WEBVTT - Betrayal Weekly: EP 10 - Donielle, Part 2

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<v Speaker 1>The only way in and out was through a steel

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<v Speaker 1>trap door with a lock on the outside, in a

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<v Speaker 1>closet hidden under I think it was a dresser or something.

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<v Speaker 1>He walled it off with cement blocks and soundproofing. You

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<v Speaker 1>would only know it was there if you knew it

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<v Speaker 1>was there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Andrea Gunning and this is Betrayal, a show about

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<v Speaker 2>the people we trust the most and the deceptions that

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<v Speaker 2>change everything. This is part two of Donnielle's story. If

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<v Speaker 2>you haven't heard part one, you should go back and

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<v Speaker 2>listen to that first. Donnielle Oliver Chauve woke up in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of the night on February eighth, twenty seventeen,

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<v Speaker 2>to find her house swarmed with police and FBI agents.

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<v Speaker 1>Something's happening and I have no idea why there's state

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<v Speaker 1>police in my house with a gunpoint at me. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think at that point they were suspecting me. They

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<v Speaker 1>thought I was involved, but.

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<v Speaker 2>A suspect in what Danielle would soon find out. Chand Skipper,

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<v Speaker 2>her husband of nearly twenty years and the father of

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<v Speaker 2>their six children, hadn't come home that night. He said

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<v Speaker 2>he'd been renovating one of their rental properties. The police

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<v Speaker 2>were screaming questions at her about where Chad was, asking

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<v Speaker 2>if she had any hiding places in the house, and

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<v Speaker 2>most confusing of all, the police were asking about an

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<v Speaker 2>elderly couple who taught Sunday school at their church.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you asking me questions about them? And where

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<v Speaker 1>is my husband?

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<v Speaker 2>The police wouldn't give her any information about what was

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<v Speaker 2>happening or why they were at her house, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was clear that whatever it was, it was urgent. The

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<v Speaker 2>police took her in and began a long interrogation.

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<v Speaker 1>I went into the interrogation room and they started asking

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<v Speaker 1>me questions. They asked me about this couple, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking, that's a where question out of the blue.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you ask me specifically about these people. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we know them for sure, We've known them for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time.

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<v Speaker 2>They were also asking questions about the family's finances, questions

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<v Speaker 2>Donielle just didn't have the answers to.

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<v Speaker 1>I was shaking. I was just so confused, like why

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<v Speaker 1>are you asking me this? All I was worried about

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<v Speaker 1>was his safety, like if he was still alive. It

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even dawn on me that it could be what

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<v Speaker 1>it was.

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<v Speaker 2>After hours of interrogation, the police let Danielle go. She

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<v Speaker 2>went to a friend's house, where her kids were waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for her. She repeatedly tried to get in touch with

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<v Speaker 2>Chad without any reply. Then first thing the next morning,

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<v Speaker 2>her phone rang. It was Chad's father.

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<v Speaker 1>He asked me, do you know where Chad is? And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, no, do you? I said, I don't know anything.

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<v Speaker 1>If you know anything, just tell me what's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to know what's wrong with my husband

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<v Speaker 1>and where he is. And his dad just said there

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<v Speaker 1>was a rumor going around that this couple has been kidnapped,

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<v Speaker 1>and the rumor is also that Chad did it. My

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<v Speaker 1>brain was not registering. It was like, wait, what now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's impossible. This is Chad we're talking about? That rumor's

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<v Speaker 1>wrong And I was thinking, there's just no way that

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually my husband. I know my husband would never

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<v Speaker 1>do anything like this. That's not who he is.

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<v Speaker 2>Unbeknownst to anyone, that couple from their church had been

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<v Speaker 2>missing for three days. We're not saying their names because

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<v Speaker 2>Donielle wants to respect their privacy. Before this, they were friends,

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<v Speaker 2>and Donille believes that their story is their families to

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<v Speaker 2>tell just like her story is hers to tell, So

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<v Speaker 2>for this episode, she's going to call them his victims.

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<v Speaker 1>I had known them since I had met Chad. He

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<v Speaker 1>had known them since the time he was born because

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<v Speaker 1>they were part of his church. They were our Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>school teachers. We would often go over to their house

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes it would have like a pool party. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it would be a Bible study. So we knew them

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<v Speaker 1>really well. They were amazing people.

