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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Almost famous to OG's podcast right here from Pebble Beach edition.

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Speaker 2: It has been a spectacular week, Andrew Firestone has left us.

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Speaker 2: I'm a little bit sad, but I'm going to try

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Speaker 2: and pull this out by myself tonight, guys. I don't

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Speaker 2: know it's gonna be a hit or miss Bobby, but

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Speaker 2: I want to address the elephant in the room. We

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Speaker 2: were all here on time, very punctual. We're very punctual people.

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Speaker 2: That's why we love the Goldens. Oh, I will tell

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Speaker 2: you this, Amy, Sugarman, Hannah, the whole team and I

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Speaker 2: we discussed this.

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Speaker 3: We love the Goldens and why do we love them?

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Speaker 3: Because they're on time. They're on time.

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Speaker 2: They deliver emotional content, yet at the same time poignant

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Speaker 2: and thoughtful in evocative stuff. They're never late though, And

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Speaker 2: tonight one of the staples of that stable of Goldens,

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Speaker 2: Kathy was a little bit late.

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Speaker 3: And why was she late?

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Speaker 2: Well, she late because she came home with the big Guy,

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Speaker 2: the oak Tree, the big Red.

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Speaker 4: I'm sweating over here, k trained pressure.

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Speaker 2: She got on the K train to get home from

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Speaker 2: the track, and uh K train.

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Speaker 3: Might have derailed a little bit. What Keith Kathy.

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Speaker 4: Let's let's Kathy and her new best friends.

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Speaker 2: Well, that can mean a lot of things. Is that biblically?

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Speaker 2: Is that metaphorically?

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Speaker 3: Which is concern? I've never seen Kathy and her lipstick

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Speaker 3: does seem shouldn't say.

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Speaker 5: Kathy, we practiced this, we practiced this on the way.

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Speaker 3: Why is your lipstick smushed? You are always of the

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Speaker 3: perfect face face.

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Speaker 6: I'm just gonna say, oh my god, you're.

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Speaker 2: Right, people, Keith shoes for God's sake, Hell have you guys.

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Speaker 4: Let's just say the tenth Green.

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Speaker 6: Let's just say they say follow your man, never follow

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Speaker 6: anyone when they say follow me on the tenth Green.

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Speaker 3: Could you end up in the bushes?

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Speaker 4: Oh that's actually true. True, that's the truth.

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Speaker 6: To find the path back. Canadian geese squawking at us.

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Speaker 2: This is not innocent, sounds nasty. I'm not trying to

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Speaker 2: go we're PG thirteen podcasts. But we might be going

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Speaker 2: I don't know, we might be going a little different.

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Speaker 3: I don't think there was a long time ago.

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Speaker 6: In a second, I am older than Keith. Keith is

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Speaker 6: saying this is tough hills to move it. Let's say

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Speaker 6: this right, now front. Love is love, Love is life.

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Speaker 2: There's no age limit, and love where it happens the

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Speaker 2: bushes stays in the bushes.

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Speaker 3: You guys, you guys, keep you guys, keep your pedal.

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Speaker 3: You keep your.

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Speaker 4: Mates in the room.

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Speaker 2: We're staying here, were staying in this tone. No, I

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Speaker 2: will say this, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited to be here tonight in the room

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Speaker 2: with me, Casey. But I call him c K. Look

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Speaker 2: at this guy dressed in all white. He's like, he's like,

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Speaker 2: it's like watching like Patrick McEnroe back in the day. Honestly, god,

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Speaker 2: you you had the perfect golf outfit today, c K.

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Speaker 4: Tennis.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, no, you look fantastic.

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Speaker 7: I got I got accused of tennis golf and it

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Speaker 7: was something else as something else, so.

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Speaker 2: I think badminton and perhaps a drinking scottch Yeah, Cat, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: She's always great to have you here. And my friend Sandra,

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Speaker 2: you look beautiful as always. Thank you, You're welcome to

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Speaker 2: Jeff fun.

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Speaker 3: Today. I would say, Kathy, do you have fun? But

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Speaker 3: I think we all know the answer to that. She

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Speaker 3: always has fun.

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Speaker 2: Hello, best friend, It's the golden standard.

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Speaker 3: We're all best friends in this room. You know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Uh, then we of course have doctor Guy Bigelow.

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Speaker 1: I had a great time today.

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Speaker 2: I watched you today. We're weaving your magic.

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Speaker 6: Can I just add, I think, Guy, I love you

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Speaker 6: the pieces. But I think he met every blonde woman

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Speaker 6: on the golf course.

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Speaker 3: To ring no ring, shoes, no shoes. I saw him

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Speaker 3: like there was a blonde like almost person on the way.

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Speaker 3: I thought he gave her his number. She didn't have

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Speaker 2: He's like, what I could do is like a massage,

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Speaker 4: Doctor kicked in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know, well.

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Speaker 2: You're you know you took an oath. You got to

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Speaker 2: honor that practice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then my man, Gary, buddy, I don't know where

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Speaker 2: you went to college, and I want to say you

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Speaker 2: went to my high school, which was Maroon and Gold.

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Speaker 2: But tonight, when I introduce you to my friend who

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Speaker 2: was from UCLA, you you got you went caustic fast.

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Speaker 8: Well you know it's Crosstown rivalries.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 8: When he said UCLA, I said, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: You saw Red University or Scarlette Cardinal and Gold Cardinal car.

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Speaker 4: Right, but U c l A.

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Speaker 8: I just said, I'm sorry, that was all.

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Speaker 3: It was a really bad decision for you, sir.

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Speaker 8: It was a good education, but sorry, that was I'm

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Speaker 8: a good education.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's a communication that maybe like me, we

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Speaker 3: we go low, we go low, Bro.

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Speaker 2: And finally, of course Joan and Shock, Hey, let's be honest,

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Speaker 2: it's the reason why we're here. Man, missed the gold

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Speaker 2: golden's all the time. And Joan, your success with not

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Speaker 2: only the entire room here, of course we and I

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Speaker 2: count Kathy and I and I Sondra on that as well.

