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<v Speaker 1>He laugh. If you watch Coffee Time, the baby you

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<v Speaker 1>know the name flame, my role also known as my

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<v Speaker 1>role Flame. Come in with last and come in with

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<v Speaker 1>don love Lunds. Baby, you better catch it when you

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<v Speaker 1>can't drop a knowledge from Fatherhood of politics shouting now

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<v Speaker 1>comics just paying homics. What's up? Tip? Yeah you know

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<v Speaker 1>she raped shot towns On speaking to the grown a second.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna last cut of the kicking and at the

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<v Speaker 1>end we leave it, which is a lift dis favorite

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to revisit, so your first like a listen,

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<v Speaker 1>young folks like it's lip all folks that we dig it.

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<v Speaker 1>No do what you do? Nokis do what you do?

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<v Speaker 1>No kids do what I do? No kid. Hey, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh and learn. I am your host, a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>co host, the one and only. Who is this Lauren

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<v Speaker 1>Hogan looking lovely today? Hello, every Indian Ish? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating Halloween as an indigenous woman? I'm actually indigenous? Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's like that's part of my so that that coming

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<v Speaker 1>out y'all can't see. Got the center part in her

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<v Speaker 1>head to the side. She looks very Poka hunt is Keisha?

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<v Speaker 1>So polka Keisha. Yes, that's my other traits coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my background. So that's what you're getting today. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's no makeup. What's today, Wednesday, Tuesday, Tuesday, whatever it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the day is Tuesday. It's the week of Thanksgiving. Loranjgan.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready for the holiday? You got your turkey stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't eat turkey. Look, you don't eat

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<v Speaker 1>I do not eat turkey. I had a bad experience

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<v Speaker 1>as a child, and I do not eat turkey. Turkey

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<v Speaker 1>Turkey is really good. I don't like the texture. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't get with it. And I think I had turkey

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<v Speaker 1>one year at Marie Calendars because like my dad was

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<v Speaker 1>always in the fire station, so we would always go

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<v Speaker 1>to the fire station to celebrate Thanksgiving. I had some

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<v Speaker 1>Marie Calendars turkey. I think he was a fried turkey

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<v Speaker 1>and I was so sick. So it ain't for me.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't have you didn't experience the real turkey with

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<v Speaker 1>the black people with dressing, because you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>right if because you know, I left to go on

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<v Speaker 1>vacation and left my kids, but I ordered them dinner

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<v Speaker 1>from Vaughns and my son is a huge dressing fanatic.

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<v Speaker 1>But the dinner from Barns come with a turkey, mastrotatus,

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<v Speaker 1>corn and stuffing. He said, it's this dressing. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not, it is white folks, because black folks make dressing. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. I just had a bad experience

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't been able to come back. I get

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<v Speaker 1>PTSD every time I see a turkey. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll be frying chicken in my house for Thanksgiving. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what we do. Yes, well, Happy Thanksgiving to all the

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<v Speaker 1>flame man's and everyone out there in my heart Black

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<v Speaker 1>Effect network land because this is Thanksgiving week. Save travels

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you're going. But let's get it cracking back and

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<v Speaker 1>attacking on where we're going because you're taking the lead.

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<v Speaker 1>You you the top today I'm the bottom. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that with the day that I had, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know have the energy to do that. Wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding. Get your straps to you the top. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>where we're going on? I think we should start off with, um,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the unfortunate events that have happened in the news,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we can kind of shift to some of

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<v Speaker 1>the funny and then get into politics. UM. But first

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<v Speaker 1>and foremost, UM, we wanted to talk about Colorado Springs

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<v Speaker 1>and send all of our prayers and condolences out to

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<v Speaker 1>those that lost their lives. Um, those family members, those

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<v Speaker 1>that are injured and are currently still in the hospital. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just another act of senseless violence and proof that

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<v Speaker 1>we need more restrictive gun laws in this country and

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<v Speaker 1>that um, you know, level of violence and the hatred

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<v Speaker 1>that has just kind of erupted. I think over these

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<v Speaker 1>past what six years now, it's just it's continuing to

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<v Speaker 1>be at all time high and it's just unnecessary. So, UM, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you. Going to pray us to all

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<v Speaker 1>involved in prayers to not only the victims and the

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<v Speaker 1>people of the family, but to the heroes that the

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<v Speaker 1>stands to stand up and take the time to fight back.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes that's what we have to do. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this on my coffee time the other morning,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I bet you the person that fallback was

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<v Speaker 1>either a drag queen or a trans woman, because baby,

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<v Speaker 1>we do not man using the aggression and fighting back.

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<v Speaker 1>They said. The queen stumped at y'all all, in his face,

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<v Speaker 1>in his head. He couldn't even go to court the

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<v Speaker 1>next day. He was so damaged and I love that

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<v Speaker 1>the man who was an ex military said he went

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<v Speaker 1>into ex combat mode. I'm not agreeing with that. He

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<v Speaker 1>went into daddy mode. His daughter had gotten shot. That

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<v Speaker 1>was me. If your your dad, Lauren, he may have

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<v Speaker 1>been an ex military, but when you see your child,

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<v Speaker 1>you go into daddy mode. I hate that that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and I believe that when all of dust clears and

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<v Speaker 1>the smoke settles, the killer is probably something self loathing

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<v Speaker 1>homosexual who couldn't deal with how he felt. He was

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<v Speaker 1>very he was not. I'm not gonna say he was

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<v Speaker 1>unattractive in the face, but his body was unattractive as

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<v Speaker 1>far as what beauty morphea goes. He wasn't the prettiest

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<v Speaker 1>to look at, and he probably just hated who he

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<v Speaker 1>was and couldn't deal with it. But I fought law enforcement, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>because a year ago this fool said he was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>blow up his own mama. They got it all on

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<v Speaker 1>tape and everything, and then y'all allow him to get

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<v Speaker 1>a weapon talking about it wasn't on paper, but Loring,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a black person in this country. If I went

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<v Speaker 1>to go get an a R fifteen and I had

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<v Speaker 1>a clean wrecking me. Aaron Do producer who's on here,

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<v Speaker 1>was just talking about that girl. They would give me

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<v Speaker 1>every hiccup and and railroad and go through the back

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<v Speaker 1>door and count the marbles in the job they could.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you know things ain't change. They need to

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<v Speaker 1>charge all the people in lawenforce because there there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way this could have been avoided. And I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>also interesting too. I'm gonna just draw comparison. So this

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<v Speaker 1>happened now almost two days ago. We still have yet

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<v Speaker 1>to see a photo of this gunman. We haven't somebody

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<v Speaker 1>if it was somebody black and brown, splatted all over

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<v Speaker 1>the news. Well that's what I'm saying, because just the

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<v Speaker 1>previous week, you know, there was a young black man

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<v Speaker 1>that did you know, kill three young students at the

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<v Speaker 1>University of Virginia, I believe um, and his face was

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<v Speaker 1>plastered all over the news as soon as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>the rest was made, it was plastered all over the news.

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<v Speaker 1>And we still have vant to see what this individual

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<v Speaker 1>looks like. And it's been forty eight hours. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just always interesting, you know what the narrative is, how

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how things come out when it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>us versus um and the killer is he's the nephew

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<v Speaker 1>of a California is it a congressman or a statesman

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<v Speaker 1>and something. He's a nephew of somebody. Yeah, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't think of the name. But he's a nephew

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<v Speaker 1>of one of the of sitting congressman too. Well, that

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<v Speaker 1>might really be why we haven't seen his face yet

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<v Speaker 1>because apparent apparently he changed his name and then they're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to say that that's part of the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>they couldn't figure out who he really was and the

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<v Speaker 1>previous threat because he changed his name. It's just the

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand all of the we have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you the story and give you this background. Bottom line

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<v Speaker 1>is he shot and he killed five people and he

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<v Speaker 1>injured almost thirty. So I don't understand what we need

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<v Speaker 1>all this narrative for the facts, for the facts. So

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<v Speaker 1>I hope they definitely taught him with a hey, cra

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm telling you long we've been talking. We did

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<v Speaker 1>a whole episode on this. Y'all. Keep giving cowards guns.

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<v Speaker 1>Guns don't mix. The corilege is not to pull the trigger,

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<v Speaker 1>and the courage is to not pull the trigger because

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting the gun to kill people. You're getting

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<v Speaker 1>the gun to make sure nobody hurts you. But people

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<v Speaker 1>keep getting guns for the wrong reasons. Yeah, you're absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 1>So and I also saw the interview that um, this

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<v Speaker 1>young black gentleman did and was talking about just how

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<v Speaker 1>what the atmosphere was and what Club Q represented to

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<v Speaker 1>the community. It was really a safe space for the

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<v Speaker 1>l g bt Q community in Colorado Springs. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was just heartbroken and just was saying that we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a space like this was our space and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just been you know, ruined. So and it was so tragic, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was the night before the Transgender Day of Remembrance.

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<v Speaker 1>And but I love that the trans started with Marsha

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<v Speaker 1>and Marsha P. Johnson was the blueprint for being the

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<v Speaker 1>queen that's gonna take it down. Amen to Marsha P. Johnson.

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<v Speaker 1>Makes you rest in peace because this is the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing that they're going to understand that we don't stand

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<v Speaker 1>up and fight back, they're gonna continue to bulldose us.

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<v Speaker 1>I will not be bulldozed. I'm glad that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to work in the space of working in clubs

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<v Speaker 1>like that. But you never not where it's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I did dragon shows for a living. I never thought

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<v Speaker 1>about nobody coming in shooting out the place. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>too busy trying to entertain and make money. It is,

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<v Speaker 1>it is, But it's hate and rage from social media

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<v Speaker 1>platforms Twitter and and stuff like that, and people pushing

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<v Speaker 1>crazy narratives. But I'm dying to know the if we

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<v Speaker 1>ever know, because like you said, we ain't even see

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<v Speaker 1>his face, if we ever know the reason of why

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<v Speaker 1>and and and how and what? What? What was your reasoning?

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<v Speaker 1>Because nothing that has ever come out ridiculous. And then

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<v Speaker 1>another another it's exhausting. Oh yeah, and another um situation

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<v Speaker 1>that we wanted to extend our condolences to is Um

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<v Speaker 1>Sinquala Robinson. I'm happy to see that more details are

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<v Speaker 1>starting to come out about her case, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>initially they just tried to say that she died from

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<v Speaker 1>alcohol poisoning. There's a video of her being beaten up

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<v Speaker 1>by two of her so called friends. That's another reason

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<v Speaker 1>why you gotta be careful with that video setting set

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<v Speaker 1>on my spirit. Louren and just I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>through the damn phone, like I was so angry I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know none of these people, but I want everybody charged.

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<v Speaker 1>And like they did was with McBee, with the mcbabe,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy who videotape, they charged his ass to whoever.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy who was videotaping, that should be charged, the

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<v Speaker 1>girls that was involved, and they should all be charged

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<v Speaker 1>it is. And then they made the whole clickbait like

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<v Speaker 1>it was a trans woman. It was a whole man.

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<v Speaker 1>They are distracting from what really happened. But when I

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<v Speaker 1>saw the father's video, the breakdown of him his daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>as a dad who has daughters, I went right there

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<v Speaker 1>to the pain where he was at, like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I can only imagine and I don't want to imagine

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<v Speaker 1>that it was. It was disheartening. Lord. And and these

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<v Speaker 1>people here, so called friends, and supposedly from what I

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<v Speaker 1>ran somewhere, she paid for all of them to come.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of rage and jealousy and hate and bitterness

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<v Speaker 1>is that? I couldn't even tell you. But that's why

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be careful about who you call your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta be more careful about who you travel internationally with.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm. You can't trust everybody, And honestly, I just

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<v Speaker 1>can't imagine the fact of going on a trip feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like you're comfortable to have a good time and you

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<v Speaker 1>get jumped while intoxicated and ultimately beaten to death. I

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine. I can't imagine that at all. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Tims reported that when the doctor showed up, she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't deed. When the doctor three hours and she did,

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<v Speaker 1>that is just suffrage and pain. And I learned. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling I'm every time you think you can't hear anything

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<v Speaker 1>that would shock you more, you always shoot something that

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<v Speaker 1>shocks you more. You just out to be careful who

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<v Speaker 1>you hang around and who you keep in your space.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody ain't your friend, and more people are jealous of

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<v Speaker 1>you than you realize. I will definitely say that. So

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<v Speaker 1>I really hope that everybody involved is charged and put

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<v Speaker 1>behind bars, and I hope that they continue to investigate

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<v Speaker 1>the situation and actually, um the truth prevails and those

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<v Speaker 1>that harm to this girl are just locked up. And

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<v Speaker 1>I hope they put it in a foreign prieston because

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<v Speaker 1>foreign prisons ain't like American priestons. I hope they don't

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<v Speaker 1>want them. Dirty, dark dungeon, deep doge written rent roading

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<v Speaker 1>and look at me I'm just oh, just grammy, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the worst of the worst, because it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>just it's hardening to think that y'all went all the

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<v Speaker 1>way over there to do something like this to somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who y'all considered a friend. And y'all, what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>drugs was y'all know, I'm starting to think that everybody

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<v Speaker 1>that was involved was on something comes kind of drug

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I don't even know if it's drugs. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>hout to Jealousy is a hell of a drug. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me just say that. So I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>circumstances were, but that's just a lot of rage and

0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:10.000
<v Speaker 1>hate and jealousy to be in your spirit to do

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<v Speaker 1>that to somebody. That's all I'm saying. It is it

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<v Speaker 1>is who that hurt, and that hurt and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then it's us. It was it was us. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I say that's something about black folks, it was us. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>doing it to us. And I do want to say

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<v Speaker 1>a big shout out to Kyrie Irving. He donated sixty

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<v Speaker 1>dollars to her go fund me to make so he

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<v Speaker 1>really he helped her family like significantly. You know, despite

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<v Speaker 1>all of the craziness, you know and ridiculousness. I will

0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:45.000
<v Speaker 1>say that he has going on unnecessarily. Once again, he's

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<v Speaker 1>showing the fact that he's a humanitarian at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, so special shout out to him for

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<v Speaker 1>helping out that family and donated so much money. I love.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that about Carrie Irving. I hate to wrap

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<v Speaker 1>that he got and I love that he had stood

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<v Speaker 1>in his conviction and cut the cords because cutting them

0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:00.439
<v Speaker 1>cords will set you free anybody, also for you from

0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:03.000
<v Speaker 1>some jobs, and don't I know that firsthand, But cutting

0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:06.440
<v Speaker 1>the chords will make you feel good about you. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and if we're gonna talk about him a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more, UM, I was so happy to see

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<v Speaker 1>all of his Black Hebrew brethren outside of Our Place

0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Center supporting him in the ice cold weather of New

0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:20.320
<v Speaker 1>York City on his return to UM his first Nets

0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:23.480
<v Speaker 1>game since his suspension. So I love to see that

0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:27.320
<v Speaker 1>he's getting support too, because he deserves it. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>if we could just get rid of this great divad

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<v Speaker 1>and be together as one, we could be such a

0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.920
<v Speaker 1>strong group of people. But good God, they bank on

0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.840
<v Speaker 1>us being separate away from each other, and and what

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<v Speaker 1>is it thiscombobulated with this the color black and that

0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.520
<v Speaker 1>color black and this kind of black and that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of black, and oh my god, Jesus, I'm a black

0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.000
<v Speaker 1>Berrick And I was telling Aaron that I am. And

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, Aaron sent me a video. Aaron is

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<v Speaker 1>that producing who We're gonna make a part of the

0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:59.600
<v Speaker 1>show because he's exceptionally intelligent, But he sent me a

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<v Speaker 1>video about how we should cancel Thanksgiving and I just

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<v Speaker 1>was explained to him, as a black American that was

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<v Speaker 1>born in the United States, culturally, that's what we would

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<v Speaker 1>talking to the stuff that we know. We were raised

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<v Speaker 1>up on that, so that is what we know. Traditionally,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nobody around from the sixteen seventeen hundreds to tell

0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.960
<v Speaker 1>us what we were before they brought us over here

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<v Speaker 1>in chains or how we you know, what we would do.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know there are some authorities on it, but

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<v Speaker 1>they not They weren't around me, and hopefully they got

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<v Speaker 1>it right. But that's what we know. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to discredit that it might be right or wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>But as born in America, raised in America, and raised

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<v Speaker 1>with those Fourth of July and Thanksgiving and create that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we know, because that's the Americans that we are.

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<v Speaker 1>If that makes well well for um. For me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna just say I ain't celebrated Fourth July, like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>when I was younger, Like I think your parents want

0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:55.880
<v Speaker 1>you to get into like the festive things around it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would say probably by the time I turned

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<v Speaker 1>like thirteen, Like my mom was like, Okay, that was

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<v Speaker 1>cute when you was like little, but we're not doing

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<v Speaker 1>that no more. Same thing my mom told me Santa

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<v Speaker 1>Claus wasn't real when I was five, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. So my mom was that ball buster for

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<v Speaker 1>lack of a better word, like, and she gave us

0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.600
<v Speaker 1>the truth, you know what I mean. And even with Thanksgiving,

0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.800
<v Speaker 1>we never celebrated things giving. We just got a really

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<v Speaker 1>good meal. But she always explained the fact of how

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<v Speaker 1>what really happened, because you know, my ancestors are Native American,

0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:29.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So she explained how the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that this wasn't a feast, that it was you know,

0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:36.000
<v Speaker 1>rape pillage, and that these white folks brought you know,

0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:39.320
<v Speaker 1>disease and killed us, killed you know, your ancestors at

0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:41.360
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, but tried to act like

0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:44.120
<v Speaker 1>it was a festive celebration, and that's not what it was.

0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:47.360
<v Speaker 1>So I think that's when we kind of go back to,

0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:49.400
<v Speaker 1>like when we talk about, you know, your riots and

0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.280
<v Speaker 1>things like that, because you need people to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what your past and history is. So my

0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:57.800
<v Speaker 1>mom was kind of that for me, and my dad

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<v Speaker 1>always just kind of co signed it and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gave me more of the raw and cut version of

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<v Speaker 1>what my mom was saying. Anyway, So they were very

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<v Speaker 1>honest with me, I think at a young age, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of the reason why, you know, my mouth

0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:12.280
<v Speaker 1>is a little more kurt these days anyway. But she

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<v Speaker 1>explained that to me, you know, so she always basically

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<v Speaker 1>debunked what I might have learned in school or the

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<v Speaker 1>Western European version of Valerie. My mama didn't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that Sunding War real. But my stepdaddy dressed up at

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<v Speaker 1>Santa when I was seven years old, and I caught

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<v Speaker 1>him and my mom in the kitchen in the living

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<v Speaker 1>room and they they wasn't wrapping pressures. Santa was still

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<v Speaker 1>they hit you get busy. I said, that's saying I

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<v Speaker 1>ate the same Santa every bringing me gift. Listen, Dowery

0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:40.840
<v Speaker 1>was trying to make sure you got some good gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>You better go back and thank her. She's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you had good gift. She went the extra mile.

