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Speaker 1: be safe and until next time. Later one are some

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Speaker 1: libido is something that's real. It's just happens in relationships.

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Speaker 1: It's probably less common that UM couples are like completely

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Speaker 1: there's gonna be a mitch match situation, mismatched situation happening.

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Speaker 1: And so, um, I think that it's perfectly okay to

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Speaker 1: But um, if the issue is wanting your partner to

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Speaker 1: let's begin this week's episode. Do y'all believe in unconditional love?

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Speaker 1: We talked about this last night. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: I wanted to say this last night, but we was

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Speaker 1: kind of. But I think I missed spoke a little

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Speaker 1: you're looking for, Like you said, like what are you

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Speaker 1: your mama's they love y'all unconditioned, they love y'all. I

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Speaker 1: I don't truly believe that unconditional love is is the

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Speaker 1: unconditional love comes with a lot of things. Like you

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Speaker 1: somebody unconditioned. With me, that means that you're gonna ride

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Speaker 1: gonna ride with you, that's what That's what loving somebody

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Speaker 1: unconditionally means to me. That's that's wrong, right, I'm not

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Speaker 1: that's it's subjective almost, it's subjective. That's what you went to.

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Speaker 1: So if you you don't got it's not really a

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Speaker 1: just saying, like, you don't have a tolerance for that.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying about that topic? What you mean?

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Speaker 1: all that's different. I feel like the umbrella of unconditional

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Speaker 1: just means that I just can't be with you because

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Speaker 1: you can still love some unconditionally regardless of how they

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Speaker 1: like a negative connotation with that's that's what our conditional

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's all. That's that's all that. It ain't

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Speaker 1: and then fill walk up to us. Damn it would

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00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: be the one I got the hall pass. They go back,

422
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: They go back to bro like we don't know what

423
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: you do? We do we just stupid. We know I'm

424
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: gonna go again. I'm gonna go to You know what

425
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: I enjoy. I enjoy waking up in the morning at

426
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: this age if I'm in a situation and I did

427
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: everything right, yeah, because I can't tell you my thirties

428
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and I wake up no I dit it wrong.

429
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: The night before we take as that's really. That's like

430
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: it's like going into collections ship. You gotta hurry up

431
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: and try and fix it. Okay, you don't compensation, Yeah,

432
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: it's too much man to do long the night before

433
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: and wake up guilty joke. I'd rather if you can

434
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: get past that and wake up the next day and not.

435
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: Oh man, everything's gonna be good. Ye, I'm gonna go

436
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: to the beginning of of all of this, like if

437
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: you feel a need like you could tell like I

438
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: could do whatever this motherfucker. I'm gonna call you my

439
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: girl friend, but I'm gonna be going crazy because you're

440
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: as stupid and I'm use my arm man like for real,

441
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: like like my fucker get down, like my fucking get down,

442
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: and like instantly beginning stage of all of this ship

443
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,479
Speaker 1: like niggas no, Like yeah, I'm trying to people saying,

444
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: don't know, niggas, I can get out on you. You

445
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: way too thirsty, you way too dumb. I can get

446
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: out on you boy blind now it's my fucker. Don't

447
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: play so because y'all stayed with y'all girls, she cheating

448
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: on y'all never, she never especially have we hold ship down?

449
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, you cook. The next question, can we

450
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: do too much? You cook? All right? So could y'all

451
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 1: do a long distance relationship? No? Try it. I can't

452
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: never never, man, I ain't even dumped out of the

453
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: port and did because I know you there, I'm here.

454
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: I tried to g it wasn't It wasn't get for me.

455
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: I always always like to say, it wasn't an experience

456
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: for me. You know, it's like you gotta be a

457
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: special type of person too. Gotta make sense. It gotta

458
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: make sense. So if you tell me, damn baby right,

459
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: mother fucking um. Whatever company I work for, they all

460
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: for me. They won sixty two moves to Nebraska and

461
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: be and work remote like I'm gonna be back and

462
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: forth like I got. You know, it got to be

463
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: a special type of situation. You gotta benefit the entire situation,

464
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: especially if we be serious. So we like fresh and

465
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like we've been dating for

466
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: a little while, like nothing too serious. But if we

467
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: commit me end up strictly committed relationship. We live together,

468
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: we got advocations together, we have ship going on. It's

469
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: gonna be tough for you to say that to me

470
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: unless it's a legit situation. You know what I'm saying, Like,

471
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: that's me, that's me. I know people that have done

472
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: it and they their relationships are fine. But I also

473
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: know I also seen another sign and it was like

474
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: that ship really mad, really bad. I agree first trading

475
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: like face time and I didn't see niggas. I didn't

476
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 1: see niggas do it. I didn't been doing myself having

477
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: a FaceTime you girl who it's just bad gi. It's

478
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: bass expensive too, unless my flight ben it fits. By

479
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: the way, anybody got them buddy passes, y'all go ahead,

480
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: send me them joints. We need them. Um. Do y'all

481
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: think sex plays a major part in the relationship? Yeah,

482
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: percentage wise, y'all think after respect is next? What y'all thinks?