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Speaker 2: But you know the success of you and Shot it

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Speaker 2: doesn't create additional pressure, but because I know you don't

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Speaker 3: But it does create reverberations of greatness.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we were at that thing today, guys. We

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Speaker 2: took over a restaurant at the Att Pebble Beach. I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna say I had anything to do that, because

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Speaker 2: I didn't. But let's say, let's be telling. I did magic.

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Speaker 3: And pop.

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Speaker 2: And we were all together and I just area there

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Speaker 2: was a forty five minute wait at at the least Joan.

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Speaker 6: Yes, the couple that came up to us and said,

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Speaker 6: how much hope. Remember the guy talked about that the

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Speaker 6: guy that came up and said, our seasons have given

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Speaker 6: the woman that was there said how much Hope changed

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Speaker 9: Yeah, and I read that from more than one person,

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Speaker 9: which is so like you forget that like this, I

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Speaker 9: actually don't forget. In fact, I remember it often that

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Speaker 9: this season wasn't exactly about just us, that it was

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Speaker 9: about like so many people that were kind of watching

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Speaker 9: this scene if like this could be them, and like

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Speaker 9: putting themselves in our shoes, and like these guys being

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Speaker 9: the way they are, Like, I don't really take much

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Speaker 9: credit for this season because I remember when they all

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Speaker 9: got out of the limo, I said to the producers,

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Speaker 9: I'm like, the season isn't about me anymore. I'm like,

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Speaker 9: these guys are amazing, and they only performed a thousand

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Speaker 9: times better than I ever thought they would because I

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Speaker 9: did think that we were going to have a bunch

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Speaker 9: of days of pulling stuff out of them, you know,

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Speaker 9: trying to get their stories, and they like kind of

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Speaker 9: from day one, we're ready to share and like be author.

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Speaker 6: That translate into so many people out there who are

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Speaker 6: looking for love, who are in their next chapter, second phase,

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Speaker 6: last chapter, call it what you will, and the fact

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Speaker 6: that we all give them hope that they can see

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Speaker 6: that it's possible to find love.

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Speaker 2: To find you one of the things that Joan said

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Speaker 2: to me when we first met. And I didn't know

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Speaker 2: you at all of it at that first meeting, and

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Speaker 2: you said, you know, and I know this became kind

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Speaker 2: of a tagline throughout the season, but I want to

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Speaker 2: bring it back because you said, you know, I'm starting

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Speaker 2: to feel invisible, right, And it was such a I

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Speaker 2: got to tell you. It resonated with me because I

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Speaker 2: started thinking about my mom. My mom's much older than you,

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Speaker 2: but my dad had just passed away, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I get it, Like I finally got it.

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Speaker 3: I didn't get it before then.

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Speaker 2: I think before then I thought, oh, well, you know,

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Speaker 2: life goes on and we're going to do this whole thing.

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Speaker 2: But but you have grandkids, like you should be so happy.

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Speaker 2: You don't realize that, man, Like, life changes, right, and

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Speaker 2: we all change as these changes happened. I think Andrew

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Speaker 2: said it best last night. He's like, there's all these

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Speaker 2: chapters to our lives. Chapter one is like, you know,

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Speaker 2: season resonates, right. Chapter three is where I'm at, which

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Speaker 2: Chapter four is where you guys are, which is like

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Speaker 2: what And then chapter five is the next one, right,

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Speaker 2: and and I'm sure there's a six, seven, and eight

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Speaker 2: they're all beautiful and beautiful chapters. But what I think

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Speaker 2: the Bachelor actually did write the Bachelor franchise. This is

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Speaker 2: coming from a guy who's a little bit jaded. Not

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Speaker 3: We shifted gears to the right chapter.

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Speaker 2: I always do from you, big k special Okay, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I will say this, we shifted gears to the right chapter.

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Speaker 2: And so this it's a chapter that can really embolden

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Speaker 2: and I love it, and I want to be there

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Speaker 3: With me when you and I talked. My mom's not

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Speaker 3: to get out there and dance and have fun and

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Speaker 3: be a being a person. With some and I meet

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Speaker 3: you guys, and I'm like, I've said it before, we

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Speaker 3: all know this my toast uh seventeen times and revisited.

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Speaker 3: But I was the youngest person, I'm sorry, the oldest

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say with my people, and I mean

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Speaker 2: it from the standpoint of I get it, like I

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Speaker 2: do have young kids, and I'm not exactly where you

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Speaker 2: all are at life, but man, I understand it, and

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Speaker 2: I want you all to be so happy and I

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Speaker 2: love seeing you guys get together and have a blast.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Keith, we went from night one where you're like,

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Speaker 2: I don't even guy, and I think we gave each

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Speaker 2: other like seventeen bear hugs.

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Speaker 4: One of the things that you said really the fact

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Speaker 4: that makes me wonder I'm still trying to change.

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Speaker 10: You sneakers, Kathy, you know what you all need to

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Speaker 10: get your minds out of the gut that was.

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Speaker 4: That was a whole, But.

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Speaker 5: One thing you said is we're not here like I'm

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Speaker 5: looking for the day when my kids get married and

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Speaker 5: you've had grandkids and they I don't yet but I'm

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Speaker 5: not here. The old school family was. Oh, the family moves,

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Speaker 5: and there's this babysitting incorporated into being a grandparent. No,

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Speaker 5: I'm I'll be a great grandparent, but I'm going to

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Speaker 3: Asked for more pictures than me. Oh yeah, how about that?

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 2: No, buddy, you like that room. We come up to

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Speaker 4: You know, but I'm sure.

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Speaker 5: For I'm sure for in Maryland, I'm Wichit Tom, I'm

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Speaker 2: Guys, get used to it, okay, because what you guys

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Speaker 3: You shuck a nerve with America.

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Speaker 2: You shuck a nerve with people who want to see

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Speaker 3: With that, man. And what I loved one thing, Yes please.

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Speaker 6: The best things about The Golden Bachelor and the Golden

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Speaker 6: you really are who you are. Chalk and Joan really

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Speaker 3: You know, we really are.

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Speaker 3: But I think we did it twice. Actually yes, And

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Speaker 3: I said, I said, you know, uh, I was.