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<v Speaker 2>The day before police raided Danielle's house, a woman had

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<v Speaker 2>walked into a bank and asked for a cashier's check

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<v Speaker 2>for three hundred and fifty thousand dollars from her own

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<v Speaker 2>savings account. Before the teller cut the check, the woman

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<v Speaker 2>slipped her note she was being held for ransom. Her

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<v Speaker 2>captor was waiting down the block with her husband in

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<v Speaker 2>the trunk. If she didn't return to the car with

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<v Speaker 2>the check, her kidnapper said he would kill her husband.

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<v Speaker 2>She needed to walk out of that bank check in hand,

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<v Speaker 2>so they gave it to her and let her go,

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<v Speaker 2>and as soon as she walked out of the door,

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<v Speaker 2>the teller called the police. That call initiated had a

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<v Speaker 2>state wide search for the kidnapped couple and their captor. Immediately,

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<v Speaker 2>it became the top story on the local news.

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<v Speaker 3>It all started just before five pm on Wednesday, when

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<v Speaker 3>the Sheriff's office received a call from First Trust in

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<v Speaker 3>Savings Bank in Albany.

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<v Speaker 4>Investigators are working with the FBI, state Police at local agencies.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a case, they say, that will shock this community.

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<v Speaker 2>The morning after the raid, Danielle was still in the

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<v Speaker 2>dark about what was happening. She was reeling and desperately

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get in touch with her husband. She didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to believe the wild theory that Chad could have

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<v Speaker 2>kidnapped this elderly couple. That was until she saw his

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<v Speaker 2>picture on the news.

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<v Speaker 1>My whole world got flipped upside down at that moment

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<v Speaker 1>when I saw his picture in the police update and

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<v Speaker 1>what he had done story. In Whiteside County.

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<v Speaker 4>Investigators say they've never seen anything quite like The.

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<v Speaker 2>Man accused of kidnapping a couple at gunpoint from Erie,

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<v Speaker 2>Illinois is facing four felony charges in connection to the kidnapping.

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<v Speaker 1>Chad Skipper handcuffed the couple to their bed and threatened

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<v Speaker 1>to shoot them with his gun if they didn't pay

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<v Speaker 1>him three hundred and fifty thousand dollars. At that point,

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<v Speaker 1>all I knew was that he abducted somebody. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>where I just broke down and started crying my eyes

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<v Speaker 1>out and fell to the floor and was just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do.

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<v Speaker 2>In that moment, she understood why the police woke her

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<v Speaker 2>up in the middle of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>When the police knocked down my door asking if I

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<v Speaker 1>had any hiding areas in the house. I'm sure they

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<v Speaker 1>were looking for the people that he abducted. They were

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to know if there was a place in that

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<v Speaker 1>house where they could be hidden. As far as they know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm know where the kidnap victims are because I'm his wife.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, most people would assume that the wife would know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had no clue.

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<v Speaker 2>Over the following days and weeks, Danielle discovered the full

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<v Speaker 2>extent of her husband's horrifying crimes. This is what she learned.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple days before the police knocked down my door.

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<v Speaker 1>He must have gone to their home. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>what the sledgehammer was for. To break into their home.

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<v Speaker 1>He had my daughter duct tape it with black duct

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<v Speaker 1>tape so that the yellow handle wouldn't be seen in

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<v Speaker 1>the dark. I heard that he had a voice changer

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<v Speaker 1>and that he was all dressed in black. And I

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<v Speaker 1>also heard that he broke into their home and sat

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<v Speaker 1>in their kitchen for several hours before going upstairs to

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<v Speaker 1>wake them.

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<v Speaker 2>He just sat in their kitchen for hours in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle of the night before he finally entered the bedroom

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<v Speaker 2>where the elderly couple was sleeping.

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<v Speaker 1>He tased the guy and threatened his wife and then

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<v Speaker 1>said where is your God now? And took them from

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<v Speaker 1>their home forcibly. They didn't even have a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>get their clothes on. And I know that he had

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<v Speaker 1>told them that it wasn't just him, like he threatened them,

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<v Speaker 1>that it was like a group of people who were

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<v Speaker 1>doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>After the police showed up at the bank, they called

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<v Speaker 2>in the FBI, who traced the cashier's check and found

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<v Speaker 2>the couple's names in address. When they searched their home,

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<v Speaker 2>they discovered signs of forced entry, evidence of a deployed taser,

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<v Speaker 2>and small drops of blood in the bedroom, but the

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<v Speaker 2>house was eerily quiet. No one was home. In fact,

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<v Speaker 2>by the time the police were alerted, no one had

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<v Speaker 2>heard from the couple In three days.

