WEBVTT - Second Date Update: First Date Demise

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, we do not want you to live and regret.

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<v Speaker 2>see the show notes, So there it is. And do

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<v Speaker 2>we have a comment before we get to the second Date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone actually texted.

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<v Speaker 4>In from Texas the other day saying about a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like the dude dodged a bullet with this chick.

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<v Speaker 4>She's insane. Then text it again. Let me rephrase that

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<v Speaker 4>he didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged atomic bomb.

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<v Speaker 5>Atomic bombs.

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<v Speaker 1>We haven't started today. Yeah, that's right. Let's get this

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<v Speaker 1>second date started.

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<v Speaker 6>The second date up day.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny people in dating apps are just like Goldilocks

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<v Speaker 3>and the Three Bears. Some people are very hot and

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<v Speaker 3>use them all the time, like most of the kids

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<v Speaker 3>in the promo department here. Others they're a little more medium,

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<v Speaker 3>like someone in this room who only goes on when

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<v Speaker 3>her husband's out of town.

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<v Speaker 5>I said someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess medium is a compliment coming from you.

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<v Speaker 3>And some are very very new to it, like one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners, Mary Anne, who said she's just dipping

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<v Speaker 3>her toe into the online dating scene. Mary Anne, you

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<v Speaker 3>haven't matched with Jose or anybody yet?

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<v Speaker 7>No, not yet.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I'm shocked you kids. I put my zip code

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<v Speaker 8>to every zip code.

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<v Speaker 5>What's it like jumping into the online dating scene.

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<v Speaker 7>It's interesting. I don't know. I'm a little cautious about it.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess you should be.

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<v Speaker 8>That's a good way to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds good though, like you look like your hope.

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<v Speaker 2>You sound hopeful.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, how are you cautious with online dating?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I'm a teacher of like younger kids, or like

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<v Speaker 7>I just I don't want the parents to find me.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want like any weird pictures of me out there,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, to make anything awkward. So I only really

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<v Speaker 7>have like a few pictures in my profile, and like

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<v Speaker 7>a couple of them, I'm like wearing sunglasses. So it's

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<v Speaker 7>just there's nothing crazy there.

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<v Speaker 8>It's like you're a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like you're so like toy of I mean, but

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<v Speaker 2>seriously though, like my kids, teachers are very edited on

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<v Speaker 2>their social medias.

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<v Speaker 3>You think interesting book has seen their dating profiles clearly pages.

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<v Speaker 5>Whatever you want to say.

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<v Speaker 3>But I couldn't even tell you only posted two photos

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<v Speaker 3>on here?

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<v Speaker 5>What a tease? Okay, what Marianna, So who did you

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<v Speaker 5>match with online?

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<v Speaker 7>There's not a lot of people actually, so I actually

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<v Speaker 7>only go by one initial. I just go by IM

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<v Speaker 7>for mary Anne.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, which may make people more cautious about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, backfire, Is that true, marian Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>No, I really don't get like a lot of messages.

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<v Speaker 5>So who is brave enough to swipe right on you?

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<v Speaker 6>So I did?

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<v Speaker 7>Finally the sky Cordon actually reached out to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Gordon masculine name.

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<v Speaker 1>It is masculine, very masculine.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a pet lizard.

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<v Speaker 5>Named I bet that lizard had a six pat.

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<v Speaker 2>Lizards masculine pets.

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<v Speaker 5>What's Gordon?

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<v Speaker 7>Like? He's really nice? It was just nice. He was

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<v Speaker 7>one of the few people that actually wanted to get

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<v Speaker 7>to know me and talk to me and like actually

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<v Speaker 7>go out in real life, not just you know, message

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<v Speaker 7>me online.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what did it feel like going into an actual date?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I was a little nervous, but I mean

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<v Speaker 7>I was hopeful. I was excited. He seemed really nice.

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<v Speaker 7>So we were going to go to a music FoST

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<v Speaker 7>of all we decided.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, it was his pick. I didn't really know

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<v Speaker 7>a lot of the bands, but you know, I tried

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<v Speaker 7>to listen and like get to know some of them

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<v Speaker 7>before we went. And there's a couple that are pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>Three songs from somebody's YouTube channels, just to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>to participate.

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<v Speaker 5>Did it turn out to be fun?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was fun. He's here a positive attitude and

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<v Speaker 7>he's like no pressure, like you know, and I just

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<v Speaker 7>I liked being around him, honestly, Like, so.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like it turned out even better than you expected.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was actually like worried for nothing. But when

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<v Speaker 7>we went to leave, like it was getting late and

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<v Speaker 7>so like we made sure to head out, but I noticed,

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<v Speaker 7>like once we got ex clusted, like the exit I

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<v Speaker 7>did on my phone. Oh no, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 7>oh my god, like I lost my phone somewhere and.