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Speaker 3: Now we're in that same age. Yeah yeah, right, that

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Speaker 2: Right, So now I'm like, man, if I had to

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Speaker 9: So there was a whole generation of people that like

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Speaker 9: So I do feel like a responsibility of showing that.

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Speaker 9: But then you get the other people and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 9: You're just after the thing. So you can't win with

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Speaker 3: You can't. Yeah, you'll never want with those funs.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I spent four hours, five hours with chalk on

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Speaker 4: Shit.

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Speaker 5: And the biggest question I really do get, knowing that

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Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong. I think it's going to make

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Speaker 9: And know you know us so like all of you guys, you.

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Speaker 3: Know the hell was this guy on night one?

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Speaker 11: Can I say that? Some ladies in the bathroom today

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Speaker 11: Chuck and Joan here? I said yes. They said they're together,

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Speaker 4: Are they in love? Yes?

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Speaker 5: They are?

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Speaker 11: And I told them where they were sitting. I said,

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Speaker 12: It's gonna work out as long as she doesn't throw

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you guys.

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Speaker 2: So, Joan and Chock were with with a couple that's

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Speaker 3: I'm sitting with Chalk.

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Speaker 2: And there was probably ten different instances throughout the course

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Speaker 3: Kenyon, do you need this?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I wasn't chalk every single time.

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Speaker 3: Joan, do you need that?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I got this because you know what, I

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Speaker 2: think it's time we should go, because I know you're

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Speaker 3: It's like, I'm like, jeez, man, he's making me look bad.

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Speaker 2: But he's such a thoughtful personally, and I want to

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Speaker 3: Take an issue with that. I have seen you this.

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Speaker 3: I'm taking this issue with that.

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Speaker 6: I've seen you with Canyon, your beautiful wife, and she

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Speaker 4: And she's.

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Speaker 2: Nobody tears me apart like her and I and I

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Speaker 2: actually really like it. You know, there's times when you

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Speaker 3: But she's always she knows the right things to say

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Speaker 4: And I got a story on Bob and how they did.

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Speaker 6: Wait, I just have one more comment about Chalk's socks.

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Speaker 6: Say that five times fast. If you, guys, for every

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Speaker 6: love for one year, for every pair of socks, you're

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Speaker 2: So yeah, Cassie, I love you, man, I love you too.

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Speaker 3: I love all of you people. I love all you people.

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Speaker 2: To guys, thank you for making so this is my

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Speaker 3: Thanks for making it the best one, you know. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Let's be honest.

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Speaker 2: My partner's crime Andrew Firestone Magic, that guy man always

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Speaker 2: my favorite bachelor, I will So here's what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna go around the room real quick.

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Speaker 2: I want to find out what was your favorite moment

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Speaker 2: of this whole time right now. Granted, we still got

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Speaker 2: And then I'm I still put a mic in your face.

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Speaker 2: I don't know I want to hear. But let's let's

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Speaker 2: go around there. Let's find out what was your best

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's easy.

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Speaker 7: Yesterday golf was absolutely incredible, you know, from the coaching

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Speaker 3: Kathy's a good golfer. Yeah, yeah, I got the video

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Speaker 3: to prove it.

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00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: And when you say coaching, I find that interesting because buddy, buddy,

443
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:24,679
Speaker 2: you're a great coach.

444
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,919
Speaker 3: Like you, I was a cheerleader. No, you inspired me.

445
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 2: There's more than once the guy that has never played golf,

446
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,440
Speaker 2: but first of all showed up with the best golf fashion.

447
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 3: Honestly, God did he not? Gary?

448
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 2: I mean, Gary, you look really good. You get out there,

449
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: you wouldn't even take a T shot, and I understood

450
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 2: why because that's a very intimidating moment. But you would

451
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 2: connect on the ball every single time, and then when

452
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 2: you finally did take a T shot, you blew everyone's mind.

453
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 4: Yeah.

454
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 3: I mean you're a great athlete. Broh.

455
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, thank you man. I appreciate that absolutely, Yeah, yeah,

456
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 7: I appreciate that.

457
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 3: It was fun day.

458
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 7: It was a great day. I had a super super

459
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 7: great time. I think Adam did a great job in

460
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 7: coordinating the event from top to bottom. I think was

461
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 7: very inspiring. You walk in the locker with your name on.

462
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, it's pretty.

463
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: Cool in a club that like only allows I think

464
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 2: two hundred and sixty four members, that was super cool.

465
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, absolutely yeah.

466
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,199
Speaker 2: How about you, Sandra, what was your favorite moment of

467
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 2: the weekend or maybe a moment just that resonates with you.

468
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 11: I don't know if it's a moment. I think it's

469
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 11: a feeling of being here altogether.

470
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Speaker 3: That's a good point I had.

471
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Speaker 11: I had this thought yesterday morning, like this is kind

472
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 11: of maybe a prelude to a Bachelor in Paradise two

473
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 11: point zero or because for me this first time men

474
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 11: and women from both ends of the franchise have been together,

475
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 11: so kind of had that sensation.

476
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's very interesting. I love that.

477
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 2: How about you, Kathy? I mean, Kathy, you're you're a regular.

478
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 2: You and I have been.

479
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 3: Together a lot, so it was not enough, not as much.

480
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: Charger strategically, strategically, I love strategically.

481
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 3: Key a ton of time together. I adore you and

482
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 3: you know that. And how was this week?

483
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 6: I gotta say, I can't pick a moment because getting

484
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 6: to know your wife Canyon was such a joy for me,

485
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 6: really a high point for me. Thank you, But visiting

486
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:47,360
Speaker 6: and getting to all these guys better is a joy.

487
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 6: But for me, the moment when I just like was

488
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 6: walking back tonight and looking out at that water and

489
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 6: the sunset and being so grateful for life and this

490
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 6: whole expert, I can't pick one moment.

491
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 3: What about what Keith like moved in to kiss you?

492
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 3: What was that like? You know what? You know what?

493
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:14,360
Speaker 3: I cannot I cannot tell a lie, Keith? Are just friends?

494
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 3: Damn it, damn it. I hate that. I would love

495
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,959
Speaker 3: the next episode. You know what the next episode is?

496
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 3: What is that? Where would the grass stands?

