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Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Someone actually texted.
Speaker 4: In from Texas the other day saying about a second date.
Speaker 4: I feel like the dude dodged a bullet with this chick.
Speaker 4: She's insane. Then text it again. Let me rephrase that
Speaker 4: he didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged atomic bomb.
Speaker 5: Atomic bombs.
Speaker 1: We haven't started today. Yeah, that's right. Let's get this
Speaker 1: second date started.
Speaker 6: The second date up day.
Speaker 3: It's funny people in dating apps are just like Goldilocks
Speaker 3: and the Three Bears. Some people are very hot and
Speaker 3: use them all the time, like most of the kids
Speaker 3: in the promo department here. Others they're a little more medium,
Speaker 3: like someone in this room who only goes on when
Speaker 3: her husband's out of town.
Speaker 5: I said someone.
Speaker 1: I guess medium is a compliment coming from you.
Speaker 3: And some are very very new to it, like one
Speaker 3: of our listeners, Mary Anne, who said she's just dipping
Speaker 3: her toe into the online dating scene. Mary Anne, you
Speaker 3: haven't matched with Jose or anybody yet?
Speaker 7: No, not yet.
Speaker 8: Okay, I'm shocked you kids. I put my zip code
Speaker 8: to every zip code.
Speaker 5: What's it like jumping into the online dating scene.
Speaker 7: It's interesting. I don't know. I'm a little cautious about it.
Speaker 7: I guess you should be.
Speaker 8: That's a good way to do it.
Speaker 2: It sounds good though, like you look like your hope.
Speaker 2: You sound hopeful.
Speaker 5: Yeah, how are you cautious with online dating?
Speaker 7: Well, I'm a teacher of like younger kids, or like
Speaker 7: I just I don't want the parents to find me.
Speaker 7: I don't want like any weird pictures of me out there,
Speaker 7: you know, to make anything awkward. So I only really
Speaker 7: have like a few pictures in my profile, and like
Speaker 7: a couple of them, I'm like wearing sunglasses. So it's
Speaker 7: just there's nothing crazy there.
Speaker 8: It's like you're a celebrity.
Speaker 2: It's like you're so like toy of I mean, but
Speaker 2: seriously though, like my kids, teachers are very edited on
Speaker 2: their social medias.
Speaker 3: You think interesting book has seen their dating profiles clearly pages.
Speaker 5: Whatever you want to say.
Speaker 3: But I couldn't even tell you only posted two photos
Speaker 3: on here?
Speaker 5: What a tease? Okay, what Marianna, So who did you
Speaker 5: match with online?
Speaker 7: There's not a lot of people actually, so I actually
Speaker 7: only go by one initial. I just go by IM
Speaker 7: for mary Anne.
Speaker 2: Okay, which may make people more cautious about you.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, backfire, Is that true, marian Yeah?
Speaker 7: No, I really don't get like a lot of messages.
Speaker 5: So who is brave enough to swipe right on you?
Speaker 6: So I did?
Speaker 7: Finally the sky Cordon actually reached out to me.
Speaker 5: Gordon masculine name.
Speaker 1: It is masculine, very masculine.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I had a pet lizard.
Speaker 5: Named I bet that lizard had a six pat.
Speaker 2: Lizards masculine pets.
Speaker 5: What's Gordon?
Speaker 7: Like? He's really nice? It was just nice. He was
Speaker 7: one of the few people that actually wanted to get
Speaker 7: to know me and talk to me and like actually
Speaker 7: go out in real life, not just you know, message
Speaker 7: me online.
Speaker 1: Okay, what did it feel like going into an actual date?
Speaker 7: I mean I was a little nervous, but I mean
Speaker 7: I was hopeful. I was excited. He seemed really nice.
Speaker 7: So we were going to go to a music FoST
Speaker 7: of all we decided.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cute.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it was his pick. I didn't really know
Speaker 7: a lot of the bands, but you know, I tried
Speaker 7: to listen and like get to know some of them
Speaker 7: before we went. And there's a couple that are pretty good.
Speaker 2: Three songs from somebody's YouTube channels, just to make sure
Speaker 2: to participate.
Speaker 5: Did it turn out to be fun?
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was fun. He's here a positive attitude and
Speaker 7: he's like no pressure, like you know, and I just
Speaker 7: I liked being around him, honestly, Like, so.
Speaker 1: It sounds like it turned out even better than you expected.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was actually like worried for nothing. But when
Speaker 7: we went to leave, like it was getting late and
Speaker 7: so like we made sure to head out, but I noticed,
Speaker 7: like once we got ex clusted, like the exit I
Speaker 7: did on my phone. Oh no, and I was like,
Speaker 7: oh my god, like I lost my phone somewhere and.
Speaker 8: What a nightmare.