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<v Speaker 1>Is doing it to my mama. This is laughing. They

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<v Speaker 1>laugh with us. So in the in the Current News,

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren Hogan yesterday, apparently allegedly Mr August Elsina said he

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<v Speaker 1>found love that he wasn't even expecting or looking for,

0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:14.440
<v Speaker 1>and he invited his new love to come and sit

0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:16.960
<v Speaker 1>with him on the on the on the stage, and

0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:21.800
<v Speaker 1>his new love was the guy. Oh okay, that's what

0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I said, lawing everybody up. And I was like, I'm like, okay,

0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm like, I'm like, maybe he trying something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is love and if you know, that's where you

0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:33.040
<v Speaker 1>found love, because I think he's been through a lot

0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:35.280
<v Speaker 1>of trauma in his life. So wherever he finds love,

0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:40.240
<v Speaker 1>piece of blessings to him. For sure, he's been through

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<v Speaker 1>a lot in his life. So if you found loving

0:18:43.040 --> 0:18:46.200
<v Speaker 1>a man, we are happy for you. August. Be happy

0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:53.480
<v Speaker 1>to be married, Be joyful, be fruitful, and multiplayer damn

0:18:53.720 --> 0:18:58.720
<v Speaker 1>might not be in the multiplayer, um, But I want

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<v Speaker 1>to switch back to the topic of injustice. A little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So yesterday Um Todd and his wife Julie Cristle were sentenced. Well,

0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:10.679
<v Speaker 1>tyd was sentenced to twelve years in prison. Julia was

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<v Speaker 1>sentenced to seven for whatever part they played in their

0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:21.240
<v Speaker 1>bank and wired fraud scheme. Um, I think that the

0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:24.600
<v Speaker 1>sentence is a bit excessant, and I find it interesting

0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:27.399
<v Speaker 1>that that's what they got. But um, what do you think? Well?

0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that well, so allegedly the story is the

0:19:31.119 --> 0:19:34.879
<v Speaker 1>reason they got caught was because Ty Christy supposed his

0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:38.080
<v Speaker 1>business partner and him and him had some kind of

0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:39.879
<v Speaker 1>gay love affair on the load, that is what the

0:19:39.880 --> 0:19:44.119
<v Speaker 1>tabloids are reporting, and something went south and the boyfriend

0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:49.000
<v Speaker 1>was a scorn partner and told the dirt. Now I

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<v Speaker 1>hope the wife was involved in and she was just

0:19:51.000 --> 0:19:52.840
<v Speaker 1>part of it. But she's doing seven years and the

0:19:52.880 --> 0:19:57.320
<v Speaker 1>women's penitentiary. But she damned she pretty straight. Ty Chrisley

0:19:57.520 --> 0:20:00.320
<v Speaker 1>is suspect always. He might Christly know it has been,

0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:02.760
<v Speaker 1>but Christie about to know penis because baby, they sent

0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:07.600
<v Speaker 1>him to a man spen intentiary twelve years. It might

0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:09.600
<v Speaker 1>not be twelve years of slave, but he might be

0:20:09.640 --> 0:20:11.800
<v Speaker 1>twelve years of made good. God, they're gonna have their

0:20:11.840 --> 0:20:15.160
<v Speaker 1>wait with you tired, Christie. Well, I think he's going

0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:18.800
<v Speaker 1>to a federal prison, so I'm hoping, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>to me, I thought he was reckless with some of

0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:23.359
<v Speaker 1>the things that they posted that he was supposedly doing,

0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:25.480
<v Speaker 1>like flammed to l A every two weeks just to

0:20:25.560 --> 0:20:28.199
<v Speaker 1>get a hair cut and something, you know, on on

0:20:28.240 --> 0:20:31.439
<v Speaker 1>somebody else's money. Some things you almost look like you

0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:33.320
<v Speaker 1>don't want to get caught, but you're asking to be

0:20:33.359 --> 0:20:37.320
<v Speaker 1>caught because you just do a ridiculous ship, right. But

0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:39.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, we don't know the real truth because

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<v Speaker 1>I know that their defense was whoever this the person was,

0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:45.080
<v Speaker 1>their ex business partner, had a lot of shady dealings

0:20:45.720 --> 0:20:48.359
<v Speaker 1>and um, it wasn't their fault, That's what they were saying.

0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:52.520
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what the actual story is. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just more so sad for their kids one and also

0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:58.360
<v Speaker 1>to for that beautiful grand baby that they haven't they've

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<v Speaker 1>been raising, because what gonna happen to her now, you

0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:04.240
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? So, and I just think it's

0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:06.800
<v Speaker 1>interesting because he's I think between the two of them,

0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:09.560
<v Speaker 1>they've been real advocates for the black community. Considering that

0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:11.119
<v Speaker 1>they have a daughter because they were getting a lot

0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:14.399
<v Speaker 1>of backlash and hate speech from other people for having it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a black granddaughter, and he was supporting her.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw his interview that he did with tamer Hall

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<v Speaker 1>what and was talking about how he doesn't allow that

0:21:23.800 --> 0:21:26.399
<v Speaker 1>for for people to come for his you know, his granddaughter.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just interesting that, you know, despite their transgressions,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's still it wasn't enough, all the good

0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:40.199
<v Speaker 1>that they've done wasn't enough to either give them a

0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:44.000
<v Speaker 1>little sentence or you know, keep them out of jail.

0:21:43.359 --> 0:21:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Of picks and chooses who they want to arrest for

0:21:46.400 --> 0:21:49.920
<v Speaker 1>tax of asion, because sure, j for all those years

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:53.360
<v Speaker 1>for tax of asient, Donald Trump has been caught reinhanded

0:21:53.440 --> 0:21:56.480
<v Speaker 1>without paying texts y'all A did nothing, but y'all he's

0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:59.760
<v Speaker 1>still y'all. Stewart to jail, she came out, became more

0:21:59.840 --> 0:22:04.720
<v Speaker 1>of a mobile. It is. It is who sketchy to

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<v Speaker 1>say the least, because how long did Mark Stewart go

0:22:08.119 --> 0:22:10.800
<v Speaker 1>to She was in there for like maybe three months,

0:22:10.880 --> 0:22:14.439
<v Speaker 1>four months like that. And I guess that's maybe what

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<v Speaker 1>I was expecting for them to to get twelve years,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's a lot. I wondered, does it depend on

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<v Speaker 1>how they like you or not or how you you know, Well,

0:22:26.440 --> 0:22:30.080
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying, is like they're being outspoken, you

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<v Speaker 1>know about you know, supporting the black community and all

0:22:33.480 --> 0:22:36.480
<v Speaker 1>of that. Did that working against them? And I like

0:22:36.640 --> 0:22:39.280
<v Speaker 1>that show. I really did. Like Christie knows best. I

0:22:39.400 --> 0:22:42.919
<v Speaker 1>didn't know. I'm still watching shooting. Nanny Kaye was my

0:22:42.960 --> 0:22:46.280
<v Speaker 1>favorite character. She was either drunk, wanted to get drunk,

0:22:46.400 --> 0:22:48.639
<v Speaker 1>or you know, she was talking about her little sexual inuit.

0:22:50.359 --> 0:22:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Am I trying to get a free calm? She surely was.

0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:56.879
<v Speaker 1>She was calling herself a prostitute, but couldn't say the

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<v Speaker 1>words right. I love Nanny Fay. So I'm just sad that,

0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:03.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, their family has been affected by this, because

0:23:03.200 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I hope it doesn't affect their other assets and then

0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:08.520
<v Speaker 1>the kids can't support themselves. Like there's there's always a

0:23:08.600 --> 0:23:11.080
<v Speaker 1>ripple effect. Everybody gonna have to get a job. Everybody's

0:23:11.080 --> 0:23:13.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna be working at chick They looked like Chick fil

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<v Speaker 1>A workers all the period. They look like blond allbody

0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 1>who work at Chickfilate with blonde and white is so racy.

0:23:21.760 --> 0:23:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I love Chick fil A for the record, I still

0:23:24.200 --> 0:23:26.720
<v Speaker 1>they got the best prize and they have the best

0:23:26.800 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 1>chicken sandwiches. So when people be times down, oh, they

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:31.000
<v Speaker 1>don't mess with the gays. I've never been to not

0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:33.280
<v Speaker 1>one Chick fil A and the person who comes to

0:23:33.280 --> 0:23:35.439
<v Speaker 1>the register is as gay as Peter Pan and some

0:23:35.480 --> 0:23:39.280
<v Speaker 1>Ice Gates and some Wayne's. Good God, listen, people said

0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:40.920
<v Speaker 1>that all the time. You know that the sea doesn't

0:23:40.920 --> 0:23:43.800
<v Speaker 1>support the gay people, the gay community, and I go,

0:23:44.520 --> 0:23:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I go to the Chick fil A's that are standalones

0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:50.320
<v Speaker 1>that certain people ownt so that that that's my excuse.

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:54.159
<v Speaker 1>I love Chick fil A. But um, saying all that

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<v Speaker 1>to say prayers to their family, I hope that, um,

0:23:58.240 --> 0:24:00.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, they're able to rebuild after this. Like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>it might be a market Stewart situation when they come

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:05.760
<v Speaker 1>out there even more famous than before. But I'm so

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:08.160
<v Speaker 1>sorry that their families are being torn apart right before

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:10.680
<v Speaker 1>the holidays. It's just so sad. They said they're gonna

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:15.600
<v Speaker 1>get their time, Lord, and you're gonna let them. Yes

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:20.879
<v Speaker 1>they did. They said they are going to get their time. Yeah,

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:28.840
<v Speaker 1>So it's just so unfortunate. But officially switched the politics.

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:32.520
<v Speaker 1>Elon Musk, who has a quiet Twitter has allowed Marjorie

0:24:32.520 --> 0:24:36.639
<v Speaker 1>Taylor Green, Donald Trump, and Kanye West all to be

0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 1>come back on Twitter. Now. Donald Trump said he wasn't

0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.760
<v Speaker 1>coming back home unless he gets some kind of big players.

0:24:42.040 --> 0:24:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Now you know that's the script anyway. But Marjorie Chayler

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Green is on and on the rampage and talking about

0:24:47.880 --> 0:24:50.680
<v Speaker 1>what she is looking for freedom of speech and woo

0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>woo woo. It's just you know what. And Kanye West

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:58.360
<v Speaker 1>said he was running for president. Uh, don't rougher president

0:24:58.400 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 1>player rough an institution of the help. Yeah. Well, first

0:25:05.040 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>and foremost, I think Twitter as a whole is interesting.

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:12.159
<v Speaker 1>Now I think Elon Musk has ruined it. Um. You know,

0:25:12.160 --> 0:25:14.680
<v Speaker 1>they had a great resignation at the top of this week.

0:25:14.720 --> 0:25:19.040
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people just resigned because they just didn't appreciate,

0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:21.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, the new rules and regulations that he was

0:25:21.440 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 1>putting in place. And his response to it is we're

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:28.440
<v Speaker 1>still trending. His Twitter ended up being a trending topic

0:25:28.480 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 1>of all these employees resigning, and he made it seem

0:25:31.359 --> 0:25:33.000
<v Speaker 1>like it was this great thing because they were just

0:25:33.040 --> 0:25:35.720
<v Speaker 1>a trending topic. So and in addition to that, the

0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:38.639
<v Speaker 1>N word has been um. The usage of it on

0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:42.800
<v Speaker 1>the platform was up. So everybody that wanted to say

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:46.919
<v Speaker 1>it before and couldn't because Jack Dorsey was CEO is

0:25:46.960 --> 0:25:51.160
<v Speaker 1>now exercising their right to be racist on full display

0:25:51.200 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 1>and in public. So yeah, fool voice. I don't know.

0:25:57.040 --> 0:25:59.080
<v Speaker 1>I was only on Twitter for one reason and one

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>reason only, but for the point a lot now because

0:26:07.720 --> 0:26:10.120
<v Speaker 1>of all the different rules. Right with the point, they're

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:12.639
<v Speaker 1>taking a point to some other site because the rules

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:15.240
<v Speaker 1>have changed. But I saw the elon must they said

0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:18.439
<v Speaker 1>proposed he lost a hundred billion dollars this year because

0:26:18.440 --> 0:26:22.080
<v Speaker 1>of his Tesla sales. His stock has went down or

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 1>something because it's too many extra career. Yeah, he his

0:26:28.119 --> 0:26:31.959
<v Speaker 1>UM former employees. UM basically developed a lawsuit against him.