497
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 2: All right, Keith, let's talk about this, buddy. It was

498
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 2: a big day to day.

499
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 5: I'm just going to resonate what a lot of people said.

500
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 5: It's not just it's there's not one moment. It's about

501
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 5: meeting new people. I mean, I didn't know who you were, Bob,

502
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 5: and now.

503
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 3: I do you know me? And why didn't you know?

504
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,400
Speaker 3: Why did you think you lost.

505
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 4: And you lost your hair? So you were.

506
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 3: How do you make your compliment in a negative.

507
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 4: You're looking better? You know you cut your hair? Put

508
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 4: you up? After that one podcast?

509
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 2: Which which podcast is Zechi? The one that will never

510
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 2: see the light of day. We love you, we love you,

511
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 2: love thank you, buddy.

512
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 4: Let me keep going. But I love everybody, meeting you,

513
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 4: but meeting everybody.

514
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 5: And the one thing you know, people will always think

515
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 5: is we get together and you build bonds with new

516
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 5: people and the goldens come together. They always try to

517
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 5: put more into it than it really is. We can

518
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 5: be great friends and have and I've got new great

519
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 5: friends and relationships with these people, and I'm building the

520
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 5: bonds with the guys that already have too. So I

521
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 5: think it's just building more, growing more. It's just a

522
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 5: good feeling.

523
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 2: I actually think that's a beautiful thing to say, because

524
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 2: here's the thing. Friendship is the foundation of all this stuff.

525
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 2: So we meet, like, for example, Andrew Firestone and I

526
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 2: when we met, it was a weird time, right, Like

527
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 2: Andrew had just come off being the Bachelor.

528
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 3: I'm the new Bachelor.

529
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 2: My season hasn't been aired yet, And Chris Harrison is

530
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 2: told to read the words America's favorite Bachelor, Bob getting

531
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 2: Andrew was just a bachelor that has to hurt your feelings, right.

532
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 2: Andrew doesn't care. He's like, no, let's go, buddy, I mean,

533
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: and so he and I formed a friendship that night,

534
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: and we've been such great friends forever.

535
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 3: And he was this guy who's got.

536
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: The most iconic name in America, and I'm a kid

537
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: from South Detroit, right, and we connect. And that's what

538
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 2: the beauty of the show is is that it can

539
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 2: bring people from all different places to this common ground

540
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,959
Speaker 2: and you guys share it together. You don't need a

541
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 2: bunch of stuff to be in common, you just need

542
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: one we talk about.

543
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 5: We talk all the time, this group of guys and

544
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 5: all the other guys. There are so many text threads,

545
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 5: different ones. I talked to Mark after Christmas, you know,

546
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 5: I talked to Dan calls me out of the blue gun, dude.

547
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 4: We haven't talked for like a month. It seemed like

548
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 4: like what I do.

549
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 5: But yeah, we're talking all the time about new things

550
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 5: in life and it's not about what you're dating or

551
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 5: it's about family weather.

552
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 2: Well, you guys established that though, Keith, I mean, I

553
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: think one of the things that that Joan made an

554
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 2: okay topic was for you guys to be vulnerable.

555
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 3: I've heard that word a lot more this week and

556
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 3: about me.

557
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 7: Let me give you it's when it's when when any

558
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 7: of the guys are coming through any part of California. Sure,

559
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 7: they'll call and they'll go, hey, see Kim, Hey I'm

560
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 7: in Soca. Yeah, and I'll go, hey, don't book a hotel.

561
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 7: You come and say, I don't have any furniture in

562
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 7: my house, but you can.

563
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 3: Come, you know.

564
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's give a couple of minutes of Joan On. Seriously,

565
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 5: she created an environment for us where we weren't we're

566
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 5: not fighting. She she made us all feel special.

567
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does start at the top, I will tell you.

568
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 12: Then.

569
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 5: Then the culture you built, a culture, built a culture

570
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 5: for us that allowed us to be who we were,

571
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 5: to pursue a love with you, whether it was going

572
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 5: to go anywhere or not. But yet, like from my

573
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 5: own experience, we're friends all of a sudden. I felt

574
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 5: that moment when we were just going to be friends,

575
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 5: and I just knew it.

576
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 2: I think it's safe to say everyone in this room

577
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: loves Joan Look right, we all love you, but it's

578
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 2: it's in different ways. Obviously you're in Chalk's love is

579
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: much different. We have this love of friendship and I

580
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: had that with Trista. I will tell you that, and

581
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 2: I still do do this day and twenty two years

582
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: later and we're still one. We talk every day. So

583
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, that is one of those things.

584
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 2: Her husband is one of my very best friends who

585
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: I admire.

586
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I respect. Yeah, it's like you know, you you

587
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 3: can and Trista will throw me on a rail. We

588
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 3: were in Lake Tahoe.

589
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 2: Hannah might remember this, but we're in Tahoe and Tristan

590
00:28:58,440 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: ryan'sun Max's there.

591
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 3: He's fifteen, and he's on his phone.

592
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 2: He doesn't give a shit, and and she goes, I'm Max,

593
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: do you remember mister Guinea? And he's like, hey, what's up?

594
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 2: And she goes my ex boyfriend and she's never called me.

595
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 3: That in front of anyone ever. And I'm just like

596
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 3: I was so comfortable and that is like, hey, what's up.

597
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 3: He goes back to but it was like that thirty.

598
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: Seconds and Ryan starts laughing and I'm like, oh my god,

599
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 2: I'm like uncomfortable laughing. But it was like that moment

600
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: where you're like, oh my god, I guess we do

601
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: kind of have that history.

602
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 3: I mean, we weren't really like yeah, but.

603
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: It's one of those things. This is a this is

604
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: a bond that you're going to share for the rest

605
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 2: of your lives.

606
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 3: Right, it's a unique moment. It's weird.

607
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: Right when someone says, hey, have you ever done online dating?

608
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: You go, no, I do it the old fashioned way.

609
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 2: I hand up roases on TV. That's what I say. Anyway,

610
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: So let's go to doctor Guy. I want to say.

611
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 2: I gotta say it one last time, and I promise

612
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: you I'll put it the better tonight, Doctor Guy.

