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Speaker 1: Stocker.

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Speaker 2: Coworker Creep tries to catch me cheating, but he doesn't

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Speaker 2: know my dirty polyamorous secret.

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Speaker 3: My secret is I everybody.

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Speaker 1: Hey, let's go.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like like like the thing, like they

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Speaker 4: can't arrest all of us, Like, you can't catch me

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Speaker 4: cheating if I cheat with.

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Speaker 2: Everyone and it's legal. I'm imagining like like Oprah, like

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Speaker 2: you get a car, you get a car, you get

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Speaker 2: to be cheated on, you get to be cheated on.

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Speaker 1: But I guess if it's polyamory, then it's not cheating.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's we're I guess we're about to find out.

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Speaker 4: We're about to find out.

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Speaker 2: I thirty two female, am in a poly relationship with Ruby,

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend of eleven years, and Louis my boyfriend of

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Speaker 2: ten years.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, dude, that's a long polyamorous relationship.

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Speaker 3: Clue to them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the three of us all date each other and

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Speaker 2: are closed off to dating anyone outside of our current relationship.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so they date each other and no one else.

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Speaker 1: What ten years do that's a long relationship.

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Speaker 3: Figure it out some pretty and thus far.

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Speaker 2: I never mentioned this to my coworkers because I never

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Speaker 2: cared to I don't tend to talk about my life

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Speaker 2: while at work. A few weeks ago, my coworker Ken,

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Speaker 2: who was aware I had a boyfriend, saw me making

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Speaker 2: out with Ruby at a bar and took some pictures.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dirty dog. Come on, Ken, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: He apparently started telling everyone that I was cheating on Louie.

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Speaker 3: Wow, what the hell?

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Speaker 2: Like like at the workplace, it's kind of fucked up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like you don't even know what's going on.

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Speaker 4: I would, I would maybe go to their partner, but

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Speaker 4: not like spread it in.

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Speaker 1: The office, just like that's just hot goss.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it accomplishes nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not You're not You're not doing anyone to

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Speaker 1: service here.

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Speaker 3: You're not a hero ken.

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Speaker 1: Ken.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he apparently started telling everyone that I was cheating

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Speaker 2: on Louis and started showing the pictures of Ruby and

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Speaker 2: I to the old office. I had noticed that people

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Speaker 2: were starting to give me the cold shoulder, but I

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Speaker 2: just figured it was something to do with my he

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Speaker 2: sent promotion.

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Speaker 4: He's thinking like, oh man, I'm getting too too big

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Speaker 4: for the small timers over here. Meanwhile, everyone thinks he's cheating.

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Speaker 4: I think she Oh she let me run that back. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: they uh so, literally, she's just like climbing the ladder

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Speaker 4: and she's like, oh man, I'm such a big wig.

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Speaker 4: Like all these small timers are hating on me, hating

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Speaker 4: on my winds, and everyone's like, you're cheating.

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Speaker 2: You're cheating with on your boyfriend with another lady dude away.

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Speaker 2: A few days ago, I was talking to my friend

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Speaker 2: in the breakroom about her ex and mentioned how much

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Speaker 2: I hate cheaters, which prompted Ken and if you have

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Speaker 2: my other coworkers to start calling me out and tell

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Speaker 2: me that I was a hypocrite.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, can you imagine you're just like sitting

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Speaker 4: at the lunch table at the water cooler and then everyone's.

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Speaker 3: Like you're a cheater when you literally aren't.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: When I said I had never cheated, Ken confronted me

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Speaker 2: with the pictures of Ruby and I at the bar

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Speaker 2: and a picture of Louie and I on a date

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Speaker 2: from last week. Wait so he has picture, He followed

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Speaker 2: her with till louis.

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Speaker 4: Wow, he's literally like getting getting multiple instances of evidence. Also,

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Speaker 4: I love how so creepy. I'm just thinking like of

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Speaker 4: like a YouTube thumbnail. Like I confronted Ken with cheating picture.

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Speaker 4: Ken confronted me with cheating pictures.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, what is this like? Like?

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Speaker 2: But like, I just I'm just thinking about this. Guy

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Speaker 2: goes to a bar, Yeah, randomly sees his coworker making

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Speaker 2: on someone else, which his first thought, yeah, take pictures

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Speaker 2: to cheating already kind of weird. Yeah right, But then

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Speaker 2: he goes and follows her to where she's going on

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Speaker 2: a date with her boyfriend and takes pictures of that too.

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Speaker 2: That is just like, Ken, you're kind of looking a

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Speaker 2: little creepy. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 2: Ken kept asking so who are you dating while shoving

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Speaker 2: his phone in my face. So I brushed his arm

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Speaker 2: aside and told him both of them to be fair.

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Speaker 4: When that answer has put out, you're like, okay, explain.

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Speaker 2: More explain, but also like, it's not his business, brone biness.

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Speaker 1: It's not of his fricking business. Wow. Uh.

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Speaker 2: That only seemed to see him and others off worse,

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Speaker 2: and he started nagging me again, and I started laughing.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to be rude.

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Speaker 2: I just found it funny how upset everyone was getting

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Speaker 2: over my relationship that they had no idea about. He

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Speaker 2: stopped talking. After he stopped talking, after I laughed and

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Speaker 2: I took the time to explain my relationship and showed

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Speaker 2: pictures of all three of us, including of Ruby and

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Speaker 2: Louie kissing, and I joked about him talk and I

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Speaker 2: joked about him taking pictures like a freakin stalker.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Oh dude, honestly, that's so amazing. Like, so everyone else

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Speaker 4: in the office is like on kin side, like yeah,

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Speaker 4: like she's cheating, and they're like, wait a second, Ken

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Speaker 4: is like what's going on here?

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Speaker 3: They're just like looking back and forth, like what's happening now?

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Speaker 2: A bunch of my coworkers are pissed that I hid

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Speaker 2: my polyamory from them and are now saying that it's

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Speaker 2: my fault that they now look like jerks for talking

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Speaker 2: bad about me behind my back.

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Speaker 1: It's not what it's not.

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Speaker 2: Oh, P's like like like she doesn't have to say like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is what my relationship looks like.

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Speaker 1: How are they my life?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: How they're mad at her. I am absolutely completely lost.

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Speaker 2: They just feel like and they're trying to like just

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Speaker 2: blame her for it now.

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Speaker 3: So you got it wrong? Who cares just.

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Speaker 2: Own up to being Oh my god, and Ken Nean's

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Speaker 2: own up being the total freaking creep up. Oh big

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Speaker 2: time disgusting. So I the a hole for not telling

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Speaker 2: my coworkers that I'm Polly and subsequently laughing in their faces.

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Speaker 3: I like laughing in their faces.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think, but I like it's kind

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Speaker 2: of funny, Like it's hilarious. It's like, what are you

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Speaker 2: talking about, dude, like about pictures? No, no, no, no, there

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Speaker 2: is an edit though, But what do you think so far?

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Speaker 2: Ah or no ahole?

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Speaker 3: Op is definitely not the a whole?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely No. Ken is the ahole.

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Speaker 3: Ken is the ahole.

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Speaker 2: Just speak just to clear something up. Ken does not

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Speaker 2: know either of my partners. He only knew about Louis

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Speaker 2: and had no reasonable way of knowing if I was

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Speaker 2: still with him at the time. Two, I was unaware

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Speaker 2: of any of the pictures being taken until Ken showed

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Speaker 2: me them.

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Speaker 3: Three.

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Speaker 2: Ken was definitely stalking me, and I've been in contact

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Speaker 2: with the police. So thank you to my coworkers who

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Speaker 2: reached out with some info about that. Okay, and there's

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Speaker 2: an update. I just got home, So here's an update

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Speaker 2: of what's happened so far. Yesterday, a few of my

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Speaker 2: coworkers saw my post and decided to let me know

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Speaker 2: he had been showing them more pictures than the ones

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Speaker 2: I saw what A co worker in it, who was

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Speaker 2: working last night read it and looked in his company

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Speaker 2: computer for any possible pictures and there.

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Speaker 1: Were a lot.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: When I talked to HR this morning, they were aware

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Speaker 2: of both issues, as IT had alerted as IT had

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Speaker 2: alerted them when they found the pictures and sent them

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Speaker 2: a link to my post, and my friend who works

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Speaker 2: here had already told HR it happened, even though I

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Speaker 2: had told her originally not have to worry about it,

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Speaker 2: but they couldn't do anything until I made a report.

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Speaker 2: And the pictures obviously change that, so now she can

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Speaker 2: like actually take some action because the pictures are legit.

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Speaker 1: And are there.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Ken was definitely stalking me. He was immediately fired, and

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Speaker 2: we ended up having to get police involved because it

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I do have a temporary.

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Speaker 2: Restraining order before the court date, but he is currently

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Speaker 2: with police. HR had me go home early today, and honestly,

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Speaker 2: I'm exhausted. A lot more stuff is happening right now,

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Speaker 2: but some of it I can't talk about right now

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Speaker 2: and others I don't really want to. Sorry, this is

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Speaker 2: kind of disjointed. I didn't sleep much last night. My

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Speaker 2: head's kind of spinning from everything. When I originally posted this,

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Speaker 2: I didn't really take the situation seriously.

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Speaker 1: I just figured it was a coworker.

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Speaker 2: Just wanting to start up some drama to spread and

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Speaker 2: happened to be and I happened to be the prime candidate.

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Speaker 2: Ken had always been a bit of a creepy nice guy,

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Speaker 2: but never thought much of it. When I laughed and

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Speaker 2: called him a stalker, I never would have expected that

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Speaker 2: to be true. Wow, Louis and Ruby were able to

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Speaker 2: take some time off and are spending the day with

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Speaker 2: me at home and cuddling and watching movies. So if

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Speaker 2: anyone has any good movie recommendations, please let me know.

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Speaker 2: I'm exhausted and ready for all of this to be over.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for everything. You all made me

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Speaker 2: open my eyes to the real situation. When I was

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Speaker 2: laughing it off as just weird coworkers, could.

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Speaker 4: You imagine, I mean literally, you're just like, Okay, this

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Speaker 4: person's a weirdo whatever, and then they're literally like a

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Speaker 4: crazy stock to the degree I know, and like all

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Speaker 4: those pictures.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't just the pictures.

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Speaker 3: That he they had shown before.

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Speaker 1: It was like the whole collection.

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Speaker 2: Wow yeah, nuts dude, Wow yeah. I'm glad that Op

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Speaker 2: actually reported and got the freaking Ken to go to

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Speaker 2: the clink.

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Speaker 3: That's right, hey,