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<v Speaker 8>What a nightmare.

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<v Speaker 7>So he also looked for it, and he eventually found

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<v Speaker 7>it under these like tables where you could like stand

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<v Speaker 7>around and drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. So he's nice and he's a hero.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, exactly like everything.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you give him a big kiss as a thank you?

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<v Speaker 7>Get to it?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, sorry to jump forward.

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<v Speaker 7>Anyway. So he takes me home and we just have

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<v Speaker 7>a good night hug.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually weird, you sound.

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<v Speaker 2>So cute and giggly about it, though I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it felt good, It felt right.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I thought we clicked and like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm surprised we aren't going out again, Like I texted

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<v Speaker 7>him being like I really enjoyed seeing you, Like I

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<v Speaker 7>got a lot of fun, Like I love to hang

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<v Speaker 7>out again, Like I was really looking forward to, like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, hanging out with him again.

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<v Speaker 8>It's like a long hug or was it like a

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<v Speaker 8>quick like I want to know hands.

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<v Speaker 7>It wasn't. Yeah, I mean it wasn't like a side

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<v Speaker 7>church hug. I mean like it was, you know, it.

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<v Speaker 6>Was like a full hog.

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<v Speaker 2>Okaya, you haven't heard from him at all?

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<v Speaker 7>No, and I don't know what to do. It's weird

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<v Speaker 7>hopeful and now I'm like that, so caught.

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<v Speaker 5>Up on a church hug.

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<v Speaker 3>Because the hugs that I've had from people in church,

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<v Speaker 3>they go, they get pretty intense.

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<v Speaker 8>I'll tell you, wow, but God, bless you, bless you.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had therapy from some of those church. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>been how long since? I don't know, people do it different,

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<v Speaker 3>so how so how long has it been since you

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<v Speaker 3>and Gordon hung out?

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<v Speaker 7>It was a few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, okay, so you've waited.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait now you have your phone back.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you guys been texting since then?

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<v Speaker 7>Not really. I've tried to get him to hang out,

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<v Speaker 7>but he's not really super responsive.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess we need this to work out because it's

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<v Speaker 2>like your first time in online dating and it's going.

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<v Speaker 1>To be bad. That's pretty typical, I know.

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<v Speaker 8>And you had fun like normally it's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm never gonna.

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<v Speaker 7>Online again, like you had to experience.

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<v Speaker 3>They want you to have another date. I want more

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<v Speaker 3>church hugs for you, So we'll try and get some

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<v Speaker 3>of that done. When we play a song, come back

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<v Speaker 3>and call Gordon and try and get your second date

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<v Speaker 3>update right after this.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, cool, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, Marianne the school teacher is on the phone

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<v Speaker 3>with us for a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>And she just sounds so innocent when you say that.

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<v Speaker 5>She does.

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<v Speaker 3>And her very first online dating experience went just about

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<v Speaker 3>as well as it possibly could because she went to

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<v Speaker 3>a music festival, lost her phone but found it before

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<v Speaker 3>they left, and ended the night with a steamy church.

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<v Speaker 1>Huge that it was better than that.

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<v Speaker 5>Church or not. God was watching and God was like you.

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<v Speaker 3>But now it's been weeks and her date Gordon has

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<v Speaker 3>been kind of distant, and I know Brooke was surprised

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<v Speaker 3>that Marianne left a music festival with her top still on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, everybody has different vibes.

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<v Speaker 3>Alexis was shocked that she remembered the music festival at all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but we're going to do our best here. How you feeling, Marianne,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm feeling Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>You're brave because not only were you trying dating apps

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<v Speaker 2>for the first time, you're reaching out to us.

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<v Speaker 1>To help like this. This is this is a bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Move your phone, very traumatic experience.

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<v Speaker 3>Some would say that you're at an all time low

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<v Speaker 3>being on the show with us, but that only the

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<v Speaker 3>only way we could go from here is up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, back for its compliments, kind of see that?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I thought that was a positive thing to say.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll apologize with a church hug to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Mary, don't take Jeff's church hugs.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I'll pass. We should just call him.

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<v Speaker 3>Good idea, your loss, but let's just do that. We're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna call Gordon right now here we go. Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 3>is this Gordon?

