WEBVTT - Wednesday Post Show (4-21-21) 0:00:01.200 --> 0:00:05.520 It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host, 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:15.000 Bobby Bones. I'll start with this. Men who wear large 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:19.480 logos on their shirts are seen as more promiscuous. Study fines. 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.279 Look around the room, and nobody's warn't a big logo today, 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:25.920 or don't do it well. Ray is well sort of. 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:28.680 Ray has his own line of clothing now he's promoting 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:32.319 and he wears it every day. It's the weirdest thing. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:35.360 I mean, I'm here for it. A US psychologist set 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:37.800 out to see if blingy clothes serves the same role 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:41.360 in humans. They evaluated a guy. Apparently, luxury displays are 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:46.839 seen more as an indicator too. Let's get it. You 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:51.320 see somebody really flexing their logo, what they're wearing, what 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:54.240 they have, and they're doing that to actually attract It's 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.200 like the peacock, the guy peaccock putting out the feathers. 0:00:57.560 --> 0:01:00.880 Remember when Polo had the little guy the horse, but 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:02.880 then it ended up being like a huge guy on 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:06.720 a horse. That was weird. Like that's when I was like, 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:11.920 I'm not wearing that ever. Well, yes, I the whole 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:13.559 horse thing was big. I never wore a Polo really 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:16.680 when it was big. I couldn't afford it. And then 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:19.640 when I could afford it, and really the style, that's 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:23.200 when the logo got big, got big. The study was 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:26.039 that men who wear extremely big logos to show off 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:28.839 what they wear are also showing it off for a reason. 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:33.319 Take it as you may read the story. There you go. 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:35.440 Eddie does have a logo on a shirt, though I do. 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:37.559 It's a very small and it says the north face. 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:40.160 Oh yeah, I didn't even realize that it's so small though, right. 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:43.360 My mom got me this. I don't buy my clothes 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:46.480 like my mom buys my clothes. My wife buys my clothes. 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.920 You give me your clothes. I don't ever go to 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:50.760 the store and pick out clothes. Never never were a 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:53.840 one line never. Yesterday I posted the jacket that I 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:56.280 wore an American idol because everybody keep asking, keep ask 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:58.040 me about it. Where you get that jacket? It was 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.240 like the red, white and blue one, the colorful one. Yeah, 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:01.720 so I posted I got it from Zara and I've 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.600 just posted the link and I was like, yeah, I've 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:06.480 been asking about my clothes, So did you like to 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:09.440 know it to tall? I guess they get you out 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:11.359 of these swipe up so I did I put a 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:13.200 swipe up for a jacket I wore. I don't have 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:14.600 a deal with them. I have no I was making 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:17.240 no money. People were asking, Yes, I wonder how many 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.600 swipes that thing got? Can you see that? You see? 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:22.000 Of course you don't know that you ever do swipe ups. 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:24.040 I do swipe ups, Yeah, but I didn't know. You 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.000 don't drack those. Oh you don't look at it? What 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:29.200 is it? Call the insights the total amount of swipe ups? 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:31.560 It doesn't mean they bought one. Obviously, about ten thousand 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.919 people swiped up seeing what was up with the listen. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:38.440 A lot of them just could have been curious. Um, yeah, 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:42.040 there you go. Looking at it now. It is a 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:44.520 nice jacket, but I really can't wear it aget on 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:47.040 TV again. Yeah, that kind of happens. So when you 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:48.359 wear it once on TV, I can wear it again 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:49.760 into a life, but I can't wear it on TV again. 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:51.840 But it wasn't Some of that stuff they send me 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.639 for TV is crazy expensive. And then I'm like, no, 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.400 it didn't even look that good. You can get you 0:02:57.400 --> 0:03:00.880 affliction short Eddie, big Fliction logo. I'm looking right now, 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:05.639 thirty four bucks. Let's do this. I got a bunch 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.840 of stuff for today because we didn't do a posho yesterday. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:12.720 Raimondo has an update on his wife's surregacy journey. Yep, 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:16.200 what is the latest. So we're gonna go through my sister. 