WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Cucumber

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood to you on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we are, good morning, and thanks for being here

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 3>This week's going slow. This week's going it's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>just started it on Tuesday. You can't judge it yet,

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<v Speaker 3>I can.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Some weeks just start slow. This one is.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's because you've just been like a busy

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<v Speaker 5>gal lately, so busy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's just you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, what do you what do you mean a busy gal?

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<v Speaker 6>Like just like like busy.

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<v Speaker 5>You've been busy, You've been like working a lot, so

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<v Speaker 5>the Can I be a busy boy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yes, a busy boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh well yeah, we are paying your bills also, do

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<v Speaker 2>you ever I do have them? Inter of fact, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>drinking cold coffee right now. I need to go warm it.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you ever think that your breath smells bad

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<v Speaker 2>but you can't smell it.

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<v Speaker 6>All the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like you're always on high alert when

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<v Speaker 1>you come to your own breath.

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<v Speaker 2>I each was like, I take a bite of food

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<v Speaker 2>and I cover my north talk. You know, I'm one

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<v Speaker 2>of those people.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm close to somebody, I'm very aware of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not like breathing in their face. I lean

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<v Speaker 1>the other way.

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<v Speaker 2>We all know that, Like when you have a morning

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<v Speaker 2>meeting after somebody's had coffee and they've not busht their

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<v Speaker 2>teeth after, Like how dry their tongue is, how coffee

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<v Speaker 2>breath it is, It's like sour, and that can get

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<v Speaker 2>worse over time. Anyway, I bring this up because somebody

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<v Speaker 2>listening has bad breath back.

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<v Speaker 1>Room there we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Anybody have bad breath back there? Generally, well, first time

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<v Speaker 2>for everything, really, because we're so close in a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of our situations right where we're right up close and

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<v Speaker 2>next to the person that you can't tubs. Where are

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<v Speaker 2>you going?

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<v Speaker 7>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>You just done it?

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<v Speaker 2>That's wrong.

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<v Speaker 6>He's fixing the TV behind me.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a little scrambling m h okay, well let's

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<v Speaker 2>see how long that takes. Anyway, when you have to

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<v Speaker 2>get up close in person with somebody, you need to

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<v Speaker 2>not have the bad breath. We'll tell you how to

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<v Speaker 2>get rid of it. It's a thirty second natural cure.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's coming up. Got a second date update this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you more about that on this Tuesday morning.

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<v Speaker 2>We're to try and do our best to kind of

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<v Speaker 2>make it not feel like a regular Tuesday and get

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<v Speaker 2>you in the right headspace to get in and get

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<v Speaker 2>it done. Today. I'm beginning to subscribe to horoscopes. I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of like anti listening to these. I'm and

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<v Speaker 2>I hear you do it, but I wouldn't let it

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<v Speaker 2>like guide my thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been doing it for months.

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<v Speaker 2>I sit here, but I have to plan the next thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad to finally recruit you.

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<v Speaker 2>But but I sit here and I think, OK, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't necessarily let it navigate my day, but it does

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<v Speaker 2>influence my day many times, especially when it really applies,

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<v Speaker 2>like when you really hit the nail on the head.

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's really hit the nail on the head

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<v Speaker 6>today for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so let's start for Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 5>Go ahead, Aries, you might need two or maybe three

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<v Speaker 5>cups of coffee today.

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<v Speaker 1>No chance I would. I wouldn't fall asleep for two days. Doris,

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<v Speaker 1>surrender to what you are being called to.

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<v Speaker 5>Gemini, make sure you look both ways before crossing the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Cancer, enjoy a night of mindless TV.

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<v Speaker 6>I am Leo. You need to be around an animal today.

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<v Speaker 1>Virgos speak up in that meeting Libra, express yourself through

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<v Speaker 1>art today, Scorpio, do something to enrich your mind.

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<v Speaker 5>Sagittarius, hang low today. You aren't feeling your best, so

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<v Speaker 5>don't push it.

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<v Speaker 1>Capricorn, cleaning out that junk drawer will do wonders for

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<v Speaker 1>your mind. I don't. Yeah, there's no chance I could

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<v Speaker 1>picture Ryan cleaning out a junk drawer.

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<v Speaker 6>You think you have, you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet you I have a.

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<v Speaker 2>Charger drawer, which is a disasters price. My chargers are

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<v Speaker 2>in one. It's organized with like ties and all that kind.

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<v Speaker 5>Of Okay, Aquarius, you will be surprised just how much

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<v Speaker 5>can fit in your back.

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<v Speaker 1>Empis. Be sentimental and express it to your loved ones today.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I want you to think about something. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're in your kitchen right now, do you have a cucumber?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Always pull it out. Do you always have a cucumber always?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Pull it out, and in the next couple of minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you exactly how to use that cucumber for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>So just pull it out and stand by. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be very important and you'll see it'll make sense. In

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<v Speaker 2>the second my alarm is on, I got it not

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<v Speaker 2>on my spa sound. It's on a jarring sound. Why,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I hit.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It must be a new alarm or a new time.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll have a new iOS have a new phone. And

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<v Speaker 2>so I don't know if it went back to the

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<v Speaker 2>original template. But it like scared me, like hit me

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<v Speaker 2>in the jaw alarm like punch me in the jaw. Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>let me shake up. It was a shake up, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>not a wait cup. Sure I got shook up. Let

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<v Speaker 2>me grab Shalen. That's a great name, Shalen in San

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<v Speaker 2>Diego here, Good morning, Shalen. How are you?

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<v Speaker 8>Good morning, I'm glad, How are you great?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for listening this morning?