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<v Speaker 6>This is Gordon? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry? Did we call you in the bathroom or something?

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<v Speaker 5>Way over there?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you wanting that to be the truth?

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't want to interrupt you.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm good. Who am I talking to? Who is this?

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<v Speaker 5>You're talking to?

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<v Speaker 3>Esteemed radio host Jeffrey Dubou from award winning morning Showbrook

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<v Speaker 3>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Why, great question we're calling to.

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<v Speaker 8>Did we win the award because our mom's made us one?

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<v Speaker 3>No, we're calling because we're doing a segment called a

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update, hoping to get some answers for one

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<v Speaker 3>of our listeners named mary Anne. Remember going out with

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<v Speaker 3>Marianna a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, I remember that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes I did not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry Gordon to interrupt, but I didn't expect that

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<v Speaker 2>type of reaction. She sounds bubbly and lovely and she's

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<v Speaker 2>a school teacher.

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<v Speaker 6>That's that's what she says.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, Oh wow, you're clearly not very fond of Marianne.

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<v Speaker 5>But she felt like the date with you went really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you have fun at the music festival?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I had fun at the music festival. It started out fun,

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<v Speaker 6>it started out great.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, okay, what's going on? What's with the coldness?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't know. I don't know what she

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<v Speaker 6>told you guys, but she she lost her phone at

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<v Speaker 6>one point, and you know, I was trying to help

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<v Speaker 6>her find it.

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<v Speaker 1>That is hate irresponsible people. Is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I wound up actually finding her phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you were you were her hero, that was what

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<v Speaker 5>she said.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Well, I when I picked up her phone, her

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<v Speaker 6>home screen came on and what I saw kind of

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<v Speaker 6>broke me.

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<v Speaker 8>WHOA, ok you what what?

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<v Speaker 1>She's a school teacher. I can't imagine it would be.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know how I else to say it. When

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<v Speaker 6>I looked at her screen, it was a picture of

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<v Speaker 6>her kissing another guy.

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<v Speaker 5>What kind of guy?

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't matter?

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<v Speaker 5>Like her father.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe it definitely was not the way you kiss your father.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't know how I kiss my father. So how

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<v Speaker 5>dare you jump to that sort of conclusion?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that could have been, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't get her last relationship status, Like maybe she

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<v Speaker 2>just broke up with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's there could be other reasons.

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<v Speaker 5>You're on a date with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I mean, it kind of all started

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<v Speaker 6>to make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 5>What what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not what do you what's going on in your

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<v Speaker 3>mind when you see that picture?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean her her profile is just m and all

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<v Speaker 6>of her photos are her with sunglasses on. And then

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<v Speaker 6>I see this and it snapped in the clear focus

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<v Speaker 6>for me. She's she's cheated.

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<v Speaker 2>God, she acted so innocent, like she she totally played

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<v Speaker 2>up the innocent school teacher. And I mean she told

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<v Speaker 2>us that she just did m and the sunglasses and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff because she didn't want parents of her students to

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<v Speaker 2>find her.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she told me the same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa, okay, your stances. You're not cool with her cheating.

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<v Speaker 8>It's always like two steps.

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to be clear.

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<v Speaker 2>Why didn't you Why didn't you address her when you

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<v Speaker 2>saw the phone and you picked it up and handed

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<v Speaker 2>it back to her, Why didn't you say something?

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<v Speaker 6>I just, honestly, I wanted nothing to do with her

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<v Speaker 6>at that point.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess that makes sense. Why at the end there

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<v Speaker 3>was no kiss? Yeah, just a church hug.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what you call church hug? Sure, yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 8>We don't know what to call it at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, that's all.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'd be surprised if she was still there

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<v Speaker 3>on the line after this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But why would she call us if she was cheating?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what an idiot?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's ask Mary Anne, because she's been listening to this

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<v Speaker 3>the entire time, Gordon, Mary Anne?

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<v Speaker 7>What.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she's been there the whole time.

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<v Speaker 6>Mary You there, Yeah, I'm here, Mary Anne?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you have to say? I mean, this is it's.

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<v Speaker 7>Not what you think?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what do you mean? You had?

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<v Speaker 3>You had a picture of you kissing another guy on

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<v Speaker 3>your phone screen?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>That that was my husband. He passed away last year

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<v Speaker 7>and I just have a memory of him on my phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, you were.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't know you well enough yet to really talk

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<v Speaker 7>about it, so I didn't want to bring it up

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<v Speaker 7>on our first date.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? I mean I am honestly a little taken aback

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<v Speaker 7>just listening to what you said and jumping so soon

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<v Speaker 7>to conclusions about me with that, you could have just confronted.

