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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl lex P and it's your girls right

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Speaker 2: in the call and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Mind where a.

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Speaker 3: Drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 1: And we gotta guest today.

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Speaker 4: We gotta guest today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you know.

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Speaker 2: What we love a good businessman, a producer of one

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Speaker 2: of your favorite artists. So we got Chasing the building today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so.

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Speaker 2: Much, Yes, thank you for being here. So give up

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Speaker 2: proper insuggestion. Let the people know who you are and

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Speaker 2: everything you got going on, because it's a long list.

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Speaker 5: Man, Chasing Cash, you know, known for being a music producer,

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Speaker 5: known for being a music artist. Now on the business

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Speaker 5: side of things, camp by Respect, brand owner, creative director,

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Speaker 5: also partner in the store now Ashville the Trenches Gallery,

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Speaker 5: which y'all were, Yes, so I appreciate y'all for that overall,

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Speaker 5: you know, just trying to grow with the times. Man,

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Speaker 5: been in the business since seventeen, you know, going on

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Speaker 5: thirty five now and just trying to take it to

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Speaker 5: another level with it, you know, helping a younger generation

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Speaker 5: learn about business and then at the same time anything

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Speaker 5: else I can learn, you know, keeping that on my

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Speaker 5: plate as well. But you know, globe trotter, you know,

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Speaker 5: always moving around more importantly, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: I feel like we're in a great time for black business.

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Speaker 5: And you know, my main thing is always trying to

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Speaker 5: keep raising the bar.

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Speaker 3: Man, So where are you originally from?

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Speaker 5: From New Orleans? From the West side, the side that

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Speaker 5: don't get that much respect. But we're starting to get

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Speaker 5: it now.

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Speaker 1: Why is that?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 5: Look, you know how they talk about Atlanta like the

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Speaker 5: North Side. Yeah, yeah, you know, you got the certain

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Speaker 5: parts of the city. But you know, we're starting to

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Speaker 5: have a couple of people come from the West Side.

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Speaker 5: That's you know, being able to do their thing. It's

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Speaker 5: called the West Bank, that's called.

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Speaker 2: It downriend in high school he was from the West Bank.

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Speaker 5: He gotta be Ana Bank.

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Speaker 3: He came to the Katrina, so.

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Speaker 5: You know, from the West Bank. Got family all over

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Speaker 5: the city though, you know, but everywhere I go, I

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Speaker 5: try to keep New Orleans with me.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 5: You know that's something that's embedded in you don't matter

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Speaker 5: how far you go.

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Speaker 1: You know, you can't get from from New Orleans. Do

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Speaker 1: not let you forget that. They from.

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Speaker 5: What I mean, So you know, you put me in

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Speaker 5: a room with them right now, I guess I'm sounding

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Speaker 5: more proper. But if you put you put a couple

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Speaker 5: you know what I mean, it'll come out.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get him on that tequila later here. I'm

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Speaker 2: from Orange, Texas, so I'm super country. Like I'm on

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Speaker 2: love everything country. So I love going to New Orleans

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Speaker 2: Like that was like a big trip to me when

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Speaker 2: I was growing up. Like if we went to New Orleans, baby,

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Speaker 2: you have money and you've been to have a good time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm half and half you know. Uh Now in

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Speaker 5: New Orleans, we don't consider New Orleans country, but I

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Speaker 5: think you know, people who are from the South. Look,

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Speaker 5: they we kind of grouped the South together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we definite.

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Speaker 5: We look at br and Lafayette and all the country

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Speaker 5: people from Mississippi originally, you know what I mean. My

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Speaker 5: what I mean. So that's country. You know, I actually

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Speaker 5: country as hell? So in New Orleans we a little

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Speaker 5: bit of both, you know what I mean, because your

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Speaker 5: If you've been there, you're familiar with uptown, downtown, third Ward,

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Speaker 4: Keep that with me because it's such a unique place,

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Speaker 4: you know, just like New York. Like I feel like

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Speaker 4: New Orleans is a very unique place. It's nowhere else

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Speaker 5: That's a fact, especially with it being black. Yeah, y'all,

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Speaker 5: y'all be in Atlanta. You know, I grew up at

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Speaker 5: so how you said with New Orleans, that's what Atlanta

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Speaker 5: y'all Vietnamese Arabs, all these different people down there. But

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Speaker 5: we will go to Atlanta and go to the underground mall.

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Speaker 1: That ship used to be like yeah, yeah, that was.

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Speaker 5: The move back then, you know what I meaning. My

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Speaker 5: Took me to the Martin Luther King spot, you know

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Speaker 1: So there as a kid, because I know.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't woke, but for sure my parents, my parents

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Speaker 5: blackness and understanding what that is at a higher level.

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Speaker 5: So I commend them for that, you feel me, but

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Speaker 5: definitely wasn't nowhere near woke at all. We listened to

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Speaker 5: the hot boys. We listened.

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Speaker 1: He took me to his.

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Speaker 4: Nowhere near New Orleans has great music, right music, great food.

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Speaker 3: I used to love going to New Orleans like a kid.

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Speaker 4: I have family from Louisiana, so always out there y'all.

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Speaker 5: Did the poor minds out there yet.

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Speaker 2: Do what they have been asking? Like the New Orleans girls.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're paying attention. You know, we see y'all.

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Speaker 2: We definitely don't come for sure. So I do want

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Speaker 2: to talk about that today because I feel like us

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Speaker 2: I just turned thirty three, Dreas thirty one, and we're

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Speaker 1: Had a job, not being funny?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So the only job I've ever had was

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Speaker 1: I mean when people even worked there.

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Speaker 5: I worked there from like fifteen to when I graduated.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Like I knew it. I could

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Speaker 1: tell most of time when people talking about paying and

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Speaker 5: My parents were like, My parents were big on. Like

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Speaker 5: my dad used to tell me, you know, if you're

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Speaker 5: You gotta make your way, you know, I mean, if

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Speaker 5: The only thing I knew was has to pee in

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Speaker 5: And that to me was like, Okay, if I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: Jeezy really popping a conray and it was doing a

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Speaker 4: But I feel a lot for you broke for a

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 5: I feel me in being able to do management, you

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Speaker 3: But we talk about that all the time on the show.

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Speaker 5: whole different way and been like they don't respect me

438
00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:36,840
Speaker 5: and this and that. But just knowing who you do

439
00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:39,679
Speaker 5: it for, I feel like will also keep you rooted

440
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,479
Speaker 5: in being able to grow. When you give that up

441
00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,240
Speaker 5: and you start trying to please the people that you

442
00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,200
Speaker 5: never tried to please just because you're trying to get

443
00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,000
Speaker 5: a bag, that's where it really really goes wrong. So

444
00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:50,600
Speaker 5: that's what it was with me. Too.

445
00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:50,800
Speaker 1: Man.

446
00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,360
Speaker 5: My purpose was always like, man, I got people back

447
00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,480
Speaker 5: home in New Orleans who probably don't think this is possible.

448
00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:58,480
Speaker 5: But when they see me doing it, I'm gonna be

449
00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,520
Speaker 5: able to translate it to them and let them know, Okay,

450
00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,480
Speaker 5: can this can happen for you? You know what I mean?

451
00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:05,800
Speaker 5: So always have both your passion and your purpose. And

452
00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,480
Speaker 5: then after that paper, you feel me have a good

453
00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,239
Speaker 5: team around you. Y'all are team. Make sure you can

454
00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,880
Speaker 5: get a team, man, because getting that money and being

455
00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 5: on your own, it don't even Kevin Hart said it. It

456
00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,560
Speaker 5: don't feel as good getting money by yourself, you know

457
00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:21,919
Speaker 5: what I mean. First, but you know what I mean.

458
00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:24,960
Speaker 5: When you start having these things rolling, like taxes and

459
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:26,639
Speaker 5: all this type of shit, that shit can be a

460
00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,040
Speaker 5: burden on your brain, man, because if you don't understand it,

461
00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:31,960
Speaker 5: it can intimidate you and then you can really make

462
00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,280
Speaker 5: the wrong decision that will set you back. Instead of

463
00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,480
Speaker 5: being able to have somebody that's like, look, you got

464
00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 5: this money, you got to put seventy percent over here

465
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,480
Speaker 5: and then keep thirty percent of yourself.

466
00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:40,760
Speaker 6: Yeah.

467
00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:44,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I feel like.

468
00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 4: You know, we were very fortunate coming into this situation,

469
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,680
Speaker 4: you know, working with eighty five because like Chad always

470
00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,800
Speaker 4: was big on like telling this, Okay, y'all get in

471
00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 4: these chicks. Don't spend all y'all money. Make sure every

472
00:19:55,440 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 4: time y'all get a check, y'all put ten to add

473
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 4: shoo because ashes of our county very good.

474
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:07,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, they just be like and they just be on

475
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:09,199
Speaker 3: our ass about stuff like that.

476
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:10,880
Speaker 4: But I feel like, you know, it's a good thing

477
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,119
Speaker 4: because then when it's time to pay your taxis you

478
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 4: don't have to scramble and wonder we're about to get

479
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 4: these money from because you blew it all?

480
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:17,440
Speaker 1: Right.

481
00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:19,320
Speaker 2: But speaking of blowing it all, because you did say

482
00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,359
Speaker 2: that earlier. You said you blew through it. So because

483
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,560
Speaker 2: that's what that's what I want to know because we

484
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 2: have a lot of young listeners and I feel like

485
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 2: I just, you know, like I said, we're in a

486
00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 2: new space as well. You know, we don't I don't

487
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,199
Speaker 2: want us to be like three four years and I

488
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 2: was like, damn, Dre, we blew through that money.

489
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

490
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 2: So this is also a learning opportunity for us as well.

491
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,399
Speaker 1: So I got you back through ownership.

492
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Speaker 5: Man, you know, this is y'all show y'all have equity

493
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,199
Speaker 5: in this. You know, in the songs I produce, I

494
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 5: have equity in them. So you know, when the royalty

495
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 5: started kicking in at that time. You know, in music

496
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 5: it works like this. You make a record, you don't

497
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 5: get paid from it into a year later you get

498
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,120
Speaker 5: you get advances. So I was getting paid like good

499
00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 5: advances fifteen twenty five and for a beat. But once

500
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:03,640
Speaker 5: the record was selling, you don't get the you don't

501
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 5: get the bigger money until after that. So it took

502
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 5: like the first It took like the first couple of

503
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 5: years where you know, I kind of blew it all.

504
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,959
Speaker 5: And then once the Royalty started coming in, and you know,

505
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 5: just a couple more years in the game and being

506
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 5: surrounded by the right people, I just had to hold off,

507
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,920
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. You learn about not living

508
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,239
Speaker 5: past your means. That's really what it is. You know,

509
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 5: like you want the crib that's five thousand because it's dope,

510
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 5: it got the ill stairwell in the pool, but right

511
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 5: now you got to live in the eighteen hundred two

512
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,919
Speaker 5: thousand dollars, right, you know what I mean? So I

513
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 5: think that's really what allowed me to get it back

514
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 5: was like, what are my means right now? And really

515
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 5: listening what was the most important to me. What was

516
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 5: most important back then was being able to travel anytime

517
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 5: I needed to to get to an opportunity, being able

518
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 5: to get back home to family and I needed to

519
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,439
Speaker 5: being able to get equipment, the things that kept me working,

520
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 5: I mean, and occasionally get fresh, you know what I mean,

521
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 5: because you got a little different things.

522
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna put that shit on, you know what

523
00:21:58,680 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: I mean.

524
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,959
Speaker 5: But you know what I mean. Once I because at

525
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 5: first it was you know, you come in the game.

526
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 5: You seeing all these dudes. Man, I'm seeing everybody. They

527
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 5: pulling up crazy whips, you know, they pulling up crazy fits.

528
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 5: I gotta go get me three Gucci belts off, gotta

529
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 5: start with one. I'm not gonna avitell you not to

530
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,199
Speaker 5: get one. But you go, yeah, you go wrong. You

531
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,200
Speaker 5: know the saying if you can't buy it three times,

532
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 5: then don't buy it, you know what I mean? Or

533
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 5: two times, don't buy it. So I had to really

534
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 5: learn that, you know what I mean. The first time

535
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 5: I remember going in the PHIPS, I was like, I'm

536
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 5: about to blow it all, and I did it for

537
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 5: my homies. Too, so you know it's a lot of that. Also,

538
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 5: you know, you gotta know who you're trying to impress.