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<v Speaker 1>He had her call around and tell a false story

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<v Speaker 1>about them deciding to go on vacation. I think he

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<v Speaker 1>even took their car to the airport.

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<v Speaker 2>While Chad was committing this elaborate crime, Donielle was at

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<v Speaker 2>home taking care of their kids, going about her business

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<v Speaker 2>just as usual, completely unaware that her husband had violently

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<v Speaker 2>kidnapped their family friends and was holding them for ransom.

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<v Speaker 2>But where was Chad and where was he holding the couple?

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<v Speaker 2>Donielle had no idea. When the police were finally alerted,

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<v Speaker 2>they knew time was of the essence. They relied on

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<v Speaker 2>the FBI and state police to use all resources possible

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<v Speaker 2>to find the missing couple. Ransom kidnapping cases like this

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<v Speaker 2>often end in tragedy, especially considering the money was already exchanged.

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<v Speaker 2>They were running out of time. With each passing hour,

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<v Speaker 2>the search grew increasingly urgent. Then the FBI got a

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<v Speaker 2>tip about a car match the description of the one

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<v Speaker 2>scene leaving the bank with the kidnap victims, a silver

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<v Speaker 2>nineteen ninety Chevy Caprice. But Donielle didn't know anything about

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<v Speaker 2>a Chevy Caprice, so maybe they had the wrong guy.

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<v Speaker 2>The police tracked the car down, but when they went

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<v Speaker 2>to pull it over, the driver sped up. It was

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<v Speaker 2>all over the local news.

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<v Speaker 3>Around four thirty am, the car crashed here outside Port Byron.

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<v Speaker 2>We tried to effect a stop on that vehicle and

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<v Speaker 2>they took up at had rate of speed. The police

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<v Speaker 2>approached the crash vehicle and found that the driver was

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<v Speaker 2>indeed Chad Skipper. He was injured but alive and arrested

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<v Speaker 2>on the spot in connection with the kidnapping. Law enforcement

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<v Speaker 2>was hoping to find the victims with Chad alive in

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<v Speaker 2>the trunk of his car, but no one else was

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<v Speaker 2>with him. Instead, the police found clear plastic painters, tarps,

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<v Speaker 2>a saw tape, and a shovel. Now that Chad was arrested,

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<v Speaker 2>the only priority was finding the missing couple. There were

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<v Speaker 2>still a few places the police hadn't searched Chad's rental properties.

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<v Speaker 2>After he was arrested, Chad gave police the address where

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<v Speaker 2>he said the couple was being held.

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<v Speaker 1>When he was arrested, I thought that house was still rented,

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<v Speaker 1>like I thought people were in the house renting it

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<v Speaker 1>from us.

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<v Speaker 2>When police showed up, it looked like a construction zone.

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<v Speaker 2>The services were covered in sawdust and power tools. The

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<v Speaker 2>doors were taking off their hinges, and there was a

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<v Speaker 2>ladder in the middle of the living room, but it

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<v Speaker 2>also looked like someone had been squatting there. There was

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<v Speaker 2>trash everywhere, plates of half eaten food, electronic wires and

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<v Speaker 2>cables dangled from the outlets. Police searched every room, but

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<v Speaker 2>no one seemed to be in the house. Then they

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<v Speaker 2>double checked the bedroom, where they took a closer look

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<v Speaker 2>at a computer monitor laying on the floor. It appeared

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<v Speaker 2>to show a surveillance feed six live feed images of

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<v Speaker 2>a windowless room where two figures were lying on a

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<v Speaker 2>mattress covered by blankets. On the wall next to them

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<v Speaker 2>were hooks and shackles. There was a secret room somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>in this house, and Chad's victims were in there. The

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<v Speaker 2>night of Chad's arrest, police began searching one of his

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<v Speaker 2>rental properties for a secret room, a dungeon where he

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<v Speaker 2>was holding two people captive. From what they could see

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<v Speaker 2>on the surveillance feed, it was a windowless room somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>in the house. The couple was lying motionless on a mattress.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't clear if they were alive, but then one

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<v Speaker 2>of the FBI agents moved a dresser in the closet

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<v Speaker 2>and lifted up a piece of carpeting to reveal a

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<v Speaker 2>locked steel hatch.

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<v Speaker 1>And the only entry and exit to that dungeon room

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<v Speaker 1>was through a steel trap door with a lock on

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<v Speaker 1>the outside in a closet hidden under the dresser or something.

