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Speaker 1: Second update. Remember, if you want a second date update,

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Speaker 1: you can email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine

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Speaker 1: two five dot com. We'll get that person on the

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Speaker 1: phone and hopefully make things very awkward for you and

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Speaker 1: fun for our listening audience. We got Becky on the

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Speaker 1: phone right now. Betty, how are you good? You emailed

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Speaker 1: us because you want us to get ahold of somebody.

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Speaker 1: What's his name? Daniel? Daniel? And what was so special

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Speaker 1: about Daniel? We went on this great date. We had

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Speaker 1: dinner and then he took me to walk through ultra

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Speaker 1: parks and it was just it was a beautiful night

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Speaker 1: and nice look kif at the end, And um, have

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Speaker 1: you tried to get a hold of him after your date?

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Speaker 1: I just try to contact him. I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to call him to that. I still feel that

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Speaker 1: the guys should take the first move. But I texted him,

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Speaker 1: you know, um, and I don't know. It's just been

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Speaker 1: about ten days now, one night, okay from him? Was

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Speaker 1: there anything weird about this date? I guess there was

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Speaker 1: a little bit of awkwardness because you kind him do

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Speaker 1: the same people, and there was a little bit of

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Speaker 1: awkward silence. But okay, than that, I had a great time.

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Speaker 1: Like awkwardness when you were talking about the same people,

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Speaker 1: or just when you realize like, oh I know that

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Speaker 1: person too. I didn't really press too much about it.

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Speaker 1: There was moments of like, yeah, we know the same people,

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Speaker 1: and then he got a little quiet. But I don't

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Speaker 1: want to say that you're not explaining the awkwardness very well.

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Speaker 1: But it's intriguing me to know what you mean by that.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping that we can get an answer from Daniel. Um,

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Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna call him right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: ready to hear whatever he has to say. Yes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Becky, your second day update is coming up

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Speaker 1: right after this. It's moving foking jubile in the morning SEC.

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Speaker 1: Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, we do the second day updates.

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Speaker 1: At this time, we got Becky on the phone, Becky

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Speaker 1: meil Us about a guy nam Daniel, she went on

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Speaker 1: a date with. They went out and had a good time.

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Speaker 1: In her words, it got awkward when they talked about

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Speaker 1: some people that they both knew. I still don't really

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Speaker 1: understand what that means, but hopefully we're gonna find out.

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Speaker 1: When we called Daniel right now, Becky you ready to

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Speaker 1: give Daniel a call and ask him why he hasn't

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Speaker 1: called you back. Yes, I'm just nervous, Okay, understandable. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Daniel's up, dude. This is a jewel from brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling about someone that you and I both know.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Becky. I like to call her to

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Speaker 1: the Bexter. I like to call her the beccan Nater.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Becky. You went on a date with her,

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Speaker 1: and you haven't responded to her texts saying that she

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Speaker 1: enjoyed the date or anything else, or called her Yes,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: But that's pretty cut and dry. You apparently have a

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Speaker 1: good reason. Yeah, okay, so tell us why tell us

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Speaker 1: why you don't want to go on a second date

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Speaker 1: with her. Well, somehow the subjects of my ex came

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Speaker 1: up her being in retail or whatever, and she just

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Speaker 1: like immediately it was like, oh, yeah, she works at

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Speaker 1: Norstom's right, right. I mean I definitely had never told

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Speaker 1: her that, and the first time we had ever met,

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Speaker 1: I had no idea how she would know something like that,

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Speaker 1: And it kind of freaked me out, and so we

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Speaker 1: were We were set up actually by a co worker.

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Speaker 1: I told him about it, and I was like, how

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Speaker 1: could she possibly know something like this? And he admitted

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Speaker 1: to me she looked me up on Facebook before the date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, that's normal behavior. Not so much because she

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Speaker 1: like went through all my old photos and like, she

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Speaker 1: looked at my ex girlfriend's Facebook. I started looking through

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Speaker 1: all her stuff. Do you have like a bunch of

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Speaker 1: pictures of her on your Facebook page? Like, was it

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Speaker 1: obvious that this was your ex girlfriend? No? I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's obvious. There's a couple, um, I mean she

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Speaker 1: obviously did like serious research. Right for a second. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: go ahead. Becky's on the phone with this right now. Daniel, Oh,

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Speaker 1: you don't you don't want to go on a second

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Speaker 1: date with me because I looked at your Facebook profile. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you don't know what kind of people are out

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Speaker 1: there these days, and you don't know you know, you are,

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Speaker 1: who your friends are, and I just want to make

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Speaker 1: sure that you're not some crazy serial killer. You know,

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Speaker 1: a serial killer. You should have looked her up on

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Speaker 1: Facebook and done the same thing. Daniel. Here's the thing

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Speaker 1: before I've ever gone out with anybody, I always google

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Speaker 1: them and look at their Facebook page. Everybody does it.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, Becky, you don't want to like let

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Speaker 1: him know that you did that. So when he was

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Speaker 1: talking about his ex girlfriend, you should have just played

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Speaker 1: like you had no clue. And I've been like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she works in ARCHERM and all about her. She's five

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Speaker 1: eight and she's also a LEO. It's kind of weird

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Speaker 1: to stalk an X. I mean, does everybody that, yes, Daniel,

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Speaker 1: Yes they do. Yeah, Becky, Now did you do a

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Speaker 1: little too much stalking of Daniel before? Yeah? I looked

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Speaker 1: at her Facebook pages. I saw that, you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: there was an old picture of them. So I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: she's she's really pretty. Let me check her out, you know,

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Speaker 1: because I'm a girl. I want to see what you see,

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Speaker 1: you know, dating and I thought he was cused from

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Speaker 1: his pictures, so I wanted to date him, but I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to check her out. Did you want to

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Speaker 1: cut your hair like hers after and dress like her after?

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Speaker 1: Where you think you're showing up to the date looking

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Speaker 1: exactly like her, wearing her skin? Maybe? Oh? Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: none of them. Did you go too far. I don't

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Speaker 1: think so. I mean, everybody's definitely that these days, you know.

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Speaker 1: And it's not like I didn't write on her wall

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Speaker 1: saying like, hey, I'm going out with your us. You

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Speaker 1: know I'm not like easy like that. Okay, Um, now

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Speaker 1: we'll pay for you guys to go on a second date.

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Speaker 1: How about we'll pay for you guys to go to

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Speaker 1: Joey's if you want to go out and eat there

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Speaker 1: and maybe see if you guys hit it off again.

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Speaker 1: Now that you've gotten this out of the way, do

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Speaker 1: you guys want to go out again? I think I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna just pass on this one. Really, you don't even

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Speaker 1: know me. You know, you didn't even just because I

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Speaker 1: think he's like I know every little thing about you, Daniel.

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Speaker 1: You don't know me at all. You haven't done your

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Speaker 1: Research's a broken jupil in the morning. I wouldn't Rember

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Speaker 1: when we broke up.