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Speaker 2: see the show notes, So there it is. And do

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Speaker 2: we have a comment before we get to the second Date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Someone actually texted.

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Speaker 4: In from Texas the other day saying about a second date.

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Speaker 4: I feel like the dude dodged a bullet with this chick.

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Speaker 4: She's insane. Then text it again. Let me rephrase that

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Speaker 4: he didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged atomic bomb.

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Speaker 5: Atomic bombs.

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Speaker 1: We haven't started today. Yeah, that's right. Let's get this

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Speaker 1: second date started.

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Speaker 6: The second date up day.

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Speaker 3: It's funny people in dating apps are just like Goldilocks

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Speaker 3: in the promo department here. Others they're a little more medium,

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Speaker 5: I said someone.

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Speaker 1: I guess medium is a compliment coming from you.

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Speaker 3: And some are very very new to it, like one

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Speaker 3: of our listeners, Mary Anne, who said she's just dipping

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Speaker 3: her toe into the online dating scene. Mary Anne, you

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Speaker 7: No, not yet.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I'm shocked you kids. I put my zip code

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Speaker 5: What's it like jumping into the online dating scene.

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Speaker 7: It's interesting. I don't know. I'm a little cautious about it.

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Speaker 8: That's a good way to do it.

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Speaker 2: It sounds good though, like you look like your hope.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how are you cautious with online dating?

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm a teacher of like younger kids, or like

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Speaker 7: I just I don't want the parents to find me.

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Speaker 8: It's like you're a celebrity.

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Speaker 2: It's like you're so like toy of I mean, but

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Speaker 3: You think interesting book has seen their dating profiles clearly pages.

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Speaker 5: Whatever you want to say.

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Speaker 7: There's not a lot of people actually, so I actually

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Speaker 2: Okay, which may make people more cautious about you.

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Speaker 7: No, I really don't get like a lot of messages.

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Speaker 5: So who is brave enough to swipe right on you?

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Speaker 7: Finally the sky Cordon actually reached out to me.

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Speaker 5: Gordon masculine name.

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Speaker 1: It is masculine, very masculine.

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Speaker 5: Named I bet that lizard had a six pat.

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Speaker 2: Lizards masculine pets.

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Speaker 5: What's Gordon?

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Speaker 7: Like? He's really nice? It was just nice. He was

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Speaker 1: Okay, what did it feel like going into an actual date?

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Speaker 7: I mean I was a little nervous, but I mean

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Speaker 5: Did it turn out to be fun?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was fun. He's here a positive attitude and

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was actually like worried for nothing. But when

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Speaker 8: What a nightmare.

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Speaker 7: So he also looked for it, and he eventually found

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. So he's nice and he's a hero.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly like everything.

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Speaker 5: Did you give him a big kiss as a thank you?

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Speaker 7: Get to it?

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Speaker 7: Anyway. So he takes me home and we just have

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Speaker 6: Actually weird, you sound.

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Speaker 2: So cute and giggly about it, though I love it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I thought we clicked and like I don't know,

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Speaker 7: I'm surprised we aren't going out again, Like I texted

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Speaker 8: It's like a long hug or was it like a

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Speaker 7: It wasn't. Yeah, I mean it wasn't like a side

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Speaker 6: Was like a full hog.

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Speaker 2: Okaya, you haven't heard from him at all?

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Speaker 7: No, and I don't know what to do. It's weird

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Speaker 5: Up on a church hug.

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Speaker 3: Because the hugs that I've had from people in church,

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Speaker 8: I'll tell you, wow, but God, bless you, bless you.

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Speaker 3: I've had therapy from some of those church. So it's

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Speaker 3: been how long since? I don't know, people do it different,

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Speaker 7: It was a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: Now, okay, so you've waited.

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Speaker 4: Wait now you have your phone back.

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Speaker 2: I guess we need this to work out because it's

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Speaker 2: like your first time in online dating and it's going.

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Speaker 1: To be bad. That's pretty typical, I know.

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Speaker 8: And you had fun like normally it's like, oh my god,

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Speaker 8: I'm never gonna.

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Speaker 3: They want you to have another date. I want more

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Speaker 3: church hugs for you, So we'll try and get some

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Speaker 3: of that done. When we play a song, come back

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Speaker 7: Okay, cool, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, Marianne the school teacher is on the phone

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Speaker 3: with us for a second date.

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Speaker 1: And she just sounds so innocent when you say that.

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Speaker 5: She does.

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Speaker 3: And her very first online dating experience went just about

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Speaker 3: they left, and ended the night with a steamy church.

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Speaker 1: Huge that it was better than that.

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Speaker 5: Church or not. God was watching and God was like you.

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Speaker 3: But now it's been weeks and her date Gordon has

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Speaker 3: been kind of distant, and I know Brooke was surprised

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Speaker 1: I mean, everybody has different vibes.

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Speaker 3: I'm feeling Okay.

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Speaker 2: You're brave because not only were you trying dating apps

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Speaker 2: for the first time, you're reaching out to us.