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<v Speaker 1>He walled it off with cement blocks and soundproofing. You

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<v Speaker 1>would only know it was there if you knew it

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<v Speaker 1>was there.

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<v Speaker 2>Police used boltcutters to open the door. They found an

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<v Speaker 2>eight foot drop into a dark, windowless room, and they

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<v Speaker 2>went in. That's where they discovered the couple, miraculously still alive.

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<v Speaker 2>They had been tortured and chained. Chad said he had

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<v Speaker 2>people watching their kids and grandkids, so if they tried

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<v Speaker 2>to escape or get help, he would kill them.

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<v Speaker 1>They were in that dungeon for a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even imagine thinking that you're going to die,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that your children are going to die, hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>on this thing, your hands up in the air for

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<v Speaker 1>so many hours that you're basically shaking and can't even stand,

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<v Speaker 1>and having their kids and grandkids threatened.

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<v Speaker 2>Once he got the money, he was planning to kill them.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what's he going to do? Go? Oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to let you go now, forgive me. Everything's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>How else could it end?

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<v Speaker 2>And judging by the contents of his car, it seemed

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<v Speaker 2>like he meant it. This what if still haunts Danielle.

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<v Speaker 2>Chad was charged with felony home invasion, aggravated kidnapping, an

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<v Speaker 2>unlawful restraint. His bail was set at a million dollars overnight.

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle had to reckon with the fact that her husband

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<v Speaker 2>of nearly two decades and the father of her children

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<v Speaker 2>was capable of a violent crime. In addition to processing

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<v Speaker 2>that shock, she didn't understand why was it all for

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<v Speaker 2>the money.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that we were having financial trouble. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a penny pincher, so I don't know where all the

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<v Speaker 1>money was going, and I don't know why he needed that.

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<v Speaker 2>To answer that question, Donielle started looking through Chad's basement office. There,

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<v Speaker 2>she made a series of shocking discoveries. First, why he

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<v Speaker 2>targeted the people he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He had gotten a hold of their finances and knew

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<v Speaker 1>how much they had in the bank because he had

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<v Speaker 1>asked them to be clients of his for his fake

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<v Speaker 1>financial business.

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<v Speaker 2>His fake financial business. She also found out that he

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<v Speaker 2>was never actually a certified financial advisor or planner, so

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<v Speaker 2>what did he do for a living? From what she

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<v Speaker 2>gathered in his office, he charmed elderly people into letting

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<v Speaker 2>him be their financial advisor, where he would skim from

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<v Speaker 2>their accounts for years. In fact, after he was arrested,

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<v Speaker 2>his own parents suited him for stealing over four hundred

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars while he claimed to serve as their financial advisor.

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<v Speaker 2>But not only did he steal from his own parents,

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<v Speaker 2>he also stole from his grandmother.

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<v Speaker 1>It was around that same amount, something like three hundred thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he felt like he needed to steal that from

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<v Speaker 1>his victims in order to repay the money that he

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<v Speaker 1>had stolen from his grandma.

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<v Speaker 2>He never confessed to this, but it added up for Danielle.

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<v Speaker 2>What never made sense, though, was the construction of the dungeon.

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<v Speaker 1>I found the plans and bills from it in his office.

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<v Speaker 2>Chad had been hiring a contractor to build the dungeon

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<v Speaker 2>piece by piece over the past two years.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even imagine how much that cost. It had

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<v Speaker 1>it been thousands upon thousands, and I don't think the

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<v Speaker 1>person who did it ever got paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, the shocking fact that he built a dungeon to

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<v Speaker 2>hold the kidnapping victims kept the story in the headlines

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<v Speaker 2>for months.

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<v Speaker 1>Internewsad exclusive Tonight investigative reporter Chris Miner shows us a

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<v Speaker 1>photo of that actual room where it's believed the couple

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<v Speaker 1>was held against their will.

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle never slept another night in the big house that

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<v Speaker 2>she and Chad had shared with their kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not want the kids to be back in

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<v Speaker 1>the house, knowing that he had done that, knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>he was capable of kidnapping people that he's known for

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<v Speaker 1>his whole life. I didn't want them back into that house,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't want to live in that house anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>She and her kids moved into her parents' home while

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<v Speaker 2>she got her bearings. For the first few months after

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<v Speaker 2>Chad's arrest, Danielle's dad would accompany her to the old

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<v Speaker 2>house to continue excavating Chad's office. The police had already

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<v Speaker 2>collected the evidence they needed, and she was left to

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<v Speaker 2>clean up the rest.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day that we went into his office, there was

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<v Speaker 1>another thing. Oh he lied about this next day. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he lied about that too. I remember at one point

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<v Speaker 1>we were both looking at each other on our way

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<v Speaker 1>to the house, thinking, I wonder what else we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to find in his office today? What else could there be?

