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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: This is the almost Famous podcast, and this is an

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Speaker 2: episode that is gonna be pure chaos, absolute. We have Susan, Kathy,

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Speaker 2: and Nancy here, just almost famous favorites. Really, I mean

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Speaker 2: we have this uh kind of like regular thing and

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Speaker 2: friends of the podcast, but these are favorites. At this point,

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Speaker 2: Bob and I are sharing a mic because there's so

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Speaker 2: many in here.

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Speaker 3: Bob has so many good questions for you.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pass the mic off to him now to

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Speaker 2: get this thing started, which is gonna be very I'm

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Speaker 2: like nervous because I feel like this thing could just

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Speaker 2: blow up at any second.

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Speaker 3: They're waiting, waitit wait.

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Speaker 4: Why do you feel it's gonna be chaos because I'm here?

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Speaker 5: Because I'm here. First of all, Well, they haven't met

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Speaker 5: you enough. You're the quiet one.

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Speaker 4: We love Nancy.

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Speaker 6: We love Nancy.

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Speaker 5: Again.

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Speaker 6: We're not going anywhere.

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Speaker 5: And it's our boy, Ben.

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Speaker 7: I can't I could not be happier.

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Speaker 8: And you got a beautiful hat on Nancy looks so

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Speaker 8: gorgeous and the almost famous bunny hat, and you were

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Speaker 8: a little worried about being a ski bunny.

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Speaker 4: You said, get sixty two, a.

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Speaker 5: Sixty two adorable ski bunny.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, right, run with it the gates here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I need to steal it from for a

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Speaker 2: second because we need to talk about Disney yesterday.

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Speaker 3: Just coasters. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Whoever, let's start with Nancy and then we'll move this

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Speaker 2: way in order.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear a breakdown.

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Speaker 2: Of Disney before we get into any baby stuff, any

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Speaker 2: life stuff, any of that stuff.

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Speaker 9: We have a lot of more of that coming. But

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Speaker 9: we went on a VIP tour.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, Jeff, Jeff handsome.

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Speaker 10: He's handsome and he's it was a fabulous store guide and.

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Speaker 6: His wife Jill.

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Speaker 7: We had a ball. We waited in no lines. I

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Speaker 7: actually felt bad. But we went on all these great rides.

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Speaker 9: We went on cars, we went on soren at what.

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Speaker 9: Everybody had a ball and we were like, oh my god,

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Speaker 7: So it was a blast.

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Speaker 5: You feel like you run Disney.

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Speaker 10: I have to say, I've never been to Disneyland. This

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Speaker 10: was my first time. First time, first time. I was

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Speaker 10: a Disneyland virgin. Everyone has to be a virgin one time.

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Speaker 10: It was so they say, so I love roller coasters

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Speaker 10: and and sorein because I love to travel. I got

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Speaker 10: to go to Greece and Brazil and I can't tell

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Speaker 10: you all the countries just in like ten minutes. I

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Speaker 10: don't know what it was, but it's called Soren and

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Speaker 6: Is that the center's it was?

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Speaker 10: And then I went on the I went on the

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Speaker 6: I went on the roller coasters with Joan.

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Speaker 10: I think I have a broken hand, and Nancy and

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Speaker 10: Space Mountain, Space Mountains.

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Speaker 2: Now, when I went to Disneyland, and this is the

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Speaker 4: So quiet, and I behaved, so I want to start.

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Speaker 2: I remember my favorite riot disney Land was Toys or Cars?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, yeah, it was awesome. Is it as good as

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Speaker 3: I remember?

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Speaker 6: I didn't get she was sick. She never did.

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Speaker 4: I had going through this. Wait, we went through this yesterday.

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Speaker 4: It's not contagious anymore. But we went through the exit lines,

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Speaker 4: like you were saying. My favorite was the Star Wars

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Speaker 10: I can never go back again. Once you do a

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Speaker 2: I did it with in Disney World with Sarah Hyland

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Speaker 2: this time, and I'm with you. Once you do it

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Speaker 2: once with a plaid, you'll never be able to do

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Speaker 6: No, I've already.