Speaker 7: So he also looked for it, and he eventually found
Speaker 7: it under these like tables where you could like stand
Speaker 7: around and drink.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So he's nice and he's a hero.
Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly like everything.
Speaker 5: Did you give him a big kiss as a thank you?
Speaker 7: Get to it?
Speaker 5: Okay, sorry to jump forward.
Speaker 7: Anyway. So he takes me home and we just have
Speaker 7: a good night hug.
Speaker 6: Actually weird, you sound.
Speaker 2: So cute and giggly about it, though I love it.
Speaker 2: Was it felt good, It felt right.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I thought we clicked and like I don't know,
Speaker 7: I'm surprised we aren't going out again, Like I texted
Speaker 7: him being like I really enjoyed seeing you, Like I
Speaker 7: got a lot of fun, Like I love to hang
Speaker 7: out again, Like I was really looking forward to, like,
Speaker 7: you know, hanging out with him again.
Speaker 8: It's like a long hug or was it like a
Speaker 8: quick like I want to know hands.
Speaker 7: It wasn't. Yeah, I mean it wasn't like a side
Speaker 7: church hug. I mean like it was, you know, it.
Speaker 6: Was like a full hog.
Speaker 2: Okaya, you haven't heard from him at all?
Speaker 7: No, and I don't know what to do. It's weird
Speaker 7: hopeful and now I'm like that, so caught.
Speaker 5: Up on a church hug.
Speaker 3: Because the hugs that I've had from people in church,
Speaker 3: they go, they get pretty intense.
Speaker 8: I'll tell you, wow, but God, bless you, bless you.
Speaker 3: I've had therapy from some of those church. So it's
Speaker 3: been how long since? I don't know, people do it different,
Speaker 3: so how so how long has it been since you
Speaker 3: and Gordon hung out?
Speaker 7: It was a few weeks ago.
Speaker 1: Now, okay, so you've waited.
Speaker 4: Wait now you have your phone back.
Speaker 1: Have you guys been texting since then?
Speaker 7: Not really. I've tried to get him to hang out,
Speaker 7: but he's not really super responsive.
Speaker 2: I guess we need this to work out because it's
Speaker 2: like your first time in online dating and it's going.
Speaker 1: To be bad. That's pretty typical, I know.
Speaker 8: And you had fun like normally it's like, oh my god,
Speaker 8: I'm never gonna.
Speaker 7: Online again, like you had to experience.
Speaker 3: They want you to have another date. I want more
Speaker 3: church hugs for you, So we'll try and get some
Speaker 3: of that done. When we play a song, come back
Speaker 3: and call Gordon and try and get your second date
Speaker 3: update right after this.
Speaker 7: Okay, cool, thank you.
Speaker 3: Hold on, Marianne the school teacher is on the phone
Speaker 3: with us for a second date.
Speaker 1: And she just sounds so innocent when you say that.
Speaker 5: She does.
Speaker 3: And her very first online dating experience went just about
Speaker 3: as well as it possibly could because she went to
Speaker 3: a music festival, lost her phone but found it before
Speaker 3: they left, and ended the night with a steamy church.
Speaker 1: Huge that it was better than that.
Speaker 5: Church or not. God was watching and God was like you.
Speaker 3: But now it's been weeks and her date Gordon has
Speaker 3: been kind of distant, and I know Brooke was surprised
Speaker 3: that Marianne left a music festival with her top still on.
Speaker 1: I mean, everybody has different vibes.
Speaker 3: Alexis was shocked that she remembered the music festival at all. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but we're going to do our best here. How you feeling, Marianne,
Speaker 3: I'm feeling Okay.
Speaker 2: You're brave because not only were you trying dating apps
Speaker 2: for the first time, you're reaching out to us.
Speaker 1: To help like this. This is this is a bad.
Speaker 4: Move your phone, very traumatic experience.
Speaker 3: Some would say that you're at an all time low
Speaker 3: being on the show with us, but that only the
Speaker 3: only way we could go from here is up.
Speaker 1: Okay, back for its compliments, kind of see that?
Speaker 5: Okay, I thought that was a positive thing to say.
Speaker 1: It's interesting.
Speaker 5: I'll apologize with a church hug to you.
Speaker 1: Okay, Mary, don't take Jeff's church hugs.
Speaker 7: I think I'll pass. We should just call him.
Speaker 3: Good idea, your loss, but let's just do that. We're
Speaker 3: gonna call Gordon right now here we go. Hello, Hello,
Speaker 3: is this Gordon?
Speaker 6: This is Gordon? Who's this?
Speaker 5: Sorry? Did we call you in the bathroom or something?
Speaker 5: Way over there?
Speaker 1: Are you wanting that to be the truth?
Speaker 5: I didn't want to interrupt you.
Speaker 6: No, I'm good. Who am I talking to? Who is this?