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<v Speaker 2>There was insurance fraud.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things we found in his office was

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<v Speaker 1>that he actually claimed that my wedding ring was lost

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<v Speaker 1>and took insurance out for it. So even our wedding

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<v Speaker 1>ring he lied about.

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<v Speaker 2>There was credit card fraud.

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<v Speaker 1>He had fraudulently signed credit cards in his dad's name.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gotten credit cards in my name. He had forged

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<v Speaker 1>my name.

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<v Speaker 2>She also found lies about herself, stories she'd never heard before.

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<v Speaker 1>We found several papers that had conversations written down on

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<v Speaker 1>them that had lies about me as far as like

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go have a brain surgery in Minnesota

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<v Speaker 1>or somewhere. It just, you know, lies like that in

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<v Speaker 1>order to gain control or gain sympathy from the people

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<v Speaker 1>that he was talking to. There were just like conversations

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<v Speaker 1>written down on a piece of paper. Some of them

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<v Speaker 1>were to credit card companies because it was with credit

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<v Speaker 1>card stuff. Some of it was two different potential clients

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<v Speaker 1>that he was going to have.

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<v Speaker 2>And some things she discovered were just suspicious.

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<v Speaker 1>Hiking boots that he never wore, a wet suit that

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<v Speaker 1>was still wet and had a little bit of on

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<v Speaker 1>the cuff, and it's like, he didn't never go scuba diving,

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<v Speaker 1>so why does he have a wetsuits? And where would

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<v Speaker 1>he have used the wetsuit in the Mississippi River. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>just strange things that we never found an answer to.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the most haunting things she found in his

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<v Speaker 2>office was a set of life insurance policies on everyone

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<v Speaker 2>in their family, policies she never knew existed.

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<v Speaker 1>He had life insurance policies out on me and the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I think mine was a million and I think my

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<v Speaker 1>kids were a quarter of a million each. It messes

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<v Speaker 1>with your mind really hard. I never felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was threatened or my kids were threatened for our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>It was only after his arrest and when we started

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<v Speaker 1>going through the stuff in his office that I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA If I had confronted him about any of this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>if I had known about it, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>would be here.

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<v Speaker 2>Donielle didn't want his explanations. She cooperated with the police

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<v Speaker 2>and prosecutors and gave them any evidence they needed.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things that the police told me is

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<v Speaker 1>that in all of their cases they said they have

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<v Speaker 1>never come across a case that was so kind of ride.

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<v Speaker 1>With the amount of evidence for this guy, I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thought he was so smart.

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<v Speaker 2>She sent him one letter in jail where she said

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<v Speaker 2>she would be praying for him but needed to.

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<v Speaker 5>Cut off communication.

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<v Speaker 2>After that, she filed for divorce, but letters from Chad

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<v Speaker 2>never stopped coming. Every few weeks there'd be that distinctive

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<v Speaker 2>envelope in their mailbox.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time I got a letter from him, my whole

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<v Speaker 1>body would just shake. I would get sweaty palms, hard

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<v Speaker 1>to breathe. But as soon as I saw that envelope,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, not another one.

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<v Speaker 2>She never replied, hoping his letters would finally stop coming.

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<v Speaker 2>But one day she got a letter that was different

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<v Speaker 2>from the others.

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<v Speaker 1>On the outside of the envelope, it was not addressed

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<v Speaker 1>as him. It was addressed as Eloisa May. And that

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<v Speaker 1>threw me because I'm like, well, this is definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>letter from that jail, but Eloisa May is kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know in Eloisa May, and there was no

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<v Speaker 1>like return address, it was just the name. And so

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<v Speaker 1>when I opened it and it wasn't in his writing either,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking, Okay, that's weird too. There's something off.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole letter is written in this weird southern accent.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was reading Huckleberry Finn.

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<v Speaker 2>This is how the letter began.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you there, missye? My name is Eloise and May.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know me, honey child, but maybe we can

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<v Speaker 1>remedy that with this here letter.

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<v Speaker 2>While Chad sat in jail, Danielle was trying to rebuild

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<v Speaker 2>her life. That's when she began to get strange letters

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<v Speaker 2>in the mail. The return address just said the name

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<v Speaker 2>Eloise A.

