Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only.
Speaker 2: On the Jubile Show.
Speaker 3: Daniel is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 3: He's been dating his girlfriend Brooklyn for almost a year now,
Speaker 3: and already he suspects he suspects something might be going on. Daniel,
Speaker 3: what's up, man?
Speaker 2: Hey, what's up? Guys? How are we doing?
Speaker 1: I guess the question is how are you?
Speaker 2: I'm not the best, just to have had better days.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's going on? Why do you think that your
Speaker 3: girlfriend Brooklyn is cheating?
Speaker 2: I mean, she's just been very distant lately. It's not
Speaker 2: usually like that. You know, We've been dating for about
Speaker 2: a year and he's hang out every weekend. I have
Speaker 2: a lot of fun. It was very seamless. But now
Speaker 2: recently she just says that she has other plans and
Speaker 2: we don't hang out nearly as much. She doesn't really
Speaker 2: tell me what the plans are. She's just you know,
Speaker 2: going to hang out with friends. Very vague about it,
Speaker 2: and you know, when I ask more, she's just still
Speaker 2: very vague, and I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's just not how to beat.
Speaker 5: That's not that unusual, though, I think that in the
Speaker 5: early stages of any relationship, you spend a lot of
Speaker 5: time with your partner and then you realize that you've
Speaker 5: been neglecting your friendships, and so maybe that's where she is.
Speaker 1: I mean, other than her acting.
Speaker 5: Weird and having plans with friends, is there anything else
Speaker 5: that would make you feel like she's cheating?
Speaker 2: She doesn't seem really into me. Uh, you know, I
Speaker 2: try to be romantic or you know, just a partner,
Speaker 2: and she doesn't seem very interested. And I don't know,
Speaker 2: I feel like she's got to be getting that somewhere else.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Does she seem preoccupied with her phone or other people, not.
Speaker 2: Like particularly, but just not occupied with me at all?
Speaker 1: Do you know the people she's spending time with?
Speaker 2: I mean, I know some of them, but I suspect
Speaker 2: that I do, Like I know her friends, but she
Speaker 2: never really tells me who she's hanging out with, so
Speaker 2: I just assume it's some of her close girlfriends. I
Speaker 2: think about it, I'm like, oh, I don't know who
Speaker 2: she's going to hang out with, so it could be anyone.
Speaker 3: And you guys have been dating for about a year now,
Speaker 3: so I feel like that's long enough to know the
Speaker 3: people in her.
Speaker 2: Life, right, I agree?
Speaker 3: Did anything happen before that. I mean, were you guys arguing.
Speaker 2: Not particular arguments or anything like. I don't know. We'd
Speaker 2: kind of get in little arguments because I'd bring this
Speaker 2: up that like we don't do anything, we don't have
Speaker 2: fun together anymore, and she just kind of like rejects it,
Speaker 2: and then you know, we'll be more distant.
Speaker 5: Okay, So when she does go out with her friends,
Speaker 5: how ready does she get? Is she like all done
Speaker 5: up or she just regular?
Speaker 2: I mean, she always looks amazing, so I don't know,
Speaker 2: she doesn't she always puts like some effort into getting ready.
Speaker 2: I haven't noticed any particular like getting more ready or like,
Speaker 2: I mean she's she's definitely excited to leave the house
Speaker 2: and go out and do things, but not for me
Speaker 2: to accompany her.
Speaker 3: That is, that's not a fun feeling at all. No,
Speaker 3: So does she say she misses you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I mean like when we I mean she or she
Speaker 2: says it after I say it, like you know, like
Speaker 2: it kind of seems obligatory just to respond.
Speaker 3: It's the same I've been there before in your shoes,
Speaker 3: you know, where you say I miss you and then
Speaker 3: you're waiting for response and then they say I miss you,
Speaker 3: but you can just feel kind of like they're just
Speaker 3: saying it to be nice. Is that what it feels
Speaker 3: like to you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, that's exactly what it feels like.
Speaker 1: That happens to me when I say I love you.
Speaker 3: All Right, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 3: for you. Already told us what a grocery store she's
Speaker 3: a rewards card member at, and we'll call her and
Speaker 3: pretend to be from there and say that. Every single month,
Speaker 3: we choose one rewards card members, totally random, who gets
Speaker 3: free flowers delivered from our floral department. We'll see if
Speaker 3: she sends those to you or someone else.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and then will I be listening on that.
Speaker 3: Yes, you'll be on the phone so you can jump in.