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:19.280 While my sisters now starting a family. She already did 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:21.280 and a house up in Michigan, so I really don't 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:23.480 think she's gonna be able to move to Nashville. She's 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.240 gonna have a home up there. So we are going 0:03:26.320 --> 0:03:28.760 to be looking for a surrogate. Not right now, though. 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.200 My wife wants to be cancer free for five years, 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:34.520 so that is in two years, then we will be 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.200 looking for a surrogate. So started to countdown two years 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.720 and having kids right now, just have twenty three eggs. 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.600 Are you looking to have a surrogate volunteer or are 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.120 you gonna find one that you can pay? Love a volunteer? 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:48.800 Buff I, I I mean like another family member. Correct. 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.119 I don't know if there's another family member. But they 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.280 do charge and it's a decent amount of money, but 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:55.200 they take it like totally professionally. You know they're not 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:58.040 gonna drink. They're very responsible, they have good genes and 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:01.280 all that. If it matters. I don't know, but yeah, 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.720 so we'll probably have to pay somebody. Everybody says they'll 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:06.040 do it for free until push comes to shove and 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.440 they have to carry your kid for nine months. What's 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:12.000 that cost? Thousands? A couple thousand? Oh, I think way 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:18.040 more than twenty thousands. I think it ranged. I think 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:20.400 there's a range of maybe twenty five thousand to one 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:23.200 hundred thousand. I'd worry. Have you found one for two grande? 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:29.920 I mean yeah, typically they're between thirty and forty thousand, Okay, 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:35.680 but a couple grand are you? Are you guys willing? 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:37.600 Are you saving to pay that? Would you take out 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.000 a loan for that? Oh? That would definitely be a loan. 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:41.840 I don't know. I mean we're saving for a house 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:45.320 and stuff like that, so financially, say you said a 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.400 couple of thousands, did you even look at how much 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:49.039 they cost? I had some lady to reach out to 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.680 me from California. She's like, I'd love to do it 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:53.640 for you, guys, um, And I said, well, what would 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:55.680 it be to pay you? And she's like, I would 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:58.359 never charge you outrageous amounts in the thousands. So I 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:01.039 assumed couple I didn't assume twenty. But how do you 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.280 know her? I don't. It's a listener of the show, 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.520 and she lives in Cali. But I mean it says 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:09.359 Callie is even higher, but she's not. I would assume 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:12.839 that these people that are Surah getting babies, whatever the 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:16.160 term is, are a bit contractually obligated to live a 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:18.880 certain lifestyle. That's what you're paying for. Well, yes, I 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:22.160 mean I think that, yes, there's stipulations for sure, and 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:25.760 then maybe there's their their quote unquote salary. But then 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:29.200 also they have living expenses and doctors like bills that 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.839 need to be paid. And does she move here or 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:33.800 does she just hold your baby in California? I would 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:36.280 imagine she would move here, and then I mean, there's 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:40.000 no way to talking about it. This seems very expensive, 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:41.599 but that's really the only route we can go on. 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:43.400 And you had to pay for legal services to make 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:46.039 sure the contract. I'm reading about it, and it's gonna 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.440 be a fifty thousand dollars or deal, but maybe a 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.280 good one. You had to have a kid. I mean, 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:53.320 you had to buy their maternity clothes. We've also talked 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:56.039 about adopting as well. Um, when we were on our honeymoon. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:57.760 I was playing catch with this little kid down there, 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:59.720 and my wife goes, what if we adopted? You were 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:01.160 great with that kid, I thought, you can say, what 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:04.440 do we took him? They thought, But I mean that 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:08.839 can run you the same like adoption is not. It's 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:13.440 an expense as well, like big time. Yeah. So yeah 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:17.360 either way, that good luck with that. I had listeners 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.280 back when I was trying to get pregnant offer up 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:21.840 surrogacy for free. But again, I don't think they're really 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:23.640 going to go through with doing it for free. For 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.320 what you need? You need him to move here, You 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:27.880 need him to be around you. You need him to 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:31.080 not smoke or drink. You need him to do what 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:35.800 a hired professional. Not be stressed out. You can pass 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:38.719 your stress along to the baby. You need a massage 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:44.119 on them like that Japanese meat like wagoo. Yeah yeah, 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:47.320 um yeah. Does anybody on the show want to volunteer 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.040 like Morgan number two, Hillary or like that? That's what 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.800 I'm good abbey for how much though? What would you? 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:59.000 What's what's the I mean, yeah, my wife is up 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:03.280 for it, said, everybody's got a price. Lunchbox's wife ends 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:07.240 up carrying raids. Baby. I did get on cameo last 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:09.560 night and see how much Ted dB As cost. Do 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:12.400 you guys have a million dollars the wrestler. Yeah, I 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:14.560 was looking at a lot of people. Ryan Samberg's on 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:16.600 there for on twoundred nineteen dollars Cups second baseman who 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:17.760 reached out to me and said, I go to Cubs 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:19.880 game with him. I'll tell you is that No, I 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:22.760 don't know you said that? You DM with him? He said, 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:24.640 Asia said, come up, we'll go to a game together. 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:27.160 Out what does he do again? He's second base with 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:29.960 the Cubs, number twenty three. This is childhood stuff like 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:36.200 still or he's older sixty, that's cool, it's amazing, it's 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.680 amazing if you know who he is. Or yeah, it's 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.440 all relative, Like I know that that special for you 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:44.400 for sure. I told Kaitlin, I was like, Ryan Samberge 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:45.840 just invited me to go a baseball game with him 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.400 in Chicago. She was like, that's cool. Who's that? Yeah? Yeah, 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:50.600 I get it. But when you were a kid, I mean, 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:53.000 you're thirteen year old, sold would freak out. Yeah, that 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:55.480 was couch famous to me right now or people when 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:57.640 I was a kid that were famous exactly. So like 0:07:57.680 --> 0:07:59.640 when Garth walks in this room, I'm was like, oh 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:02.560 my god, my twelve year old self would freak. Yeah, 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:06.320 so tedd Bias is one hundred bucks. It used to 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:08.440 be a wrestler back in the day. Ray, you guys 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:12.040 caught off my cameos about ten behind. Um wife had 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.120 some doctor's appointments, so her head was there and she 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:16.440 said she'll be good to go. On Friday. We'll be 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.920 knocking him out again. He raised your prize again, thirty 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:23.200 one dollars. I believe good job. That one will add up, dude, 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:26.360 it will. It just looked at his page and it 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:31.560 said thirty one dollars fifty Yeah did that one star? 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.480 Zero star? I ever fixed their review of you? No, 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:35.839 I need to look into that, but you messaged him. 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:38.560 I did, but the stuff takes time. And um, there's 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.320 a three star rolled up three star. I wanted to 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:44.960 show what's say. Oh it was I, but he's got 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:46.599 a zero star one too, where apparently he said the 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:50.160 wrong person's name. Ray, you can't do that well. I 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:52.040 was trying to show off to my wife that I'm 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.000 great at reading the teleprompter. It's actually a little bit 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:56.000 more difficult than you think it is. You guys have 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.319 a teleprompter. Prompter, Well, it's on the screen, so it's 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:00.400 you almost read the cameo like it tell all prompter. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:01.560 And something I can do is we do this all 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:03.400 the time, gripping right, baby, and then I screw it up. 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.240 But now I realized you memorize the name beforehand, so 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.000 it actually like you're talking to the person, you're not 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:10.520 reading the whole thing. Yeah, so let me read his 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:13.840 review again. Go and pull that X that little screen 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:17.680 right there. Ray and Bay living on the West side 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.240 of Nashville. Ray is the critically acclaimed rais on the 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.839 critically acclaimed by Bone show. We just had a fairytale wedding. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.320 We have a cat named Pablo that likes to join 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:27.240 it on the videos. His review now is at a 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:31.760 four point nine, so it's up there a bit congratulations here, Yeah, 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:34.960 I mean, what's the highest five? Yeah? Do you ever 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:36.880 get an uber driver that's like a four point two? 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:39.360 I don't look, I don't check ever, I don't even look. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.840 I got a couple of bad ones, and did you 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:44.440 realize quickly why they were? They were just fine? I 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:46.360 feel like it's drunk people or somebody being mean because 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:49.160 something they couldn't control, Like that's what I usually think. Hey, 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:51.280 can we hear a ray one Mike because I played. 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:53.120 We have a board for that. No, we can't hear that. 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:55.400 For some reason, he's holding up a drink like a 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:56.960 true you're holding up a truly with a bag in 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:59.360 your hand. That one might have been the person said 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.480 they wanted to see me shotgun of Seltzer, I think. 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.400 And you're holding up a bag of birthday cake popcorn. 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:10.079 Uh yeah for the celebration. Yeah, have their birthday. Okay, ridiculous. 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:11.880 I can get ray a ray in Bay Cania thirty 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:13.959 one dollars if you want to check that out. Um. 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:18.320 I do have a couple other things here. Speaking of RAYMONDO, 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:19.960 let me go and hit this one an update. If 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:21.440 a country out of wort a song about him? Were 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:25.000 you here for this segment? No? Did a country singer 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:27.800 write a song about him? Sam Hunt? No? Oh no, 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:31.280 that was a stalktor song. Ali Colleen, Oh yeah, who's 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.000 a country singer who's also Garth's daughter wrote a song 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:37.160 called playing House and that's about being together six years 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.319 and are we just playing house? Oh? Wow? Right? Was 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:40.800 like is that about me? Can we play a clip 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:47.440 of that song? Yeah, we're glasses crustain leakin SANDU have 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:51.680 a ring on my hands. Six years right down the train, 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:57.120 we're still doing the same day thing. Did you hit 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:00.000 her up and says that about us? Yeah? We uh 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:05.559 we chatted with her and we uh we inspired the song. 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:08.160 She did not say it what was specifically about us, 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.440 but our dating for six years playing house if you 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:15.000 will before we married, h is what started the writing 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:18.920 of this song. I mean, she's using exact details, and 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:20.680 she can you can do whatever she wants. But I 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:22.520 was like, I mean, it's that's like more than inspired. 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.480 It sounds like that's it's about you guys. I think 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.280 that that's a to say you're inspired by anything. You 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:28.800 can get away with a lot. Maybe she just doesn't 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:30.400 want us to know. Hey, I'm bashing on you guys, 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:32.439 relationship when you used to date, not even like really 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:34.320 totally be married and stuff. I was bashing on it 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.839 in this song. But the song it sounds like things 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:38.800 in an end well, and Ray ended up marrying his 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:42.280 Oh the song it didn't end well, Yeah, I believe this. 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:46.480 They just decide that it's over. Down the drain. Would 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.640 that would be over? Yeah, that's true, that's true. I 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.760 have another thing here. I wanted to mention. Uh, lunchbox 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.360 wants to spill the tea on somebody on the show. 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.040 Of course he does. Oh wait wait can we guess? 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.040 Is it Eddie? Well, let's hit that button Ray Mood 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:04.320 if you spill the tea at your your stage. Yeah, 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.160 so I want to spill the tea on Scooba Steve. 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:12.280 I mean, we are gonna rename him Steve the purse 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.959 Holder because he got a call from his wife. He's 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.520 in there working and his wife's like, hey, I'm at 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.319 the mall and I need you to come carry my bags. 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.960 And Scuba runs out of the building. He's like, Okay, 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:24.320 I gotta go. I gotta go, and he picks up 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:27.079 his stuff all in a hurry to go carry bags 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:30.080 at the mall. So he is no longer Scuba Steve. 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:40.880 He's Steve the bag Holder. How embarrassing. Purse bags also good. 