483
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: What's the percentage wise? Like to the fact is ninety

484
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: five percent? The sex is five percent respected? A right, right?

485
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: You gotta get freaking at the club. No, I'm gonna

486
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: saying I'm gonna say six, I'm gonna say sixty forty.

487
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: We're cooking. I'm with you on sex being thirties forties,

488
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: you know, because that's a like like woffer gotta really understand,

489
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: like when you go back to the first question, how

490
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: is it being a black man in America? Like we

491
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: need pressure reliefs, like and that's a relief getting busy

492
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: with y'all that really like and tune like sexually, Man,

493
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: what we go. We're gonna go to sleep, We're gonna

494
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: sit on the mock couch after we get bit. But

495
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: you wanted more playing around. I'm about to go motherfucking

496
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: punching punching bags. So well, I'm about to go whop

497
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna come back still mad it's here

498
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: because you don't really motherfucker's needed funk all that bullet. No,

499
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: we need to get busy. You gotta get busy, like

500
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: it's a part of us. Joe like gonna be lying,

501
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: like no, I don't work for knuckles for you though,

502
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,760
Speaker 1: because because you want to hold hold a whole respect

503
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:39,240
Speaker 1: very highly. But at the same time, like we gotta

504
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: get busy, we gotta go crazy because the world, like

505
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: because you gotta understand the world promotes sex. So you

506
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: mean to tell me when I come home, I still

507
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: can't get it, and I'll be outside my fucking ship,

508
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 1: this ship flying around here was I come home? And

509
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: you don't want to like what I'm on. Now we came.

510
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: We gotta get busy, all right. So I have a

511
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,959
Speaker 1: lot of female listeners, and I know they really hype

512
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: about this conversation. So tell the listeners how y'all feel

513
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: about black women love? I love a black woman. I'm

514
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 1: gonna go last. I might talk too much off talking

515
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: about I've been talking too much. I'm in the move

516
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: for gas. And I feel like this Instagram ship that's

517
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: going around right now, the lame is hell. What Instagram

518
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 1: motherfucker's talking about how we don't care for black woman.

519
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: That's lame is hell, that's hell. It's a lot of

520
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: ship going on, like y'all we care for y'all, y'all

521
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: don't care for us. That's that coach. That's bullshit. And

522
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: now it's people playing us against each other. That's bullshit.

523
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 1: Bro Like killing my funker for my people, and I

524
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: die for my ship too, like it's nothing more than that.

525
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: Like and I've told told my old ladies. I told

526
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: my mama this, I told my cousin this ship. I

527
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: don't know what ey'all want me to say. And oh, y'all,

528
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 1: we captu, y'all, We march for y'all. No, y'all letting

529
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: these motherfucker's go in that a lot of y'all. That's

530
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 1: some real niggas out here that's really to really do

531
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: this ship, and that shouldn't be pissing me off When

532
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: I see that ship, maybe as hell and say, maybe

533
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: they need to get them a nigga from Chicago. That

534
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 1: might be what I mean, But I see my fucker's

535
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: whatever they was at some shorties put a girl in

536
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 1: the garbage can. I'm like, I would kill all the niggas.

537
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: It's on site. It's on site, So that's bogus, is

538
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: head like, even if she mentally boguses, she a buser

539
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:44,439
Speaker 1: when you're a busting me and the girl that's popping off, Yeah,

540
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: even if she's a busser, you don't throw it in

541
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: a garbage can. So then how do you feel about

542
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 1: black men? A second, trans women, it's a trans woman

543
00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: coming on to me. Y'all went to the next field

544
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 1: that if you know what I'm saying, are you are

545
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,959
Speaker 1: you trying to shoot? Are you trying to shoot your shot?

546
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: Trans woman was to come on to you, how would

547
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: you react with I say, back up, I'm not on that.

548
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: But if you keep no, I'm not even try no

549
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: little way. I'm not trying to be funny because I

550
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: have transgender friends and a lot of their friends been killed.

551
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: So I really want to know, like, how would you

552
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: feel because a lot of black men do attack and

553
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: kill trans women. I don't know about. No, it happens, though,

554
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: it happens. It happens every day. It's the story. It's

555
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: a story in Chicago. It literally just happened. So the

556
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: eighteen year old guy, what's working with the trans woman?

557
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: She was like thirties, six thirty seven. The man on

558
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: social media then killed her. So he went, he went

559
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: to go meet up with her, DNA hook up whatever, whatever,

560
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: and he found out she was like she end up

561
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: telling him like she was trained right, So he left.

562
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: He left, He left the location. It was it was

563
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: in Kilson. He left the location, he came back and

564
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 1: killed him. I got a problem with that because it's like, nigga,

565
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: you're not already and I get it, you ther bamboozoo.

566
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: You might get, but you got played. My nigga, just

567
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: leave and you always gone. You came back to take

568
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: your all and keep it busting. So I got a

569
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: problem with that. But any any nationality can do that.

570
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But that's that ship happens a lot, bro,

571
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: and I think that we gotta like it's something like,

572
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 1: so I'm not mad at the trans community for all

573
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: of a sudden I don't say all of a sudden truth.

