WEBVTT - We’re Suckers For You 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:05.880 What is going on? Everybody, Welcome to an all new 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:12.000 special episode of Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? Stop pause, everybody, 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:14.920 Wait a second, that's not the name of this podcast anymore. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:16.480 What is the name of this podcast? 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:16.919 Jared? 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:19.880 Why should I announce it? Announce it? 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:22.880 We're going through another rebrand and if you guys have 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:25.640 stuck with us through the past one, gosh, kudos to you, 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:27.560 because that's just so great of you to even stick 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:29.840 with us. We're doing it again and this one's really 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:30.920 going to stick for a long time. 0:00:30.960 --> 0:00:33.639 I think, well, we're not like I guess you guys 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:35.080 are still technically newlyweds? 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:38.280 Are you? But it wasn't even the newlyweds aspect that 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:39.760 we didn't like so much. It was just a bit 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:40.160 of a mouth. 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:41.800 It was such a long title. 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:44.080 I would be out and I'd be like, the people 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:45.559 would ask me what I do, and I'd be like, Oh, 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:48.440 I host the podcast. What's the name. It's called crap? 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:49.920 What is it called again? It's called the Help I 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:52.680 Suck Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? And they'd be like, 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:56.240 that's the name the name of your podcast podcast? We're like, well, listen, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.360 it's a mouthful, but it's worth the time. But we 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:07.039 are renaming rebranding our podcast to Suckers, just as simple Suckers. 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:08.360 We wanted something. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:14.319 Sweet, short, something to the point, yeah, and we achieved it. 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:16.520 And I also feel like we're all kind of suckers 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:17.200 in our own way. 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:17.520 Guys. 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:20.960 Oh yeah, Like I'm a sucker for Ashley. 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:22.759 Yeah, I'm a sucker for a good time. 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:24.200 Are you a sucker for me? 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:24.440 Though? 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:26.880 I'm a sucker for anything that can fit in my mouth. 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:31.000 Okay, So yes. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.200 I am a sucker for you. Okay, if you know 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:36.880 what I'm saying, Okay, that's fine. Yeah. So Suckers is 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:38.600 the new name of the podcast. But in addition to 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.119 changing our name to Suckers, we're also going to all 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:43.640 be doing our own individual segments every week. I don't 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.319 know if I'm all to talk about this yet, am I? Yeah, 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:48.120 of course, I'm just making sureuse I've done this before 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.200 where I say the wrong thing. So we're also going 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:54.040 to be doing our own episode every week. Caylen, do 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:55.360 you care to share what you're gonna be talking about 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:55.880 every week? Yeah? 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:57.880 So each week I'll be talking about pop culture because 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.320 I'm a sucker for pop culture. 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:03.880 That's that's so good. I never I never pieced that together. 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:07.040 You're a sucker for pop culture, that's the whole point. 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:11.359 That's just the amount of levels to that is amazing. 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:12.079 I think pretty good. 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:13.480 How much did you drink on the golf? 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:17.040 It's not that I'm pretty sober right now, But did 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:18.440 you know that she's a sucker? 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.560 When she said it, I was like, Oh, that's right, 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:24.120 that's why we're named. Yeah, there's a little bit of 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:26.480 a light bulb. But obviously I kept that internal, so 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:28.040 it made it look like I knew what I was 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:32.359 talking about, rather than Dean just being like, oh, that's right. 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:35.160 Jared casually SIPs his coffee suckers, Yep, that makes sense. 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:37.880 That's exactly I knew exactly what we were going for 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:38.120 on this. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.320 Wow, I feel so slow, Jared, What are you a 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:40.720 sucker for? 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:44.079 All Right? So I'm a sucker for fatherhood because, as 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.360 everybody on this podcast knows, I am a dad of 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:50.400 a wonderful son named Dawson who's entering the prime of 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:55.640 his life, which I think I feel that Dawson is 0:02:56.160 --> 0:03:00.359 at a point where it's more fun than it ever 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:03.600 has been to be his dad. And I've actually talked 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:05.399 to other dads about this who feel like they don't 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.440 really connect to the kids until they got to like 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:10.400 about two. That was when it was like, I wish 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.160 we could just fast forward the first two years and 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:13.800 get to them when they were two, because after that, 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.760 it's just awesome. And so we're kind of in that 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:20.880 stage right now where he is so much fun. So 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:23.840 I'm a sucker for fatherhood. What is the terrible twos? 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:26.080 Isn't that a thing? Though? The terrible twos? 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:27.360 It's like tantrums? 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.600 So he put he does have his tantrum. 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.240 He does have his tantrums, but there's so much more 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:34.560 controllable because when he's crying hysterically as a baby, I 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:36.920 think and I are like, oh, no, is something wrong? 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:40.119 Is he okay? There's that little doubt in your head 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:43.720 like everything's probably fine, But also do are we unaware something? 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:44.280 Now? 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.960 He's throwing tantrums and I mean it sucks, but like 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:48.920 I'll look at Ashley and it'll just be like, just 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:51.800 let him, let him cry, let him throw himself on 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:54.600 the floor, scream it out for ten minutes, and then 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.680 you know he'll be playing with his toys in no 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:57.680 time and everything will be funny. 0:03:57.720 --> 0:03:59.839 And I would imagine he's having a tantrum. He can't 0:03:59.920 --> 0:04:02.200 like communicate to you why he's having a tantrum. A 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:03.400 little bit better, at least. 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:06.320 Definitely better, He's still There's so many times Whe're like, Dawson, 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:12.280 what is the matter? You're like, Okay, what did that 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:14.600 sound like? Ashley? What do you think he's trying to say? 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:16.000 It sounds like he's hungry. 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:18.480 I don't know. Yeah, just shove something in there. As 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.320 Dean would say, he's a sucker for anything that fits 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:20.800 in his mouth. 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:24.480 The sucker thing. Man, it's so smart. Whoever thought of 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:25.240 the name suckers? 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:26.000 So smart? 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:26.560 Didn't we all? 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:30.039 Yeah? We did group effort, Yeah we did. We thought well, 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:33.480 I personally, as I thought of it together as the group, 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:35.840 I was just like, sucker is just easier to say 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:37.919 than hope. He suck at being NELI witz. That was 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:41.320 my appeal to it. But now let's talk. I'm a 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:44.960 sucker for traveling, and so every week I'm going to 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:49.120 bring you the hottest, juiciest travel content you'll ever hear. 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:53.760 Give us a here, guys, if you're sitting in the car, 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:57.200 turn that air conditioning down to low and turn that 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.400 fan up to high, because we're going to get real 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:03.919 hot with this travel content up if they're getting hot, No, 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:05.960 because you want to low like up would be hot. 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:06.960 Low is cold. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.799 Yeah, but it's getting hot, So turn the A C up. 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:13.000 Turn it down to low, and turn the fan up 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:17.120 to high because we're getting real hot. By the way, 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:18.680 your wife's here, do you I mean, I mean, oh, 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:19.160 say hello. 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.480 I don't want you to have to whisper in correcting 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:26.120 Jared on the side, Yeah, temperature needs to be low, 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:27.279 but the pressure of the fan. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:27.800 Needs to be high. 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:30.480 Yeah, and you're right. I did debate, and the temperature 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:32.400 is low, the fan is high. 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:35.320 Yes, got it. That makes sense. But we're turning the 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:35.600 A C. 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:40.400 So yeah, no, I see, I see, I see. We're 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:41.279 going with this side. 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:45.159 If I said it's hot in here, turn the a 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:45.560 C up. 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:48.320 We do say that, but we shouldn't. We should not 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.680 turn the A C low, turn it down as what 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:51.200 we should say. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.200 You make it, you make it a really good point. Yeah, 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:55.640 but if you're listening to this, I want you to 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:58.120 turn that a C down real low and turn that 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:01.520 fan on real high. I'm not gonna do that for 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:03.560 Kaylin Ashlely. If you were to be a sucker, what 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:04.520 would you be a sucker for? 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:09.080 I'm and rather Jared answer this question. 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:12.039 For the Jonas brothers, well, that means that makes the 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:14.920 most sense, right, I think the context. 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:18.200 So what would be a way to describe just celebrity, 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.400 I mean pop culture specifically? 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:24.760 God, could you imagine's. 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:26.279 Pop culture is much more? I feel like, I don't 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.520 want to speak for you, but like broad broad where 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:34.159 yours is teeny bopper culture exactly? 0:06:34.279 --> 0:06:36.440 I do give Kaylin and Ashley co hosted a pop 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.880 culture segment. It would be so ripped, Like I'm not 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:40.520 I don't even care about pop culture. I would listen 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:46.040 to that. Yeah that's good. Yeah, so yeah, So that's 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:47.920 the new concept of the show. We're going to be Suckers. 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:49.640 We're still going to do our group chat once per 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:52.360 week three of U's the Suckers podcast. 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:54.360 Isn't that the relationship side. 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:56.360 That will be like updating everyone what's going on in 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:58.440 our lives. For the most part, it will be what 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:01.000 we've done for the past year. And additionally to that 0:07:01.080 --> 0:07:03.320 too every day, not every day, but each one of 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:05.560 us once per week. We will come out of their 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:06.360 own episode. 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:09.440 Yes, you guys are like on one together right now. 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:11.160 Is it a lot of bonding On the golf course. 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:14.240 We actually played in separate groups. Oh yeah, okay, but 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:16.000 I played well. I shot in eighty three, very proud. 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:21.440 Yeah, anyways, that's fair. Okay. 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.480 This is our first time being together all together doing 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:26.520 a podcast since our last rebrand. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:27.440 Yeah, here go. 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:27.960 Yeah. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:29.640 It's always so much better when we're in the same 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:30.440 room as well. 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:35.480 Isn't it so much better? I wish, yeah, I wish, uh, 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.840 you know, some company, whatever it would be. I don't know, 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:40.640 it could be. Anybody would pay for. 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:42.920 Us to like get Metaquest three. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.080 You would never be cool with that. 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:48.239 Room together. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:49.320 You guys can move to Colorado. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:50.840 We should all get VR goggles. 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:53.880 Well, VR goggles is getting somewhere. 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:57.280 Yeah, that way, we want us to get VR goggles. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:59.400 That way, we could be sitting in separate rooms, but 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.720 in the in the iHeart studio. Yeah exactly. 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.520 I already wonder if that would make a difference. That'd 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.000 be kind of a cool experiment. 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:08.239 We should try it, if we could go to space 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:10.720 one day. Stay tuned for VR suckers. We're a sucker 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:13.160 for VR. Can we talk about why we're all together? 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:16.320 We haven't mentioned that, so yes, So we're all together 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.440 for one very specific reason, the celebration of what we 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:21.200 all like to call love. 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:25.560 We're here for Gary and Teresa's wedding, and last night 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:27.280 was really fun. You guys miss out because you're flying in, 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:30.320 but it was fun. It was really fun. I was 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:32.319 thinking about it. It's really cool that you can meet 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:34.640 a bunch of new people and just feel like at 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:36.920 home with them immediately, Like I met Molly Mesnik for 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:40.400 the first time and absolute lover. We spent like the 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:43.880 whole night together. And I was thinking about there are 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:46.880 certain people in the Bachelor who like want to remove 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.680 themselves from it for whatever their career purposes are, and 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:52.160 I get that, but I also kind of feel bad 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.400 for them because there is such a unique bond that 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:56.560 we all have and like amazing friendships that come from this. 0:08:56.640 --> 0:09:11.120 It's so true that, Yeah, Mollie and Desiree, we were 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:12.520 sitting next to I never met them, and they were 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:17.120 with their husbands Jason and Chris, and we talks for 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.280 hours and hours and hours and hours, and it wasn't 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.320 even just about bachelor stuff. It could be about anything, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.440 but you it's just like, you know, you're not going 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:26.040 out to dinner with random strangers every couple of weeks 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:27.439 and having great conversation. 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:29.760 Right, you meet someone and it's small talk, but it's 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.040 like we all just have this bond that brings us together. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:32.840 It's pretty cool. 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:34.000 Yeah, it's really true. 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:37.600 I had lunch with Does and Molly today too, and 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:40.880 I was like, why does the It's just I've met 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:42.920 them both before. But it's just like you can just 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:46.120 have like a very natural hour or so long conversation 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:48.840 feeling like that you've been friends for a while, just 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:50.199 the commonality obviously. 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:53.760 Yeah, I would never want to separate myself from the Bachelor. 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:57.840 I only understand it when people have to do it 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:02.400 for jobs. Like I remember years ago talking to Michael 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:04.360 Gariffolo and he was talking about he was in an 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:07.400 interview for a high position lawyer job because he's a lawyer, 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:10.040 and they brought up Paradise and he always felt like 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:13.240 it affected him negatively because they were like, well, like, 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:16.280 there's you're gonna be in the courtroom defending someone. Oh, 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.840 and they're gonna know like there'll be probably people who 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.200 know who you are, and so I can understand that. 