1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Brianna in Gulf Shores. 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: Brianna says, my husband hates when I'm on the phone 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: with my best friend while he's at home. He actually 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: told me that he would appreciate it if I talked 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: to her before I get home. He said, when I'm home, 6 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: that's his time. No, not time to talk to her. 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: My best friend's husband does not care when she talks 8 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: on the phone. Why is my husband tripping? 9 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: Why because you're married to the stupidly what he said, Bro, 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: you got to be one self controlling person. You tell 11 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 2: your wife she can't talk to her best friend at 12 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 2: home because this is my time. Man, Go somewhere and 13 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 2: find yourself something to do. 14 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 3: Get you a project, Go get something. Can you sit down? 15 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 3: Go sit down somewhere. There's a bunch of men like that. 16 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 3: You control it, bro, Get you some golf clubs. Go 17 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 3: learn that. 18 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 2: That take the rest of your life to figure that out. 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: Go learn how to hit the golf ball. Make it 20 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: go where you want to go. You're gonna be all day. 21 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 2: You got where about what your wife talking about? His 22 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: sh oh? 23 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 3: What her girl like? You sound? That's part of winding 24 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: you know what? 25 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: Man? 26 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 3: From your day, kicking it with your girl. 27 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: I love it when I hear my girl in the 28 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 2: background enjoying herself, laughing and stuff like that. 29 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, because that's all we're doing is kicking happy wife, 30 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 3: happy life here. All right, we have time for another 31 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 3: talking to her. 32 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: I ain't got to be trying to figure out nothing 33 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 2: to talk about. 34 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 3: See right there, you've been. 35 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 2: With somebody over twenty years. Man, you a whole lot 36 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: to talk about. No more today. 37 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 3: How was your day, honey? Yeah? All that my husband 38 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 3: does that? Call your friend to call your sister. I'm 39 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 3: watching it again. I find something to. 40 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: Do to get out of here. Get all right, we 41 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: have time for another one, like I said. This is 42 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: from Randy and Hampton. Randy says, I was talking to 43 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: my fiance about her wedding, and she told me that 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: she wants to invite her ex husband's mother and sister 45 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: because they're like family to her. She told me that 46 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: they just had lunch last month, and she didn't tell 47 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: me because she knew I wouldn't like it. I opened 48 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: up and told her that I talked to my ex 49 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 1: wife's dad often and we're still close. She said, I'm 50 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: trying to go tit for tat with her, But it 51 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: looks like we're both keeping secrets. 52 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 3: I love my ex father in law. 53 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: He's responsible for shaping me into the man that I 54 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: am today. Is it best to allow my fiance to 55 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: keep her ex's family so I can keep mine? 56 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 3: That's the question. Yes, And the answer is yes, Steve. 57 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: She's not having lunch with her ex. She's having lunch 58 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 2: with his mother and his sister. They formed a relationship, 59 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 2: and it ain't nothing wrong with that. 60 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: Their relatives to the kids, grandmother and aunt. 61 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: D' that's still a grandmother, you know what I mean. 62 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 2: So that's cool. You have a relationship with your father 63 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: and ex father in law. I understand it. He shaped 64 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: you into the man you are today. Maybe your father 65 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 2: was absent from your life. That's a great relationship to maintain. Yeah, yeah, man, 66 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: just tit for tat. You know, she hurt you when 67 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: you told her that, then you tried to open up 68 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 2: and hurt her back, both of y'all doing it. It's okay, man, 69 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 2: Them relationships are okay. They're not going on. 70 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 3: Everybody's grown here, It's okay. Yeah, what's wrong with everybody? 71 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 3: Everybody's so uptight and just. 72 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: And competition, mad about it. Walking on eggshells around you. 73 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: I can't say nothing. What's going on? 74 00:03:54,320 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 3: What in the world? Be kind, be nice? That's okay. 75 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 3: Get back to that. 76 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: Support each other, yeah, yeah, love each other. 77 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 3: That's not love what you guys are doing. You know that? Right? Wow? 78 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 3: All right? So, Steve, are you are you friendly with 79 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 3: any of your ex's family members. 80 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 2: I am cool with one my first wife's little brother. 81 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so your ex brother in law. 82 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: Because he has called me many times to thank me, 83 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 2: man for helping him become a man and taught you. 84 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 3: You told me a man. 85 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: You taught me so much. 86 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 3: All right? 87 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:36,559 Speaker 1: Cool? 88 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: Thank you guys. 89 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after, we'll have more of 90 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 91 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 3: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.