574
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: You're right for coming for like bringing awareness to our

575
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: to everybody else saying black trans lives matter. I'm not

576
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: mad at them for that. How do y'all about black women?

577
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: Momo is a black woman? Question? Like, how do you

578
00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: feel about it? Crop is the best of the best. Why?

579
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 1: Because they're tough, super tough. They're tough, they do it all,

580
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: having their business bills, they take care of homes and

581
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: make sure that the everything is intact. They're the back

582
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: ball black woman's backbone. They're very tough. It's it's nothing

583
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 1: else more stronger than the black wall because they have

584
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: to bear no one that U A George Floyd can happen. Right,

585
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 1: it's the most marginalized group of America. Bro. It has

586
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: to bear a brand new baby knowing that what what's

587
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 1: the what's the girl name wants the Houston, Texas Santra

588
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: either George Floyd or they're bear on a Sara or

589
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: a Brianna. T boy boy, So listen, ship, what's the

590
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 1: short name? Actually Florida Short killed and shot her son,

591
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:18,280
Speaker 1: her grains grimes. I can't. I can't see myself being

592
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: with anything but a black woman, just because I just know,

593
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: I just know that you're really here with me. You're

594
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:29,439
Speaker 1: gonna yeah, like like anybody can say whatever the funk

595
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: they want to say, but when it comes down to

596
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 1: the real ship and were both in the fire or

597
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm in the fire, you're gonna come get me up

598
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 1: this fire, You're gonna be like, you shouldn't have did that,

599
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: not even are you're gonna come give me? But are

600
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: you gonna understand you exactly? That's a fact. And I can't.

601
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: I can't beat with nobody that I gotta explain that

602
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: ship to. I don't got time to explain that ship.

603
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: Mother fucker would be like, well, if you grew up

604
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 1: and you now you know how this ship is, let's

605
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: try to get through this ship. But now you gotta

606
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: have my back. Black woman gonna sit there and say, uh,

607
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 1: I understand he told you that, but this is what

608
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 1: he really meant that on your paper raised that put

609
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: that down because this is what he really meant. But

610
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: this is it's the same kind of example of me

611
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: and my guys out right. So me and this nigg

612
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:28,439
Speaker 1: out he do some stupid ship, some stupid ship. Guess

613
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna get him out the

614
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: jam when he getting a car. What I'm gonna I'm

615
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 1: gonna do, I'm gonna go crazy on his ass. Look,

616
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: look I'm wrong. So it's to ride with you right

617
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: a wrong and never sit you way like and when

618
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 1: it comes to like social issues and social and like

619
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: they understand. I can't leave with nobody that don't understand

620
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: the way that the world look at me right a wrong.

621
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 1: We could strong strong. We've been saying that since we

622
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: was ship ship, since we're the first to try for

623
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:02,919
Speaker 1: a basketball team Pip in sixth grade, Joe, right a wrong,

624
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: we get strong, And how do we learn that so

625
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: early as a black people. White people just gonna getorad

626
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 1: and order all of the ship and make them good

627
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: in sport. But we gotta go af spiritual sins man like.

628
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: We gotta really beat up. I think that's why we

629
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: jump over brims and and can cross people old and

630
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: quickly lightning because we talked, Joe, we we we gotta,

631
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: we have to be better. So look at your moms

632
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: teach you all about day. No woman, my mama, I don't.

633
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: All she wanted to do is make sure Lincoln was

634
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:56,720
Speaker 1: spent up about loving black women. She never been loved.

635
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: My mam had never been married, So how can she

636
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: teached me about being a loving a woman. And I'm

637
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: gonna say that with my truth. You know she has

638
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: never been My mother is seventy years old and she's

639
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 1: still to this day. If I get into some ship,

640
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: if I go out here and having my truck foxing

641
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: SI up, all she know I'll do is be a

642
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: mom and beat up for me. She's not gonna tell

643
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 1: me I'm wrong. That's an interesting by. She's never taught

644
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: me how to love and a relationship. She can't. She

645
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: can't do that. That's impossible. I think what I've grown.

646
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: My mama told told it to me out of her mouth.

647
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 1: She was like, I wish I taught you and your

648
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 1: brother how to stick through things. Think of then and

649
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: like how to work through things, because like you seen

650
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: met date multiple people. I've seen you've seen your father

651
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: date multiple people, but we never worked things out. And

652
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: that's just this is what you've seen is people just

653
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: disconnected if stuff don't work. She told that to me

654
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: out of her mouth, like I wish y'all would have seen.

655
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: I wish I would have showed y'all how to make yeah,

656
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: how to make ship work. But it's a fact. We

657
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: but we're quick to like do the next thing, like

658
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: want to give up. Yeah, that's a fact. I mama,

659
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: I know, I know my mom. She she when she

660
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: looked at me, she seen my dad, right, So he

661
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: was never married, it was never you know, they had me.