613
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 3: Bigielow mail Jigielow.

614
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: So, doctor g Doctor G rolls in? Are you does

615
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 2: that make I got to ask you, honest, I've asked

616
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 2: every certain Does that make you mad? When I say,

617
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 2: does it make you laugh?

618
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 5: Laugh?

619
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 2: Okay, that's the thing. It's meant to make you laugh.

620
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 2: But I will say what I lost you? Uh you

621
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: know you've had some moments.

622
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 3: Man, where you you are?

623
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: You're a good looking guy. Yeah right, you're out there.

624
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 2: You you're getting the hot up.

625
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 3: I saw you flexing next to me. I'm like, what

626
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 3: the So I started doing some flexing too. I'm like, okay,

627
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 3: I can do some I can do some lat extensions.

628
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah.

629
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 2: He pulls up next year and he's just stops doing

630
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: like dips. He's like doing dips on the bedside table

631
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: like doctor guy. But no, man, I'll tell you what, dude,

632
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: You're You're a fun person to hang out with. Have

633
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: you have you had a fun time this week.

634
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 4: It's been a fantastic week.

635
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm looking forward to this for well, since

636
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: I know the fy this, I just was so excited

637
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: about it.

638
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 4: And you know, when you're talking about what.

639
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: Moment, the whole thing was great, but the moment, I remember,

640
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: it was the very first image of this this trip

641
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: for me. I'm in the had to layover in l A. S.

642
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: And I'm going to the gate and I'm looking at

643
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: you know, the people sitting in chairs, and there's the

644
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: silhouettes of c K and Gary and their backs are

645
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: to me, and I just I just got this sense

646
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,239
Speaker 1: of just joy and happiness, and I just ran up

647
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: and I just just gave it both bear hunts right there.

648
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 4: And that was so special.

649
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: I mean, we just yeah, yeah, weirdo.

650
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 8: It wasn't great.

651
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, hi, you random guys that I thought

652
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 3: you looked like, yeah, no, but it was.

653
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: And the people around us they just could sense it

654
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: because we were all we just no, no, no, no,

655
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: he's being modest.

656
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 7: I'm telling you the whole Get forty eighty four was

657
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 7: a rustless I mean.

658
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 4: People came, I know you guys, and oh.

659
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, guys, I watched it today.

660
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 2: C K, I watched it today. I was watching you

661
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 2: all out there today. And you know, the one thing

662
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 2: that will will breed more of it is one person

663
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: noticing you. Yeah, right, And I would see the one

664
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 2: person notice you, guys, And I'm sitting over in the

665
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 2: side eating my cheeseburger.

666
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 3: And I'm like, hmm, that's interesting. And then it keeps

667
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 3: on just building. And guys, here's here's a true.

668
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 2: Barometer of the effect you guys have had on American

669
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 2: pop culture. You're at a golf event today where everyone

670
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: is relatively reserved, right, they're not and and and they're

671
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: around a bunch of they're around Scottie Scheffler, and they're

672
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 2: around all these amazing golf pros.

673
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 7: Right.

674
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 2: They are drawn to y'all because they relate to you,

675
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 2: They relate to your experiences. They want to find love too,

676
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 2: whether they're younger, older, whatever it might be. And you

677
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: guys represent one portion of each of them, you know,

678
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: and they they they find you, and they are excited

679
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 2: to meet you. And and what you guys do, which

680
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 2: I love, like I saw Gary do it more than

681
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: once today, Hey hold on, hold on, you see my

682
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 2: other buddy out there, and it's like, you know, we're

683
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 2: so excited about it, so we're happy about it, and

684
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: I think that, you know, it's something that that excitement

685
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 2: and that enthusiasm carries over and it's just magic.

686
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: Man. I love it, like I really love it.

687
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 2: Because I remember being on the first season of Trista's

688
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: Bachelorette and I told Joan this today, so I mean,

689
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 2: this would be very respectful and in a wonderful way.

690
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: We were criticized at that time for the guys being

691
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 2: too good a buddies, right, like, hey, what do these do?

692
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 3: We're not here to.

693
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 2: Shoot dudes soup in a hot tub, right. It's like, no, man,

694
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: we're friends, and I love these guys like I genuinely did.

695
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 2: I'm not competing with this guy. Joe's gonna love who

696
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 2: she's gonna love. I want to be friends with these guys.

697
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if I'm putting this dude down or

698
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 2: building them up.

699
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:53,239
Speaker 4: So still you still love. Of course, We're gonna love

700
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 4: Joan forever.

701
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 6: But here's something it's reality TV. It's no, that's not

702
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 6: or it's going it's reality TV. But people who see

703
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:08,479
Speaker 6: us set events like this find it's real that that's

704
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 6: the real reality that we are friends and that's.

705
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 3: What makes them so happy. And I know you've all

706
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 3: seen it.

707
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's kind of like what my favorite part about

708
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 9: this whole thing was was that, like I always pictured

709
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 9: and I don't think this ever has been true in

710
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 9: Bachelor history, that two seasons of people, so a season

711
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 9: of women and a season of men, that the whole

712
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 9: everybody that are Bachelor fans wants to see all these

713
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 9: people meet. I don't think it's ever happened before. I

714
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 9: don't think it happened.

715
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 3: You're the kind I just realize that you're the common connection.

716
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 9: I think I'm just happened to be part of that equation.

717
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 9: But I think it was like everybody knew that all

718
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,720
Speaker 9: these guys would be friends. So like, maybe my favorite

719
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 9: moment is sitting in this room right now, like all

720
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 9: of this isn't this weird?

721
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 3: Been together.

722
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 9: Microphones and like because people, this is what people wanted

723
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 9: to see. They wanted to see these two seasons of

724
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 9: people like become friends and you're doing.

725
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 3: A natural fit and it's very real. It's all right,

726
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 3: ge man, We're gonna go to you net Garrett.

727
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: So you you're the first person that I interviewed from

728
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: the Golden franchise and we have a special friendship.

729
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 3: I can't remember where you went to college. But the

730
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 3: point is I love you. Look at his outfit is

731
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 3: if you look at his golf bag, you're like, is

732
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 3: this guy like getting paid by.

733
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 8: When you invest the kind of money you do.

734
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 3: University.

735
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 8: You want to make sure that you're representing the colors

736
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,280
Speaker 8: that we that we carry.

737
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 4: That's true.

738
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 3: I know it's true.

739
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 2: Brother, So tell me, man, what was your favorite part

740
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 2: of this weekend? Because I mean, I know you, I

741
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: feel like I know you, but I I don't think

742
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 2: I know you that well, but I would say I

743
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 2: feel like I know you and I feel like you

744
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 2: had a million moments you loved.

745
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was.

746
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 8: It was pretty amazing. And and I say that because

747
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 8: from the time before we got on the plane, Randon

748
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 8: can then guy showed up, and then when we arrived

749
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 8: here in town, it's like a layering, right, and the

750
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 8: golfing and you know, meeting Adam and the the men's

751
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 8: locker room and the jacuzzi and the hot tub afterwards.

752
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 4: Winding down and then and then.

753
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 8: And then and then the culmination of today walking around

754
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 8: and the impact that we have on people's lives beautiful.

755
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,479
Speaker 2: And I saw I saw a lot of young people

756
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: come up to you, guys, and and they would they

757
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 2: would be so excited.

758
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and it's like, it's not that's the thing.

759
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 2: I think, this, this whole thing transcends the age gap,

760
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 2: you know, like I think I think he even maybe

761
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 2: I put too much on the age.

762
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 5: And so.

763
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 8: Seeing that and the impact that we have, but then

764
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 8: also carrying on us, each of us that definition of celebrity,

765
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 8: but still being humbled about that definition of celebrity, because

766
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 8: there were some women that were in tears when they

767
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 8: saw us jumping up and down with like excitement that

768
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 8: we wanted to help them continue to have that and

769
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 8: hold on to that. And that's what was special for me,

770
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 8: was just being humbled at how impactful each of us

771
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 8: have been in someone's life. And the journey continues, and

772
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 8: I'm having a great time with it.

773
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 2: Well, guys, I'm twenty two years in and I will

774
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 2: tell you it's still remarkable when you can affect someone

775
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 2: and you can go, oh my gosh, well thanks.

776
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 3: You know, I downplayed a.

777
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 2: Lot and I you know, the self deprecating moments are

778
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 2: my favorite types of moments. But I will tell you

779
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 2: that it's nice when someone go, oh my gosh, I

780
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 2: loved you on this thing and you can just go, wow,

781
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: thank you so much, you know, and that means a

782
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 2: lot to me, And it really does. And people go,

783
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: I'm sure you're sick of hearing it. No, I'm never

784
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 2: sick of hearing it. Thank you for taking the time

785
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: to actually acknowledge that. You know.

786
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 3: Now we're down to Joanah chalk Oh. I love you, guys.

787
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 3: I will tell you this.

788
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 2: I feel like we've gotten to know each other over

789
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 2: the last few months in a really wonderful way. But

790
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just feel like this one was

791
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 2: next level. This was different for us, right. I feel

792
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 2: like we went to the next level as friends. And

793
00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,800
Speaker 2: I love that Canyon was here. So you got to

794
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:01,959
Speaker 2: meet my wife too, so I'm not just this dude

795
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: who talks about her but she doesn't exist like Kathy's

796
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:04,959
Speaker 2: met her before.

797
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 4: But I am.

798
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 2: I really enjoy you guys as a couple. I enjoy

799
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 2: you guys as a couple because your people I can

800
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:16,439
Speaker 2: see myself being friends with. And what I think people

801
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: need to know is that, yes, did it come from

802
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 2: a TV show?

803
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 3: Is it produced? Is it reality?

804
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 2: Which means nothing's real? Sure, all those things probably apply, right,

805
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 2: But every now and then someone comes out of this thing.

806
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 2: I mean, Tristan and Ryan have two kids and have

807
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: been married for twenty years, and it's like, is it

808
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: real enough for you America? You know, and you guys

809
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: are at this different stage of your life. And I

810
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,439
Speaker 2: think Andrew said it best last night. You know, there's

811
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: these chapters, and you guys have this chapter where it's like, hey,

812
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 2: guess what we're going to decide how our future works out.

813
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 3: If we do it together, whether we put a ring

814
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 3: on it or we don't. We're a couple and we're

815
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 3: for real.

816
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: And I love how you guys are and why I

817
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 2: love it is that I love how you Joan look

818
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 2: out for Chalk and Chock's like I'm just.

819
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 3: An accessory, but Shock is always looking out for you too.

820
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 3: It's just it's really right.

821
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: It's beautiful, man, and it's a real relationship. You got

822
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: my my, Uh, what do I say, Hannah, do I

823
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 2: say I ship it?

824
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 3: I ship it. I don't know what the real term is,

825
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 3: but I'm shipping it.

826
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 4: Is that what I say?

827
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 3: Is there a new term? Is the better term? No,

828
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 3: I'm shipping it. So this means I say that I'm

829
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 3: in or whatever. I agree, I approve it.

830
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 2: Uh. But I love you guys, man, and I and

831
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 2: I really am excited, Like I feel like like Chalk's

832
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: that guy and we all feel this way. I know

833
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 2: he talked about it. Chock's that guy. He's like, well,

834
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm not a big sports guy, but you can sit

835
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 2: there and talk sports with Chalk and he knows everything

836
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 2: you want to talk about, you know, or you want

837
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 2: to talk about food, you want to talk about whiskey,

838
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: you want to talk about and.

839
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 3: There all day.

840
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: We got our strikes, baby, but we also have the

841
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: one thing that he never tires about talking about, which

842
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: is his love for you. Joan and you guys are

843
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 2: just a magic couple. So real quick talk, your reflections

844
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,439
Speaker 2: of the day, and then I want to hear about

845
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 2: Jones reflections of the whole time.

846
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 12: I got a few things that I need to say

847
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 12: the almost famous podcast. Thank you very much, Thank you

848
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 12: brought us all here together. So we appreciate you hosting iHeartRadio.

849
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 12: We really do appreciate that. I'm a very lucky guy

850
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 12: number one to be here for a lot of reasons.

851
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 12: And I was lucky to be on the show, lucky

852
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 12: to meet all you people, but then also lucky to

853
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 12: welcome Joan into my life, which you know, just you know,

854
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 12: what do you say? It just and we do get

855
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 12: along very well, and that's what you need people to know.

856
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 12: But also I need to kind of on a little

857
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 12: somber note. I'm from Witchtalk, Kansas and most everyone read

858
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 12: about the plane crash, yes, sir, And I'm not aware

859
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 12: of anybody that I know that was involved in it,

860
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 12: but there was a lot of young people sixty I

861
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 12: think sixty seven people totally lost their lives and it's

862
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 12: just a horrific accident, and I just you know, and

863
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 12: they're investigating people going what's going on? You know, you

864
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 12: get calls, text and all that. We don't know yet,

865
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 12: but it's a loss of life. And it's another reason too.

866
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 12: I don't want to take anything away from that, but

867
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 12: especially as we get a little older, you've got to

868
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 12: live your life and you've got to enjoy it.

869
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 4: You never know.

870
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 12: Both Joan and I have taken that flight back. It's

871
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,320
Speaker 12: a direct flight from what you saw to Reagan, Dallas

872
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 12: or DC, and I mean, you just never know. So

873
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 12: you have to enjoy life, and you've got to live

874
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 12: a good life and whatever your definition of good is.

875
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 12: But again, thank you for the almost famous podcast to

876
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 12: bring us all together, because it's a great way and

877
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 12: it's a way for us to continue our relationship and

878
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 12: our friendships but also to grow on them. So it's

879
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 12: really helped all of us because I know it's going

880
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 12: to help us keep in touch even more. And then

881
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 12: there's some conversations that we've had that we never really

882
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 12: got to finalize, the guys that were on the show,

883
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 12: and it's been very good for some things that happened

884
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 12: or how you were feeling, those types of things. So really,

885
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 12: thank you. Thank you to everybody that's been here. Much appreciated.

886
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 2: Now, thank you, Chuck. I mean, you're absolutely right. We

887
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: our hearts go out to everyone that was involved in

888
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 2: the incident that happened with it. I mean, oh my gosh,

889
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 2: that was just tragic, and I mean at least seventy

890
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: sixty some lives lost and man, that's so true, and

891
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 2: that is a common flight for y'all. So yeah, I'm

892
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 2: sure it hits very close to home.

893
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 3: So you know, my heart goes out, our hearts go

894
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 3: out at iHeart to everyone as well, Joan.

895
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 2: I mean, this was this was an interesting week for you.

896
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 2: I'm sure, right, I mean, it was you. I'm sure

897
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: have seen a lot of people in this room. But

898
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 2: there's also some people in this room, like these are

899
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 2: guys you dated in the in the past, and.

900
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 4: And we're.

901
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 3: You're you're with the love of your life and you're

902
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 3: with the guy that you need to be with.

903
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know, you're with the love of

904
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 2: your life, with the guy I hate, Beudy, I've been

905
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: going through.

906
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 3: With for twenty years.

907
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're also in a room with people that

908
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 2: you dated previously and that you were wondering, like, where's

909
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: my life going with these guys or whatever.

910
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 3: But you know, it's so it's such a testament to

911
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:15,760
Speaker 3: how this show.

912
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 2: Works, Like it could just be a weird social science experiment,

913
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 2: or it could be a situation where it puts mature

914
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:28,720
Speaker 2: people and I mean I mean mature emotionally, not mature age.

915
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 3: Wise, by the way.

916
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 2: And I say that only because we were talking about

917
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 2: this day, like we're sick of the whole age thing

918
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 2: with the golden thing, right, the mature emotional side of things.

919
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 2: You know, you're in a room with a bunch of

920
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 2: guys that you dated and it's no big deal. It's

921
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: no big deal, and that is I do believe it

922
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 2: starts at the top. I really say that, and I

923
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 2: mean that it starts with the lead of the show.

924
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 2: So you create the environment that you want.

925
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 5: To be in.

926
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 2: So like for me, my big thing when I was

927
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: a bachelor was I was like, guys, this is no prize. Okay,

928
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 2: so let's not fight overst thing.

929
00:44:59,520 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 3: It's a train.

930
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 2: But how about this, Let's get along, let's have fun.

931
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: Let's see let's oh I did. I'm not gonna set

932
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: the bar right way down here, and I'm just gonna

933
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 2: hit a pop up. But Joe, I mean, you are

934
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: such a classy and wonderful woman and I adore you

935
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: as a person, and you come into the situation and

936
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: it's a challenge, it is. And then not knowing that,

937
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 2: the after effect was like, well, I guess I'm gonna

938
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: have to kind of keep these other dudes in my

939
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 2: life for the next year or so.

940
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 3: You and Chalk both to be so cool with it.

941
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 2: I love it, I really love it, and I think

942
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 2: it says a lot about your confidence and your relationship

943
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:40,439
Speaker 2: the strength of your love.

944
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 3: But you know, you come into this.

945
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 2: Week and you had a lot of work to do.

946
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 2: You've been very busy, You've had a lot of but

947
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 2: you're still showing up to everything with a smile, and

948
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 2: I love that about you.

949
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 3: How is this week for you? I mean I'm seeing

950
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 3: it from a thirty thousand feet how is this week

951
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 3: for you?

952
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 9: Well, first of all, thank you for all those like

953
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 9: reach to kill those compliments. I don't take compliments very well.

954
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 9: Oh like I used to want to, like, you know,

955
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 9: crawl into the covers right now. But I appreciate it

956
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 9: and I love you right back. And I have had

957
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 9: like the greatest time getting to know you. You know,

958
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 9: we always do podcasts, yeah, and we never just get

959
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 9: to be us, you know, normal people, and we've got

960
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 9: to do that finally, you know, those last few days.

961
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 9: So this has been such like a joy. You need

962
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 9: to know you and your wife. But as far as

963
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 9: like being here with like these people that I love

964
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 9: and this includes my two my good friends here, and

965
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 9: you know, we have this kind of relationship amongst us

966
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 9: girls from the Golden Bachelor season.

967
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 3: We're really really, really close.

968
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 9: But I wanted to make sure that everybody left my

969
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 9: season whole and that they knew exactly how special they were,

970
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 9: and that like if it wasn't a romantic glove that

971
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 9: we ended up with, that there is completely different kind

972
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 9: of love and that's this friendship that we have, and

973
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:57,280
Speaker 9: that when you go through this kind of weird journey

974
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 9: dating on national TV and you signed up for this,

975
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 9: so you say, Okay, I'm going to do what I

976
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 9: signed up to do out there. Yeah, I am going

977
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 9: to like not hold back and I'm going to show

978
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 9: them everything. And these guys, every one of them did,

979
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 9: and so like all so Rose ceremonies were particularly hard,

980
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 9: and everybody understood that.

981
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 3: And I didn't want anybody to leave feeling.

982
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 9: Hurt or that like choose them or like that we

983
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 9: you know, I don't know that they were not good enough,

984
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 9: because you know, everyone was like, honestly, I'm like you

985
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:30,359
Speaker 9: way too.

986
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 2: Good for me.

987
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 3: Well, we talked about it today. You're breaking up with

988
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 3: people have done nothing wrong. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, so it's painful.

989
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 3: Everything there supposed to do well.

990
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 2: Johan and I were talking today, I said, I I

991
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 2: remember being the Bachelor and thinking, gosh, I'm breaking up

992
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: with people who have done nothing wrong. It's just that

993
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 2: I'm I'm breaking up with them because I'm not feeling

994
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 2: as strong a feelings as I'm feeling for this person.

995
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 3: A different kind of love, yeah, are different kind of

996
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 3: like every person that.

997
00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 9: Walked out of that Rost ceremony room. I I felt like,

998
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 9: when this is all over and I can finally reconnect

999
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 9: with them, I need to make sure that they were

1000
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 9: whole and that you know that just because it wasn't

1001
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 9: a romantic love doesn't mean that I don't I love

1002
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:11,720
Speaker 9: I don't love them.

1003
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 3: As much as I'm It's a kind thing. It's a

1004
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 3: very kind thing.

1005
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 9: These people are such a huge part of my life now.

1006
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 9: Even though we only spent like seven and a half

1007
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 9: weeks together and you know some you know less than that.

1008
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 2: Was back in it was five weeks was short season,

1009
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 2: that crazy.

1010
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 9: Yeah, and that in that short un of your you know, time,

1011
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 9: that you can have this kind of love for each other,

1012
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 9: and that like these kind of days and this like experience.

1013
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 9: You know, I finally got to see some of these

1014
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 9: people face to face fook first time, you know other

1015
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 9: than maybe at you know, Mentello and apinitely where things

1016
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 9: kind of chaotic you don't.

1017
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 3: Each other.

1018
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 2: This is a this is a raw deal right here.

1019
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 2: You're coming to here. There's no well, I mean there's production,

1020
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 2: of course, but there were latin us run wild.

1021
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 9: Yeah, they're lineus for everything, and and like we get

1022
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 9: to actually have conversations about how we felt a different

1023
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 9: times in the show, and you know help you know,

1024
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,800
Speaker 9: I feel I'm leaving here so happy because I know

1025
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 9: that these guys were.

1026
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 2: Whole Joan, thank you for being the conduit that brought

1027
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 2: everyone together this weekend. I mean everyone that's here has

1028
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 2: a connection to you. And what a lovely host is

1029
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 2: uh you have been this weekend because you've been so

1030
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 2: kind to everyone and guys, I mean, this is the

1031
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 2: the wrap up night of the annual almost famous Ogs

1032
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 2: Pebble Beach Now moving forward Gold and Told Me podcast.

1033
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 2: But I will say this, I've loved it, you guys,

1034
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 2: I loved every man love it. Thank you very much

1035
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:48,399
Speaker 2: for being.

1036
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 3: Thank you to you big. You show up and give

1037
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 3: like you under stand this.

1038
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,439
Speaker 9: I know you've been doing it for a lot of years.

1039
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 9: You are probably the most intuitive person about like what

1040
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 9: everybody has gone through. Thank you was like actually giving

1041
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 9: insight to people.

1042
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 2: Well, I care about you guys, and I and I

1043
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 2: will say this, I didn't necessarily care about Keith on

1044
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 2: the first.

1045
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:21,439
Speaker 3: Night, but I really I really love Keith.

1046
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 4: I do, yes, yes, he did.

1047
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 3: I will tell you this.

1048
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 2: I think it came up at the dinner table. They're like,

1049
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 2: Keith got the first impression. I was like, he didn't

1050
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 2: get mine. But no, I will say this body, you

1051
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 2: You've grown on me in two days, and I really

1052
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 2: do like you are. You are like a bad rash

1053
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 2: and I enjoy it. No, I'm not putting any better

1054
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 2: on you. I will say this you guys, Thank you Jamia,

1055
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 2: thank you brother and uh and thank you guys for

1056
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 2: being my friends. Thanks for being open to this whole thing.

1057
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 2: I mean this is podcasts are weird. I don't even

1058
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,479
Speaker 2: know how to listen to a podcasts. I still don't

1059
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 2: knows this, but I will say that it's of those

1060
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,919
Speaker 2: things that allows us to open up and let people

1061
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: hear our experiences. And this is a unique one that

1062
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,959
Speaker 2: people really love and you guys are all a huge

1063
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,839
Speaker 2: part of it. We saw that today and the fact

1064
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 2: that you're willing to open up and be vulnerable to

1065
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:14,880
Speaker 2: it is really fantastic.

1066
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 3: So thank you, Kathy. You how much I love you.

1067
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 2: I mean, Kathy's been through this ringer with me a

1068
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 2: few times, but I will say this to you, guys.

1069
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 3: I think we need to do it again. Should we

1070
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 3: run it back? All right? Guys?

1071
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 2: So almost famous the ogs Pebble Beach round five slash

1072
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: four four for me, five for fire stunt. I think

1073
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 2: we need We're going to bring that back next year,

1074
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 2: so let's plan on that. And tonight let's go out

1075
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 2: and have a great time you guys.

1076
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 3: Ready, I love you guys. Here we go, Thank you,

1077
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 3: all right,