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Speaker 1: Welcome to j dot Ill, a production of I Heart Radio.

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Speaker 1: Oh like Kate, follow me something me goes me. Guys,

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Speaker 1: it's j dot Ill the podcast. It's your girl, Jill Scott,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sitting here chilling with my grad You might

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Speaker 1: see them friends Lah Saint Clair. I don't speak Spanish

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Speaker 1: and speak the Spanish. I don't speak Spanish age grading dance.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give y'all the white Man's hello. Okay, how

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Speaker 1: about that? Is that? What it was? That? What that was?

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Speaker 1: It's English, ain't it? Ain't that? Wow? So true? I

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Speaker 1: ain't so true. It's creativity, just like it's supposed to. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like that. It's all good as me. You better

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Speaker 1: into the room as you Oh I love that, into

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Speaker 1: the room as yourself, not somebody take that. Take that

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Speaker 1: with you right now? Is you know how we get

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Speaker 1: all prepared and stuff, like you know, we're walking in

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Speaker 1: something or their their big wigs, or they're so smarter,

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Speaker 1: they're so pretty, or they're so you know whatever, rich,

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Speaker 1: or they're so whatever, and then we start preparing ourselves

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Speaker 1: for that, like, uh, it's over. None of that. Coming

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Speaker 1: as you are they say in the church, come as

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Speaker 1: you are. Only one of you in that room, only

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Speaker 1: one one fantastic you man. Look I got I got

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Speaker 1: the privilege and pleasure of um oh, it's allowed truck.

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Speaker 1: You know. Currently I'm in Atlanta. I just want to

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Speaker 1: say that I'm coming in Atlanta and um baby, you know,

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Speaker 1: they really like rag racing here. They drag race all

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Speaker 1: day and all night. Alright, and here comes the cops

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Speaker 1: said it comes. See you can't do that in the daytime,

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Speaker 1: spec right on time, right on time, like Atlanta. Somebody

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Speaker 1: please tell me what's up with all the drag racing.

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Speaker 1: You're killing my darristost and our podcast. You know, I

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Speaker 1: think it must be they must be betting for money

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Speaker 1: or something. You know, go get them. No, ron y'all

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Speaker 1: like drive away anyway. I don't know on a tangent

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Speaker 1: because they should ain't out. There're solving no crimes. They're

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Speaker 1: busy running at the drag races. Yeah, but we aren't

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Speaker 1: gonna talk about it. Oh, here should go. Here's here's

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Speaker 1: like my friend, y'all, but say, don't wake it up, baby,

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Speaker 1: don't wake it click that to sleep? How y'appa play?

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Speaker 1: How yap? Wait? Wait? Okay, So the Tangents are real

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Speaker 1: because this is what j dot the podcast is certain

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Speaker 1: out to be about. So often how we start on

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Speaker 1: one thing and go to the next, but we didn't

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Speaker 1: even start on the one thing we're gonna have you.

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Speaker 1: Have you guys ever seen this this show called skin Deep.

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Speaker 1: It's not really show. It's like I've caught it on

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Speaker 1: Instagram and I've caught it on TikTok and I think

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Speaker 1: there's a website for it as well. Um, skin Deep.

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Speaker 1: They asked these really intense questions of people, couples sometimes, um,

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Speaker 1: mother and son, father and daughter, that kind of thing,

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Speaker 1: best friends, lovers, you know. Um, they asked these questions

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Speaker 1: and they're always so um impactful. I know exactly what

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Speaker 1: you're talking about. I've seen a couple one time. I've

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Speaker 1: seen a mother and daughter one time. Deeply those little

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Speaker 1: Instagram games for a couple. So I'm like, I love

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Speaker 1: this. This This is for everybody in their relationship. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like that spark conversation. That's kind of like what

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Speaker 1: we do here our mission and purpose now, amen, it

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Speaker 1: is our it is our mission and purpose to spark conversation.

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Speaker 1: So I think we're looking to you to go and

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Speaker 1: get some of these questions or at the very least

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Speaker 1: watch skin Deep. Um. All you gotta do is is

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Speaker 1: hit it on your little phone phone on your computer

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Speaker 1: and skin deep and um it'll pop up for you

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Speaker 1: so you can see it. But today we've got these

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Speaker 1: questions that we're going to ask of each other. I'm

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Speaker 1: excited because this is a long ass relationships. These some

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Speaker 1: long ass relationshops reflection. This is many years of reflection.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, um wow. Okay, So who goes, I'm getting

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Speaker 1: a h I'm here. Okay, here we go, she said, Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. I love it. Here we go. Here's

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Speaker 1: the question, what is your favorite memory of us and

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Speaker 1: why is it important to you? ASA like, yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I see you throwing me in there. But I feel

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Speaker 1: like I told this story already. I think favorite I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna share this one. So I may have

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Speaker 1: it again. I was in the basement at a club

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Speaker 1: the day. What was the name of that club? This

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Speaker 1: first time, the first time that we went up there

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Speaker 1: to do it, Fatina. Now, my son was still an

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Speaker 1: whole YadA, YadA, YadA. But what I didn't understand about

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Speaker 1: to get engorged with milk. Now that sounds messy, and

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Speaker 1: it's super painful and it hurts. So I was in

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Speaker 1: the basement of the club in pain, just wanting to

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Speaker 1: and then she started crying. My titties hurt ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: That girl was Jill Scott. Ladies and gentlemen. This baby,

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Speaker 1: I will never forget this. I was like, this is

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Speaker 1: a person capable of some deep empathy. Do you understand me? Someone?

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Speaker 1: She didn't, no baby in sight. She was in a club.

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Speaker 1: I could have just said, oh that, I'm sorry and left.

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Speaker 1: She sat there and cried with me. I'll never forget

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Speaker 1: that ship that. At that point I said, I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: a funk with this person for life, like I'm a

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Speaker 1: fun well like I funk with her. Yeah. Man, that's

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Speaker 1: so nice. That's the best. That's one of the best things.

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Speaker 1: I'll never forget that about you. Yeah, that's my favorite

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Speaker 1: mine is more. I think the first my favorite, one

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Speaker 1: time we met, but it was my senior year college.

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Speaker 1: I know my dad had some big birthday and he

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Speaker 1: had a big party, but I opted to skip it

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Speaker 1: Mrs Questlove was like, oh, we're going to switzer into

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Speaker 1: this Manto Jazz Festival, and I know your mama Flight attended,

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Speaker 1: so if you want to meet us, he was like,

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Speaker 1: come on, and my little flight attendant door itself was

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Speaker 1: like addy birthday party. Go to Switzerland to the Manto

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Speaker 1: my Bahamada. It was like that. It was just perfect,

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Speaker 1: at the time. I remember thinking to myself, how do

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Speaker 1: I meet a forest bill Niga in Switzerland? It was

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Speaker 1: just um, shout out, shout out, listen and from that moment,

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Speaker 1: and it's funny because I remember Jill at that time,

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Speaker 1: that's what you were doing. You would you literally were

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Speaker 1: wasn't expecting that mile with that the fist that you

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Speaker 1: was like, Wow, she's fucking amazing. That's so y'all, that's

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Speaker 1: nice stuff to say about some badly. It is my

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Speaker 1: because I started sweating on that. Okay, So for me,

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Speaker 1: it's it's also mantro into a land because I remember

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Speaker 1: And there was so many of them, and it was

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Speaker 1: was walking by myself looking around and bumped into Layah

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Speaker 1: and I was so happy to know you. It was

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Speaker 1: first memory. Remember I remember that. I remember that that moment.

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Speaker 1: That's my first memory of you. Is it my best?

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Speaker 1: what's the party that Stacy had tasty treats, tasty treats

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Speaker 1: every night, chick right here we did all three? Doesn't

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Speaker 1: has some some moments on the dance floors? Yes? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't want to bring up any of my dance

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Speaker 1: for a past. I remember one time I was very

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Speaker 1: very pregnant and I went to a party and me

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Speaker 1: you have like a picture of us that night, and

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Speaker 1: mother and my grandmother and we all dance and that

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Speaker 1: about Agent already. I don't know, but this, this for me,

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Speaker 1: was fantastic. There's been so many God, no sense. I

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Speaker 1: called her out of the clear blue sky, was like,

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Speaker 1: what you're doing? She said nothing. I said, when it

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Speaker 1: come hang out? She said okay, And we were introducing

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Speaker 1: And I remember after sweating and and and running back

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Speaker 1: and forth and dressing Jet and dressing myself, and all

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Speaker 1: they were lotioned. I think, I don't even think my

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Speaker 1: feet were lotioned. Okay, they were lotioned. They looked so

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Speaker 1: latest woman is amazing, I said. I remember thinking that listen,

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Speaker 1: she had all the stuff that you had, sandwiches and jews,

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Speaker 1: were just like ohm boom boom boom boom that I

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Speaker 1: feel like I spent a couple of years trying to

422
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: kind of get you know, figure those things out. You know,

423
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 1: my parents pass and all this other stuff happened, so

424
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh yeah, So now I feel

425
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: like I'm moving into like the moment that I kind

426
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: of missed a little bit a few years ago. So

427
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: it's good. Like I'm glad friends are are saying these things,

428
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: they're putting it back at me, and so I'm grateful.

429
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,639
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna definitely take that one. I need it.

430
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: It's good and we all do. It's been in particularly

431
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: women who have like multiple children over a long period

432
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 1: of time. And you know, I got two whole sets.

433
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: So it is what it is. I thank y'all, thank you. Listen.

434
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: The fact that it's happening naturally is the best part.

435
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: So good. It's all organic, it's just happening, and I

436
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: feel allowing it, you're not fighting it. I think that's wonderful.

437
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: You know what funny is like And I've written about

438
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: this before where it's just like, calamity is a weird thing.

439
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: It happens, and it takes up all of the space.

440
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: So what happens is that all of that little space

441
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: that you would use to not prioritize yourself, there's none

442
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: of it left. So it's like you kind of learn,

443
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: You're forced to learn how to think about you because

444
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: all of that little grace that you would give life

445
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: where you would just bounce back, can't do it. So

446
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: you're like forced to do it, you know. So I

447
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes we should welcome calamity a little bit.

448
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: Sometimes that can make a thing happen naturally that wouldn't

449
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: necessarily happen if you have a choice, you know what

450
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: I mean? Yes, my whole life every time I get fired.

451
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: Ye side note and definition calamity a great misfortune or

452
00:28:55,360 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: disaster as a flood or serious injury. Thank you, just

453
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: so you know, calamity, yeah, should happen. You can have

454
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: an emotional calamity as well as well as well all

455
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: the things. Okay, so do you have another one? My

456
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: last question. Okay, okay, here's here's one. If you can

457
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: have something of mine, what would it be? And why tit? Tess?

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00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: Just like half half t if you got the titties,

459
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: I got to smile. I like to take the smile.

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00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: It got to be a physical thing. Oh sorry, okay,

461
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: we're not doing physical. Can we do physical? And one? Okay,

462
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: let's do one. Okay, we need to get deeper into her. Okay,

463
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna say the obvious because the boys

464
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: come on now. I would take your confidence. I would

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00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: take your confidence, even if even that sometimes you don't

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Speaker 1: feel like that's what it is. I would take the

467
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: perception of your confidence. Mm hmmm, I like it. That's fly. Yeah, yeah,

468
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: because I don't want to put that on you because

469
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: sometimes people think, oh she's so kind, but sometimes you

470
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: just just be all the effort to make it look

471
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: that way. But whatever, whatever, whichever one it is, Jill,

472
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: I take it. I'll take it because no matter what

473
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: the stage and what the what you're doing, what's up.

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00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: I would take your boobs for sure. I think they're perfect.

475
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: Every time every time I see her breast, I'm like, wow,

476
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: they they just look great. Um, that's the physical part.

477
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: What else I would take from you is your ability

478
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: to smooth fit into any room that you're in. To me,

479
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: from from outside in, it just seems like lie up

480
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: in here, and then when I see her, she's all

481
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: the way lye here and it's never like a different

482
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 1: but she's in ever and she fits and she's like,

483
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: this is what it is. I love that too. That's

484
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: a really a good one. Yeah, that's because I'm being

485
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: around all people that funny. That's always when I'm in

486
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 1: rooms full of people that are like us, that we've

487
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: known for years. Yeah, thankya take it. No no no, no,

488
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: no no no. You really do bring a sense of

489
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: authenticity everywhere you go, and that's that's not something that

490
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: everybody can do. So I'm with that. I'm with that. Gosh,

491
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: y'all messing me because I'll be taking my answers. I don't, okay,

492
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: So I already said titties, because who doesn't want some

493
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: big titties at least one, because I just take it

494
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: for like a day, just like one of them things

495
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: around and just kind of feel it. But other than that,

496
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: let me see the other thing I would do probably

497
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: is you have a keen sense one of the most

498
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: keen senses of like what you want to do creatively

499
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: all it's always it's it's always there, like you're always clear,

500
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: tell about you know. You may not see that yourself,

501
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: but I like that. I'm a liberal. I have to

502
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: sit with it, think about it, bl blah blah blah

503
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: blah blah. But uh, I like that you are able

504
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: to kind of put your finger on what you want

505
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: to do creatively bam, and it's fresh. It feels like, Oh,

506
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: it's not like, oh, you recycled an idea from something else.

507
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: You're able to pull your emotions into that moment, decide

508
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: who you want to be in that moment, and then

509
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: like produce a creative idea like that's just dope. I

510
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: would take that that feels so good that if that

511
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: feels so good, Wow, thanks friends. I mean, I didn't

512
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: know you know how come toilen Um y'all didn't tell

513
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: me Hello, what what would you take from me? I

514
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: was gonna say no, actually, and I don't know this

515
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: houndse but uh, I say, I say time management because

516
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: I don't know how Aga continues to not only raise

517
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: the babies yet we know all that that's hard but

518
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: that's not the part that that really gets me. It's

519
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: that she's educating herself. She's being classes, y'all. She be

520
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: in real life classes, soaking it in, And that's another

521
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: thing I want to be able to do, soak in

522
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: and have the bandwidth that you have. And then she's

523
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: still got time to TikTok okay. Like I'll be sitting

524
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: here all in my head about one post on Instagram,

525
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: and this bitch already did five and took five classes.

526
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: So I just would like some of that. Yeah, that

527
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: energy management, I'll take it. That's so funny because i'd

528
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: be tired. Like you know what, I'm never gonna lie

529
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: to y'all for real. What I've learned over time is

530
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: like there's no such thing as time management. You just

531
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: kind of do what you just feel like it needs

532
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: to be done at the moment you need to do it,

533
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: do what you can in that moment. Right. So I'm

534
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: trying not to put things off because I'm bad at that,

535
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: and because I have so many responsibilities. It's like if

536
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: I put something off, it is guaranteed not to get done.

537
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: So I just know it's but so many things I

538
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: can do in a twenty four hour period. So if

539
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: I can just decide what those things are, with those

540
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: few things that go to be and I do them,

541
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: I just have such a sense of relief and I

542
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: feel like I could just relax and go about my day.

543
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: And as I've gotten older, what I've learned to do

544
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: is replace at least one of those things with just

545
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: rest or scroll my phone or do whatever the hell

546
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: I want to do. Because if I don't check for myself,

547
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: nobody else is going to. And it's not because I

548
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: don't have people in my life who love me. They

549
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: do love me, but it's their responsibility to check for themselves.

550
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: So it's like even though somebody might call and say, hey,

551
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: you all right? You doing in daily, that's my responsibility.

552
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: Like I got to check for me. And that's why

553
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: it's like it's more than me getting my nails done

554
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: or doing that's that's me and he It takes these

555
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: nails like at least two and a half hours, like

556
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: individual designs, you know what I'm saying, and tips I

557
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: don't know how to do it. Look, I'm telling I

558
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: don't still have the glue from my pressures. Jim Be

559
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: wearing the leaf of real you think she joked, but

560
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: they did fall off the other. So yeah, but this

561
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: is I want to insert this one thing while we're

562
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: talking about but yeah, that's what I'm saying. I want

563
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: to insert this one thing. See, that's the thing, right,

564
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: people can only be Joe Scott or Beyonce or whomever

565
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: if they're willing and ready to do a certain amount

566
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: of labor. Like that's that's labor goes with that. So

567
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: I just want to insert that part of it. Like, yes,

568
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: not that I don't have a lot of labor in

569
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: my life. I have my own kinds of labor. But

570
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: my point is that, yeah, people don't be having time

571
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 1: because there's certain things that require certain amounts of labor

572
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: and intensity, and if you want that, you have to

573
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 1: kind of you know, you have to do that, you

574
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. The beautiful thing and even like

575
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 1: what I brought up earlier about rest is that what

576
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: what Jill has done is created something really beautiful, a legacy, right,

577
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: something that you know she can if she wanted to

578
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: lean into and enjoy a whole lot of other kinds

579
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: of freedoms, if that's what she chose to do. But

580
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: all so too to make it really important, and sometimes

581
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: for some people it's important to reach other goals. So yeah,

582
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: if that, if those are goals that are on your plate,

583
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 1: and that's labor that you love and labor that you're

584
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 1: passionate about, then by all means, do do do do

585
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: do do that. You know what I'm saying. For me,

586
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm just always trying to be kind to myself. I

587
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: might have a goal, I might have a responsibility, but

588
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: no one is going to be as kind to me

589
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 1: as me. I got to make myself the kindest person

590
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: to me. That can't be a message job, you know. Yeah,

591
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: and outside I can't be an outside John, no nobody.

592
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: So listen, this is the this is the reason why

593
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: we would like you to join in any skin deep questions.

594
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 1: You know, get a couple of friends with just one

595
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: friend and ask each other the hard questions or ask

596
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: each other the questions that um will surprisingly affirm you.

597
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: Because I feel I feel affirmed in this moment. You know,

598
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: I feel like my my people could see me. You know,

599
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: my sister friends are like, sit down, I think arrested.

600
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: You know, it ain't new information, but sometimes you need

601
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 1: to hear it. For the twentieth time. Yeah, listen, sometimes

602
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 1: you just need to hear it in a different way.

603
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: What this platform does um with skin deep. It just

604
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: allows you to ask questions wholeheartedly and answer them honestly.

605
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: More conversation after this break. Oh, I got one, I

606
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: got one that's not on the list. Ask you this one.

607
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh this is tough. Oh, here we go. Lord, what's

608
00:37:56,880 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: one thing you wish I didn't do that hard? Well? Yeah,

609
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: but if it was easy, wouldn't it be? Like that's

610
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: the point. One thing I wish you did not do.

611
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to say, I wish I didn't get married.

612
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 1: The second time. I'm going to say that you're asking

613
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: us what we were individually wished we did not do,

614
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: not we wish you didn't do what you wish I

615
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: didn't do. And then I'll tell you what I wish

616
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: you didn't do. Well, let me tell you. Here's something

617
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: I wish I didn't do. I wish that I didn't

618
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: squander the large amount of money that I made as

619
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: a teenager in the music business. I had my first deal,

620
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: I got a good chunk of money. I wish I

621
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: had been better with that money, or a house or

622
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: a car or something like just I wish I had

623
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: done something really significant with it. So there's that. That's

624
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 1: something I definitely wish I hadn't done. To do with it, girl,

625
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: I helped Listen, I'm a black child with a black mama. Okay,

626
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: some bills needed to be paid, you know, I got

627
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 1: some clothes, you know, did that kind of stuff. You know,

628
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: so you know, a little here, a little there, a

629
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: little everywhere. Something I wish you didn't do. I don't

630
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: even know, Like I wish that there was a particular

631
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: situation in which I felt like should never have gotten

632
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 1: your response, and you responded. Socialists happened socially and publicly,

633
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: and that's that's something I wish that you hadn't done

634
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: interesting fair enough and for those of you who who

635
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: that's between us. But but on on a larger scale

636
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: everything don't need your response, ladies and jail word up.

637
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's a lesson I learned. I got you just

638
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: got hissed. I think I just got pissed. And that

639
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: was that was my way of trying to find grace. No,

640
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,959
Speaker 1: I don't. I was trying my best to be graceful. Yeah,

641
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: but you know, yeah, um I wish uh well, shoot

642
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: for myself, I probably wish that I did not wait

643
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: so long to pursue my dreams out in this area,

644
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 1: like in l A, like I waited for my third

645
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 1: time getting fired from radio, and I was like, oh yeah, remember,

646
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: you had some other dreams of you know, being in

647
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: TV commercials and writing and creating things. So I wish

648
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: I would have maybe done that a little earlier in

649
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: my life. Um, so the other parts of life could

650
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: catch up. Maybe let me just remind you that Morgan

651
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: Freeman started at like forty something or so, you know

652
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, oh yeah, I hold stories like

653
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: that to my heart, stories like that Larry David didn't

654
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: make his first million until he was fifty. Like I'm yeah,

655
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm I'm here for that because I really don't live

656
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 1: a life of regret. So it was hard for me

657
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: to say that in the first place. I truly understand

658
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 1: that everything happens for a reason, and even it was

659
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,439
Speaker 1: for me to serve Philadelphia as a radio person because

660
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:06,919
Speaker 1: I loved that ship anyway. But as far as Jill,

661
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I wish you. I wish you

662
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: didn't have to live such a life of being on

663
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: certain I want to say, because you don't live a

664
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: life on edge, but you have to be very aware

665
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 1: because of celebrity sometimes and I wish that you didn't.

666
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: I wish you didn't have to do that, but I

667
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: know that you can't have You can't have both sometimes,

668
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: like I mean, you can't ask for both. Like you

669
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: are a super talented woman who should be famous for

670
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: her all of her talents, and so the ship that

671
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 1: comes with it is just the ship that comes with it.

672
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: But sometimes I wish that you didn't have to live

673
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: your life like that. I will say this that Jill

674
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: Scott does not live in my house. She gets left,

675
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: you know at the gate. There's somebody else that lives

676
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: in my house. I don't even say her name is

677
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 1: is mm hmmm. That person is exceptionally loved and cared

678
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: for and gets laughed at and laughed with and has

679
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: chores and mops floors and you know all that stuff.

680
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: It's it's like super important for for me personally to

681
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: balance this thing. It's important. I watched clothes, I go

682
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,800
Speaker 1: grocery shopping, like I have to balance this because I

683
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: don't want to get lost. Who wants to get lost

684
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: in what? You in? What you do as a as

685
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: an artist. Yes, yes, yes, absolutely, I love to get

686
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: lost in it, but I need the balance to come

687
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: home to, you know, so yeah, yeah, I I deal

688
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 1: with it, I think honestly for realness. And I've seen people,

689
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of different people try to

690
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: balance it. And I would say, like, you do a

691
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: really great job of pulling that part together, because you know,

692
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: a lot of folks don't actually want to balance it.

693
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: I mean, that's just the truth. I mean, we're all

694
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,800
Speaker 1: human beings, so some human beings do not really desire

695
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 1: to have balance. They like things all crazy. And then

696
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 1: some people, I will have to say, y'all, for those

697
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: of us who are not always interacting with people who

698
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 1: are famous quote unquote, there are some famous folks who

699
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: you think their life is a hot mess, and they

700
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: got some of the most chilled, balanced, pulled together home lives.

701
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: You would never even believe it. And some of these

702
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: folks us out there got y'all thinking everything is lovely.

703
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,879
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna talk about that. You don't you don't

704
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 1: know everybody you don't know, and you won't know everybody.

705
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: You just don't know. Honestly, most of it is none

706
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: of your business, you know, unless unless they put it

707
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: on your table and put it in you know. See. Sorry,

708
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: there's there's only one thing like like, I wish you

709
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 1: didn't do. And I don't think I'm right. I don't

710
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 1: think I'm right. I don't have a good reason. Well,

711
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 1: well I do, I do. I feel like I do.

712
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: I wish I wish you never um broke up with them.

713
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry. I loved it. It took

714
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: me a minute, but when I loved it in twenties.

715
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: But when I loved it, I loved it. I mean

716
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: I did. I went all the way back there. Sorry,

717
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 1: and she went two twenties. She didn't even have to.

718
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,919
Speaker 1: That's her friends. So what's funny is that you knew

719
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: when she was talking about and she didn't even actually specify.

720
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,320
Speaker 1: So I'm not even gonna go there about how you

721
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 1: knew what it was before she said it. But you

722
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: do know this about lay like, I really uh to

723
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: a fault. I'm friends with everybody that I loved, you know,

724
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 1: And so as far as that person that you're talking about,

725
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: I'm a loving till I'm a loving forever like and

726
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: I'm the biggest fan I helped you get your publishing deal.

727
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm a big cheerleader. Um, yes, but m hm,

728
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: I understand, I understand, but I have to like what

729
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: I got to. So I'm happy that your happy word

730
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: on everything, on everything. But I would have liked to

731
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: have seen that particular situation come into understand that it's

732
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 1: like full on boss king queen mode because it's there. Yeah, there,

733
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: he just grew up yesterday. I would have liked to

734
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: see that. She was, like, the arrested development is real myself. Listen,

735
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: what did Erica tell me one time? She she told

736
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: me it was this Ethiopian proverb but I probably said

737
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: it on here before, but that a man doesn't truly

738
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: maturate and till he becomes forty two years of age. Yeah,

739
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: and you know that's to be angry with him if

740
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: that's in the Koran. Forty is actually what's in the Koran.

741
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, wow, and what the it said I'm quoting

742
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: to be angry with him for his actions before his

743
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: age of maturation. It's like being angry with a retarded debate. Again,

744
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: we're just given the black man the grade. There we go, ladies,

745
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 1: just again, we're gonna get the black man some grades.

746
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what it's saying. But I mean, we're

747
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: just gonna say blessed. We're gonna bless them, and we're

748
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 1: gonna move forward. And I also just want to say

749
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: bless That's what with this little Jim. I just want

750
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: to say that. You know, I'll tell you all the time,

751
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: I'm an evolutionary data and I will never go back

752
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: to the music business again. And I suggest that all

753
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: the ladies and fellers listen to me. If you really

754
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 1: want long lasting, true, try to get some kind of mana.

755
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 1: I can't even say the word man No. If you

756
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: want it, you don't get it in the music business

757
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: and the entertainment business. What are you talking about? Managa me?

758
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: She said, Managa me. She was trying to say, trying

759
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 1: to say, yeah, when it comes to artists and musicians

760
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: and just you know, if you want that, you probably

761
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: don't want an artists or a musician. I mean, they

762
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: fault this and they blood. I was born to one,

763
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: So I'm just saying I used to think that, but

764
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 1: you know, you're in a special situation. I can't say

765
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: that to you. Ages. It's possible, but acception, come on,

766
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 1: come on, she's doing a self audit as we talk. Jill,

767
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: you are doing a self audit as we think. Come on,

768
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:45,399
Speaker 1: come on, well, you know I'm I'm like, there's there's

769
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: some people you are out of the music business. And

770
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: all I'm saying right now is that you too are

771
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: out of the music business as we speak. I'm out exactly,

772
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm going. I'm in social services. I love it,

773
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:02,280
Speaker 1: she said services. I for one, still in the entertainment industry.

774
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: And I will have to say that my husband is

775
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: well respected. And I would also have to say this that,

776
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned, everyone would fight whoever the

777
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: whole was, because sure life would be over. I would

778
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: never even have to do anything. I would never have

779
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: to do anything Black women that would I would have

780
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: to protect her. I would have to protect her. You

781
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: would have to. I would have to just have to

782
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: take cover over here because it starts when you started

783
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: seeing it the docks. Thing that would happen, bad, bad business.

784
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: But anyhow, so many things. Is this something that you

785
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't want me to do? What I gotta stop doing?

786
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: What I need to stop? What I did? What did

787
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: I do? Oh? Oh no, you know where I'm going

788
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: with this, what did I do? I wish you didn't

789
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: sign with that label. You definitely said the same past. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

790
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: that is that is high on you know, the regrets

791
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 1: that wish I wish well it is currently the only

792
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: masters that we do not own that first album, that's

793
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: the only one we do not own. Were the ones

794
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: that went through that company. H I'm sorry, your own

795
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: your own knows right, No, not the master recording. That's

796
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 1: not how that works. If you're on a record label,

797
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: they own the master recording. They do, and they don't

798
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: give it up easily. However, it's possible, So don't give up.

799
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 1: It's all good, you know what. There are some pluses

800
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: and minutes that came out of that, you know, and

801
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: so we take the good with the bad. You know,

802
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: you eat the meat and chew out the bones. It's

803
00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: all part of it, you know. It's surprised, you know.

804
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: It's a thing, especially during the time that we all

805
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 1: signed on the record labels, you know what I mean.

806
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: That was a different industry in a different time, and

807
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,320
Speaker 1: now people have way more options. So learn from my mistakes,

808
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: ladies and gents. If any of the young girl e's

809
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: are listening. Yeah, yeah, are listening. This is not this

810
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: is not the time to sell away at all. There listening,

811
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: high knees. Oh yes, I'm Liah. Do you ask for questions?

812
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: Don't you? Guys? Something? This is a good one. How

813
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: how would you describe me to others? Feisty, alive, fresh, smart, sweet, black, sexy, conscious?

814
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:53,439
Speaker 1: Did I say yet? Hard working? Mm hmm o, spirity. Okay,

815
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: that's nice. Okay, let's thank you. All right, let's let's

816
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, who were doing? Who are doing next? Uh?

817
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: Let's do agent. Yea a pretty nice and smart when

818
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: sweet and tough. Yeah, that's a freaking mama lion for sure. Freaky.

819
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: I forgot that one for you to like ya. Oh yeah, yes,

820
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: you're definitely take one to be friends with two. I

821
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: feel like freaky squad. I feel like this is the

822
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: squad of freak expression. I think that whatever it's gonna

823
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: be said around here is going to be said over

824
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: and over and over again about all of us because

825
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: such similar quad. I agree, because I feel like even

826
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: in the things we said about l yeah, I see

827
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: those all of us to actually you know, but also

828
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: and somebody shi ghy is in the mix. Too, because

829
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: is don't get it twisted in the mix. Oh yeah,

830
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: that happened. I have to say, I'm not shy. Y'all

831
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:11,359
Speaker 1: are both with your shy. That's weir. I'm not shy

832
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 1: at all, like, not in any circumstance. I'm sorry. I

833
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: can't even own that. Y'all Asian. That's beautiful. That you

834
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: get that sentenced to me is just like, really, I'm

835
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: not to take that quality. I would love I would

836
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,439
Speaker 1: love to take that and get some of that. I'll

837
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,399
Speaker 1: be straight shot for a minute. Yeah, y'all are both

838
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: definitely shy. Gotta feel the round got around. And you

839
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Speaker 1: know what's so funny about both of y'all. Both of

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Speaker 1: y'all do this, which I think is so funny. Y'all

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Speaker 1: are both super cerebral. So what happens is like y'all

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Speaker 1: are really shy but be thinking hell of stuff. So

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Speaker 1: when you finally say something, it'd be wild like what

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Speaker 1: It'll be on point and it'll be cool, but it'll

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Speaker 1: just be like, oh, you was in you was in

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Speaker 1: your head for a minute before you said that. Like

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Speaker 1: y'all are like both like boom, like y'all don't waste words.

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00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: I'll put that way. Both neither one of you are

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Speaker 1: waste words. I edit them a lot more. You're right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be right back. What do you think would help

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Speaker 1: improve our relationship more in the person? Agreed? Agreed? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I think I think we're transparent. I think we

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Speaker 1: know how to communicate. We have empathy, kindness, all that

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Speaker 1: kind of stuff. I do think we need to be

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Speaker 1: around each other more. H love, that was the shortest question. Yeah,

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00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 1: room for you have room for one more. We need

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Speaker 1: some slumber parties. I think we've been saying that we

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Speaker 1: need some slumber parties with real sleeping pack damas, but

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Speaker 1: not outside because I got a place. No, I got

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Speaker 1: a place for us to go. Think you pajamas, mine treat,

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Speaker 1: We got it somewhere's special. I'm not telling where we're going, goes.

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Speaker 1: I don't want happy to not be in charge of ship.

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Speaker 1: If you are, I'm happy, I will release all responses. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so oh this is funny. Oh lord, do your best

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Speaker 1: impression of me. Oh this is scary. Oh girl, girl.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is is that what I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to do is let that white, because you know everything

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Speaker 1: I am rooted in blackness. Honey, for girl crying the girl,

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Speaker 1: Oh no, baby, oh no, those are all my go

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Speaker 1: to words. I won't even lie that those are all

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Speaker 1: all right? Come on, what should do? Uh? Let me see? Okay,

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Speaker 1: wait wait, wait, hold on. Listen when I tell you

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Speaker 1: my eyes are closed, ladies and gentlemen, because when she

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Speaker 1: really likes something, her eyes closed, especially if it has

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Speaker 1: to do with taste, the warness of my mouth. Listen,

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Speaker 1: y'all wanted to. I don't know it just there was

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Speaker 1: an overflowing abundance of love that came from this cookie.

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Speaker 1: I cannot tell y'all. Just need y'all to taste it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she will describe ye, this is the one. She's just

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Speaker 1: like and I and I told her, I told them, listen,

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Speaker 1: it's it's your teeth. It's the teeth. It's what it's

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00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 1: the teeth, it's I tried to tell her. I kindly

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Speaker 1: said it, but I couldn't take it anymore. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: take it anymore. I mean, the breath, it was, it

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00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 1: was that. It was that for me, it was that,

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00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 1: and I couldn't. I couldn't ignore it. Why would I?

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Speaker 1: I couldn't, Guys, I'm driving it out because like it

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00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: because Jill, Jill. The tone of her voice will not change,

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Speaker 1: but here but the voice. Are you sure that you

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Speaker 1: don't have them? Are usual? Your ankles are married? I

891
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: think maybe you should have you been to the doctor.

892
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: Take that back? The cookie, the cookie, the cookie was

893
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: it though? The cookie? Was it? That? That? All of that,

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Speaker 1: all of that is my dog or mother on Joyce. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's listen, listen, I'm listening to you. I'm listening to you,

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Speaker 1: and I hear Joyce Alice in my dog on ears

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00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: that's my mother. Wow, but I didn't know that till

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Speaker 1: just now. Thanks so much, old Hose, thanks so much.

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Speaker 1: Lia Is Like what you're gonna do. What you're gonna

900
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Speaker 1: do bout it? You gotta handle that ship that real

901
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: though real out like but um, that's one of my favorites.

902
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: Like no, no, just like what she autum. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to you know, I don't want to say the

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Speaker 1: wrong thing, but wrong thing to listen. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to look. I don't know how to feel us. But

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying you were you get that and then

907
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: and then there were no black people and then I

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00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: was done. But you know, I mean whatever, it's okay,

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00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: it's okay, listen all right, because because you know how

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00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: you usually cut me off. But you know, peop, when

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00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:55,919
Speaker 1: I'm talking, you know, I'm not trying, I ain't saying

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00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: nothing about it, but I'm just you know, you know

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Speaker 1: exactly exactly we love it. That's at the end of

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Speaker 1: the day, it's like, it's it's what has to happen.

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00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 1: I feel like this, I feel like this is very

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00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: much a drinking game. You know, if you if you

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Speaker 1: grab a couple of your good girlfriends, are good homies

918
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: or whatever you got going on with you, the people

919
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 1: that fun with you, for real, get some drinks and

920
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 1: play this game. You know, skin Deep is not giving

921
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Speaker 1: us any money. They're not. We're not doing a commercial

922
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: for them right now. We just saw something that that

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Speaker 1: they're doing that seems to truly benefit humanity, and it

924
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 1: kind of it reminds us of how vulnerable we are

925
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: and how important conversations that are not just surface, how

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00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 1: important they are. We have to have conversations about ourselves,

927
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 1: and we have to talk and listen to our friends,

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01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: um that love us through love you know, even if

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01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: it's even if it's like oh damn, you know, it's

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01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: it's worth the trip because you don't grow if you

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Speaker 1: don't know. Uh, thank you so much, Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for listening to Jay dot Il the podcast. It's

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01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: always a pleasure. Take care of y'all. How do you

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Speaker 1: eat an elephant? One by it time? Hey, listeners, it's

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Speaker 1: Amber the producer here. In today's episode, Jill like Yeah

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Speaker 1: and Asia played a card game called the and from

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Speaker 1: the Skin Deep. They used the Friendship deck, but they

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Speaker 1: have decks for several types of relationships, from dating two

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01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:57,480
Speaker 1: couples to co workers. Each deck is compromised of a

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Speaker 1: hundred and ninety nine cards with thought provoked questions designed

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Speaker 1: to create a little more space for a lot more openness, honesty,

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Speaker 1: and vulnerability in your relationships. I'll drop the link to

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Speaker 1: the game and the website in the show notes. Hi,

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Speaker 1: if you have comments on something we said in this

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Speaker 1: episode called eight six six, Hey Jill, if you want

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Speaker 1: to add to this conversation, that's eight six six nine

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Speaker 1: five four five five. Don't forget to tell us your

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Speaker 1: name and the episode you're referring to. You might just

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Speaker 1: hear your message on a future episode. Thank you for

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01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:49,840
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01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:56,160
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