Speaker 3: You know, if you hear something you either want to
Speaker 3: hear or don't want to hear, feel free to jump
Speaker 3: in whenever.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Yeah, I was gonna say I might not
Speaker 2: be able to resist.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, that's fine, go for it. Okay, we'll
Speaker 3: play a song. Come back, we get here to catch
Speaker 3: a cheater.
Speaker 6: Next, it's time to catch a Cheater Only on the
Speaker 6: Jubile Show.
Speaker 3: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 3: Daniel is on the phone, and Daniel's been dating his
Speaker 3: girlfriend Brooklyn for about a year now, and he thinks
Speaker 3: something might be going on. So we're about to call
Speaker 3: her and try to catch her if she is cheating,
Speaker 3: and hopefully Daniel find out that she's not. But real quick,
Speaker 3: refresh everybody's memory about what's going on.
Speaker 2: My girlfriend Brooklyn has been very distant lately, been dating
Speaker 2: for like a year, and I don't know. We used
Speaker 2: to have a lot of fun, hang on every weekend,
Speaker 2: go out together, laugh a lot, and that just doesn't
Speaker 2: happen anymore. It's been a couple of months, and I
Speaker 2: don't know. She's just always is going out as other
Speaker 2: plans that she's hanging out with her friends, but is
Speaker 2: very vague about that and doesn't tell me who, and
Speaker 2: she doesn't seem excited to do anything with me anymore,
Speaker 2: And I just feel like she's something I don't know.
Speaker 3: But if you do find out that she is cheating,
Speaker 3: trust me, there's a light at the end of the tunnel.
Speaker 2: Though.
Speaker 3: You'll find somebody who definitely, you know, one hundred percent
Speaker 3: of the time, wants to spend time with you, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, no questions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I want to hopefully believe that.
Speaker 5: And if she's not cheating, this is still not a
Speaker 5: way to treat a person, right, Yeah, then you can
Speaker 5: get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 3: You can find out what's going on, you know.
Speaker 2: H Yeah, that's what I really need.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, man, here we go. So we're gonna
Speaker 3: call her, pretend to be from the grocery store. She's
Speaker 3: a rewards card member at and say that. Every single month,
Speaker 3: we choose one lucky Rewards card member at random who
Speaker 3: gets free flowers delivered from our floral apartment. Well, see
Speaker 3: if she sends us to you or to someone else. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 3: here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Jordan calling from SO.
Speaker 3: I was looking for our rewards card member Brooklyn. Oh okay,
Speaker 3: I'm calling you today. This is not a marketing call.
Speaker 3: Please don't hang up. I'm calling you to say congratulations
Speaker 3: you're this month's big winner. Okay, where do I win
Speaker 3: the flowers?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: Every single month, we choose one Lucky Rewards car member
Speaker 3: at random that gets free flowers delivered from our floral department.
Speaker 3: We do deliver. Now, we just kind of revamped the
Speaker 3: whole place, reimagined it. So you've just won thirty six
Speaker 3: long stem red roses to be delivered anywhere in the
Speaker 3: United States that you want, to anybody that you want.
Speaker 3: It's absolutely free and it's actually a two hundred and
Speaker 3: forty seven dollars value. Congratulations.
Speaker 4: WHOA, thank you so much. Well, I know exactly who
Speaker 4: to send them to. I would like to send them
Speaker 4: to my mom.
Speaker 3: Okay. We are also doing a Love is in the
Speaker 3: Air package, so I can also throw in some flowers
Speaker 3: that you can deliver to somebody special like that in
Speaker 3: your life, if you know what I mean, the significant other.
Speaker 3: I can send it to your mom and also that.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, other than myself.
Speaker 7: I don't think that I have anybody that I would
Speaker 7: want to send flowers.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, really, there's no one in your life that
Speaker 6: you want to send flowers to.
Speaker 3: Brooklyn. That's your boyfriend, Daniel, who's on the phone. This
Speaker 3: is actually the Jubil Show. My name is jewbil.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Nina, Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3: And do a segment on the show where we try
Speaker 3: to see you.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Wait, I don't. I don't understand
Speaker 4: what's happening.
Speaker 2: Huge value of flowers and like no cost to you,
Speaker 2: and you just say no, there's no one that you
Speaker 2: want to send them to you? And have they even
Speaker 2: said that you can?
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, am I?
Speaker 3: Now we do a segment called to Catch a Cheater
Speaker 3: where if you suspect your significant other of being unfaithful,
Speaker 3: we see if they send flowers to you or to
Speaker 3: someone else.
Speaker 4: Okay, I can't believe you did this.