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<v Speaker 8>Of course, of course, yeah, I just was calling in

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<v Speaker 8>to say that. I so I lisked in La listen

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<v Speaker 8>to you guys every morning in high school, Ryan's Ross

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<v Speaker 8>is my favorite. Then since moving to San Diego, like

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<v Speaker 8>seven eight years ago, I was like, I have to

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<v Speaker 8>still find a way to listen to you guys. So

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<v Speaker 8>I downloaded the app. I listen to it every morning,

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<v Speaker 8>makes my day like the best part of my morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's awesome. So you got the iHeartRadio. Have you

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<v Speaker 2>downloaded it and now it's like you're still here and

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<v Speaker 2>you're not that far away, you know.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, not that far away. But sometimes I can't really

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<v Speaker 8>reach I don't know, my radio is weird, so I

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<v Speaker 8>like to just you know, get the app and put

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<v Speaker 8>it on quick.

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<v Speaker 2>So to those who are like on the inside here,

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<v Speaker 2>what is the difference to you between living in LA

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<v Speaker 2>and living in San Diego?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, what do you what's huge difference?

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<v Speaker 8>So for me living in LA, I felt like it

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<v Speaker 8>takes forever just to get somewhere like downtown, like traffic everywhere.

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<v Speaker 8>But San Diego is great because you can get anywhere literally,

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<v Speaker 8>like within thirty minutes. Do you want to go downtown

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<v Speaker 8>thirty minutes like North Park quick? Although, like just everything

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<v Speaker 8>is so local and easy to get together. There is

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<v Speaker 8>traffic sometimes a day, but like everything is just so

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<v Speaker 8>much easier to get to And I feel like there's

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<v Speaker 8>more to do in San Diego than La.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, well there is because you can get to it here.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot to do. You just can't get there.

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<v Speaker 2>You can here, there's a great beach. You can't get

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<v Speaker 2>there on a weekend.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, no, for sure, Chilen.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you for finding out. Thank you for listening.

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<v Speaker 2>Wherever you are, wherever you're going, you can take us

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<v Speaker 2>with you. We appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 8>Thank you guys. Love you guys so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank me too.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye. I mean she's right about downtown. There's stuff I

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<v Speaker 2>love downtown, and I'm like sometimes h by the time

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<v Speaker 2>I finished.

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<v Speaker 1>Work, Yeah, I can't get there. You got to plan

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<v Speaker 1>around it.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>You could? I could you caught you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just get there early and take my meeting on zoom.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go down there whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you had just something up here, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you got to like work around Well.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing. You got to make a month out

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<v Speaker 2>plan anyway. So did you grab a cucumber? If you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't grab a cucumber, go to your fridge if you're

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<v Speaker 2>still home, open up the crisper and pull out that cucumber.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at it. Just think about that cucumber. How many

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<v Speaker 2>different things that cucumber can become and be? And do

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<v Speaker 2>You can slice it, you can chop it, you can

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<v Speaker 2>put some dill and addressing in it. Oh, you can

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<v Speaker 2>pickle it.

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<v Speaker 6>You put some lemon and salt on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like a cucumber salad.

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<v Speaker 2>So later this morning, when we all have stale breath,

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<v Speaker 2>and we do, I think who in the studio, Mark, Tanya, myself, Tubbs,

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<v Speaker 2>Sysney is most likely to have stale breath Later?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know because I don't get close enough to

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<v Speaker 1>them to really sniff them out.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I'll admit it. Sometimes a breath can be

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<v Speaker 6>a little stale.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, great, So here's the tricks.

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<v Speaker 6>Admit it. But like, yeah, after coffee and then we're talking, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, to drink coffee every day. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the trick.

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<v Speaker 2>If you think you have bad breath, or you want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell somebody they do, here's the secret the cucumber.

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<v Speaker 2>That cucumber is not just to make a salad out of.

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<v Speaker 2>Simply place a slice of cucumber on the roof of

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<v Speaker 2>your mouth, right up top for thirty seconds. Let it

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<v Speaker 2>sit there, let it dissolve a little bit. Then lower

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<v Speaker 2>it to your tongue and chew it and swallow it.

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<v Speaker 2>It is sucked out all of the holotosis.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so cool. I want to try it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so cool. I've never heard of it, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>definitely going to try it too, because It's so easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sang fight bad breath.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, today's quote. We do a quote every day,

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<v Speaker 2>and today's quote. There is no trophy that says they

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<v Speaker 2>pretended to be okay when they weren't.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, good. I was waiting for a little reacity.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really get it, but okay, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it right as long as one of us

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<v Speaker 1>gets it. Yeah, right, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just playing for one person, even one audience person

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<v Speaker 2>out there with this FM headlines with siciny well.

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<v Speaker 1>Demonstrations over immigration policies and mass deportations continued in downtown

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<v Speaker 1>LA yesterday as thousands of people and blocked city streets

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<v Speaker 1>for much of the day. pH finally reopened yesterday between

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<v Speaker 1>the McClure Tunnel in Santa Monica and Carbon Beach Terrace

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<v Speaker 1>in Malibu, but a stretch of the road will close

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<v Speaker 1>again today due to the anticipated brain A new investigation

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<v Speaker 1>is underway into emergency alerts that were sent by mistake

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<v Speaker 1>to millions of Southern Californians as the Palisades and Eaten

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<v Speaker 1>fires were burning and Big Bear Mountain Resort, Mammoth Mountain,

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<v Speaker 1>and June Mountain are off in free lift tickets to

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<v Speaker 1>active first responders. Throughout the remainder of the twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four twenty twenty five winter season.

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<v Speaker 2>Still people calling in reeling about the cucumber. I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>That may be one of our best morning little tidbits.

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<v Speaker 2>A slice of cucumber on the roof of your mouth

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<v Speaker 2>for thirty seconds, then swallow and chew. It will get

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<v Speaker 2>rid of your bad breath.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you can picture how retrushing it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we should all try it. So I have this

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<v Speaker 2>second date update coming up. They were matched up at

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<v Speaker 2>a at a wedding. So is there a grooms person

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<v Speaker 2>and a bride's person at a wedding? So kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like tell you what you're planning a bridesmaid?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna have a grooms person and a brides

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<v Speaker 2>person that are single, that uh.

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<v Speaker 6>That walked down the aisle together?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I have one single bridesmaid and I don't think any

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<v Speaker 6>of his groomsmen are a single.

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<v Speaker 2>Who am I walking with?

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<v Speaker 1>You think you're solo?

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<v Speaker 6>I think you're there. I think you're you're planted.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like you can do one or the other.

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<v Speaker 2>Reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he could walk down the aisle if he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want him to start everything off.

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<v Speaker 2>Are I a member of the bride's party?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you should walk down that now when

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<v Speaker 1>I officiated, I walk down the aisle, Yeah, I walk down.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody shakes your hands.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you play some Tommy Richmond when I walk out?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally a million dollars baby song please, so so good,

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<v Speaker 3>make an entrance, gemm the lights and here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So, anyway, they walked down the aisle together, they did

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<v Speaker 2>some other stuff on the dance floor together, and now

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<v Speaker 2>he says, oh, yeah, now we got a problem. So

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<v Speaker 2>that is coming up and I'm gonna pay your bill's neck.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is going nuts on. TikTok. How do you shower?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you used to clean yourself and yourself? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you use a washcloth, a sponge your hands? Sysney, what

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<v Speaker 2>do you use?

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<v Speaker 1>Maya is kind of like a loof of sponge. It's

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<v Speaker 1>got like that like harsh like almost hay like woven

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<v Speaker 1>to describe it.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's scrubbed, it gets rid of dead skin.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, And I really use it on my knees

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<v Speaker 1>because I remember I have like knee issues and I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's because I'm always on my knees with my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like and I feel like my knees are like dirty,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I can never clean them clean enough, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I always try to like really scrub them.

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<v Speaker 2>So for me, I don't use the wash cloth because

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<v Speaker 2>if that's an extra thing you got to put in

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<v Speaker 2>the laundry. So I don't use washcloth and then do

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<v Speaker 2>use it again, you let it dry. It's crusty soap,

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<v Speaker 2>and don't use that. I don't use a loofa because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have one. Yeah, I don't use a sponge

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<v Speaker 2>because they think they collect things. So I just use

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<v Speaker 2>my palms.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the debate, And so I just use my palm.

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<v Speaker 1>Many people are like that doesn't clean you enough?

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<v Speaker 2>How does it not like the water's running. I use

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<v Speaker 2>scirty soap. I use soap liquid and I put all

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<v Speaker 2>over me and I turn around and I shake it

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<v Speaker 2>all about.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you're not getting like the dead skin cells off

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<v Speaker 1>of you. So if you had some sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>a wash cloth or a spongey type thing, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>way they sell. Like this really good one that like

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<v Speaker 1>just sticks onto your wall and it's like made out

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<v Speaker 1>of rubber and I can't describe it. It's not a mitten,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like it has a handle in the back,

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<v Speaker 1>so then when you put it on, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a flat surface of the little bristles and it's all

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<v Speaker 1>made out of like rubber, and then you can use

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<v Speaker 1>that to like scrub.

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<v Speaker 6>I actually can't even tell you.

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<v Speaker 5>I think the last time I washed my knees was

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<v Speaker 5>like two thousand and five, Like I have to wash the.

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<v Speaker 2>Water runs down.

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<v Speaker 5>What I'm saying, I watch the hotspots and that's it, okay, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Your elbows on your knees are like the go.

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<v Speaker 2>Tue so me I shower hands?

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<v Speaker 1>What I use tanya hands hands?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I use like an app rus loofah the word ruby, what.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you use?

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<v Speaker 1>I use like this long Korean scrub that like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a net, a net along net thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Like a loofa.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's not a loose like a scarf.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're so judgmental with people that you used lufahs.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we could say the same thing about you not

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<v Speaker 1>using anything.

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<v Speaker 6>That's fine, but the loofah so much.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a loofah. It's not a loofa?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a bad net? Kind of like a like

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<v Speaker 2>a tennis net and.

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<v Speaker 6>It's one layer.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to try it. Don't even heard of that

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<v Speaker 1>nice little back screen.

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas gifts for everyone, don't give doesn't so the experts

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<v Speaker 2>say you should use her hands. That's what the experts

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<v Speaker 2>and experi dermatologists wo Time for a second date. Updatesisting

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<v Speaker 2>and Tanya, we do these often and now listen to this.

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<v Speaker 2>They met at their best friend's wedding. He was a groomsman,

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<v Speaker 2>she was a bridesmaid, and they were assigned to walk

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<v Speaker 2>down the aisle together. So they never really went out

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<v Speaker 2>out out in the wild. But they spent like the

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<v Speaker 2>wedding together.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so that was kind of like their first date.

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<v Speaker 2>They made out on the dance floor, exchanged numbers and

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<v Speaker 2>says it was so nice. So then he texts her

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<v Speaker 2>to ask her out, and she said, that's okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not interested what happened. So Jake, here we are, and

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you have the courage to want to

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<v Speaker 2>get to the bottom of this and get the peace

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<v Speaker 2>of mind. I would not want to know. I would

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<v Speaker 2>just walk away. But what's interesting is that you met

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<v Speaker 2>at the wedding, you hung out, you made out. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I think that there is this version of people that

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<v Speaker 2>get a little loose at weddings because they're at a

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<v Speaker 2>wedding and it doesn't really mean anything. Like I think

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<v Speaker 2>that sometimes you're looking for somebody to dance with or

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<v Speaker 2>hook up with, and that's it, just at the wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you leave, you go your separate ways, and

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<v Speaker 2>you really don't fallow. I think there's a category of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, yeah, there was a bunch of my wedding

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<v Speaker 1>that hooked up and then never again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah exactly. So you, however, you were really into her,

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<v Speaker 2>but when you got a message after asking her out,

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<v Speaker 2>sweetly asking her out again, and the message said that's okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 1>What's cars like?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you make of that?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't know. That's why I want to find out.

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<v Speaker 7>I have no idea, but it's like it's like a

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<v Speaker 7>different person, right, Yeah, it's exactly what I felt like, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to go out with somebody that speaks

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<v Speaker 2>to you like that?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it's not.

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<v Speaker 7>Mean I mean I thought I did. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 7>like when in person, she's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know, but there's something about you that

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't want to have any more to do with.

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<v Speaker 7>True?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there ever a moment during the whole wedding night

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of like got weird.

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<v Speaker 7>No literally not no, like nothing I can think of

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<v Speaker 7>at all. And it's that's why I'm like kind of

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<v Speaker 7>blown away, because like we're I don't know, we had

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<v Speaker 7>great chemistry and I mean I don't know, it was

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<v Speaker 7>like literally perfect. So I just kind of came out

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<v Speaker 7>of nowhere. It was really stunned. I kind of took

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<v Speaker 7>it as a done deal already.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Arian, it's Ryan Seacrest and Assistanty and Tanya. You're

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<v Speaker 2>on the air with us. Thanks for a green to

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<v Speaker 2>come on. How are you?

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<v Speaker 9>I'm good?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you did super well? So tell me this. You

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<v Speaker 2>were at a wedding recently, and forgive our intrusion, and

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<v Speaker 2>you met a guy named Jake. How did you hit

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<v Speaker 2>it off with Jake?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean I hit it off well. He was nice

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<v Speaker 9>and we danced and there was there was a vibe,

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<v Speaker 9>yeah I was It was definitely a vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay. And then like you dance, you hugged, you

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<v Speaker 2>made out, Like what happened?

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<v Speaker 9>We made out a little bit on the dance floor.

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<v Speaker 2>How is that? Is he a good kisser?

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<v Speaker 9>He's a good kisser.

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<v Speaker 2>What makes a good kisser?

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<v Speaker 6>That's a great question.

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<v Speaker 9>I feel like it's gonna have a little bit of

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<v Speaker 9>passion in it and like not too much tongue and yeah,

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<v Speaker 9>I feel like it's a rhythm.

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<v Speaker 7>That's you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like.

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<v Speaker 2>Soft tongue, right, soft tongue.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, control the saliva.

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<v Speaker 9>Exactly, that's what.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for coming out with us, all right, So you

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<v Speaker 2>meet the guy, you do this on the dance floor,

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<v Speaker 2>and then what like, do you have plans to go

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<v Speaker 2>out again with him?

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<v Speaker 10>Well, he texted me and he asked if like he

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<v Speaker 10>asked me out on a date, and yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 10>it was nice.

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<v Speaker 11>I just like I.

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<v Speaker 9>I didn't feel like he texted me to go out

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<v Speaker 9>like to the tar Pits and I just I am not.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know for me, that's not the first day.

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<v Speaker 9>That sounds so boring. Yeah, and it was going to

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<v Speaker 9>be closed, so we were just gonna walk around. That

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<v Speaker 9>was his idea of a date.

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<v Speaker 1>No, like he got like the vip axes at the

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<v Speaker 1>Love ray a tar Pits.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's where they're building the new Lacma to that

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<v Speaker 2>whole construction and Wills she's got that construction going on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't just go to the museum. It's like right there,

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<v Speaker 2>reroute him. Sorry, so you liked him, but then because

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<v Speaker 2>of what he wanted to do. I understand that you

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<v Speaker 2>said these words in attext. That's okay, I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that true?

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<v Speaker 9>I did say that. It's I just feel like there's

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<v Speaker 9>a type of date that should be a first date

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<v Speaker 9>and that is not even close to one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's like a fourth grade field track.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, literally exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you go the dairy farm afterwards. Uh okay. So

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<v Speaker 2>for me, I'm just you know, I'm not I have

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<v Speaker 2>no I don't care, but I do care. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>that seems like a harsh text. If you like someone

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<v Speaker 2>and it's just about the date, how about like rewarding

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<v Speaker 2>it with a little bit of hope that he could

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<v Speaker 2>replan it to do something it might be more up

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<v Speaker 2>your alley.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah yeah, I definitely like would be still interested.

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<v Speaker 10>I just think that, Like, to me, I had an

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<v Speaker 10>idea of what I wanted and that was not close

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<v Speaker 10>to it, and then I just felt like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 10>I don't know him that well, I don't have to

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<v Speaker 10>invest that much time into this.

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<v Speaker 9>Maybe it's just not meant to be kind of saying,

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<v Speaker 9>but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound complacent about it, like you don't sound enthusiastic.

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<v Speaker 9>Because I don't I'm like about going out with him

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<v Speaker 9>or like yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Just do you like the guy?

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<v Speaker 7>I do.

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<v Speaker 9>I think he was cute and he seems cool.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the date suggestion like yeah, exactly would this week?

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<v Speaker 2>Can overcome?

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<v Speaker 1>Pick another place?

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<v Speaker 2>When I say we can overcome, I say because Jake

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<v Speaker 2>is on the line taking notes right now about how

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<v Speaker 2>to come up with a better activity for the date.

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<v Speaker 7>Jake, Hey, here we are.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, would you like to respond to Arian and what

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<v Speaker 2>you said?

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<v Speaker 7>So I actually thought that was a good idea for

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<v Speaker 7>a date, because I mean, you know, we kind of

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<v Speaker 7>live in that area, and I don't know, I didn't

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<v Speaker 7>think you actually cared, like that's oh damn.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well go to Lakma, go to the museum. Beautiful,

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful art there. It's not expensive, you can walk around,

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<v Speaker 2>take your time, you can actually eat there in the courtyard.

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<v Speaker 1>So nice.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, if you're like, if she's willing to let me,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, give it a second shot. I would like

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<v Speaker 7>I love to play an amazing date. Okay, it'll be

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<v Speaker 7>every like literally, I can you know it'll be like

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<v Speaker 7>one that you don't forget and even even if like

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<v Speaker 7>even if it's just one and done, it'll just be

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<v Speaker 7>like an amazing time.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no pressure, accept the pressure.

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<v Speaker 9>So she has to answer right now. I yeah, I

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<v Speaker 9>mean yeah, it would definitely be into it. What are

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<v Speaker 9>you thinking, though, I'm scared now, you know, like ask

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<v Speaker 9>ai or something.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I mean maybe no, but like I'll do whatever

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<v Speaker 7>it care. Literally, just give me a few hours. I'll

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<v Speaker 7>text you. It will be like a full line centerary,

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<v Speaker 7>but it'll be like really dope, it'll be really fun.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean yeah, it won't be the tar page, I promise.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, Okay, I'm fine with that. I'm curious to see

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<v Speaker 9>what you come up with.

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<v Speaker 2>This is cute, great, this is cute. So we're gonna leave.

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<v Speaker 2>We are leaving now, Jake, al On, it's up to you, Jake,

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<v Speaker 2>don't screw it out. Let's come up with something fun

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<v Speaker 2>and creative and good luck, thank you. They're not gonna last.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not into it. I'm telling you right now, she's

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<v Speaker 2>courtesy dating. Oh she's doing courtesy. She had no enthusiasm,

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<v Speaker 2>no excitement, no light no spark.

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<v Speaker 6>No, but I think that was her personality. Like I

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<v Speaker 6>think she was just like chill girl.

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<v Speaker 1>With Tanya in this one. There, I have hope?

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<v Speaker 2>Well I don't, and I usually am very hopeful.

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<v Speaker 1>You are hopeful.

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<v Speaker 2>I have hope coming out of my pores.

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<v Speaker 1>No way before I even start a second date up

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<v Speaker 1>that you already don't even have hope.

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<v Speaker 6>Before dating sucks?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you know about dating?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, she knows plenty. I think I's gone on more

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<v Speaker 1>dates than anybody here. Yes, we've already got in a

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<v Speaker 1>different generation.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, so, how do you sleep? Do you sleep well?

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<v Speaker 2>I have finally learned how to sleep better than ever before.

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<v Speaker 2>It requires the same pillow all the time. I must

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<v Speaker 2>have the same pillow to put my head on, and

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<v Speaker 2>I must have the same pillow to hug. I cannot

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<v Speaker 2>substitute pillows. If I do, my brain my body feels

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<v Speaker 2>like something's off.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh they're like your lovees.

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<v Speaker 2>They're lovees.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, they're your loveies.

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<v Speaker 1>My kids have lovees.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to speak with that every night and calms them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's best if it's cool for me to sleep well.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, you put it in the fridge.

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<v Speaker 1>What you no like the temperature in the room.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, because people do that sometimes they put like their

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<v Speaker 6>pillowcases and stuff and that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it's best that. No, I'm not touching anything

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<v Speaker 2>while I'm sleeping.

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<v Speaker 6>So romantic. Yeah, so so super fun to sleep next

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<v Speaker 6>to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's fine, about time you say that. So that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not about fun, it's about rest, yes, and recharging, Tanya. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a priority one and fun and fun. I

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<v Speaker 2>need rest yeah, and love.

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<v Speaker 1>I need love, but everyone needs love.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I might need rest before love right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Rest before love is actually a good book title.

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<v Speaker 2>Rest before love. One can love until you're fully rested.

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<v Speaker 2>A memoir rest yourself before you love someone else. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you right now, my sister rest over rest

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<v Speaker 2>like she's so happy to get rest. I know, busy, Sysney,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't need a lot of rest, lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>I you know it's changing a little bit every year,

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<v Speaker 1>it changes a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>I do enjoy my sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting a lot more sleep now just in this

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<v Speaker 1>last year, than I ever have before.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this term sleep maxing is all over. TikTok has

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<v Speaker 2>to do with the perfect night sleep? Yeah, you're obsessing

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<v Speaker 2>about it, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the thing. It's like obsessing over the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>night sleep. So it usually involves sleep tracking apps like

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<v Speaker 1>the Aura ring and at least one over the top

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<v Speaker 1>hack like mouth taping.

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<v Speaker 2>Tiny does all those.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you cover your mouth to force yourself to breathe

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<v Speaker 1>through your nose all night. Other things involve the Sleepy

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<v Speaker 1>Girl mocktails. People say that I that you can get

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<v Speaker 1>a best night sleep if you get like a mixed

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<v Speaker 1>cherry juice with Seltzer water and then you add some

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<v Speaker 1>magnesium powder and then you drink that before bed. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>if I drink any of Seltzer before bed, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have acid reflux.

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<v Speaker 5>Because it just doesn't Yeah, you have to do the

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<v Speaker 5>time has to be perfect anyways, So prioritaries in your

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<v Speaker 5>sleep is great, But obsessing over it, experts say that

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<v Speaker 5>is the issue.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the obsession. It's the checking every single day and

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<v Speaker 1>do to the and all that. It leads to stress.

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<v Speaker 1>It leads to anxiety and at the end sleep your

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<v Speaker 1>worst sleep overall, like, in the long term, you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to have worse sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Tanya, you do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do you sleep max?

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<v Speaker 2>And maybe? And are you getting good sleep?

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<v Speaker 6>A lot hard to say Ryan hard to say.

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<v Speaker 5>Telling me I'm getting I'm getting optimal sleep, so it

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<v Speaker 5>feels strong.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's the thing. She'll come in here and she'll

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh my gosh, my Ring said this. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so happy I got good sleep last night. But then

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<v Speaker 1>the day and her Ring says something different. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>my Ring said that I had horrible sleep last night

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know why, and blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 6>If I get below twenty percent of rem I freak out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the anxiety roller coasters of emotions, no reason then,

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<v Speaker 2>just put it all down or.

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<v Speaker 6>Like latency is it latency or latincy? I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>what latency? Yeah, if it's too if the if I

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<v Speaker 6>fall sleep, how long it takes you to get there? Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>And if I fall asleep faster than like five minutes,

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<v Speaker 6>I freak out too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, why was I so tired?

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<v Speaker 2>In the latency The time it takes me to actually

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<v Speaker 2>fall asleep, I know is a good twenty five sometimes thirty.

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<v Speaker 6>I could be three minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes that's great if you can fall Yeah, Michael falls

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<v Speaker 1>asleep in like thirty seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>Blessing. All right, So that was all right? So They

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<v Speaker 2>did one hundred thousand people in this survey, and they

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<v Speaker 2>asked questions about cheating, and here are the results. They asked,

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<v Speaker 2>who engages in sexual infidelity more men or women?

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<v Speaker 1>And the answer is men?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, men, I would say man.

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<v Speaker 2>The answer is men, okay. And they also said the

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<v Speaker 2>survey who engages in emotional infidelity more men or women.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to guess women because maybe they're oblivious, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't think they're doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>You go men? Women?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>They asked in the infidelity survey who is more likely

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<v Speaker 2>to cheat with someone online? Back room? Anybody went in

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<v Speaker 2>on this one?

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<v Speaker 10>Men?

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<v Speaker 12>Men?

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<v Speaker 6>Really? Women?

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<v Speaker 2>Women? Tanya is correct, silence everywhere here because there's not

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<v Speaker 2>any guys around, all right, there's no dudes here, so

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<v Speaker 2>silence like more.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys are like gamers, and then they're like cheating by

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:56.040
<v Speaker 1>like playing games.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, words the cheating playing games?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Yeah, you meet people in these like

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<v Speaker 1>Xbox community, yeah, and it's like innocent, but it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Fresh infidelity survey here, who is more likely to cheat

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<v Speaker 2>with someone their spouse knows personally? Men or women?

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<v Speaker 1>Men.

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<v Speaker 12>I'm gonna go scandabal and say men, Tanya, women, Tanya's

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<v Speaker 12>correct women women, Okay, one more bad girls?

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<v Speaker 2>Who is more likely to cheat more than once? Men

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<v Speaker 2>or women?

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<v Speaker 11>Men?

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<v Speaker 2>And this tippany thing, stop it, just take it away.

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<v Speaker 2>I think men men were likely to cheat more than once,

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<v Speaker 2>Tanya men back room men women wrong, Ruby man, Let

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<v Speaker 2>me grab Pasadena's Candace listening to us over there in Pasadena. Okay, Candace,

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<v Speaker 2>good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 9>How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm great? Thank you for listening to us. So you're

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<v Speaker 2>calling about your ex boyfriend's family and they keep interacting

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<v Speaker 2>with you on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 1>Why okay?

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<v Speaker 11>So he tooke up with me like a little bit

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<v Speaker 11>over a month ago, and since then, like everything I post,

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<v Speaker 11>like all my stories, all my pictures, everything, they always

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 11>like it and they like comment and stuff too, Like

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<v Speaker 11>I posted that I went to a wedding and his

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<v Speaker 11>mom and his sister both were like, oh, he looks

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<v Speaker 11>so great, Like how is the wedding? Was it fun?

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<v Speaker 11>And so I texted him because I was like, this

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<v Speaker 11>is super awkward, and he told me that he hasn't

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<v Speaker 11>told them yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh h h why not?

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<v Speaker 2>But why has he?

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<v Speaker 11>I think because he's the one that broke up with me.

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<v Speaker 11>I don't know if he's like embarrassed or he feels

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<v Speaker 11>like they're going to tell him he did the wrong thing,

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<v Speaker 11>because like we were together for like two years, so

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<v Speaker 11>I'm actually like pretty close with his family and we

0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:21.000
<v Speaker 11>got along really well. And so I don't know if

0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 11>they're going to like be like mad at him. He

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.000
<v Speaker 11>thinks they're going to be mad at him, or they're

0:31:26.080 --> 0:31:28.600
<v Speaker 11>going to be upset or sad.

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<v Speaker 7>So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You So you sound like you're doing fine with this.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean I feel like I'm okay with the breakup,

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<v Speaker 11>but uh, it is like painful to keep seeing them

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<v Speaker 11>like come up in my norse.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's either you got to reach out to

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 2>your ex and say, tell your parents, or you got

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 2>to tell his parents parents, or maybe what's your ex

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend's name, Andy? Tell Andy's family, Hey, you should speak

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<v Speaker 2>to Andy today about something.

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<v Speaker 6>That's like the worst advice ever.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of like it what it makes it sound like,

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<v Speaker 2>but I like it. I think just say you should

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<v Speaker 2>talk to Andy tonight. Thank you, big hugs, Thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>big hugs. Love the big hugs.

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<v Speaker 11>I thought, I mean I could, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 11>if this is like horrible, I thought maybe we could

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<v Speaker 11>block them, and then they would like ask him.

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<v Speaker 2>Why that's good too. Then it's off your plate. I

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<v Speaker 2>like it, that's good. Block them or just redirect then

0:32:34.280 --> 0:32:36.520
<v Speaker 2>the bridge, or or you.

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<v Speaker 6>Could post a quote about breakup suck or like something.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, look, canness you have several different varying opinions here.

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<v Speaker 2>Good luck on this one. Let us know how it goes.

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<v Speaker 11>Thank you tweet.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's just too much, or it's much perfect. I

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<v Speaker 2>think just redirect them. Hey, you should talk to Andy tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>Big hugs coming up next?

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<v Speaker 6>Actually like big hugs.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. So we'll get to this in a second.

0:33:06.400 --> 0:33:08.840
<v Speaker 2>But I guess an email will send out company wide

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<v Speaker 2>here about the dress code at iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>I was surprised about that, so.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get into that. But a lot of bosses around

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<v Speaker 2>southern California is saying their employees don't know how to

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<v Speaker 2>behave anymore in the office. Is this because of being

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<v Speaker 2>out of the office during some of the lockdown and

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<v Speaker 2>having to come back in and they don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this has a few layers to it. So yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like working from home during the pandemic has

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<v Speaker 1>a lot to maybe blame for this, And also maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the difference in generations. I think times have just changed

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<v Speaker 1>in general with our dress code overall, maybe not even

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<v Speaker 1>in the office, but just think about like how people

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<v Speaker 1>used to dress when they boarded a flight back.

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<v Speaker 7>In the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I hopek we should dressed right. I used to actually

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<v Speaker 2>when I would go visit once a year and fly

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<v Speaker 2>to visit my grandparents wherever my grandfather was stationed in

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<v Speaker 2>the army, and that we moved all the time. I

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<v Speaker 2>would take my dad samsonite briefcase with me when I

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<v Speaker 2>was nine to make it look like I was a

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<v Speaker 2>business treveer. You hard briefcase.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I feel like everyone would dress up more

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like this. I don't know what whether

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<v Speaker 1>you call it etiquette, fine, but apparently workers are a

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<v Speaker 1>little rusty now in person with all things, like even

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<v Speaker 1>just the way they treat the kitchen with a common area.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll lead that.

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<v Speaker 2>Happens here, the kitchen here is a disaster, and that

0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:22.040
<v Speaker 2>little bathroom around the corner smells like, yeah, squirrels.

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<v Speaker 1>Other employees are too loud or they're on their phones

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<v Speaker 1>during in person meetings now because they were just so

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<v Speaker 1>used to being able to do their own thing on

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<v Speaker 1>zooms where you didn't really notice what they were doing.

0:34:32.600 --> 0:34:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they had their cameras off, but it's And I

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<v Speaker 1>just was in a meeting yesterday with like maybe eight

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<v Speaker 1>or nine people, and yeah, like people just have their

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<v Speaker 1>phones with a text message will come in. We'll check

0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:43.640
<v Speaker 1>it in the middle like the meeting, like it's I it.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you been in a meeting where you're holding it?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, wow, I mean, how long.

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<v Speaker 8>Is this going to go?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly? But I guess it comes out of like shaking

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:53.960
<v Speaker 1>hands and small talking at network events and things are

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<v Speaker 1>just awkward now. So some bosses and some companies are

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<v Speaker 1>sending their employees to etiquette school and this is a

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<v Speaker 1>real thing. Like these schools exist. I had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>about them. And the people that run these schools say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've seen a spike before. We used to have like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe two companies hit us up, and now it's like

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<v Speaker 1>three four a month. Like it's just it's really skyrocket

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<v Speaker 1>to be people like to be I guess retrained on

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<v Speaker 1>how to be professional.

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<v Speaker 2>I am interested in etiquette school. I think etiquette school

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<v Speaker 2>might benefit all of us.

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I think psychte school. Yeah, and I guess there's a

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:31.360
<v Speaker 1>few courses, and the last course ends with like a

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<v Speaker 1>business lunch and how to be etiquette when you eat

0:35:34.680 --> 0:35:36.400
<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant and things like that. Those are all

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:38.319
<v Speaker 1>things things that anybody which should learn.

0:35:38.719 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 2>So get to what the management here sent about dress

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<v Speaker 2>code to iHeart staff.

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess the cheesema is that some of the

0:35:46.680 --> 0:35:52.360
<v Speaker 1>salespeople were coming into the office more in like comfortable attire,

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:53.800
<v Speaker 1>called it sweats.

0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:56.000
<v Speaker 2>What are you guys wearing right?

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I don't think that that no applied to us.

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 1>They don't forget what they don't We're not coming in here, Listen.

0:36:04.160 --> 0:36:06.319
<v Speaker 2>We're all coming to the same place. We're the same people, but.

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 1>We're not meeting. We're not meeting. We're not doing business meetings.

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Like how with the outside, with how they are at

0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:16.759
<v Speaker 1>the outside. We come in, we come into our little cocoon, yes,

0:36:17.320 --> 0:36:22.200
<v Speaker 1>and then we go off about our day. But they

0:36:22.280 --> 0:36:25.080
<v Speaker 1>basically said, there's a dress code. No more of this,

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<v Speaker 1>no more of that. Please come like whatever it is I.

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<v Speaker 2>Want you to know, they say, or wearing matching sweatsuit right.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, tell you something. Let me tell you something.

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:37.960
<v Speaker 5>A matching sweatsuit can be so chic. If you throw

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:41.240
<v Speaker 5>a long coat over it with your back cool.

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:45.440
<v Speaker 6>Jacket over it, and tell you it can be classy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you don't go meet forward outside these walls, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 2>and that they're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>If I had a meeting with a client or with

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:55.799
<v Speaker 1>the potential, whatever, I do, dress differently. I wouldn't wear

0:36:55.840 --> 0:36:56.200
<v Speaker 1>this sweat.

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<v Speaker 2>See. I think if if I were the advertiser and

0:36:58.680 --> 0:37:00.600
<v Speaker 2>you were coming to meeting, I'd want you dressed like that.

0:37:00.719 --> 0:37:02.360
<v Speaker 2>That's very cool. I'd want to know I'm advertising with

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<v Speaker 2>somebody pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 6>Me too.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want to Bunzel screw, but my normal clothes

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<v Speaker 1>is cool too.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not.

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:13.759
<v Speaker 2>And like, I don't I care, but not so much. Well,

0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:15.440
<v Speaker 2>I guess that's why I want to That's who I

0:37:15.480 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 2>want to read my commercials.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the next memo might be, uh, the kitchen etiquette,

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 1>because there's a post it on the microwave right now

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:23.439
<v Speaker 1>that says please no fish.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:25.720
<v Speaker 1>It actually doesn't say please, it just says no fish,

0:37:25.880 --> 0:37:27.319
<v Speaker 1>no broccoli, So.

0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:30.000
<v Speaker 2>You have to fish. I can live with. But I'm

0:37:30.040 --> 0:37:31.640
<v Speaker 2>bringing broccoli fish.

0:37:31.800 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Who heats the fish at work?

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 6>I'm sure I've done that.

0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Patty probably did. Yeah, for sure, Patty to bring in

0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:40.200
<v Speaker 2>Piet the day after.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she heat it up everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it. I loved it. Let me grab Sam

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:49.640
<v Speaker 2>and send Gabriel before anything else. Sam, good morning, morning Ryan.