Speaker 5: You're talking to?
Speaker 3: Esteemed radio host Jeffrey Dubou from award winning morning Showbrook
Speaker 3: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 3: Why, great question we're calling to.
Speaker 8: Did we win the award because our mom's made us one?
Speaker 3: No, we're calling because we're doing a segment called a
Speaker 3: Second Date Update, hoping to get some answers for one
Speaker 3: of our listeners named mary Anne. Remember going out with
Speaker 3: Marianna a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 5: Yes I did not.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry Gordon to interrupt, but I didn't expect that
Speaker 2: type of reaction. She sounds bubbly and lovely and she's
Speaker 2: a school teacher.
Speaker 6: That's that's what she says.
Speaker 3: I guess, Oh wow, you're clearly not very fond of Marianne.
Speaker 5: But she felt like the date with you went really well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you have fun at the music festival?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I had fun at the music festival. It started out fun,
Speaker 6: it started out great.
Speaker 5: Well, okay, what's going on? What's with the coldness?
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know. I don't know what she
Speaker 6: told you guys, but she she lost her phone at
Speaker 6: one point, and you know, I was trying to help
Speaker 6: her find it.
Speaker 1: That is hate irresponsible people. Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 6: Well, I wound up actually finding her phone.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you were you were her hero, that was what
Speaker 5: she said.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, I when I picked up her phone, her
Speaker 6: home screen came on and what I saw kind of
Speaker 6: broke me.
Speaker 8: WHOA, ok you what what?
Speaker 1: She's a school teacher. I can't imagine it would be.
Speaker 6: I don't know how I else to say it. When
Speaker 6: I looked at her screen, it was a picture of
Speaker 6: her kissing another guy.
Speaker 5: What kind of guy?
Speaker 1: That doesn't matter?
Speaker 5: Like her father.
Speaker 6: Maybe it definitely was not the way you kiss your father.
Speaker 5: You don't know how I kiss my father. So how
Speaker 5: dare you jump to that sort of conclusion?
Speaker 2: I mean that could have been, like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: we didn't get her last relationship status, Like maybe she
Speaker 2: just broke up with somebody.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's there could be other reasons.
Speaker 5: You're on a date with somebody else.
Speaker 6: I don't know. I mean, it kind of all started
Speaker 6: to make sense to me.
Speaker 5: What what do you mean?
Speaker 3: I'm not what do you what's going on in your
Speaker 3: mind when you see that picture?
Speaker 6: I mean her her profile is just m and all
Speaker 6: of her photos are her with sunglasses on. And then
Speaker 6: I see this and it snapped in the clear focus
Speaker 6: for me. She's she's cheated.
Speaker 2: God, she acted so innocent, like she she totally played
Speaker 2: up the innocent school teacher. And I mean she told
Speaker 2: us that she just did m and the sunglasses and
Speaker 2: stuff because she didn't want parents of her students to
Speaker 2: find her.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she told me the same thing.
Speaker 3: Whoa, okay, your stances. You're not cool with her cheating.
Speaker 8: It's always like two steps.
Speaker 5: I just want to be clear.
Speaker 2: Why didn't you Why didn't you address her when you
Speaker 2: saw the phone and you picked it up and handed
Speaker 2: it back to her, Why didn't you say something?
Speaker 6: I just, honestly, I wanted nothing to do with her
Speaker 6: at that point.
Speaker 3: I guess that makes sense. Why at the end there
Speaker 3: was no kiss? Yeah, just a church hug.
Speaker 6: That's what you call church hug? Sure, yeah, it was.
Speaker 8: We don't know what to call it at this point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's all.
Speaker 3: I guess I'd be surprised if she was still there
Speaker 3: on the line after this whole thing.
Speaker 1: But why would she call us if she was cheating?
Speaker 5: I don't know what an idiot?
Speaker 3: Let's ask Mary Anne, because she's been listening to this
Speaker 3: the entire time, Gordon, Mary Anne?
Speaker 7: What.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's been there the whole time.
Speaker 6: Mary You there, Yeah, I'm here, Mary Anne?
Speaker 5: What do you have to say? I mean, this is it's.
Speaker 7: Not what you think?
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you mean? You had?
Speaker 3: You had a picture of you kissing another guy on
Speaker 3: your phone screen?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 7: That that was my husband. He passed away last year
Speaker 7: and I just have a memory of him on my phone.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you were.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 7: I didn't know you well enough yet to really talk
Speaker 7: about it, so I didn't want to bring it up
Speaker 7: on our first date.
Speaker 1: You know, are you okay?
Speaker 7: Yeah? I mean I am honestly a little taken aback
Speaker 7: just listening to what you said and jumping so soon
Speaker 7: to conclusions about me with that, you could have just confronted.
