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Speaker 1: Letter thank you, nephew's subject. He doesn't do it right,

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband behaves like a child when

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Speaker 1: I ask him to do things around the house. He

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Speaker 1: boxers till bedtime. If I ask him to pick up

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Speaker 1: and he'll put them on top of the washing machine.

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Speaker 1: He bypasses a hamper to take them all the way

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Speaker 1: to the laundry room our front door, saying with picking

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Speaker 1: up behind himself. In the kitchen, the few times that

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Speaker 1: he helped me out with the dishes, he washed everything

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Speaker 1: that were in there. When I ask him to do it,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't do it right on purpose. Same thing with sex.

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Speaker 1: If I initiate sex and he doesn't want to do it,

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Speaker 1: he won't do it the way he knows.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: He does it his way so he won't have to

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Speaker 1: stop watching TV, and it's a turnoff for me. I

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Speaker 1: have switched the TV off on him and he stopped,

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Speaker 1: turned it back on and laid down in the bed

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Speaker 1: to finish washing his watching his show. If I did

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Speaker 1: that to him when he wants sex, he start a

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Speaker 1: shouting match with me. He and I have had talks

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Speaker 1: about him doing things without me asking him to do them,

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Speaker 1: but he won't take the initiative, he said, when I

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Speaker 1: him mad, so he does it his way. So I'll

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Speaker 1: shut up to do things to myself. And I'm tired

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Speaker 1: of doing all the heavy lifting when I have a

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Speaker 1: spouse that does whatever he wants to do. Why is

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Speaker 1: this such a big problem for him to do things

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Speaker 1: right the first time. Why doesn't it bother him when

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Speaker 1: I ask him to help out around here? Why is

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Speaker 1: he so resistant to me initiating sex? What's wrong with him? Well,

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Speaker 1: I think you said it in the letter. Clearly he

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Speaker 1: behaves like a child. He's selfish and immature. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: he puts you first and try to keep you happy.

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Speaker 1: You heard the saying happy wife, happy life. A mature

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Speaker 1: during sex after you turned it off during sex, and

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Speaker 1: then he gets mad when you ask him to initiate it. Sometimes,

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Speaker 1: such a baby, such a little boy. I'm surprised that

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Speaker 1: way he treats you. Why won't he help you, you ask,

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Speaker 1: because you've let him get away with what he's been

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Speaker 1: I mean, you gotta stop letting him treat you like this.

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Speaker 1: You've got to change it up or you, guys won't

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Speaker 1: make it very long. This doesn't look good, Steve.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I'm just gonna tell you right now on top

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Speaker 3: Gonna make it. Y'all ain't gonna make it. I've seen

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Speaker 3: this before. This is divorce proceedings. We as we really

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Speaker 3: these are what's called divorce proceedings, meaning this is the

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Speaker 3: type of behavior that proceeds a divorce. You all are

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Speaker 3: not together, You ain't trying to be together. There is

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Speaker 3: no compromise here. Everybody in this relationship is unhappy. Just

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Speaker 3: Steven Shirley, My husband behaves like a child when I

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Speaker 3: ask him to do things around the house. Now, listen

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Speaker 3: to me. Some of this stuff you wrong about, Lady.

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Speaker 3: Some of this though, but I can show you how

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Speaker 3: but I'm just gonna tell you. Now, watch this right here.

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Speaker 3: He gets home from work and he takes his clothes

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Speaker 3: not childish. That's just a man doing what he want

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Speaker 3: to do. Okay, he's just doing what he want to do.

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Speaker 3: He'd been in the work clothes all day. He probably

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Speaker 3: free and walk around the boxes home. Now here's the

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Speaker 3: danger of this letter. You have never said how long

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Speaker 3: y'all been married. I could help you better if I

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Speaker 3: knew that. But ain't nothing wrong with what he just did.

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Speaker 3: If I ask him to pick up his clothes off

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Speaker 2: He'll put them on top of the washing machine.

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Speaker 3: He bypasses the hamper to take them all the way

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Speaker 3: to the laundry room by a front door lady. Ain't

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Speaker 3: that way they gonna end up if he put him

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what it is about him? And

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Speaker 3: I was gonna wait till we come back, but I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna give you all a teaser. This is in radio

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Speaker 3: call TSL.

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Speaker 1: Or T T sentence.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, time spent listening.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve.

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Speaker 3: This is because you are nagging him. And I will

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Speaker 3: tell you what nagging is when we come back. And

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Speaker 3: I don't care if you don't.

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Speaker 1: Like it, sure, and you know I don't, Steve Hall,

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter, subject he doesn't do it right. We'll

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Hary

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is he doesn't do it right.

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Speaker 3: Here's a couple that's in a This are called divorce proceedings,

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Speaker 3: and in this letter it means these are the things

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Speaker 3: to divorce this couple. Right here, she says, he doesn't

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Speaker 3: do it right. Let us go quickly. My husband behaves

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Speaker 3: then waits. Then he walks around in his boxes to bedtime.

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Speaker 3: Like I said earlier, there's nothing childish about that. He

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Speaker 2: Them on top of the washing machine.

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Speaker 3: He bypasses the hamper to take them all the way

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Speaker 2: By our front door. What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 3: You tell the man to pick it up, he kick

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Speaker 3: his mind you are nagging him. And that's exactly what

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Speaker 3: you're doing. And I will tell you why it's called nagging.

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Speaker 3: Nagging is your timing and your tone. That is what's

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Speaker 3: called nagging, ladies. It's your timing and your tone. He

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Speaker 3: your husband, He ain't your baby. So if you see

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Speaker 3: every day when he come on for it. You know

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Speaker 3: he like walking around in his drug That's what he

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Speaker 3: He kicked him in the closet. Don't kick your clothes

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Speaker 3: to the washing machine. What you want, damn, just let

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Speaker 3: the washing machine. What difference do it make? But it

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Speaker 3: ain't what you want Now that's where you're wrong. The

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Speaker 3: Now see I said, See, lady, I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: where you're wrong. But he is stupid. He washed everything

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Speaker 2: When I asked him to do it.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't do it right on purpose, because I'm telling you, ma'am,

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Speaker 3: it's the timing and the tone that you are using

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Speaker 3: with this man. This is his way of rebelling. I

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Speaker 3: Same thing with sex. If I initiate sex and he

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Speaker 3: don't want to do it, he won't do it the

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Speaker 3: way he know I like it.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's get to.

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Speaker 3: Your women too, because when y'all give us sex and

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Speaker 3: y'all don't really want to, it ain't the same. We

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Speaker 3: just don't care at all. Yeah, we just don't care.

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Speaker 3: See that's difference.

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Speaker 3: See see you asked us for sex and we don't

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Speaker 3: want to have it, and then you come in here

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Speaker 3: See now you got attitude. We on the other hand,

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Speaker 3: if you just give it to us, ain't you ain't

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Speaker 3: gotta want to, You ain't gotta feel like if you

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Speaker 3: just give it to us, we don't care. I knew

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Speaker 3: it wasn't your best, but your best he is pretty

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Speaker 3: good though, Yeah you know, yeah, y'all's even if it's

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Speaker 3: it ain't up to quality, it's.

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Speaker 2: Still good though. Like pizza, it's matter.

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Speaker 3: If you hood in that box in the morning. Yes, lord,

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Speaker 3: same thing with sex. If I initiate your sex, he won't.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't want to. He won't do it the way

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Speaker 3: he know I like it. He does it his way

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Speaker 3: so he won't have to stop watching TV. And it's

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Speaker 3: a turn off to me. I have switched the TV

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Speaker 3: off on him, and he stopped, turned it back on

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Speaker 3: and laid down in the bed to finish watching his show.

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Speaker 3: See I told you not now, baby, hold up, I'm

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Speaker 3: watching something you make the man have sex? He gonna

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Speaker 3: watch TV why y'all having sex? That's trifling. You reach

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Speaker 3: over and turn the TV off? He stopped, turned TV

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Speaker 3: back on now, he laid out, Now you had your

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Speaker 3: little sex, let me go on back to watching this show.

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Speaker 3: Y'all not gonna make it. Y'all ain't gonna make it.

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Speaker 3: Because once again, he's stupid. If I did that to

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Speaker 3: him when he want sex, he started shouting match with me,

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Speaker 3: he's stupid again. How you gonna holler at the purse

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Speaker 3: you're trying to have sex with? How you think that's

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Speaker 3: gonna work out for you?

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Speaker 2: Baby?

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Speaker 3: Let's go and get into something. I don't want to

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Speaker 3: knowing the hell you mean? You don't want to cool?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Hey, bruh, bruh. If you want to make sure you

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Speaker 3: don't have sex, mess with a moment's moved because they

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Speaker 3: have to be in the mood. They not like us.

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Speaker 3: We just have to be in the room. They have

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Speaker 3: to be in the moved. See there's a big difference.

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Speaker 3: It's two double o's in each word. But we have

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Speaker 3: to just be in the room. They had to be

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Speaker 3: in the movie, he said. When I asked him and

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Speaker 3: tell him to do it, it makes me mad.

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Speaker 2: You know why?

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Speaker 3: It makes it mad because he feels like you naggative,

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Speaker 3: miss your tone and your timing. Lady, he tied of you,

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Speaker 3: naggatim and he don't like you no more.

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Speaker 2: End of letter.

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