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:44.679 He left work early. He wasn't even I'm here every 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.839 freaking day PM while you're at home hanging with the 0:12:47.880 --> 0:12:51.079 kids enjoying. Yeah, I'm still here. So I take one 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.680 day to do something nice for my wife and hold 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:55.560 the backs for her while she was on four months 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:57.440 from eternity leave and went back to work and was 0:12:57.440 --> 0:12:59.520 feeling a little bit about herself and wanted to buy 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:02.360 something nice for herself. So I carried the bags for her, 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:05.520 as a good husband and soulmate should do. But what 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.040 does it mean leaving work early? What time did you 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:09.600 get that text? I left at twelve thirty? Are you 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:14.920 kidding me? But that's not early. Yeah, he didn't leave 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:18.679 anytime after ten o one if he has any time 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.080 he wants, Guys, it's the fact that he was doing 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.240 work and she said, hey, I need my bags held. 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:25.760 He's like, I'll be right there. I want to know 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:29.200 what lunchbox was doing so late at work? Yeah, you see, 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:30.880 you know, I know you don't think I worked. I 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.600 do work, so you know. But this is what I'm 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:35.360 gonna say. This what I've learned. You know, you guys 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:36.640 know this more than I do, and I'm just now 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.880 starting to learn it now. I have posted a video 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:40.880 on Instagram or a picture and it's Kaitlin and I 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.760 together and someone's like you you are everything you used 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.760 to make fun of. And I was like, you know what, Yeah, 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:51.840 I was stupid then. So whenever things are happier at home, 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.760 everything goes better for me, just in general. So if 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:59.320 your wife, if your number one needs anything and you 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:02.240 can do it, do it. Yeah. And she sacrificed her 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:05.120 whole career to come here for me to move to Nashville. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.160 She left the job that she had and loved. So 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.760 if she has something that needs that she needs, I'll 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.679 do what she needs. And in this scenario, she had 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.800 to hold her bags, so so what and we got 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.760 to enjoy some time together. How did he see that 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:18.559 text email? Because I was like I had, I was 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:19.880 in a mad rush. I was like, hey, my wife 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.480 needs me. I gotta go. And he's like, what are you? 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:23.040 What are you going? You got stuff to do? And 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:24.680 I'm like, who are you? You're not my boss? And 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:26.520 I said, is everything you asked him? Who are you 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.680 got stuff to do? Well? He said, my wife needs me. 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:30.680 I said, is everything okay? Goes? Yeah, she needs me 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:33.400 to hold her bags at the mall. I was like, wow, dude, 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:38.040 that's embarrassing. Steve the bag holder no longer. Her name 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:41.120 is not going to pick out scuba Steve because the 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:45.640 alliteration scuba Steve right, yeah, the bag holder. It doesn't 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:48.000 even go together. Well, you're the one holding the bags man, 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:54.600 not me, and you think he's blank whipped and you are. 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.320 I run the relationship, trust me. And my wife called 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:58.520 me and said, hey, I'm at the mall. I need 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:00.200 you to carry my bags. I'd be like, get a 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:08.520 shopping cart, but also or I'd be like, you're buying 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:13.360 too much crap. Okay, okay, never mind. It's not everyone 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:17.360 that's on team Scooba, I say, everybody that's on team Lunchbox. 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.880 Well on, Nico Jackson checked in. You know I'm on 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:25.200 Lunchbox's shot. I wouldn't go to the mall with my wife. Nico, 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:28.600 you're not married? Well I used to be. Really would happened? 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:32.000 Oh yeah, she passed away? So wait, you wouldn't passed away? 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:34.080 Why did you go? So we're doing a comedy bet 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.600 and you went dark Because he's trying to get sympathy 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:40.800 or empathy of the two whatever they are. I didn't 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:42.960 know which one you want me to do. Okay, she 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:45.640 left me because I wouldn't hold her bags at the mall. Okay, 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:52.000 see died. Yeah, she found she found some guy named 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:57.200 Steve the bag holder. That was funny that you killed 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:01.360 the bet with you you passed away unexpectedly in her sleep. Well, 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:05.080 I don't want to keep going. Yeah, all right, I'm 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:07.880 happy for that, Steve the backholder. Guard though, that's spilled 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:09.360 the tea. Ray, would you have that buds? We can 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:13.800 end this part of this conversation balls, let's just spill 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:17.800 the tea. Check out The Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelley 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.800 Henderson because if you're learning about the indeagram, she talks 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:24.280 to an innagram expert on how you can use it 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:27.160 to actually better yourself and know your relationship. I like, 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:29.880 I don't live by it. I like the indeagram because 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:33.720 I've learned about Caitlin. She's a two. I'm an eight, 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:38.440 and it's pretty accurate about my characteristic traits because I've 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:40.160 answered a lot of questions when they assign it to you. 