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<v Speaker 5>Me that night, Gordon, mean, how do you feel right now?

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<v Speaker 3>You must kind of feel like boob i'd right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm really sorry to hear that. I just I've been

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<v Speaker 6>down this road before, and so I didn't think. I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't think. I feel like I had it all figured

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<v Speaker 6>out already.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, hopefully that's his.

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<v Speaker 8>Whole heartbreaking Yeah sides, though, I feel like the understanding

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<v Speaker 8>needs to be there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I mean, Marianne, he's obviously been on dating apps

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<v Speaker 2>a lot longer because he's jaded and jumps to conclusions.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is what we did when he explained it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, when you connect that to just your m

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<v Speaker 2>profile and everything and your secrecy.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, we didn't know you lost your husband, like

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But if The good news is if Marianne is on

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<v Speaker 3>the dating apps, it must mean that she's feeling ready

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<v Speaker 3>to put herself back out there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so that's encouraging.

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<v Speaker 7>It took me a while, but I mean, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 7>finally did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it makes sense why it's your first time

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<v Speaker 2>ever on dating apps because you were married.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Brooke doesn't play by the same rules as that.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, that's hard.

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<v Speaker 8>But wow, I'm glad we got closure.

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<v Speaker 5>A little clarity in this situation.

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<v Speaker 3>And Gordon, now that you know that she's not cheating

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<v Speaker 3>and what the situation is, we'd like to offer to

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<v Speaker 3>send the two of you out on another date, and

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<v Speaker 3>we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>I do feel terrible about the assumption, and obviously about

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<v Speaker 6>what happened to your husband into you, and other than that.

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<v Speaker 8>Nothing else bad happened. Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are really cute y.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I honestly really did have a good time on

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<v Speaker 6>the date, and until I saw that futal, I would

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<v Speaker 6>be open to it.

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<v Speaker 3>If you are, okay, that is fair because based on

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<v Speaker 3>this I don't know that mary Anne is still interested.

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<v Speaker 5>Mary Anne, are you willing to give him another chance

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<v Speaker 5>after jump to conclusions.

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<v Speaker 7>I'll give it another shot, we can talk it out.

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<v Speaker 7>We'll see where we get from there.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess all right, so's she's the.

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<v Speaker 8>Most brilliant ever. No, I'm kidding. I'm happy for you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like we're sending you out on another day.

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<v Speaker 3>Congratulations you two, Thank you, jeff Church day. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know about that, but we could celebrate by ending this

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<v Speaker 3>with an entire show church hudg. Yeah, if everybody bring

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<v Speaker 3>it in close.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm taking it off to your church.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeff looking Jeffrey in the morning man.

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<v Speaker 3>Legit tears coming from the text board from a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people who are all pulling for Charlotte and her

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<v Speaker 3>love story.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>God, this is a couple that I definitely hope that

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<v Speaker 2>we get an update from, even if it doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to hear that everybody's doing okay still.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and obviously she didn't go into much detail about

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<v Speaker 3>what happened with the passing of her late husband because

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't want to pry into that.

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<v Speaker 5>Good work, team, Well, why.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you ask that that was on your mind? Just

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<v Speaker 2>want to know what a true crime podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm giving us props for not going there, That's what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying. But you do have to you have to

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<v Speaker 3>give her credit for being courageous and being brave, not

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<v Speaker 3>just by putting herself out in the dating world again,

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<v Speaker 3>but also staying on the phone while this guy accuses

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<v Speaker 3>her of cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, that must have been so emotionous for her.

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<v Speaker 8>One of the most intense cases of like assuming is.

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<v Speaker 2>Never a good Either that or she's on the other

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<v Speaker 2>line thinking, oh my god, this idiot, you know, until.

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<v Speaker 8>He felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it's a good rule of thumb. If you ever

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<v Speaker 3>see somebody else with a phone screen picture of them

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<v Speaker 3>kissing somebody, just assume that it's a relative.

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<v Speaker 5>If that's passed away, I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 2>That that's really that's not the lesson. Yeah, maybe just

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<v Speaker 2>more open communication.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, different lessons this one apparently.

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<v Speaker 3>But here's a good lesson. If you ever want to

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<v Speaker 3>get in touch with somebody that you went on a

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<v Speaker 3>date with that's not calling you back, you can email

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<v Speaker 3>the show and we'll call that person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, let's stick to that.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a good lesson. Anyway. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 5>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning