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Speaker 1: and it reminds me last week when I was in

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Speaker 1: you got that many more people whatever you want to

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Speaker 1: talk about distracting, Like I would just sit there and

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Speaker 2: The host of the show.

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Speaker 1: It would be me just mesmerized staring at that thing,

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Speaker 1: because this is one I try and stay on top

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Speaker 1: tell me. Can you imagine the haters? If every you know,

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Speaker 1: Ors you know, we had a few people whose full

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Speaker 1: the fresh show. This is what's trending. It turns out

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Speaker 1: that the quietest room in they're calling this the quietest place,

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Speaker 1: at the company's headquarters. Uh. They use it for ultra

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Speaker 1: Because at first I was like, quietest room in the world.

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Speaker 1: Now I make that would's that would lead? I mean

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you can hear everything with no sound coming

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Speaker 1: So no one can stay in the quietest room in

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Speaker 3: I'll be sleeping by then, I fall asleep anywhere.

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Speaker 2: Do you think you'd fall asleep?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 2: If you could hear your own.

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Speaker 3: Blood going through your body, I'd be sleeping, Yeah, he would.

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Speaker 5: I feel like my blow would be pumping like extra heart,

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Speaker 5: I want to know what it sounds like in there.

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Speaker 4: I can't do.

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Speaker 2: It, Like do you have always have music on or.

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Speaker 6: So I know I wouldn't like this scary room.

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Speaker 5: Oh I gotta take the selfie in the quiet's room.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on your phone and defeats the whole purpose.

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Speaker 1: She's out there doing lives. It's hey, it's wait, man,

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Speaker 1: it's too loud to never mind. That's not how this works.

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Speaker 1: So I guess this is already going, says AI companion

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Speaker 1: To improve, but she predicted that people around the world

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Speaker 1: hairstyles and outfits. So it's like Sims. Like, it's like Sims. Relationships,

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Speaker 1: Like doesn't this happen when people people play video games

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Speaker 1: And like the people never meet, but the characters are

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Speaker 6: Other's a lesbian and her girlfriend has the biggest boobs ever.

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Speaker 1: Let's take that my my SIMS. A lesbian and your girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We're looking for little moments of our show that we

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Speaker 1: There's one. The other might be talking about fanning decorative towels.

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Speaker 3: Chugging coffee that's on there.

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Speaker 2: Chugging coffee. Boy, we are a yeah, that's me.

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Speaker 1: You know. The more that we start talking about the

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Speaker 2: I think this show actually is.

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Speaker 1: And the more surprised I am that we've had any

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm gonna if I'm gonna be in

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Speaker 1: needs to be some physical aspect. Your boy needs a

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Speaker 1: little a little human touch, you know what I mean, Like, like,

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Speaker 1: can you imagine being in a relationship with someone that

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Speaker 1: of the communication of a relationship with none of the booty?

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Speaker 4: That's the best part. So no, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like, like you can tell me,

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Speaker 1: I gotta fight with you, I gotta argue with you,

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Speaker 1: I gotta do in your moody. You know, we have

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Speaker 1: So then there's like no, at the end, there's no

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Speaker 1: like you know, kissy.

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Speaker 4: Kissy, Yeah, that's that's the part.

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Speaker 1: No, Yeah, can you imagine a virtual hobby.

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Speaker 2: Oh, my god, would love it.

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Speaker 7: No, No, I think it was the other way around,

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Speaker 7: if I got the booty but not you know, having

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Speaker 7: to deal with mister logical all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You would love virtual hobby, be like, let me, how

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Speaker 7: How do I turn it off? But the physical part,

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Speaker 7: you don't get any of that that I'm saying. I

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Speaker 7: need touch. My new love language is touched.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know where that came from.

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Speaker 7: I think we always said it was affirmations, right, words

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think you're both.

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Speaker 4: But now I'm touched too. It's like, why am I

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Speaker 1: You're getting ready?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what you could have too?

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Speaker 7: They say more than one, but I was like houseway, Oh,

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Speaker 7: I'm all of them except for well, gifts make me?

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Speaker 1: Gift is?

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Speaker 2: So what is it?

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Speaker 1: It's gifts, acts of service, acts of service, time spent

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Speaker 1: physical to physical touch, words of affirmation. I'm words of affirmation.

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Speaker 1: I don't care about your gifts. No, I mean I could.

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Speaker 1: That might annoy me? It is?

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Speaker 4: Can I be honest?

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Speaker 2: It is? I don't want to. I don't want to

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Speaker 6: That write that one down to that's the most using

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Speaker 2: What is what are yours?

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Speaker 1: Skiky? Your gifts?

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Speaker 2: Aren't you?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I mean all of the above, like you have

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Speaker 4: to do all of them for me.

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Speaker 10: I'm like none, really, I don't even know if right

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Speaker 10: now you never heard of the love language?

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Speaker 8: You know?

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Speaker 1: Okay there are five? Oh my gosh, there are five

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Speaker 1: love languages. Okay, this is good. You should do this

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Speaker 1: and you and Jes should do this. It could be

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Speaker 1: very valuable to you. So it's time spent, like hanging

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Speaker 1: out together. Words of affirmation, okay, it's gifts like you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like giving gifts to each other physical touch. And

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Speaker 1: then what's the one I missed?

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Speaker 4: Words of affirmation? And it's a service.

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Speaker 1: And I think you're I think you give Jess acts

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Speaker 6: So there's two. It's like how do you give love?

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Speaker 6: There's one, and then how do you want to receive love?

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Speaker 4: That's another?

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Speaker 6: So you give yours is acts of service for giving?

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Speaker 6: I think I think either that are gifts. I like

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Speaker 6: giving gifts, like to show my love whatever.

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Speaker 4: Yeah I'm saying yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's what I want. I want words of affirmation?

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Speaker 10: And I think like gifts are like how I give

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Speaker 2: What led to this epiphany? Please explain?

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Speaker 10: So he's fourteen years older than me, and the house

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Speaker 10: And the year he bought this house like working four

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Speaker 10: Like twenty ten, twenty years Yeah, yeah, but yeah, so

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Speaker 1: Amazing.

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Speaker 2: I'm curious eight.

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Speaker 1: Anyone listening now if you could, if this resonates with you,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like getting with us.

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, Like I the last person I dated

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, he graduated eighth grade when I was born.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, yours is a little not.

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Speaker 4: As bad as mine.

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Speaker 1: The girl I was talking to.

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Speaker 2: Would have been don't look at me like that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm doing math twenty years older than sixty.

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Speaker 1: I'm listening for thank you, literally an entire side conversation

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Speaker 4: I thought we were just working your math, want us

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Speaker 10: You were born, and she would be getting her driver's license,

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Speaker 10: Yeah right, right as you get your license in your

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Speaker 1: Well but basically yeah, basically I was like a senior

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Speaker 2: You know somebody? Yeah, you know somebody. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think, what's the largest age differential that you've Jess

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Speaker 3: I think, okay, yeah, so but you know, I don't

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Speaker 1: School, right yeah, yeah, I guess so, which seems like

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Speaker 10: We went out to dinner with some of his friends,

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Speaker 4: How is he's three years older than me?

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Speaker 11: Is that the old the biggest age gap? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 11: I yes, you ever did a younger No? I don't

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Speaker 4: So low. Yeah, you just.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was some It was some older guys actually

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how much older?

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Speaker 4: Like older like they were my dad maybe grandfather?

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Speaker 1: Did they have a minivan with no windows? Were they

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Speaker 1: Just looking for you? Yeah, yes, looking for you because

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Speaker 1: they work in ie job. Hey, Mary was looking for you,

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Speaker 1: the run. Hold on, Mary, Hi, good morning, by good morning?

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Speaker 1: Are you hey?

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Speaker 2: Very well?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? You dated somebody twenty years older? How old

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Speaker 12: I was twenty four and he was good?

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Speaker 1: Whoa he was forty four? Forty four? Because twenty so

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Speaker 1: twenty four and forty four?

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Speaker 12: Wow?

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Speaker 8: My n ran up and gave him a kiss on

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Speaker 12: And that was kind of it.

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Speaker 13: And it was weird at first because you know, obviously

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Speaker 12: He was five years.

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Speaker 14: Younger than my dad.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, parents.

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Speaker 13: Parents didn't like it very much, you know, because I

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Speaker 14: Like, you know, how is that going?

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Speaker 12: But it was, it was, it was.

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Speaker 8: It was different.

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Speaker 12: Than I think.

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Speaker 8: We dated for about five years.

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Speaker 12: Until he got age.

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Speaker 15: To one of my friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, problem who is also around the same age

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Speaker 13: Now, Actually she was about five years younger.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, wow, Mary, thank you have a good down

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Speaker 2: Better story, more stories.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll have to get someone down there to fix

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Speaker 11: No, wow, whoa nine years apart?

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Speaker 2: Twelve years apart.

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Speaker 1: My ex husband was twelve years older than me, obviously

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Speaker 1: two thousand and what was the year that I could drink?

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Speaker 1: So it's not right. It's not okay, man should be

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Speaker 1: don't know if that's true or well. The end of

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Speaker 1: the man twenty three years older than me, same age

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Speaker 1: My folks loved him. Believe it or not. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: When I met him, he was forty five and I

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Speaker 1: you both have at least, you know, a fair amount

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Speaker 1: as But think about that twenty years, the twenty years between,

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Speaker 1: like twenty and forty. That's a much bigger difference. I

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Speaker 1: feel like after thirty it starts to matter less. Yes,

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Speaker 1: in my opinion, I.

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Speaker 4: Get what you're saying. I agree.

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Speaker 3: How low would you go?

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Speaker 1: How how can you do?

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Speaker 3: Like older and younger age range? What do you think

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Speaker 4: You're talking hooking up or having a series.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, thank you. It's a forty distinction.

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Speaker 1: Hooking up like dating somebody whatever, hooking up plus or

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Speaker 1: minus fifteen, Hey, either way, either way, plus or minus fifteen.

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Speaker 1: So twenty five six fifty four five I think, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: So just plus twenty was my most I've done, and

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Speaker 6: that is my limit.

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Speaker 4: I have decided plus twenty times.

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Speaker 1: Two, so plus forty.

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Speaker 4: He was a young fifty one.

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Speaker 2: I'm the retirement home. They're gonna drive those little short

449
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Speaker 2: buses up here. Wait for Kaylin even me. Yeah, well

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Speaker 2: there you go, Yeah, there you go.

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Speaker 1: Good morning everyone. The French show is I'm glad you're here.

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Speaker 1: Another text eight five five, five nine, one one oh

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Speaker 1: three five. This is from Robert. Our phones are screwed

454
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Speaker 1: up today, but he tried to call My fiance is

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Speaker 1: twenty four years younger. I'm fifty one, she's twenty eight.

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Speaker 1: We met during the pandemic, and we had our first child,

457
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Speaker 1: named Archer. It's been a great ending to the pandemic.

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Speaker 1: See Oh, my dad and his girlfriend are sixty seven

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Speaker 1: and twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Good lord, hello man.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing though. I'm forty two, and at this point,

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Speaker 1: I think it would be unfair for me to have

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Speaker 1: a kid if I don't marry somebody who's like twenty five. Now,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are going to disagree with me

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Speaker 1: on that, and I'm not saying that you shouldn't. But

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Speaker 1: for me, let's say I met someone today. I've done

467
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Speaker 1: this math on the show before. But let's say I

468
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Speaker 1: met someone today, fell in love with them, and we expedited,

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Speaker 1: and we got married within a year. And let's say

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Speaker 1: we did everything in a order not to say that

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Speaker 1: you have to do that either. I have no issue

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Speaker 1: with people who have kids and never get married. I

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Speaker 1: have no issue with any of no judgment, but let's

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Speaker 1: just say, just for the sake of the math argument, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I meet her today, I fall in love today. One

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Speaker 1: year from now, we get married. Now I'm forty three, Okay,

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Speaker 1: and then let's say we instantly get pregnant. None of

478
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Speaker 1: this is going to happen like this, by the way,

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Speaker 1: So then I'm basically forty three, maybe forty four when

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Speaker 1: the kid comes out, which means I would be sixty

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Speaker 1: four at the kids graduation. Now wait a minute, there's

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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. Now I will say, versus never

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Speaker 1: having a kid, I'll take sixty four. I intend to

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Speaker 1: be alive at sixty four. I intend to be working

485
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Speaker 1: and youthful at sixty four. It happens all the time.

486
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Speaker 1: I have friends whose parents are that old or older.

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Speaker 1: It's not for me. It's not ideal. It's not ideal.

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Speaker 1: And Nope, I wish I had started twenty years ago.

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Speaker 1: I really do. Okay that being said, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: anyone twenty years ago who I should be having kids with,

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Speaker 1: And if it had happened that way, maybe I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be sitting here doing this. So everything I think is

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Speaker 1: a compromise in that I was able to take risks

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Speaker 1: in my career, in my life that I wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: taken if I had a family that got me to

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Speaker 1: this great place. That the trade off is I don't

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Speaker 1: have a family necessarily, Maybe I could still have both.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I will say that that does

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Speaker 1: come into my mind. It's an insecurity that before you

500
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Speaker 1: at me and write me fifty emails about how you

501
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Speaker 1: did it and it worked out, it's wonderful. But for me,

502
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Speaker 1: it's an insecurity about being too old.

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Speaker 4: Same here, I'm sorry, what do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Same here?

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Speaker 5: No, I feel that way too, Like I had old parents,

506
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Speaker 5: like they waited to have me and they're both dead.

507
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Speaker 4: Now I feel like I was cheated.

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Speaker 5: So like when I'm thinking about having kids, I'm giving

509
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Speaker 5: myself like, okay, girl, it don't happen about thirty five.

510
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Speaker 5: Then you need to weigh you options. I might need

511
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Speaker 5: to get a young man, Lisa, he'll be around. That's

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Speaker 5: how I feel.

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Speaker 1: No, I really think about it. I get it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not you know, everybody thought my mom was

515
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Speaker 5: my grandmother my whole life, but was like, no, it's

516
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Speaker 5: my mom.

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Speaker 4: She just waited. So I feel you when you say that, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean my mom is I think she's sixty five and

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Speaker 1: she has a forty two year old, a thirty five

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Speaker 1: year old, and now a two and a half year

521
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Speaker 1: old granddaughter. I mean she's seeing it all you know

522
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Speaker 1: what I mean, she's got grown and you know, all

523
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Speaker 1: goes well, I'll be I mean, let's say she lives

524
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Speaker 1: to be and I hope she lives to be ninety

525
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Speaker 1: plus I'll be almost seventy when she, you know, someday

526
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Speaker 1: goes to heaven and lives a full life. That's amazing.

527
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Speaker 1: That's that's I mean, how ideal is that in a

528
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Speaker 1: perfect world, right right? You know, And I think that's great,

529
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Speaker 1: And I guess I get it. I don't think it's unfair,

530
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Speaker 1: because you know, you hope that and who knows. I

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Speaker 1: know some people that had kids when they were older

532
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Speaker 1: and it kept them young, it gave them a reason

533
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Speaker 1: to stay on top of their health, and it gave

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Speaker 1: them kind of like a new start in a lot

535
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Speaker 1: of ways. And so that's possible for me too. I

536
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Speaker 1: just for me, I understand, I'm self conscious about it.

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Speaker 7: I think we're seeing that more often though, to like

538
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Speaker 7: people who are family planning, they are pushing it off

539
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Speaker 7: a little bit, you know, to the future, whether that's

540
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Speaker 7: through like you know, egg freezing or even like shut

541
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Speaker 7: out IBF, all these all these other options that people

542
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Speaker 7: have that they can do. And I'm kind of seeing

543
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Speaker 7: that the new trend is like older parents, and I'm not,

544
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Speaker 7: you know, like discrediting that.

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Speaker 4: Either.

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Speaker 7: I understand people have their fears if I you own experiences,

547
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Speaker 7: and I respect that one hundred percent. But I also

548
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Speaker 7: think it's okay if you become a dad at forty three,

549
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Speaker 7: forty four, forty five, I think that's okay.

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Speaker 6: My stepdad was to my mom and my sister at

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Speaker 6: forty one. And my mom is healthier than I am.

552
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Speaker 6: Like she's like, I'm that damn bike.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you vic rest fine as hell? Yes, I mean, beaudiful. Wow.

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Speaker 6: But like, you know, like I'm sure she felt weird.

555
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Speaker 6: But all the moms like we're younger, you know, like

556
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Speaker 6: picking out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's just like if let's say I have

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Speaker 1: a kid, and in five years that kid is in

560
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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, five six years in t

561
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Speaker 1: ball or whatever, the average age of the dad is

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Speaker 1: going to be probably late twenties, early thirties, and I'm

563
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Speaker 1: going to be mid forties. I mean, that's that's a

564
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Speaker 1: little weird. But here's the other thing. I wouldn't have

565
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Speaker 1: been a good father. I don't think I wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: been as good of a father then as I would be.

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Speaker 2: Now, no, that's true, and that's that's me.

568
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Speaker 1: That's me.

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Speaker 2: Will it is true you tell your my men.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I'm just saying in general, like I think

571
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Speaker 5: about my friends who have who had kids very young,

572
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Speaker 5: and now I'm like, now if I have one, I

573
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Speaker 5: feel like I'm in a much better place to have

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Speaker 5: a kid now than if I.

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Speaker 1: You were saying that's true about me, k I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: hell yeah, I shouldn't have been doing that.

577
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Speaker 4: I was saying that too. You were whiling.

578
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Speaker 1: No, I was. I was immature. I was behind and

579
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Speaker 1: a lot of things. I mean, first of all, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have even had the opportunity to have a kid

581
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Speaker 1: till I was twenty one, because then there's that wasn't

582
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Speaker 1: getting it in. So I was way behind it. A

583
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Speaker 1: lot of things. I had a lot of catching up

584
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Speaker 1: to do. I had a lot of a big chip

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Speaker 1: on my shoulder in my career. I had all kinds

586
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Speaker 1: of stuff. So I don't think I would have been

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure I would have stepped up, but

588
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Speaker 1: like I don't it wouldn't be as good as it

589
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Speaker 1: is now. I wouldn't be able to provide the same

590
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Speaker 1: life and the same stability that I can now, but

591
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Speaker 1: the trade off is old.

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Speaker 5: Hell yeah, I mean I think like, there's no wrong

593
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Speaker 5: way you have to whenever Lord says you should. Because like,

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Speaker 5: my mom was a much better mom to me than

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Speaker 5: she was to my sister, who she had at like eighteen,

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Speaker 5: you know, so.

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Speaker 4: It was like a whole other person. And my sister's like,

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Speaker 4: I don't even know this, lady. What's the age difference

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Speaker 4: between you and your sister? Nineteen years? Okay? And she

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Speaker 4: is she your oldest sibling?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah wow.

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Speaker 1: Ye see someone just texted I think it selfish to

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Speaker 1: have kids later in life. There's more to the story here.

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Speaker 1: My parents had me old and they were not good parents,

606
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Speaker 1: no patients, no fun. We were never close at all.

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Speaker 1: I can see that. But I think I'd be the

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Speaker 1: opposite in some ways. I think I would be a

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Speaker 1: better parent, more patient, more grateful, and better suited not

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Speaker 1: only emotionally but financially and otherwise to provide a better life.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I would argue my mom was way more

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Speaker 1: attentive to me when she had me at twenty three

613
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Speaker 1: than she was to my sister at thirty one or

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Speaker 1: two or whatever it was because now, granted, my sister

615
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Speaker 1: got a lot more leeway than I did because they

616
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Speaker 1: were just they'd already done it for eight years and

617
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Speaker 1: they're like, get out of here, you know whatever. But

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Speaker 1: I would also argue on the flip side, my mom

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Speaker 1: and I have a bond that my sister and my

620
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Speaker 1: mom don't have, and they love each other and they're great,

621
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Speaker 1: but we have a bond that they don't have because

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Speaker 1: she was so young and because for so long it

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Speaker 1: was just she and I. So I don't know, you know,

624
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Speaker 1: you can argue both ways. Doesn't matter the age. Your

625
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: kids will always keep you young well. And the suits

626
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: always yell at me when I call myself old. They're like,

627
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: you know, you're going to be unmarketable with whatever, saying

628
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Speaker 1: I'm forty two and I'm not old. But I'm being

629
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Speaker 1: honest about how I feel as it pertains to what

630
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Speaker 1: other people in the life group that listen to our

631
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Speaker 1: show are doing, you know, And the reality is there

632
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Speaker 1: people listen to our show who are twelve, and there

633
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Speaker 1: are people listening to our show who are seventy. And

634
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Speaker 1: that's what I love about it.

635
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Speaker 4: Say right in the middle, I respect that about you.

636
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Speaker 6: Because I know there are shows where like people try

637
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Speaker 6: to act like they're way younger than they are and

638
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Speaker 6: like or they won't ever say their age. That gets

639
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Speaker 6: the biggest no no, And it's like, why why would

640
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Speaker 6: you do that?

641
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Speaker 1: I mean, do the math. I've been on the radio

642
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Speaker 1: thirteen fourteen years or whatever.

643
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Speaker 4: It's like they don't care. We'll still do math on

644
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Speaker 4: other people.

645
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Speaker 7: And they're like still trying to play it off there

646
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Speaker 7: twenty five right, I don't you know.

647
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Speaker 4: I don't know woting somewhere, what I right here? I

648
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Speaker 4: hope I know, appointing everywhere.

649
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Speaker 1: You guys, that's the thing, Like I don't have to

650
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Speaker 1: be cool and I'm not cool. You guys are all cool.

651
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: Well that's why you're here. That's why you're here. And

652
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Speaker 1: you're all mostly younger than me too, So perfect that's

653
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Speaker 1: what boom. That's what's going to keep me relevant for

654
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Speaker 1: another ten to fifteen years. And that's all I need.

655
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Speaker 4: I'm all right, Yeah with the of the Street.

656
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the poles of the street. Well, I guess that

657
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Speaker 1: was that's gonna be my blog. But whatever, I have

658
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Speaker 1: a blog, but we'll do it later. I was like,

659
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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to keep going on that, but yeah, whatever,

660
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Speaker 1: why would we have any direction?

661
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Speaker 2: We never have.

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Speaker 16: Got way.

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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on the Hottest Morning Show. My niece

664
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Speaker 1: facetimed me yesterday. You know, she's learning how to hold

665
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: the phone up and she knows how now when the

666
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: pictures taken off her to go run around and look

667
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: at it, you know, because she notices how we all

668
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: do that because you cannot. You can't have a picture

669
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: taken of you now and then not go look and

670
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: see what it looks like. You can't. And whence the

671
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: last time someone's like okay, I'll stab a picture and.

672
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: Then they take it.

673
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: You're like okay, and everyone let me see it, you know,

674
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: let me go see it whatever, and then complain about

675
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: how I look in it. You know. Back in the

676
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: olden days, you couldn't do that. You snap the picture

677
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: and then it was what it was and whatever came out.

678
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: You know, you'll go to the pharmacy and you give

679
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: them the little disposable can of the damn right, you

680
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. But I noticed last night

681
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: when we were fac having she doesn't really care about

682
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: the person on the other end. She's just looking at herself.

683
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, same with me when she's sitting at herself.

684
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: The entire time, I'm like, oh, okay, well, at least

685
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: you know, you've learned early to admire yourself because you

686
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: are cute, you know, So that's the thing. I'm just like, hi, Paul.

687
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: And finally, by the end she realized she was having

688
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: a conversation with someone else, started laughing and smiling. But

689
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: the whole rest of the times she was just checking

690
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Speaker 1: herself out. Okay, the Fred Show is on. It's Stay

691
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: or Go Hey Christay, Hi christa, good morning, Welcome, how's

692
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: your morning?

693
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Speaker 17: Okay, so far?

694
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so far? What's going on? A stay or goes?

695
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,239
Speaker 1: So we want to hear this scenario that you're in

696
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: with your I guess your boyfriend in this case, and

697
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: then we're going to talk all about you. Go ahead, please, Okay.

698
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 9: So my boyfriend and I have been together, We've been

699
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 9: dating for about eight months now, and things are getting serious.

700
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 9: This is actually the first guy in recent memory who

701
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 9: I can I can see a future with, you know,

702
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 9: like my feelings for Hammered that's strong, which honestly kind

703
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 9: of kind of scares me a little bit, which is

704
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 9: why recently he actually brought up sharing location with each other,

705
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 9: and I don't know, but it just it spooked me, right,

706
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 9: Like I don't share location with my family, you know,

707
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 9: like I just tend to be a little bit more

708
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 9: of like a private person. I really value my independence.

709
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 9: So when he brought up sharing location, I just immediately

710
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 9: told him, oh, I need to think about that, and

711
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 9: he did not react very positively to me, saying that

712
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 9: he actually kind of started back to like maybe I

713
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 9: had something to hide, which I where I do not,

714
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 9: you know, and my feelings for him really, you know,

715
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 9: we're really intense, you know, I really I really like.

716
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 14: Him, I really care about him.

717
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 18: But you know, he doesn't seem to be able to understand.

718
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Speaker 9: Why I have to think about it or why I

719
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 9: wouldn't want.

720
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Speaker 8: To just oh, yeah, you know, share a location with

721
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Speaker 8: him in the first.

722
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: Place I've ever shared location with anyone. So what is this?

723
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: Like you you turn it on and then you show

724
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: up on a map and the I phone, Yeah, yeah.

725
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 2: Have you ever done that? Like no one has like that?

726
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: Find my you know what I'm saying, Okay, so that

727
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: I can, like anytime I want to, I can log

728
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Speaker 1: into the thing anytime.

729
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 4: I still like a people right now see where I am.

730
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Speaker 1: I just don't let the y so the world wide Web,

731
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: So I don't for this for this very reason, I

732
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: don't do stuff like that. No one has my location.

733
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm well Elon Musk does, but like other

734
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: than that, no one, no, no one has my location.

735
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: And so I can pull up the app anytime and

736
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Speaker 1: anybody who I designate share my location, I can then

737
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Speaker 1: see where they are on a map anywhere in the world. Yeah, huh, okay,

738
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm assuming I don't blame you, to be honest, like

739
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: I think if you're if you're in a serious relationship,

740
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: you're going to get married or whatever, then yeah, for safety,

741
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: that makes sense. But at the same time, I'm okay

742
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Speaker 1: with the fact that, like you don't want to be

743
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: tracked by somebody like I don't. I don't think I

744
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: would want that either, And I have nothing to hide

745
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: if I'm in a relationship with someone.

746
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 2: Oh, there it is, that's what it looks like.

747
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 4: That's where Jason is.

748
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: Wait, but that's my location. Yeah, why how do you

749
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 1: turn it on my phone?

750
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Speaker 2: Or that you didn't tell me?

751
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: It's Jesus No, I see right there, It says Fred's

752
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: location and even following me around this whole time.

753
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 4: I would like to I want to make sure you're

754
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 4: saying she.

755
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 3: Got airtake somewhere on your friends.

756
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Speaker 1: I know that's what I'm saying, because I haven't found it,

757
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: and I bathed every inch of my body. You must

758
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: have stung it somewhere where my dermatologists is say, yeah,

759
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't blame you. I understand if this

760
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: person truly is concerned about your safety.

761
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I mean, you're a big girl.

762
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Speaker 8: I didn't do any really that's unsafe, you know what

763
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 8: I mean.

764
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 9: It's like, how how is him knowing my location even

765
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Speaker 9: if I like get into a car accident? Right Like,

766
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 9: how is him knowing, Oh, her daughter hasn't moved, you know,

767
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 9: for like an hour.

768
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 4: How is that going to help him? You know?

769
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, it seems really odd to me.

770
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 4: You know, it just it causes problem too.

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Speaker 19: But he doesn't trust me.

772
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 2: Why does it close problem?

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00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 12: Well?

774
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 7: She mentioned like if her location is for example, stock whatever,

775
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 7: Let's just say she hasn't reached out to him yet

776
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 7: to say, oh I got into an accident, even though

777
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 7: she probably will, Let's just say she didn't. Then he's

778
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 7: gonna sit here and speculate. Oh, you know, she's been

779
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 7: sitting here at this you know location for an hour

780
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 7: and then I just causes issues. In my opinion, I

781
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 7: can see that if he's insecure, because it kind of

782
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 7: sounds like he might be, only if he's asking for

783
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 7: locations early on, like I'm gonna I'm in a marriage,

784
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 7: I'm getting married. But that's serious, right, I consider that

785
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 7: semi serious. Yeah, so I share locations, but my own

786
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,280
Speaker 7: mother won't share locations with me. I went into her phone.

787
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 7: I've turned it on, she's turned it off.

788
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Speaker 1: She s.

789
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 4: Right, I know, right, she's.

790
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: Dating somebody and she don't want you to know Martine

791
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: is out here. I don't live her life. I agree,

792
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 1: turn it off. I mean, but I don't know. If

793
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: my mom were single and and I lived in the

794
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 1: same city, you know, she's she's not old, but she's

795
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 1: getting older. God forbid. My dad weren't here, I would

796
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: probably say turn it on. I don't know, you know.

797
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: But that's different though, than in a romantic relationship, where

798
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: I think there might be a bit of a control

799
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: thing or an insecurity thing going on here as well.

800
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe not maybe It's as simple as I

801
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: want to make sure you're safe. And if you're not

802
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: going anywhere that you shouldn't be going, then who cares.

803
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: That's the other side of a kik. He's not in

804
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: her head.

805
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 5: Absolutely not. You know how I feel about boyfriends in general.

806
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 5: So like, this is marriage type of stuff, This is

807
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 5: we have kids and meals together type of stuff. You're

808
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 5: a liability. I need to make sure you're safe. This

809
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 5: is control what he's trying to do. You guys have

810
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 5: not been dating long enough for him to even asks

811
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 5: you that, Like what if you just want to bob.

812
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 4: You know what if you want to be you know,

813
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 4: on the back.

814
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 5: He doesn't need to have your location and he can

815
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 5: pull up wherever you are whenever.

816
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 4: Like, no, absolutely not, girl, don't do it.

817
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 2: I do think that that's.

818
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: The thing about people sharing email passwords and stuff. It's like,

819
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: and I've said this before and people disagree with me,

820
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: but like, I know, my parents have been married for

821
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: a long time and they have each other's email passwords

822
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: and there's nothing to that. But I believe that people

823
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: have a right to privacy, and it doesn't mean that

824
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 1: right to privacy doesn't mean they have something to hide.

825
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 1: It just means it's human nature to want to have

826
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: a place where you can go where and the feeling

827
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 1: that you could go somewhere and not everybody knows where

828
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 1: it is or what you're doing.

829
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 2: Right, It doesn't mean you're doing it like.

830
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 4: It surprises, you know.

831
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 9: It's like for me, I'm like, what if I'm pininly

832
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 9: a a price for him one day?

833
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 18: You know what I mean.

834
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 9: It's like and all of a sudden, you know, you see,

835
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 9: But then what wouldn't he like ask me why I

836
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 9: turned it off?

837
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: Right?

838
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I don't know, you know.

839
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 9: But like if I'm going to like his favorite restaurant

840
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 9: and he sees that and he's like, well, why are

841
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 9: you doing my favorite restaurant without me?

842
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 8: It's like maybe I'm planning a surprise, you know what

843
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 8: I mean. I don't know. Am I thinking too much

844
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 8: about this?

845
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: Well? Maybe, but let them know. Let's see, let me

846
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: take some phone calls and we'll see. Because now we're

847
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: going to decide the course of the rest of your life.

848
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,720
Speaker 1: So Christa, as you did when you sign the paperwork

849
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: to be on the show, you have to do whatever

850
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: we decide in the end. Okay, all right, Okay, Okay,

851
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: good luck, keep your radio on. Have a good day,

852
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: all right. So this woman, she thinks she's serious, is

853
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: christa about this guy? He wants to share locations though

854
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: on the phone, and she doesn't want to be tracked

855
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: like that, and she's wondering if it's an overreaction on

856
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: her part, is that I don't really want to be

857
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: tracked that way? Hey, Danny, good morning, Good morning, Danny.

858
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: What do we do here? What have we? Uh?

859
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 14: You should go?

860
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 12: I got into a relationship March of last year and

861
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 12: I never once thought about asking my girlfriend about her

862
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 12: location because I have full trust in her in our relationship.

863
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: So that's it. So you don't You don't feel the

864
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: need to have to ask someone else shouldn't ask of you.

865
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: And if they did, it's that simple. You'd be like,

866
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: you don't trust me, We're done.

867
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 8: Yeah.

868
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 12: If she started asking him, it would be the same.

869
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 12: It would be the same deal. Okay, she would have

870
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 12: no trust in him, And it sounds like their relationship

871
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 12: is best in the fail.

872
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: All right, Thank you, Danny, Have a good day.

873
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 8: All right.

874
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: There's one vote for h the thing up. Hey Emily, Hi, Hello,

875
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 1: Hi Emily, good morning.

876
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:28,280
Speaker 2: Welcome.

877
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 20: Oh my god, Am I actually on the radio?

878
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,240
Speaker 2: No, we're just pretending.

879
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 1: You are.

880
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 2: But this is all just a big lie. Anyway. Yes, Hi,

881
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 2: it's me on the problem.

882
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: It's me.

883
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,240
Speaker 2: Good morning, Emily, Good morning.

884
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 1: I agree with Kiky.

885
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 19: I think that that unless there's a safety concerning honestly,

886
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 19: there's not that she should this is she's calling because

887
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 19: she has a weird feeling about it, and she should

888
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 19: trust that we are feeling she's getting.

889
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I agree. Are you in a relationship, Emily?

890
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 19: I am. I've been in a relationship for eight years

891
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 19: and you have never once shared our location.

892
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:06,919
Speaker 2: Do you share your passwords with each other?

893
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:07,399
Speaker 11: No?

894
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 2: See, that's what I'm talking about. Look at it's eight years.

895
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: Everything's fine, I guess if you're if it's everything fine?

896
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 4: Really?

897
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, everything is great.

898
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So there you go. So, I mean, people have

899
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: a right to their privacy, they have a right to

900
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: do their own thing. I think honestly, if you're in

901
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: a relationship with someone for eight years and if you

902
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 1: truly don't think they're going where they say they're going,

903
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: then I think that's a bigger problem. Now, Now you

904
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: could argue, though the safety aspect of it, which is,

905
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: if you disappear, I would have a way of knowing.

906
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 1: But if you're really going to disappear, I've watched Dateline

907
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: a lot. They're going to destroy the phone. Okay, they're

908
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:41,320
Speaker 1: going to destroy the phone. They're going to throw it

909
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: out the window, so you know, yeah, thank you, Emily, have.

910
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 19: A good day, of course, thank you too.

911
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, well, what if you were abducted, if

912
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: you were abducted, No, no, the murderer is going to

913
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: break the phone. I have throw it away.

914
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 3: That's even in the place, in one place, and they're

915
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 3: going to go somewhere else.

916
00:39:58,080 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: That's come on.

917
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, Keith Morrison has taught me this obody.

918
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 1: Hey Nicole, Hi, how are you guys?

919
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 4: Nicole?

920
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: Good morning, Stay or go? I'm great, Thanks for Colin,

921
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 1: thanks for listening. What do you think?

922
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 4: Well, actually, go needs to go.

923
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 8: She's not a child, right.

924
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 20: I have the location on my kid's phone because he's

925
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,399
Speaker 20: a teenager, and yeah, I can't trust him at all,

926
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 20: but I'm married.

927
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 12: Don't try. I don't have my.

928
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 8: Explocation shared in order to see. Unless there's some place

929
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 8: that you don't know.

930
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 20: Where you're going, where you can share it for an

931
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 20: hour or whatever.

932
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 8: It may be.

933
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: Just the show.

934
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 4: I here, here's how to get there.

935
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 12: But no, she's got to go.

936
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, thank you, Nicole.

937
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: Yes, how do the day.

938
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 2: I'm glad you call. Appreciate you.

939
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: Hey, Sean, Hi, how you doing?

940
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 12: Ye? Everybody?

941
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing? Sean? Stay or go?

942
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 8: I'm doing great.

943
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 14: I'm doing great.

944
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 12: I'm getting get you guys.

945
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 20: Good advite, Derek, good advice.

946
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 4: Derekay, let's go.

947
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: No, I can't wait. I have to.

948
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 21: First of all say, okay, this is just a menial fight.

949
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 21: I've been married for twenty years and you know what.

950
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 12: This is nothing.

951
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,240
Speaker 1: Okay, you guys will.

952
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 21: Work it out. On the flip side of that, my

953
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 21: wife passed three life three sixty on my phone.

954
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 12: I hate it. Okay that only.

955
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 21: Could she see where I'm at, But you can see

956
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 21: how fast I'm going in my car. I'll get a

957
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 21: text if I'm going over eighty and so tell me to.

958
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 12: Slow that down.

959
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: I love it, Yes, but sounds great.

960
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,240
Speaker 21: Back to the matter, and this is not a plight

961
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 21: to break over. This is just something that you guys

962
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 21: have to work through. When you guys come up at

963
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 21: the end of it, you guys will be better off. Okay, Sean,

964
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 21: I'll just work through it and you know, go from there.

965
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 2: Love you, Sean, Thank you excellent advice. Have a good day.

966
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: You were right, it was excellent advice. You having so fast.

967
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm watching you right now, Sean. Your wife

968
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: shared with me. Yeah, safe, This is a text. Safety

969
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 1: is just a boogeyman word to gain control, exactly, a

970
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: boogetman not a boogeyman word. Hey, Leslie, morning, Hi, stay

971
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: or go? Do you think this woman should share her

972
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: location with her boyfriend who she's getting serious with because

973
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: he asked for it.

974
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 18: I think you guys are gonna hate me for this,

975
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 18: but I think, say, I share the location with my

976
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 18: boyfriend and it's purely a safety thing for me. I asked, Well,

977
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 18: I asked him to do it, like to share it

978
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 18: because I go out a lot without him on like

979
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,919
Speaker 18: my girl's days or whatever, and there's so much going

980
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 18: on in Chicago that it just freaks me out. So

981
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 18: I just share it with him, and it's not like

982
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 18: he's just behind the phone waiting for me to like

983
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 18: do something sketchy.

984
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 2: Why Leslie?

985
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: And then when you are doing something sketchy, you leave

986
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,760
Speaker 1: that phone in the car and you use your burner phone.

987
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 2: I mean, what.

988
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 3: If he's doing something sketchy and just has the location

989
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 3: on you so he knows when you're coming home.

990
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,479
Speaker 8: I have his location too well.

991
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,720
Speaker 1: But but his location could be at the house with her.

992
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 3: And he's like, oh, she's coming home with.

993
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: Tramp, you know, And then he's he's like, oh see,

994
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't doing anything. But the whole time he's just

995
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: checking you out to see where you are so we

996
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: can get the tramp at the house.

997
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: Little harlot.

998
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 14: Have a good day.

999
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of it's very mixed here.

1000
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1001
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 7: It is the best though, when like you can see

1002
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 7: them coming home and you're like in the middle of

1003
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 7: like pooping or something.

1004
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 2: And then when stop pooping.

1005
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:35,919
Speaker 4: I have the door wide open when he's not there.

1006
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 4: When hobbies, you're.

1007
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 1: Just get a half poop, and then when he comes home,

1008
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 1: you got a half one left.

1009
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 4: You don't how much time, Like, I'm doing something.

1010
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: To stand at attention.

1011
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 3: That's why I have That's why I have cameras outside

1012
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 3: the house when like and just doesn't have access to him,

1013
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 3: like whatever, Oh that's good.

1014
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 2: You have ever is the just can't see.

1015
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 3: We have answers on the garage, So like she opens

1016
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 3: the garage like, oh, she's home, Get up, got it

1017
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 3: that I'm playing over here?

1018
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: You know what, You got to turn the porn off

1019
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: and pay attention to your child. Look look at how

1020
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: productive Ruvio is every single time she walks in the

1021
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,319
Speaker 1: house Fred Show. So I want to know how many

1022
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: parents can relate to this. This has gone viral on TikTok.

1023
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 1: It's a dad who took his son to a medical

1024
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: appointment for the first time and realized he basically had

1025
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: no clue how to fill out any of the paperwork

1026
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: Without his wife, he basically knew nothing about his own kid.

1027
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: He barely knew enough information about his own kid to

1028
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: complete the doctor forms. Here's some of the audio from

1029
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 1: this cliptome. But I mean, how many parents listening now,

1030
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 1: Like whether it's husband wife, I'm not going to generalize,

1031
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 1: but like if if Ruvio, if if Jess sent you

1032
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: and Ashland to the doctor right now, could you capably

1033
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: fill out all the paperwork? Do you know all the answers? Yes,

1034
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: you know all the answers. You know his blood type? Okay, yeah,

1035
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: it makes between me and.

1036
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 2: Jess, it's a mix.

1037
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: Okay, you know his first, middle, last name, birthday, and

1038
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: you know everything.

1039
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, how much is he weigh right now? Thirty four pounds?

1040
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 2: There you go. See, Okay, maybe you could do this, but.

1041
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 22: Let's the non default school nightmare questions.

1042
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: My wife siment to that doctor for the first time.

1043
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 4: I said, I'm.

1044
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 22: Guessing, and I know I should know more, but I

1045
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 22: just don't know.

1046
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What age did your child first?

1047
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,879
Speaker 3: Maybe?

1048
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 10: First?

1049
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 1: What?

1050
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 19: Maybe maybe fourteens?

1051
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 1: And reference was clearly indicated at what age?

1052
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 3: I don't I don't even think default parents would know.

1053
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 1: That, right? Three K four? Also? Easy?

1054
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 2: Is your kid like school?

1055
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: Do you leave steam? He's like, have you ever chatted

1056
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:03,399
Speaker 1: with your child before?

1057
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 2: Like you, I don't know. It sounds bad.

1058
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 6: I know these answers about you, guys, and you're not

1059
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,240
Speaker 6: my kids. Like, I don't understand how a dad wouldn't

1060
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 6: know that. Hey, guys, I'm just shame the man I'm saying.

1061
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: I don't need to make it about a dad, but

1062
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: I will say I think in many cases, you've got

1063
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: dad's going to work and mom's staying at home, or

1064
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: both going to work.

1065
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know.

1066
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 1: I feel like moms sometimes wind up with a more

1067
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: intimate relationship with their kids and dads for various reasons,

1068
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: or maybe dads are just I don't I want to

1069
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 1: say complacent. But are we just bad at remembering stuff?

1070
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: Or we do we remember different things? Is it like

1071
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: we expect our wives or partners to remember these things?

1072
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: Is it a male female thing? I don't know.

1073
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 5: I don't think it's a male female thing because I

1074
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 5: just said this happening yesterday. I took Lux to get

1075
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 5: a haircut and the man asked me how old the

1076
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 5: dog was. I'm like two three, I don't two, I think.

1077
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 5: Then he's like, where's his Rabi's forms. I'm like, uh,

1078
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 5: it's not on the sheet that I have.

1079
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 4: He's like no.

1080
00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 5: So like we literally had to walk out, and now

1081
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 5: Big Sim has to say him on Thursday because I

1082
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 5: am that parent, Like I just I don't know when

1083
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 5: a dog birthday is.

1084
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 4: I can't remember.

1085
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 6: It's not gender, he said, whoever's not the default parent,

1086
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 6: which is like the parent who usually handles that stuff.

1087
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. It's not because I supposed to.

1088
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 1: You know, it could be anything different either number of situations,

1089
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: but I don't know, like my mom would be able

1090
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: to answer all this, my dad would not. And but

1091
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 1: it's not because my dad was absent, just because he

1092
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: just he never did any of this stuff, you know,

1093
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: in our family at least.

1094
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 2: But no, I don't like. But here's the thing.

1095
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 1: I go to the doctor, that'll be like, where are

1096
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: your vaccination records? I'm like, helf, I know right, Like

1097
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: what have you been vaccinated for? I'm like, I don't know.

1098
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: Like I had a good mom, so I guess everything.

1099
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Speaker 6: I mean, I did get a touch with my dad

1100
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 6: the other day that said lo L is your middle

1101
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 6: name Marie?

1102
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I doesn't your middle name?

1103
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 4: I was like yeah, and he's like, and this is

1104
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 4: spelled m A R I E. I'm like, yeah, what

1105
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 4: is text?

1106
00:47:54,200 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 6: Lord knows what he's doing, worry about probably own a

1107
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 6: house and Troy mention now.

1108
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: And also like how do you not know.

1109
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:07,800
Speaker 2: Ryan?

1110
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 16: Hi?

1111
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 2: Ryan, good morning, Welcome?

1112
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: How are you I'm doing good? How are you Ryan great?

1113
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 2: Are you a dad?

1114
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 5: No?

1115
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 15: But I did watch of video on YouTube about this once.

1116
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 15: I think I saw how like moms typically know more

1117
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 15: about like the information about their kids as far as

1118
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 15: like taking care of them and stuff and like how

1119
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 15: old they are, their their stats and stuff like that

1120
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 15: with school and things, whereas dads usually like play with

1121
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 15: their kids and get to know their personality and like

1122
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 15: their favorite stuff. So dads know like the fun stuff

1123
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 15: about their kids.

1124
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: Interesting the information, I.

1125
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 2: Mean, I guess that makes sense.

1126
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like Rufiel could do both though, but

1127
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what what vaccinations did you?

1128
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: Kid?

1129
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: Head?

1130
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 2: He's up to date with everything. Oh, there you go,

1131
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 2: whatever the BC way.

1132
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: For.

1133
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 3: Oh, his weight, Oh, his head circumference is like ninety

1134
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 3: six percent.

1135
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: He's in about talking whatever.

1136
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 1: That one is.

1137
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 3: His height is in the middle of the pack. He's

1138
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 3: like fifty, and then his weight is in the fifty.

1139
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 2: He's in the middle with a big ass head. Yeah,

1140
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 2: thank you, have a good day.

1141
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: He does have white feet. Glad you called. My dad

1142
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: just asked, hey, kiddo, how old are you nowadays?

1143
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 6: Yes?

1144
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: How old are you now? It's nowadays? This is so good.

1145
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 2: This happened to my daughter and husband. The doctor asked

1146
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 2: if my daughter was that? Is that really?

1147
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: Even your dad? That's pretty good. Hey Lexi, good morning,

1148
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 1: Hi Lexi. So you works in a pediatric office and

1149
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: you're saying, dad don't know anything.

1150
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 8: No, they do not. I think it is a gender thing,

1151
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 8: but I mean I don't know.

1152
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 20: The majority of the time, it's the men that don't

1153
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 20: know anything.

1154
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 18: They do legit, don't even know.

1155
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 14: The kid's birthdays or sometimes even the full name.

1156
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 15: They show up on the nickname.

1157
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 8: And I work at a school and it's the same thing.

1158
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 13: I'm like, what in the world, how are you?

1159
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 21: Like?

1160
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: How is this kid?

1161
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 4: For you?

1162
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 8: Fifteen years old?

1163
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: Thing is still like how yeah? Right after all these.

1164
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 8: Years because we don't get they get mad at us

1165
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:25,240
Speaker 8: because we don't know the nickname.

1166
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: Why isn't it?

1167
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 2: How are you?

1168
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: Hey?

1169
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 8: I think Rufiel is one of the good dads.

1170
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 4: Thank you. I appreciated.

1171
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,839
Speaker 1: There you go, Thank you, LEXI have a good day.

1172
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: I love you guys, by I love you too. No, no,

1173
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: this is absolutely true, and I hate to make it

1174
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: a male female thing. In my case, it would be

1175
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: in a lot of people's cases, it would be my

1176
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: dad loves me. But I mean, honestly, I don't know

1177
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: that he would remember a lot of things about me

1178
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: if my mom didn't tell him, like, hey, call your kid,

1179
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: it's you know. I think you remembers my birthday mainly

1180
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: because it's on Thanksgiving most of the time.

1181
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 2: So how's that it's not hard to remember?

1182
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: But but the truth is I have to write a

1183
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: lot of stuff down and put it in my calendar too,

1184
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: because there's a lot of stuff about my family that

1185
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily remember. I mean, Paully's birthday is is

1186
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: It's Valentine's Day, the thirteenth, this day before or after?

1187
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 1: See there you go. What's what I'm talking about? Like,

1188
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:21,319
Speaker 1: I don't know how old are you nowadays? Hey, Emily? Yeah,

1189
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: I'm just going to add nowadays to everything. It's gonna

1190
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 1: make it funny.

1191
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 2: Emily.

1192
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 1: So do you was this about you, your dad or

1193
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: your kid? What are we talking about?

1194
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 8: Well?

1195
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 4: I have two stories.

1196
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 20: One is about my dad, kind of going along with

1197
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,959
Speaker 20: what you just said. I'm thirty one and my sister

1198
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 20: is twenty seven, and he still doesn't know our birthday.

1199
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 20: So it's always a fun game to play with him.

1200
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 20: Whenever we get together. He'd be like, okay, so when

1201
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,240
Speaker 20: is her birthday? When is my birthday? And he always

1202
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 20: has to look at my mom for like reassurance, And again,

1203
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 20: we're thirty one and twenty seven. But also I work

1204
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 20: in a medical setting in pediatrics, and it's great when

1205
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 20: the dad bring the kids because I'll ask them, I'm

1206
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 20: like follow up questions, and I always be like, you'll

1207
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 20: have to talk to my wife about that.

1208
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 8: Or I'm not sure, can you call my wife?

1209
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 20: I'm really not.

1210
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 3: Sure, geez.

1211
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 20: It's really funny.

1212
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 1: Wow, I think I feel like my mom always made

1213
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: she always took me to the doctor's appointments. Still, like

1214
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 1: maybe it was like a comfort thing or like a

1215
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess my dad never handled that

1216
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:23,760
Speaker 1: because he probably would have been like, shut up, stop complaining,

1217
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: you know, like there would have been very little empathy

1218
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 1: because my dad's a tough guy. But yeah, thank you, Emily,

1219
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: have a good day. Suck it up, kid, like what

1220
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: they're about to pull on my teeth on Dan or

1221
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: suck it up. You won't hurt some time. Hey, Debbie,

1222
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: Hi there, Hi Debbie. Good morning. So this guy on

1223
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 1: TikTok he posted this about himself, but he took his

1224
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: kid to the doctor and he couldn't answer any of

1225
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: the questions about his own kid.

1226
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 2: It's gone viral. Can you relate?

1227
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 17: Yeah, because my ex husband almost drove my daughter to

1228
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 17: the wrong school one morning.

1229
00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:59,280
Speaker 4: Oh how.

1230
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 1: I have no idea.

1231
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 17: She was in middle school and she's like, you're supposed

1232
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 17: to turn that way, and he's like, well.

1233
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: What school do you go to?

1234
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 17: And let me say he's a great dad. He's an

1235
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 17: amazing dad. But I think it's one of those things

1236
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 17: he knows. I'm gonna handle it like.

1237
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 8: I got it, you know.

1238
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 17: And one other story along with that, she had a

1239
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 17: doctor appointment and he offered to take her. Okay, cool,

1240
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 17: and she had to tell him where to go, where

1241
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,800
Speaker 17: to park, explore it was on.

1242
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 16: So she's, you know, I mean again, he's an amazing dad, but.

1243
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 8: I got the important thing.

1244
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly, Thank you so much. Have a good day.

1245
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 1: Yeah you too.

1246
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 2: Glad you called? Hey Katie?

1247
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 1: Yes, Hi, Hi, Katie's okay. So this is the opposite, right,

1248
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,320
Speaker 1: we're talking about how maybe it's not gender, but you

1249
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: go to work and he stays at home, and so

1250
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: he knows more.

1251
00:53:59,280 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 12: Good extent.

1252
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 16: By the way, I'm from Chicago, I moved away. Still

1253
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 16: listen to you guys, I love you, guys, are awesome.

1254
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: Well, thank you, but wait what city because we may

1255
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: have to petition to go on there. Now where what

1256
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: city are you in?

1257
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,240
Speaker 16: Uh, Columbia, South Carolina.

1258
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 2: All right, well fire it up, guys who's on there.

1259
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, fire them. It's time for us. No,

1260
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1261
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: Don't fire them.

1262
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 2: I hope they I hope they leave on their own.

1263
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 3: That's Jason's David University out there. Oh yeah, Carolina.

1264
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Anyway, So Katie, enough about us, been to us?

1265
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: So?

1266
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:36,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you he knows a lot, but he knows

1267
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 2: more about some things.

1268
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: Yes.

1269
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 16: So I work for the Department of Mental Health, so

1270
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 16: I'm gone pretty much all day and he stays at home.

1271
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 16: We've got three babies at home, and uh, he knows

1272
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 16: exactly they had, you know, three poopy diapers, two wet

1273
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 16: diapers in the morning, and how many out of the

1274
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 16: bottles they all have? And I, uh, one time I

1275
00:54:58,200 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 16: took them to the doctor.

1276
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 19: Nate asked me that.

1277
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 16: And I've got a good background in childcare as well.

1278
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 16: But I was thinking to myself, I'm like, oh my gosh,

1279
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 16: I have no idea. I was just like, well, yeah,

1280
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 16: about the standard amounts, and I don't know how many

1281
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,239
Speaker 16: bottles are they having. I'm like, oh my goodness, I'm

1282
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 16: such an awful mom.

1283
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but I mean you're not doing

1284
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: that day to day, so I guess maybe you wouldn't know.

1285
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: But if you didn't know their birthday, that would be

1286
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: that's that's concerned.

1287
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:24,959
Speaker 2: Do you know the bird?

1288
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 13: Oh god, yeah, I guess you were.

1289
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 1: You a present for that in a big way, so

1290
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: I figured that would be a day you might remember.

1291
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 12: It's kind of funny.

1292
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 16: They all looked just like my husband too. And I'm

1293
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 16: always saying, you know, if I wasn't there, I wouldn't

1294
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 16: think they were mine.

1295
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's funny that you, Katie. Have a great day.

1296
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 20: You two guys.

1297
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,279
Speaker 2: You called, uh Stacy, good morning, Stacy? How are you.

1298
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 8: Good? Are are you?

1299
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:51,320
Speaker 2: This is your own dad and what does he know

1300
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:52,240
Speaker 2: about you anything?

1301
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,800
Speaker 12: Yeah, probably knows my first.

1302
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 20: And middle name, my birthday, but he just generally can't

1303
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 20: remember anything, like my parents are so birds now.

1304
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 19: And someone asked his phone number and he.

1305
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 20: Looked up at my mom and he's had this phone

1306
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 20: sent number of.

1307
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: Stuns you tetaphone.

1308
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 2: Oh so he doesn't know his own phone number.

1309
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's my dad.

1310
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:14,280
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds.

1311
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 20: Phone to look.

1312
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:20,360
Speaker 23: Yeah, he looks up his own name in the context

1313
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 23: I don't have the number on this thing me, you know,

1314
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 23: to put myself into me.

1315
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 19: He's just a surprise when we're opening the guests.

1316
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 8: Oh no that I'm like, well, your name is on it.

1317
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,879
Speaker 2: Now, that is one hundred percent effect in our house.

1318
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,799
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. My mom does all the shopping and then

1319
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 1: puts my dad's name on stuff. And he's like, I'm

1320
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 1: like thanks, Daddy's like, you got it. It's no idea

1321
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: than you who got it for you? You did, big guys,

1322
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1323
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 2: Hold on, Oh this is good. Hey, Shannon.

1324
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 1: Is okay, So this is about parents who don't know

1325
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 1: their kids as well as we think maybe they should.

1326
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 2: What happened?

1327
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know you used to go get your

1328
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 3: pictures taken like the little Ola Mills, then go pick

1329
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 3: up the photos later.

1330
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 15: And my mom set my dad to go pick up

1331
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:10,919
Speaker 15: pictures of my little brother.

1332
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 14: And he comes call and my mom says, so, what do.

1333
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 12: You think the good picture?

1334
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 9: She's like no, no, right, She goes, well, it's not

1335
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 9: our kids, but I don't recognize the outfit, not even

1336
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 9: the right child.

1337
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 2: Oh god, thank you, Sannon. Have a good day. Oh

1338
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 2: my god, how are you nowadays?

1339
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: So good? More Bread Show next what wait, no bread

1340
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: show is on money show?

1341
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 3: Wait?

1342
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: Did each of you were all of you listed in

1343
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: the Employee of the Quarter nominations. I didn't think so.

1344
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 1: I didn't think so because we had our meeting yesterday,

1345
00:57:56,360 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 1: our quarterly staff meeting. There was the Employee of the

1346
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 1: Quarter nominations. I received one, which I thought I thought

1347
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: I was gonna win. I thought, oh my god, I

1348
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: got it. I got a nomination. I can't believe it's

1349
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: never happened. I am about to win. And then when

1350
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 1: they listed all the things that the quotes the people

1351
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: had said about this personally, that was like makes my

1352
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: day better.

1353
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, obviously me, I was.

1354
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: That second quote was not you, though? What was the

1355
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: second one? It was like it's willing to go above

1356
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: something like that.

1357
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 4: Oh no, it's like I help I help you attitude

1358
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 4: or something like what can I help.

1359
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: It?

1360
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 4: How can I help you attitude? How can I help youse?

1361
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: I not help give me an example.

1362
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 4: I don't know if you have the how can I

1363
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 4: help Like, oh, okay, I'll help you.

1364
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 2: I would never say that outwardly. That's how I feel.

1365
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 4: That's how I always see you in the office. Ask

1366
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 4: everybody helps me help.

1367
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 15: Right.

1368
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 1: Every day? I mean I walk around with a sign

1369
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 1: every day that actually says how can I help? And

1370
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: then I tell someone else to help them.

1371
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 2: But this is what I wrote.

1372
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: I submitted an employee of the quarter nomination. Sure did,

1373
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 1: and this is what it said. I would say the

1374
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 1: entire Fred Show minus me, and I explained why, and

1375
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: none of you were listed. But I did say Paulina specifically,

1376
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 1: and Paulina was nominated. But what I don't know is

1377
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: if that was even from me.

1378
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 7: They use my Instagram names, I don't think so, like

1379
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 7: they use my Instagram handle at that point, they don't

1380
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 7: know what.

1381
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: Your name is.

1382
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 4: They call me Paula.

1383
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: That's why I call you Paula. I think it's funny

1384
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 1: because they honestly that people that work here don't know

1385
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 1: your name.

1386
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 4: They don't they know where to go. They need something specific.

1387
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 2: But yes, for extra how can I help intew it?

1388
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1389
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: You know, I I do go the extra mile, but

1390
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: there's a point at which I don't want to anymore.

1391
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: You know, like when they when they pushy and push

1392
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 1: you and pushy and push you and push you, and

1393
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: then they push you some more, and then you get

1394
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: to that point where it's like I'm not I don't.

1395
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 2: Want to be pushed anymore. So no, I don't know.

1396
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm not walking around with my Walmart name tagle on

1397
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: how can I help you today? I didn't know.

1398
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 2: I really did.

1399
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: I was about and I had started to sort of

1400
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 1: put energy into my legs to stand out. Yeah, it

1401
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 1: was my day yesterday.

1402
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 2: No, I knew it.

1403
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 1: I knew it. You were ready to spread.

1404
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1405
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:32,919
Speaker 1: I almost stood up, and then thank god I didn't,

1406
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 1: because Maris won. One of our colleagues won, and well

1407
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: deserved loved guy. Yeah, but it's like I thought they

1408
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: were talking about me. I really did, and I was

1409
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 1: going to go up there and destroy the stage with

1410
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 1: a speech that really said what I was feeling inside,

1411
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: which is probably why the last minute God said. Nope,

1412
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:53,959
Speaker 1: I think God said the very last minute he said,

1413
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna give this one to Maris because what you're

1414
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 1: gonna say is not only going to make you not

1415
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 1: the employee of the quarter, gonna make you the unemployed employee.

1416
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 3: Thank you, Lord, stand up and then walk towards the exit.

1417
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,080
Speaker 1: So it's over, let's go. I just pleased. Anyway, I

1418
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: decide to address effect I just want you all to

1419
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 1: know I thought each of you should should receive a

1420
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: nomination for your incredible efforts, and I just want to

1421
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 1: thank you guys. And I nominated each of you, and

1422
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: you all should have been on there collectively, and you

1423
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 1: were not.

1424
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 4: I'm not surprised, but that was nice of you. Maybe

1425
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 4: one day, No, I'll be included one day.

1426
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 1: One day. You know, I play the game, I still

1427
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: get ignored. It's just ridiculous. That's insane.

1428
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 4: I don't believe you thought you could win it. I

1429
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 4: really took you out.

1430
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 2: What were you even nominated? I won the award before,

1431
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 2: so you words here none of us gave.

1432
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 3: Jason Brown and I are proud recipients of that award.

1433
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 3: Excuse some Kiki too.

1434
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: Sorry? Oh really yeah, what's before? Got an award yesterday

1435
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 1: for something well within the end. So everyone in here

1436
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 1: except for Pauline and well no, no.

1437
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 4: I'm a winner every day.

1438
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 7: I am employed, I am healthy, I am blessed and

1439
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 7: not stressed the right girl, That's what I'm saying.

1440
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 4: God got me all. You're a little stressed. I'm always stressed.

1441
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 4: That that's the life.

1442
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: That even I can't even nominate my team.

1443
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 4: That is wild.

1444
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 6: I like, well, I'm getting that one. That's really wild. Please,

1445
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,919
Speaker 6: I don't understand what happened. You should investigate, investigate further

1446
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 6: on that situation.

1447
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 4: Maybe I thought you nominated yourself. I saw your email.

1448
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 4: It says me, except for everyone on the one on

1449
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 4: the team, just me.

1450
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 2: I think they know you, think they know everyone on

1451
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:48,360
Speaker 2: the show.

1452
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 20: Whoever?

1453
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 2: You said that might have been part of the problem.

1454
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 2: That might have been part of the problem. People don't

1455
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 2: know who.

1456
01:02:57,920 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's awful.

1457
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 2: That Ladies Entertainment Report.

1458
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: Is t you.

1459
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 4: He's like Angie still.

1460
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 3: On the show and you're gonna get.

1461
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 4: The first time. I was like, holy, must be talking

1462
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 4: about Angie here. You meant that? Like if they didn't

1463
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 4: know there's been a shift, did no one tell them?

1464
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:27,240
Speaker 3: That's why we need outside Let y'all know.

1465
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: After two and a half years, nobody told him. I'm

1466
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 1: gonna go back to doing my job.

1467
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 15: I guess.

1468
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

1469
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Erica, good morning, welcome to the program.

1470
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: How are you hi, I'm doing well.

1471
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 8: Thanks, how are you?

1472
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 1: We're great, We're glad you're here. So it's waiting by

1473
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: the phone. We're trying to figure out if you've been

1474
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: ghosted by the skuy Justin. So we got to know

1475
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 1: all everything. So how did you meet? Tell us about

1476
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 1: any dates that you been on, and what's happening now

1477
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 1: where things stand.

1478
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 17: Yeah, so I.

1479
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 8: Actually never went out with him on a date. We

1480
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 8: didn't get to that part yet. So I met Justin

1481
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 8: on a dating app and we got to talking and everything,

1482
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 8: and we had some nice conversations over messaging, and he

1483
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 8: asked me for my number. I was really excited. And

1484
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 8: then we talked some more and he invited me out

1485
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 8: for some drinks, and I was super excited to go

1486
01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 8: out with him for drinks. But the day of our date,

1487
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 8: he actually went missing, and I just like, I never

1488
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 8: heard from him again. He didn't respond to any of

1489
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 8: my texts.

1490
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 14: He didn't text me.

1491
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 8: Just I don't know what happened. I don't know why

1492
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 8: he would ghost me before he even met me in

1493
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 8: person when it seems like he was really interested in

1494
01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 8: actually meeting me in person and getting to know me more.

1495
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 8: So I just I have no idea what could have

1496
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 8: possibly happened.

1497
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, because all the pre date conversation was good. You

1498
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: guys were chatting, you were vibing in your opinion, and

1499
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: then this dude, you know, it's like, hey, I can't

1500
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 1: go out with you. You never hear from him again,

1501
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:16,919
Speaker 1: he cancels. You never hear from him again.

1502
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, exactly. I'm so confused, like, why would this even

1503
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:25,240
Speaker 8: happen when it seemed like things were going really well?

1504
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,919
Speaker 2: And it'sally, Yeah, we don't hear about that too often.

1505
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 4: You know.

1506
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 1: We often hear about, obviously, people who go out once,

1507
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: twice whatever, and then they don't they get ghosted, But

1508
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: I don't very rarely do we hear about somebody who

1509
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: the date the date never happened, which is weird.

1510
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 2: So let's see if we can get Justin on the phone,

1511
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 2: and we'll.

1512
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: Ask some questions and hopefully whatever's going on we can

1513
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 1: straighten out, and then we'll set you guys up on

1514
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,680
Speaker 1: another date and pay for it. Sound good, Yeah, okay,

1515
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: sounds good. Let's see what happens next, Part two of

1516
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: Waiting by the Phone after this song on The Fred Show.

1517
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 1: Good morning, It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting

1518
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 1: by the Phone. Erica, Yeah, all right, welcome back. What's

1519
01:05:59,280 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: called Justin?

1520
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:00,439
Speaker 2: You guys?

1521
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: You wound up you matched right on on one of

1522
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: the apps, but then you chatted, and then when it

1523
01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 1: was time for the first date, you had something planned,

1524
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 1: but he canceled, if I have this all right? And

1525
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: then you never heard from him again, so you never

1526
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 1: met the guy.

1527
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 8: Yeah, and he actually didn't even cancel.

1528
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 1: We agreed to.

1529
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 8: Go out, but then he just basically ghosted me, so

1530
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 8: he didn't even say that he was canceling thing like that.

1531
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,360
Speaker 1: Huh yeah, okay, all right, well let's let's see if

1532
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: we can get this guy on the phone.

1533
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 2: Ask some questions. Good luck, Thanks, Hello, issus Justin?

1534
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 22: Yeah, yeah, this is Justin Justin.

1535
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:46,680
Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred.

1536
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show and I have to

1537
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

1538
01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:53,919
Speaker 2: Can we chat for a couple of minutes? Is that okay?

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01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 14: Oh my gosh, yeah, actually.

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01:06:58,640 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 2: Well, thank you very much.

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01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 1: You don't want to waste too much of your time,

1543
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: but we're calling on behalf of a woman named Erica

1544
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 1: who says she matched with you and I guess you

1545
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 1: guys chatted a little bit but then and maybe had

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01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 1: a date plan, but nothing happened.

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01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 2: You disappeared after that? So what's what's going on with Erica?

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01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 15: Oh wow?

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01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 22: Yeah, we okay, we matched on the apps and then

1550
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 22: we're like we're gonna, we're going to go out, but

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01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 22: something weird happened.

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01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we're getting at. What's what's the weird

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01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 2: thing that happened?

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01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

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01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 14: I went on her social media, which I feel like

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01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 14: is normal.

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01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 2: You know, right little before the pre.

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01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 14: Date exactly pre date stock if you will, and I

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01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 14: found a post that she puts on like Facebook, Instagram,

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01:07:57,960 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 14: and Twitter.

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01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 1: Okay, it was like I can't wait.

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01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 14: For my date tonight, exclamation point, hashtag jerka.

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01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she had a couple of names for you

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01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 2: guys already.

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01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,640
Speaker 1: You had a hashtag already that's fantastic.

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01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:20,759
Speaker 14: It blew my mind because I was like, we haven't

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01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 14: even met.

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01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:22,600
Speaker 1: Where is this?

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01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 14: How can this get any more weird? Before? You know

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01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:26,960
Speaker 14: what I mean?

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01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 1: Jerica fantastic day page five?

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01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 24: I guess is that not really like some some clinger like,

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01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 24: I mean, well, I forgot you mentioned that Erica is here.

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01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 1: Erica, so we're on, we're on the social media's and

1576
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,640
Speaker 1: we're out here, you know, coming up with hashtags and

1577
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 1: we're advertising this state. You've never met this guy, but

1578
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,680
Speaker 1: a lot of excitement pre date.

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01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, I was just really excited because you know, he

1580
01:08:57,240 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 8: was really cute in all the photos on the app

1581
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 8: and everything, and our conversations were really well, I felt

1582
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 8: like we really had a connection, like even before meeting.

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01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 8: And yeah, I was just really really excited. And I

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01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 8: thought it was cute to put hashtag Jerika. You know,

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01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 8: I didn't think it was a big deal at all.

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01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 1: Did you see justin that like other hashtags from other

1587
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 1: failed relationships prior to that, Like, you know, I don't

1588
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: know what other Erica combinations there would be Freerica it was.

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01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 8: It was basically just my original idea that I came

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01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 8: up with. Yeah, I thought it was super cute.

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01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 1: Oh okay, and we're sharing on social media about our

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01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:42,240
Speaker 1: dates before we go on them, which is I mean

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01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: another thing. But yeah, Justin, I mean, is it really

1594
01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:48,600
Speaker 1: not worth meeting her even? I mean, okay, so she

1595
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: was excited about you, she thought you were good looking.

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01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 1: I guess she was engaged. It's engaged in the process rather,

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01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:55,720
Speaker 1: I mean it's not that I mean, she does have

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01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 1: a wedding hashtag for you guys already. But still it's

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01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:04,720
Speaker 1: not It's not the crazyest thing we've heard for a

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01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 1: few months. Don't worry, it's not the craziest thing we've.

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01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 3: Run.

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01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:13,200
Speaker 12: Yeah, I don't know.

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01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:19,519
Speaker 22: I'm very hesitant. I think that just that represents like

1604
01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 22: sort of a just a divide in values. I would

1605
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 22: just never do that before I met someone, and it

1606
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 22: sort of freaks me out, and like, I don't know,

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01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 22: I'm sorry.

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01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 2: It's the end of Jerica as we know it.

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01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: I mean, right here, it's just crushing and it just

1610
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,599
Speaker 1: seems to work to the hashtag really works, the name

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01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: of one, the name combination really works for me.

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01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 14: But anyway, I will yeah, I will say that it

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01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 14: is good. I wish it was made, you know, a

1614
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 14: year into the relationship.

1615
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 1: Little mud, this is not the worst thing we've ever heard.

1616
01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 5: Giving Joe off you what's the crazy man? Yeah, him

1617
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 5: is given that type of vibe. And since you don't

1618
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 5: know this man, like I.

1619
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: Don't claim him yet, you're saying, if they go on

1620
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 1: a date, then he winds up in a glass box

1621
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:10,679
Speaker 1: in somebody's basement, is what you saying.

1622
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 4: Exactly, So he did the right things.

1623
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 3: Eggs everything over.

1624
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 5: There and I've been in a relationship with O Mario.

1625
01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:20,639
Speaker 5: It's a one sided thing for a very long.

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01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 1: It's funny, O Mario. He just texted me and said,

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01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 1: who is she to talk? He's been doing this to

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01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:30,800
Speaker 1: me for years. But no, it's not going to work out,

1629
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 1: not going to be a match, Erica. I'm sorry. Thank

1630
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 1: you Justin for your time, Erica, best of luck to

1631
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 1: you to both of you.

1632
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 8: Oh thanks. I really thought that this could have gone somewhere.

1633
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 8: We could have been a cute couple.

1634
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: You know.

1635
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 2: Justin does not agree.

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01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:56,080
Speaker 1: My god, Paulina, this company every other day they trick us,

1637
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 1: and you fall forward every time.

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01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 2: You're the reason that we trick to it.

1639
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 1: Okay not Fred show is on one on three five,

1640
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station, so they we've been

1641
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 1: I guess the company has been having a problem a

1642
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 1: lot of companies have with the employees clicking on stuff.

1643
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: There that's the most you and it uh huh, you know,

1644
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: put some stuff on the computers. I don't know what

1645
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 1: it does. So it's like so obvious now, but twice

1646
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:22,360
Speaker 1: a week we get some weird ass. They'll send us like, hey,

1647
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 1: here's what you should look out for and don't click

1648
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 1: on links from you know, the stuff that you should

1649
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 1: you don't know. And then yesterday they sent one. It

1650
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 1: was very clearly a trick and it was, oh, your

1651
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: vacation request has been denied from like you know, I don't.

1652
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:39,599
Speaker 3: Even know what mine was like the week of Thanksgiving

1653
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 3: or something like that.

1654
01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 4: Oh again yeah, it said, oh they got tricky too, and.

1655
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: There was a little link and stuff and it was like, uh,

1656
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 1: you know Dan at dan danthhr guy at gmail dot com.

1657
01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 1: It was like it was like super obvious, and I'm like,

1658
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:57,840
Speaker 1: don't click on it, and then you clicked on it.

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01:12:58,040 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 7: I only did because it's your time got denied and

1660
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:02,719
Speaker 7: I'm going to disney it because I had a reschedule,

1661
01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:04,640
Speaker 7: And I was like, why did our mosque not let

1662
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 7: me go to dinner?

1663
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 1: Why don't you ask him first? What happened when you

1664
01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:10,520
Speaker 1: clicked on it? Your computer exploded.

1665
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 7: Basically did And it was like, hey, this is a

1666
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 7: scam and you know we're fishing and we got you.

1667
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, so what happens now? Yes,

1668
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:21,840
Speaker 1: and then yes, we all get more training now because

1669
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: of you. You should be like the next week they'll

1670
01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 1: be like they'll send that email out.

1671
01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 2: Do we get you?

1672
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:27,519
Speaker 21: Like?

1673
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:28,960
Speaker 2: This is what you should look out for.

1674
01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 3: They should call on everyone that clicked the link.

1675
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 1: We like should like a few months ago and Jason

1676
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: clicked on someone was trying to fax his email and

1677
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: he clicked on it.

1678
01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 2: What are you doing?

1679
01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:43,800
Speaker 1: Important documentary?

1680
01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 3: You know how to get an external? That's the headline

1681
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 3: on the top of the email external. You know that's

1682
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 3: not legit from the v It's like and honestly the

1683
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:56,600
Speaker 3: email address is like totally legit. Hry, Happy birthday to

1684
01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 3: light a twenty first birthday today.

1685
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:02,720
Speaker 2: I mean, I'll be honest with you guys. I love

1686
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 2: I love you all so much.

1687
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 1: That is Dana's daughter because it doesn't say I have

1688
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,559
Speaker 1: phone numbers here but obviously had names. But anyway, happy

1689
01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 1: birthday and I love all of you so much. Who listen?

1690
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,280
Speaker 1: But this has become like the weird shout out birthday

1691
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 1: line on the text, like, honestly, like shout out to

1692
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 1: my orangutang, you know, and my pet lizard. I'm like,

1693
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 1: I can't I get to as many of these as

1694
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: I can. But honestly, Bob, I needed to go, Okay, yeah,

1695
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: can you go give me some Apple gift cards. Yes, yeah, right,

1696
01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 1: I knew you as soon as I got that yesterday.

1697
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm like Paulleena clicked on that.

1698
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 7: They knew what they were doing, like the girl who's

1699
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:43,640
Speaker 7: about to take off a day of work, And I

1700
01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 7: was like, why did he not approve.

1701
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: Everyone is taking Thanksgiving off?

1702
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 4: Like I didn't read that part. I wat im off

1703
01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 4: his denight. I'm like, I can't put it in here.

1704
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 1: But oh jesus, hey, Linda Islanda, I didn't even yet

1705
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 1: denied Linda. Uh yes, I just yeah, no, no, I'm here.

1706
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 1: I want to go home. This is there's a moment

1707
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 1: every day. Usually it's a little bit later than this,

1708
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 1: but we've already reached that moment where I want to

1709
01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:17,680
Speaker 1: go home. And that is an interesting addition to this.

1710
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:20,719
Speaker 1: You haven't even submitted the time, but somehow it got denied.

1711
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 1: So apparently our HR department is psychic. I'm sorry, you

1712
01:15:25,360 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 1: know what. Ruvio was yelling and screaming and I had

1713
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:29,519
Speaker 1: to like shush him. But like, that's an that's an

1714
01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:34,080
Speaker 1: important detail. You click on a link informing you of

1715
01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:37,679
Speaker 1: your vacation time being denied that you hadn't even submitted,

1716
01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:43,320
Speaker 1: so how do you think they knew? How do you survive?

1717
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 2: How do you survive as a human being? How have

1718
01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:47,800
Speaker 2: you gotten this far?

1719
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:50,520
Speaker 4: I make it here every day, for that's all that matters, barely.

1720
01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 1: More fread Show. Next, The fread Show is on Friend's

1721
01:15:57,320 --> 01:16:11,320
Speaker 1: Fun Fact Fun Guys. There's a species of spider. No, no,

1722
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 1: it's it's called a sparkle muffin. Oy, Okay, well let's

1723
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 1: call it a sparkle muffin. I mean, would it be

1724
01:16:23,600 --> 01:16:26,240
Speaker 1: less embarrassed if I got bitten and I had to

1725
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 1: go and explain to the doctor that I got bitten

1726
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 1: by I wouldn't be embarrassed. I guess, what are you

1727
01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: gonna do but a sparkle Oh, I got bitten by

1728
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 1: a sparkle muffin. Look, I got you how to get

1729
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 1: out of the way to sparkle muffin? The thing is

1730
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 1: like it looks like a looks like he's going a

1731
01:16:39,960 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: pride parade, looks very colorful. Spider. Scientists have identified the

1732
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: adorable arachnid as one of three recently discovered species of

1733
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:55,800
Speaker 1: peacock spider in eastern Australia. Less than a quarter inch

1734
01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 1: five millimeters long, male peacock spiders are known for their

1735
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 1: bright colors and lashy mating dance. These colors, like the

1736
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 1: vibrant red and blue of sparkle muffin stripes, make it

1737
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: easy to tell the difference between species. Many female peacock spiders,

1738
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 1: they'll look alike even to the males.

1739
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 4: They're beautiful. They're so humbling, Matthew.

1740
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:18,640
Speaker 2: What, I'm trying to figure out what happens if it

1741
01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 2: bites you.

1742
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 4: It doesn't say, Oh my gosh, look at that paint they.

1743
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 1: Got on there. Yeah, yeah, I don't know if I

1744
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 1: think that was real. When I first saw it. It

1745
01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 1: looks kind of like a tarantula that went to Pride Parade.

1746
01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 4: It looks like when the edible hits, like, what the hell?

1747
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. Anyway, sparkle muffin, so whatever, you don't get, yeah,

1748
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 1: I don't get. Watch you have it a sparkle muffin.

1749
01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:45,120
Speaker 1: That just sounds not sinister at all. Look at this one.

1750
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 1: This is a moratus skeletis skeletons. That's all from the

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Speaker 1: peacock family. They're all from the excuse me, yeah there

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Speaker 1: you go. All right, Well I'll watch you having a

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Speaker 1: sparkle muffin. Guys, This doesn't even sound bad. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: a delicious treat I does. I'd like to have one.

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