539
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,719
Speaker 5: If you're gonna look out for your homies, then you

540
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 5: know you gotta do that to a certain limit so

541
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 5: you don't overextend yourself because at the end of the day,

542
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 5: when the money dry up and they wasn't a part

543
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 5: of it, it's on you to get it back. Now,

544
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 5: I just was blessed to be around hit Boy and

545
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 5: a bunch of other guys that was talented, So it

546
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 5: kept me around opportunity. You know, if hit Boy got

547
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 5: an opportunity, I got one. If I got one, then

548
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 5: he got one. So that goes back to also being

549
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 5: in a team and having the right people around you.

550
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 2: So you have a lot of businesses because I know,

551
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 2: like Dre is about to start launching other business. I

552
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: know I'm working on things and we want to have

553
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 2: things outside of poor minds as well. So you name

554
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: like six seven different business you got it, So how

555
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 2: do you prioritize that, Like is there one business that, oh,

556
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: this makes me the most money, so I pay it

557
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 2: the most attention or does everything get all the same

558
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: amount of tension?

559
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: Like how do you juggle all that.

560
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 5: So I learned about a thing called the holding company.

561
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 5: And the holding company is what I would like to call,

562
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 5: and most people call an umbrella company. That's the kind

563
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 5: of like the person in the back operating as a corporation.

564
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 5: And then all of these other companies are kind of

565
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 5: like subsidiary subgenres, you know, like how you got wrapped

566
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 5: and you got trap music, and you got R and

567
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 5: B and got Heal Soul. So it kind of plays

568
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 5: out like that. I don't wear the same hat for

569
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 5: all the businesses. So like with the Trenches store, my

570
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 5: guys they own that store. You know, one of them

571
00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 5: plays for the Titans, and then the other earn is

572
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 5: his brother. They own the store. What I do with

573
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 5: that is kind of like general management and helping with

574
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 5: the things that I'm already good at that I do

575
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 5: for my business. So we use the same blank companies,

576
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. We use the same manufacturers,

577
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,919
Speaker 5: so when I get my stuff made, they get their

578
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 5: stuff made. So it's kind of like everything kind of

579
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 5: has to mess together, because if you do try to

580
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,880
Speaker 5: wear the same hat for everything, it can go bad

581
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 5: for you, you know what I mean. And my biggest

582
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 5: thing is not over extending myself. I got great business partners.

583
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 5: On the management side, when it comes to helping with producers,

584
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 5: one of my best friends does that, and then on

585
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 5: the brand side, my other best friend helps me with that.

586
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 5: So a lot of going back on the back and

587
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 5: forth on the phone. I'm more of like the consultant person,

588
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. And the fact that we

589
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 5: have manufacturers that do the labor for us, you know,

590
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 5: Really a lot of it is really just allocation and

591
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 5: making sure that we within budget, you know what I mean.

592
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 5: Knowing how much it's going to cost to get shirts done,

593
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, finding out the time to

594
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 5: get it planned. A lot of it, more than anything,

595
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 5: is planning, you know, when it comes to buying flights,

596
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 5: making sure you're not buying flight a couple of days

597
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 5: out because you know them flights will jump on you

598
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 5: in the hotels on you know what I mean. So

599
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 5: more of that, just anything, just all communication, you know

600
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 5: what I mean. There's sometimes where I take a step

601
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 5: back and my partners take the lead, and then there's

602
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 5: moments where I take the lead, you know what I mean.

603
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 5: There's certain times where I gotta travel and then they don't,

604
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 5: and then there's moments and vice versa. So just really

605
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 5: communicating and understanding the time that it takes to grow

606
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 5: a business. You know, right when y'all came, when y'all

607
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 5: came for the store, you know, we was going on

608
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 5: like a year anniversary. You know, that's been a process,

609
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. That was like one of

610
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 5: our bigger events, you know what I mean, being able

611
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 5: to have rap snacks involved and.

612
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: Y'all involved in fun time, had a good time.

613
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 5: So you know, it's been a learning curve. You know.

614
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 5: My guys they in their twenties, you know what I mean.

615
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 5: You know that were balancing sports and balancing the store.

616
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,719
Speaker 5: But I think that the fact that we're doing it

617
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 5: together allows us to be able to be honest about Okay,

618
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 5: this is probably like a five year plan if it

619
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 5: popping two to three. But at the end of the day,

620
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 5: I try to look at everything like a five year plan,

621
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. But the main thing is,

622
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 5: you know, having the right people involved, because if you

623
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 5: got the right people involved in you, you can pretty

624
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 5: much do anything, you know what I mean. And just

625
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 5: having good relationships, being able to connect with people like Chad,

626
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 5: I hit Chad in a minute. I just recently lost

627
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 5: a photographer. I'm like, bro, I need somebody to take

628
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 5: these pics, like I got.

629
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 6: You text everybody speaking of hi.

630
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: So I think is that like a New Orleans thing?

631
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 2: Like New Orleans just know how to hustle and we

632
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: stick together.

633
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 5: Main thing, Yeah, we'll stick together, man, because not too

634
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 5: many of us make it out. So I think that's

635
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 5: the connection we had. And the main thing is just

636
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 5: wanting to see people win, you know what I mean?

637
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 5: New Orleans is big on community. You don't have much.

638
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 5: So nine times out of ten, when you do give

639
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,239
Speaker 5: somebody something, it's going to be something that you could use, right,

640
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 5: I mean, somebody come knock on your door. I need

641
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 5: some red beans, I need some rice. You get like that?

642
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 1: Like that, you know what I mean?

643
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 5: So that that's what it is.

644
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you this because I noticed you

645
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,719
Speaker 2: did say, like your best friend runs this, and then

646
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 2: your other best friend runs that, and we get this

647
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 2: the most question like out of everything, like how is

648
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 2: it running a business with your best friend?

649
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: And like for us, we had our problems at one moment.

650
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 1: We've talked about that before, but now.

651
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 2: I think it's it's so like it's smooth now, like

652
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 2: you know, we we got it now. So for you, like,

653
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 2: how was it working with like your friends and did

654
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 2: y'all have a rough patch?

655
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: And like how did y'all get through that?

656
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 4: No?

657
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 5: I didn't have no rough patch with my guys. We

658
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 5: all started in music together, so I think the commonality

659
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 5: of us having our own individual music situation, right, and

660
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 5: we dealt with a lot of the same problems. That's

661
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 5: what made us come together to begin with because I

662
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,399
Speaker 5: knew them before, you know, I meaning we were just cool.

663
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 5: But it's like you deal with so many of the

664
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 5: like the people doing bad business, and you deal with

665
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 5: so many people you're kind of aware of who to

666
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 5: stay away from. So it was just like, man, well

667
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 5: we might as well work together because we know who

668
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,719
Speaker 5: not the fuck with, So let's be the people that

669
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 5: people should fuck with.

670
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: Right.

671
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 5: That's my main thing now, not to say that we

672
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 5: don't have disagreements on certain days, you know what I mean.

673
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 5: But I can't say we had any rough patches in

674
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 5: business personally between us that made me be like I

675
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 5: don't want to work with them, you know what I mean.

676
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 5: I kind of know I can I'm a good I'm

677
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 5: so good with energy. I know. I'm just like, let

678
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 5: me just let them tell me what they gotta tell me,

679
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 5: and so I don't. I don't respond out of the emotion,

680
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 5: you know, let me just hit him back the next day,

681
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, or let me just do

682
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 5: this another another time. So I think everything that we've

683
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 5: been through, you know, we we also keep in mind,

684
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 5: like what's the goal? You know what I mean, what's

685
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 5: the goal? Me and my man on the music side,

686
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 5: we don't really butt heads because he kind of like

687
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 5: was my manager and I learned the management game from him.

688
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 5: Now my man I do the brand with you know,

689
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 5: we have we have back and forth, just do our personalities.

690
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,719
Speaker 5: We outspoken, you know what I mean. So you know,

691
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 5: it could just be you know, I'm creative at the

692
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 5: end of the day, so I could have five ideas

693
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 5: on the table. He'd be like, bro, we only got

694
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 5: enough to do to of them.

695
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: Like, let's do this. I'm like, but I'm narrowing down.

696
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 3: And I've always been that way.

697
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 4: But I think it's important to to just not do

698
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 4: business with your friends just because y'all are friends.

699
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people just want to.

700
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 4: Do business with their friends, cause they be like, well,

701
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 4: we cold with each other, you know, when you seem

702
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 4: like you're a good employee, so let me go. But

703
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 4: working for somebody and working for yourself, it's completely.

704
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 5: Right, right, and you'll see something you in business, you're

705
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 5: gonna see things that you don't see personally, right, and

706
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, And somebody's character, you know

707
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 5: what I mean, And how somebody handle things. You know,

708
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 5: we all handle things differently, and I think that's the

709
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 5: common thread. And business is kind of letting have let

710
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 5: somebody have their way, you know what I mean. Like

711
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 5: negotiation is one of my favorite things. You know, one

712
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 5: of my favorite books is based on that. You know,

713
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 5: you always got to meet in the middle. You know

714
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 5: what I mean, You can't, I don't. I don't always

715
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 5: try to win me yeah. Yeah, Like sometimes winning is

716
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 5: losing in business, you know what I mean. Right, You'll

717
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 5: lose somebody that got connections at the end of the

718
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 5: day just because you was fighting over trying to be right.

719
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 5: Sometimes you gotta let the motherfucker go with they play,

720
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 5: and then when it go wrong, you're just like, right,

721
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 5: that's the fact. And then you just doubled down on it. Yeah,

722
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 5: you do yours.

723
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times in business, though, you

724
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: have to let go of that ego. That's where a

725
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 2: lot of people fuck up at is that that ego

726
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: gets in the way of so many things and they

727
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 2: feel like, oh, well, I'm this person, I'm supposed to

728
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 2: do this and that, and it's just like, you know what,

729
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 2: sometimes in the moment, you just gotta let people have it. Yeah,

730
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: And I think that's that's a true leader. Just you

731
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: gotta let people have it because you have to run something.

732
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, everybody gotta get paid,

733
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 2: everybody got to do their job.

734
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: So you know what, I'm gonna let you have that.

735
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: Where is the solution?

736
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 2: You know, like, why are we focusing on the problem.

737
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 2: So I think that is the quality of a leader

738
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 2: that a lot of people don't realize and don't know

739
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 2: because they feel like, if you're running something, you have

740
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 2: this big ego.

741
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: And I got to be the man in the building.

742
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 2: But honestly, like when you see them, the real person

743
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: that's running shit, they know how to put ego out

744
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 2: the door.

745
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 3: And I think too, you just have to have compatible work.

746
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's big, that's big. Yeah, I'm rocking with you.

747
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 5: If you go hard. If you're wrong, you're wrong.

748
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 3: Like we both might not know nothing about be.

749
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: Right, but.

750
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 5: That's big.

751
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: That's big because if you have somebody on your team

752
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: that's lazy and you doing all the work, that's gonna

753
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: start a whole other world.

754
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 5: I see it happen all the time. That's how managers

755
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 5: feel a lot of times with artists. Man you know,

756
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 5: they always say that you can't make somebody want it

757
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 5: more than they do, And I'm big on that. But

758
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 5: effort is everything to me and me it's everything.

759
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,480
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Speaker 2: Yes, So I want to switch it up a little

779
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 2: bit because I want to talk about this because you know,

780
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: they be talking about us in the South.

781
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: We talked about this yesterday with Myles.

782
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: They was talking about they alway talking about the way

783
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: people in the South dress.

784
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: They were talking about we can't dress.

785
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 2: So you coming from the South, moving to New York,

786
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: you have your clothing line and stuff. So how let's

787
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 2: talk about fashion and how it influenced you and how

788
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: much it's evolved and what you feel about Southern fashion.

789
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 5: For real, I think Southern fashion has come a long

790
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 5: way because I seen, I mean, coming from the nineties,

791
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 5: I've seen it all. I seen when football hit you know,

792
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 5: I'm from a home of white team Timmy with the

793
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 5: triangle to fake Tommy.

794
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

795
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 4: It used to be wearing red monkey.

796
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 5: I just drove past the Visu store is right up

797
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 5: the street. You know we had RockA wear. You know

798
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 5: we had all that.

799
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 3: Sean John south Pole.

800
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 5: South south Pole.

801
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 2: I need to see all your high school pictures because

802
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 2: your outfits that you talk about.

803
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 5: To put that demo, you'all had demo in Texas. Wait

804
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 5: was a clothing store that's sold baby Fat Fat farm.

805
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 3: Know, we had Stevie.

806
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 5: Yeah that was.

807
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 3: We got the sticky trains to get that ship.

808
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 4: But we used to wear all this ship that we

809
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 4: used to wear dugs in Jordan's I.

810
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: Went to always talk about this.

811
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 2: I went to all white high school, so I was

812
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: like the Abercrombie and Fitch.

813
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:12,959
Speaker 4: Wow.

814
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 1: Yeah that was me. That wasn't going Finch documentary job.

815
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 5: Yeah.

816
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 2: I was tuned in because I mean that's what it was.

817
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 2: It really was like you had to have Abercrombie and

818
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 2: Fish all. It wasn't ever like baby was wearing that look.

819
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 3: I used to be a slip king, Okay, I was slimming.

820
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was a little.

821
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 5: Slimming girls in New Orleans. They had too much ass

822
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 5: for that. Girls was wearing dicky suits. They were shopping

823
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 5: at Rainbow.

824
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,760
Speaker 1: Dress. You were a wild.

825
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 5: Baby fat definitely like the little Velords. They used to

826
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 5: go the little j Lo suit. That's what girls used

827
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 5: to be rocking the jellies, you know what I mean.

828
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: Sleep We did that.

829
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 5: We did that, you know. So and New Orleans is

830
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 5: more of a place too, Like women got crazy hairstyles.

831
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 5: It's a hairstyle we grew up on called barrel rolls,

832
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 5: and a lot of the girls had barrel rolls back

833
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 5: in the day, and you know, different braids and all

834
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 5: these different things like that. And then you know, obviously

835
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 5: dudes with dreads and you know, we had the boozy

836
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 5: fade first. It was the New Orleans phase before br

837
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 5: Niggas picked it up. You go back and look at

838
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 5: juv Juvie had the first fade.

839
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 3: Orsas like crazy.

840
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: You had in high school.

841
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 2: You always had I had a Carol, Yeah, I had

842
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 2: Harold with a fade.

843
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 5: And they always had long hair, so it was either

844
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 5: a ponytail or some kind of curl, you know what

845
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 5: I mean. We had a period where we went through

846
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 5: the afro and all that. Really yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

847
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 5: we had froze.

848
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, man with the curl.

849
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 5: I think fashion has come a long way just due

850
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 5: to you know, the Internet being able to open up

851
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 5: a lot of hours to the South. You know, in

852
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 5: the South, you find with your neighborhood, you know what

853
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 5: I mean. And you know, media is different down there,

854
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. Like we watched TV for

855
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 5: you know shows. You know, I grew up on Fresh Princes,

856
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 5: so I knew about Jay's and you know, I grew

857
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 5: up on Martin, you know what I mean, So I

858
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 5: knew about all that. But I think as the Internet came,

859
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 5: that's when I started seeing people in the South being

860
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 5: able to express themselves more because they was able to

861
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 5: be introduced to more brands, you know what I mean.

862
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 5: But back then, I mean, if you had a white

863
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 5: tea and your pants was creased up, you know what

864
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 5: I mean, it was on you feel me and a

865
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 5: white pair of g knights, you know what I mean,

866
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 5: two color, you know, and coming from the South, you

867
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 5: know what it is, a lot of our swag came

868
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 5: from school, So you had two pair of shoes that

869
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 5: you were to school you usually had a white pair,

870
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 5: you had a black pair, or you had a dress pair,

871
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 5: and you and you had a play you know what

872
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 5: you what you call it your street clothes. Yeah, yeah,

873
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 5: so that taught me more. I feel like growing up

874
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 5: in the southt me how to take care of things

875
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 5: because I knew I wasn't going to get too much

876
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 5: ship until I got a job, right, I mean, so

877
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 5: you learn about being able to clean your shoe strings

878
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 5: and washing clean your sneakers you feel me, Yeah, with

879
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 5: a tuth brush and all that, you know what I mean?

880
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 5: And you know before close it was really a name

881
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 5: plate chain, like if you got a nameplate chain. Was just.

882
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 4: Was talking about how everybody used to wear them name plate.

883
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 4: I can't remember the ones that was like digital.

884
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, how long are you living in New York?

885
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 5: On and off? Now? This is this would be my

886
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 5: fourth stint. I remember coming out here in like two

887
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 5: thousand and nine with Puffy on his album Last Train

888
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 5: of Paris. I used to be out here and I

889
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 5: lived in Harlem for a while, and living in Harlem

890
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 5: was amazing. One of these experience that you talk about

891
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 5: people outside all goddamn yeah, you talking about fashion, you

892
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 5: know what I mean people really really dressing. And then

893
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 5: Upper west Side, Upper east Side, but I would even

894
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 5: say La, you know what I mean, going to LA

895
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 5: in two thousand and six, you know, that's how I

896
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 5: learned about dunks. You know, the sneaker game. I learned

897
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 5: about the sneaker game in LA, going to Fairfax, going

898
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 5: to Librea, going on Melrose. You know, the sneaker shops

899
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 5: back then were real, real popular. So shoes you see

900
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 5: and go for like five hundred three hundred. Now they

901
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 5: was going for seventy nine dollars back in the day.

902
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 5: You feel me and a lot of the white boys

903
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 5: was known for wearing the sb's and then LA kind

904
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 5: of got like a weird culture where like the black

905
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 5: kids is very very well they well versed in white culture,

906
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, because you know, it ain't

907
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 5: too many niggas out there right right. A lot of

908
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 5: my friends in LA, they started putting me on different

909
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 5: brands I learned about. You know, I grew up wearing Polo.

910
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 5: You know, Polo is the biggest thing, and growing up

911
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,439
Speaker 5: in Tommy. When I got to LA, I learned about

912
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 5: brands like Double Rrel. You know, you go to Rodeo

913
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 5: for the first time, and you get to go into

914
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 5: these different stores and you see how people are dress.

915
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,359
Speaker 5: But coming to New York is where I learned how

916
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 5: to be fly. I grew up on you know, n

917
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 5: y music, but being able to come here and see it,

918
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 5: especially coming from a place that's hot all the time.

919
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 5: You know what I mean. When I when I got

920
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 5: to New York and I'm seeing, you know, people wearing

921
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 5: dressing career that should have made you feel underdressed, you

922
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 5: know what I mean. And living in l A, niggas

923
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 5: wear hoodie with shorts. That's where I picked that up,

924
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. Like you'll catch me with

925
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,439
Speaker 5: a long sleeve or a hoodie and shorts on. That's

926
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 5: straight the l A and me, you know what I mean.

927
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 5: But out here people have very very diverse styles, you know,

928
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 5: just even depending on what nationality they are. Nationality they are,

929
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 5: you know, Jamaicans, you know the all the different forms

930
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 5: of Islanders, you know what I mean. Then you got

931
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 5: you know, the Jewish swag, you know what I mean.

932
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 5: Then you got the just the super super high fashion

933
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 5: where you'll see guys that live in the hood, they

934
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 5: come out the house head the toe three thousand, four

935
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 5: thousand dollars, you know what I mean, So and Why

936
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 5: just taught me how they expressed myself in a different way.

937
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 5: I would have never wore a leather jacket in New

938
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 5: Orleans because it's two damn hot. But you know, coming here,

939
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 5: you know vancing jackets, you know what I mean, if

940
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 5: people know about them and shit like that, that's a

941
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 5: classic jacket. And you can just go to Soho and

942
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 5: just walk. I just go to Soho sometimes and just

943
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 5: people watch. One of my favorite accounts is the little

944
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 5: dude on Instagram that be checking everybody fit out and

945
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 5: be asking the questions and shit, I love shit like that,

946
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, because I'm able to see

947
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 5: so many different things, and you know, I like to

948
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 5: learn from people. I call myself a sponge.

949
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 4: You know.

950
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 5: Anytime I can see something I like, I like to

951
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 5: try it out, you know what I mean, as long

952
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 5: as it fit my body type, or as long as

953
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 5: it fit you know, my color scheme. And even sometimes

954
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 5: then you just got to be like, let me not

955
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 5: be so comfortable in what I know and just step

956
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 5: outside the box. So niggas in New Orleans ain't got

957
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 5: no stylists, but people out here have friends who are

958
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 5: stylists that put back on the different trends and the

959
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 5: different brands that you haven't heard of. So that's New

960
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 5: York is one place I would advise everybody to come.

961
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 5: You're gonna learn more about yourself, just because it's sensory

962
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 5: overload with all the things that you can see. You

963
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,240
Speaker 5: walking on feet and you just seeing all these different things.

964
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: I'm telling you'll lost five pounds as I've been here.

965
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 2: I've never walked so much in my life.

966
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 3: Like that's one reason why I love New York though.

967
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 4: I feel like you could be here, like you could

968
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 4: live here your whole life, and you're still never gonna

969
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 4: experience every city because it's always something and it's always

970
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 4: something going on.

971
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 5: And I feel like, you know, between living in La

972
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 5: my La people might kill me, you know, I still

973
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 5: love y'all. I feel like there are so many frontal

974
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 5: things in La. You know, your car, you know what

975
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 5: I mean, all these different things that you can have

976
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 5: in front of you to keep people from connecting with you.

977
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 5: In New York, you're gonna run down on a nigga.

978
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 5: You can literally run into a person, you know what

979
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 5: I mean. And I feel like you get to meet

980
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 5: people in like the rawest form out here, and you

981
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 5: got your people who care about fashion, and then you

982
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 5: got the people who just got their own style. They

983
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 5: just like dressing like this all the time. That's what

984
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,479
Speaker 5: I love about New York. You feel me like that

985
00:41:55,480 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 5: that Yankee hat. At that Yankee hat, it's one of

986
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 5: the class. What that's iconic?

987
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 4: No, I feel like this is one of like the

988
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 4: places that have the most proud people.

989
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 5: Yeah.

990
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, the New York person gonna let you know any

991
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 4: chance they eat, I'm from New York.

992
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 5: And I relate because even in New Orleans, it's the

993
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 5: same thing. You ask a person you're from New York,

994
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 5: they'd be like, no, I'm from Brooklyn, right. New York

995
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 5: is the state, right, so I ain't from Buffalo.

996
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 3: And even when it comes down to Boklyn and then

997
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 3: they be from flat.

998
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 5: Bush, Yeah, they gonna let you know exactly where they're from,

999
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,280
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So I think the pride

1000
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 5: if you come from a place that you know doesn't

1001
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 5: have this type of diversity, should definitely come here and

1002
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 5: experience it because you know it's gonna just open your

1003
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 5: mind up. Man, Like I never I never want to

1004
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 5: not be a New Orleans Nigga. But at the same time,

1005
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 5: you know, we got a short time on this planet,

1006
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 5: experienced as much as possible. You know, My next goal

1007
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 5: is to spend a lot of time in London, like

1008
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 5: I spent time in New York. I mean, because I

1009
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 5: got friends from London and they just tickle me. They

1010
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 5: are because they you know, they come from so many

1011
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,280
Speaker 5: different backgrounds, Cana and Niger, all these different things, and

1012
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 5: you know, they packed into a small area and I

1013
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 5: feel like they all pick up slang from each other.

1014
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 5: You know, you talk to some people from London, they

1015
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 5: talk like Jamaican's damn near, you know what I mean,

1016
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 5: because there's such an influence that they have over there,

1017
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 5: and that's just what I want to bring, you know

1018
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 5: what I mean to Black culture. I think that you know,

1019
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 5: we say it all the time with it that we're

1020
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 5: not monolithically, like we're not all the same. But I

1021
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 5: do think sometimes being American, we don't we don't connect

1022
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 5: to the diversity, you know what I mean. And you know,

1023
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 5: fashion is a language, you know what I mean, And

1024
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 5: I think, you know, you can connect with people through

1025
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 5: that and then eventually, you know, one thing I always say,

1026
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 5: I didn't grow up having Asian friends like that, you know,

1027
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 5: I mean, even though we got an influx of them

1028
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 5: in New Orleans, you know what I mean. I kind

1029
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 5: of stayed in my circle. But when I got to

1030
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 5: LA and Why, I started getting different piers in my circle.

1031
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 5: I remember going to their house for the first time

1032
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 5: and then making making me take my shoes off. You

1033
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 5: cannot step foot in my house now without taking your

1034
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 5: shoes off. Can't. And it's not because I don't. It's

1035
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 5: not because I think your shoes dirty or you're dirty.

1036
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 5: It's just just a meaning behind that coach that I

1037
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 5: related to of just being like, nah, before you step

1038
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 5: feet in my house. You know what I mean, You're

1039
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 5: gonna leave that bad energy at outside, you know what

1040
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 5: I mean. I ain't grow up knowing about don't sit

1041
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 5: on your bed with outside clothes, all right.

1042
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 1: You think up these.

1043
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 5: Different things as you go along in your life and

1044
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 5: you meet different.

1045
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 3: People, right right.

1046
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 4: So I was going to say, because yeah, so we

1047
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 4: talked about like the fashion, and so we really want

1048
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 4: to get into knowing about dating.

1049
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 5: Let's get it.

1050
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 4: Yes, you know how it is dating out here in comparison,

1051
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 4: So you know in the South.

1052
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 5: Oh Okay, in the South, I would say my dating

1053
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 5: experience was and from what I saw with a lot

1054
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 5: of my homies was the girl you met in school,

1055
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 5: simple as that. I was like the girl in eighth grade.

1056
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 5: Most of my niggas end up getting their baby mama

1057
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 5: about tenth grade. Straight up. Na, Like most of my homies,

1058
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 5: they've been with their girls. They whether it be their

1059
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 5: wife or they you know, they baby mim. They with

1060
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 5: them since school, at least dealing with them since school,

1061
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. In New Orleans is so small,

1062
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 5: so you only gonna have so many trips around before

1063
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 5: y'all be to mess with the same person, you know

1064
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 5: what I mean. So you're kind of gonna get the

1065
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 5: person you rock with and stick with them. When I

1066
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 5: got to l A, you know, LA is a different monster,

1067
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. La, you got options. I

1068
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 5: feel like in LA, especially being a black man, that's

1069
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 5: when you first get the opportunity to be able to

1070
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 5: probably date a girl outside your nationality, because you know,

1071
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 5: the mindset is different. You know, growing up in the South,

1072
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 5: you're kind of told, not necessarily to stay away from

1073
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 5: white people, but you know it would come with being

1074
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 5: in the South. Its a fact, you know what I meaning.

1075
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 5: It's not that you don't have white friends, but you

1076
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 5: kind of don't mesh in them areas where it get

1077
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 5: intimate and it get tricky, you know what I mean.

1078
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 5: Whereas when I went to La you know, whatever nationality,

1079
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 5: it didn't matter. Interracial relationships are abundant out there. I

1080
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 5: think in New York you get a little bit of both.

1081
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 5: I mean, you can mess with who you want to

1082
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 5: mess with, But then a lot of it boils down to,

1083
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 5: like what are you interested in?

1084
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 5: A lot of the people in entertainment mess with people

1086
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 5: in entertainment. A lot of people in fashion mess with

1087
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 5: people in fashion. A lot of people in you know,

1088
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 5: nightlife and a social scene, you know, gravitate towards each

1089
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 5: other because that just becomes your your way of navigating.

1090
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 5: I mean, I think in why you can do good dating,

1091
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 5: one thing's for sure, you know what I mean. Chicks

1092
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 5: ain't messing with no broke dudes out here. You carry

1093
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 5: cats out here. Yeah, And that's the lifestyle of you know,

1094
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 5: taking someone on a date that's not even a relationship thing,

1095
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 5: that's like a friendship thing. You know what I mean,

1096
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 5: Like people go out to eat with each other all

1097
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 5: the time, you know what I mean, Like you do

1098
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 5: so much outside it's almost like the convenient thing to

1099
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 5: do is just be like, Okay, meet me here, me here,

1100
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 5: meet me here, you know what I mean. So I

1101
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 5: do like that exchange of energy that happens in New

1102
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 5: York City. I feel like that carries into the relationship

1103
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 5: where you know the person that you're with, you do

1104
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 5: gotta be able to kind of meet their standards at

1105
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 5: the end of the day, or don't fuck with this person,

1106
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 5: don't even try, you know what I mean. But I

1107
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 5: do think here you can end up getting with somebody

1108
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 5: that can like completely change your perspective. Not to say

1109
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 5: that LA ain't like that, but and why you beat

1110
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 5: A lot of people have diverse backgrounds, you know what

1111
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 5: I mean, So you end up getting with them, they

1112
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 5: end up you end up sharing their culture instead of

1113
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 5: dating them. From like a superficial standpoint where you might

1114
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 5: meet a person in LA and you're asking, oh, who

1115
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 5: you are? What you do? You know what I mean?

1116
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 5: I see a lot of relationships pop off like that

1117
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 5: in LA because you know, people see people in the

1118
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 5: club and in New York, if you're bold enough to

1119
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 5: speak to somebody that could be your soul mate. You

1120
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 5: could be on the train, you can be walking down

1121
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 5: the street. You can see, but you just got to

1122
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 5: have it in you. You can't because they it's so

1123
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 5: many fishing to.

1124
00:47:53,000 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 4: See and I think everything you got to shoot.

1125
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 2: Do you feel like you date with like a New

1126
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 2: York mentality now or like a Southern mentality.

1127
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 5: I still try to go Southern because at the end

1128
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,479
Speaker 5: of the day, I'm gonna say a little bit of both,

1129
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 5: because I'm not gonna say I'm not attracted to the

1130
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 5: material things. I'm not gonna say like I am attracted

1131
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 5: to how somebody dress, You're not their appearance and all that.

1132
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 5: But at the same time, you know, growing up based

1133
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,439
Speaker 5: on principles, you know what I mean. I was raised

1134
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 5: with both parents, so my mom sticks.

1135
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 1: In my mind.

1136
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 5: If you're not a good person, you know what I mean,

1137
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 5: if them share kind of the same morals and principles,

1138
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 5: it ain't going nowhere, you know what I mean. In

1139
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 5: my younger days, I probably would have tried to hit

1140
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 5: it the first night, you know what I mean. But

1141
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 5: as you get older, you start realizing, like once you

1142
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 5: learn about energy, it takes the bill with somebody, you're

1143
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 5: gonna nip that quick, you know what I mean. And

1144
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 5: a lot of times you might just go kick it

1145
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 5: with somebody and you're attracted to them physically but from

1146
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 5: a mental standpoint. So I also think New York is

1147
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 5: one of the places too, where you start really discovering

1148
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 5: what beauty is to you, you know what I mean,

1149
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 5: not just the outer part of it, but you know,

1150
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 5: like the connection that you make.

1151
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: With somebody, get with them.

1152
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely. So I would say both, you know,

1153
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,320
Speaker 5: I mean definitely not l A. I try not to

1154
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 5: date like no l a motherfucker man because monster.

1155
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 2: But I do feel like New York men are very aggressive.

1156
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like the guys from here, Yeah, Like first day

1157
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 4: they're like telling you, like, this is what we're finn

1158
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 4: to be and this is what we find Like yo,

1159
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 4: you find to be my girl, like cut everything off.

1160
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 5: And you know why though, because the women here, you

1161
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 5: know what I mean, they kind of they kind of

1162
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 5: cut from the same cloth, are very They're sweet, they sweet,

1163
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, They all that, they super loyal,

1164
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 5: So I think with them it's just about not wasting

1165
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 5: no time you feel me, they'll rather I think they'll

1166
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 5: rather be in a relationship for three months than court

1167
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 5: for three months not knowing where it's going, because it's.

1168
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 3: Like because I don't want to waste it three months,

1169
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 3: thank you? You know what I mean?

1170
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 5: Period you feel me? But I think the main thing is,

1171
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 5: like you know, people here are just like they don't

1172
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 5: go They ain't gonna time, you know what I mean.

1173
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 5: Once you get you one, you feel me nine times

1174
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 5: out of ten, I think you're gonna get you a

1175
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 5: solid one, feel me. You just gotta play your part

1176
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 5: and do what you gotta do in I think in

1177
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 5: New York there's tears of relationships that are authentic to

1178
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 5: where you're at right now. You know what I mean.

1179
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 5: If you on your come up, you can find somebody

1180
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 5: on the come up, you know what I mean. If

1181
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 5: you a millionaire, you know what I mean, you can

1182
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 5: find somebody in that realm right in l A motherfucker

1183
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 5: be broken ship looking like a million bucks and you

1184
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 5: stayed at your house, tried to move in, you know

1185
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 5: what I mean.

1186
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 3: I feel like that.

1187
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you definite get a little count sir.

1188
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 5: You ain't doing that.

1189
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,439
Speaker 1: You get off of work that niggas still there.

1190
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 2: You well, I'm gonna let you know right now, the

1191
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:57,399
Speaker 2: girls is about to be in your d ms.

1192
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Speaker 1: Always, the girls is about to be in your dms.

1193
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Speaker 1: I'm just like you know right now.

1194
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Speaker 3: Because they gonna be like, wh oh, they coming for you?

1195
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Speaker 1: They are coming, correct? I know that's right. So you're

1196
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Speaker 1: let the girl you sing taking me in y'all.

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1198
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Speaker 2: because they was gonna be there.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 5: Period.

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00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 2: Well, you ready for the next topic because now we're

1223
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Speaker 2: finna get into the be.

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Speaker 3: Grow oh you want me to bring me? That's all

1227
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Speaker 3: for the bed. Topic we want to talk about is

1228
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Speaker 3: makeup six toxic.

1229
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Speaker 1: I want to talk about.

1230
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 2: This because this is how I feel like, because y'all know,

1231
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: I got something to say. I just feel like a

1232
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 2: lot of times when people are having makeup sex, I

1233
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 2: feel like that's just what they turn to. And you're

1234
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 2: having sex, but whatever of the problem was, it's still

1235
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: not getting solved. So it's like you feel the passion

1236
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 2: in the moment, you're like, oh I love him or

1237
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: oh I love her, and it's like after you're done,

1238
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 2: y'all may have a few good moments, y'all laughing, y'all talking,

1239
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 2: but two three days later, whatever issue was happening. It

1240
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,240
Speaker 2: is still there now y'all mad at each other again

1241
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 2: because the issue was never solved. And I feel like

1242
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 2: that's how a lot of toxic relationships start.

1243
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I don't know, because I guess the

1244
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 4: way I look at it, I feel like you can

1245
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 4: have makeup six, like make you're having makeup six because

1246
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 4: maybe y'all figured out the solutions to the problem, y'all.

1247
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 2: Right, But I feel like a lot of times, you know,

1248
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 2: you be in the middle of an argument and it's

1249
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 2: just kind of like.

1250
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 3: I never did that before, because if I'm mad at you,

1251
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 3: I don't want to have six with you. No, that's

1252
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 3: a fact, Like I'm not trying to puget me.

1253
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the arguments is different because I mean, are

1254
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 5: the argument right right? All right with somebody, maybe forty

1255
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 5: five minutes later you can be back on some like right,

1256
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. But when it comes to like disrespect,

1257
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 5: I can't. I can't have make up sex after disrespect, right, right.

1258
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,319
Speaker 1: That's a little bit. I don't mean like things as

1259
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: far as like that goes.

1260
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, like, if we having a little disagreement,

1261
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 2: you're like, Okay, I was tripping whatever, and we have good.

1262
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: It's still like is good when.

1263
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 2: We finish, it's still kind of like okay, but I'm

1264
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 2: still kind of upset, you know what I'm saying, because

1265
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 2: if you do it again.

1266
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's give a situation.

1267
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, give us the scenario.

1268
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 2: Say, let's say something small. You get on Instagram. You

1269
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 2: see your niggaw that was coming, you see you.

1270
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: The ground, was.

1271
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 2: Liked his ex picture or something. I like the girl

1272
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 2: picture of something. And I'm not saying that that's a problem.

1273
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 5: Okay, Look, let's make the situation even deeper. What what's

1274
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 5: what's more? Get you more mad? Him liking a girl

1275
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 5: or a certain girl. He's connected to a certain girl.

1276
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:08,879
Speaker 1: Let's talk about a certain girl.

1277
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 5: But mind you, so are you a jealous person?

1278
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 2: No?

1279
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 1: No, no, I'm not saying I'm not even saying this

1280
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: is me.

1281
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 2: I just see problems that people have. I'm just giving

1282
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 2: an example. But it's like, I feel like this. You

1283
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 2: are never wrong about the way you feel. You know

1284
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. You have a right to feel the

1285
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 2: way you feel about certain situation.

1286
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 4: But then sometimes people be feeling irrational about a lot

1287
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:28,439
Speaker 4: of shit.

1288
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: No, I can agree with that boy.

1289
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, like, if if you tell me, as

1290
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 2: your friend, you see me liking somebody's pictures that you

1291
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 2: don't like and you don't like, I'm gonna be like, okay,

1292
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 2: let me just stop. Then let me back up, you

1293
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So if I'm telling my man, hey,

1294
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 2: I don't like when you like your exist pictures. It

1295
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 2: doesn't make me feel comfortable, and he.

1296
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 1: Still is doing it, you know what I'm saying.

1297
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 2: So that's like something like a little disagreement that's disrespectful.

1298
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 4: Then to me, at that point, you don't need to

1299
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 4: be in a relationship with these persons because they.

1300
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 3: Don't care about your feeling.

1301
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I can agree with old.

1302
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 4: Them like, oh, I don't like when you do this,

1303
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,439
Speaker 4: and then they continue to do it. You just don't

1304
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 4: give a about how I feel, because how hard is

1305
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 4: it for you to like just scrowl past that.

1306
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: She child because niggas Instagram.

1307
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 4: If it's something that bothers me. But I don't really

1308
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 4: get like stuff like that is like not to say

1309
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 4: it's childish, because I don't want to make people feel like,

1310
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 4: you know, child get mad over no pigs like I'm

1311
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 4: thinking the deeper sh.

1312
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,360
Speaker 5: That's that's my thing. Yeah, that's my thing with women

1313
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 5: in relationships with men on social media, especially the type

1314
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 5: of men that women go after and they don't have

1315
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 5: social media, like you know, a nigga got mad followers

1316
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 5: and dealt with women before you get right, you're gonna

1317
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 5: get your nigga without Instagram or nigga with Instagram at

1318
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 5: this point.

1319
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 3: In time, and it's rare to find Instagram.

1320
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 5: No. My thing is, you know, if if you know,

1321
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,720
Speaker 5: you catch a dude in the comments saying certain things

1322
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 5: that you leaving the hard eye, niggas be tripping with that.

1323
00:56:55,120 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 4: If somebody screens out hell not.

1324
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: Like something small.

1325
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 2: You know, we're talking because I don't want to get

1326
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: into the like of the disrespect and having sex. But

1327
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 2: I feel like your nigga like a picture. It may

1328
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 2: have made you upset. Y'all can be getting into it

1329
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 2: about it, but y'all don't necessarily solve the problem.

1330
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: Y'all end up. You know, y'all just don't like.

1331
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 5: Ten niggas picks I.

1332
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 3: Would do that.

1333
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: I feel like that's still that's toxic. That still doesn't solve.

1334
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 5: The because sometimes people need to dose to their own medicine,

1335
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 5: because at the end of the day, that's that we

1336
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 5: live in a give and take world. So if you're

1337
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 5: always trying to play it fair and you always try

1338
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 5: to be like you shouldn't do this, you shouldn't do this,

1339
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 5: and there's no consequence to that. I think as women,

1340
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 5: women should be confident enough to understand, like, I'm not

1341
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 5: worried about losing you to no other women because clearly

1342
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 5: if you wanted to be with him, you would you

1343
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 5: wouldn't be here, you know what I mean. Right at

1344
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 5: the same time, you gotta know what this feel like.

1345
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 5: So yeah, let me go, like, go find a nigga

1346
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 5: with the Coli chain.

1347
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 4: Don't like people think everything is petty these days, but

1348
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 4: I don't think that that's pass. I do think something

1349
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 4: people need to understand what feels like, make them understand

1350
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 4: how you feeling.

1351
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 3: They might stop doing it.

1352
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 5: They will, they will because a nigga, if a nigga

1353
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 5: feel like he got you and anything he doing you

1354
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 5: just nigga's gonna push the line. It's in our nature, man,

1355
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 5: it's in our nature.

1356
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 1: Manias.

1357
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 5: Ain't get dressed up, go do some videos in the

1358
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 5: club with some niggas with big chains on and cargoons.

1359
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:42,479
Speaker 3: Then when he takes you and be like where you be, Like.

1360
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 5: That is going to he is going to stop doing

1361
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 5: that telling you. But it's just the it's just the

1362
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:55,439
Speaker 5: dynamic of women and men relationships, you know what I mean.

1363
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 5: Niggas are always going to be on the offense and

1364
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 5: try to keep a one on the defense. A lot

1365
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 5: of times, when you put a man on the defense,

1366
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 5: that's when you get to see them be vulnerable and

1367
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 5: you get to see their week's spins. That's when you realize, like,

1368
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 5: okay now, and it's not that you got to try

1369
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 5: and trigger somebody, but at the same time, I gotta

1370
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 5: let them know, like, look, this is how it could go.

1371
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 5: This is how I preferred to go, right Okay Now,

1372
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 5: When niggas see that, they'd be like, Okay, I prefer

1373
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 5: that way too, you know I mean.

1374
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,920
Speaker 4: And then I just feel like, at this age, at

1375
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 4: this big age, like we're all in our thirties, that's

1376
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 4: who the fuck is trying to day Somebody that don't

1377
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 4: care about how they feel and they's just gonna blatantly

1378
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 4: keep this perspect because to me, that's a form of

1379
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 4: this respect and I tell you something bothers me and

1380
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 4: you continue to do it. You really do not care

1381
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 4: about my feelings? So why are we together? Like, what's

1382
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 4: the point? Is somebody else that I could go date

1383
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 4: that's at the same age or maybe even a little

1384
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 4: bit older, who understands, Okay, if she don't like something,

1385
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do it because I wouldn't.

1386
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: Do that shit to you, right exactly.

1387
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 4: Agrees, Yeah, but I mean it's hard, you know, it's

1388
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 4: hard here that I think they can put up with

1389
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 4: s that they don't real we want to put up

1390
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 4: with because they don't want to be single.

1391
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 3: They be feeling like, oh, this is a better alternatives that.

1392
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 5: To me is a lot of it, you know what

1393
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 5: I mean? And I think I just thinking it's time

1394
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 5: with us being exposed to so many Instagram and make

1395
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 5: you feel like you got options you don't got. Fat

1396
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 5: niggas think cause you got them. Niggas think they got

1397
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 5: women that they don't have, you know what I mean,

1398
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 5: because they able to see them and like pictures and

1399
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 5: feel like they, oh I could get this one and

1400
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 5: the one that I got, you know what I mean.

1401
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:27,479
Speaker 5: You might be able to go in there and see

1402
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 5: something that look a little bit better. Got a bag

1403
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 5: that my girl don't got, you know what I mean?

1404
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 5: Got this? So I feel like niggas in their head

1405
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 5: is sometimes sick from the ground because they think they

1406
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 5: got at like the women that they don't they look better.

1407
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 4: But then what about this person being a shitty person,

1408
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 4: what about them being a liar?

1409
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 3: What about them being a cheater?

1410
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: All of that?

1411
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, you feel me and an expense that you can't

1412
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,000
Speaker 5: really keep up with, you know what I mean? A

1413
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 5: lot of times is that, like Shorty's to tell you nowadays, niggas,

1414
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 5: you ain't coming like this, you feel me, so you

1415
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 5: might just want to like picks. And I even think,

1416
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 5: I even think sometimes I even think most times the

1417
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 5: dudes is like that too, Like you remember, niggas watch

1418
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 5: rap video, I see all this shit man. So a

1419
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 5: lot of times the like is sometimes coming from an

1420
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 5: innocent place, you know what I mean. It's not coming

1421
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 5: from a ooh, I want to be with her. I

1422
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 5: think most times a nigga, if they felt comfortable enough

1423
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 5: with the woman, would show the girl to you. And

1424
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 5: not that they trying to get you to morph into that,

1425
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 5: but at least be like damn man, I'm attracted to

1426
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 5: this type of shit. I'm attracted this type of shit

1427
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 5: because you know what you like from seeing it, and

1428
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 5: you just can't fantasize it sometimes you not.

1429
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you just get in a relationship with a

1430
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 4: person like that that's what you like.

1431
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 5: No, I don't think it's that because it goes back

1432
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 5: to what I said about being a sponge. You might

1433
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 5: be with a shorty that don't get dressed up like that.

1434
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 5: She's solid, she cool, but you just ain't never really

1435
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 5: seen her get dressed up and be on that type

1436
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 5: of time. Now if you want her to do that,

1437
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:49,919
Speaker 5: I do think as a man you need to put

1438
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 5: the bill. You don't need to be putting that on her.

1439
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 5: But I just think dudes be uncomfortable about saying like, damn, shorty,

1440
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 5: I would like to see you wearing more heels than

1441
01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 5: Jay's or you know what I mean, at least two

1442
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 5: times out of the week, you know what I mean,

1443
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 5: I would like to see you get dressed up. But then,

1444
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 5: as a man, you also got to be willing to

1445
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 5: take a woman on a date for that scenario to be.

1446
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 2: Able to right exactly, because I feel like that's not

1447
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 2: a deal breaker. But that's something that you know, that's easy,

1448
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 2: that's an easy change, you know what I mean.

1449
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 1: So I can agree with him on that, like for sure.

1450
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 3: So you be getting mad friends.

1451
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 2: He No, No, I wasn't talking about me because at

1452
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 2: the end of the day, I just my confidence is

1453
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 2: like I really feel like I'm really that bitch.

1454
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 1: Like it's not too much that a nigga can do that's.

1455
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 2: Gonna bother me, you know what I'm saying. Like, but at

1456
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 2: the end of the day, from my man, I.

1457
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: Want to feel beautiful, I want to feel loved, I

1458
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: want to feel appreciated.

1459
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, if I was in the situation I'm dealing

1460
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 2: with a man and I see him liking all these

1461
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 2: girls pictures and then he's not liking mine or he's

1462
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 2: not complimenting me.

1463
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: That would be a problem.

1464
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 5: But that's weird.

1465
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1466
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 2: I'm just talking about like things you know that we

1467
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 2: see on the timeline and people going back and forth.

1468
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 1: You know, I've never had that.

1469
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 5: Now, what about the women, because I like what you

1470
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 5: just said, you say you feel confident, and if he's

1471
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 5: not liking yours, because there are women men who are

1472
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 5: confident in securing themselves who they do post beautiful pictures

1473
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 5: online you feel me and all that, But what about

1474
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 5: the women that's not posting pics?

1475
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1476
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 5: And doing that because like I said, the times when

1477
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 5: man niggas is on the phone. So if I'm at

1478
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 5: the crib and all I see you is in a

1479
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 5: T shirt all the time, you know what I mean.

1480
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 5: Niggas be need mental stimulation right right, it is what

1481
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 5: it is.

1482
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 2: But I think a thousand percent agree though, because like

1483
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 2: I said, I feel like that's something that I like

1484
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 2: to do. Though I like to look good for myself,

1485
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 2: but I also love you know, when I get dressed

1486
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 2: up and I walk in the room, my nigga's like damn.

1487
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 4: Like I think when you get in a relationship being

1488
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 4: a person that he wanted to be in a relationship

1489
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 4: for fact, you know, And I think a lot of

1490
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 4: women do that.

1491
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 3: I think men do that.

1492
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 4: Everybody needs comfortable in a relationship and forget like these

1493
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 4: are the reasons why these persons wanted to fuck with me,

1494
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 4: why they wanted to date me.

1495
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 3: I need to still keep being these.

1496
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 1: Persons, right, I won thousand percent agree.

1497
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 5: In that gym queen, you're not about to be liking

1498
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 5: all these muscles. Bring these muscles to the crib.

1499
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: Man got time to work out too.

1500
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 5: But man, I'm man. Look, I remember what it was

1501
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 5: like when I was skinny. Man. That sweet ship cool tyson.

1502
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: It's so.

1503
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's important. Like I said, I am.

1504
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 2: I think one thing about me Andrea. I think you

1505
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 2: can agree we take pride in the way we look.

1506
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: I have always.

1507
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that looks are everything, but I know

1508
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 2: initially when people see me, that's what that That's what

1509
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 2: it is. When the man sees me, it's the initial

1510
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 2: you know.

1511
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 5: You know, it's actually really cool to get to know y'all,

1512
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 5: because I think that's a huge thing with men. Yeah, intimidating.

1513
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 5: I know y'all had niggas liking y'all, but y'all actually

1514
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 5: are cool women. That's what nigg is really be wanting,

1515
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

1516
01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 4: But I think people always like from what me's the

1517
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 4: people never think we as cool as.

1518
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 5: We right probably think y'all bags are nothing. Conversation that's

1519
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 5: really what niggas want. Man. Niggas wanted me to chick.

1520
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 5: That's down to earth. You know what I mean, and

1521
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 5: not to say they want Like I don't want women

1522
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 5: to be a superhero because that ship is a fantasy.

1523
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,840
Speaker 5: But you know we are in evolved times, you know

1524
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 5: what I mean, where you know, you should be able

1525
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 5: to keep yourself up, You should be able to be intelligent, conversation,

1526
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 5: get your own money, make somebody else respect you for

1527
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 5: getting your own money, and all that type of shit.

1528
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 5: So I say the same thing with dudes.

1529
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 2: Man.

1530
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 5: A lot of times, dudes I call it like a

1531
01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 5: rap brain man. They'd be stuck in like a rapper mindset,

1532
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 5: always trying to do what they see on TV.

1533
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 1: You know they do.

1534
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 5: They end up do meeting women like y'all and can't

1535
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,680
Speaker 5: have a conversation, can't pick a spot to have a date,

1536
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 5: you know, I mean, you know, you know, women infamous

1537
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 5: for being like I'm angry.

1538
01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 1: What you want to eat?

1539
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 4: That's I always want to eat?

1540
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 5: You got to like that.

1541
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 2: Like if a guy like hits on me and he's like,

1542
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 2: you know, what do you wanna do? And I'm like, Okay,

1543
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 2: let's go to dinner or something and he doesn't like

1544
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 2: have a dinner or even a date. Idea period, I

1545
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 2: get super turned off by that. Like, I like men

1546
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 2: who are creative and like think of ways that they

1547
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 2: want to hang out with me.

1548
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 1: Like if you just be like I don't know what

1549
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 1: you want to do, I'm.

1550
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 3: Like, I don't like that plan.

1551
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:27,440
Speaker 1: She planned for me.

1552
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 5: I feel like it's a lot of dudes. That's that's

1553
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:31,920
Speaker 5: most dudes weak spot when it comes to that, I

1554
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 5: know what they want. But when it come to like

1555
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 5: being able to plan and do some ship that's yes,

1556
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:40,959
Speaker 5: then it be some lame nigga that got But.

1557
01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, oh my god today the lame I mean,

1558
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 2: we never had but he was oh my god, I

1559
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 2: never never had said.

1560
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,320
Speaker 1: But he would take me on the greatest.

1561
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:59,919
Speaker 2: Yeah. I hated everything about this man, the way he talked,

1562
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 2: the way he looks, but we always used to go

1563
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 2: to the doperst spots and the conversation wasn't bad.

1564
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 1: Let me not say that, but it was just.

1565
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 5: Like get creative.

1566
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Like I like people who pay attention to

1567
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 4: what I say.

1568
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:19,920
Speaker 5: And niggas as wavy as a man can be, we

1569
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 5: can't just think we to catch right now. I feel

1570
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 5: like that is truly for the women. You know what

1571
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 5: I mean. You gotta know you a good dude. You

1572
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 5: gotta know what you bring to the table at the

1573
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 5: end of the day. But I think a lot of

1574
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 5: niggas think they to catch That's why they be like,

1575
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 5: what you wanna do?

1576
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate Yeah, do you know who I am?

1577
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 1: And I'm special.

1578
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, studios.

1579
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:46,440
Speaker 3: Studio niggas in Atlanta.

1580
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Atlanta studio.

1581
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:51,479
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you said the dating in New York

1582
01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 2: and stuff is positive, because the dating in Atlanta is terrible.

1583
01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 5: No, nigga, niggas got spots they can bring you to

1584
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 5: out here. Yeah, you're going to meet her outside, so

1585
01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:02,080
Speaker 5: at the then you might meet the girl. Let's say

1586
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 5: you live in Manhattan, she might live in Queens. So

1587
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 5: you gotta be creative because when she decided to dip,

1588
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 5: it's over with. You gotta catch a train ride or

1589
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 5: you got to catch a ride. So you're gonna think

1590
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 5: swift on your feet out here, you know what I mean.

1591
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 5: And I think that's one thing that's a trait that

1592
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 5: men gotta have, you know, I mean, you gotta be creative,

1593
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. Don't overthink it, you know

1594
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 5: what I mean. You might literally just have to before

1595
01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 5: you go on a date, just list five spots, you

1596
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:28,240
Speaker 5: know what I mean. And if it's top golf or

1597
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 5: if it's a restaurant or whatever it is, Man, just

1598
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 5: do it because most times, once you get a person

1599
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:36,519
Speaker 5: there in the situation, they judging you. They ain't even

1600
01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 5: really judging all the exterior.

1601
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 3: When women like you, they want to go everywhere with.

1602
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,719
Speaker 1: You, everywhere. Carlos said he takes his women to Walmart.

1603
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: They be having a black.

1604
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 2: He was playing, I'm not gonna lie if slit in

1605
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 2: a bitch DM. He like, man, what you doing today,

1606
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 2: bab Let's go to Walmart. I need to get some stuff.

1607
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 3: First day's going They.

1608
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: Going doing because they doing. There's a lot of women.

1609
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying, ain't.

1610
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 1: Is getting on They catching on to it. They catch

1611
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 1: on to it. What's up, y'all?

1612
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 3: Your girl xp and is your girl?

1613
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: And y'all? Holiday season is among us.

1614
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 2: I know we are trying to find a gift that

1615
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 2: is different, unique and also affordable.

1616
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,400
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1617
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:31,920
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1618
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,800
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1619
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 4: each of your purchases supports a small business.

1620
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:41,439
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1621
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 2: from the maker. It ain't no you know, gotta get

1622
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 2: it this person, that person. You are supporting somebody directly.

1623
01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:53,840
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1624
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Speaker 2: you're gonna use code marry ten and get ten percent

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Speaker 2: off of your first order. That's M E R R

1626
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:03,640
Speaker 2: or why one zero to get a discount. So what

1627
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 2: you're gonna do is go to Etsy dot com and

1628
01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 2: get ten percent off of your order. It has to

1629
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:11,480
Speaker 2: be fifty dollars or more. But it's holiday season. Whatever

1630
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 2: you want is gonna be on Etsy dot com.

1631
01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 1: Happy Holidays.

1632
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, So now they're gonna get into the bob

1633
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:23,640
Speaker 2: hey By ow.

1634
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:26,439
Speaker 1: By Bow Bow Bow bow Bow.

1635
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 2: So I have everything a mop of the week and

1636
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 2: I have just been listening to this non stop. I

1637
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 2: feel like, first of all, I've talked about this artist

1638
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 2: before Pink Sweats.

1639
01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 1: I feel like people sleep on him the R and

1640
01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: B like he is just I have never heard a

1641
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 1: bad song from him, like honestly.

1642
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,559
Speaker 2: So he has a song with Nikiyah Gold called Energy,

1643
01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 2: and I, like you were saying earlier, I am very

1644
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 2: big on energy and the song is just she's basically

1645
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 2: talking about energy and how you make her feel, how

1646
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 2: she makes you feel when y'all are together, when y'all

1647
01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 2: in the room. Bad energy, good energy, because I feel

1648
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:03,719
Speaker 2: like a lot of people don't pay attention to people's energy.

1649
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:06,719
Speaker 2: And I just really like when people make songs about

1650
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 2: real life and you can really relate to it. So Yeah,

1651
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:13,960
Speaker 2: Nikiya Gold featuring Pink Sweat's Energy. That's my bop of

1652
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 2: the week fire R and b Period. Okay, my bop

1653
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 2: of the week is Tomorrow by Glow. Really, she just

1654
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 2: me having a whole one.

1655
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 3: I love her this summer.

1656
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 1: I love her every single show every time.

1657
01:11:26,280 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 2: I love it.

1658
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 3: And she just got like feel good bad each music.

1659
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 2: She really does. And then she had said something on

1660
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 2: Instagram the other that I really liked. She said, I

1661
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 2: don't care what y'all think about my body. I'm not

1662
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 2: getting a BBL. I'm not changing my nose. She's like,

1663
01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 2: I'm beautiful and this.

1664
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 1: Is who I am.

1665
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 2: And I love the fact that she has reached this

1666
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 2: amount of success, you know, not being like having a

1667
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:47,679
Speaker 2: BBL or you know, getting any work done or whatever

1668
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:49,679
Speaker 2: like that, because I feel like a lot of times

1669
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 2: people try to give other people, Oh She's only there

1670
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 2: because of how she looks, and it's like, no, some

1671
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 2: people just don't have raw tell some people just you

1672
01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 2: got the it factor or you don't. And it's like

1673
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 2: Loreala is beautiful, you know, and I really just fuck

1674
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:03,839
Speaker 2: with her music.

1675
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so tomorrow is about I agree.

1676
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 3: With you what you've been listening.

1677
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:13,640
Speaker 5: To Larry June Organic Adjustments, that's right, Larry June organic.

1678
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 1: In his head, that's right.

1679
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that whole project. But yeah, I've been

1680
01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 5: playing that song on repeat, so if you haven't heard it,

1681
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:26,639
Speaker 5: La Larry June Organic Adjustments, Man, I really need to.

1682
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 2: Sit down and like really listen to him because he's

1683
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:31,120
Speaker 2: like the fourth or fifth person that's came on here

1684
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 2: about the.

1685
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 5: Last project is really really good. Not to say that

1686
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:37,719
Speaker 5: the other one's aren't, but this one he took everything

1687
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:40,599
Speaker 5: he was doing and elevated another level one. That's one

1688
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 5: thing I love an artist when they stay true to

1689
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 5: themselves and still find a way to grow me. So

1690
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 5: definitely that and then anything baby Face, Ray, baby Face,

1691
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:54,880
Speaker 5: Boston Richie, Boston Richie. I'm listening to Boston Richie, Boston Richie.

1692
01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:57,799
Speaker 5: He's the future with FBG. Got a song certified dripper.

1693
01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 5: You got a song bullseye that's not right of mind?

1694
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:06,519
Speaker 2: Yes, but yeah, we have actually shouted baby face before

1695
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:07,640
Speaker 2: because we actually.

1696
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 3: Well we don't.

1697
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 1: We might like a pig. We didn't have to.

1698
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 2: Look, he got all the friends, were gonna go out

1699
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 2: with him? We're gonna because he got all the good friends,

1700
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:19,080
Speaker 2: he got the BDB friend.

1701
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 4: Now you gonna get into our favorite segment of the show,

1702
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,680
Speaker 4: which is pour your heart out. So y'all know, if

1703
01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 4: y'all have any questions y'all want us to answer, you

1704
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 4: can send them to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1705
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 4: That's as kp oh you are in my n d

1706
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:37,679
Speaker 4: s at gmail dot com. We accept testimonials as well.

1707
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:39,680
Speaker 4: Let us know, you know, if your life up or

1708
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 4: if you.

1709
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:42,680
Speaker 1: Out, because I know we done did that. You want

1710
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 1: to go? Are you going?

1711
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:44,439
Speaker 3: You want me to go?

1712
01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 1: Ahead? Girl?

1713
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 4: Question number one, high lady. So, I had a friend

1714
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 4: I've known over ten years. I did her and her

1715
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 4: baby daddy's hair.

1716
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 3: Make hum, okay, mind you this was the day Doff died.

1717
01:13:57,320 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 4: I did her hair first and saw she had scratched

1718
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,479
Speaker 4: she's on the back of her neck side note some

1719
01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 4: days before doing their hair. I got some news from

1720
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:07,719
Speaker 4: a mutual friend saying that they think he's hitting her.

1721
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 4: I did his hair second, and he was the one

1722
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 4: that showed us that Doff died. And we was all

1723
01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 4: like damn and had a moment of silence, and then

1724
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:17,080
Speaker 4: she goes to say, damn, let me go check on

1725
01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 4: my men. Side note, she loves key Clock, That's who

1726
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,439
Speaker 4: she was referring to. So they get into it real

1727
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 4: bad about that in front of me. After that, it

1728
01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 4: was just quiet, but I could tell he was still heated.

1729
01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 4: I get done with his hair. He gets up and

1730
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 4: snatches his jacket from under her, grab the baby and love.

1731
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 4: Apparently he was supposed to pay for both of their hair,

1732
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 4: so she follows him to see what's up and leaves

1733
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 4: with him. She wasn't answering the phone, so I left

1734
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 4: her alone after that present time. Side note, I have

1735
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 4: a store. I'm at work and she walks in. I

1736
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 4: declined her service because why do you feel like you

1737
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:51,519
Speaker 4: can come to my store and you owe me money?

1738
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 4: So she tries to get into it with me in

1739
01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 4: front of my customers. She even took it to social

1740
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 4: media and was talking hell of sheit that wasn't true, What.

1741
01:14:58,479 --> 01:14:59,760
Speaker 3: Do you ladies think I should do.

1742
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 4: I'm definitely gonna continue to leave her alone, but I

1743
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:04,559
Speaker 4: do feel bad for her just the thought of her

1744
01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 4: getting heat.

1745
01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 3: Doesn't see it will with me.

1746
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 5: That's a lot.

1747
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 2: That's a lot because I feel like, at the end

1748
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 2: of the day, it's very unfortunate that she's in a

1749
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,960
Speaker 2: situation like that. But you have a business to run,

1750
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:19,640
Speaker 2: so you know, when you're running a business, not everybody

1751
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 2: is going to have good things to say about your business.

1752
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:24,920
Speaker 2: Somebody's going to have a bad experience every now and then.

1753
01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, whether it's true or not,

1754
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 2: I feel like, as long as you're doing what you're

1755
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 2: supposed to be doing with your other clients, that's gonna

1756
01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 2: always overshadow what one person has to say. You know

1757
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, So I feel like you did the

1758
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 2: right thing. Don't respond because one thing I hate to

1759
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 2: see I hate. I will never go to a person

1760
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 2: I don't care how good you do hair if I

1761
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 2: see you arguing with somebody on social media, Like if

1762
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 2: I see like a client did something and you going

1763
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,680
Speaker 2: back and forth with them, I think that is so unprofessional.

1764
01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 2: It's so a moocky right, because I feel like if

1765
01:15:55,360 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 2: I say something the appointment, because the one thing about

1766
01:15:57,120 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 2: me if I'm paying for a service, if I don't

1767
01:15:58,720 --> 01:16:00,720
Speaker 2: like something, I'm like, hey, can you change this on

1768
01:16:00,760 --> 01:16:01,000
Speaker 2: my hair?

1769
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:01,439
Speaker 1: I don't like it?

1770
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:04,680
Speaker 2: Or can you fix this or you know, and we

1771
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 2: going back and forth. I don't want to get home

1772
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 2: and I see, oh, XP is so picky. I had

1773
01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 2: to do an extra hour on her hair, Like, I

1774
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 2: just feel like you would do that. So I feel like,

1775
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 2: just stay professional and you know, just take your l

1776
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:18,559
Speaker 2: you did her hair, she didn't pay, and just move on.

1777
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't try to maintain a relationship with her,

1778
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 4: cool with her because she still ain't paid.

1779
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out the key clock period.

1780
01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 2: As a business owner, do you have to deal with

1781
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:32,520
Speaker 2: like crazy customers?

1782
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Instagram is hilarious. Yeah, things that people

1783
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 5: look I'm gonna come clean. Oh, there's been a couple

1784
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:42,240
Speaker 5: of times where you were you. There's been a couple

1785
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:44,600
Speaker 5: of times where I've had to say things back to people.

1786
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 1: Arguing I'm not getting called a slug.

1787
01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 5: There was a tough period during COVID where people didn't

1788
01:16:51,800 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 5: necessarily understand the restraints of business you know, and they

1789
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 5: wanted their orders fast, and this this, and you know

1790
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:00,720
Speaker 5: they threatened trying to get refunds and all this. I'm

1791
01:17:00,800 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 5: quick to give your money back, you know what I mean,

1792
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 5: if that's how you want to play it. But you know,

1793
01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 5: at the same time, there are certain things that come

1794
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 5: with business that be out of my hands. I don't

1795
01:17:09,200 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 5: work at ups. I mean, so if I give you

1796
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:14,599
Speaker 5: a tracking number on your package after I drop it off,

1797
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:19,559
Speaker 5: we gotta thug it out together. People will come at

1798
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 5: you in crazy, crazy, disrespectful ways and spend a couple

1799
01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 5: of times in emails, you know. Like I said, I

1800
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 5: try my best not to do it on the timeline,

1801
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 5: but in emails, people will send you some crazy stuff,

1802
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 5: and you know, you gotta let them know that. You know,

1803
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:34,559
Speaker 5: integrity and the respect of my business is bigger than

1804
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:36,800
Speaker 5: you know, me even getting your money. I get your

1805
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:38,599
Speaker 5: money back and let the shirt still come to you.

1806
01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 5: Just have the principle, you know what I mean, I'll

1807
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 5: let you know and anytime I see your name come

1808
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:44,000
Speaker 5: through it in the future, you know what I mean,

1809
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 5: You wouldn't get any of my product gotch especially at

1810
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 5: this point where I am. I'm a small business, so

1811
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:53,040
Speaker 5: my reputation is super super important. I'm not Nike where

1812
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. I can give you some

1813
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 5: product and that shit could be however it goes, and

1814
01:17:57,479 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 5: I'm too big of a giant, right right, you know

1815
01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 5: what I mean? But yeah, I'm not. I'm not trying

1816
01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:03,720
Speaker 5: to do that on the timeline I.

1817
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: Feel, yeah, I don't like to see that. Okay, question

1818
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:08,759
Speaker 1: two highlex Andrea.

1819
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 2: I'm trying to find out where the older eligible men

1820
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 2: frequently visit. I would like to position myself around black

1821
01:18:15,640 --> 01:18:19,000
Speaker 2: men over forty away from social media. Can y'all recommend

1822
01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:22,720
Speaker 2: a few smart spots that are solo friendly, meaning appropriate

1823
01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:26,719
Speaker 2: for one person. I like art, live music, and generally

1824
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:29,240
Speaker 2: have a good time. I'm ready to meet some bdb's.

1825
01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:30,719
Speaker 2: Thank you in advance.

1826
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:33,439
Speaker 4: I think in Atlanta you gotta go to happy hours

1827
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 4: like right when niggas being off work, like like around

1828
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:40,040
Speaker 4: like the time of like five to like, look.

1829
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:43,479
Speaker 1: I'm taking them super but I don't go nowhere. Well,

1830
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 1: first of all, let me tell you what a BDB is.

1831
01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 1: A BDB is a big, big baller.

1832
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 2: So a BDB this is a term for the men

1833
01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:53,800
Speaker 2: that got it. They're gonna spend the money, You're gonna

1834
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 2: have a good time.

1835
01:18:54,680 --> 01:19:04,720
Speaker 1: Are you a BDB where my home?

1836
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:07,760
Speaker 5: My homies got SOHO house membership, so you might catch

1837
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:13,120
Speaker 5: me in soul house. Airport, man, I bet airport. You

1838
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:24,800
Speaker 5: meet me at the airport. Alle definitely museums, you know what

1839
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:28,280
Speaker 5: I mean. But I feel like dudes that got real

1840
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 5: paper and real schedules, you're probably gonna have to meet

1841
01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 5: them in the vicinity of their workplace. So you was

1842
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 5: right on like you was right on, like eating it

1843
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 5: during the day and ship like that, you know what

1844
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 5: I mean. Like I'm a daytime mover. You feel me,

1845
01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:44,640
Speaker 5: I'll really only move at night if I got the

1846
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 5: right people with me and ship like that, you know

1847
01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:47,880
Speaker 5: what I mean. Or it's something that I really need

1848
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 5: to be out with more times or less. It'll be

1849
01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:51,840
Speaker 5: a friend in town that's not from there that I

1850
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:54,960
Speaker 5: go spend time with them. But if I'm on my own,

1851
01:19:55,680 --> 01:19:57,679
Speaker 5: I tend to do most of my moving during the day,

1852
01:19:57,840 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So let's say in New

1853
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 5: York per se, you know what I mean. You got

1854
01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:05,719
Speaker 5: different restaurants, brunch spots, all these different type of places

1855
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:09,680
Speaker 5: where you'll find somebody at night. I feel like more

1856
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:11,559
Speaker 5: than anything, you probably gonna see somebody on a date,

1857
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:13,120
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, or you know, I mean

1858
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:16,240
Speaker 5: in a group where you know, probably not gonna be

1859
01:20:16,240 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 5: able to.

1860
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:18,240
Speaker 1: Get they're not really looking.

1861
01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 4: But it's gonna be too crazy too at nighttime. It

1862
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:23,120
Speaker 4: just be too much going on. You're either gonna be

1863
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 4: at a club or a restaurant. Like you said, the

1864
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 4: restaurant is gonna be picked.

1865
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:29,080
Speaker 5: From from one to three, From one to three, catch

1866
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 5: niggas for sure, you know I mean, because most people,

1867
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:36,920
Speaker 5: you know, you know what I mean, most dudes now

1868
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 5: I don't see I don't know if she I don't

1869
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 5: see too many black dudes doing that, you know what

1870
01:20:42,200 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 5: I mean. But you do have your certain people who

1871
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 5: you know, they got studios and all these different things

1872
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:50,240
Speaker 5: as far as like art studios, she said, she like art.

1873
01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 5: You mean, dudes usually frequent like a coffee spot or

1874
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 5: something in that area. You know what I mean. That

1875
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:56,560
Speaker 5: you can catch the mat and you might just have

1876
01:20:56,640 --> 01:20:59,479
Speaker 5: to go for three weeks straight, you know what I mean,

1877
01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 5: and then you run into a nigga, you know what

1878
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:04,479
Speaker 5: I mean. But I would say the airport, get you

1879
01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:07,280
Speaker 5: a first class, pay for first class seas. I think

1880
01:21:07,320 --> 01:21:09,320
Speaker 5: that's really the way to get to the people that

1881
01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 5: you really want to, you know what I mean. There's

1882
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 5: a price of entry. There's a price of entry that

1883
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 5: you gotta pay to get to certain people, you know

1884
01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:21,040
Speaker 5: what I mean. Now where you may not be trying

1885
01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,320
Speaker 5: to trick on them, you may have to pay for

1886
01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 5: them first class seats to get you around a different

1887
01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 5: set of round you know what I mean, that you

1888
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:29,400
Speaker 5: run into And a lot of times most of people

1889
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 5: I see sitting first class or fly a lot, you

1890
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:34,479
Speaker 5: know what I mean, they in the delta lounge or

1891
01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:38,040
Speaker 5: they in that area before economy, you know what I mean,

1892
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 5: as simple as that. But the back of the plane

1893
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 5: is gonna be a bunch of people. You know. That's

1894
01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:43,559
Speaker 5: kind of random, you know what I mean? And different

1895
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 5: shiit like that, And I think I think it's the

1896
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:48,680
Speaker 5: same thing when you're on the streets, you know what

1897
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 5: I mean, Like different restaurants. Depending on what restaurants you

1898
01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:54,000
Speaker 5: go to, there's gonna be a certain caliber of people

1899
01:21:54,280 --> 01:21:56,320
Speaker 5: that are in there, right, I mean, so you're gonna

1900
01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:57,920
Speaker 5: have to pay that tab. You might just be able

1901
01:21:57,960 --> 01:22:00,280
Speaker 5: to it be shorties that just go to the bar,

1902
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 5: right keep it real with you. But yeah, you might

1903
01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 5: buy your first two drinks because you got to sit

1904
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:08,280
Speaker 5: in there for a little while and next thing you know,

1905
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:10,639
Speaker 5: a dude can peep the drink you want and be like, look,

1906
01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:11,679
Speaker 5: I get you another one.

1907
01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1908
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 4: That's like, especially with living in Atlanta, it's like you're

1909
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:16,240
Speaker 4: not about to find the type of nigga you're looking

1910
01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:20,120
Speaker 4: for it at like cobb Lan, I'm weak being a

1911
01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 4: little extra money, go sit at the bar, a little alley.

1912
01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 1: Or something dem little alley.

1913
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:27,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like Midtown and Buckhead are great places.

1914
01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:29,639
Speaker 2: But that was actually some good advice that he said.

1915
01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:32,040
Speaker 2: During the day. Yeah, during the day, during the day,

1916
01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:35,559
Speaker 2: because at nighttime it's definitely date night, you know, group hangouts,

1917
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 2: all that stuff. Yeah, we're gonna call that BDB hour

1918
01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 2: from one to three pm.

1919
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 3: Okay, Question number three, what's good y'all?

1920
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be all male listeners, and I'm gonna start

1921
01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 4: off by saying, y'all find its fuck. But I so

1922
01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:56,000
Speaker 4: I've been dealing with this female. I'm dealing with this

1923
01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 4: female for about three years now, on and off, but

1924
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:02,160
Speaker 4: we've never been in the official committed relationship. This year,

1925
01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 4: she fucked around and told me about her other situationship.

1926
01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 4: Long story short, the nigga she was fucking around with

1927
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:11,000
Speaker 4: girlfriend was getting suspicious about their relationship, so she ended

1928
01:23:11,080 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 4: up befriending shoddy and kept fucking with dude because they

1929
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 4: were supposedly best friends. Now she hitting me talking about

1930
01:23:18,000 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 4: she want to have a baby and get married. But

1931
01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:21,920
Speaker 4: I don't really know if I can trust her, as

1932
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 4: she got a good job in her head on straight,

1933
01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 4: so I don't know if I should give her the

1934
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 4: benefit of the doubt or just give her ass the boot.

1935
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:32,439
Speaker 1: Dang, she's crazy because why.

1936
01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 3: Would you be dished me for another nigga?

1937
01:23:36,320 --> 01:23:38,120
Speaker 4: And now she coming back around said she want to

1938
01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 4: have a bit because the situation didn't work.

1939
01:23:40,479 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 1: No, she became friends with the other dude's girlfriends.

1940
01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:45,919
Speaker 4: Well that too, but then also because the other situation

1941
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 4: didn't work.

1942
01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:48,280
Speaker 3: Now you want to come back to me and you

1943
01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:50,479
Speaker 3: talk about you want to have a baby and get married.

1944
01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:51,639
Speaker 1: No, that's too old.

1945
01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you need to leave her alone.

1946
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:00,040
Speaker 2: You definitely need to leave her alone, because I I

1947
01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:02,559
Speaker 2: feel like anybody that tries to become friends with somebody

1948
01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:06,120
Speaker 2: to do some like spiteful things, that's just weird. That's

1949
01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:08,519
Speaker 2: a very rare She would do the same sheets exactly,

1950
01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:10,320
Speaker 2: and that tells you a lot about her character. When

1951
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 2: people show you their character, please believe them, Okay, because

1952
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I ever have to question anybody

1953
01:24:16,280 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 2: around me like why or why would you do that?

1954
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 2: Like so, if you have to start questioning somebody's character,

1955
01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:23,000
Speaker 2: that's a sign.

1956
01:24:22,840 --> 01:24:23,400
Speaker 1: For you to go.

1957
01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:26,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, give her answer the bood period.

1958
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:27,200
Speaker 1: Let the hell go.

1959
01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:29,679
Speaker 2: All right, Well, let everybody know where they can find

1960
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:32,600
Speaker 2: you at what you got working on coming up?

1961
01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:33,640
Speaker 1: All that good stuff.

1962
01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 5: Find me on the internet all things chasing cash. If

1963
01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:39,360
Speaker 5: you type in chasing cash, my Instagram would come up,

1964
01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 5: my Twitter would come up. My Twitter handle is the

1965
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:45,400
Speaker 5: air t H E H E I R my Twitter

1966
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 5: Chasing cash campbyrespect dot com to come shop with us.

1967
01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,519
Speaker 5: We got the new collection coming waiting on that eighty

1968
01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:56,439
Speaker 5: five South collabor I know that's right. Other than that,

1969
01:24:56,479 --> 01:24:58,160
Speaker 5: you can pull up on me in Nashville. I'm in

1970
01:24:58,240 --> 01:25:00,560
Speaker 5: Nashville often nine six. You can the street that the

1971
01:25:00,600 --> 01:25:02,080
Speaker 5: trenches man, come shop with us.

1972
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:02,920
Speaker 1: Very good.

1973
01:25:03,760 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, all over in New York, l A, New Orleans,

1974
01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 5: you know, I mean, I'm all over the place. Man,

1975
01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:10,559
Speaker 5: if you follow me on social media, you can see

1976
01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:12,879
Speaker 5: my whereabouts. I ain't posting them live.

1977
01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:15,880
Speaker 1: Gone.

1978
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:18,160
Speaker 5: You might have to catch me in the airport, but

1979
01:25:18,320 --> 01:25:18,840
Speaker 5: I'll be there.

1980
01:25:19,360 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 1: And New Orleans we're gonna we're gonna see y'all some.

1981
01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:28,800
Speaker 5: Book, y'all up in greenhouse, man treehouse and all that.

1982
01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:30,320
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that.

1983
01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:30,720
Speaker 4: Man.

1984
01:25:31,840 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 1: You got a song you want to do today?

1985
01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:36,640
Speaker 2: You have a song I said, I said you it

1986
01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 2: was on responsibility for you today because I did it yesterday.

1987
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 3: You say you wanted to sing chopper and.

1988
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:42,920
Speaker 1: You said you said hot boys.

1989
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:44,280
Speaker 5: Hot boys.

1990
01:25:44,439 --> 01:25:45,280
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

1991
01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:46,440
Speaker 1: Go away.

1992
01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:48,080
Speaker 3: So I mean, I don't know what song. You didn't

1993
01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:49,680
Speaker 3: tell me to pick a song, but I pick one

1994
01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:50,240
Speaker 3: real quick.

1995
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:53,800
Speaker 5: After every one I got want to take it and bitch,

1996
01:25:53,920 --> 01:25:56,240
Speaker 5: shut it down, Break it down with me and the friend,

1997
01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:58,639
Speaker 5: big about side rise, take that thing to the right.

1998
01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:01,320
Speaker 5: What well, you skip the line?

1999
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

2000
01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:03,960
Speaker 5: Come on.

2001
01:26:08,720 --> 01:26:10,240
Speaker 2: At the end of the show. We always do a

2002
01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:13,200
Speaker 2: good song. And since you from New Orleans, we're gonna

2003
01:26:13,200 --> 01:26:15,320
Speaker 2: do it. We're gonna do hot boys. We're gonna we're

2004
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:18,479
Speaker 2: gonna close it out. We're gonna make it good for him.

2005
01:26:18,800 --> 01:26:22,080
Speaker 2: And let me say these New Orleans how they have

2006
01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:25,200
Speaker 2: changed the game right now with the music. Everybody has

2007
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:27,559
Speaker 2: like a big freedom on the record, the bounce stuff,

2008
01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:31,280
Speaker 2: and I loved it. Shout out to New Orleans. Now,

2009
01:26:31,320 --> 01:26:34,320
Speaker 2: are you gonna ever do that sound you think I have?

2010
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:35,680
Speaker 5: You know, I mean, I've done it. You know what

2011
01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:35,960
Speaker 5: I mean.

2012
01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:38,920
Speaker 1: That's not doing it right right right, that's not up.

2013
01:26:39,240 --> 01:26:41,400
Speaker 5: On on the other side of New York. Got you, got you,

2014
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:43,200
Speaker 5: got you the other side the luxury.

2015
01:26:43,439 --> 01:26:45,960
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you know what I mean.

2016
01:26:45,960 --> 01:26:51,000
Speaker 5: Shout out. I seen him and the girl just simple instead,

2017
01:26:51,640 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

2018
01:26:52,200 --> 01:26:55,040
Speaker 1: That's a fire little song. I like it. I like it.

2019
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 5: You know my country cousin less too, you know music

2020
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:00,479
Speaker 5: you got.

2021
01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:03,000
Speaker 2: Literally like me and Lesser like when I tell people

2022
01:27:03,040 --> 01:27:05,000
Speaker 2: that's literally my best friend may be like you know less,

2023
01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:06,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, so shut out to last.

2024
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:11,639
Speaker 1: That's my home. You ready, girl, right go ahead, girl

2025
01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:12,800
Speaker 1: on your back up.

2026
01:27:12,880 --> 01:27:15,040
Speaker 3: Now you're gonna see why I gotta do it.

2027
01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 1: I want yourne I gotta do that for That's how

2028
01:27:17,479 --> 01:27:17,920
Speaker 1: it start.

2029
01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:22,840
Speaker 5: This is. I want to do Wayne versus. I want

2030
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 5: to dol Wayne and verse the rappers for us today.

2031
01:27:28,439 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 5: Let's go. The first down is I like IM hot.

2032
01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:34,360
Speaker 3: I'm just not prepared me let me get you know.

2033
01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:39,800
Speaker 5: What teamwork, man, Come on, let's go, let's go. Let's go.

2034
01:27:39,880 --> 01:27:40,800
Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on.

2035
01:27:40,800 --> 01:27:41,960
Speaker 1: We don't get there one day.

2036
01:27:42,360 --> 01:27:44,679
Speaker 5: We're here, we here, right here, all right, let's go. Okay,

2037
01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,160
Speaker 5: I'm gonna go first. I got the worst, now I

2038
01:27:47,200 --> 01:27:50,000
Speaker 5: got I like I'm hot. The ones that don't tell

2039
01:27:50,040 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 5: me to stop eat dick swaller to come and they

2040
01:27:52,439 --> 01:27:53,280
Speaker 5: know how to pop.

2041
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:57,679
Speaker 3: The project bitch rad bitch when don't give a she took.

2042
01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:00,360
Speaker 5: That dis doggy with it. She can wive it, didn't

2043
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:02,400
Speaker 5: you know how the monkey with it open a legend,

2044
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:04,240
Speaker 5: squeeze a nigga that you want me in it? I

2045
01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:06,400
Speaker 5: turn around and back it up and throw it on

2046
01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:08,799
Speaker 5: a nigga till I say that's enough to be against

2047
01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:12,200
Speaker 5: the whole. When they don't give a damn shame one

2048
01:28:12,240 --> 01:28:14,320
Speaker 5: not this thing. Still keep it on a little one

2049
01:28:14,360 --> 01:28:19,120
Speaker 5: that'll do time for you know that lawayne.

2050
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:20,519
Speaker 1: And that thing haven't heard in the thumping.

2051
01:28:20,760 --> 01:28:23,439
Speaker 5: Maybe like a sea bottle, you're working with something. I'm

2052
01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:26,080
Speaker 5: Louisey on fire. I'll snatch your lead if you I

2053
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:29,880
Speaker 5: hot girl, baby, slide in my macedes. What your need?

2054
01:28:30,120 --> 01:28:30,679
Speaker 5: Hot girl?

2055
01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:31,960
Speaker 3: What you want boy?

2056
01:28:32,200 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 5: I want a hot girl? I want I need a

2057
01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:36,160
Speaker 5: hot girl.

2058
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:37,000
Speaker 1: What you want?

2059
01:28:37,120 --> 01:28:37,320
Speaker 4: Boy?

2060
01:28:37,600 --> 01:28:46,320
Speaker 5: I wanta hot girl? Come on, man, I got doing right?

2061
01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 5: What's that claiming?

2062
01:28:47,720 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 1: During this time? I was playing Levin.

2063
01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:55,919
Speaker 2: Now, Jesus, I tell you complicated.

2064
01:28:56,720 --> 01:28:58,160
Speaker 5: We got a gros Rey mix with up. We got

2065
01:28:58,160 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 5: a gros remix. Yeah, I'm pretty sure something.

2066
01:29:03,120 --> 01:29:08,240
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on. That's occasional.

2067
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:10,560
Speaker 2: The girls know where you know, the five, the B

2068
01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:13,000
Speaker 2: d b's, and they also know the importance of following

2069
01:29:13,040 --> 01:29:13,679
Speaker 2: their taxis.

2070
01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 5: Let's get it.

2071
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:18,880
Speaker 2: We learned everything, so shout out to Hustleman, shout.

2072
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:20,559
Speaker 5: Out my boy chad Man for setting it up.

2073
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:23,080
Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much for tuning in, and we'll see

2074
01:29:23,120 --> 01:29:23,800
Speaker 2: y'all next week.

2075
01:29:24,000 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 1: Bye y'all, Bye,