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<v Speaker 1>May.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what the letters were about.

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<v Speaker 1>If this fake character who supposedly lives I think in

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<v Speaker 1>Arkansas or something, but she moved to Illinois because her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter is in Illinois. She had a stroke and so

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<v Speaker 1>now she's in the hospital and she came across my

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<v Speaker 1>story and she starts telling me how her husband was

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<v Speaker 1>an alcoholic and at one point he physically abused her,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she left him and went to live with

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<v Speaker 1>his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Finally, Chad or Eloisa May got to the point.

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<v Speaker 1>She ended up deciding to get a divorce because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't want to do with his abusive, addictive issues.

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<v Speaker 1>He ended up killing himself and because of her decision

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<v Speaker 1>to get a divorce, her daughter and son are having

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<v Speaker 1>issues in their lives and they take the blame for

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<v Speaker 1>him dying. I felt like it was a threat. If

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<v Speaker 1>you divorce me, I'm going to kill myself, and your

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<v Speaker 1>kids are gonna feel like it was their fault. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the feeling I got from the letter.

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<v Speaker 2>The letters were four or five six pages long, written

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<v Speaker 2>in a tiny meat handwriting that didn't look like Chad's

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<v Speaker 2>at all. She assumed that either he was disguising his

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<v Speaker 2>handwriting or got someone in the jail to write it

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<v Speaker 2>for him while he dictated. Either way, the character Chad

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<v Speaker 2>was putting on was so transparently manipulative.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't directly say how can you divorce me, but

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<v Speaker 1>through the character of Eloisa, may was basically saying that.

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<v Speaker 2>She suspects that he made the character Southern to try

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<v Speaker 2>to pull on Danielle's heartstrings because her grandmother was from

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<v Speaker 2>the South.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit, he goes, I feel the Good Lord

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<v Speaker 1>telling me to do something, and I got a little eager.

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<v Speaker 1>Danielle sugar and May I declare Darlin. That is one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most beautiful and unique names I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Something we have in common, sweetie.

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<v Speaker 2>Chad also used his extensive knowledge of the Bible to

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<v Speaker 2>try and make Danielle question her decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>He basically has a sermon in there and quotes Bible

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<v Speaker 1>passages about God hates divorce and gives me examples of

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<v Speaker 1>different characters in the Bible who wanted to get a

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<v Speaker 1>divorce but didn't because it's not the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>The eloise and may letters almost amused her, but they

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<v Speaker 2>also felt like an insult. Did he really think she

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<v Speaker 2>would fall for this?

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<v Speaker 1>I think he had a very very low opinion of

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<v Speaker 1>me art still does. I struggle with that with my

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<v Speaker 1>marriage too, because he treated me like a child.

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<v Speaker 2>She kept the Aloise in May letters to remind herself

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<v Speaker 2>of just how delusional and scheming Chad really was. A

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<v Speaker 2>year after his arrest, Chad pled guilty, but before he

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<v Speaker 2>faced a sentencing hearing for the kidnapping, they had their

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<v Speaker 2>divorce trial.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually did not have a lawyer to do those proceedings.

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<v Speaker 1>He was pro se and so he questioned me on

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<v Speaker 1>the stand, which was really really nerve wreaking.

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle was awarded full custody, and shortly after she attended

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<v Speaker 2>her ex husband's sentencing hearing. It started with the victim's statements.

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<v Speaker 1>There were no dry eyes in that courtroom. There are

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<v Speaker 1>amazing people.

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<v Speaker 2>The judge was done by Chad's crime, especially the premeditation

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<v Speaker 2>that had gone into building the dungeon and the torture

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<v Speaker 2>the victims injured.

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<v Speaker 1>From what the judge said when he sentenced him, he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted people to know this is not acceptable in society,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's heinous. You can't just do that type of

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<v Speaker 1>a crime and get away with it.

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<v Speaker 2>The judge gave Chad the maximum sentence possible.

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<v Speaker 3>Today Chad Skipper, in a packed courtroom, listened as he

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<v Speaker 3>awaited his jail sentence, sixty years, the rest of his

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<v Speaker 3>life in prison.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking he was only going to get twenty years,

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<v Speaker 1>and so when it was sixty, I was surprised.

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<v Speaker 2>Surprised, but grateful. She sees how dangerous Chad is and

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want him anywhere near her or their children ever again.

