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Speaker 1: Second date up date.

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Speaker 2: Normally, when we do these second date calls, people are

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Speaker 2: asking for help with the person they went out with

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Speaker 2: a few days ago, maybe a couple of weeks back,

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Speaker 2: sometimes even up to a month, and they're disappointed the

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Speaker 2: other person isn't responding. But one of our listeners, Bo

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Speaker 2: says he wants to reconnect with a girl through us

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Speaker 2: that he hasn't seen or spoken to in almost two years. WHOA,

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Speaker 2: So this is probably going to be interesting. I'm curious

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Speaker 2: to know what the story is. Yeh, Bo, welcome to

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Speaker 2: the show.

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Speaker 3: Hey, thanks guys.

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Speaker 2: Now, I understand playing hard to get, but two years

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Speaker 2: it's a little extreme.

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Speaker 4: So you guys wait two days to call, I wait

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Speaker 4: two years?

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Speaker 1: Well I wait that long to reach out.

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Speaker 3: Well, let me give you a little bit of background. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So this happened when I was on vacation in Mexico

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Speaker 3: two years ago and she was also on vacation. She

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Speaker 3: was there with a friend, I was there with a

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Speaker 3: group of buddies. It was a cabo in the whole

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Speaker 3: place kind of had these like spring break vibes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this is already a lot different than a

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Speaker 2: lot of the second days where we do where people

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Speaker 2: are meeting on apps and stuff. You're meeting on a

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Speaker 2: spring break basically.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So we go into this one bar and I see

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Speaker 3: these two girls that are sitting down at the other

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Speaker 3: really cute. They seemed like kind of out of place

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Speaker 3: because they weren't partying like crazy like everybody else.

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Speaker 1: Boo who said that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so they were entering the wet t shirt contest.

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Speaker 5: They were just.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they were having a cocktail. They were being chill,

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Speaker 3: you know, And I like that because I wasn't going

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Speaker 3: too hard either.

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Speaker 5: Jeff so bored right now.

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Speaker 2: Well, now someone has to babysit. I understand responsible people.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's a good point too. So did you

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Speaker 5: go talk to them? I assume Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I go over there, I sit down and

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Speaker 3: start talking to Sheila. Yeah, and we sort of bonded

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Speaker 3: over that we were both the two lame ones in

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Speaker 3: this crazy groom.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.

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Speaker 3: So we talk, you know, we learned like where we're from,

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Speaker 3: and like, it turns out we're staying at the same hotel.

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Speaker 4: Okay, whoa are you guys from the same city or no?

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Speaker 4: It does I mean are we going to try to

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Speaker 3: She's from a different state. She's from a different state.

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Speaker 5: Okay, interesting, Okay.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what I was thinking. I was just

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Speaker 3: I was into this girl, and so I told her

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Speaker 3: my room number. We part ways, stay good night. Middle

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly what you were hoping for, be honest.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, but it didn't turn out that way. So

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Speaker 3: she called the room. She is freaking out.

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Speaker 1: What why?

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Speaker 3: He tells me there's like these drunk dudes that are

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Speaker 3: banging on her door and it's scaring her and a friend.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's scary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I get dressed, I go to her room.

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Speaker 1: You went good.

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Speaker 5: Yes, you're just gonna go back to bed.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not going to intervene. I'm gonna get like

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Speaker 1: hotel security or something. I don't want to get involved.

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Speaker 5: That is a smart thing to do, is hotel security.

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Speaker 4: One dude against a group of men, like, you're not

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Speaker 2: How many bones did you break bow when you went

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Speaker 2: and tried to stop the drunk guys?

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Speaker 3: Well, no bones were broken. There were there were like

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Speaker 3: four or five dudes and they were just being told.

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Speaker 3: it was super weird. So I go down and I

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Speaker 3: tell them to get the hell out of there. They did.

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Speaker 1: They left nice.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I bet she was so grateful. Did you talk

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Speaker 3: She was, yeah, you know, she of course heard the

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Speaker 4: Yeah you did, You're a hero.

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Speaker 3: It was a good makeout set. But that's it. That's

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's cute.

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Speaker 3: So I got her number and that was it. But

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Speaker 3: the thing is, I didn't see her the rest of

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Speaker 3: the trip at all, Like I tried, but either she

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Speaker 3: or she didn't. She never texts to be back. And

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Speaker 3: I called her one time after I got back home

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Speaker 3: and that was that. I was two years ago.

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Speaker 5: Are you sure she was single? You know, like she

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Speaker 5: got wrapped up in the moment.

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Speaker 4: She only kissed you and then she was just like,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, I did something terrible.

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Speaker 1: That happened on Brooks last Mexican and my.

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Speaker 5: Husband was with me. Yes, did you ask her if

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Speaker 5: she was single?

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Speaker 3: Well, no, no, I just sort of assumed if she wasn't,

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Speaker 5: Two years now, so even if she got single, she's.

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Speaker 2: And I think the rule in Cancun is everybody is single.

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Speaker 2: Oh well that's a different that's a whole different vision.

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Speaker 5: They have a different rules.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy, though, because you haven't seen or spoken

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Speaker 2: to her in two years, and now we're going to

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Speaker 2: she remembers you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how are we going to say, like Nick from Cobo?

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Speaker 5: Do you think that's it? Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, his name's Bo, so that would help.

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Speaker 3: Maybe she also had a Nick in Cabo. Maybe that's

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Speaker 3: why she's not calling.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, she's like, oh my god, love, that's the

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Speaker 2: one that Brooke made out with on her family baking.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, okay, you know, look, I know it's a long shot.

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Speaker 3: It was so long ago, but I figure if anybody

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Speaker 5: So okay. And she wasn't drinking, so she should remember

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Speaker 5: I think she was drinking. She wasn't drinking as hard.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah like that.

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Speaker 3: She wasn't crazy like that.

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Speaker 1: No, she was just injecting stuff. It was fine. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna come back.

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Speaker 2: We'll call Sheila and try and get you your second

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Speaker 2: date update two years after you last saw her, right

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Speaker 2: after this.

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Speaker 1: She's still in right now, hold on second date update.

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Speaker 4: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 4: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 4: right after you here Part two.

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Speaker 2: For most young single people, a trip to Cabo is

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Speaker 2: all about.

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Speaker 1: Tequila shots and wet t shirt.

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Speaker 2: Contests, getting your wallets stolen on.

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Speaker 5: The beach, right, but I have my passport in that shoot.

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Speaker 2: It's not an authentic Mexican trip if you're not robbed somehow.

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Speaker 2: But that wasn't the case for our listener Bo. The

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Speaker 2: only thing stolen from him was his heart when he

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Speaker 2: met a woman named Shila at a bar there two

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Speaker 2: years ago. And the craziest part, they were both sober

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Speaker 2: when this all happened.

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Speaker 4: Sober ish, Jeff. They both were drinking cocktails. They just

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Speaker 4: were as wasted as their friends.

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Speaker 2: Even still, that's shocking and Bo has thought about her

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Speaker 2: ever since that trip, has never been able to reach her.

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Speaker 2: That's why he wants us to try and do it

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Speaker 2: for him today.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that we asked what motivated you to

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Speaker 5: finally take this step.

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Speaker 3: I'm not getting any younger.

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Speaker 1: Tell her that desperately you're going.

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Speaker 6: To hit us all at some point there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're just gonna go with the more romantic version

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Speaker 2: of that story you have. Yeah, Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing Sila right now.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, we're looking for Shilah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay. You don't have to be afraid.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I don't know. This would be such a weird

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Speaker 5: call to get.

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Speaker 2: We're just a friendly morning radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Sheila, Hey, uh hi.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to help out one of our listeners with

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Speaker 2: a segment called second Date Update. Okay, okay, and this

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Speaker 2: is a guy that you met two years ago on

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Speaker 2: a trip to Mexico.

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Speaker 1: We know that's a.

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Speaker 5: While she says, Wow, yeah, you're in Cabo.

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Speaker 7: Yeah that was that was a long time ago. Who oh,

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Speaker 7: oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Oh so there's this guy named bottle Bit.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god. Yes, that was such a long time ago.

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Speaker 7: I hadn't really thought about this guy forever.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's okay, Well now you're thinking about him now,

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Speaker 4: and you sound you sound happy that the memory.

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Speaker 7: Kind of but like, so much has happened since then.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what is this about.

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Speaker 2: Well, this whole segment is about seeing if you remembered

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Speaker 2: bo because I don't know if you know this. But

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Speaker 2: after your trip ended, both said, he tried to reach you.

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Speaker 7: Right right, yeah, But like back then, everything was so

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Speaker 5: You were in a relationship, weren't you.

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Speaker 7: I was engaged at the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, oh.

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Speaker 5: My god, girl, Wait, does that mean you're married? Are

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Speaker 5: you married?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 7: I was engaged with two guys actually at the same time, casually. Okay,

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Speaker 7: So like back then, I was a hot man and

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Speaker 7: I did a study abroad in Italy and I met

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Speaker 7: this guy and we hit it off and he ended

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Speaker 7: up proposing, and I said yes because I felt bad.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, you said yes because you felt bad?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, I was going say, I mean I was

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Speaker 6: leaving and I was like, yeah, I'll marry you, and

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Speaker 6: then you know, I left and then I never talked

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Speaker 1: Proposal how did the where is the second proposal?

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Speaker 7: So I leave Italy and I go home to my

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Speaker 7: other boyfriend and you missed me and he proposed, and I,

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Speaker 7: you know, I said yes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 4: So then you went to Cabbo while you're engaged to

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Speaker 7: Yes, which made things even more complicated. I felt so

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Speaker 2: Well, you're lucky Boden proposed to you, because you probably

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Speaker 2: would have said yes to that too.

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Speaker 7: Maybe maybe my life.

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Speaker 5: Wait, did you end up getting married to anyone?

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Speaker 7: I know they both fell through like karma eventually caught

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Speaker 3: I guess.

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Speaker 2: Wait, okay, so what's your relationship status now?

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Speaker 7: I'm casually dating someone.

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Speaker 2: It's nothing serious, just casual relationship with my husband.

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Speaker 1: It's like, not that serious.

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Speaker 5: It's hard, I mean, honestly though, it's hard to trust you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it is, I guess, But I told you the truth.

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Speaker 7: I'm an open book.

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Speaker 2: Now, okay, why would you make up all that embarrassing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know what the radio that is definitely

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Speaker 4: Fling.

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Speaker 2: Bow is on the phone right now, listening to this conversation,

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Speaker 7: All right, Should I hang up right now?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: There, I am here.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you're acted like BO is going to be excited

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Speaker 4: after hearing all of that.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, Bo, that was that was a lot.

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Speaker 3: Uh So, let me get this straight. So when we

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Speaker 7: Well, right, I'm no longer talking to any of them.

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Speaker 7: But but Hi, by the way.

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Speaker 3: Hi, it's very good to hear your voice. And I

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Speaker 7: Still thinking about me?

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Speaker 5: Did you just laugh? Wait?

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Speaker 3: I mean, but like, can I ask did you even

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Were you actually into me? Or was this just a

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Speaker 7: Or I mean I like you enough to make out

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is a lot right now.

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Speaker 2: It's hard because you were you weren't just the other guy, bo,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so you were you were mister right now.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It hurts so bad, but it's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 7: But it's really sweet of you. I I thought about you.

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Speaker 2: And he's gone, like he's gone through all of this

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Speaker 1: Well, think about it.

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Speaker 2: He kept your number for years just in case, hoping

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Speaker 5: It any number who deletes a contact. I mean that happened, friend.

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Speaker 3: I mean, but I guess I was just gonna sort

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Speaker 5: Me, and yeah, it wasn't like fully single.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess in this whole scenario, kind of single

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Speaker 4: Yea casually relationship.

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Speaker 3: Sure, No, I guess I was just gonna say, like,

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Speaker 3: this whole thing has been the biggest long shot ever.

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Speaker 2: Dating thing, and if you're open to that idea of

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Speaker 2: facilitate that by paying for your official first date.

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Speaker 4: I mean not because I've also been told long distance

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Speaker 5: It's very it might be just their type.

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Speaker 2: Act Ya, Sila this, You've had two failed proposals, but

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Speaker 2: the third times the charm is what they say.

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Speaker 5: Rush to that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she'll say yes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, lesser casual relationship proposes first the four.

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Speaker 7: You know what I say, Let's give it a shot.

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Speaker 5: I bet.

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Speaker 1: He enthusiastic. Yeah, good, I'd like to follow up.

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Speaker 7: So we're getting rid of the side guy right by

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Speaker 7: the time we go on a day, he'll be history.

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Speaker 7: Don't worry about it.

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Speaker 3: The great Thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations Bo, you're mister right now again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they'll take it.

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Speaker 5: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning last.

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Speaker 2: Week left Sheila and Bow. They were talking about trying

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Speaker 4: Honestly, out of all the update updates we've done, I

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Speaker 1: It's crazy.

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Speaker 5: It would have never Wow.

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Speaker 2: So Sherylon Bow are back. Where are you guys at now?

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Speaker 3: Where divorce?

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Speaker 4: You married and divorced in the time since we've talked

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Speaker 4: to you.

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Speaker 7: Yes, actually we went back to Cabo where we met,

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Speaker 5: Oh wait, is he on the phone too?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm here honestly to be totally frank with you.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell is going on, but

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Speaker 3: I'm into it.

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Speaker 1: Are you guys completely separated?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 7: We we came back from Hobo.

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Speaker 5: I realized that we might have too soon. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Men with each other.

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Speaker 7: We're still dating.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you met.

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Speaker 2: Him well, engaged to someone else, broke up with them,

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Speaker 2: married and then divorced bo and now you're happily dating

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Speaker 5: I think you messed up. She's engaged to two people.

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Speaker 2: Okay, engaged to multiple other people.

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Speaker 7: I mean, no need to bring that up, but okay.

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Speaker 3: I mean technically she was now engaged to three people.

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Speaker 1: You know, the relationship is all over the place.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's it's our story.

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Speaker 3: It's not for everyone.

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Speaker 1: You know, It's okay.

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Speaker 5: I gotta say. It's going to be great at any

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean other than that, it's your normal boy meets

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Speaker 1: You two and divorce in the marriage.

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Speaker 3: Do you have an open invite to like the next

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Speaker 3: wedding or divorce or whatever, like, just something's gonna happen

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Speaker 3: with you.

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Speaker 5: They're not very playing.

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Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.