1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: She was evicted and doesn't know why. But there's something 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: about her boyfriend. She doesn't know that he is also hopeless. 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: You know, it sounds like that could easily be the case. 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: But why are they living together? Op and the boyfriend? 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:16,799 Speaker 1: I think so they are? So why is she evicted? 6 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:17,600 Speaker 1: She doesn't know why. 7 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 2: Maybe he secretly gave the thirty days because he was 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: too afraid to break up with her, and he's like, damn, 9 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 2: I just need to get out of this relationship. So bam, 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 2: thirty days notice. Oh I'm sorry, babe, I got evicted. Oops. 11 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: What if he was like, Babe, we're living by capitalism. 12 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: We need to become more Buddhists. So I canceled our house. 13 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: I put in the thirty days notice so we can 14 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: live like monks. 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 2: I pulled an Elon Musk who actually sold all of 16 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: his possessions and houses for a period of time because 17 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 2: his daughter was like, billionaires are gross, and he's like, 18 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 2: I can't be a billionaire if I don't own anything. 19 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: Hey, you know what, respect? I never knew that. I 20 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: knew he like would sleep on people's couches and stuff. 21 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's because he like sold all of his 22 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: houses and for a while I think he has him 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: back now, but his daughter hates him. 24 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: Right, daddy issues, But onto these daddy issues. Oh god, 25 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: So I call my stepdaughter's entitled boyfriend recket Ralph. No 26 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 1: relation to the trademark or anything, just coincidental naming. He 27 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: has a tendency to break, ruin and tear up everything 28 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: that he touches. My stepdaughter, who is basically a sweet, 29 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: enduring young woman who I love dearly, has, like many 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: young women with self esteem issues, allowed herself to be 31 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: led astray by Wrecket Ralph. 32 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: I'm gonna wreck it, wreck your relationship top Ralph and 33 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: your family. 34 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 2: Ralph, what are you doing, Ralph? Why have you turned 35 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 2: to the alcohol once again. 36 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: That's not good. Frecket Ralph, Darkseide. 37 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 3: You gotta stay sober for your kids. Oh boy, you're 38 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 3: wrecking your whole family, Ralph. The alternative story Disney does 39 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: not want us to see. 40 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, why is Ralph so bad? Why is he 41 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: always wreck at it? Why does he have an anger problem? 42 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: It's because internally and externally there's nothing he can control, 43 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: so he just lashes out. 44 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: We are getting deep and analytical on this podcast. In 45 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: the year they've been together, she lost everything. But at 46 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: twenty three, she's old enough to have learned her lessons 47 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: without us parents coming in to rescue her until she 48 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: gets rid of Ricket Ralph and back on track with 49 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: her life. 50 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 2: But your parents have to like stop bail you out 51 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: at some point. 52 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: You have to learn. You just got to learn eventually. 53 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: When they first got together, they lived with her dad 54 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: and myself for a few months. It very quickly became 55 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: a parent That wrecket Ralph had a chip on his shoulder, 56 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 1: and when it came to me, he would carry tales 57 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: to my husband, causing us to argue, dude, just like 58 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 1: sowing seeds of discord. 59 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 2: I mean, Ralph, you know he has a chip on 60 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: her shoulder from all the wrecking it. Probably some debris 61 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: hit his shoulder chipped it away, dude, wracket Ralph's just 62 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 2: producing rubble by the payload. 63 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: We got to get him cleaned up a little bit. 64 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 2: So also, is he like going to the husband and 65 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: he's like, you know, I saw your wife look at 66 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 2: some ass today. Let me show you a video. 67 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: Or maybe worse. Oh, she like, we don't know how 68 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: deep he's sewing. 69 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: It, doing some deep fakes everywhere. Dude, Oh god, that 70 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: secks John. 71 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: All right, all right, you cove, you cove. Going back 72 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: to the story, despite my husband telling reckitt Ralph many 73 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: times that was my house and everything in it was mine, 74 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: reckitt Ralph would keep asking my husband, not me, if 75 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: he could have this or that, and that's if he 76 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: asked at all. He kept getting more and more animals, 77 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: despite us telling him no more. 78 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: What kind of animals. 79 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: Alligators, leopers, not at all. Neither of us were taking 80 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: care of the ones he had. They weren't buying any 81 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: dog or cat food or cat litter, so my husband 82 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: and I were buying all of those. They weren't picking 83 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: up any of the messes. They weren't training them at 84 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: all and allowing them to tear up our belongings. 85 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: Dude, recket Ralph sounds like the worst. 86 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: He got a whole crew, a recket crew, to like 87 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: do his bidding for him. 88 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: I could have reck it all alone. I gotta get 89 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 2: my dogs out here, literally like buys eight fuck and 90 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 2: Tibetan mass steffs to just punch holes in all of 91 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 2: your walls and eat your steaks. 92 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm the CEO of destruction, so that means I need 93 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: a team that can that can carry out my vision 94 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: mind rack team of reck at professionals, demolition experts. We 95 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: call ourselves the Demolition Derby. Whoo hell yeah, Mary Jane, 96 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: if you know what I'm saying, is legal in our 97 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: state and there is dispensary in our town, and the 98 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: only work these two do would be door to door delivery. 99 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 2: Like they deliver wheed door to door? Like there are 100 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 2: they drug dealers? Are they saying they're drug dealers? But 101 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 2: like legal ones? 102 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: Hi, missus Johnson, we have a great new product we 103 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 1: want to share with you today. This one's called Misty Hayes. 104 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: We're raising money for her, our neighborhood stepmother, so that 105 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: way she won't charge us rent and kick us out. 106 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 2: It's like girl Scout cookies, but like pre rolls. 107 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, but girl Scout cookies, you know what I mean. 108 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,359 Speaker 1: Her job that had a daily payout was just enough 109 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: to get money for reckitt Ralph to make a purchase 110 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: at the dispensary every day, along with eating at fast 111 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: food restaurants. 112 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 2: God piece of shit. 113 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: Recket Ralph's chip on his shoulder when it came to me, 114 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: was such that they brought my husband a soda one night, 115 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: walking in the back door right past me, calling out loudly, 116 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: we got you a drink your favorite soda to my 117 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: husband in the living room, with zero inclusion of. 118 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 2: Me, where's my favorite soda? This is my house. I 119 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 2: want my favorite soda. 120 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: Hey, sorry, the stack is breathing statues in my way by. 121 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: We just got your favorite takeout tonight. If you want anything, 122 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: let's all. 123 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: Do family dinner. You know, like you me the girl, 124 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: and you know you could even let that statue watch. 125 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: Another example is my stepdaughter asking if she could use 126 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: my debit card to get the four of us drinks 127 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: at a local convenience store on one hot day. My 128 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: husband and I were unloading stuff from the truck in 129 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: the trailer in the backyard and that was no problem. However, 130 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: when checking my account, they spent twenty dollars on food 131 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: for wreck at Ralph without. 132 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 2: Asking, wrecking your bank account. Though. 133 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: Basically the end came when I told them that they 134 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: had to replace the bedroom door that their dog chewed 135 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: the bottom out of and refused to allow the pitbull 136 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: mix they wanted to rescue, even though it had a 137 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: bite history to enter my home and wreck At Ralph 138 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: is like, no. 139 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 2: I want a broken thor I want you to watch 140 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 2: me clean my room. Watch me clean my room. 141 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 1: Respectfully, respecting all of your wishes and demands. All of 142 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: your wishes and demands. 143 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 2: Every single wish in demand fulfilled. 144 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: So they ended up moving to her mother's home at 145 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: that point. So op is the step mom, so the daughter, 146 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: she just went to her bio mom's house. During their 147 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: time there, my stepdaughter kept getting tickets in her car, 148 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:48,679 Speaker 1: which is only registered to my husband. 149 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: That have so all those tickets going straight the daddy. 150 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: They weren't paying their insurance, which I had bought my 151 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: stepdaughter her own policy and paid the startup out of 152 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: with my money when they lived with us. And also 153 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: they didn't pay the plate renewal. Now her license is 154 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: getting suspended and it cost my husband and I six 155 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: hundred dollars to get those plates six hundred dollars again 156 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: in his name, only to get unsuspended. 157 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: Dude, recket. Ralph has a hefty bail. He's racking up 158 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: the charges even outside of the house. Yeah wow, I 159 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 2: recently had to get one of those stickers, you know, 160 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: like the like the renewal stickers in my car four 161 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 2: hundred dollars. 162 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: Dude. 163 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: Yes, I was like four months late, so that's part 164 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: of the reason why. 165 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: But don't let it expire. That's the key. Don't let 166 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: it expire. 167 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 2: That's such a wrecket move, dude, such a recket move. 168 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: Very record, But come on, bro unreck. 169 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 2: That, come on, unreck that shit. 170 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: Plus they had damaged the car and it needed repairs. 171 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: My god. So my husband took the car from them 172 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: before her license was suspended. But after the police took 173 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: the place from her car, my husband let her use 174 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: his truck, which was on my insurance policy. Then recket 175 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: Ralph drove that he had no license, and he blew 176 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: the entire motor in the car. 177 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: How how do you blow a motor? Is that his fault? 178 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 2: If you blow a motor? 179 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 180 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 2: It sounds like he didn't crash. I don't know much 181 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: about cars, but if you're blowing motors, your car's probably 182 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: fucked anyway, Maybe car people in the audience, how does 183 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: one blow a motor without crashing? Let us know, I 184 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 2: have a prius, I have no idea. 185 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: We stay green out here. Yeah yeah, Now that car 186 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: is sitting and can't be used. I told my husband. 187 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: I would put the car on my insurance for him, 188 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: but only if he drove it, if he returned it 189 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: to them, I was canceling the insurance, which I've stood by. Nevertheless, 190 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: wrecket Ralph called daily, demanding my husband return the car 191 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: to them once it was legal and fixed. 192 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 2: And what world could you demand anything? You are the 193 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 2: biggest buffoon in the world, Wrecket Ralph. What kind of 194 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: pull do you had? What kind of pull? No pull, 195 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: Rocket Ralph can only pull your daughter that has no 196 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:01,839 Speaker 2: poll anywhere else. 197 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: But that's the pole that matters, tragically, that is the 198 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: one pole that matters. 199 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: Man, dude Ralph. 200 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: After three weeks, my husband finally said, look, you dumbass. 201 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is you think you're trying 202 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: to accomplish here, but you're not demanding anything from me facts, 203 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: and you're not getting the car back. I may have 204 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: originally bought it for her before she got with you, 205 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: but it is my car in my name, and I'm 206 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: keeping it in lieu of the truck you ruined. Don't 207 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: call me about the car again, got it? 208 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 2: Boom? 209 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: Good job, daddy. We've been hearing of ongoing disputes between 210 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: my husband's ex and Reckett Ralph. Things got so bad 211 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: there that Recket Ralph told my husband's ex wife to 212 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: pack up her stuff and get the f out of 213 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: her own home. 214 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: Like, you know what, people just have unearned confidence and swagger? 215 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 2: Like where is this man sourcing his confidence because he 216 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 2: should have none? 217 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: Could we give it to like the people that are, like, 218 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 1: you know, working to solve like world hunger and poverty, 219 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 1: and like, no, it's in this guy. 220 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 2: Let's give confidence to the start no food, but confidence 221 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 2: to get food. Maybe wait a second. 222 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:09,079 Speaker 1: Where did I What did I say? Where am I 223 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: landing right now? 224 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think confidence for the Homeless? 225 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 1: Did I just make an oopsie? 226 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 2: Guys? 227 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 1: I how did I land here? 228 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 4: Was this my original point? 229 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 2: John wants to start a nonprofit called Confidence for the Homeless, 230 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 2: and the tag line is they don't need food, they 231 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 2: just need more riz. 232 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: How did I end up here? 233 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: Give a man a hot dog, he eats for a day. 234 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 2: Teach a man to riz a hot dog from his 235 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 2: fellow man, and he eats for a lifetime. 236 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: Oh God, get me out of this spincycle. Please. Another 237 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: time he told her to shut the f up and 238 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: remember who she's talking to. What recket Ralph said that 239 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: he said that to Opie's biom. 240 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 2: Who I genuinely like, you know, when people say, like, 241 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 2: who do you think you are? Like, I actually genuinely 242 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 2: want him to answer that question, like who do you 243 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: think you are? If you were to describe yourself and 244 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 2: your son of authority, what would you come up with? 245 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: Who the fuck are you president of the universe? That 246 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 1: everyone should bound down to? 247 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 2: Duh dude. I actually there was this one guy that 248 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 2: I knew or a friend of a friend in college, 249 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: that did a bunch of acid and then thought he 250 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 2: was the second coming of Christ and like got mad 251 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 2: when people didn't think he was Jesus and would throw 252 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 2: plates at them. 253 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: Maybe this guy is just eternally just tripping like crazy. 254 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: Could be, could be. 255 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: It is a somewhat prevalent occurrence on large doses of 256 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 2: psychedelics to develop a god complex. So maybe he's developed 257 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: a god complex. 258 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: Now that is a moonshot theory. There, I like it. 259 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: I like it. Let's see. So we all decided it 260 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: was time to let our daughter hit rock bottom. So 261 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: she wasn't seeing how reckett Ralph had taken her from 262 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: being a sweet, lovable, well liked and responsible girl in 263 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: a college nursing program to this person with a criminal 264 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: history and no prospects at the moment. 265 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: Is he hot? He's got to be hot. He's gotta 266 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 2: be a fucking smoke show. Yeah right, there is no 267 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: way this girl is dating a guy with the criminal record. 268 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: That's rude to her family. That's a piece of like 269 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: living humid waste, not doing anything, smokea dupe every day. Like, 270 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 2: there's no way, there's no way he's not hot, right, 271 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 2: he has to be hot. 272 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 1: Let there be one stupid reason. 273 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 2: Like, just like one redeemable reason, even though if it's 274 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 2: a shallow reason, just. 275 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: Don't be ugly. 276 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, confidence for the hot homeless. 277 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: We're back. How did we get back here? Oh? Boy, 278 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna have to start that one on 279 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: your own. Sam, we might have to part ways on 280 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: founding that one. 281 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,199 Speaker 2: What bro my. 282 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: Husband's ex wife, The girl's bio mom moved in with 283 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: her boyfriend, turning the power off at the home that 284 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: she had been renting, and she told her former landlord, 285 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: whom she was actually long term friends with, that she 286 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't allow it to affect their friendship if the landlord 287 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 1: evicted her and record Ralph for squatting, since neither were 288 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: on her lease to begin with. 289 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: So now it's really going down. Yeah, but it's so 290 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: hard to evict squatters. Dude, that's true. 291 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: That's true. 292 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 2: We don't know where they live, but yeah, it is 293 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 2: in California. Bro, it's impossible those people are living there. 294 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: They do have the electricity turned off. 295 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 2: Though, Oh really if you're a squatter. 296 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: Oh p said that they turned off the electricity. 297 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: I was the like, Yeah, back in the day when 298 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 2: I was squatting, they turned that electricity off. But I 299 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: didn't leave a poope get a bucket, and I didn't 300 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 2: watch Stevie. 301 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: I lived in garages and day rooms. But you know what, 302 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 1: My bathroom was inside of someone else's room that I 303 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: had to walk through while they were sleeping to use 304 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: the bathroom. But it wasn't a bucket, nice big w. 305 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 2: And you'd smell their hair as you walk by, right, 306 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 2: not at all, and whisper. 307 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 3: Sleep night, my sweet prints, I'm about to make a 308 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 3: mess in your bathroom. 309 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: I would not dare person was interesting. No, not trying 310 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: to whisper that person's here. When my stepdaughter called wanting 311 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 1: to come back, my husband told her she could, but 312 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: wreck It Ralph could not. 313 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 2: Split them up. Split up up. Yeah, make Recket Ralph 314 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 2: single forever, castrate him, take his penis, put him on 315 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 2: the boy's choir so he can sing those really high notes. 316 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 2: You know. 317 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: Wow, Samuel's just coming in with hot ideas today. Ladies 318 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 1: coming in the ideas. 319 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 2: Make them in the choir. 320 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: God dang. Now they are staying at a homeless shelter 321 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: in the town where Reckett Ralph's mom lives. And Reckett 322 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: Ralph's mom won't let them live with her either. 323 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 2: Wow, because who wants to live with Recort Ralph either? 324 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 2: Even his own mother doesn't want him around. 325 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: Problem is you, buddy, Oh my god, could you imagine 326 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: watching your daughter get in with this guy and go 327 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: to a homeless. 328 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 2: Shelter shelter like and like your daughter had like such 329 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 2: great prospects and then all of a sudden just screwed. Yeah, 330 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 2: he'd like, man, I mean, at least you know they're 331 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 2: not exaggerating, because if even your own mother doesn't want 332 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 2: to have anything to do with you, you're probably at least 333 00:14:58,240 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: a little bit shitty. 334 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: One hundred perc gravy. 335 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 2: Also, it would suck being a mom and just having 336 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 2: like a ball ass, just a kid. 337 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: Like I birthed you. Why are you like this? 338 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,359 Speaker 2: Like why are you so terrible? Why is your personality 339 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 2: so bad? I thought I would have rubbed off on 340 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 2: you a bit. Oh man, that would be the worst 341 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 2: thing ever. So they've opened the home for her. They 342 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 2: just don't want to wreck itt Ralph with her. They're like, hey, 343 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 2: you can come back on one condition, you can't be 344 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: with the record Ralph. And she's like, but mummy, Daddy, 345 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: I love him. 346 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 3: And the Dad's like daughter, he's a piece of shit, 347 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: But to Daddy, I love him. The homeless shelter feels 348 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 3: like a Buckingham palace when I'm with him. 349 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: Bro, anywhere would feel like hell with it, Like I 350 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: just how do people fall in love with these people? 351 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 2: I just truly eight inch cock? 352 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: There it is, there, it is. You know what, I'll 353 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: give it. I'll give that one to say him, I'll 354 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: give it to him a I got you. But this 355 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 1: has entitled wrecket Ralph that she really won't let go 356 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: of him, and it's really brought her down and she 357 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: can do so much better. This guy actually told us 358 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: once that he couldn't work out a factory that he 359 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: interviewed at because it was climate controlled and his heart 360 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: won't allow that. He's more worried about air conditioning hurting 361 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: the planet than he is the people that are like 362 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: helping and caring for him and like trying to provide 363 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: a free place to live. Wait. 364 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:22,359 Speaker 2: Wait, wait, because they have air conditioning in the factory. 365 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 2: He is like, nah, bra, they ain't green enough for me. 366 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: That's exactly what he's saying. 367 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: So this man is anti air conditioning? 368 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:32,119 Speaker 1: Whoa, my god? 369 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 2: Who does he think he is? That's what I want 370 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 2: to know. Does he live without air conditioning? Like I 371 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: imagine this homeless shelter is air conditioned. But I think 372 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 2: he just didn't want to get a job. Dude. 373 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: The hilarity of that, honestly, I'll give it to it. 374 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 1: He should be a comedian because the hilarity of that 375 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: excuse is just it's just too good, top tier comedy. 376 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 2: It's the daughter actually that great. That's what I'm wondering. 377 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: Maybe we'll learn more on that, but uh could be. 378 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: Then he argued with me and my husban been that 379 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,239 Speaker 1: climate controlled meant controlled by the climate. So it was 380 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: hot in the summer and cold in the winter. Oh, 381 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: so it was like uncomfortable. 382 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 2: Basically, climate controlled meant that there was no air conditioning 383 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 2: and the inside was the same temperature as the outside. 384 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 2: He thought climate controlled meant there was no air conditioning. 385 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 2: So he's pro air conditioning. He just didn't know what 386 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 2: climate controlled means. 387 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: The parents had to have him explained, Oh my god, 388 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: my god, he's evil and an idiot. 389 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 2: Oh to my god, I would not want to work 390 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: in a factory that was on air conditioned. 391 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: Yay, you know what, we will give him that eye. 392 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: I will be there, broll. 393 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 2: I'm not going to work in a sweatshop. 394 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 3: I'm gonna work in a factory where I'm working twelve 395 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 3: hours a day. I at least wanted to have air conditioning. 396 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 3: I don't want it to be climate controlled. I don't 397 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 3: want to sweat this shop. 398 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 1: Oh man, I agree, I wouldn't want to that. We 399 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 1: haven't seen him hold a job or do anything useful 400 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: and productive of since they've been together. Just demand from 401 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: and use the people who love the girl that he 402 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: has become clung to. And there's a comment that OPI 403 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 1: responded to. Comment says, nine out of ten, nine out 404 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:15,479 Speaker 1: of ten, he's abusing her in some form. Whatever you do, 405 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: don't break contact with her. And OPI responded to a 406 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: comment commenter says cameras are a method of collecting evidence 407 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: and can maybe be used as a deterrent. Certainly doesn't 408 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: mean that Reckett Ralph won't come over. In fact, I 409 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 1: assume he doesn't care at all. OPI said, I've dealt 410 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 1: with that once before and it didn't work out very 411 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: well for the other person. Yes, he literally broke my 412 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 1: surveillance cameras, broke into my home, claimed to be a resident. 413 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 2: I mean you could sue him, but you could arrest 414 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 2: him for that. 415 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, my god, Yeah, yeah. 416 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:43,880 Speaker 2: That is breaking and entering. True. 417 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 1: He stole my belongings and threatened me and my spouse. 418 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 1: When we contacted the police, who said it was a 419 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: civil matter, I informed the police in writing with photos 420 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: of a damage that due to the threats to self, party, 421 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: and home and property, it now fell into the realm 422 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,479 Speaker 1: of legally authorized self defense. I went on to explain 423 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: that I'm a black belt and trained marksman. True story 424 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: on both accounts. I'll have you no officer, I know karate. 425 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 1: I will chot my enemies and a half. 426 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 2: There was someone that was on our call in. I 427 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 2: don't think it might have been with you or might 428 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 2: have been on a solo where they were like, yeah, 429 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 2: I'm a black belt in uh in like this, in 430 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: like mixed martial arts or in krap magar or something, 431 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 2: and so my hands are literally lethal weapons. And so 432 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 2: if I kill someone, I get charged with or if 433 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: I tack someone, I get charged with assault with a 434 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 2: deadly weapon. 435 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: Really is that like a thing? 436 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 2: Is that true? Riley? 437 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, if you like are a black belt in like 438 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 5: any shape or form, you have to register your hands 439 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 5: as like weapons. 440 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: That's fire. 441 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 4: I love that. 442 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 2: Didn't realize that my hands are registered as lethal weapons. 443 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: It was legit, dude, that's a bar. Wow, that's like 444 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: the coolest thing I've heardle day. That's crazy. 445 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 4: I'll check it for just for Google's sake. 446 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 447 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're the straight facts. 448 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 5: I just had some dude that did karate go to 449 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 5: my elementary school and he told us that. 450 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 4: So I was like, okay, okay, oh wait. 451 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 6: The myth uh oh shoot no, no, he said, the myth, 452 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,719 Speaker 6: once you obtain your black belt, you must promptly go 453 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 6: get your hands writer to as lethal weapons. 454 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 5: Yes, some people actually believe this No, definitely. Due to 455 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 5: the advent of the Internet, this myth has subsided. 456 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 2: What wait, wait, how about how about like if if 457 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:34,959 Speaker 2: if you have a black belt. If you have a 458 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 2: black belt and uh, get in a fight with someone, will, 459 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 2: could you be charged with assault with a deadly weapon? 460 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 4: Oh? 461 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 5: The saw with a deadly weapon charges a myth for 462 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 5: the most part. Whoever, you were going to go to 463 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 5: trial for something like this can certainly be aggravating factor 464 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 5: if you were a trained fighter and did not a 465 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 5: tip to walk away or keep going after the person 466 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 5: had stopped the assaults from Korra though. 467 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, so, I mean, yeah, it's like it doesn't help 468 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: the case, but at least. 469 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 4: What I thought this was real. 470 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: Dang all right, Ben bamboozled wait to go, Riley, misinforming 471 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: our legions of loyal followed. 472 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. Oh here we go, Here we go. 473 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 5: However, a train fighter who is charged with assault can 474 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 5: have his hands deemed as deadly weapons by the judge 475 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 5: for purpose of the court hearing only. 476 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 4: Okay, so it's. 477 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: Possible, dude, I love that. Wow, what a hilarious rabbit 478 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: hole and that sense the police could not do anything. 479 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: I was prepared to use whatever force was necessary. The 480 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,920 Speaker 1: very next day, warrants were issued for that person. Wreck 481 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: at Ralph. Won't win on that front. 482 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 3: Get fust wreck at Ralph. Yeah, erecked, get wrecked. 483 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 1: Get wrecked. All right, onto the update, Well, we are 484 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 1: making progress. My stepdaughter recently had court for the license 485 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: and other car issues. They are staying just across the 486 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: state line in a small city thirty miles east of us, 487 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: so my husband and I devised a plan to get 488 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: her alone from him. We said the only car running 489 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: was a two sea convertible and could only take her 490 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: for the court appearance. My husband picked her up and 491 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: then I took her to her court appearance as my 492 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: husband had to be at the house for something. On 493 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: the way, she started talking about how she wanted to 494 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 1: break up with wrecket Ralph. 495 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 2: Okay, finally, finally, finally Geese, but she. 496 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: Was afraid of the hurt that comes with it. She 497 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: hated how controlling and untruthful he was, but felt he 498 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: truly loved her and didn't know if the negative behavior 499 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: was simply from distressful circumstances. 500 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 2: If he's acting like that and being a dick, then 501 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 2: he doesn't love you. In the way that you deserve. 502 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 3: Come on, let's. 503 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 5: There. 504 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 2: Wow, have you been love? 505 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: Tell a baby? 506 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 4: Have you have you? 507 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 2: Have you freaking been in love? 508 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: Rerecord Ralph? 509 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 2: What hasn't Record Ralph hasn't he loves himself, dude, and 510 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 2: being a freakin' whanker. That's right British slang dog. 511 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: She said that once he got SR twenty two insurance 512 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: in his life back, that he would be able to 513 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: work and things would be better. 514 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: It will not change, girl, No. 515 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: No, no, it won't. She's just like trying to justify 516 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: she's afraid of the pain of leaving the relationship. 517 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 2: Which, to be fair, it's a hard thing to leave 518 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 2: a relationship, even if it's unhealthy. 519 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 5: Oh shure, Okay, you need SR twenty two insurance if 520 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 5: you have a DUI, reckless driving incident or car accident 521 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 5: while uninsured. 522 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 2: Okay, so that's what happened to them. 523 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: I pulled over, pulled out my phone and went to 524 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,679 Speaker 1: the court file website for the county north of US 525 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 1: where Record Ralph used to live. I pulled up six 526 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 1: cases in his name, three to do with driving, with 527 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: multiple citations in each of them. The most recent he 528 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: was speeding, ran a stop sign hit. A woman fled 529 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 1: the scene, had a suspended license and registration and had 530 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: obviously no insurance. 531 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god, reck it missed the record. That's insane. 532 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 3: Stop wrecking. He can't he can't help himself. Dude, you 533 00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 3: know what he needs to do. He needs to be 534 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 3: one of the managers or like one of those guys 535 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 3: at one of those demolition places where you get a 536 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 3: bat and you like hit all the TVs. That's his calling. 537 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, he needs to be the like wrecking room 538 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: instructor and show people how it's done. 539 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 2: Or Love Island, but instead of trying to find your love, 540 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 2: you try to ruin other people's love. You get ten 541 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 2: happy couples and you try to break them all up. 542 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: Bro, Love Triangle Island. 543 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 2: I guess that is Love Island. Don't they all couples 544 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 2: when they come in Love Island? 545 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 1: I think they basically have like this like drafting period 546 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: where people get like these rounds of being able to 547 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 1: choose who their partners is, and then it's just like 548 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 1: insanity ensues. They can like leave partners at any time, 549 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: so people steal people from each other. 550 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 2: But they were in a relationship, like a happy relationship 551 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 2: before they can I. 552 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: Think they're all strangers when they come in. If it's 553 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: Netflix Love Island. I did watch a few episodes. That's 554 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:53,199 Speaker 1: my memory of it. 555 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 2: Oh, really, is there a show where isn't there a 556 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 2: show where like couples come on and then they're like 557 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 2: testing if they really love each other? Uh, thirty days. 558 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 1: It's like thirty days or it's not ninety day Fiance. 559 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: But I think you're right. I think that's a different show. 560 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 4: Oh the ultimatum, the. 561 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: Ultimatum, All right, shall we get back? Shall we get back? Voice? 562 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: So got a bit wrecket. Ralph was arrested lader and 563 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: had to post bond. The case he had was four 564 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: thousand dollars in fines, plus We had received a letter 565 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: at our house from the state stating that he owed 566 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 1: eleven thousand dollars in restitution to the woman that he 567 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: hit for damages and that his license was permanently suspended 568 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 1: until the restitution is paid. Any related court impost fines 569 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: and state imposed reinstatement fees was paid along with the 570 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 1: proof of the SR twenty two with forty eight hours 571 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 1: of release suspension by the state. My husband accidentally opened it. 572 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,239 Speaker 1: It arrived in the mail and he didn't look at 573 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 1: the address. She was deflated and angry, stating that they 574 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: had talked at length and he never told her any 575 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: of that, only that he needed the SR twenty two 576 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: because he got caught driving without insurance and had to 577 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: have it before he could get his license back. No 578 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: surprise at all. 579 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 2: At least he's predictable. Predictively a fucking train wreck, but predictable. 580 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: Yes, As someone who used to have my own insurance 581 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: sales license, I told her, no, you can't get insurance 582 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: if your license is suspended or evoked, at least not 583 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 1: in our stake. He would have to get his license valid, 584 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: then get his insurance mandated with the SR twenty two reporting. 585 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: She herself ended up on probation for her driving issues 586 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: related to him, with a six month suspension and seven 587 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars in fines, and that was a 588 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: lucky break from the judge. In all honesty, she too 589 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 1: will have to get the SR twenty two once her 590 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: suspension is over. Afterwards, while I stopped at the store 591 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: to get stuff for supper, reckitt Ralph kept calling and 592 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: demanding that she come back, despite plans to have supper 593 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: with her that evening, she ultimately gave into the relentless 594 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: calls and asked her dad to take her back before 595 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: I could cook. I did verify that yes, she does 596 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: have an IUD to prevent pegnancies for those who were inquiring. 597 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: She was very unhappy with her situation and beginning to 598 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: see him for what he is and how in the 599 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 1: year they've been together, he has just brought her down. However, 600 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: she's not quite at the point of leaving him, but hopefully, 601 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: with any luck, she'll be calling to come home soon. 602 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: She knows that she has a place here with us, 603 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 1: but he does not. And op responded to one final comment, 604 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: despite everything you told her, she still isn't at the 605 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,919 Speaker 1: leaving him point, genuinely curious. What would he have to 606 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,920 Speaker 1: do for her to be at the leaving him point. 607 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 1: That is a great question, Opie, I don't know. The 608 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 1: fact is she is considering it as a move in 609 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: the right direction, and we are being supportive without giving 610 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 1: any money or enabling the situation in any capacity. The 611 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: fact that she now has a misdemeanor from driving as 612 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: a result of his actions really weighed on her. I 613 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 1: told her, without mentioning it to him. It wasn't the 614 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: end of the world, but that it was meant to 615 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: be a learning point, and she got to reflect upon 616 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 1: how and why she had gotten into the situation, as 617 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: well as how to move forward from here. She was 618 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 1: recept So there seems to be hope. 619 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 2: There's light at the end end of this tunnel that 620 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 2: is quickly crashing down because wrecket Ralph is going into 621 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,479 Speaker 2: either side of that tunnel, exploding his car and having 622 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 2: the rubble of the tunnel collapse, and then the structural 623 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 2: integrity is gone. You have to have like an architect 624 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 2: come in like survey. It's like, hey, you know this 625 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,160 Speaker 2: needs like reinforced deel beam. Yeah, it's a shit show. 626 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: I have to admit, like I am impressed like this. 627 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 1: This man is a one man Marvel movie, you know, 628 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 1: where they just just destroy the town into smith eens 629 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: like every time, like he is that guy. 630 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 2: Except instead of like the Marvel movie being like the 631 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 2: heroes save the day and they don't like just talk 632 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 2: about the one hundred thousand people that just died and 633 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 2: the trillions of dollars of damage that were done, we 634 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 2: are actually seeing and talking about all the damage that 635 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 2: is done in this Marvel movie. I actually want to 636 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 2: see a Marvel movie where it just focuses on the dude. 637 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 2: That is just like my Stot's Done. 638 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,239 Speaker 1: Guy, if you ever saw it was kind of about that, 639 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: which was a decent movie, but yeah, truly a movie 640 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 1: about the bystander who just has his off is destroyed. 641 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: And like, I desperately want to see that. 642 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 2: But Goopieros trying to day of the day. But I 643 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 2: just want to sell my pies. 644 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: Okay, speaking of destroying, I have one question for everyone 645 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: watching and for you, Sam. Do you think that op 646 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: should continue to basically keep her daughter cut off while 647 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: she is still with. 648 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 2: Wreckort Ralph h No, I mean, like, I mean you 649 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 2: should still be supportive in some way, maybe not financially, 650 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 2: but because you don't want to enable her making this 651 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 2: bad decision consistently all. You also don't want her to 652 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 2: feel like she's completely isolated, so like if something bad 653 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 2: does happen, like she can still come to you, come. 654 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: Back, right. 655 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's dude, it's like it's tough. It's tough. 656 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 2: They've done so much though too, you know, yeah. 657 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: They've done a lot. I'm actually curious if anyone watching 658 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: has their own story of a reck at ralph that's 659 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: wrecked like. 660 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 2: There, Yeah, who is your worst recket ralph? A significant 661 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 2: other put it in the comments. 662 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 1: I think we have a place for them to send 663 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:00,239 Speaker 1: those stories to a as well. 664 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 2: Sam, Oh yeah, if you want to call us, call 665 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 2: us at four four zero five zero eight six five 666 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 2: six seven and we might read it on the show. 667 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 2: We actually have just released our first voicemail call and 668 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: as of recording this and people kind of are loving 669 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 2: it so far, so we're probably gona any more. Could 670 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 2: be you, could be you, And with that we'll get 671 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 2: into the next story.