1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome back to Carol Markwitz Show on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: My special guest today for the short segment where I 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: answer listener questions is my friend and co host of Normally, 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: Mary Katherine Ham. Hi, Mary Katherine. It's so nice to 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: have you on. 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: Thank you for having me. 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: So we're going to do a quick question answer for 8 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: a listener who wrote in. I like this question because 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: it really does hit on some issues that I talk 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 1: about a lot. The question is, Hi, Carol, I've been 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: following you since the Alarming News days. By the way, 12 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: side note, Alarming News was my old blog. It's how 13 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: I got into the media world, and so this person 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: has been following me for many, many years, like twenty. 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for that. I'm sixty one years 16 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: old and my wife died of cancer ten years ago. 17 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: We have three grown children. I only started dating again 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: about a year ago, and I'm seeing a woman in 19 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: her early forties. I wasn't looking for I'm one so 20 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: much younger, but we met through mutual friends and hit 21 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: it off. The problem is she wants children of her own, 22 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: and I feel finished with that part of my life. 23 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: Sometimes I think I should just have a child with her, 24 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: but the idea of a thirty year age gap with 25 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,199 Speaker 1: my other children feels ridiculous. I don't want to lose her, 26 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: but also don't want to waste her time. I feel 27 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: like I need a woman's advice and I trust you well, 28 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: thank you for that. I don't know what do you 29 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: think about that, Mary Catherine. 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, here's what I think is that congrats by the way, 31 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: for finding love again. And that's exciting, and given that 32 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: it sounds like a healthy relationship, I think you guys 33 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: need to have a very frank discussion about this because 34 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: time is of the essence. 35 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: Time is a ticket, Yeah. 36 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 2: For both of you, frankly, particularly for her. If she 37 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 2: really wants this, it would be need to it would 38 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: need to be acted upon quickly, and for you, which 39 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: I think. Look, I'm an older mom and I understand 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: and taking that I sort of restarted the clock on 41 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: myself as well. And it can be challenging because you 42 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 2: do have less energy and you do have you feel 43 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: like the challenge is sometimes hurt your health more or 44 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: you lose more sleep or whatever it is right when 45 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: you're dealing with young children. So that's something to consider. 46 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 2: So for both of you, the clock is ticking in 47 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,959 Speaker 2: a way. Yeah, so you've got to have that honest 48 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 2: conversation now because you really don't want to end up 49 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: in a place where she feels like her time did 50 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: get wasted. 51 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: Right, That's exactly where I am on this. I think 52 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: that it's very important not to waste her time. So 53 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: you need to make a decision, and you need to say, 54 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: do I care about that age spread between my older 55 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: kids and potential new baby. Do I want this woman 56 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: in my life? Do I need her in my life? 57 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: Will I care about losing her if I can't give 58 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: her what she wants? I will say, you know, a 59 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: lot of people focus on the age or the mom, 60 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: but my husband always makes this point that having kids 61 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: as a young man's game, it's not that easy for 62 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: the dads either, you know, and for every and I 63 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: know if you listen to my show you've heard me 64 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: say this, But everybody who's always like, well, Mick Jagger 65 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: had a baby at seventy five, like you are not 66 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: mc jagger, and you will not have a team, You 67 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: will not have a squad taking care of your kids. 68 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: It'll be you with your kid in the backyard. So 69 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: figure out how important it is to you and then 70 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: follow Mary Catherine's advice and you know, make the decision 71 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: together obviously, but first figure out where you want to 72 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: go on this. 73 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I would note he uses the word ridiculous 74 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 2: is the thing that he uses to characterize this age gap, 75 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: which yes, is out of the ordinary, But ridiculous isn't 76 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: that strong a word, And it indicates that his concern 77 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: is how it would be viewed exactly, not how it 78 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: would feel to have the kid. And I guarantee you 79 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: that having a beautiful kid is probably going to override ridiculous. 80 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I also noticed ridiculous. I feel like you're absolutely 81 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: right that word is for the outword world, how it 82 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: would look to other people and what they would think 83 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: of him, Like, oh, but nobody's thinking of anybody. That's 84 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: the other thing. It's like we think that people are 85 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 1: judging us or thinking about what we're are, the choices 86 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: that we make or what we're doing. 87 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 3: They're not. 88 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: They're thinking about themselves and how you're thinking about them 89 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: and something that they're doing. 90 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: You. 91 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 1: I really liked this question because I think this guy 92 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: has an opportunity at a second love, second life and 93 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: all of that, and I kind of hope. He takes it. 94 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: Understand that there's concerns about the age, and I understand 95 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: that you have grown kids who I don't know, he 96 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: doesn't say it in the question, but might not love it. 97 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, but it might really breathe a new 98 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: sense of purpose into your life and you might find 99 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: that that's what you needed. But very specifically, I talk 100 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 1: about women wasting their time with guys that can't give 101 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: them what they want. So if that's you, I would, 102 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: more than anything else say cut her free. If it's 103 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: not for you. 104 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's clearly thinking about it seriously, and he needs 105 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 2: to think about it seriously quickly. 106 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: Absolutely. Thank you for joining me on the Carol Markowitz Show. 107 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 1: She is Mary Katherine Ham. She is fantastic. Check us 108 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: on normally watch her on Fox News. Thank you so much, 109 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: Mary Catherine. 110 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 4: Thank you coming up my interview with Greg Easterbrook. But first, 111 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 4: it was nearly two years ago the terrorists murdered more 112 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 4: than twelve hundred innocent Israelis and took two hundred and 113 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 4: fifty people hostage. Today, it seems as if the cries 114 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 4: of the dead and dying have been drowned out by 115 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 4: shouts of anti Semitic hatred and the most brutal attack 116 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 4: on Jewish people since the Holocaust has been forgotten. Yet 117 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 4: as the world looks away, a light shines in the darkness. 118 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 4: It's a movement of love and support for the people 119 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 4: of Israel called Flags of Fellowship, and it's organized by 120 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 4: the International Fellowship of Christians and Jews. And on October fifth, 121 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 4: just a few weeks away, millions across America will prayerfully 122 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 4: plant an Israeli flag and honor and solidarity with the 123 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 4: victims of October seventh, twenty twenty three and their grieving families. 124 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 4: And now you can be part of this movement too. 125 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 4: To get more information about how you can join the 126 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 4: Flags of Fellowship movement, visit the Fellowship online at IFCJ 127 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 4: dot org. That's IFCJ dot org. 128 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio. My 129 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: guest today is Greg Easterbrook. Greg is the author of 130 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: fourteen books, including It's Better Than It Looks, which shows 131 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: the condition of the world is steadily improving. Also has 132 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 1: a weekly substack at All Predictions Wrong. So nice to 133 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: have you on, Greg. 134 00:06:58,720 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 3: Thanks Carol, good to be here. 135 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: So you have fourteen books, and your most recent one 136 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: is about how things aren't as bad as as they 137 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: may seem. How did you come up with that? 138 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 5: I've actually been writing about that topic for several decades. 139 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 5: If you looked at social statistics about the United States, 140 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 5: trends in violence and pollution, longevity, discrimination, things that you 141 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 5: can measure objectively. In most cases, they started improving around 142 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 5: the time that I was born, which was sadly long ago. 143 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 5: But they've improved a lot in the last thirty years. 144 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 5: Of course, I'm not arguing that things are fine. There's 145 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 5: a lot of improvement and reform needed. But we have 146 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 5: so much less pollution in the United States than we 147 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 5: used to, so much less discrimination, most rates and incidents 148 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 5: of diseases during. 149 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 3: Long term decline. 150 00:07:55,160 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 5: Longevity has increased every year except the COVID year, and 151 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 5: we've always our material prosperity has increased. Per capita income, 152 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 5: if you stated in current dollars, per capita income has 153 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 5: gotten steadily higher, including in the middle class. You hear 154 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 5: people say, oh, the middle class is being hollowed up. 155 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 5: The middle class lives significantly better today than it did 156 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 5: a generation to go, and those are unfashionable ideas An 157 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 5: interviewer once asked me what people react to negatively in 158 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 5: my writing, and I said, what I say that makes 159 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 5: people angry is I'm an optimist. For some reason, this 160 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 5: makes people angry, especially in the New York City environment 161 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 5: that you just put. The only thing that's politically correct 162 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 5: is to feel despair and anxiety. The world is ending. 163 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 5: And if you say no, actually, things are getting better 164 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 5: and yeah we need reform, but in the main a 165 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 5: lot better off than we used to be, that makes 166 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 5: people angry. 167 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: Weirdly enough, it makes you unpopular. 168 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 5: In my case, my popularity has been fine, but I 169 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 5: certainly wouldn't be welcome at the Council on Foreign Relations. 170 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: Why do you think people imagine that their lives are 171 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: worse and the world is worse. Why do they think 172 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,439 Speaker 1: things are worse than ever before? 173 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: There's a couple of reasons. 174 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 5: Human beings are prone to self pity, and saying, oh, 175 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 5: I'll never live as well as my grandparents did is 176 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 5: a form of self pity, even if your grandparents would 177 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 5: change places with you in a heartbeat, if only to 178 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 5: get modern health care. People are prone to self pity, 179 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 5: mythologize the past and think it was much better than 180 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 5: it was. You asked me, whoa boy the past things 181 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 5: everybody had it so good. Well, yeah, to think about 182 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 5: the nineteen fifties. Think about the nineteen fifties when blacks 183 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 5: couldn't ride buses and you could be thrown in jail 184 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 5: for being gay, and prosperity again in current dollars was 185 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 5: but twenty percent of what it is today. You really 186 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 5: like to go back and live in that time. But 187 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 5: people's knowledge is knowledge of the past. Even the recent 188 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 5: past is. 189 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: Is slight colored glasses. 190 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's rose colored glasses. And it's also the relentless 191 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 5: negativism of the mainstream media and the two political parties. 192 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 5: And Trump is as guilty as this as the Democrats are. 193 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 5: You remember Trump's American carnage speech and the day you 194 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 5: said American carnage crime had fallen for like twenty years 195 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 5: in a row. The Democratic Party, in all of its 196 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 5: recent presidential elections, has tried to talk America down, down, down, 197 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 5: so bad, so awful, so racist, so sexist, And you 198 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 5: going on the street and you see racism and sexism 199 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:39,479 Speaker 5: were infraction. 200 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 3: Of what they once were. 201 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 5: But the elites don't want to say that. The elites 202 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 5: think scaring you brings them more money and power, And 203 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 5: sadly they're right about that. Scaring you does bring them 204 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 5: more money in power. So we get this endless diet 205 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 5: of this stuff. 206 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 1: So what could be done? How do you get the 207 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: message out that things are getting better all the time. 208 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 5: Well, I've long said my one ament is it long 209 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 5: if you and I started a publication called Consensus today, 210 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 5: nobody would buy it because what they're buying is scare tactics. 211 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 5: You've got to say, if you're thinking simply in terms 212 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 5: of the free market, the free market seems to like 213 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 5: scare tactics. That's what it's willing to pay for. These 214 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 5: news channels that people tune in are the channels that 215 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 5: present scare tactics. 216 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 3: You don't have to you don't have. 217 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 5: To watch CNN or Fox News in PBS and watch 218 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 5: a classical music concert. 219 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 3: That's not what you do. 220 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 5: What you do is you watch the channels that are 221 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 5: selling scare tactics. And the same is true with publishers 222 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 5: and many others. That people have to stop being eager 223 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 5: customers for the doomsday view if they want the behavior 224 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 5: of the media, especially to change. 225 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: Did you get into writing, did you always want to 226 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: be a writer. 227 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 3: I did. 228 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 5: I'm relatively rare. It was my youthful ambition. I'm relatively 229 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 5: rare and someone who's actually accomplished as youthful ambition. We 230 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 5: could talk about that more in a second, but yes, 231 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 5: I always wanted to be a writer, and I'm glad 232 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 5: I did it. 233 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: So do most people not succeed in their youthful ambitions? 234 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: I guess is the follow up to that, because you know, 235 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: I always wanted to be a writer too. My parents said, 236 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: don't be crazy. Nobody's a writer. You know, they were 237 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: immigrants from the Soviet Union. They definitely didn't want a 238 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: starving artists child. Were your parents supportive and what do 239 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: you mean by you know, the youthful ambition part? 240 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 5: Well, my parents were kind of neutral in this because 241 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 5: I put myself through college. I always looked after myself. 242 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 5: My parents were fine, loving people, but they kind of 243 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 5: had nothing to do with my career choices. I think 244 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 5: you can find an awful lot of people who and 245 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 5: you say, I want to be a great musician, I 246 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 5: want to be a ball arena and they ended up 247 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 5: working in Starbucks. And I'm glad that my youthful ambition 248 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 5: was realized at least at some level. I'm actually still 249 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 5: working on it, but because I have some unpublic just 250 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 5: but good luck getting fourteen books out right. 251 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: I have one and I'm done, I think. 252 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 5: Right well, I have two completed books that are not 253 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 5: published yet and that I'm arguing them publishers about. So 254 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 5: I'm far from finished with this quest. 255 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: Is there a theme through your fourteen books? 256 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 5: I gotta say, Carol, I've bounced all over the map. 257 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 5: I've written some books that are serious public policy analysis. 258 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 5: I wrote a book about Christian theology. I've written published 259 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 5: three literary novels and numbers four and five are coming. 260 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 5: And to put our kids through college, I wrote about sports. 261 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 5: So my agent has been telling me our entire time 262 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 5: together that the way you make money as an author 263 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 5: is to pick one subject and write about it fennerlessly, 264 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 5: And I'm sure he's right about that. But I've written 265 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 5: about whatever's on my mind and done okay. And it 266 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 5: keeps your brain fresh when you write about what's on 267 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 5: your mind that day. 268 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: Absolutely yeah. And I hate that. I hate the pick 269 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: a lane and just just think about this all the 270 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: time and write about this and this is your you know, 271 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: this is what you do, and this is what people 272 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: know you. As you know, people are multifaceted. They have 273 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: all kinds of things that they want to say to 274 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: the world. And yeah, I'm glad you're not following that 275 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: advice to pick a lane and just do one thing. 276 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: Do you have something that you wish you had written 277 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: about but didn't feel like it was your lane? 278 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 3: No? 279 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 5: Actually no, everything that I've every topic that I've chosen 280 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 5: was my choice and I've been happy with. Like I said, 281 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 5: I have two books that are done and not yet published. 282 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 5: So in men's frustration over that, but those books say 283 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 5: what I want them to say, and that part of 284 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 5: my career has worked out pretty well. 285 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: So if it hadn't worked out, if your childhood ambition 286 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: hadn't come to fruition, what would have been the plan. 287 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 3: Be I'm not sure. 288 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 5: I never I admire the profession engineering, law, medicine. I 289 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 5: never felt drawn to them when I was young, especially 290 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 5: when I was trying to save money to get back 291 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 5: into college. I work as a bus driver and a 292 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 5: used car salesman. I'm glad I'm not a bus driver 293 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 5: or a used car salesman today, but I'm very proud 294 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 5: to say that I'm a Fellow of the American Academy 295 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 5: of Arts and Sciences. You have to be elected to that. 296 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 5: And when you go to their website and look at 297 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 5: these tremendously accomplished people who have chairs at Ivy League 298 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 5: universities and have won great prizes all around the world, 299 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 5: then you look at my bio. I'm self employed, was 300 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 5: a bus driver and a used car salesman. But I'm 301 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 5: actually kind of proud of that. 302 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think that's it's unusual and it 303 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: got you to where you are. I feel like and 304 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: more than ever, people are recognizing that things like that, 305 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: having jobs like that are actually super helpful in other 306 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: fields that we don't want people to have no life 307 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: experience at all. I can think of a handful of 308 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: politicians that that would describe, you know, taking that path 309 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: and you know, going from the no life experience at 310 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: all to either being in charge of us or or 311 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: telling us what we're supposed to be doing. 312 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 4: More coming up with Greg Easterbrook. But first war is everywhere. 313 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 4: Debt continues to skyrocket, and the dollar is losing purchasing power. 314 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 4: The value of the dollar is falling fast. That's why 315 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 4: more people are converting their IRA or four O one 316 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 4: K to a gold and silver IRA to protect their 317 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 4: retirement savings. 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Before making 333 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 4: investment decisions, you should carefully consider and review all risks involved. 334 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 1: What do you worry about? 335 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 3: I worry, Carol, I have two words. 336 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 5: I have a national worry for the United States and 337 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 5: an international worry for the world. My national worry for 338 00:17:56,160 --> 00:18:00,040 Speaker 5: the United States is our debt cycle. I think you 339 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 5: know that debt is a gloomy topic, and people say, well, look, 340 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 5: we've been borrowing money hand over fifth nothing's gone wrong. Yeah, 341 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 5: but where's it going to leave. The shocking statistic is 342 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,919 Speaker 5: that the United States, again, if you adjust the current dollars, 343 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 5: the United States is borrowed and we're money in the 344 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 5: last fifteen years that it borrowed in the previous two 345 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 5: hundred and twenty five years combined, two hundred and forty 346 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 5: five years, I guess, and thirty five years combined. That's 347 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 5: the right number. Boy, it's amazing how much money we've borrowed. 348 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 5: We've gotten away with it so far. It's not gonna last. 349 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 5: It's not sustainable. There's going to be a reckoning for 350 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 5: all that borrowing. 351 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 3: And with the exception of. 352 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 5: The COVID year, the borrowing has occurred when things were 353 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 5: basically normal, right, The economy was outputting pretty good, when 354 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 5: people unemployment was low. In other words, it wasn't an emergency. 355 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 5: And we've borrowed money anyway, and it's not going to last. Forever, 356 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 5: and we're not going to be happy. 357 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 3: When it ends. 358 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm very afraid of that issue because I feel like 359 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 1: we've lost that argument. I also, I care very much 360 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 1: about our spending and are borrowing and all of that, 361 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: and I just feel like there's nobody to argue with anymore. 362 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: There's nobody to tell that to anymore. Even people on 363 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: the right who used to kind of agree with me, 364 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 1: just it doesn't matter anymore. And Culter described national debt 365 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:26,199 Speaker 1: as the similar to what the left does on climate change, like, oh, 366 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 1: it's going to be real bad any minute now. It's 367 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 1: going to be real bad any minute now. A good point, Yeah, 368 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: but how do we convey to people what it will 369 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: actually be like? 370 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 5: But nobody wants to deal with this, and the pressure 371 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 5: points are coming on Social Security and Medicare. Social Security 372 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 5: runs out of money in twenty thirty three, the day 373 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,239 Speaker 5: before this happens. Everyone in Congress will say they were 374 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 5: never warned and had no way of knowing at the 375 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 5: very least soci Security, Medicare. Each year that we put 376 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 5: off reform, the problem gets worse. Right with it now, 377 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 5: it'll be better, less bad than if we deal with it. 378 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 5: At three o'clock in the morning and in twenty thirty three, 379 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:07,880 Speaker 5: which is how Congress is going to do. 380 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 1: How they're going to do it, right, we can make 381 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: that prediction right here, right now. That's how it's going 382 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: to be. I had some hope that Elon I really, 383 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: I know maybe it sounds naive, but Elon Musk gave 384 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,360 Speaker 1: me some hope that there was going to be actual changes, 385 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 1: and him being so despondent and disappointed in our government 386 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: showed me that nothing is going to change. 387 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 3: That's because even the right wing wouldn't support him. 388 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 5: Right the right wing in the House of Representatives is 389 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 5: not in any way serious about it. They just want 390 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 5: to borrow, borrow, borrow. They're indistinguished. People say there's no 391 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 5: bipartisanship in Washington. Yeah, total my partisan agreement on borrowing 392 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 5: more and being irresponsible. 393 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 3: Both parties do it now. 394 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 5: The thing that I worry about for the larger world, 395 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 5: most trends are going pretty well. The reduction of poverty, 396 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 5: especially in Asia, on the global scale in the last 397 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 5: twenty five years is just phenomenal. It's one of the 398 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 5: best thing that's ever happened to the human family. And 399 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 5: most Americans don't even know that it's occurred, so I'm 400 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 5: pretty happy about that. I think environmental trends are mainly positive. 401 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 5: I think global warming is real, it's been proven, but 402 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 5: it's nowhere near the threat that people make it out 403 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 5: to be. What worries me is that there are still 404 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 5: eleven thousand nuclear bombs in the world. Someday one of 405 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 5: those damn things is going to go off, and on 406 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 5: the precipice of the main nuclear arms control treaty between 407 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 5: the United States and Russian Federation expires in February, and 408 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 5: there's no sign that either side is trying to renew it. 409 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 5: There's no sign that we're trying to bring the Chinese 410 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 5: into that treaty. Chinese building nuclear bombs like crazy. You 411 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 5: can now there are fewer nuclear bombs in the world 412 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 5: than before the treaties between Washington and Moscow. That's been positive, 413 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 5: but there's still way to There's plenty to eliminate human life. 414 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 5: Human beings. Yeah, most people who run big countries are rational. 415 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 5: They know that you sing a nuclear bombas suicide. But 416 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 5: not everybody who runs a big country is rational, right, 417 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 5: because one and then the human family will will be 418 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 5: no more, and we're not doing anything about it. Yeah, much, 419 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 5: we're concerned about cracker barrel than eleven thousand nuclear warheads. 420 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: It's funny because as you say this, I mean not 421 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: that I forgot that there's a nuclear war threat, but 422 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: you know, it's sort of in the background. Cracker barrels 423 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: in the news. I mean, the old man in the 424 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: cracker barrel logo has been, you know, front and center, 425 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 1: and the nuclear threat is very, very very in the 426 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: shadows and in the background of our concerns. I know, 427 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: you know, people used to be asked, you know, what 428 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: do you worry about? Nuclear war would be number one? 429 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,439 Speaker 1: But I think that hasn't been the case in a 430 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: very very long time. How do you Yeah, I was 431 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: gonna say, how do you think people should think about it? 432 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: Like? 433 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: Should they be pressuring their governments to do more to 434 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 1: have these treaties? Especially would the average person? 435 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 5: Do you think that you think there's nothing I can 436 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 5: do about this? There is something I can do about this. 437 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 5: You can lobby your members of Congress and the White 438 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 5: House to renew the treaty between the United States and 439 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 5: Russian Federation. It's not a panacea, but it prevents. 440 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: Right because it also makes me think like, if they're irrational, 441 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: if it's an irrational leader, what are they going to 442 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: care about the treaty? 443 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 5: Well, so far, the US, Washington, Moscow have observed that 444 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 5: were on the fourth Nuclear Arms Control treaty, and all 445 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 5: four of them have been strenuously observed by both parties. 446 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 5: I think there's embedded wisdom in Washington and Moscow, and 447 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 5: I think there's no wisdom they said, is there is some? 448 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 5: And one of the wisdoms is we were right on 449 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 5: the brink of obliterating the world, and we were able 450 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 5: to step back from that brink by observing the treaties. 451 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 5: So I think there's a lot of sentiments and both 452 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 5: capitals for continuing to observe the treaty, and must be 453 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 5: sentiment in Beijing for entering into the treaty and observing 454 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 5: the same rules. But because it leaders have to be 455 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 5: pressured to do this, and we're's certainly not. There's nothing 456 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 5: going on in Congress right now to pressure Trump to 457 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 5: renew the treaty. 458 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: It just seems like a lot of other things going on. 459 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: I didn't even realize, you know, I think that I 460 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: haven't seen any news at all about the treaty expiring and. 461 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 5: Eleven thousand strategic nuclear warheads in the world. That's fewer 462 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 5: than there used to be, but studies show that you 463 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 5: really only need a couple hundred. 464 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 3: Of them to go off to pretty much. 465 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,880 Speaker 5: End human life because of the nuclear winter that would 466 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 5: because crops would fail all over the even if you 467 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 5: weren't in the place where when the bombs went off, 468 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 5: crops would fail globally for a decade. And how many 469 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 5: people would still be alive at the end of that. 470 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 5: And so I don't mean to sound like a doomstate type. 471 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a little bit like a doom'sdare I'm not 472 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: gonna sleep tonight, Greg, And. 473 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 5: I don't worry for a minute that global warming is 474 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 5: going to kill us, even though, as I say, it 475 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 5: is a real problem. I do worry that nuclear war 476 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 5: will kill us. And so there's there's the doomsday part 477 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 5: of my personality. 478 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 1: Well, as you look back on your life, what advice 479 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 1: would you give your sixteen year old self, what a 480 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: sixteen year old Greg need to know about his future? 481 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 5: Here's what I would have told sixteen year old Greg. 482 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 5: As we mentioned that my youthful ambition was to be 483 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 5: a writer, and I've accomplished it. But my main ambition 484 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 5: was to be a fiction writer, to write serious literary fiction, 485 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,639 Speaker 5: and I didn't start. And I have published three serious 486 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 5: literary novels, great reviews in the New York Times, and 487 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 5: so I've gotten farther than most professors of creative writing 488 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 5: ever get. But I didn't start till I was forty. 489 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 5: And I would tell my youthful self start right away, 490 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 5: don't wait till your forty Hemingway remember, Hemingway started as 491 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 5: a journalist and then he went into serious fiction. And 492 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 5: he said later, if you're in journalism when you're young, 493 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 5: there's no problem. You'll help learn the craft of writing. 494 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 5: But you've got to quit journalism by the time you're 495 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 5: third where it will suck you in and pull you out. 496 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 5: And he was pretty you know, in my key. So 497 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 5: I've done journalism for The Atlantic Monthly, which is pretty 498 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,120 Speaker 5: pretty high on the status bull, but still it does 499 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 5: kind of suck you in and pull you down. And 500 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 5: we was right about that. So I would tell my 501 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 5: young self just to switch to fiction, only much younger 502 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 5: than I actually did. 503 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: There's definitely the instant gratification with doing news of the day, 504 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: and you know, things that aren't pressing and matter today 505 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: and going to expire by tomorrow. Especially with our one 506 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: day news cycles, I could see where the general journalism 507 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 1: would absolutely take over the fiction. I have trouble even writing, 508 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: you know, my substacks, because it's not news of the day, 509 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 1: it's not happening right the second. It doesn't have to 510 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: be out immediately. 511 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 5: So a great anecdote about that The Atlantic Monthly. I 512 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 5: worked for a sainted editor named Bill Whitworth, who was 513 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 5: a great guy who passed away a year and a 514 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 5: half ago, and this would this would have been maybe 515 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 5: nineteen ninety. 516 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 3: I'm sitting there with Bill. 517 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 5: We're looking at recent issues of Atlantic Monthly, and I say, Bill, 518 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 5: I don't know. This magazine's pretty light on current events. 519 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 5: This is all about things that happened in the nineteenth 520 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 5: century for literary writers or dance companies. Where's the current events? 521 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 5: Well said, I don't want any current events in the 522 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 5: Atlantic Monthly. My goal is to produce a magazine that 523 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 5: you could put the copies into the attic, find them 524 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 5: twenty five years later and still be interested. So after 525 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 5: Bill died, I went up to the attic above me 526 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 5: got out the box of magazines from that year, and 527 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 5: they were still interesting twenty five years later. 528 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 1: It's amazing. I've evergreen. The kids call it right. 529 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's the goal you go for in literary 530 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 5: fiction or serious play writing. You want something that will 531 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 5: be of interest and a value regardless of what's happening 532 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 5: in the news. 533 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,959 Speaker 1: Well, I've loved this conversation. I love getting to know you. 534 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 1: I've followed you on Twitter and then X for many 535 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 1: many years. Leave us here with your best tip for 536 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: my listeners on how they can improve their lives. 537 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,160 Speaker 5: I once wrote an article for The Atlantic called Selfish 538 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 5: Reasons to become a Better Person, and the thrust of 539 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,879 Speaker 5: that article was the things your grandmother told you to do. 540 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 5: Be grateful, to be alive, be optimistic, be forgiving. We 541 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,959 Speaker 5: think of those things as virtue. Actually they're good for you. 542 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 5: They improve your own life. To be grateful, optimistic, and forgiving, yeah, 543 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 5: makes you a better person, but it improves your experience 544 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 5: of life. Also, there's a fair amount of data and 545 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 5: psychology that backs that up. So my main advice would be, 546 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 5: don't be angry at the world, don't be cynical, don't 547 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,239 Speaker 5: be anxious. Yeah, you're gonna have moments like this, but 548 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 5: in general you should be optimistic, grateful, and you should 549 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 5: forgive others. 550 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: I love that. Thank you so much, Greg Easterbrook. Check 551 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: out his book It's better than it looks. Thanks so much, 552 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 1: Greg for coming on. 553 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 3: Thanks Carol,