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.160 It's like, oh, I understand why you might want to 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:25.400 try to separate yourself if that's gonna affect your occupation. 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:28.000 But there I feel like there's so many people who 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:29.400 are like, h I just don't even want to be 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:31.959 associated with Bachelor anymore, Like why right? 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:32.360 Why? 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:32.600 Why? 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:35.320 Especially if you're in entertainment. It's like, okay, come on, 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:37.280 doesn't make any sense. Yeah, it's crazy. 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:40.000 It's like, honestly, it feels like a family, like you 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:43.120 talked about last night, when everybody gets together and you're like, wow, 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.040 this is so nice. I just feel like I can 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:47.280 relate to you and I feel so comfortable around you. 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.920 There's such a family aspect to this, both from people 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:53.720 in front of the camera and behind the camera. Yeah. Yeah, 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:56.240 I just I don't know why people are Some people 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:58.280 are like even just don't even want to deal with 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.280 I don't want to be a part of anymore. Like right, cool, 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:01.320 that's fine, you don't have to be. 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:02.800 Even today on the golf course, I'm sorry to bring 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:04.800 up golf, but I was in a group with Joey 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:08.480 the current Bachelor and Jason Mesnik, the Bachelor from fifteen 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.959 years ago, and Jason was telling stories, and Joey was like, oh, yeah, 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:13.600 that's exactly how it is for me, Like there are 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:16.880 so many similarities between a fifteen year gap of being 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:18.640 the Bachelor, and so it's exactly. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.679 What me and Molly were talking about last night. We 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:22.439 were both twenty three on the show and like comparing 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:25.720 our stories and every story that everyone has is so similar. 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.920 So it's just like it's a really cool thing to 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:30.240 have so many people here and just I don't know, 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:32.720 have that commonality between us all. 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:35.679 And I for one dread these things because do you 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:38.080 come into this, I'm excited to see like you guys Jared, 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:41.520 Nashley and Ben and Wells some of my best friends obviously, 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.880 but then you see the rest of the guest list 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:45.320 and it's like a bunch of people you don't know, 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.080 and you're like, Okay, crap, do I really want to 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:48.960 go to this? But then you get there and you're like, 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.360 I can't imagine having said no to this because it's 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:54.199 so much fun and everyone's amazing and I'm having a blast. 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.520 Yeah, And usually we do things with iHeart and it's 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.320 like people that we always spend time with, which is 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:01.080 so fun, and this is like a bigger group people 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:02.160 that we haven't met, and. 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:02.840 It's it's fun. 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:05.640 We met Gary yesterday, Caitlin and I and I thank 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:09.400 you guys, Jerry, Gary and Theresa and. 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:12.840 It does look like Theresa. 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.800 And they were so nice. We like walked up to 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:15.880 them and were like, hey, we just want to say 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.360 hi before your nuptials tomorrow. 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:18.080 Oh my gosh. 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:18.400 Yeah. 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.160 And Gary was so great, like someone wanted to come 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:21.640 say hi and take a picture with him, and Gary 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:23.679 was like, I'm sorry, I'm introducing myself to these It's 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:24.040 like I'm in the. 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.120 Middle of a conversation one second, which is just so 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:28.680 I don't I don't know, like how many people would 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:31.320 do that. Yeah, I wouldn't either. And it was so 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:32.640 polite the way he did that. He's like, let me 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.480 finish this conversation. I'll come back to you and then so. 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:37.160 Anyways, I'll have to say, we're here for the wedding. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.520 We're excited. If the wedding is in like, I. 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:43.600 Get ready four hours very soon. 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:44.679 What do you guys all wearing tonight? 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:45.840 Oh, good question. 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:48.559 I'm wearing block And I don't know if I've ever 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:51.679 worn block to a wedding. I've actually never been Yeah, 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:54.320 I kind of I kind of like being traditional and 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:56.080 not wearing block to a wedding, but I know that 0:12:56.240 --> 0:13:00.360 isn't It's really okay now no, because black tie like 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:04.400 still doesn't mean black ferg interesting, Yeah, because remember that 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:05.920 it used to be a faux pas to wear black to. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:07.520 A wedding, which is like to a funeral. 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:09.440 Yeah, would you ever wear red to a wedding? 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:13.040 I don't like myself in red, okay, but they also 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:14.319 say that's not a good look. 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:15.840 Right, yeah, because that means you're the mistress. 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:18.439 That's like the old school thing, like the scarlet letter, 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:21.240 and like all the dresses that I own that I 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.800 like are red. We got invited to this pretty last minute, 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:25.360 and I was like, I just know people are going 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:27.240 to roast me on the internet if I wear a 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:28.080 red dress to a wedding. 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.760 Oh I pray one of the Golden Bachelor ladies is 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:31.560 wearing red. 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:36.040 And it's it's a scarlet letter kind of thing. 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.319 It's like, I think, like the old school thing is 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:40.840 you're the mistress. That's what I read somewhere because I 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:42.160 was like, why is this a faux pas? 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:43.600 But who knows? 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:46.760 Kaylen has little black. 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:48.680 Dress she's Gary's mistress. 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:52.840 That's all right, we can invite him into the couple. 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:57.120 That's fine. No, Kaylen has this beautiful black dress. I 0:13:57.120 --> 0:13:58.720 don't know if she's actually gonna up wearing it because 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:00.760 she's got a million options at them at all times. 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:03.439 And I mean, I don't want to say that you're 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:05.880 going to steal the show, but you're didn't be stealing 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:06.600 the show in that thing. 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:07.560 I think it's very nice. 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:09.640 Ye, Theresa is gonna be a real man. 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:13.240 Jared and I are still attending this wedding having not 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:14.040 met the bride. 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.839 And groom, which is shocking for you guys. 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.600 I feel like that hasn't been on the podcast. 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:21.840 Yeah, well that's weird for you. 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.280 It is weird. I will say this is very strange. 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:24.880 They haven't been on. 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:26.360 Yeah. 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:29.920 I guess we've just been to a few weddings. I 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:33.360 guess the only one that we really christ and Crystal 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:36.120 we were we knew Well, I wouldn't say we were 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:37.000 close with them. 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:39.280 We wouldn't have been invited if it was a normal wedding. 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:43.720 Yeah, Carlyn Evan, Yeah, we're close to them at the time. 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.200 Is that the only other wedding? I mean, Tanner Jade. Obviously, 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.040 has there been other bachelor weddings we've gone to? 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:51.600 Got you went to ours? 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:53.480 I meant on the show. 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:56.480 Yeah, yes, of course that's your's this wonderful wedding. Thanks 0:14:57.080 --> 0:14:57.360 is it? 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.400 Is it sad that the year of your wedding is 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.360 over now, like twenty twenty three is gone. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:02.200 No. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:04.880 I was just going back through our photos to like 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:08.080 have a photo book. My photographer was asking what photos 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:10.880 we want and just looking through everyone's pictures again. There 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:12.120 was a lot that I missed the first time in 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:14.480 finding photos of you guys, and it was really fun. 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:17.520 I think I did that on New Year's Day, so 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:18.240 it was fun. 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:18.520 To relive it. 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:21.080 And we got our wedding video back, but we haven't 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:23.000 watched it because we're in the middle of packing and 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.360 I want to watch it once we're settled and not 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:26.480 feeling so stressed. You know. 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.920 I hear some people wait till the annivers first anniversary 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:30.480 to watch. 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:32.680 Oh, that's so cute. I don't know if I can 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:33.280 wait that long. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:35.640 That's a lot. It's nine months away. That's kind of 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:36.000 a long time. 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:37.480 I don't think I could wait that long. 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.280 Yeah, are you guys out of the Vegas house yet. 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:43.360 No, so we move in a week. Our house is 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:45.560 half five days, yeah, less than a week. Our house 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.440 is half packed up. We got boxes everywhere. 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:49.040 It's very stressful. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.360 You guys, could you if you wanted to be cutesy, 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:55.000 you could set up like with no furniture in the 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:56.800 house and there's just one TV and have like a 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:59.720 little candlelight like you get in Chinese food or something. 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:01.320 You see it down on the like our final meal 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:02.320 in the house, final. 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:04.080