1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: This is from Amanda on Steve Harvey FM. Amanda says, 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: I started dating a guy a few weeks ago, and 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 1: I really like him, but we aren't really at the 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: point of being exclusive. He's amazing and we have a 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: lot in common and being around him makes me want 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: to be a better person. While he was out of 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: town last week, I ended up hooking up with my ex. 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: I really feel bad about this. I told my ex 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: it was a huge mistake and not to contact me 10 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: ever again. Now I don't know if I should confess 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: to the guy I'm dating or would have just ruined 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: this relationship. 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: Her. 14 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, she feels skilled will Yeah, she wants to get 15 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: it off her. 16 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,239 Speaker 3: Huh. She she wants to get it. 17 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: Off her and she yeah, she makes she feels guilty. 18 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: Yeah she was guilty. 19 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, some people have guilt. Yeah, excuse dating 20 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 4: a wonderful guy. He went out of town and she 21 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 4: got with her. They hooked up, and now she feels bad. 22 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 4: She feels guilty. 23 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 5: So she but what is telling him for? 24 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: What do they get it off her? 25 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: You know? 26 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 3: That release and she can feel better that she. 27 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 5: She wanted to take it off him and put it 28 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 5: on him. 29 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 3: She wants to take it off her and put it 30 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 3: on had a lord. 31 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: Had the lord don't tell him? Why is y'all? I 32 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: don't understand. 33 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 3: Some people are just honestyve they don't. 34 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 5: She why was she in that with that man? With 35 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 5: all this honesty? 36 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 3: She regrets it now? She regrets it. Yeah, she regrets that. 37 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 2: Okay, as forgiveness as from God. 38 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's it. 39 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 3: And take that other scenario to your grave. 40 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 5: All the way. 41 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: You know, you know, you know how much stuff is 42 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 2: going to my grave. I'm telling you right now, we're 43 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 2: gonna have the hell, We're gonna have prob multiple We're 44 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 2: gonna probably have to have multiple funerals, the one for 45 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: my body and one for all the stuff I'm taking 46 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: to the grave. 47 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 5: I'm just in reality. 48 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: And if you had to put them to one, and 49 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: if you and if you had to fill up a 50 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: casket with them, yeah, I probably it'll be hearse. And 51 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: it'll probably be like, Okay, we're gonna need a hearse. 52 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: Then we're gonna need an eighteen wheeler. The eighteen wheeler 53 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 2: so we can stuff in caskets in it, and then 54 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 2: and then it just come on follow me. We can 55 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 2: get about thirty caskets in that eighteen wheeler filled with 56 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: stuff that's. 57 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 5: Going to my grade. 58 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: Services loan. 59 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: I didn't know had so much stuff. Why is we 60 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,279 Speaker 2: paying for these forklifts? 61 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 5: Heady kask gets off the truck. This stee said he'd 62 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 5: take it to his grave. We got to do it. 63 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 5: All the stuff. 64 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 4: You go signe for this. 65 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 5: Yeah, now, this is not the time to tell the truth, 66 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 5: little girl. You made a mistake. 67 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, because when. 68 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 5: You're going there and you tell this new dude just 69 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 5: what you did, it's wrap. The relationship is over. 70 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: So she has you're going to be I can't figure 71 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 2: out if we were gonna be committed or now you ain't? 72 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 5: Yeah? 73 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: Exclusive? Yeah, of being exclusive? 74 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 5: All right, you're not. You've made that decision. 75 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah right, all right, we have time for another one. 76 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: This is Natalie on Steve BARBFM. Natalie says, I have 77 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: a friend with benefits situation with a guy that I 78 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: actually enjoy, but I've realized I don't like feeling like 79 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm quote on call whenever he wants to hook up. Lately, 80 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: he's been the one initiating most of the time, and 81 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: even though I know I can say no, I still 82 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: feel this pressure to go along with it. I've been 83 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: thinking about setting a boundary where I'm the only one 84 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: who initiates, so it happens strictly on my turns. That 85 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: would make things more comfortable for me. But I wonder 86 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: if that's too unfair. 87 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 5: Wow, lady, I don't understand. 88 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: You're in a nothing relationship that you've admitted was nothing. Y'all, 89 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: just friends with benefits. Why don't you stop being a 90 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: friend with benefits? Yeah, you have thought of that. Since 91 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 2: you feel all this bad, you're going down. Keep telling 92 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: y'all ladies stop test driving these men, because when you 93 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 2: test drive, you wind up getting drove. 94 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna tell you that no more. 95 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: All right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Lighting 96 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: Show right after this. 97 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 3: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.