Speaker 5: Me that night, Gordon, mean, how do you feel right now?
Speaker 3: You must kind of feel like boob i'd right now.
Speaker 6: I'm really sorry to hear that. I just I've been
Speaker 6: down this road before, and so I didn't think. I
Speaker 6: didn't think. I feel like I had it all figured
Speaker 6: out already.
Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully that's his.
Speaker 8: Whole heartbreaking Yeah sides, though, I feel like the understanding
Speaker 8: needs to be there.
Speaker 2: And I mean, Marianne, he's obviously been on dating apps
Speaker 2: a lot longer because he's jaded and jumps to conclusions.
Speaker 1: Which is what we did when he explained it.
Speaker 2: I mean, when you connect that to just your m
Speaker 2: profile and everything and your secrecy.
Speaker 1: It makes sense.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we didn't know you lost your husband, like
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah.
Speaker 3: But if The good news is if Marianne is on
Speaker 3: the dating apps, it must mean that she's feeling ready
Speaker 3: to put herself back out there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's encouraging.
Speaker 7: It took me a while, but I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 7: finally did it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean it makes sense why it's your first time
Speaker 2: ever on dating apps because you were married.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Brooke doesn't play by the same rules as that.
Speaker 5: But that's good for you.
Speaker 1: Oh man, that's hard.
Speaker 8: But wow, I'm glad we got closure.
Speaker 5: A little clarity in this situation.
Speaker 3: And Gordon, now that you know that she's not cheating
Speaker 3: and what the situation is, we'd like to offer to
Speaker 3: send the two of you out on another date, and
Speaker 3: we would pay for it.
Speaker 6: I do feel terrible about the assumption, and obviously about
Speaker 6: what happened to your husband into you, and other than that.
Speaker 8: Nothing else bad happened. Correct.
Speaker 1: You guys are really cute y.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I honestly really did have a good time on
Speaker 6: the date, and until I saw that futal, I would
Speaker 6: be open to it.
Speaker 3: If you are, okay, that is fair because based on
Speaker 3: this I don't know that mary Anne is still interested.
Speaker 5: Mary Anne, are you willing to give him another chance
Speaker 5: after jump to conclusions.
Speaker 7: I'll give it another shot, we can talk it out.
Speaker 7: We'll see where we get from there.
Speaker 3: I guess all right, so's she's the.
Speaker 8: Most brilliant ever. No, I'm kidding. I'm happy for you guys.
Speaker 3: It sounds like we're sending you out on another day.
Speaker 3: Congratulations you two, Thank you, jeff Church day. I don't
Speaker 3: know about that, but we could celebrate by ending this
Speaker 3: with an entire show church hudg. Yeah, if everybody bring
Speaker 3: it in close.
Speaker 8: I'm taking it off to your church.
Speaker 5: Jeff looking Jeffrey in the morning man.
Speaker 3: Legit tears coming from the text board from a lot
Speaker 3: of people who are all pulling for Charlotte and her
Speaker 3: love story.
Speaker 1: I mean, it was beautiful.
Speaker 2: God, this is a couple that I definitely hope that
Speaker 2: we get an update from, even if it doesn't work out.
Speaker 1: I just want to hear that everybody's doing okay still.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and obviously she didn't go into much detail about
Speaker 3: what happened with the passing of her late husband because
Speaker 3: we didn't want to pry into that.
Speaker 5: Good work, team, Well, why.
Speaker 2: Would you ask that that was on your mind? Just
Speaker 2: want to know what a true crime podcast.
Speaker 3: I'm giving us props for not going there, That's what
Speaker 3: I'm saying. But you do have to you have to
Speaker 3: give her credit for being courageous and being brave, not
Speaker 3: just by putting herself out in the dating world again,
Speaker 3: but also staying on the phone while this guy accuses
Speaker 3: her of cheating.
Speaker 1: For sure, that must have been so emotionous for her.
Speaker 8: One of the most intense cases of like assuming is.
Speaker 2: Never a good Either that or she's on the other
Speaker 2: line thinking, oh my god, this idiot, you know, until.
Speaker 8: He felt.
Speaker 3: Maybe it's a good rule of thumb. If you ever
Speaker 3: see somebody else with a phone screen picture of them
Speaker 3: kissing somebody, just assume that it's a relative.
Speaker 5: If that's passed away, I don't even know.
Speaker 2: That that's really that's not the lesson. Yeah, maybe just
Speaker 2: more open communication.
Speaker 5: Yeah, different lessons this one apparently.
Speaker 3: But here's a good lesson. If you ever want to
Speaker 3: get in touch with somebody that you went on a
Speaker 3: date with that's not calling you back, you can email
Speaker 3: the show and we'll call that person.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's stick to that.
Speaker 5: That's a good lesson. Anyway. It's Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 5: the Morning.
Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning