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Speaker 1: My husband finally found out how ugly he is, and

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Speaker 1: now he's crying, saying that I'm going to leave him.

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Speaker 1: But then I found out the real reason he's saying

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Speaker 2: You know, some people need to just know how gosh

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Speaker 2: dang ugly they are.

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Speaker 1: You know, they need to be put in their ugly place.

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Speaker 1: You look like a butt. Yeah, there's pretty privilege, and

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Speaker 1: then there's ugly prosecution, and all ugly people should go

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Speaker 1: under the court of law and have the rights taken away.

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Speaker 1: Get him out of here, Get him out of here. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So it all started a few weeks ago when we

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Speaker 1: were having dinner with some friends and one of them

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Speaker 1: in particular, began a joke that after thirteen years together,

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Speaker 1: surely one of us already got bored of the other.

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Speaker 1: And she, twenty eight female, said that surely the one

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Speaker 1: who got bored first was me, twenty five female, because

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Speaker 1: I'm the attractive one in the relationship. Oooh, the attractive one.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness, hottie. And I know that it affected my

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Speaker 1: But I thought at the moment that he would just

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Speaker 1: forget about it, but he didn't. You should know, you

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Speaker 1: should know how ugly you are. Put you in your place.

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Speaker 1: He started asking me all the time, if I love

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Speaker 1: ugly mugs hat? And if I'm happy with him, if

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Speaker 1: I would change something about a relationship, and things like that,

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Speaker 1: And yesterday, while we were talking about it, I told

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Speaker 1: him that I would not change him for anything or anyone,

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Speaker 1: and he started crying like a little bitch ugly boy

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Speaker 1: that he is, which was really weird because he rarely cries,

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Speaker 1: and I gotta say he looks uglier when doing so,

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Speaker 1: No kid, hold on. And I didn't like seeing him

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Speaker 1: like this because he's so ugly. I didn't like seeing it,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't like seeing it like this. So I

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Speaker 1: spoke with his sister, with whom he is really close.

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Speaker 1: She told me that four weeks one of our friends

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Speaker 1: has been telling him that he should prepare for the

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Speaker 1: day that I cheat on him or leave him, And

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Speaker 1: she told him that she thinks I'm already seeing someone

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Speaker 1: else and that if he wants it to be less

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Speaker 1: painful for him, it's best to open the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Oh, my god, what kind of friend is this? Dude?

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Speaker 1: Holy, that is the worst.

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Speaker 2: Like, I don't know if you could call out a

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Speaker 2: vice or whatever like of all top terrible.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe the friends just trying to get into that

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Speaker 1: open relationship that if he wants, she and her boyfriend

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Speaker 1: can help us open our marriage since it would be

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Speaker 1: easier because we both know them. That this will help

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Speaker 1: us because we will be able to experiment with more

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Speaker 1: people and I will not get bored of him, and

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Speaker 1: he will also be able to have fun with her

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Speaker 1: like the lifelong friends they are.

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Speaker 2: How wow, how thoughtful of them?

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Speaker 1: Dude, you should you know your your wife is going

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Speaker 1: to leave you anyway, so you should you should just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes so much sense. This is all this advice.

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Speaker 1: Is a totally unencumbered by by by any like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know anything that that that that the person would want. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: God forbid. This is all for you, has nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with an I want. Yeah, so thoughtful, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: terrible freaking advice. I can't believe it. God. According to

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Speaker 1: his sister, he told her that he hates those things,

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Speaker 1: but if I want to do it, he will let

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Speaker 1: me experiment with more people. He's gonna say, he's like

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Speaker 1: a like a little sheep getting so much led literally,

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Speaker 1: and to be honest, I hate everything that has to

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Speaker 1: do with open relationships too. If you like it, great,

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Speaker 1: but it's not my thing. And I thought that I

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Speaker 1: was always clear with that. And that's why. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know why that friend said that she has had

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Speaker 1: an open relationship, but she was never one of those

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Speaker 1: people who wants everyone to be like them. She used

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Speaker 1: to respect us. So I don't know what happened. How

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Speaker 1: can I make him understand that she lied about me

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Speaker 1: because she probably just wants to sleep with him.

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Speaker 2: Because your husband went from ugly to fuck me ooh yeah,

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Speaker 2: he had a glow up baby. Wait, so is this like,

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Speaker 2: is this husband now super hot? Everyone wants a piece? Literally,

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Speaker 2: he went from ugly to so good. People trying to

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Speaker 1: He's like, am I hot? Am I not? What is it?

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Speaker 1: Just tell me? Okay, so there is an update. Oh

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Speaker 1: but before we go into it, who is your who

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Speaker 1: is your your major asshole in this story? So far?

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Speaker 2: This like friend couple, major flaming, infected, infected, infect lapsed

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Speaker 1: I twenty This is update I, twenty five female talk

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Speaker 1: everything she twenty eight female told him. Apparently she's been

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Speaker 1: telling him for months that he is not attractive enough

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Speaker 1: to keep me for long, that love is not everything,

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Speaker 1: and that looks are important to everyone, and that people

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Speaker 1: who say they don't care about beauty are lying. And

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Speaker 1: that pissed me off so much because for me, my

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Speaker 1: husband is really beautiful and I love him more than

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Speaker 1: anyone in this world and more than anyone else would

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Speaker 1: because he's so ugly. I love how ugly he is. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it makes it uh, it makes him faithful. Yeah. If

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Speaker 1: it wasn't like that, I wouldn't have been with him

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Speaker 1: for thirteen years. And she knows that. And the worst

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Speaker 1: part of this is my husband believed her because she

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Speaker 1: destroyed his self esteem with all those things that are

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Speaker 1: not true, just because she wanted to sleep with him.

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Speaker 1: And one of her partners I think she said he's

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Speaker 1: in his late forties or something with me, or at

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Speaker 1: least that's what she she said. Wow. Okay, so she

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Speaker 1: has two boyfriends or whatever, and one of them apparently

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Speaker 1: knows me. I don't know how because we never met him,

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Speaker 1: and he told her that he would like to know

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Speaker 1: if he could have a chance with me and that

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Speaker 1: and that's why she's been messing with my husband's mind

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Speaker 1: all these months. That's what she told us when we

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Speaker 1: confronted her. That's so fucked up, that's so manibul. How

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Speaker 1: is that a friend? That is so god awful? She

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Speaker 1: also admitted that she likes my husband, not romantically, but physically,

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Speaker 1: and that's why she also wanted to convince him to

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Speaker 1: thinks he's ugly by telling him he's but ugly. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand anything about that world of having two

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Speaker 1: or more partners, and I'm not interested in knowing anything either.

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Speaker 1: I just know that I find it disgusting. If you

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Speaker 1: want to have a harrem, that's up to you. Personally,

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Speaker 1: I don't want, and I find it disgusting that they

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Speaker 1: Is it that difficult to understand? She apologized many times,

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Speaker 1: but my husband didn't forgive her, and I don't intend

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Speaker 1: and it is impossible for her to win back our trust.

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Speaker 1: On the other hand, my husband and I were fine.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we had a lot of talks about what

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Speaker 1: happened these last few weeks and about our relationship, but

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Speaker 1: we're fine, and that's all that matters to me, that

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Speaker 1: our little family is well for us and our children.

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Speaker 1: Holy moly, what a doozy. I would love for you

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Speaker 1: guys to tell me. Is anyone in an open relationship

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Speaker 1: in the comments? How are you navigating that? Is it

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Speaker 1: hard for you? Is it difficult? Have you ever swindled

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Speaker 1: or manipulated your friends into being into open relationships so

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Speaker 1: you can hook up with them? If you have no

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Speaker 1: judgment except a little put it in the comments below. Also,

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Speaker 1: who's the a hole in this story? Would love to know?

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Speaker 1: But John, what do you think? Who is the ahle?

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Speaker 1: And why the friend couple?

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Speaker 2: Obviously the polyamorous right polyamorous friend open, open relationship friend couple?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Just just on so many levels, Like first, it's your like,

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Speaker 2: random forty year old boyfriend that wants to get with

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Speaker 2: like and so you're manipulating your friends give him, try

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Speaker 2: and give him that like.

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Speaker 1: Just so disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I will say I predict some people talking about

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Speaker 2: Ope and being.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, like, why are you hating on open relationships?

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Speaker 2: And blah blah blah blah blahh Maybe OPI went on

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Speaker 2: a little hard, but I think like with this, it

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Speaker 2: sounded like it would be a really bad taste.

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Speaker 1: In your mouth if yeah, you're you're op and this

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Speaker 1: is all you know about open relationships. Yeah, yeah, so.

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Speaker 2: Like I I, but I ultimately don't think OPI is

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Speaker 2: the a whole because this is just like so much

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Speaker 2: for her to likes and.

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Speaker 1: Wrap her head around this.

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing it sounds like pretty fresh, like it just happened,

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Speaker 2: So like, yeah, I think I think Opie's fine. The

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Speaker 2: poor boyfriend, Oh, this poor guy just doesn't know what's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, am I hot? Am I not? You

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Speaker 1: thought this was left? You idiot? It's right. You've been

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Speaker 1: wrong your whole life. Now I want you to make

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Speaker 1: it a left hand for me. Put that left hand

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Speaker 1: in my pants. Oh goodness, But we'd love to know

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Speaker 1: what you think. So but in the comments now, oh,

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Speaker 1: see you next time. Yeah,