Speaker 1: Wow. Do you want to explain to her, Daniel, why
Speaker 1: you wanted to do this?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, because I don't know. You've been very
Speaker 2: distant lately, and you always say you're hanging out with
Speaker 2: your friends, but don't give me any details on who
Speaker 2: it is, and I just I feel like there's someone
Speaker 2: else and oh, I don't know. Man.
Speaker 7: Okay, So, Daniel, I really didn't want to do this
Speaker 7: like this, but like I mean, I thought that maybe
Speaker 7: you would want to talk to me in person.
Speaker 4: But I do.
Speaker 7: Realize that I've been distant yet yeah, because I feel
Speaker 7: like I need more space.
Speaker 4: You don't give me any space, and it's like you
Speaker 4: want to.
Speaker 7: Be together every day and I don't, like I want
Speaker 7: to have at least one or two days do whatever
Speaker 7: I want to do by myself and.
Speaker 2: Want to spend a little bit mont Lately, I feel
Speaker 2: like every day we don't hang out at all. Are
Speaker 2: you scaring?
Speaker 7: Oh my god, I totally disagree. It's like, whenever I
Speaker 7: want space, you just you want to be together, and
Speaker 7: I try to I try.
Speaker 4: To find space within being with you.
Speaker 7: So it's like I'm I'm always feeling like I need
Speaker 7: to pull away to even just get a little bit
Speaker 7: of space.
Speaker 2: And that space doesn't have anything to do with any other.
Speaker 4: Dude, No, absolutely not.
Speaker 7: I just want to go on a walk and watch
Speaker 7: the show that I want to watch, and.
Speaker 4: Read my books and you know everything that I like
Speaker 4: to do.
Speaker 7: You know me and I I'm beginning to think that
Speaker 7: maybe you just don't respect that or you don't understand it.
Speaker 7: That's why I've been trying to pull away because I
Speaker 7: haven't been able to confront you about it.
Speaker 4: To be real, I was hoping that you would get
Speaker 4: the hints.
Speaker 5: I mean, Brooklyn, do you see where he's coming from? Though, Like,
Speaker 5: I mean, all of your points are really valid. Space
Speaker 5: is so important in a relationship, but if you're not
Speaker 5: communicating with and he's like, well, where's she go? You're
Speaker 5: gonna you got to understand, he was kind of wondering
Speaker 5: where the heck you were.
Speaker 7: Well, to be real, I don't even know why you're
Speaker 7: a part of this conversation.
Speaker 4: You have no right to actually come in between me
Speaker 4: and my partner right now. Can you say anything.
Speaker 7: I don't know if you're a therapist or a psychologist
Speaker 7: or whatever, but I mean, I didn't ask for this.
Speaker 7: I didn't ask for this, and I'm just trying to
Speaker 7: communicate how I feel about this.
Speaker 2: I tried to get this information out of you for
Speaker 2: months now, and you have just left me in the
Speaker 2: dark and not wanted to talk about it. So I
Speaker 2: figured somebody else could maybe get you too, and I
Speaker 2: was right, And now you're being defensive about it. So
Speaker 2: that makes me feel like you're hiding something.
Speaker 7: Well, I think whatever you want to think, but I
Speaker 7: am just living my life and you know, wanting some space.
Speaker 7: So I guess this makes me feel like I really
Speaker 7: can't trust you to put me on the spot in
Speaker 7: front of everybody who's listening.
Speaker 4: To this radio station.
Speaker 1: Apparently easy to me.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you you are now telling me a
Speaker 6: lot of things that make somewhat sense that you could
Speaker 6: have just told me that, Like nineteen times, I asked
Speaker 6: you what's wrong.
Speaker 2: And you just said nothing and said you're going to
Speaker 2: hang out with your friends. And that just leads me
Speaker 2: to think every night about what's happening, and I have
Speaker 2: no idea what's going on in your brain.
Speaker 4: Well, you're just so clingy, and I can't. I can't
Speaker 4: do this anymore, Daniel.
Speaker 7: I didn't expect to do this on the radio, but
Speaker 7: you're free to go and be with whoever you want
Speaker 7: to be with twenty four hours a day, seven.
Speaker 4: Days a week.
Speaker 7: Because I need to have a break from this and
Speaker 7: move on and I have my space. I'm breaking up
Speaker 7: with you right now so that we both can figure
Speaker 7: out our lives separately.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 3: She hung up.
Speaker 1: Daniel, Wow you okay?
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I don't know. I have some answers.
Speaker 1: I guess, m Daniel.
Speaker 5: There is going to be somebody that wants to spend
Speaker 5: all of their time with you, for sure, and I'm
Speaker 5: sorry this is going to take a second for you,
Speaker 5: but she's out there.
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