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<v Speaker 2>How can we help you? It sounds not good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just I don't really know what to do

0:37:56.400 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 4>about this situation. I'm kind of freaked out about the

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:03.840
<v Speaker 4>whole thing. I don't know, but my few the future

0:38:03.880 --> 0:38:07.800
<v Speaker 4>father in law, meant by it. But I recently asked

0:38:07.960 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 4>my girlfriend's parents if it was okay with them if I,

0:38:12.120 --> 0:38:16.040
<v Speaker 4>you know, proposed and eventually got married. But when I did,

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:18.360
<v Speaker 4>my future father in law kind of looked at me

0:38:18.440 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 4>and said, well, I don't know why you'd want to

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:22.279
<v Speaker 4>do that, but good luck.

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:26.040
<v Speaker 2>Well knowing.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just kind of it was just a little jarring.

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 4>It seemed it seemed pretty serious. I don't know, marriage,

0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:41.040
<v Speaker 4>no comment.

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:44.760
<v Speaker 2>Because maybe he's referring to like I made this mistake. However,

0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:48.160
<v Speaker 2>it is harsh. It's harsh, it's not little like. I'm

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:51.319
<v Speaker 2>discouraged by it, and it makes me think, well, they

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:51.840
<v Speaker 2>don't like me.

0:38:54.200 --> 0:38:57.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean we've we've been dating for a few years,

0:38:57.760 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 4>so I thought we got alonger maybe yeah, maybe he.

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<v Speaker 1>Just wants to make sure that you're really serious about

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<v Speaker 1>it and going to go the distance.

0:39:09.600 --> 0:39:10.400
<v Speaker 7>Hopefully that's it.

0:39:10.520 --> 0:39:13.359
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I am pretty serious. I love her a lot,

0:39:13.560 --> 0:39:16.200
<v Speaker 4>but just the way he said it, yeah, I.

0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Don't love it.

0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 2>Have you talked to your girlfriend about it?

0:39:20.360 --> 0:39:21.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we talked about it.

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:22.480
<v Speaker 2>And what does she say?

0:39:22.560 --> 0:39:27.400
<v Speaker 4>You know, she's just as confused and lost as I am.

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:30.080
<v Speaker 4>She was weirded out when I told her about it.

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I think she should just have a conversation with him separately.

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Then maybe she can get to the bottom of it

0:39:35.480 --> 0:39:36.480
<v Speaker 1>if there's something deeper.

0:39:36.800 --> 0:39:39.359
<v Speaker 2>But I also feel like you may never win them over.

0:39:39.800 --> 0:39:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't think that.

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, this guy sounds like he's got an issue.

0:39:44.040 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 6>I don't think it's about him though, I don't think

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:46.520
<v Speaker 6>so either.

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe it's because he's not happy in his own

0:39:48.680 --> 0:39:51.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but Sam, I guess, well, he.

0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:53.799
<v Speaker 1>Could have just panicked too, Like Dad just sometimes don't

0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:55.239
<v Speaker 1>know what to say, Like when Michael asked for my

0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:57.799
<v Speaker 1>dad's hand in marriage, and my dad was like great

0:39:57.840 --> 0:40:00.479
<v Speaker 1>and everything, but then he's like, you know, your dad's

0:40:00.480 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 1>handing me. I'm sorry from my hand and that's a twist.

0:40:04.680 --> 0:40:08.120
<v Speaker 1>But he basically told Michael, you know, Ssan's really tough,

0:40:09.280 --> 0:40:11.000
<v Speaker 1>almost like trying to scare Michael off.

0:40:11.600 --> 0:40:12.319
<v Speaker 2>He still came back.

0:40:12.520 --> 0:40:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, maybe he just didn't really know how

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:18.000
<v Speaker 1>to put his words together.

0:40:18.239 --> 0:40:21.640
<v Speaker 2>I think you're doing the elegant, very gentleman thing, which

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:23.920
<v Speaker 2>is going this path, and if you hit a dead end,

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:25.279
<v Speaker 2>you still love her, then you do you need to

0:40:25.360 --> 0:40:26.200
<v Speaker 2>do for your heart? Buddy?

0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 7>I think you're right.

0:40:29.040 --> 0:40:30.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Oh good luck man.

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:34.320
<v Speaker 2>All right, you can right in there, take care of that.

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, thank you. But i'd be I mean, I

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:41.400
<v Speaker 2>kind of would know going in right what the parents

0:40:41.480 --> 0:40:43.520
<v Speaker 2>might feel or think and just go for it. But

0:40:43.800 --> 0:40:46.520
<v Speaker 2>it would also be really disheartening, discouraging.

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:49.719
<v Speaker 5>I mean, at least he didn't say no, yeah, and

0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:52.400
<v Speaker 5>it sounds like he's projecting like he's like not happily married,

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:53.680
<v Speaker 5>and he's like and.

0:40:53.719 --> 0:40:55.799
<v Speaker 2>Then I turn it and say, well listen, sir, I mean,

0:40:55.920 --> 0:40:58.880
<v Speaker 2>do you want to talk? Yeah, you want to talk

0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 2>about what's going on here with you and the missus,

0:41:01.280 --> 0:41:04.759
<v Speaker 2>because if you're this cynical about our love and ours

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:06.719
<v Speaker 2>is young love hoping for a big future. If you

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:09.400
<v Speaker 2>said about it, let's talk about what you're projecting here.

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:14.520
<v Speaker 2>Sit down here. What can I buy you by? Well,

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:19.800
<v Speaker 2>I guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.

0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:23.760
<v Speaker 6>You guys coming over tonight tonight Now I have dinner plans.

0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:25.320
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for the invite.

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:27.280
<v Speaker 2>How about not the same day invite?

0:41:27.400 --> 0:41:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Taco Tuesday, broke kettle black?

0:41:30.200 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, texting us an hour before lunch. Hey, guys,

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:34.279
<v Speaker 6>want to be that noon?

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:38.440
<v Speaker 2>For not going all right, We'll see tomorrow. Guys, have

0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:40.640
<v Speaker 2>a good one. Thanks for listening to On Air with

0:41:40.760 --> 0:41:43.520
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