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:42.480 It's also it's like the love language is but better, 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:45.400 because I think the love languages are important, like knowing 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:47.880 what someone needs to get to feel love and what 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:51.440 they give to feel love, and you can actually learn 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:53.600 how to treat the person how they would like to 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:57.320 be treated. She knows my love language is gifts giving 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.480 and getting because and I'm just doing a little therapy 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:04.359 on myself here because I never got gifts ever. We 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:06.679 were poor, there were no gifts, and if they were, 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:09.760 they were crappy. And so when someone gets me a gift, 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:14.080 I'm like, oh my god, this is amazing, Like that's 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.120 my love language. When when I'm like, man, somebody really 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:17.239 cares of it. They spent the time and they got 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:19.440 me in a really cool gift. That's the reason I 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:27.120 like to give gifts for that same life somewhat trauma, 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:29.920 but that is why I'm shaped the way that I am. 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.080 When she cooks for me, I'm like, you have to 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:34.000 this is the craziest thing. I can't belie. Nobody ever 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:36.639 cooked for me a whole life. So she'll cook a 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:39.240 meal and I'm just like beside myself, like this is 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.840 the greatest thing you could ever do, because that never happened. 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:43.480 My my mom didn't do that and have a dad 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:46.080 for most of my life. So when she does that, 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:48.359 but you know, to be able to learn that. But anyway, 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:50.520 check out the Velvet's Edge podcast Kelly Henderson because you 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:53.880 can hear about the indiagram I'm an Eight other eights 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:59.480 are dictators and crazy people. Oh, basically, but it's a 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:01.200 it's a it's good podcasts, and I hope you guys 0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:03.359 go in and check it out. Your sister should have 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:05.320 a heart attack. What happened last night? No, I didn't. 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.320 She diet? Your sister? Oh yeah, yeah, so my sister. Yes, 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:12.280 she woke her husband up at one am and it 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:15.119 was like, I'm having a heart attack. We need to 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:18.520 go to the hospital. And she's I know, she's been 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.640 had stress ever since my dad passed away, and there's 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:26.719 a lot going on, and she doesn't she's from the outside, 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:28.440 you'd always think she's got it all together. I think 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:32.520 she internalizes a lot, and so it's it's manifesting. And 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.000 he's like, okay, well, let's put clothes on, let's get ready. 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:37.120 I'll take you to the er. She's like, no, no, 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:39.600 there's no time for that. So she went. They went 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:42.240 pajamas straight to the hospital. That and my sister's the 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:44.240 least dramatic person you've ever met. So that's how I 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:46.240 know it was for sure serious, and she felt like 0:18:46.240 --> 0:18:48.280 it was very real. And she walked in. She said 0:18:48.320 --> 0:18:51.440 she was sweating and shaking, she felt numb, her heart 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:54.600 like everything felt totally off, and she said, I'm having 0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:56.320 a heart attack. I need you to run tests. So 0:18:56.359 --> 0:19:00.160 they did all the tests. Ekg's blah blah blah. She's 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:02.840 she wasn't having a heart attack, She's having like an 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:06.560 anxiety panic attack. And so the minute they and then 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:08.679 she refused to believe that that was the case, and 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:10.440 they're like, well, just so heads up, we've got a 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:12.320 drip in your arm right now. And I guess whatever 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:15.439 was dripping in was like an anxiety men. And they're like, 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:17.840 you feel better right now, don't you. She's like, yeah, 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:20.680 I do, and they're like, yes, because you were having 0:19:21.040 --> 0:19:25.600 an anxiety attack. So anyway, just it's scary. I've never 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:29.560