of snakes. Did you just say

1022
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 3: she'll do snake plants.

1023
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 2: Snake plants?

1024
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 3: Oh, plants? I said, wait a minute, now, okay, I have.

1025
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: To admit I definitely put all the laundry in together

1026
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: and maybe separate the kids, Sudrey, because at my tender

1027
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: age of forty five, I just don't have time. I

1028
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 1: put it all in it once, put it all on cold.

1029
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:11,439
Speaker 3: That's good.

1030
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 4: A twenty minute cold wash is good, unless it's your

1031
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 4: panties because y'all are gross.

1032
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: Yes, and then maybe take out some of her delicates,

1033
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: you know, like her work stuff. I separate that and

1034
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: hang dry it. Yes, but like you got to make

1035
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: sure because I've learned. I've learned the hard way, like

1036
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 1: you got to look in there. I don't care about

1037
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: whites and colors. Those can go together if you put

1038
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: the water on cold.

1039
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:39,240
Speaker 4: What are you a politician? You just sound like Obama

1040
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 4: in Mississippi.

1041
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:41,240
Speaker 1: I'll try to help people.

1042
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 3: I don't care.

1043
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care about whites and colors.

1044
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: I think that they can all go in the same

1045
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: appliance and come out clean. A beautiful cycle. It's a

1046
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: beautiful cycle. A gentle cycle, A gentle cycle.

1047
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.

1048
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 4: So tone we ask all our guests, what is the

1049
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 4: most adult thing you want to do for yourself that

1050
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 4: you haven't had a chance to do this year? And

1051
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 4: it could be anything small, medium, large, double X, It

1052
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 4: don't matter.

1053
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 1: What it is. Oh, he's going he's thinking deep, he's

1054
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: looking out the window.

1055
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 4: He's looking at the longhorn outside.

1056
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: I am going to for the first time change out

1057
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: a chandelier for myself. Never done this.

1058
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: What a light feature? Yeah, that's you.

1059
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, turn the power off, unhook it, Yeah, reground it

1060
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 2: and do all yeah, and hoist it up there and

1061
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: get it.

1062
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, please be careful. Will you also make

1063
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 4: videos so we could just see?

1064
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just changed up a light switch. That's too

1065
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:40,839
Speaker 2: long ago. I've replaced a switch turner.

1066
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my goodness, that's amazing. Man, that sounds very

1067
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: grown up.

1068
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 3: That sounds complicated.

1069
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 2: I mean it is, it is, it will be. But

1070
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to it. I'm looking forward to it.

1071
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: Oh that's so good.

1072
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: I just think about things that are like flushed to

1073
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 1: the ceiling, you know, I'm like, how they do that?

1074
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 3: Can I just speak on behalf of your partner that

1075
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 3: lives with you?

1076
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 2: Oh, don't be I can do nothing.

1077
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 4: By the way, coming from a wife who has a

1078
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 4: husband who loves seduce himself, this is in the DNA sometimes,

1079
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 4: Like I understand trying to venture and do something and

1080
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 4: be proud of your work, but you really got to

1081
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 4: call it when you can't figure it out and get

1082
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 4: the help in because I'm just like I need lights.

1083
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 4: I'm sitting in the I can't do no more candle light.

1084
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 4: I'm going to catch my hand fire. It's given Game

1085
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 4: of Thrones, wedding. I can't do no more candle light.

1086
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: Okay.

1087
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 4: So while I support your journey like a well made bra,

1088
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know you got no one.

1089
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: To fold him.

1090
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 2: She doesn't believe in me as much as you don't

1091
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 2: believe me, and so you haven't even I have to

1092
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 2: do stuff when she's out of town. It's crazy. How

1093
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 2: much did this cost? Like, go mother? It was free.

1094
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 2: It was free because I did it and it looks great.

1095
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 2: You thought somebody came over here and did this, didn't you.

1096
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 2: I do stuff when she's gone, because otherwise I got

1097
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 2: somebody looking over my shoulder. Are you sure you're doing

1098
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: that right? I'm like, if you don't go back in

1099
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 2: the house and do something. The dryer done, the dry done.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting this thing done. I got it.

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Speaker 1: That's how you know you're maturing is when your wife

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00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: or your partner leaves town. You're doing diy jobs.

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Speaker 2: I got a list.

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Speaker 3: It's giving. Everyone loves Raymond.

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00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 2: The list is real.

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00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: List is real.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for joining us.

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Speaker 1: Friend.

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Speaker 3: We love you. We can't wait to see you in person,

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00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 3: to have.

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00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 4: A beer and a cold shot, absolutely by candlelight in

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Speaker 4: your house.