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Speaker 10: I've already put my thing with Amy's Sugarman to come

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Speaker 3: It was incredible.

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Speaker 6: When I get my grandchildren, we need a plaid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you need well, there's a price, you know what.

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Speaker 6: I'll give one of my grandchildren to go do it.

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Speaker 5: Two guys.

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Speaker 8: Back in the day, I used to host this thing

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Speaker 8: And I had a plaid every year for five years,

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Speaker 5: I was like, this, what in the world.

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Speaker 8: I can't No one's running to get me French fries.

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Speaker 5: Where are my cheese sticks? I was losing my mind.

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Speaker 2: Next level, when we talk about privilege, but what you

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Speaker 2: feel it, you'll never go back. But overall, if you

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Speaker 2: were to use one word and we'll go start with Susan,

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Speaker 2: we'll go to Kathy and then in with Nancy, and

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Speaker 2: we'll come back around. One word to describe your experience

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Speaker 3: What would it be?

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Speaker 4: Does it have to be one word? Beyond spectacular, beyond awesome, magical, exhilarating.

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Speaker 3: Let's go yeah, wow, that was so good?

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Speaker 7: Can I Can I say something?

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Speaker 5: Disney our new advertiser.

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Speaker 7: When I was it was an out of body experience.

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Speaker 7: We went on Space Mountain.

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Speaker 9: Kathy and I were in this same little car car

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Speaker 9: and I hadn't been on Space Mountain for twenty five years.

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Speaker 9: And we're on, and Joan and Chalk, we're all on.

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Speaker 9: We missed Susan and we put our hands up. You know,

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Speaker 9: it's all in the dark, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 7: And you know the picture at the end that you

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Speaker 11: You're missing.

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Speaker 7: Nancy, where you? And all I was saying was hold me, Kathy, and.

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Speaker 6: I took care of my friend. Did I take care

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Speaker 5: She held you.

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Speaker 2: Now, as we move into the baby phase of this time,

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Speaker 2: the plaid going. I wish my family was.

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Speaker 5: Here this way with you guys.

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Speaker 8: So when I did it, I didn't have any children

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Speaker 8: my wife, you know, Canyon in Vendos are well, she's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm with you.

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Speaker 6: I'm with Canyon.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, I'm like what she goes, we're not waiting

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Speaker 8: in line it well, but we you know, we can't either.

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Speaker 5: It's like, oh my god. So it's like one of those.

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Speaker 8: Things where you're like, I wish I wouldn't have wasted it.

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Speaker 8: I didn't waste it because my nephew was at me

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Speaker 8: back in the day. But it's like, now that I

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Speaker 6: I don't even know what the plaid. Honestly, I want

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Speaker 4: I thought buying the fast pace was something. We still

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Speaker 6: I'm done now finish. It's like the In and Out

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what the cost.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's at least I.

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Speaker 8: Will say this I think, and in a very modest moment,

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Speaker 2: So if you're somebody out there who's listening, going, I

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Speaker 6: We'd like to go there.

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Speaker 5: Six we're in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred bucks a person. Were good, good, exactly.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's get plaids. Plaids are incredible. But Disneyland and

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Speaker 2: Disney World are just special places. They are magical. And

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Speaker 2: we are here tonight to talk about babies who.

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Speaker 10: Are Can I just say one more thing about Disneyland.

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Speaker 10: I've never been before, so seeing the way it was

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Speaker 10: till six in the morning to decorated for Christmas, and

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Speaker 10: it was when I say magical. I am a Christmas

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Speaker 10: like girl. It was the most beautiful, amazing level.

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Speaker 2: Jessica and I both are Disney people. One because my

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Speaker 2: parents worked at Disney right when they got married. So

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Speaker 10: Do you know you met your dad when I was

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Speaker 10: anut the first time? No, that's correct. I did not

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Speaker 3: He's a handsome dude.

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Speaker 2: And then my mom worked as a waitress at I

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Speaker 2: when you walked into Magic Kingdom. It was it's new now,

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Speaker 2: I forget the restaurant now. But they worked at Disney

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Speaker 2: some time here on this podcast to say thank you Disney.

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Speaker 10: Thank you, Thank you Disney. One of the most amazing experiences.

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Speaker 5: Still wondering why I wasn't invited.

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Speaker 8: So this is my party, right, yeah, party. So I

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Speaker 5: It was one of my favorite jobs I've ever had.

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Speaker 8: But I did get to see the underbelly of Disney World,

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Speaker 8: which is Orlando and do you know that in the

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Speaker 8: event of an attack, right, So, in the event of

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Speaker 8: some foreign attack, whether it be nuclear otherwise, that is

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Speaker 8: the place today. They have an in these things go

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Speaker 8: up like in Wall Street.

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Speaker 5: How these things go up.

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Speaker 8: No vehicles can get in there or out of there

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Speaker 8: So if we ever are suffering a nuclear attack, and

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Speaker 8: you're go, go because trust me, you are fine.

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Speaker 4: Difference between Disneyland and Disney World, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Disney was on and ones, And I will.

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Speaker 5: Say this, I do think that it is a magical place.

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Speaker 12: It is.

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Speaker 8: Going to Club thirty three is one of the coolest

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Speaker 8: what's Club thirty three. That's where Walt Disney is his

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Speaker 8: they have this exquisite menu and it's all these accouterments

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Speaker 6: Like our next trend. You're worried about not being invited? Yeah, yesterday.

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Speaker 4: Just breathe, there's nothing you can do when, especially when

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Speaker 6: Now, all right, I have two things to say.

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Speaker 3: Until I see parents.

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Speaker 10: Your children are never going to remember Ben, the gifts

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Speaker 5: No, I know me too.

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Speaker 8: I'm like I'm sitting here thinking like I don't want

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Speaker 6: From her partner? The way you treat you, you know,

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Speaker 5: You You, you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: Quite frankly, the greatest gift.

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Speaker 12: Could be there with you today to celebrate us and

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Do you feel blessed?

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Speaker 5: That's so sweet?

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Speaker 10: But can I just say, That's what I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: And when she really wants something and you buy it,

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Speaker 8: I think it's so sweet that. I mean, I waited

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Speaker 8: And I love seeing it because it's like, man, I

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Speaker 4: Do you remember the feeling of, oh my goodness, I'm

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 4: You know I have to protect them. I have to

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Speaker 6: But as soon as that one comes out.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I have enough.

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Speaker 4: You have a huge heart, and you have so much.

452
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Speaker 6: It's when two come out at a time.

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Speaker 7: That's another story.

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Speaker 6: That was scary.

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Speaker 7: And you're only having right now.

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Speaker 5: You've got.

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Speaker 3: The big thing. And so I was.

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Speaker 2: Telling my my best buddy yesterday this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, he called me.

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Speaker 2: I was talking to Kathy yesterday. He goes, are you excited?

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Speaker 2: I am excited? Like I don't have any like non

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Speaker 2: excitement feelings. This is a good step, I said, And

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Speaker 2: he goes, what are you worried about? I said, There's

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Speaker 2: one thing I'm worried about. There's one thing that kind

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Speaker 2: of haunts me. That was my question, And the question,

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Speaker 2: if I'm honest, is I'm thirty five years old. This

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Speaker 2: isn't late necessarily for me. This isn't early for me.

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Speaker 2: This just feels like it's the right time for me

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Speaker 2: at whatever to have my first baby. But I've lived

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Speaker 2: thirty five years of my life.

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Speaker 3: Pretty much.

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Speaker 2: I mean, my wife is is very great, and we've

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Speaker 2: made this marriage and this commitment. But I've lived thirty

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Speaker 2: five years of my life without any other responsibilities outside

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Speaker 2: of myself.

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Speaker 10: No pets, Ben, Can I just say, the minute your

477
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Speaker 10: daughter is born, you won't be able to imagine it

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Speaker 10: any other way.

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Speaker 2: Interesting. That's That's what I'm concerned about. Is I've developed

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Speaker 2: these habits and these these rhythms and these things, and

481
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Speaker 2: I'm selfish, and not necessarily on purpose.

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Speaker 3: I'm just selfish because I what's to do? Day twelve?

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Speaker 10: Your selfishness will end.

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Speaker 6: It all goes away.

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Speaker 4: The mother does change her schedule, her beauty, but getting ready,

486
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Speaker 4: that's like, doesn't happen as world it is.

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Speaker 5: No, it really is. It is. I'll never forget.

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Speaker 8: I've never loved to just be there than that moment

489
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Speaker 8: of watching her and I'm in the room and I'm

490
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Speaker 8: like watching her give birth, and I'm just like.

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Speaker 4: Were you afraid of the labor? Are you nervous about

492
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Speaker 4: that canyon?

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Speaker 5: Both worlds? She went through several hours of.

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Speaker 8: Section, And I'll never for get it being in that

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Speaker 8: room and just watching and I'm like, this is unreal.

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Speaker 6: Isn't it beautiful?

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Speaker 5: Like I was a part of thirty or four seconds

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Speaker 5: of this?

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Speaker 6: Then are you screaming?

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Speaker 2: Twenty Jessica's asked me to stay shut up above shoulder up.

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Speaker 2: She's asked me that of me, and she said, if

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Speaker 2: things go wrong, I can go down low, cut the cord.

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Speaker 2: I'm good cutting the cord. I'm in my screaming squeamish

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Speaker 2: I think so yes, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: She might not be nice, like.

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Speaker 5: She's well, she's Italian.

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Speaker 3: She she's good at it. Yeah, yeah, she.

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Speaker 2: Always getting on epidural like good she's not doing like

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Speaker 2: my one of my best friends in the world's daughters

510
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Speaker 2: is having a baby.

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Speaker 3: She's doing a water birth. Jessica says, Nope, still not

512
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Speaker 3: interested in EPID.

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Speaker 7: Signed up for the e and you'll be so happy. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: and so will she?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, any last words here to share that you're just

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Speaker 2: like holding on to before we go, We'll start with Nancy.

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Speaker 9: I would say, savor it, be there with her, Savor

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Speaker 9: the moment. You don't have to fear anything. This is

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Speaker 9: the way it's supposed to be. And be in the

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Speaker 9: moment with her. And I ditto what Kathy said when

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Speaker 9: and Susan two. When they're born, all of that worry,

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Speaker 9: whatever you were worried about, goes away, and then you

524
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Speaker 9: have your family. It's like you feel remember it feeling

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Speaker 9: so safe riding home from the hospital with my husband

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Speaker 9: and our first baby and your little unit in.

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Speaker 5: Your whole world.

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Speaker 9: Change, it changes, but you won't have the worry and

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Speaker 9: the feary you have right now.

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Speaker 6: That's right.

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Speaker 9: I really believe that my second thing is sleep when

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Speaker 9: the baby sleeps.

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Speaker 6: When you're at home, don't worry about cleaning, laundering.

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Speaker 4: No laundry.

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Speaker 9: It doesn't matter if the house is a mess. Sleep

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Speaker 9: when the baby sleeps, and take when your parents come

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Speaker 9: or when Jessica's parents come sleep and let them help

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Speaker 9: because you need it.

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Speaker 10: And I would just say, you are embarking on the

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Speaker 10: most beautiful gift that life ever brings you, and just

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Speaker 10: enjoy every minute.

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Speaker 9: And why do you think people do it again and again?

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Speaker 4: They have been most importantly, just pray to God. That's

544
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Speaker 4: all that the baby's healthy. But here's a really important thing.

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Speaker 4: Did you get a push present?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 12: Good?

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Speaker 6: You need a push present?

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Speaker 5: Push present?

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Speaker 6: Then you don't. I give it Tony.

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Speaker 3: When after she delivered, as soon as like the babies,

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Speaker 3: I bring.

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Speaker 6: It to when she's in the hospital.

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Speaker 4: After they clean up, give her an.

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Speaker 10: The first time they bring the baby back, and when

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Speaker 10: it cannot be a ticket to the Dodgers game?

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Speaker 6: Did usually je is good?

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Speaker 3: I have something in mind. It gives. Everybody says push present,

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Speaker 3: But I'm like, I don't understand.

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Speaker 6: After she pushes, it's not that difficult.

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Speaker 3: She pushes, not before she gives birth.

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Speaker 5: Are you push?

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Speaker 3: Are you sing?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I sure did? Oh yeah, buddy, I think I'm still married.

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Speaker 6: I got my son in law.

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Speaker 5: Anything like the pushcakes to get the first place.

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Speaker 9: Let me just tell you it's meaningful, Like I still

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Speaker 9: have that piece of jewelry and.

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Speaker 4: I'm it's my it's a coveted gift.

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Speaker 10: Can I make a suggestion, Yeah, February amethyst, do something.

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Speaker 4: Amethysts unless she doesn't like that's time, of course, diamonds.

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Speaker 6: I can't amethysts for his daughter be her worst.

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Speaker 10: Do something with ammethyt amethysts circled in diamonds.

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Speaker 6: Can't go wrong.

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Speaker 9: He just bought diamonds a little solid.

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Speaker 11: It doesn't have to be you know what a kind

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Speaker 11: of coffee from generous and what did you think about

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Speaker 11: a bag of coffee?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: You know what.

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Speaker 8: I'll say this, thank you so much for you're insight.

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Speaker 8: It's very honestly, God, I love this. I cried first

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Speaker 8: podcast I've ever cried.

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Speaker 6: I know there me. We love you guys. You guys

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Speaker 6: favorite this guy.

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Speaker 5: God, who's who's going to be a better.

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Speaker 6: He's going to be a great daddy.

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00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 5: He's going to be the best dad ever.

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Speaker 8: No pressure, ben, no pressure, pressure, but he's just felt

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Speaker 8: sincere person.

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Speaker 4: They're going to be times you'll be challenged. You will

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Speaker 4: be challenged and you will get frustrated.

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Speaker 6: And he'll screw up and it's okay.

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Speaker 4: It's okay when they're screaming and crying when they're a

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Speaker 4: little bit closer to one years old and you're trying

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Speaker 4: to train them to go to by themselves.

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Speaker 5: The thing is one thing.

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Speaker 10: And then I will come and babysit because I love babies.

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Speaker 10: Three of the common babysit.

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Speaker 6: You guys can have a night away. How about that.

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Speaker 7: I was gonna say the Three Stooges.

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Speaker 6: The three Stooges with us easily. We can do it, Detroit.

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Speaker 5: You got a gig, I'll look it up.

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Speaker 7: But I also think when they're when they're babies, about.

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Speaker 9: If you have friends, if you're you're like her family,

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Speaker 9: your family who come in take her out, still have

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Speaker 9: a date night, like if you if you have the

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Speaker 9: pleasure of having family, let them babysit, take her outs.

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Speaker 6: Three golden.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just saying we came into my house to

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Speaker 2: watch our baby, that that baby would not be more

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Speaker 2: taken care of than I could ever do.

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Speaker 10: We turn the whole.

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Speaker 2: Conversations like it would be an insane and that and

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to do that.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes when the baby's like six and then and we

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Speaker 3: can the home and she's like this, we're taking.

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Speaker 6: Lad, We're taking her too.

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Speaker 11: Don't think about the said any Susan, Annie, Kathy and

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Speaker 11: Annie Nancy said, they take us to see the plaids,

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Speaker 11: said me, me, Susan.

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Speaker 7: Susan's paying for the plan.

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Speaker 5: Susan said the S word.

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Speaker 6: You know what, you know what's gonna say? Yes, she did.

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Speaker 6: Now we want you to open President.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna go outside. We're gonna open some presents.

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