0:26:31.960 --> 0:26:33.440
<v Speaker 1>He was in court last week about it too. I

0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:35.240
<v Speaker 1>don't know what if there was any official ruling or

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:37.960
<v Speaker 1>movement on the case, but he's got quite a few

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:43.359
<v Speaker 1>lossuits against him from former employees. So yeah, Jesus, Loan Hogan,

0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:45.719
<v Speaker 1>what we what else gonna do? Lord? What us gonna do?

0:26:45.800 --> 0:26:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Lauren Hogan, I don't know. I'm at this point. I

0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>just feel like it's safe for me just to stay

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:55.320
<v Speaker 1>in my house. That's all I'm starting to feel with

0:26:55.359 --> 0:26:57.879
<v Speaker 1>all of the hatred and the violence and just the

0:26:57.960 --> 0:27:01.000
<v Speaker 1>ankst and anxiety that's out in the world. I want

0:27:01.040 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 1>to be in my own space, with my own energy.

0:27:02.920 --> 0:27:05.879
<v Speaker 1>You worked for that pretty big organization that's involved with

0:27:05.880 --> 0:27:09.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot of LGBT issues. Have you noticed anything anything

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 1>different in the office workplace when you go into the office,

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:13.520
<v Speaker 1>because I know you work from home a lot, but

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:15.879
<v Speaker 1>when you go into the office, have you is the

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:20.919
<v Speaker 1>temperament different? Have you have you noticed anything different? I

0:27:20.960 --> 0:27:26.120
<v Speaker 1>think everybody's anxiety is a little heightened. Um. I personally

0:27:26.119 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>don't like going into the office because it brings my

0:27:28.840 --> 0:27:32.200
<v Speaker 1>anxiety up. It feels like, um, a lot of people

0:27:32.440 --> 0:27:35.000
<v Speaker 1>are just kind of at me. But that's kind of

0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 1>like my own thing. But at times like this, especially

0:27:38.320 --> 0:27:40.680
<v Speaker 1>like it's always just somber, like people are just sad,

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:43.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, on the brink of another shooting happening, you know,

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:47.080
<v Speaker 1>against LGBTQ community, because a lot of people in my

0:27:47.119 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 1>office are from that community, you know, So it's sadness.

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:53.879
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's very melancholy, like you can feel the

0:27:53.920 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 1>mood shift and change. Um, So it's just hard like that.

0:27:57.880 --> 0:27:59.679
<v Speaker 1>I was in office today and the mood was just

0:27:59.760 --> 0:28:02.919
<v Speaker 1>it was you know what I mean, My fear of

0:28:03.160 --> 0:28:07.359
<v Speaker 1>what happened in Colorado Springs, that club q UM Colorado,

0:28:07.359 --> 0:28:11.119
<v Speaker 1>Claro Springs, Colorado, is that the domino effect, the copy

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 1>kept back. So once person saw there, I was like, oh,

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:17.280
<v Speaker 1>now I'm going to do it. I have so many sisters, gay,

0:28:17.320 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 1>trans men and trans women, sisters that work in gay clubs,

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:24.920
<v Speaker 1>doing drag shows or bartenders or have you. They don't

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 1>go into work on high alert thinking that's gonna happen.

0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:30.560
<v Speaker 1>But now the fear might be that this is what's

0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:33.000
<v Speaker 1>going to happen, so they might lose that job because

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 1>they're afraid to go to work. That is how Nancy Pelosi.

0:28:35.800 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I believe they scared Nancy Pelosi because they tried to

0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 1>kill this woman, which is why she stepped down and

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:42.680
<v Speaker 1>speak early house. I think the fear that they and

0:28:42.760 --> 0:28:46.120
<v Speaker 1>still fear in you by doing something crazy and then

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:51.600
<v Speaker 1>it works. Well, not just that, you know, they're also

0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:54.120
<v Speaker 1>being attacked from a political standpoint, because you know, some

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 1>congressmen were trying to get drag shows banned, you know

0:28:57.680 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I know we talked about that, I

0:28:59.480 --> 0:29:01.600
<v Speaker 1>think early or in the season, but the topic has

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 1>like come back around, especially since the Republicans have officially

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 1>taken over the House again. So it's too basically to

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 1>have a certain you know community, like, you know, black folks,

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>we've been under attack since the the founding of America,

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:18.840
<v Speaker 1>but you know, to be continually targeted, not only by

0:29:18.840 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 1>the crazy people, but then incited said hate that you

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 1>have in your heart is incited on a political scale too.

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:27.800
<v Speaker 1>It's almost like what do you expect to happen? You

0:29:27.840 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? It's like you've got politicians giving

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:34.200
<v Speaker 1>these crazy people carte blanche to go in, you know,

0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 1>mess with these people in these you know communities. It's

0:29:38.560 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 1>not just black folks. It's not just you know LGBC

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:43.280
<v Speaker 1>H community. We saw what happened with Donald Trump and

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:49.120
<v Speaker 1>blomen Asians for the UM for COVID and the coronavirus. Now,

0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 1>mind you, all of these other communities you know, get

0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 1>reparations a lot faster than Black people do. But it's

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 1>just like, what do you expect to happen? And then

0:29:59.600 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 1>when we ask you guys to create gun laws and

0:30:02.560 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 1>gun reform, y'all don't want to do it. So it's

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 1>almost so what other message are you sending to these

0:30:08.600 --> 0:30:11.640
<v Speaker 1>crazy people other than go do that, you know what

0:30:11.680 --> 0:30:15.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean? Like, it's not rocket science, you know, but

0:30:15.840 --> 0:30:19.400
<v Speaker 1>common sense and common I guess to some people. But

0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 1>what do you what else do y'all expect? But back

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:25.080
<v Speaker 1>to and and and still on that topic going. I

0:30:25.160 --> 0:30:28.440
<v Speaker 1>just love the fact that sometimes people don't know what

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:30.240
<v Speaker 1>they wanted until you show it to him. I love

0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 1>that the the gates, the gay kids in the club directly,

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 1>they stood up, they fell back. It shows courage, It

0:30:38.760 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>shows we're tired of your of your bs. We're exhausted

0:30:42.520 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 1>with the foodishness that you're doing, and more of us

0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 1>as a people, not just gay people, with black people,

0:30:47.840 --> 0:30:50.480
<v Speaker 1>brown people. We're gonna have to stand up and fight back.

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 1>That is the only thing that's gonna And when they

0:30:52.760 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 1>when the guy who the father who talked about that

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>he took the gun from and he just started willing them.

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 1>These are his word. He's actually started willing on And

0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 1>I told the queen to come and stump him in

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:05.360
<v Speaker 1>the head. Yes he's ex military, so I'm good. I'm

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 1>sure that training help. But that he went into dandy mode.

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:10.560
<v Speaker 1>I would have went into dandy mode. I met your father,

0:31:10.600 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 1>he would have went in to Daddy mos, somebody is

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:15.440
<v Speaker 1>hurting my door. And I love that that overprotective spirit

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:18.320
<v Speaker 1>we should take over and everybody, but everybody doesn't possess

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 1>that to uh what's his name, Ted Cruz? Oh well.

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I think the other thing too, is when you're in

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:28.280
<v Speaker 1>those situations and I don't begrudge anybody you know that

0:31:28.320 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 1>maybe didn't act, but you automatically have that fight or

0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:35.800
<v Speaker 1>flight response, and until you're in that situation, you don't

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 1>know how your body's gonna react. But it's just unfortunate

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 1>that so much trauma is being endured and experienced and

0:31:45.040 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 1>so many people. It's it's just it's so unfortunate, you know,

0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:53.400
<v Speaker 1>And that's why we continue to see actual, you know,

0:31:53.720 --> 0:31:55.600
<v Speaker 1>cases of mental health. I'm not talking about the people

0:31:55.600 --> 0:31:58.600
<v Speaker 1>that are shooting up places. That's not mental health disorder.

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 1>That's hatred, that's racism. But all of this trauma that

0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:06.960
<v Speaker 1>we're experiencing in this country, especially because most people, most

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 1>kids these days, are dying by gun violence. That's a

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 1>number way that kids in this country are dying. That

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:16.000
<v Speaker 1>type of trauma to be experiencing, no wonder we have

0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:20.040
<v Speaker 1>mental health issues. You know what I mean, so I

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 1>think we all need couches. They just need to put

0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:24.720
<v Speaker 1>couches out every way and anybody there on the couch

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 1>and let somebody talk on the loud speaking and get

0:32:26.600 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>us awesome therapy. Yeah, seriously, I encourage everybody to go

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 1>to therapy. It's nice to talk to somebody who's unbiased

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.360
<v Speaker 1>about your situation. But then again, everybody can't afford to

0:32:39.360 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 1>go therapy. So what do you do? You borrow money

0:32:43.280 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 1>from Donald Trump and Todd Christy and the white because

0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 1>they ain't paying taxes. They got some money. Long that

0:32:49.880 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 1>was a joke. It is laughing learned. So, I mean,

0:32:57.240 --> 0:33:01.480
<v Speaker 1>we're about to enter um. It kind of feels like

0:33:01.520 --> 0:33:05.320
<v Speaker 1>these last two years have been a blur for me. Um.

0:33:05.360 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>But you know, we can only be optimistic, I guess,

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:13.800
<v Speaker 1>and try to be, you know, optimistic. I'm moving forward

0:33:13.920 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>because the way that every day is turning out, Yeah,

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:21.240
<v Speaker 1>it's not starting to become a little impalatable, I would say.

0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:23.959
<v Speaker 1>So before we go on, I have to tell you

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:26.640
<v Speaker 1>that I'm under the I'm on I'm on the slab

0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 1>again on YouTube because earlier today T S. Madison my

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>girl was on with a panel and they were supposed

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.200
<v Speaker 1>to be talking about the Shankquella Robinson story. So I'm

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 1>just sitting on and listening. I didn't make no comment.

0:33:38.240 --> 0:33:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm just listening, and man, he invited me on. So

0:33:41.240 --> 0:33:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I went on, and the conversation when left immediately it

0:33:45.160 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 1>was her hope to sell some other people, and there

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:50.800
<v Speaker 1>was a transman, but I wasn't aware that it was

0:33:50.800 --> 0:33:53.200
<v Speaker 1>a trans man because when I came into I was

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:56.240
<v Speaker 1>just listening. I didn't he hadn't spoken. So I said hello, ladies.

0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I didn't say general, and I wasn't being disrespectful because

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that. And so he made a statement

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:04.200
<v Speaker 1>saying that he thought that all black sis gender people

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 1>were against LGBT community, and I was like, no, I said,

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:12.720
<v Speaker 1>that's not true. And so it was so far fench

0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:16.200
<v Speaker 1>that I just removed myself from the conversation because how

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>are you, he said, I'm thirty six. I said, well,

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:20.719
<v Speaker 1>in the words of my grandmother, keep living because you

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:23.880
<v Speaker 1>have an experience enough. And so I just removed myself

0:34:23.880 --> 0:34:26.840
<v Speaker 1>out the conversation because I don't I don't do ridiculousness.

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not for the bullshit. So they mad at me.

0:34:29.600 --> 0:34:31.359
<v Speaker 1>They said I was rude, and I didn't give him

0:34:31.360 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>a chance to explain, but he did explain. He said

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:35.080
<v Speaker 1>what he said, and I said, well, I don't I

0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 1>don't agree with that. And and from my perspective, I

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:40.480
<v Speaker 1>kept saying, from my perspective and from my experience, had

0:34:40.520 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>it not been for the hetero sexual community, me and

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 1>my children could have changed that name to Oscar and

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 1>lived in the garbage canids like they did on Sesame

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Street because y'all didn't work. Y'all don't work me, y'all

0:34:50.160 --> 0:34:52.440
<v Speaker 1>don't work with me, or nothing like that. And it

0:34:52.560 --> 0:34:54.279
<v Speaker 1>just went after I got off. So they were saying

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.440
<v Speaker 1>I was being rude because I got I just know

0:34:56.600 --> 0:34:58.279
<v Speaker 1>my mouth, and I knew where I was going to go,

0:34:58.400 --> 0:35:00.759
<v Speaker 1>and I'm on vacation. I had had me lovely and

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I already knew I was ready to slice and cut

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:05.840
<v Speaker 1>and doctor up and put in a box. So I

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:07.839
<v Speaker 1>removed myself. So they thought it was rue. So they

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:13.040
<v Speaker 1>tamed me up on you on YouTube. But I'm gonna

0:35:13.080 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 1>go back to the comment that was made. See, because

0:35:16.600 --> 0:35:20.480
<v Speaker 1>if let's do this in the reverse. So let's say

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>that you came on and there, let's say they were

0:35:25.280 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>all you know, Federal sexual since gender in this space,

0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:31.600
<v Speaker 1>And if you came on and somebody said, I felt

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:35.839
<v Speaker 1>like all black people from the LGBTQ community have an

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:40.439
<v Speaker 1>issue with you know, since gender people or basically said

0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:43.879
<v Speaker 1>that comment. In the reverse, the lgbc Q community would

0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 1>be in an uproar. So I just feel like some

0:35:47.080 --> 0:35:50.640
<v Speaker 1>there there has to be accountability here, Like to make

0:35:50.680 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>a statement like that is offensive to us. It is

0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:58.200
<v Speaker 1>because that's not factual. That's not true. Now maybe that's

0:35:58.200 --> 0:36:01.439
<v Speaker 1>your been your experience, that's fine, but you should say,

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:04.319
<v Speaker 1>in my experience, whenever I interact with X, Y and Z,

0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:07.680
<v Speaker 1>this is what I've gotten. That's one thing. But to

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:11.400
<v Speaker 1>make a blatant, offensive statement like that, that's not cool.

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:14.400
<v Speaker 1>And you have a lot of friends that are a

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:17.719
<v Speaker 1>part of that demographic that he's talking about, so you

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<v Speaker 1>took offense to it and acted accordingly. There can't be

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<v Speaker 1>a double standard. It has to they can, and and

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<v Speaker 1>I say it, and I say it on the line

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<v Speaker 1>that when at most young gay boys before they found

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<v Speaker 1>before they became trains or whatever they decided to become,

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<v Speaker 1>even before they found their gay ism, their their best

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<v Speaker 1>friend was a biological girl. That was the person they

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<v Speaker 1>felt the safest with. That is the person they hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with. That's the person they first told their entire truths.

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<v Speaker 1>Like me and you were young kids together, and you

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<v Speaker 1>said flame, I like David or Marcus. I like David.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Oh, Lauren, guess what kind of secret? I

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<v Speaker 1>like David too. I was that was enough. You were

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<v Speaker 1>enough for me. I shared me with you. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I got comfortable with who I was and discovered my

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<v Speaker 1>transism or my gayism or whatever I become. Then I

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<v Speaker 1>became better than you. That was my issue. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not better than you. We are still friends and well

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully we can be on the same level playing field.

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<v Speaker 1>But that is the problem because it was mad that

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<v Speaker 1>I said that. Y'all know, I don't give a funk.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just say this publicly, y'all get my diakon.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my opinion, and that's what I see it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a woman is the blueprint. And I'm gonna say this

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<v Speaker 1>again like I said it on my post the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Please make this make sense to me. How can you

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<v Speaker 1>be proud to scream that you're a woman, but shame

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<v Speaker 1>to say you trains but keep fighting for trans rights

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<v Speaker 1>That don't make sense to me. That just don't make

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<v Speaker 1>sense to me. If I'm gonna be fighting as a

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<v Speaker 1>trans woman, then this it's enough for me to say

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<v Speaker 1>that I am a trans woman, not that I'm a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't want to be referred to as trains.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm fighting for trans rights. Somebody funked up and

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<v Speaker 1>it ain't me. I'm had, but I ain't suked up.

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<v Speaker 1>I need right now, and I get it. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>my wish would be in situations where we have more

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<v Speaker 1>similarities and differences. We would approach each other from different

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<v Speaker 1>communities with an open mind rather than being so defensive.

0:38:12.520 --> 0:38:15.359
<v Speaker 1>I get, like, we want to be defensive as black

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<v Speaker 1>folks around white people, whether regardless of gender sexuality. I

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<v Speaker 1>get automatically being on defense cool, But like, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a black female, heterosexual, biological black female and I'm coming

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<v Speaker 1>to the table talking to a black trans woman, I

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<v Speaker 1>would expect you to see the similarities in our situation

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<v Speaker 1>rather than you automatically be on defense with me, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the energy that I want. We both have trauma,

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<v Speaker 1>we both have vast experiences that have affected who we

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<v Speaker 1>are today. So rather let's connect on our possible shared

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 1>lived experiences rather than seeing as we're from different communities,

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<v Speaker 1>if that makes sense from a gender perspective, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to level. They want to make a level of competition.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that that there's always how we in competition.

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<v Speaker 1>Here is my perspective on the situation, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>just me. If I am a female impersonator or a

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<v Speaker 1>trans woman, I'm learning and I'm experienced being feminine and

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<v Speaker 1>being a woman from a watching a woman. She may

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<v Speaker 1>not be black, she may be white or another color,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's still a damn woman girl. They don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to give no, they don't want to give that. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we always have issues. And again, like you say,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the message just me. They damn So you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like me, Yeah, But like I said, you're the anomaly.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I don't appreciate. I know we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>this last week with Teslain, is the fact that you're

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<v Speaker 1>from a different era than from the Hope Gisels and others.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you and Maddie probably agree on more things

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<v Speaker 1>than not, but you're from a different era and I

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<v Speaker 1>think the you know, the trans community from this era

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes discredit your lived experience to validate what's going on currently,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't agree with that. You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't say like, oh, this terminology is is wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>or you can't say that you can't say that that's

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<v Speaker 1>what you said during your time period whether you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say those words because I know it

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<v Speaker 1>can be deemed defensive. But some of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>you do say those were terms of endearment for you

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<v Speaker 1>amongst your transistors of that time. Some of the things

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>that you did that was what you guys did in

0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:23.000
<v Speaker 1>your time. It's different now, Yes, to be evolved in change,

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:27.920
<v Speaker 1>but don't just credit people's live past experiences to validate

0:40:27.960 --> 0:40:30.840
<v Speaker 1>whatever agenda you have. Now, that's not cool if we

0:40:30.920 --> 0:40:33.680
<v Speaker 1>don't come together. We need to come together and respect

0:40:33.719 --> 0:40:41.439
<v Speaker 1>everybody's past. So I'm moving to New Zealand. I'm tired, Loring.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for this episode. This week, Lady them,

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<v Speaker 1>it is it is Thanksgiving week. I say, Halloween. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you're wherever you're traveling to that you're safe or

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<v Speaker 1>your man, give it, your family, your love, what's your friends,

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy yourself. We don't know what's gonna happen next Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's enjoyed this one. If you celebrate it or not.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do whatever you do, just be safe, keep

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<v Speaker 1>what's that model here? Lauren Hogan here laugh and learned.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have a saying that we're never trying to

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<v Speaker 1>She just popped up gum me. So you know we

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<v Speaker 1>gotta because I just taught one and a half because

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