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Speaker 1: Good sir, please give our best to the wild hogs,

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00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: to the to the mules, to the longhorns out there

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Speaker 1: and anything else any other varmus as well.

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Speaker 4: Man, thank you all for having me oh Jesus Christ,

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00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 4: Jordan's okay.

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00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm from Texas. I had to do it. I know

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00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: you did, honey. Okay, we can always edit it out. No,

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Speaker 1: we love you to love you to. That was wonderful.

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00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: I know that was wonderful. He's just a good I

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00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: like tone Bell. He's a good brother. He's a cool guy.

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Speaker 3: He's a cool guy.

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Speaker 1: Is nice to me?

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Speaker 3: Dude, who hurts you? What in the inner child is

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Speaker 3: going on?

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Speaker 4: Why are you so surprised when attractive men are nice

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Speaker 4: to you? I don't know who hurts you in high school?

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00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 4: But it's time to heal, bitch. It's having heal. We

1130
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 4: are all out here. You know what's so funny? You're like,

1131
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:21,399
Speaker 4: I can't believe they're so good looking.

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00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 3: You're nice to me. You've never said that about me.

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00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: You were beautiful and you're nice to me. You're hilarious

1134
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: and you're nice to me. I don't question it. Thank you,

1135
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: because it's like when Elmer Fudd walks off a cliff.

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00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: When he looks down, he drops. Okay, oh my god,

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00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: all right, oh my god.

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00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, sorry, I went fishing and then he just

1139
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 4: pushed me over the edge. Allah allah what's the movie

1140
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 4: of the bitches that drive over the cliff? Del Louise.

1141
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 4: I was like, it wasn't too long too. They just

1142
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 4: kept going, it's Delma Louise.

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00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 3: It's so funny.

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00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 4: I was trying to think of like a two hander

1145
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 4: or two hander, yes, and Hollywood speak is like two

1146
00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 4: people that carry a movie.

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00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 3: And I was like, what's a female two hand? And

1148
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, Themba Luise, the ones where they die.

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00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 1: Okay, that's about it. They're like, well, we got to

1150
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: kill these two of them.

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00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, so we can never make it happen again. I'm

1152
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 4: just kidding. Romy and Michelle.

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00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Anyways, you guys, what a lovely dude.

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00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 4: You know, people always have this like idea of working

1155
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 4: really hard and then retiring and then like living your best.

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00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 4: But what I do love about Tone is that he

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00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 4: sort of hacked the early retirement mixed with the hustle

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00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 4: where he's living that retiree life, that lifestyle on a

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00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 4: farm just twenty minutes outside of Austin.

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00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 3: But then he's still traveling and dipping and doing it.

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00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, and working and doing his thing. And

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00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 1: he's so funny, so talented, so eloquent and like, I'm

1163
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: always rooting for him, you know what I mean?

1164
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 4: Yes, you're rooting for him harder than Tyra Banks was

1165
00:49:58,640 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 4: rooting for What's her Face?

1166
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 3: And se than three of America's Next hop Model.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, everybody, thank you so much for listening to this episode.

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Speaker 4: And you know what, here's just a question to sit

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Speaker 4: with with you guys, if you feel like it. I

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00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 4: don't know how old you are. I don't know what

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00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 4: country you're in. I don't know if you're having a

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Speaker 4: good hair day, if you have hair, I don't fucking know.

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00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 4: But what does your life look like in your sixties?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 4: What would your plans be if you were to retire somewhere?

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Speaker 4: Can you figure out how to mix that into your

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Speaker 4: daily life?

1178
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: I think we all need more of that, and I

1180
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 3: think we'd probably live I don't know, longer, better lives.

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Speaker 1: You're saying, integrate it, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Integrate the vacation in every day if you can.

1183
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 2: I hear that.

1184
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 3: That's all.

1185
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Speaker 4: Don't forget to wash your hands because y'all nasty motherfuckers.

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Speaker 2: Bye.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to say bye? Jordan?

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Speaker 1: No? I just bye.

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Speaker 4: Don't be like an emotional hostage. You were always giving pow.

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Speaker 1: Fuck, I love you, Oh my god. This has been

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Speaker 1: an exactly right production.

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Speaker 3: Our senior producer is g how Lee.

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Speaker 1: Art Associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.

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Speaker 4: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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Speaker 1: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

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Speaker 3: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

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Speaker 1: Theme song in live show DJing is by DJ Don will.

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Speaker 3: Our live show producer is Marian Ways.

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Speaker 1: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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Speaker 3: Photography by Reis vander Most.

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Speaker 1: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstar and Daniel Kramer.

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00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,399
Speaker 3: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod.

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Speaker 1: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com

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