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Speaker 1: To help like this. This is this is a bad.

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Speaker 4: Move your phone, very traumatic experience.

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Speaker 3: Some would say that you're at an all time low

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Speaker 1: Okay, back for its compliments, kind of see that?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I thought that was a positive thing to say.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting.

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Speaker 5: I'll apologize with a church hug to you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mary, don't take Jeff's church hugs.

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Speaker 7: I think I'll pass. We should just call him.

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Speaker 3: Good idea, your loss, but let's just do that. We're

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Speaker 3: gonna call Gordon right now here we go. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 3: is this Gordon?

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Speaker 6: This is Gordon? Who's this?

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Speaker 5: Sorry? Did we call you in the bathroom or something?

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Speaker 5: Way over there?

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Speaker 1: Are you wanting that to be the truth?

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to interrupt you.

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Speaker 6: No, I'm good. Who am I talking to? Who is this?

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Speaker 5: You're talking to?

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Speaker 3: Esteemed radio host Jeffrey Dubou from award winning morning Showbrook

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Speaker 3: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Why, great question we're calling to.

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Speaker 8: Did we win the award because our mom's made us one?

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Speaker 3: No, we're calling because we're doing a segment called a

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Speaker 3: Second Date Update, hoping to get some answers for one

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Speaker 3: of our listeners named mary Anne. Remember going out with

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Speaker 3: Marianna a couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I remember that.

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Speaker 5: Yes I did not.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry Gordon to interrupt, but I didn't expect that

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Speaker 6: That's that's what she says.

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Speaker 3: I guess, Oh wow, you're clearly not very fond of Marianne.

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Speaker 5: But she felt like the date with you went really well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you have fun at the music festival?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I had fun at the music festival. It started out fun,

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Speaker 6: it started out great.

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, what's going on? What's with the coldness?

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Speaker 1: That is hate irresponsible people. Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 6: Well, I wound up actually finding her phone.

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Speaker 5: What kind of guy?

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Speaker 1: That doesn't matter?

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Speaker 6: Maybe it definitely was not the way you kiss your father.

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Speaker 5: You don't know how I kiss my father. So how

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Speaker 5: You're on a date with somebody else.

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Speaker 3: I'm not what do you what's going on in your

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Speaker 8: It's always like two steps.

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Speaker 5: I just want to be clear.

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you Why didn't you address her when you

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Speaker 6: I just, honestly, I wanted nothing to do with her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's all.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'd be surprised if she was still there

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Speaker 3: Let's ask Mary Anne, because she's been listening to this

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Speaker 7: What.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's been there the whole time.

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Speaker 6: Mary You there, Yeah, I'm here, Mary Anne?

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Speaker 3: You had a picture of you kissing another guy on

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: That that was my husband. He passed away last year

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, you were.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 7: I didn't know you well enough yet to really talk

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Speaker 1: You know, are you okay?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? I mean I am honestly a little taken aback

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Speaker 5: Me that night, Gordon, mean, how do you feel right now?

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Speaker 6: I'm really sorry to hear that. I just I've been

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully that's his.

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Speaker 2: And I mean, Marianne, he's obviously been on dating apps

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Speaker 1: Which is what we did when he explained it.

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Speaker 1: It makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we didn't know you lost your husband, like

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Speaker 3: But if The good news is if Marianne is on

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's encouraging.

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Speaker 7: It took me a while, but I mean, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: I mean it makes sense why it's your first time

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Brooke doesn't play by the same rules as that.

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Speaker 5: But that's good for you.

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Speaker 3: And Gordon, now that you know that she's not cheating

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Speaker 6: I do feel terrible about the assumption, and obviously about

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Speaker 8: Nothing else bad happened. Correct.

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Speaker 5: Mary Anne, are you willing to give him another chance

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Speaker 7: I'll give it another shot, we can talk it out.

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Speaker 7: We'll see where we get from there.

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Speaker 3: I guess all right, so's she's the.

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Speaker 8: Most brilliant ever. No, I'm kidding. I'm happy for you guys.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like we're sending you out on another day.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations you two, Thank you, jeff Church day. I don't

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Speaker 8: I'm taking it off to your church.

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Speaker 5: Jeff looking Jeffrey in the morning man.

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Speaker 3: Legit tears coming from the text board from a lot

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Speaker 3: of people who are all pulling for Charlotte and her

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I just want to hear that everybody's doing okay still.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and obviously she didn't go into much detail about

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Speaker 5: Good work, team, Well, why.

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Speaker 2: Would you ask that that was on your mind? Just

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Speaker 3: I'm giving us props for not going there, That's what

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Speaker 1: For sure, that must have been so emotionous for her.

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Speaker 8: One of the most intense cases of like assuming is.

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Speaker 2: Never a good Either that or she's on the other

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's a good rule of thumb. If you ever

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Speaker 5: If that's passed away, I don't even know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, different lessons this one apparently.

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Speaker 3: But here's a good lesson. If you ever want to

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Speaker 5: That's a good lesson. Anyway. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning