1 00:00:06,790 --> 00:00:10,690 Speaker 1: Amy Robach and TJ Holmes present Killer Thriller with your host, 2 00:00:10,869 --> 00:00:11,750 Speaker 1: Elisa Donovan. 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: Hey, everybody. Elisa Donovan here, and this is Killer Thriller. 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 2: Some of the most disturbing true crime cases aren't shocking 5 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: because of how violent they begin. They're shocking because they 6 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: begin so quietly. At just 14 years old, Tanya Cash 7 00:00:31,430 --> 00:00:34,730 Speaker 2: was groomed by a trusted school security guard. who spent 8 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: years manipulating her before holding her captive for nearly a decade. 9 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:44,140 Speaker 2: Lifetime's The Girl Locked Upstairs, The Tanya Katz Story, examines 10 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 2: not only Tanya's extraordinary survival, but also the psychology of grooming, 11 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:54,370 Speaker 2: coercive control, and how predators can hide in plain sight. Today, 12 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:58,990 Speaker 2: I'm joined by actor Robert Baker, who portrays Tom Hose. Together, 13 00:00:59,090 --> 00:01:03,490 Speaker 2: we'll explore what makes this case so psychologically unsettling, why 14 00:01:03,530 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: grooming is still so widely misunderstood, and what this remarkable 15 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,819 Speaker 2: true story can teach us about recognizing manipulation before it's 16 00:01:11,860 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: too late. Robert, thank you so much for joining me today. 17 00:01:15,380 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for having me. Glad to be here. 18 00:01:19,740 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: You have played some very complex and dangerous characters in 19 00:01:24,740 --> 00:01:28,420 Speaker 2: your career over the years, but this is really, uh, 20 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 2: this had to be a bit different. We spoke with 21 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:37,700 Speaker 2: Jordan who was singing your praises and said, yeah, like how, 22 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: how much easier you made some of the things that 23 00:01:40,540 --> 00:01:42,860 Speaker 2: could have been extraordinarily difficult. 24 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,500 Speaker 1: Um, so she says, hello. 25 00:01:46,340 --> 00:01:46,940 Speaker 2: Good. Good. 26 00:01:46,980 --> 00:01:47,260 Speaker 1: Yeah. 27 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:52,180 Speaker 3: We definitely tried to make it as, as, uh, a 28 00:01:52,260 --> 00:01:58,390 Speaker 3: safe environment to do what we had to do to tell, that, uh, 29 00:01:59,170 --> 00:02:01,390 Speaker 3: harrowing story, you know? 30 00:02:01,970 --> 00:02:06,970 Speaker 2: Yeah. So Tom hose is a real person, a real 31 00:02:07,030 --> 00:02:11,489 Speaker 2: man who groomed and held Tanya cash captive for nearly 32 00:02:11,570 --> 00:02:15,730 Speaker 2: a decade. What was your first reaction when you read 33 00:02:15,750 --> 00:02:16,230 Speaker 2: the script? 34 00:02:17,910 --> 00:02:22,510 Speaker 3: I was, I was shocked that it was for so long, 35 00:02:23,389 --> 00:02:25,149 Speaker 3: but he held her for 10 years. Like you said, 36 00:02:25,930 --> 00:02:28,870 Speaker 3: And four of it, nobody knew she was there because 37 00:02:28,889 --> 00:02:31,450 Speaker 3: she was so young. And he lived with his parents, 38 00:02:31,830 --> 00:02:34,930 Speaker 3: you know, like he was just upstairs from his parents downstairs. 39 00:02:35,090 --> 00:02:37,269 Speaker 1: So the fact that they. 40 00:02:37,290 --> 00:02:41,130 Speaker 3: Honestly, the fact that they got away with it for 41 00:02:41,169 --> 00:02:44,109 Speaker 3: that long just blew my mind. It just shows how 42 00:02:44,630 --> 00:02:49,270 Speaker 3: little some people pay attention to anything, to their surroundings, 43 00:02:49,330 --> 00:02:51,010 Speaker 3: to anything that is going on. 44 00:02:51,050 --> 00:02:53,010 Speaker 1: It's like how do you miss that? 45 00:02:53,910 --> 00:02:58,049 Speaker 3: And this wasn't in the movie, but he had a 46 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,299 Speaker 3: teenage son who lived in the. 47 00:03:01,260 --> 00:03:02,340 Speaker 1: Room with them. 48 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,780 Speaker 2: Wait, so I'm so glad you're bringing this up because 49 00:03:05,980 --> 00:03:08,100 Speaker 2: I had read that, that he had a son. Tell 50 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: me what you know about that. 51 00:03:10,260 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: Just that the son was, well, it's nothing good, of course. 52 00:03:15,340 --> 00:03:17,030 Speaker 1: The son lived in the room with them. 53 00:03:17,380 --> 00:03:18,870 Speaker 2: He was a teenager, did you say? 54 00:03:18,889 --> 00:03:21,590 Speaker 1: I think he was a young teenager, like 13, 14, 55 00:03:21,570 --> 00:03:21,950 Speaker 1: like young. 56 00:03:23,770 --> 00:03:26,470 Speaker 2: And he lived in the room in the same room. 57 00:03:27,110 --> 00:03:28,370 Speaker 1: That is what I was told. 58 00:03:28,630 --> 00:03:31,660 Speaker 3: That is what I was told, which seems it makes 59 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 3: it even more difficult to believe that it's even more 60 00:03:39,500 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: astounding that this was just kept secret for so long. 61 00:03:44,340 --> 00:03:46,060 Speaker 1: It's just mind boggling to me. 62 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,340 Speaker 3: That was so like when I first read it and I, 63 00:03:48,540 --> 00:03:50,570 Speaker 3: I was, I was really just kind of like, wait, what? 64 00:03:50,590 --> 00:03:51,930 Speaker 1: I was like, this is true. 65 00:03:52,850 --> 00:03:54,430 Speaker 3: And then I, you know, cause it was one of 66 00:03:54,470 --> 00:03:58,490 Speaker 3: those gigs that you get an offer on Friday and 67 00:03:58,510 --> 00:04:01,690 Speaker 3: they're like, you're flying on Tuesday. That kind of, it 68 00:04:01,730 --> 00:04:05,130 Speaker 3: was one of those like family was in town, out 69 00:04:05,190 --> 00:04:05,790 Speaker 3: of town. 70 00:04:05,570 --> 00:04:06,490 Speaker 1: And the whole thing. 71 00:04:06,510 --> 00:04:07,830 Speaker 2: So it was just like, come. 72 00:04:07,650 --> 00:04:08,340 Speaker 1: On, read it. 73 00:04:08,570 --> 00:04:10,170 Speaker 3: You know, it was like, I had to put the 74 00:04:10,190 --> 00:04:12,210 Speaker 3: kids in front of the TV to sit down and read. 75 00:04:12,250 --> 00:04:15,010 Speaker 1: It was that kind of a, that kind of a day. Right. 76 00:04:15,250 --> 00:04:17,930 Speaker 3: So I, you know, I didn't know anything about it 77 00:04:18,390 --> 00:04:19,890 Speaker 3: before I got it. And then I got it and 78 00:04:19,930 --> 00:04:21,670 Speaker 3: I read it and I was just like, I was, 79 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 3: you know, I was like, this is real. And then, 80 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,529 Speaker 3: you know, I did a little research and saw about it. 81 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,620 Speaker 1: And then I took the role. 82 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,490 Speaker 3: And then when we flew up, we discussed, you know, 83 00:04:32,529 --> 00:04:35,870 Speaker 3: then with the director and with, with Jordan, we, you know, 84 00:04:35,910 --> 00:04:38,930 Speaker 3: we were able to sit and talk about it and, and, 85 00:04:39,089 --> 00:04:41,250 Speaker 3: and figure out some of the reality of what was 86 00:04:41,290 --> 00:04:45,460 Speaker 3: going on. And then after it was over, we did, 87 00:04:45,740 --> 00:04:49,790 Speaker 3: we spoke to Tanya a little bit about, about, what 88 00:04:49,830 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 3: her experience of kind of having all this stuff come 89 00:04:53,020 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 3: up fresh was, was like for her. Yeah. 90 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,740 Speaker 2: Was that Jordan said she was on a zoom with her. 91 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 2: Is that the same that you guys were? Yeah. Yeah. 92 00:05:01,260 --> 00:05:03,980 Speaker 1: We were both, we were both on that one. Yeah. Yeah. 93 00:05:04,580 --> 00:05:09,030 Speaker 2: I mean, she seems to be very pleased, which is 94 00:05:09,089 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: a strange word, but like very, She feels like you both, 95 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:17,100 Speaker 2: you did justice to her story. So that has to 96 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 2: feel good. 97 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: Great. That's what counts, right? Yeah, it does. It does. 98 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,180 Speaker 3: That's very important. You know, when you put something like 99 00:05:23,220 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 3: that out there, you're kind of like, ooh. 100 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: All right. 101 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:30,410 Speaker 3: So if for no one else, then for her to 102 00:05:30,490 --> 00:05:34,170 Speaker 3: see that and feel like what she went through was 103 00:05:34,290 --> 00:05:37,670 Speaker 3: told in a way that could do anything to give 104 00:05:37,710 --> 00:05:39,690 Speaker 3: her any sort of peace or peace. 105 00:05:39,529 --> 00:05:42,490 Speaker 1: Of mind or healing, then there you go. you know, 106 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,190 Speaker 1: then it's worth it for that. 107 00:05:44,850 --> 00:05:47,210 Speaker 2: Oh, for sure. I mean, I feel like that's the whole, 108 00:05:47,670 --> 00:05:50,350 Speaker 2: you know, Elizabeth Smart, who is an executive producer of 109 00:05:50,410 --> 00:05:54,850 Speaker 2: this movie, who is just, I have to stop saying 110 00:05:54,890 --> 00:05:58,020 Speaker 2: how extraordinary I think she is because it's getting weird, 111 00:05:58,060 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 2: but I really do. I'm so impressed with her and 112 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:05,220 Speaker 2: what she has, how she's chosen to handle her life. 113 00:06:06,020 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: But she has said that Oftentimes, the reason that she 114 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,020 Speaker 2: told her story for the movie about her abduction is, 115 00:06:14,779 --> 00:06:17,180 Speaker 2: I mean, for a lot of things to help her 116 00:06:17,220 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 2: to heal. But she said often, like, why, when asked 117 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:23,790 Speaker 2: the question, why do we make movies and TV shows 118 00:06:23,820 --> 00:06:31,850 Speaker 2: about these things? And she said, oftentimes, it's easier for 119 00:06:32,070 --> 00:06:37,290 Speaker 2: us to kind of really understand the impact of something 120 00:06:38,130 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 2: through story and through narrative. And I think that's so 121 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 2: powerful and that's exactly what this is for. 122 00:06:46,940 --> 00:06:50,010 Speaker 3: It also like it, it puts it at a distance 123 00:06:50,130 --> 00:06:52,930 Speaker 3: maybe where you can kind of absorb it as opposed 124 00:06:52,990 --> 00:06:55,610 Speaker 3: to the reality of it is kind of just like, 125 00:06:55,630 --> 00:06:57,339 Speaker 3: you almost don't want to accept it. 126 00:06:57,950 --> 00:06:58,490 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 127 00:06:58,510 --> 00:07:01,220 Speaker 3: Like for your own sanity, for your own safety, for 128 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,900 Speaker 3: your own belief in the goodness of humanity and. 129 00:07:04,430 --> 00:07:06,469 Speaker 1: You kind of don't want to accept it. You know 130 00:07:06,490 --> 00:07:06,790 Speaker 1: what I mean? 131 00:07:06,810 --> 00:07:09,630 Speaker 3: It's like, or at least for me, my initial thing 132 00:07:09,670 --> 00:07:13,140 Speaker 3: is just like, no, that's not, that didn't, couldn't, not didn't, 133 00:07:13,220 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: that couldn't happen. 134 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:14,860 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 135 00:07:14,940 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 3: It's like, no, it definitely happens. Unfortunately, it happens a lot. 136 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 3: And I think that like the seeing it as a 137 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,690 Speaker 3: narrative kind of thing and just sort of with that, 138 00:07:26,190 --> 00:07:30,750 Speaker 3: that separation, I think from the, from like reality in quotes, 139 00:07:31,010 --> 00:07:34,170 Speaker 3: you know, Makes it more palatable and you can, then 140 00:07:34,190 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 3: you can kind of absorb the message of what is 141 00:07:36,940 --> 00:07:37,980 Speaker 3: coming from it, I think. 142 00:07:38,500 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great, I never really thought about it 143 00:07:41,540 --> 00:07:43,780 Speaker 2: in that, that point of it. I think you're right. 144 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,700 Speaker 2: That there is like a, you can't, you know, like 145 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,510 Speaker 2: reading the news or watching the news or seeing some, 146 00:07:49,570 --> 00:07:53,390 Speaker 2: it's just, it's just can be too much sometimes. 147 00:07:53,410 --> 00:07:53,570 Speaker 1: Yeah. 148 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:12,940 Speaker 2: So Tom's own mother seemed to be a pretty harsh woman. 149 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,780 Speaker 2: And at least that's how she was portrayed in the film. And, 150 00:08:17,220 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: you know, do you think it's possible to understand how 151 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,940 Speaker 2: someone became a predator without excusing what they did? 152 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:29,020 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes. 153 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: I'm lucky that I had a, you know, my early 154 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:33,420 Speaker 3: childhood was good. 155 00:08:33,990 --> 00:08:35,540 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I had good parents. I 156 00:08:35,590 --> 00:08:38,500 Speaker 1: had a loving family. parents, they cared, they were there 157 00:08:38,580 --> 00:08:38,940 Speaker 1: for us. 158 00:08:39,780 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 3: And so I can see how people like myself, that 159 00:08:43,900 --> 00:08:46,050 Speaker 3: leads you in one direction. So I can see how 160 00:08:46,090 --> 00:08:50,710 Speaker 3: if you would have those chunks missing without those kind 161 00:08:50,750 --> 00:08:53,890 Speaker 3: of North stars to give you some guidance, I see 162 00:08:53,929 --> 00:08:56,570 Speaker 3: how people could go into a lot of different directions. And, 163 00:08:56,610 --> 00:08:58,940 Speaker 3: you know, I don't think it was so much the 164 00:08:58,980 --> 00:09:00,700 Speaker 3: case in this one, but then you could talk about, 165 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:05,059 Speaker 3: you know, somebody's socioeconomic environment, you know, they're just the 166 00:09:05,500 --> 00:09:08,230 Speaker 3: Where they grow up, you know, just their environment, period. 167 00:09:08,510 --> 00:09:11,170 Speaker 3: Just all those little aspects could lead somebody to any 168 00:09:11,410 --> 00:09:13,949 Speaker 3: kind of horrible thing. You know, it's kind of the 169 00:09:14,030 --> 00:09:16,890 Speaker 3: old saying, you don't know somebody until you walk a 170 00:09:16,929 --> 00:09:19,110 Speaker 3: mile in their shoes, honestly. 171 00:09:19,690 --> 00:09:23,309 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I see how that happens. I don't get it. 172 00:09:23,309 --> 00:09:26,210 Speaker 1: I don't get it. And I'm glad. 173 00:09:25,870 --> 00:09:29,089 Speaker 3: That I don't get it. It gives me great comfort 174 00:09:29,130 --> 00:09:32,109 Speaker 3: at night that I don't get it. But I do. 175 00:09:32,490 --> 00:09:33,330 Speaker 1: I can understand. 176 00:09:33,350 --> 00:09:33,970 Speaker 2: Yeah. 177 00:09:34,010 --> 00:09:34,170 Speaker 1: Yeah. 178 00:09:34,670 --> 00:09:37,910 Speaker 2: It's like a, I always feel like it's a, and 179 00:09:38,090 --> 00:09:40,830 Speaker 2: these things are, they're explanations, not excuses. 180 00:09:41,630 --> 00:09:42,670 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, of course. 181 00:09:42,770 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: Those things are, you know, they're very different things. So 182 00:09:48,980 --> 00:09:54,330 Speaker 2: he obviously, Tom spent years controlling Tanya without locks or 183 00:09:54,390 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 2: chains or sort of traditional physical restraints. And what, what 184 00:09:59,780 --> 00:10:02,540 Speaker 2: do you think gave him that kind of psychological power? 185 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,100 Speaker 3: Well, I think it's because she was so well, her 186 00:10:05,220 --> 00:10:09,980 Speaker 3: age to begin with there's, it's funny. I, I understood 187 00:10:10,020 --> 00:10:13,380 Speaker 3: a lot about it because one of my kids was 188 00:10:13,420 --> 00:10:16,179 Speaker 3: doing an activity, was doing a, uh, you know, a 189 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,900 Speaker 3: thing that kids do. Sorry, I speak very generally about 190 00:10:19,940 --> 00:10:24,300 Speaker 3: my kids. They're private citizens. They didn't choose to be public. 191 00:10:24,350 --> 00:10:24,850 Speaker 1: That's me. 192 00:10:26,030 --> 00:10:29,890 Speaker 3: So they, one of them was doing something, an activity 193 00:10:29,929 --> 00:10:34,270 Speaker 3: where I had to get, I had to become a 194 00:10:34,290 --> 00:10:35,370 Speaker 3: mandatory reporter. 195 00:10:35,870 --> 00:10:36,670 Speaker 1: You know what those are? 196 00:10:36,790 --> 00:10:39,980 Speaker 3: It's like if you, it's like you, because you're around 197 00:10:40,050 --> 00:10:45,030 Speaker 3: kids in a volunteer capacity, you have to No certain 198 00:10:45,070 --> 00:10:47,180 Speaker 3: signs of abuse, certain signs in the leg. 199 00:10:47,290 --> 00:10:47,790 Speaker 1: Oh, yes. 200 00:10:47,890 --> 00:10:48,189 Speaker 2: Okay. 201 00:10:48,210 --> 00:10:49,670 Speaker 1: So if there's anything that you. 202 00:10:49,570 --> 00:10:51,670 Speaker 3: See that you get that you're like, hang on, this 203 00:10:51,730 --> 00:10:55,790 Speaker 3: isn't right, that you can kind of, so that you are, 204 00:10:56,030 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 3: it's on you to. 205 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:59,500 Speaker 1: Talk to somebody about that, to try to find help 206 00:10:59,540 --> 00:11:00,080 Speaker 1: for this kid. 207 00:11:00,140 --> 00:11:00,460 Speaker 2: Yes. 208 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 3: That ultimately turned out to be the case. Anyhow, I 209 00:11:04,500 --> 00:11:10,410 Speaker 3: had trainings. So she kind of, she was kind of 210 00:11:10,450 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 3: a perfect target. She had no family support. She had 211 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 3: no friends. She was quiet. 212 00:11:19,380 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: She was isolated. 213 00:11:21,660 --> 00:11:28,710 Speaker 3: Predators seek those people out because they don't go to somebody. 214 00:11:28,830 --> 00:11:30,790 Speaker 3: They don't have somebody to go to to tell them 215 00:11:30,809 --> 00:11:37,189 Speaker 3: what happened. Honestly, they're probably so desperate for the attention 216 00:11:37,210 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 3: that some part of them, maybe not at the time, 217 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 3: some part of them maybe might not even realize how 218 00:11:43,380 --> 00:11:47,300 Speaker 3: awful the thing is in the big picture of what's 219 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 3: happening to them. 220 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:52,050 Speaker 1: Because it's just like, well, somebody cares. Somebody's paying attention 221 00:11:52,070 --> 00:11:52,490 Speaker 1: to me. 222 00:11:53,350 --> 00:11:57,190 Speaker 3: You know, I, at the beginning, certainly the way that 223 00:11:57,210 --> 00:12:02,990 Speaker 3: it was portrayed in the movie, he was, he really 224 00:12:03,050 --> 00:12:04,210 Speaker 3: was like, I'm here to help you. 225 00:12:04,330 --> 00:12:04,929 Speaker 1: I'm your friend. 226 00:12:05,190 --> 00:12:07,370 Speaker 3: I can help you. You want to go see your mom? 227 00:12:07,390 --> 00:12:09,050 Speaker 3: I'm going to help you go see your mom. I'm 228 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 3: going to do all these things. He did that knowing 229 00:12:11,220 --> 00:12:13,100 Speaker 3: full well, the mom was going to do what she 230 00:12:13,140 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: did and send her running back to him. So I, 231 00:12:18,300 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 3: so yeah, I mean, it's, it's terrible. She was, she 232 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:27,109 Speaker 3: and so many like her, I would imagine are just, 233 00:12:27,670 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 3: just like, sitting ducks there's like perfect targets for these 234 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:37,090 Speaker 3: monsters right yeah i mean that that need for. 235 00:12:38,490 --> 00:12:43,810 Speaker 2: Love and connection is cannot be understated as a human being. 236 00:12:43,970 --> 00:12:47,740 Speaker 1: It's imprinted it's in our it's we are we're a pack. 237 00:12:47,550 --> 00:12:53,420 Speaker 2: Animal we it's yeah yeah yeah it's it's it's heartbreaking 238 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 2: so um In the movie, and I also heard Tanya 239 00:12:58,460 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 2: say this, that it's true that he, Tom seemingly had friends, 240 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,590 Speaker 2: you know, like coming home drunk one night, telling Tanya 241 00:13:07,610 --> 00:13:10,990 Speaker 2: that his buddies liked reading the sex journals that he 242 00:13:11,030 --> 00:13:15,589 Speaker 2: made her keep. Don't you think it's just so hard 243 00:13:15,630 --> 00:13:19,250 Speaker 2: to believe that he never told anyone about this, that 244 00:13:20,770 --> 00:13:23,500 Speaker 2: he was keeping her captive? Or did he tell them, 245 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 2: do you think, or? And to your point, was it 246 00:13:26,300 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 2: like they just don't pay attention, like didn't ask enough questions? Like, 247 00:13:29,860 --> 00:13:30,820 Speaker 2: what is the deal? 248 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:34,460 Speaker 1: I bet he didn't. I don't know the answer to that. 249 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,150 Speaker 1: I bet he. But if he was that good. 250 00:13:37,010 --> 00:13:39,350 Speaker 3: At keeping secrets, I wouldn't be surprised if he waited 251 00:13:39,390 --> 00:13:40,930 Speaker 3: till she was 18 to start. 252 00:13:40,730 --> 00:13:43,010 Speaker 1: Telling them at least. So that if there was any 253 00:13:43,050 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: kind of if one of them was like, whoa, whoa, whoa. What? 254 00:13:46,780 --> 00:13:48,750 Speaker 1: She's legal. You know what I mean? 255 00:13:48,970 --> 00:13:49,250 Speaker 2: Right. 256 00:13:49,309 --> 00:13:51,690 Speaker 3: So he probably wouldn't tell her he'd been keeping her 257 00:13:51,710 --> 00:13:55,900 Speaker 3: since she was 14, captive, using a bucket for a toilet. 258 00:13:56,940 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 1: You know, but like I. 259 00:13:59,580 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 3: Find it knowing normal men and their ability to keep 260 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:12,380 Speaker 3: their mouth shut about how sometimes, you know, about romantic interludes. 261 00:14:13,420 --> 00:14:15,940 Speaker 3: I find it hard to believe he'd never said anything. 262 00:14:16,770 --> 00:14:19,990 Speaker 3: to one of his friends in some capacity, but I 263 00:14:20,030 --> 00:14:24,030 Speaker 3: wouldn't be surprised if he waited until he knew legally, 264 00:14:24,050 --> 00:14:27,220 Speaker 3: at least as far as the statutory thing goes, he 265 00:14:27,250 --> 00:14:28,460 Speaker 3: was clear. 266 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: Cause I don't think he was stupid. I don't think 267 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,780 Speaker 1: he's stupid, you know? Right. 268 00:14:33,220 --> 00:14:37,940 Speaker 2: Well, it certainly coincides with her. If he abducted her 269 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:43,490 Speaker 2: at 14 and then he only started letting her leave 270 00:14:43,550 --> 00:14:47,070 Speaker 2: the room and And the house at four years later, 271 00:14:47,190 --> 00:14:51,250 Speaker 2: which makes her 18. So everything becomes a little more 272 00:14:51,450 --> 00:14:52,210 Speaker 2: complicated then. 273 00:14:52,690 --> 00:14:52,950 Speaker 1: Yeah. 274 00:14:52,970 --> 00:14:58,100 Speaker 3: A little more complicated, a little while maybe unseemly to 275 00:14:58,140 --> 00:14:59,740 Speaker 3: the outside world, not illegal. 276 00:15:00,300 --> 00:15:03,660 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Yeah. 277 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:08,810 Speaker 2: And that just really shows a, you know, a real understanding. 278 00:15:11,490 --> 00:15:15,490 Speaker 2: It's just despicable, but like a real calculated kind of 279 00:15:16,350 --> 00:15:21,130 Speaker 2: behavior that is not just whatever sort of explanation he 280 00:15:21,170 --> 00:15:23,420 Speaker 2: could give. Oh, I just, I fell in love with her. 281 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,580 Speaker 2: She was so sweet and pretty, you know, like whatever 282 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:26,950 Speaker 2: kind of. 283 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 3: It's really, really playing the long game. You know what 284 00:15:31,580 --> 00:15:39,260 Speaker 3: I mean? It takes a real perverse discipline. It seems 285 00:15:39,340 --> 00:15:42,070 Speaker 3: like to do that. Yeah. 286 00:15:56,980 --> 00:16:02,390 Speaker 2: Do you think people still underestimate how powerful emotional manipulation 287 00:16:02,490 --> 00:16:02,850 Speaker 2: can be? 288 00:16:03,470 --> 00:16:03,930 Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. 289 00:16:04,230 --> 00:16:06,210 Speaker 3: I think people do because I think probably anybody can be, 290 00:16:06,570 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 3: I think probably anyone, not to that extent, perhaps, but 291 00:16:09,940 --> 00:16:13,430 Speaker 3: I think anybody can probably be emotionally manipulated a little bit. 292 00:16:13,690 --> 00:16:16,970 Speaker 3: You know, I'm thinking about how often my, I've been 293 00:16:17,850 --> 00:16:22,229 Speaker 3: emotionally manipulated by my children in a far more innocent manner. 294 00:16:22,670 --> 00:16:25,230 Speaker 3: But like, I think that the, I think that that's 295 00:16:25,270 --> 00:16:28,450 Speaker 3: something that is incredibly powerful and that's something that people 296 00:16:29,730 --> 00:16:30,830 Speaker 3: do and can do. 297 00:16:31,050 --> 00:16:35,580 Speaker 1: And, and unfortunately probably will always do. 298 00:16:37,740 --> 00:16:40,810 Speaker 2: And there's also, you know, this is a part of 299 00:16:40,850 --> 00:16:44,050 Speaker 2: it that I can, I just like, I really can't 300 00:16:44,210 --> 00:16:47,670 Speaker 2: wrap my head around it. I'm utterly perplexed by the 301 00:16:48,590 --> 00:16:53,630 Speaker 2: woman who was his friend, Judy Sokol, who, and they, 302 00:16:54,030 --> 00:16:56,650 Speaker 2: they do a great job in the film with this 303 00:16:57,010 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: of even sort of confusing the audience of like, well, 304 00:17:01,260 --> 00:17:04,260 Speaker 2: wait a second, what's going on here? Who is this woman? 305 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 2: She's allowing this to happen. And so, she did. I can't, 306 00:17:12,780 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 2: I can't. So she was ultimately charged with a minor 307 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 2: accomplice offenses and I think was sentenced to six to 308 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,590 Speaker 2: 23 months in jail. Do you, do you know any 309 00:17:23,630 --> 00:17:25,930 Speaker 2: more about that relationship? 310 00:17:26,790 --> 00:17:29,889 Speaker 3: No, I, everything that we, the, everything that kind of, 311 00:17:30,410 --> 00:17:32,629 Speaker 3: there was nothing we found about it and everything that 312 00:17:32,670 --> 00:17:35,790 Speaker 3: we did for the movie was just, I, it was 313 00:17:35,810 --> 00:17:40,420 Speaker 3: just supplied from my imagination pretty much. Uh, I just 314 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,260 Speaker 3: kind of assumed he had had some sort of a 315 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:50,260 Speaker 3: relationship with her previously, and she was still in love 316 00:17:50,300 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 3: with him, or wrapped up in the mind tricks he 317 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 3: could play, and she thought she was helping him out. 318 00:17:57,810 --> 00:17:59,369 Speaker 1: Right. 319 00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:03,250 Speaker 3: Which, I mean, how many people have been led astray 320 00:18:03,310 --> 00:18:06,129 Speaker 3: thinking they were helping somebody out? I think it's probably 321 00:18:07,010 --> 00:18:08,290 Speaker 3: somewhere in that world for her. 322 00:18:08,369 --> 00:18:08,570 Speaker 1: Yeah. 323 00:18:09,450 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 2: And again, whatever she needed, we talked about this with Jordan. 324 00:18:12,650 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 2: She was so articulate in saying, you know, when someone's 325 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 2: being groomed, that it's so specific to each person because 326 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,780 Speaker 2: they're essentially finding what that person needs and it isn't 327 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:28,130 Speaker 2: one general thing. And so, you know, for her, there 328 00:18:28,170 --> 00:18:31,730 Speaker 2: was probably a part of that too. He was serving 329 00:18:31,810 --> 00:18:34,870 Speaker 2: something for her and then didn't want to let that go. 330 00:18:34,890 --> 00:18:38,930 Speaker 2: And so then you find yourself like, okay, I'll keep, 331 00:18:38,990 --> 00:18:41,619 Speaker 2: if I, I help him, he'll come back to me. 332 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,380 Speaker 2: Or if I, you know, you can sort of rationalize, 333 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:44,970 Speaker 2: I suppose. 334 00:18:45,450 --> 00:18:47,930 Speaker 3: That was sort of where I went with it when 335 00:18:47,970 --> 00:18:54,030 Speaker 3: I was doing homework thinking about her and my. 336 00:18:53,910 --> 00:18:55,790 Speaker 1: Relationship with her and how I get her to. 337 00:18:55,750 --> 00:18:58,330 Speaker 3: Do these things and why I would think to take 338 00:18:59,310 --> 00:19:01,230 Speaker 3: Tanya there in the first place. 339 00:19:01,570 --> 00:19:02,350 Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. 340 00:19:03,090 --> 00:19:05,230 Speaker 2: Was there anything, and this is very funny in my 341 00:19:05,290 --> 00:19:07,730 Speaker 2: notes here, I just have, was there anything, and then 342 00:19:07,910 --> 00:19:12,070 Speaker 2: in big parentheses and capitals, or everything about Tom that 343 00:19:12,109 --> 00:19:17,710 Speaker 2: you found genuinely difficult to understand, even after spending so 344 00:19:17,750 --> 00:19:19,690 Speaker 2: much time with this character? 345 00:19:19,710 --> 00:19:20,770 Speaker 1: I mean, me. 346 00:19:22,470 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 3: As a person? Yeah, I don't get any of it. 347 00:19:25,540 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 3: I don't get any of it. I don't get the, like, man... 348 00:19:30,470 --> 00:19:33,649 Speaker 3: These guys with the young girl, I just I can't 349 00:19:33,790 --> 00:19:36,090 Speaker 3: I can't wrap my head around it. I just I 350 00:19:36,109 --> 00:19:39,170 Speaker 3: don't I just don't understand where that comes from in 351 00:19:39,470 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 3: any way. 352 00:19:40,140 --> 00:19:42,580 Speaker 1: Shape or form as a human. 353 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 3: Now, as an actor, that's your job is to figure 354 00:19:46,859 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 3: out what that is, because this is. a human being 355 00:19:51,540 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 3: like for for as terrible a one as he is 356 00:19:55,300 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 3: this is a human being and if there's not something 357 00:19:58,380 --> 00:20:05,590 Speaker 3: there then it's a monster's not in this setting, a 358 00:20:05,650 --> 00:20:06,730 Speaker 3: monster isn't scary. 359 00:20:06,770 --> 00:20:07,830 Speaker 1: It's not believable. 360 00:20:07,930 --> 00:20:10,250 Speaker 3: It's like, nobody's got, it's not going to make anybody 361 00:20:10,350 --> 00:20:13,929 Speaker 3: think maybe somebody might be like, Oh, that's scary. Or 362 00:20:13,970 --> 00:20:16,669 Speaker 3: that's sick, but they're not going to think about anything 363 00:20:16,730 --> 00:20:19,450 Speaker 3: or like, think about how it could be happening somewhere nearby. 364 00:20:19,470 --> 00:20:21,770 Speaker 3: Cause it's like, I don't know anybody like that. That's absurd. 365 00:20:21,790 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 3: Nobody's like that. But I, so I had to kind of, 366 00:20:27,670 --> 00:20:31,649 Speaker 3: you know, figure out what it is that he'd wanted it. 367 00:20:32,510 --> 00:20:35,910 Speaker 3: in a very human, from a very human place that 368 00:20:36,790 --> 00:20:40,030 Speaker 3: made him do all these things. And then when I 369 00:20:40,090 --> 00:20:42,390 Speaker 3: figured that out, then I could understand him from that 370 00:20:42,780 --> 00:20:46,180 Speaker 3: point of view as a, as just me today talking 371 00:20:46,220 --> 00:20:46,540 Speaker 3: to you, I. 372 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:47,940 Speaker 1: Don't get him even a little bit. 373 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:54,260 Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you think that this whole case challenges the 374 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,959 Speaker 2: way people define captivity? 375 00:20:58,790 --> 00:21:01,580 Speaker 1: Oh, I see. She wasn't chained to the wall, so 376 00:21:01,619 --> 00:21:04,939 Speaker 1: she wasn't captive. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Sure. 377 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:09,360 Speaker 3: I mean, prisons are of many different makings, right? They're 378 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 3: not always just chained to the wall. Some people's prisons 379 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:18,370 Speaker 3: is between their ears. I think he had her so scared. 380 00:21:18,390 --> 00:21:22,270 Speaker 3: I think he probably convinced her that she would get 381 00:21:22,330 --> 00:21:25,449 Speaker 3: in trouble. If anybody ever found out, she would go 382 00:21:25,490 --> 00:21:28,170 Speaker 3: to jail. If anybody found out you're not going to school, 383 00:21:28,210 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 3: what are you doing? You're living with me. Why did 384 00:21:30,619 --> 00:21:32,910 Speaker 3: you come and live with me? Like, yeah, I could 385 00:21:32,990 --> 00:21:36,260 Speaker 3: see how he probably spent, turned the entire thing on 386 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,899 Speaker 3: its head into making her think it was her idea. 387 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,940 Speaker 3: And she's only here because she needed somewhere to go. 388 00:21:43,100 --> 00:21:45,640 Speaker 3: And aren't I a good guy who let you come 389 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,650 Speaker 3: and live here? So I think in that, yes, sorry, 390 00:21:49,690 --> 00:21:52,790 Speaker 3: I didn't quite understand the initial wording, but yeah, totally. 391 00:21:53,369 --> 00:21:57,449 Speaker 1: I think it should. It should at least broaden the 392 00:21:57,510 --> 00:21:59,369 Speaker 1: definition of it for people, yeah. 393 00:21:59,869 --> 00:22:03,689 Speaker 2: Yeah. What do you, after spending so much time with 394 00:22:03,730 --> 00:22:08,270 Speaker 2: this story, what do you find yourself, or what did 395 00:22:08,310 --> 00:22:13,210 Speaker 2: you find yourself thinking about the most once filming was over? 396 00:22:13,970 --> 00:22:14,689 Speaker 2: What stuck with you? 397 00:22:15,869 --> 00:22:18,389 Speaker 3: Probably just the reality of that room. We had a 398 00:22:18,450 --> 00:22:25,090 Speaker 3: great set that was supposed to be. 399 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: Tom and Tanya's room. And the set deck did a 400 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,859 Speaker 1: great job. The room was great. 401 00:22:35,900 --> 00:22:40,220 Speaker 3: It really felt like a room of some man in 402 00:22:40,260 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 3: arrested development. 403 00:22:41,869 --> 00:22:43,070 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Yeah. 404 00:22:43,210 --> 00:22:46,969 Speaker 2: Yes. They were like, like hockey posters and yeah. 405 00:22:47,170 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 3: And like, and all that kind of stuff everywhere. And I, 406 00:22:52,260 --> 00:22:54,659 Speaker 3: and that was very informative when I saw that. And 407 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,219 Speaker 3: when I talked to the director about that, I was like, Oh, okay. 408 00:22:57,300 --> 00:22:57,580 Speaker 1: All right. 409 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 3: So he's, he probably thinks he's living his high school 410 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,510 Speaker 3: romance here. 411 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:03,660 Speaker 1: He's probably like. 412 00:23:03,770 --> 00:23:06,150 Speaker 3: This is probably his idea of what a perfect high 413 00:23:06,190 --> 00:23:09,050 Speaker 3: school romance looks like. And what wouldn't you do to 414 00:23:09,130 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 3: keep that in place? so the feeling of that room, 415 00:23:13,580 --> 00:23:15,340 Speaker 3: I can bring it up in my mind right now. 416 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: And my back is going up, you know, like I can, 417 00:23:17,780 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 3: I can, I think that is probably what held on 418 00:23:21,140 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 3: to what I've, what I held on to because it 419 00:23:24,380 --> 00:23:28,570 Speaker 3: was just sort of, it was just a good encapsulation 420 00:23:28,810 --> 00:23:32,409 Speaker 3: of sort of just him in the whole scenario, you know, 421 00:23:32,430 --> 00:23:35,230 Speaker 3: cause that's just where everything happened. And there's so little, 422 00:23:35,470 --> 00:23:37,650 Speaker 3: so few things you can think of as. 423 00:23:37,590 --> 00:23:39,100 Speaker 1: Like, one place. 424 00:23:39,700 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 3: It's like, it's like an entire life happened in this 425 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 3: 10 by 10, 12 by 12 room, you know? 426 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,609 Speaker 1: So that's really what, what, what hung around. 427 00:23:49,630 --> 00:23:54,050 Speaker 2: I bet. I mean, it just, right. And just thinking 428 00:23:54,090 --> 00:23:56,030 Speaker 2: about that, just being in that space in and of 429 00:23:56,090 --> 00:23:59,770 Speaker 2: itself is unimaginable for all of those years, but then 430 00:24:00,750 --> 00:24:03,690 Speaker 2: to just have the abuse on top of it, it's 431 00:24:03,730 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 2: just a, it's, it's, it's really, it's, I mean, I 432 00:24:08,580 --> 00:24:14,420 Speaker 2: talk about a lot of upsetting content on this podcast. 433 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,110 Speaker 1: Yeah, you must. You must. I was listening to a couple, 434 00:24:17,140 --> 00:24:17,970 Speaker 1: and I was like, whoa. 435 00:24:18,490 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: It is this. There are a few that sort of, 436 00:24:22,750 --> 00:24:25,850 Speaker 2: and maybe it's because it feels closer to home in 437 00:24:25,869 --> 00:24:30,869 Speaker 2: some way. I have a 14-year-old daughter, so maybe that's. 438 00:24:30,350 --> 00:24:33,429 Speaker 1: Certainly a part of it. How could it not? 439 00:24:34,210 --> 00:24:38,909 Speaker 2: But it's like, it's just... Yeah. 440 00:24:39,070 --> 00:24:43,430 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was listening to the podcast with Lou, Diamond Phillips, 441 00:24:43,530 --> 00:24:44,050 Speaker 3: the other day. 442 00:24:44,090 --> 00:24:46,770 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the other one that really I was like, 443 00:24:47,850 --> 00:24:49,530 Speaker 2: this is messing with my sleep. 444 00:24:49,810 --> 00:24:56,450 Speaker 3: But that almost seems like a serial killer of that notoriety, 445 00:24:56,630 --> 00:25:01,619 Speaker 3: I guess is the word, infamy. Sometimes somebody like that 446 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,100 Speaker 3: or Ted Bundy or Jeffrey Dahmer, it almost is like, 447 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:10,930 Speaker 3: so wild that you're like, that almost doesn't feel real. 448 00:25:11,150 --> 00:25:11,710 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 449 00:25:11,990 --> 00:25:16,310 Speaker 3: That it is real, obviously, but it almost doesn't feel real. This, however, though, 450 00:25:16,970 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 3: it's just like, Jesus, that could be literally happening across the. 451 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: Yes. 452 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:21,700 Speaker 3: Yes. 453 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 454 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:27,300 Speaker 3: You would, you, you know, I, I, Because nobody knows, 455 00:25:27,619 --> 00:25:29,850 Speaker 3: as opposed to those serial killers where it's like, here's 456 00:25:29,890 --> 00:25:30,690 Speaker 3: another sign of them. 457 00:25:30,790 --> 00:25:32,469 Speaker 1: Here's a sign of them. You don't know who they are, 458 00:25:32,490 --> 00:25:33,750 Speaker 1: but you know that that was them. 459 00:25:33,770 --> 00:25:36,470 Speaker 3: That was them again. They were in this place. They 460 00:25:36,490 --> 00:25:40,650 Speaker 3: were in that place. But this, you know, with Tanya, like, 461 00:25:41,190 --> 00:25:43,590 Speaker 3: that could be anywhere. That could be anywhere. 462 00:25:43,770 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: And we don't know. You don't know what happens behind 463 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,220 Speaker 1: closed doors. 464 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,899 Speaker 3: Yeah. That's what's really so specifically unsettling about this one 465 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 3: for me. Yeah. 466 00:25:54,500 --> 00:25:54,660 Speaker 1: Yeah. 467 00:25:55,840 --> 00:26:00,020 Speaker 2: Well, you do, again, these words, beautiful work. 468 00:26:01,220 --> 00:26:02,420 Speaker 1: Thank you. 469 00:26:03,020 --> 00:26:06,090 Speaker 2: You really do. And again, I feel like these things are, 470 00:26:06,850 --> 00:26:10,850 Speaker 2: you know, we talk about them and make these stories 471 00:26:11,010 --> 00:26:18,090 Speaker 2: because it's a part of humanity undeniably. And if we don't, 472 00:26:18,130 --> 00:26:21,310 Speaker 2: if we aren't capable of talking about the hows and 473 00:26:21,330 --> 00:26:24,580 Speaker 2: the whys of these things, and helping us to have 474 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: a deeper understanding. I just don't know how we can, 475 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,220 Speaker 2: you know, avoid them. 476 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 1: Can't, I mean, it would be impossible. Yeah. People wouldn't 477 00:26:33,260 --> 00:26:35,790 Speaker 1: even know about it, you know? 478 00:26:36,550 --> 00:26:39,330 Speaker 3: Yeah. Because they, because like, especially now with the news cycle, 479 00:26:39,369 --> 00:26:41,810 Speaker 3: the last 20 minutes, you know, you're just. 480 00:26:41,750 --> 00:26:43,350 Speaker 1: Onto the next thing. Right. 481 00:26:43,790 --> 00:26:46,230 Speaker 2: Well, Robert, you're, this has been so lovely. It's a, 482 00:26:46,350 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 2: it's such a pleasure to meet you and thank you 483 00:26:48,619 --> 00:26:49,900 Speaker 2: so much for talking with me. 484 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,580 Speaker 1: My pleasure. Thanks for talking. That was great. Thank you. 485 00:26:53,030 --> 00:26:57,130 Speaker 2: The Girl Locked Upstairs, the Tanya Cash story is streaming online. 486 00:26:57,369 --> 00:27:01,990 Speaker 2: It's very powerful, and I highly recommend people watch it. 487 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:03,719 Speaker 2: So thank you, Robert. 488 00:27:03,740 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: Thank you.