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<v Speaker 2>She says she forgives him, but forgiveness can include boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a big, big problem with some of the

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<v Speaker 1>ways that Christian pastors portray forgiveness that every marriage, one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent of marriages can be resolved and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that is very very untrue and very very dangerous to

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<v Speaker 1>say if there's an abuse happening, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 2>Danielle decided to stay in that small town of Eerie, Illinois.

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<v Speaker 2>Chad's victims still live there too, and Donielle has seen

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<v Speaker 2>them around town.

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<v Speaker 1>I have seen them, Yeah, I've seen them seeing their kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I smile at them when they see me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they recognize me or not. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if they see me when I see them.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>She's even thought about reaching out to apologize for the

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:47.120
<v Speaker 2>pain her husband caused and to grieve with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to talk to them directly. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>because when I was speaking with my lawyer and also

0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:59.880
<v Speaker 1>the police even said something about don't reach out. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've I just kind of like took a step back.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what their thoughts are towards me,

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<v Speaker 1>if they feel like I was part of it, or

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<v Speaker 1>if they know that I had no idea what was

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<v Speaker 1>going on. One of the reasons why I haven't reached

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<v Speaker 1>out is because I really don't want to cause them

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<v Speaker 1>more pain.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people in their community just didn't believe that Danielle

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<v Speaker 2>was in the dark about her husband's double life.

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<v Speaker 1>When you first was arrested, there were some posts on

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook about it. People were saying, oh she knew, and

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<v Speaker 1>all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Around town, She's noticed that people don't smile and wave

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<v Speaker 2>as much as they used to.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't had anybody approach me and accuse me of anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just, you know, when you're walking around in a

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<v Speaker 1>small town sometimes you get looks, just kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>weird side look like I know who you are, don't

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<v Speaker 1>look at me, don't interact with me.

0:29:56.000 --> 0:29:59.040
<v Speaker 2>She's had to reckon with blaming herself for not knowing

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<v Speaker 2>who her husband actually was and what he was really

0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:05.440
<v Speaker 2>doing all those nights he claimed to be in the

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<v Speaker 2>basement working.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't have known. He didn't show that part of

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<v Speaker 1>himself to me. All I know is the life that

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>he had with me and our kids. That's all I saw.

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 1>He was able to do everything else completely separate. I

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:25.960
<v Speaker 1>can't blame myself for something that he did without me knowing.

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<v Speaker 2>As part of her healing process, she's learned about people

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<v Speaker 2>like Chad and the tactics they use, tactics that felt

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<v Speaker 2>very familiar.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was doing my studies of narcissistic behavior. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that really spoke to me was a

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>thing called word salad, and I totally was like, Yep,

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what it was, just words that twist. Anything

0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>that I said, he would twist it around and jumbled

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:55.920
<v Speaker 1>it up like a salad and then shoot it back

0:30:55.960 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>at me. And my mind would just be like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what's going on.

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:03.640
<v Speaker 2>These kinds of things helped her understand how he had

0:31:03.640 --> 0:31:07.479
<v Speaker 2>subtly manipulated her for so long, but that didn't ease

0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 2>the self blame or the sense that she couldn't trust

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 2>anyone around her or even herself.

0:31:14.480 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 1>If my husband can pull the wool over my eyes

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<v Speaker 1>so easily, and I thought that he was an amazing person,

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean that this amazing person can also pull

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<v Speaker 1>the wool over my eyes? Like? What are they actually

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 1>behind closed doors? Are they the person that they are

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 1>presenting to me as a loving brother, a loving friend?

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:41.200
<v Speaker 1>But then when we are not in each other's presence,

0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 1>are they somebody else? Like? Okay, this pastor seems like

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 1>he is everything that a pastor should be. But now

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 1>that I've been through what I've been through. Is he

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<v Speaker 1>who he says he is or is this just his

0:31:57.800 --> 0:31:59.360
<v Speaker 1>presentation of who he says he is.

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<v Speaker 2>For Donielle, trusting the wrong person building a life with

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:06.520
<v Speaker 2>them left her all alone and a single parent.

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<v Speaker 1>All the weight of the responsibility is now mine because

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I know I had six kids and I had to

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<v Speaker 1>support them Now.

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 2>She found work as an online English tutor, and she

0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 2>built a business writing and selling knitting patterns.

0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 1>My business is called knitting nicely but then nicely, spoke

0:32:28.880 --> 0:32:32.480
<v Speaker 1>with a Cayen, I'm really proud that I have a

0:32:32.520 --> 0:32:34.760
<v Speaker 1>business that I absolutely love and enjoy.

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:39.520
<v Speaker 2>After her divorce, she decided that she was done with

0:32:39.680 --> 0:32:40.960
<v Speaker 2>romantic relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>My whole view of the loving, caring relationship of marriage

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<v Speaker 1>got trashed. Even when I would see couples in church

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:54.600
<v Speaker 1>or shopping holding hands, or I would see a post

0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 1>about somebody you celebrating an anniversary, it would kind of

0:32:58.240 --> 0:33:02.640
<v Speaker 1>turn my stomach. It just got ew to me because

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<v Speaker 1>of what I went through, you know, having trust in

0:33:05.200 --> 0:33:08.520
<v Speaker 1>someone and then having that trust completely destroyed. I didn't

0:33:08.560 --> 0:33:10.680
<v Speaker 1>want to go through what I went through again. I

0:33:10.720 --> 0:33:13.200
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to put my kids through that again. So

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:15.800
<v Speaker 1>for me, I was like, Okay, I am going to

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 1>do this single mom thing and we're going to make it.

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:23.920
<v Speaker 2>But then, but then she saw a post on Facebook

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<v Speaker 2>from her high school boyfriend Billy, the one who proposed

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:30.680
<v Speaker 2>to her thirty years ago. They'd since drifted apart and

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:34.040
<v Speaker 2>hadn't talked in nearly a decade, but in his post,

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 2>she saw that his fiance had recently passed away, so

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:39.720
<v Speaker 2>she reached out to lend support.

0:33:40.480 --> 0:33:43.880
<v Speaker 1>We were just like being there for each other, you know.

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 1>I kind of wanted to uplift him and make him

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<v Speaker 1>come out of the hole that I felt like he

0:33:49.680 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 1>was about to go into, just to have somebody to

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.400
<v Speaker 1>talk to, to be able to laugh with. But then

0:33:56.440 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 1>the conversations got longer, and then we ended up staying

0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:03.640
<v Speaker 1>up all night talking over Messenger, and my daughter was

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.440
<v Speaker 1>starting to say, who is this that you're talking to

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:09.759
<v Speaker 1>all this time? And I think she knew before I

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:11.760
<v Speaker 1>knew that I was starting to fall in love again.

0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:15.439
<v Speaker 2>Danielle and Billy planned a FaceTime call where they would

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:17.440
<v Speaker 2>see each other for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>In years, and as soon as I saw his smiling face,

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I knew that was that was it. I was going

0:34:24.640 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 1>to pursue that relationship for sure. The trust issue was

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<v Speaker 1>not even an issue in the situation because I had

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<v Speaker 1>known him from when I was a teenager. There wasn't

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:41.560
<v Speaker 1>that is he really who he says he is? Question?

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<v Speaker 2>So they started dating again.

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<v Speaker 1>Both of us were like, this is weird. How could

0:34:47.680 --> 0:34:50.920
<v Speaker 1>this actually be happening again? Donnie and Billy two point zero.

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<v Speaker 2>After a few months of dating again, they got married

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<v Speaker 2>surrounded by their families at the Thanksgiving table.

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<v Speaker 1>So we had Thanksgiving dinner, and then between Thanksgiving dinner

0:35:03.760 --> 0:35:07.320
<v Speaker 1>and dessert is when the wedding happened. Yeah, it was

0:35:07.360 --> 0:35:09.879
<v Speaker 1>really cool. I loved it. Wouldn't have it any other way.

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<v Speaker 2>We end all of our weekly episodes with the same question,

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<v Speaker 2>why did you want to tell your story?

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<v Speaker 1>Knowing that you're not alone is so helpful. That's huge

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:25.480
<v Speaker 1>for people who've gone through stuff like that. That was

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<v Speaker 1>one of the main things that helped me. Knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>people have actually survived it and are happy again, that

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<v Speaker 1>was really huge. My main reason for wanting to tell

0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:41.399
<v Speaker 1>my story is to give people hope that even though

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<v Speaker 1>you may feel like your world is upside down and

0:35:45.520 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 1>it can never become upside up again, there is a

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<v Speaker 1>light at the tunnel. Maybe really tiny and small might

0:35:51.880 --> 0:35:58.680
<v Speaker 1>be a little tiny speck, but there is a light.

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<v Speaker 5>On the next episode of Betrayal, he said, yesterday I

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<v Speaker 5>turned myself in and I will be going to prison.

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<v Speaker 1>And when he said the word prison, I about died.

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