662
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 1: I said, I'm their only child together. And when she

663
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: when she looked at me, she see him like me

664
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: and my mom, they had a lot of it. I

665
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: got I had big time mom issues, right, I love

666
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: my moment of death. I had a big time mom

667
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: isses like over the years. So when she you see

668
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: my when she see me, she see my dad, she

669
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: see the issue that she had my pops. So she

670
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: can never teach me about loving a woman, you know,

671
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: So she can never teach me about you know those

672
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: things like that. That's all ship that I learned from

673
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: from from from me in my life. My brother, that's it,

674
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: you know, so I guess they kind of just it's

675
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: also a subjective kind of thing, like I guess it

676
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: what kind of relationships you have with your mom. I

677
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: think it's it sounds real rare, and I feel like

678
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: it's up to black women to kind of educate us

679
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: on this ship too, because none of us had issue that.

680
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, but I think as a

681
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: as a black woman and black women, I think that's exhaustme.

682
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: Like I think that there's so much knowledge and everything

683
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: that's out there for you to go get it. Like

684
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 1: sometimes like I get it, they women women to hold

685
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: them down and ship. But it's just like but as

686
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 1: a mother, as a mother, that's different. If you're a mother,

687
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: you teach him constantly. My relationship for I thought he

688
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: was on the but as a mother, like, damn, your

689
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: daddy cold blooded. My mama still say this ship to

690
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: this day. Your daddy cold fucking blooded. I wish I would.

691
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: I wish we would have figured it out. He cold blooded,

692
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: he cold, he he do this, he do that. You're

693
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: mad me and your daddy, That's what I'm saying. She

694
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 1: has say that Shi out of with a nigga standing

695
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: next to it sil but he was so like stern

696
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: and like like focused on old ship down like I

697
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: don't know, I really don't know what happened, but she

698
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: has stayed the ship to this day. Like that nigga

699
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: man if he differently because but he and the wild

700
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: Party is he like like we me and me and

701
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 1: me and buddy ass grew up together, so we got

702
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: instilled that same ship, you know what I'm saying. So

703
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: like when older women see us, I would have never

704
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: known that, yeah we we we we don't we we

705
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: don't understand the game we got until like older women

706
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: see us and be like, hey, what the fun? But

707
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: that's because on my fucking mama and the older women

708
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: seeing that type of nigga give us the game and

709
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 1: now that like to them, he cold blooded and we

710
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: got the same energy. You know what I'm saying. What

711
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: are your thoughts on the Me Too movement? We talked

712
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: about this, don't y'all who I got words? Come on,

713
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: they don't like black men. It's it's it's objective and

714
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: it's like real opportunists. M M. You think so yeah,

715
00:47:55,440 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: I think come on, man, like y'all getting mad at me. Fine,

716
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: that's fine, but we're speaking truth. Why in the fuck

717
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: nobody said ship about Bill when Bill was doing that

718
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: well ship, Oh he had power. If you feel disrespected,

719
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: speak that ship like what you do. Understand that it's

720
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,760
Speaker 1: not easier for a woman to speak her truth, especially

721
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: in certain Okay, sob woman on this because I never

722
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: understood that. I still don't get it. Well, I think that,

723
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 1: let's say, in the industry, I think that for women

724
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: it can be hard because that's a male dominated industry.

725
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: So I'm talking about just all areas of life. But

726
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: I don't think I think that's such a I mean,

727
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: I have to audience them, but we don't want to

728
00:48:49,560 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: say something, yeah we got okay, that's right. So the

729
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,800
Speaker 1: Me Too movement is just more subtle about women finally

730
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: feeling like they have a voice because it's been a

731
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:11,760
Speaker 1: collective issue. When you feel like you have the support

732
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: of others that will not be questioned and they get

733
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: it and you trust, you know that you'll be trusted,

734
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: and you know you won't be questioned about what the

735
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: fun you were doing to make it happen or whatever,

736
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: that you know you're in a safe space either because

737
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: that person you're talking to has experienced it, which is

738
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 1: ridiculously common, ridiculously common, especially for little black girls. So

739
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,399
Speaker 1: it's not just as easy as saying, Mommy, this man

740
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: touched me, this man put his dick in me, and

741
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: you're thirteen and this nig is twenty four or whatever.

742
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: It's just not because did y'all see that clip of

743
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: dal who cubely on that talk show saying, straight up,

744
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 1: my daughter straight up told me that a nigga that

745
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,799
Speaker 1: I knew was messing with her, and I did not

746
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: believe her because I knew that nigga I and I

747
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: struggle with that to this day. My baby told me

748
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 1: that this nigga was working with her, and I was like,

749
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: so that's why. That is why, because little girls try

750
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: to tell their daddies and people are worried about, like, oh,

751
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,920
Speaker 1: did she go to the police, did she go try

752
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: to get a right kid or what? I think another

753
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: reason why women don't feel slape because of that comment

754
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: and not to un in the bus anything. It just like,

755
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: why do you say anything like it's not easy to

756
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 1: say that's a thing where you don't even know. Some

757
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: people don't know what happened, but I don't realize what

758
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: it's happened, because a lot of women get raped by

759
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 1: their homeboys exactly, or you touching appropriately so much that okay,

760
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: he's quiting, he's not stopping. So I'm just you know,

761
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: and this is nothing has happened to me. I'm not

762
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: speaking from experienced, but I know a lot of people.

763
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: I don't know too many black girls. I know too

764
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 1: many black girls that literally had justicidy to tell me

765
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: my friends. So it's really just not as easy as

766
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 1: speaking of when it happens to you. It's not that's

767
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: not all you have. It's tough. It's tough for one, yeah, yeah,

768
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 1: and then you have like everything and imagine you tell

769
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: me howbody's something that they don't believe you right now

770
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: you don't even matter exactly. So um So, have y'all

771
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: ever been in a situation with a girl and y'all

772
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: misinterpreted and she felt uncomfortable sexually? Mm hmm, now I've been,

773
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: especially nowadays. My fucking damn is gotta pull my move.

774
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: I had my dick in my hand, I ain't talking

775
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: around going on, Oh, I'll be on the other side

776
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: of the room like you want to do this. Motherfucker

777
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: it'll be out right, but I ain't gonna keep you

778
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 1: like this. You need to really say I want to

779
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: do that, motherfucker. Man, I bet we're gonna get it busting.

780
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: So the question is what she was the question again,

781
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: So have you ever been in a situation when you

782
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: misinterpret with a girl and she felt uncomfortable? What do

783
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: you mean? Like? That's why I asked set, So let's

784
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 1: say we out. Huh If I'm uncomfortable, she like, I

785
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 1: can't even do this ship like it for me? So

786
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna try nothing. Wish you like it

787
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 1: is what it is like. So I ain't even gonna

788
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: put you in that situation. It's just for me. I

789
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: gotta go to bro. It's like straightforward, it ain't it is.

790
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: We wouldn't laugh promatory not wait, but you don't your

791
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: situation messing mardy, y'all don't want to your career. And

792
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: she stopped holiday what I don't feel comfortable. I don't

793
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:13,439
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. Get the funk out o this ship, Get

794
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: the funk out. I'm gonna call you recording like I'm

795
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: gonna start you. I don't like we just make you know.

796
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 1: You just pop up out and know what, I don't

797
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: feel comfortable to put my phone out and record this

798
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: ship and I gonna call you ule while I'm recording

799
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: this because your ass squeaking and that wasn't the energy

800
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,919
Speaker 1: five seconds ago. So I don't know what the fund

801
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna do when you get up out of end.

802
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,720
Speaker 1: You might want to call somebody. I'm not on that,

803
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: and I need everybody to know I'm not on what

804
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 1: you think real niggas kind of just not the d't.

805
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: I didn't man some situations why I don't like that. Well,

806
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: I felt like motherfucker was on it, but they they

807
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: was like what, First of all, I ain't go with

808
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: no one for the and one for the out. I'm

809
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: gonna know if you. I'm gonna know if you own

810
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: that period, Like it's just certain the vibrations. It's just

811
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: different when they come like sexually, like it's just you

812
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: knowing somebody on that. So if I feel like you

813
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: want for them and one for that, I'm not even

814
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: gonna for It's not that deep to me, gee, because

815
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 1: guess what I'm gonna go do, go rub one out.

816
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: If I go to rub one out of it ain't

817
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 1: that deep like pussy ain't it ain't that serious, g

818
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 1: but I do. I think that happens so much where

819
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: you got niggas who are so fucking they're in the

820
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:44,359
Speaker 1: pursuit of a pussy to the point where they just

821
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,479
Speaker 1: lose their mind and they'll fucking me do anything drunk.

822
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: They'll do anything for the ship. It's like, it's never

823
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 1: that deep. It's never that deep. It's never that deep.

824
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 1: So that's why I say, like, the real nag is

825
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 1: no you up the mother trying to use some man.

826
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: Y'all just gotta find my fucker's that's used to ship. Well,

827
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I've been in a situation. I

828
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 1: got somebody in my house and in my head, you man,

829
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:18,760
Speaker 1: it's my house. He was on that great light. Yeah okay,

830
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: but then then when I feel a little little beads

831
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,919
Speaker 1: of sweat on my head that I'm working to worm,

832
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 1: we all know that's that's your indicator. Yeah, show indicator, bro.

833
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: So in my head, I ain't gonna just kick you

834
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: out and all that tough ship. Okay, I'll get my

835
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: sheet and I'm gonna pillow. We're gonna put it in

836
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 1: between us. I called you something in the morning, but

837
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to bed water down. Yeah, I ain't

838
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: kick your I ain't wanting up. Look, ye you can

839
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 1: stay here, you can cause somebody whatever. But other than

840
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to bed, I'll just be scared of that

841
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: morning reaction to Yeah, for sure, my fucker be so

842
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: blue out wake up in the morning and don't know

843
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 1: if they sure. You know what I'm saying, like, yeah, yeah,

844
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 1: like I made sure you was good. Your ass is bogus,

845
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: so I really be on some Now get the funk out.

846
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call it do with you. I'm saying you

847
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: to receive everybody gonna you got the funk up out

848
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: of here like I got. Like nowadays, you gotta play

849
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: this ship so like like so smart and strategic like

850
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 1: like because I mean, obviously that's always been a case,

851
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: but now it's like I'm not it's it's it's not

852
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say victim, but like I don't know,

853
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,879
Speaker 1: like we thats just black. We're in a real fun,

854
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 1: a weird situation when it comes to women. Now, that's

855
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: what when I say, like I'm up my banger across

856
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: the room and be like you're trying to do this myfucker,

857
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 1: and if you're not alright, cool now we know what

858
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: we want, but I ain't gonna catch your neck. And

859
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: then you'd be like, I'm not on that, Like it's

860
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: a real weird situation. Back in the day, motherfucker would

861
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I'm trying to fuck come over to

862
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you you already knew, like, oh,

863
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: you'd like to crib open my old g leave she

864
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: gone for the weekend, you know she's about to come

865
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: to fund. Nowadays, you'd be like, wait what you know

866
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I got open crib. Oh yeah,

867
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 1: it's busting in this bitch. You know what I'm saying. Nowadays,

868
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: that ship is uncleared. But what reason? I don't fucking know.

869
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: Like I fear more from like my students. So the

870
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: young guys they come to me, they were like, man, coach,

871
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: like she was like these little guys, man, they they

872
00:57:56,760 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: definitely they I think they might be a little more

873
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 1: direct than we were. And that because you got at

874
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:12,959
Speaker 1: it's way too many variables involved. Now, so you got

875
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: social media, all these different these different avenues that are

876
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: promoting sex, promoting you know, women just being these these

877
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: sexual beings. Right, So these high school kids are like

878
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 1: taking that ship to the next level, you know what

879
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We had a couple of kids come to

880
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: school like, man, you know I was I was I

881
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: was raped and this and that, and the kids like

882
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 1: like she she was on that. So that's why I said, like, yo,

883
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: to yr point, the rape coach, your umbrella is not

884
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 1: like people. Niggas don't really know. They don't they don't

885
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: even know what understand the things that fall onto that.

886
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 1: So if I said it, so if I sent her

887
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: a picture of my if I send her a dick

888
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: pick right now and she didn't ask for, that falls

889
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: under what great culture and bro, like like that's that's

890
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 1: a part of of course to her, Like, yeah, I

891
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: can't just send her a picture. I can't just randomly

892
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: on a Tuesday afternoon sending her a picture on my

893
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: movie like and she hadn't asked for And then some

894
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: people can't. But niggas don't know that. But at the

895
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: same time, something some motherfuckers can't handle you, not not

896
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 1: not her being my girl. I'm just saying me randomly

897
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: sending her that Niggas, you can't do that, bro, But

898
00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: you can't, but then some other funers can't. Okay, you're

899
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 1: trying to fuck? You want to do? Well? Are you selling?

900
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: Because I don't know what to do. I think there's

901
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with you saying you want to funk. I

902
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: think it's the burbose that you use when you're saying

903
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: you want to fuck. I'm apposed to say it. Oh

904
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: my god. No, let's houses that have a sick like.

905
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: So what youre going tonight? No? Hell no, I don't

906
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: want they're asking me. So you're trying to fun like

907
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 1: At this point, that's what it's gonna have to be.

908
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: And we got and it's gonna be on the recording line.

909
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: You got a game exactly. Just say you're trying to fuck.

910
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, you know, when Incredibles call

911
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: you just in case you gotta take this ship to court,

912
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: we're on recorded line calls we recorded for quality. Say

913
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 1: your name? Are you trying to yes or no thing?

914
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 1: For me? You're not so when the real person on

915
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: the phone, I ain't got nothing nothing ship for you.

916
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: If you got my socialist this is Andrey won't. Yeah, yeah,

917
01:00:55,440 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 1: you're both y I address Yes, you say mom ship.

918
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: I agree I think that you should be up front

919
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 1: with people and you should be direct. But for me,

920
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: it's all about burbish, like you're just not gonna come

921
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 1: to me like you're trying to suck. But but that

922
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 1: I get that. But then like if we're kicking in

923
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: after the club and I'm kidding you as so what

924
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: you want to me, I know what prom it is?

925
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 1: How do you like tell us how to approach these

926
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 1: situations nowadays? I can't speak for every woman, but I'm

927
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 1: just saying for me, you're not gonna just you can't

928
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: come to me and say so you're trying to funk,

929
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 1: Like how do we do it? Just like about being

930
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 1: smooth and just finessing it because you know if a

931
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 1: bit trying to not so if you come up with her,

932
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: you're doing a banger about the room and Be's standing

933
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: there on the wall like look at this, and maybe

934
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: you do have to do that because in these times

935
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 1: you want to make sure that nothing crazy happen. So

936
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: I'll just make me what it's like, so like it's

937
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: a scary move for us, and that like why that's

938
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 1: why I love my girl. I'm always love because this

939
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: ship weird. Now, this ship way too weak. Back in

940
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: the day, motherfucker would be like, hey, you need to

941
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 1: go back to the like. I also think that people

942
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 1: need to take their time and getting to know people

943
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: because when you meet people's out about perception. And I

944
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 1: think that when you meet people and you think you're

945
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:18,919
Speaker 1: vibing this and that, and then you say some slick

946
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 1: ship and they'd be like, wait what, that's where the

947
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 1: confusion comes to that. I agree with that it needs

948
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 1: to be a rule because nowadays you just can't sunk

949
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: off that it needs to be. It needs to be

950
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 1: a rule book on this ship because my fucker's perceived

951
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: ship was a lot different than somebody else. I don't

952
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 1: like you gotta did see motherfucker, we're gonna go back

953
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: to this. But the type of woman you're dealing with,

954
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,919
Speaker 1: you'd be like, Hey, I'm about to go I live

955
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: around the corner. I'm right here down, We're gonna go

956
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: kick it. I'm gonna get drunk. Wake up in the mind.

957
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 1: What did I do? It's dumb. My fucker's out here, like,

958
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 1: what did that do? Oh my god, I'm I wasn't

959
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 1: supposed to be here. And then they call them my

960
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 1: fucking screaming and island then they all in mind. Then

961
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 1: Karen call the police now. But man, look, yeah, this

962
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 1: is a recording line, like I need all of it.

963
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: That's why I don't need not I'm cool. So I

964
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: got a question, what responsibility do women have in responding

965
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: to them three am tex and engaging in dialogue and

966
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 1: you know, sexual dialogue or whatever it is what you

967
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: want because at the end of the day, talking to

968
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: what responsible what responsibility do women have in in rape culture?

969
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: As far as forget the physical part, I mean like

970
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: the communications so phone communication shot out, Um, well I

971
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: can't speak. What do you think? What do you think?

972
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: I think? For me, I'm just very honest and upfront

973
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: and direct. So if I'm talking to somebody and I'm

974
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 1: doing something and we're just chilling whatever, like at three

975
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: am at three am, I know what I'm I know

976
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: what's going on. Three m ain't too men things that's

977
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 1: open at three am. I feel like if I'm linking

978
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 1: up when they get three am, I'm trying to fuck.

979
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,959
Speaker 1: But that's me. I can't speak for the next woman

980
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: or somebody else but dumb his head. But I'm sorry

981
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 1: to go ahead. No, I just think that with people

982
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: when it comes up, especially being sexual with somebody, you

983
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: need to be honest. You need to be upfront because well,

984
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: my oh, I just want to come over and laid

985
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 1: up with. You may be different than you what you

986
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: want to do. So I think that people need to

987
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: have clear lines on what they're trying to do. And

988
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: sometimes you do have to walk because some people just

989
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: be acting like they don't know, so at least you know.

990
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: So why can't women just say, look, I ain't come

991
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: over and cut Yeah, alright, cool, I ain't coming over there.

992
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 1: All right, cool, I'm gonna cutter. That's it. I ain't

993
01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: fucking I'm coming over. I ain't, but nig's gonna still try. No,

994
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 1: I don't go over there. You think I'm not laying it, No,

995
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: nigga and he's not trying me is gonna try, but

996
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:06,680
Speaker 1: it's gonna try to stop. No. I just think that

997
01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: people need to just need to be real about like

998
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 1: you're not laying up to no person, especially if you're

999
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 1: attracted to that person at three o'clock in the morning

1000
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: and somebody ain't gonna make a move, I gotta do

1001
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: and you're just not coddling with anybody confused. That's how

1002
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 1: I feel. It's the blurry line. It's too funked up.

1003
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 1: I ain't got time to look if from younger years

1004
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 1: and now, if if someone say, come over, you know

1005
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 1: what time it is, you get over there, it's go time.

1006
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 1: But if you time it, go time. But but you

1007
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: will know, you will get what they saying that Okay,

1008
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: this girl may not be with it, and you're gonna

1009
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: take your ass to sleep and wake up from the

1010
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 1: sun of shine. And it also goes back to your

1011
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 1: point of nigga's just can't be thirsty when it comes

1012
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: to trying to get don't and that be the art.

1013
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 1: But it's just way too many thirsty niggas that the

1014
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 1: niggas got the ship started at three a chicken, three am.

1015
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:22,520
Speaker 1: They gotta go, You gotta gonna act am. I gonna

1016
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 1: get a little bit sup when I get there. If

1017
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 1: you if you ain't madden up the eggs that I

1018
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: think that's I agree with that about three am, you're

1019
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: better be coming. You better about themes about three am,

1020
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: because I ain't outside of three at boys, if I

1021
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: got out, you gotta be popping at motherfucker. Yeah about

1022
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: three am. And I feel like a gonna call you

1023
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: and tell you to come like everything boiled down in respect.

1024
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 1: So you think my goo fas is gonna hop up

1025
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: at three am to come get you a hug. I'm

1026
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: coming to tell things like, hey, it's three a m.

1027
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 1: I want to see you. I'm on my way and

1028
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: I come over there and we hug and go to sleep.

1029
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: Now we're about to go crazy around this bit the

1030
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: topic nothing wrong ships? So y'all, So y'all their friends

1031
01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 1: for let's say, almost twenty years. So did y'all learn

1032
01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 1: anything new about each other? For sure? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

1033
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: I did a lot of ship I knew, but I

1034
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 1: learned something. Yeah, and we was spoken today. So what

1035
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:45,919
Speaker 1: does brothers that needs to y'all? Ship? Hold it down?

1036
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 1: Ship down, y'all go through ship. We just you know,

1037
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 1: we just make sure we're still good brotherhood, make sure

1038
01:07:56,360 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: we got our ship straight. Brotherhood to me means loyalty, accountability.

1039
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 1: Like I can't see my niggas, I hit mad. I'm

1040
01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 1: always holding my guy's accountable, yeah, show because I'm thinking

1041
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 1: about me. That can't nobody ever. I'm always hold from

1042
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: the accountable ge because I can't because you're reflection to

1043
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: me facts super fact. If motherfucker's no, you're my man.

1044
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 1: I got you on the ground. We we were brothers,

1045
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: were on pictures hugging and ship. We're doing all this.

1046
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 1: See you with me, go sumtimes shout like you you're

1047
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 1: reflection to me. I'm always hold your accountable, you know

1048
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So like for me, it means more

1049
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 1: than anything, loyalty an accountability. I said, yeah, that's about it,

1050
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:45,280
Speaker 1: because you can't be associated with me and I and

1051
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:48,839
Speaker 1: I feel like I live my life out being solid

1052
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:54,680
Speaker 1: and like telling my fun Like it's it's like, I'm

1053
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 1: gonna hold you accountable because there can't be no chinking

1054
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,600
Speaker 1: its harm or with the guys and if we we

1055
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:02,479
Speaker 1: gotta brotherhood, we all need to be solid and not

1056
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: you gotta get the funk on with that bullshit because

1057
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 1: we're really trying to, you know, make ship happen and

1058
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: and and and still feel good within our circle. You

1059
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, niggas need, we need each other.

1060
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 1: We need to call somebody and talk. And if I

1061
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 1: feel like you want some lame ship and you're gonna

1062
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:23,839
Speaker 1: spiller beans, are you're gonna try to use this information

1063
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:26,560
Speaker 1: against me. You know what I'm saying like that you

1064
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 1: ain't my homie because we got ship we're all dealing with,

1065
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 1: and that ship lamee is here. But you know, I

1066
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 1: feel like brotherhood is just taking care of your boys,

1067
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 1: and you know, are people on what I'm gonna stop?

1068
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: You know what? The same thing before. One of the

1069
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 1: main questions early was unconditional love could go sleave bro

1070
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: and for me, And now these niggas and the whole

1071
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 1: stalling and this con say like you already said my name.

1072
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: Theyn't get that on the mic, this bitch and said

1073
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: my name twice. I'm gonna go always speak my truth.

1074
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 1: And I told him to my truth brother, to be

1075
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:31,639
Speaker 1: unconditional love. These guys and a host of brother guys

1076
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:36,560
Speaker 1: we met and we made that man with none of

1077
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 1: us at this table. I'vevert spoken on it, even guys,

1078
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 1: and that it's not even here. We know that brotherhood

1079
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 1: has been made and that it's unconditional love is gonna

1080
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: go forever. Fight talk shit, we do talk ship, but

1081
01:10:56,880 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: we ain't going a b because we know we need ea.

1082
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 1: Y'all all three of us, right, y'all, y'all include me.

1083
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 1: We all need each other. And uh, you know we

1084
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:18,680
Speaker 1: ain't going on that's unconditioned love. We ain't going over.

1085
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 1: You know, if the definition of our condition love was

1086
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:28,840
Speaker 1: was the definition, we ain't going on one. So don't cry.

1087
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 1: Don't don't cry boy now. But I just want to

1088
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,759
Speaker 1: say thank y'all. I know my New York thiks is upset,

1089
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 1: but I'm really appreciate nobody. No seriously, I really I

1090
01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:47,479
Speaker 1: love black man like I love good and different, respect

1091
01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:50,759
Speaker 1: the essence of what black men bring to the table.

1092
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 1: And I think all of you are really dope. I

1093
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:55,120
Speaker 1: think y'are solid, and I'm happy to know y'all. I'll

1094
01:11:55,160 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 1: showed me a break weekend. So in Chicago like that,

1095
01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:03,160
Speaker 1: but it ain't like that. Just found the right motherfucker's

1096
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 1: the best city too, all right, So you got any question,

1097
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 1: got hit me up. Did not slide my d ms

1098
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:21,840
Speaker 1: asking who was who? Because they all because you got

1099
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:25,960
Speaker 1: a girl crazy, My old lady, ain't she with the ship.

1100
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,600
Speaker 1: So don't ask me who these niggers are because I

1101
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: ain't give nothing information. You can't get mad already helping

1102
01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 1: with somebody else today, She to you, y'all. So y'all

1103
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:49,280
Speaker 1: know the d way to Lebron the Gift that was

1104
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: dope too, but the d way to Brian the pH

1105
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:58,920
Speaker 1: g R the professional home grow through all you last night.

1106
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:04,880
Speaker 1: That was help help you better up. You have a

1107
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 1: good n B. You better smoking bunny boy. You see

1108
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:12,760
Speaker 1: what I'm say. No, I'm say, did you call up

1109
01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: to that? I hooked him up with somebody yesterday? Sweetheart?

1110
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: All right, y'all later, don't say byea this will be

1111
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: lasting Chicago. Say he's out, Chicago. Get your boot fairs

1112
01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 1: out of here right This podcast with Decent is hell.

1113
01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 1: All right, y'all later